Cheat Sheet for "How to win friends and influence people" - concise summary of the ultimate book. Print this out and stick it on your wall right now.

Fred_Flintstone · 2010-12-15T16:45:14+00:00

TO DOWNLOAD/PRINT:

Use these login details:

Username: seddit

Password: seddit

This login will work for the next 24hours (after which you need to upload some document for another 24 hour download access); I didn't know how annoying scribd was.

IVE ALSO UPLOADED IT HERE, FOR USE AFTER TOMORROW: http://www.scribd.com/doc/45333456/3152662-How-to-Win-Friends-and-Influence-People-Cheat-Sheet?secret_password=xlurz0d3bjdzmhcj6lt
Also available at: http://pdfcast.org/pdf/seddit-influence

Direct link to an unformatted pdf of the whole book: http://erudition.mohit.tripod.com/_Influence_People.pdf

thegoz · 2010-12-15T16:55:06+00:00

http://www.mediafire.com/?9hswwb5chtn941r

for your convenience...

nanotek · 2010-12-15T16:11:47+00:00

yea it sucks that they want you to pay.

MisreadAndPostAnyway · 2010-12-15T17:08:47+00:00

I was going to study the book and come up with my own "cheat sheet" I think other people should do it too, it will help you internalise the knowledge.

Then once you have the knowledge you come to understand and apply it. The important part is the understanding and application of the knowledge. Knowledge is useless unless put to good use.

The_Justicer · 2010-12-15T20:40:18+00:00

I gotta say, as a person who has a hard time making friends, I found reading these two pages helpful. I understand the importance of being myself, but I don't want to bring people down. Not everyone can become better just by trying hard. It helps to have some guidance.

huyvanbin · 2010-12-15T17:40:55+00:00

I still have a hard time understanding how to be truly interested in people. Most people seem ugly, stupid, mean, and boring to me. They have their dreams that are the same as everybody else's dreams. Jobs the same as everybody else's jobs, hobbies same as everybody else's. Everybody and their mother has the same fucking picture of them standing on top of Macchu Picchu/the Eiffel Tower/Times Square. How in the world can I get excited about this?

2010-12-15T23:08:21+00:00

This book was the book that started my entire journey of social self-improvement. Before I read it, I thought that self-help books were for losers, and tried to convince myself that social etiquette should be obvious and that there was nothing to really learn...

However, upon reading it I realized that improving your social skills and how you project yourself onto the world is no different than improving your musical skills or physique. And just like improving those things, it takes exercise.

Once I realized that the study of human interactions on this level is actually a very new science, my preconceived notions melted away. Since then, I have filled my time reading about NLP, attraction, body language, word choice, and any other form of communication I can think of.

For me, my life goal is to be a great communicator--to connect and have experiences with people from all around the world. This book helped me to realize that goal, and to realize the steps necessary to achieve it.

sin94 · 2010-12-15T16:27:06+00:00

.anyone help with a simple download link which you do not need to pay for it

roxxe · 2010-12-15T20:59:22+00:00

this is supplicating bullshit, people see right through that

kolbygoodman · 2010-12-15T15:58:54+00:00

Can I download this some where that isnt going to charge me?

Byblosopher · 2010-12-15T22:23:49+00:00

Thanks a million. Currently have the wikipedia page printed on my desk, acting as a cheat sheet.

This just took its spot.

Thanks again!

brtzsnr · 2010-12-15T23:33:37+00:00

Haha, I have the rules printed on my door since I read the book last year.

2010-12-16T00:31:20+00:00

I have heard the book is pretty worthless. The first category is useful. The second category is stupid. Just choose who you hang out by your interests. Category 3 is more about basic manipulation than leading. Sure you end up in charge, but leaders use charisma and charm to make people want to do what you want them to do.

ArBair · 2010-12-16T00:49:53+00:00

Good stuff. Thanks OP

RobotGymnast · 2010-12-16T01:24:26+00:00

tl;dr:

-Be positive, happy, and interested in people's thoughts and opinions

-Be honest and direct, especially when it comes to positive attributes

-Freely admit fault and error

frostine · 2010-12-16T06:43:23+00:00

Even if you follow all those steps, they can like you but that doesn't mean they'll ever love you. Because somewhere in the middle of all the sincerity, interest, flattery, name-saying- you know you have to show them your true character. And lets face it everyone has some bad qualities, and not everyone is going to have the same attitude you're trying to have.

2010-12-16T07:20:58+00:00

Great. Fucking. Book.

relentless · 2010-12-18T21:06:20+00:00

Massive upvotes for providing this information!

SpasticusAutisticus · 2010-12-15T17:17:06+00:00

Posting here so I can find it/remember it after work.

Also: thanks. I just bought this book 2 days ago. Yeah, paid money for it and everything, and so far I'm loving it.

ihaveacalculator · 2010-12-15T17:44:17+00:00

tl;dr: be attractive - don't be unattractive

sailon · 2010-12-15T17:16:17+00:00

this is a fucked up book and i lose respect for friends that keep it on their bookshelves.

How to... be sociopathic and manipulate people into thinking you're genuine :D

executex · 2010-12-15T18:19:25+00:00

This is not a good way to learn the subject. You HAVE to read the book, there's much more detail than the basic principles. Otherwise you're helping total creeps and idiots manipulate people.

The books aim is to help people who are socially confused, not people who are generally bad.

Title	Cheat Sheet for "How to win friends and influence people" - concise summary of the ultimate book. Print this out and stick it on your wall right now.
Author	Fred_Flintstone
Upvotes	228
Comments	92
Date	December 15, 2010 2:26 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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