Clubs, oh how I hate you.

philosarapter · 2010-10-20T16:55:48+00:00

Eh I normally just do some random dance move that women find funny. They dance along, eventually we grow tired. Have her follow me outside while I smoke a cig, light conversation, go in for shots, then hopefully get her hanging all over me through body language. (Gotta really work the heavy breathing in the ear and pulling her close by her hips in a sexual manner) Finally the club closes, lights go on, see what she wants to do afterwords, go back to your place. Eat pudding, fall asleep.

That last part doesn't sound right, but you get the idea.

new_player · 2010-10-20T15:43:28+00:00

It's weird, my club game is my best game. Easy things to do: go up to the bar next to them to order a drink, find situational things to have a conversation about. Be sure to kino early when you do this.

I posted about how one club I went to required stamps, and I opened up the set by touching her hand at the stamp and saying "Nice tattoo, I think I have the same". It got her laughing and things just progressed naturally. Yeah it was a little loud but I actually like this because you can move in pretty close. Now, when you do move in close, be sure to maintain eye contact so don't go cheek to cheek, exactly, at least, not at first. Microescalate too.

Other things you can try instead of the situational thing is if there's a long wait for the drink make a bet with her as to who will get served first, loser buys this round. A surefire way to win this is to get in good with the bartender earlier in the night, know and call them by name and have them do the same with you. You'll win a free drink and likely impress her.

Xenogears · 2010-10-20T15:09:28+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CgbuUHLDJ_k

redditor929 · 2010-10-20T20:35:22+00:00

Here's my tip on clubs... don't try to look cool, try to look happy. Pretend you're having the greatest day of your life. If you're alone, say you're friends went home early, or flaked on you at the last minute, or some shit... but, show that you wanted to stay because you were having such a good time. People get drawn to you. They want to be part of your good vibe. Smile at everyone you make eye contact with. If it's a woman you want, use David Wygant's trick... imagine her masturbating to the thought of fucking you. It'll give you a sexy little smile that will seem natural. Try the happy vibe, it doesn't require a lot of talking, just a lot of smiling and looking friendly. Also, if you smile and get positive eye contact more than once... go over and say hi. I'm not even fucking original at this point usually. I just introduce myself or ask if they're having a good time. In a loud club, it's less important what you have to say. Just say something positive. Nice place or whatever... something that will get you at least a nod and hopefully another smile. Then see how moment grows. I think it's great because you can avoid the pressure of too much conversation... leave that for the morning.

EDIT: I never try to pick girls up with sexy moves on the dance floor. If it's early on, it's easy to avoid all those sexy moves before everyone is too drunk, or if it's late hopefully you've already pretty much scored the girl... and then your moves are more make out moves in preparation for finally getting her the fuck out of there.

EDIT2: If you smoke, great... for clubbing not your health. But, even if you don't smoke, still go outside with people do that if you want to hang out with them. This is where the conversation happens these days. Or if neither of you smoke, you can still offer to go outside for a chat.

modernsavage · 2010-10-20T15:39:23+00:00

I've given up on clubs and really don't see them as an ideal place to run normal game. It seems that the best strategy is to go high energy and make sure you're looking like a pimp so that the girls will open/approach you instead.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2010-10-20T16:23:54+00:00

How to Lord a Club

RedErin · 2010-10-20T14:23:14+00:00

You have an advantage at clubs because everyone is more outgoing and looking for a good crazy drunken time.

It's hard for me at clubs too because my voice doesn't carry well at all over the loud music, but it's still my favorite place to meet women.

The trick is to just scream at them with a big smile and high energy.

diamond29 · 2010-10-20T16:49:29+00:00

I've only been to a club twice in my short life, but I've been to plenty of dance parties, which involve crowded dance floors and loads of alcohol. If this is the same situation, one of my more favorite methods of approach involves very little talking, since you can barely talk anyways.

Start dancing by yourself nearby, or dance your way near/toward them. This is usually a cute/non threatening/generic dance, nothing special. Make sure the girl sees you though. Make sure the expression on your face is friendly. Make eye contact. Raise your eyebrows a bit and open your mouth like you would when you see a close friend randomly in public.

If she hasn't death stared you yet, she might smile back. If so, start dancing closer. Dance with her and/or introduce yourself at this point.

PS I'm usually at least 3-4 drinks deep when I try this...maybe more. But that's just me. I prefer other methods but this is what I do when all the girls I'd like to meet are out dancing / the music is too loud. If you're a decent looking / well dressed dude this will obviously help.

cbraga · 2010-10-20T17:56:00+00:00

there are clubs where you can actually move around and see peoples faces and be understood talking only loudly (as opposed to screaming) - those are the best clubs imho - clubs so loud you can't talk and so crowded you can't move aren't fertile ground for pickup

ArMcK · 2010-10-20T20:02:27+00:00

Somewhere I saw a video of RSD's Tim talking about club game and showing how to enter a circle of people dancing to engage the target in the middle.

If anybody knows where it's at or has a copy, I'd be much obliged.

azteach · 2010-10-20T21:36:21+00:00

I'm really the last person to be giving advice, but, from my experience it's much more effective to bring a girl you don't know very well to a club with you. She probably won't know anyone and therfore will be forced to rely on you; if you don't do anything stupid, your good. (the hardest part for me is not doing anything stupid)

sixate · 2010-10-20T14:52:39+00:00

I usually go for the ones who are ordering drinks, you can even start a conversation about drinks.

2010-10-20T19:50:28+00:00

Having to talk loud forces you to bring up the energy. However, you're going to focus on body language. Get on the dance floor and start dancing around with random girls--just don't try to focus on only one girl unless you're getting really strong IOI's, as a lot of girls just want to dance. The more you dance with, however, the more attractive you become to everyone observing, increasing your chances of eventually finding a good target for a close.

Fu_Man_Chu · 2010-10-20T22:47:09+00:00

I make them approach me. I get to know the bartenders, the bouncers, the owner, the DJs. I dance up a storm. I basically run the place and have a blast. I don't need to approach then or if I do it's certainly not forced.

Mahdmahd · 2010-10-20T17:06:30+00:00

wait for them to go up to the bar, this is your chance to move in, buy them a drink, whatever, if things workout and shes into you, you slip her a roofie in the last drink you get for her and her slut friends. After that, use your imagination...

Title	Clubs, oh how I hate you.
Author	Baghdadification
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Date	October 20, 2010 2:15 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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