Friend grinding on me in the club

Visualize_ · 2022-06-26T11:57:15+00:00

Friend is a huge W for wingmanning lmao. A true bro

sliphitz · 2022-06-26T11:50:20+00:00

She likes you and your buddy putting your hands round her was trying to help you get the hint imo.

rupeshsh · 2022-06-26T13:14:48+00:00

You seem like a classic case of too much theory and no practical experience. Like I know how to swim but iv never been in water.

Just go for it buddy, she is as warm as a girl can go

johnprynsky · 2022-06-26T15:18:54+00:00

One Hell of a bro

Urdaris_Nox · 2022-06-26T17:37:23+00:00

Maybe you need your bro to also unzip your pants

cobraCL · 2022-06-26T16:38:27+00:00

Shoot your shot! Personally, I wouldn't grind on a guy if there wasn't a big part of me that wanted to bed him. 😊

If your friend is just naturally flirtatious and not necessarily DTF, I doubt any rejection she gives you will be hostile or shocked. It may flatter her. Take a chance, and keep it light and fun no matter the outcome.

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-06-26T18:14:45+00:00

When chick's throw it out like that, just take it. Cause you snooze you lose.

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2022-06-26T13:45:32+00:00

No one on seddit can answer this question for you.

Only you can answer this question, and to a lesser degree, your friends. Use your social circle.

The way YOU answer this question is by flirting with her a little bit... getting close to her. Holding eye contact. Kino.

If she responds well, she probably likes you, and you can keep escalating.

Read the stuff in the sidebar.

juice2092 · 2022-06-26T11:45:15+00:00

Hard to say. She might just be having fun and felt the alcohol lol. It wouldn’t hurt to shoot your shot.

tomuchsol · 2022-06-26T16:26:45+00:00

OP YOU MUST HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH THIS WOMEN

atticusishe · 2022-06-26T16:22:09+00:00

Lol this post reminds me of other post wondering if she’s into you or not. “Im not sure if she’s into me, she showed me her tits and licked her lips” but I’m not sure if she’s being friendly hahaha Congrats man

frenchiveruti · 2022-06-26T15:08:00+00:00

Ok, this has never happened to me but I'm not that clueless.
I guess you're the personification of this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw

Don't take it wrong, you're learning, it's just funny that you're asking this haha

TheFreakish · 2022-06-26T16:25:02+00:00

Start flirting with her dude!

Step 1 message her, see if she responds.

BigBadPiggy999 · 2022-06-26T17:37:03+00:00

You are so lucky to have a great friend .

PureFlames · 2022-06-27T00:08:58+00:00

Everyone saying she likes you but i wouldnt be that certain. ive made out with my female friends when we were drunk at the club and it wasnt because they were into me it was just because they were drunk. Usually you know if they like you if they still are giving you signs when sober. A lot of girls just like to do stuff like this and “have fun” when they are drunk without it meaning anything

chipbulkner · 2022-06-26T17:15:47+00:00

Jesus christ OP are you serious?

MermaidOfScandinavia · 2022-06-26T14:03:15+00:00

Better luck next time.

bandsupjay · 2022-06-26T18:57:25+00:00

Shes into u brothaaa. She did it later

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-06-26T21:24:39+00:00

She's into you. Especially since she came up twice. I don't believe girls will grind on a guy that they aren't at least attracted to. You wouldn't want to go up and grind on a girl that you weren't attracted to either.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-26T14:23:57+00:00

She likes you

peduxe · 2022-06-26T14:47:21+00:00

you definitely should’ve tell her some nasty (in a seductive way) shit and escalate.

If the girl is already into you she’ll make it extremely easy for you to advance independent of whatever you say.

unless you weren’t interested in her you got to have fun, that’s the most important bit about clubbing.

Woujo · 2022-06-26T19:23:16+00:00

Waiting for IOIs is stupid. You should just go for it and the woman will make clear if she is not interested.

Freed0mFries · 2022-06-26T19:28:25+00:00

Excuse me while I whip this out. Ahhhhhhh

mattrixd · 2022-06-26T23:09:29+00:00

This short video, Casually Explained: Is She Into You? should help clear things up

The_bass_monkey · 2022-06-27T01:32:11+00:00

Chill_jamil · 2022-06-27T01:36:20+00:00

She was definitely flirting! My advice ask her out if you are into her!! Woman usually don’t initiate on the dance floor, So the fact that she did that shes at least into you!! Make the next move my guy!

matttumolo1234 · 2022-06-27T02:43:33+00:00

Girls aren’t dumb. She either just enjoys the attention, into you, or was tryin to make her ex that was there that night jealous 🤣 Drunk or not, doubt she’d do that with a dude she’d never sleep with

alexmaycovid · 2022-06-27T02:44:48+00:00

Ask her out. She's definitely into you

Shleco · 2022-06-27T03:57:16+00:00

She’s into you for sure, no way I’d be grinding on a guy I wasn’t trying to escalate things with.

Delicatestatesmen · 2022-06-27T05:07:53+00:00

Hey a girl grinding on you is a ioi HELLO! You probably need help with picking out obvious signs?!

CoffeeDealer99 · 2022-06-27T07:56:35+00:00

She wants you fr 💯

creamyturtle · 2022-06-26T15:00:19+00:00

she was trying to bang obvi. man you are slow

AnonChemicalEng · 2022-06-26T18:51:27+00:00

Hahah this is the most autistic thing I’ve seen on here in a while

_SAKE · 2022-06-26T17:26:58+00:00

In situations like these, don’t bite the bait. She’s setting you up for rejection later.

If anything is gonna happen, make her do all the effort.

dwisn1111 · 2022-06-26T11:46:43+00:00

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Esmond_Mutt2323 · 2022-06-27T03:23:41+00:00

When I was in college, that eventually led to some action….

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2022-06-26T17:02:54+00:00

Chances are she's been giving you ioi's, but they've been subtle and not overt. This was her chance to drive it home. Your task now is simple. Ask her if she wants to go dancing with you this.... (time frame at such and such a place).

Emper0rMing · 2022-06-26T15:21:20+00:00

I’d say it was just being fun in a situation where people dance. Chasing things like this is best avoided in friend groups

meatpopsicle86edya · 2022-06-26T16:20:49+00:00

Ride out yer gut instinct kiddo. Wingman got ur back 4sho

lollypup12333 · 2022-06-27T00:01:42+00:00

She could have just wanted to dance on someone and you just happened to be the person

BalancedLif3 · 2022-06-27T01:38:58+00:00

Go with the flow with no expectations. Enjoy and learn bro

SwitchEm0 · 2022-06-27T06:02:06+00:00

When me and my best friend goes to a club, her dancing is grinding so she grinds on me and then proceeds to make fun of how I can't dance lmao (and she's right) but she has a boyfriend. Though I know we love each other platonically and there's nothing romantically there.

Though I suppose this isn't always the case so 🤷 don't really know how to help you there buddy lol

of_msseratonin · 2022-06-27T07:03:46+00:00

Just having fun

Asongofparksandrec · 2022-06-27T07:51:14+00:00

Pretty sure she just wants to be friends.

Klaus402 · 2022-06-28T13:38:21+00:00

but why do women come at you with their backside and not frontside and then backside? I have always wonderes

Title	Friend grinding on me in the club
Author	dwisn1111
Upvotes	264
Comments	77
Date	June 26, 2022 11:40 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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