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Achlys24 · 2022-07-22T11:16:21+00:00

Bro.. Shoot your shot. She's signing it to you. If she wouldn't like you, she wouldn't induce conversation with you.

Worst that is going to happen is, that she says no. You say you're sorry, you misread the signs and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Most girls i know, like confidence, be sure to suck up the nervoseness when asking her out and look her straight in the eyes.

Good luck bro! You can do that.

PS.: First beer is on you, if she says yes ;) looking forward to it.

hunterpua · 2022-07-22T09:19:25+00:00

I just answered a post like this yesterday. Check it out, it might help clear things up for you.

Swissmiss214 · 2022-07-22T09:09:32+00:00

Tf bro just look into her eyes and say that u have a crush on her and why

Shmeargle · 2022-07-22T14:46:56+00:00

Idk if you’re trolling or not, but if you’re serious you need to assume that she likes you. Maybe it would help to think that she’s just as nervous as you are. You’ve gotta be willing to get hurt my guy or you’ll never end up with anyone. What’s the worst that can happen? She doesn’t like you back. I would like to think there’s nothing else other than that. Because right now you’re not treating her like a normal person. You can’t always be a 100% of the other person’s feelings but you can control how you feel about her. So just focus on trying to show your feelings for her, rather than what she thinks of you because it’s not really helpful. These are the times you need to have balls as a man.

Few_City6546 · 2022-07-22T16:42:15+00:00

Bro just ask her out she’s damn near begging you too😂. Regardless off the outcome atleast you’ll be happy you asked instead of not saying anything!!

ChoiceTank · 2022-07-22T20:47:31+00:00

Bro why the fuck you take all the advice given here and find excuses not to follow them?

You can't just come here asking for advice if you're not ready to accept the fact that you know nothing about seduction. You can sit there and ponder all day to maximize your success percentage or you can grab your balls, squeeze them hard and go fucking shoot your shot.

Because guess why, YOU WILL GET HURT. YOU WILL GET REJECTED. Its reeeally unlikely here given the signs but it will happen eventually, and its good. It makes you grow, its ESSENTIAL.

But the more you wait, the more you are setting yourself up for failure. This is a game where only the people who just go out there and go for it win, its about exposing yourself, being vulnerable. Everyone else gets left behind.

So, what are you going to do?

Apprehensive-Hawk356 · 2022-07-22T10:10:17+00:00

She may fancy you in some way, but it's hard to imagine that she will push this towards relationship.

Apprehensive-Hawk356 · 2022-07-22T09:29:04+00:00

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CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-22T12:03:41+00:00

When are you going to grow up and stop being so shy and nervous? Are you 5 years old?

StraightUpDie · 2022-07-22T14:13:50+00:00

As someone who is introverted and shy I totally get it. But bro ask her out on a date. Not to hangout or chill, on a date.

bandsupjay · 2022-07-22T14:52:15+00:00

Flirting + she likes you just base off the topic of this post. Embrace your nervousness you’re a good guy

YourAverageTurkGuy · 2022-07-22T15:10:27+00:00

Liking someone is a dynamic situation, not a static one. What happened at the club is a CLEAR sign of attraction and if you like her back you need to play along and give her something to work with. I understand that you're nervous but this girl already seems confident enough for the both of you. Just put some effort man.

couldnotd3cide · 2022-07-22T15:59:22+00:00

Bro you’re her girl now 😂 she just letting you know that it’s not your personal “bubble” anymore, when she pulled in closer again she said “this our space now”.

megainculu · 2022-07-22T16:24:23+00:00

Let me tell you what will happen if you think that she is just outgoing and you keep waiting for more signs from her, YOU WILL REGRET THIS DECISION OF NOT ASKING HER OUT!!!

I used to be nervous around girls I liked but then I realized that she won't know I'm nervous until I ACT nervous. Just fake it, ask her out and than thank this subreddit later. So many people in the comments who are more experienced than you in the dating world are telling you to take your shot and you're till waiting for signs from her.

She asked if you've ever had a gf that's a sure shot sign. No matter how she framed it, she wanted to know if you're available or not. Go for it bro. Happy hunting😉

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ftdrain · 2022-07-22T17:16:40+00:00

Bro this chick wants you to bone her, are you blind? You need to go to therapy and work on your insecurities or something, also go to the gym, also meditate.

Girl puts her hand on the dudes belly and he wonders if she likes her, my god this why the population is in decline.

She wants you 1000000% , what are you gonna do?

hagakurejunkie · 2022-07-22T17:25:32+00:00

She doesn’t think you have any experience with women

Apprehensive-Hawk356 · 2022-07-22T17:52:09+00:00

Sigh. This is not just for OP, but for anyone in the Reddit comments who cannot take a hint. If a woman touches you, let alone LATCHES onto you, and places her hand on an intimate spot, such as your tummy, she’s into you. Just reverse the roles and use common sense. Would YOU touch a woman that way if you weren’t romantically interested in them? I think not. Shoot your shot OP. Do not let opportunities like this go to waste. If you keep doing this, there is a high chance the fire will die down, and you will end up friend zoned. Put on your big boy pants and make a move.

Least-Recording-2073 · 2022-07-23T02:34:20+00:00

Bro! I'm telling you! JUST DO IT! You're gonna wanna kill yourself if you don't. (Not saying you should.) Even if you get rejected, who cares? You still did more than the large percentage of dudes watching porn and jacking off by themselves. Gotta be a man dude!

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