Being called red flag

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-11-09T18:01:44+00:00

“If you’re a bull then yeah…”

“It takes one to know one”

Captain_w00t · 2024-11-09T18:34:00+00:00

“Yeah, I always try to do my worst”

AcrossTheShimenawa · 2024-11-09T18:36:44+00:00

"Actually, I'm more of a maroon" - said matter of fact, minimal expression

or if I want to tease her back

"So the rumors are true." She'll ask what rumors "You're colorblind"

Crackmin · 2024-11-10T04:34:17+00:00

"Why?"

razama · 2024-11-09T20:43:29+00:00

All these responses ITT are defensive. Who cares? It’s a shit test and you just gotta keep frame and have fun.

“yeah I also still live with my parents, my only friend is a squirrel, my favorite word is moist, i own several new balance shoes, and I believe every conspiracy on the internet. So I really thought you looked like someone I could connect with.”

LawdyHowLayLooYa · 2024-11-10T00:32:44+00:00

Her: “you’re a red flag?”

You: “tell me more reasons you’re so attracted to me”

OR: “what makes you so attracted to my red flags?”

Designer_Leek699 · 2024-11-10T04:42:52+00:00

These responses are terrible. As others have pointed out, it’s a shit test. Everyone has red flags, and there’s no need to respond to this shit test in a canned way. You have endless options on how to handle it, and so long as you’re acting authentically, in integrity with yourself, you don’t need a formulaic response.

Personally, I get this a lot - the red flag thing seems to come up unusually often. Normally I own it. I lower my voice, look her in the eyes with a wry smile, and say something like, “You don’t know the half of it…” then continue the conversation somehow.

Or you can make light of it - “I know, right?” Big smile, move on.

If you throw out some un-genuine canned response you’ll fail the shit test. Which will be an actual red flag, rather than whatever other minor thing she pointed out.

Kroddy1134 · 2024-11-10T11:57:43+00:00

“Well green was a boring option for me, and since you’re still here, I’m sure it was boring for you as well…”

Wise_Willingness4419 · 2024-11-10T12:18:31+00:00

Ask her why she’s still speaking to you if you’re a red flag.

PapaSherbert100 · 2024-11-11T02:06:54+00:00

If a woman is calling you a red flag; develop some fucking introspection.

The cognitive dissonance and incel echo chamber going on in this sub are Insane.

Develop an enjoyable personality.

Learn empathy.

This is insane

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-11-09T18:56:23+00:00

Just say "That's interesting" and don't say anything else. That creates a void in the conversation. I use it on managers all the time. Or you could say red is not really my colour. I prefer purple.

Squali_squal · 2024-11-10T00:29:44+00:00

Just say " that's a red flag"

youngyut · 2024-11-10T00:22:33+00:00

And you’re a white flag so why don’t you just surrender!

Kinemi · 2024-11-09T18:33:17+00:00

"fighting fire with fire"

Dwerg1 · 2024-11-09T18:18:43+00:00

I'd start looking around on myself for a literal red flag pretending to be confused about where it is.

offinthewoods10 · 2024-11-09T21:21:17+00:00

“Says the girl who(s)…insert her red flag here”

mkkpt · 2024-11-09T18:45:46+00:00

Oldie but a goodie - "Yeh, I'm the bad boy your Mum warned you about"

Whatever the red flag is, make it even more extreme in a funny way.

riccardo2002ric · 2024-11-09T17:55:52+00:00

G’irl you ain't seen a tenth of it‘’ followed by a 😉

A1Horizon · 2024-11-09T22:43:34+00:00

“Birds of a feather flock together”

SeamoreBo0bz · 2024-11-10T05:42:46+00:00

immediately move on and not tolerate that bullshit.

any girl doing that (which seems to be a very masculine trait - teasing youre a red flag) - deserves to be instantly nexted.

Biffelswiff · 2024-11-10T01:23:15+00:00

My fiancee told me I am a walking red flag with baggage and all..... But he still asked me to marry him 🤷🏼‍♀️

Administrative-Bed71 · 2024-11-09T19:03:14+00:00

Free gym motivation 💪😈

BrauchoLion · 2024-11-10T01:34:17+00:00

"you're i'm perfect time to run" "The door is right there" "I knew You where vainilla"

5thquad · 2024-11-09T19:34:45+00:00

Only when it's that time of the month

ThatgreatSpartan · 2024-11-09T19:45:54+00:00

I wouldn't respond, I would just get up and leave. If I'm on a date with someone then I'm genuinely trying to get to know them and if they want to call me a red flag, joking or otherwise, then they're not worth my time.

Title	Being called red flag
Author	Destroyerofworl
Upvotes	16
Comments	29
Date	November 9, 2024 5:50 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1gnfn5x/being_called_red_flag/
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