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[–]norwegiandoggo 109 points110 points111 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
If you're handsome and have a good insta, you can message women "gagaaghaggahagha" and they will still respond.
[–]Extra-Boysenberry 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha god forbid you have a blue check mark on your profile.
[–]Visual-Guide5473 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well I am handsome but not model status. And I do have a good Instagram, which I think matters more than being handsome.
[–]Exmerus 66 points67 points68 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Having a good Instagram is the reason why you are getting responses, not the opener.
[+]Feeling-Feeling308 -33 points-32 points-31 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Anything to feel sorry for yourself huh?
[–]PuroPincheGains 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are you dumb?
[–]Feeling-Feeling308 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah I’m an average looking dude who still pulls and doesn’t make excuses for himself like 90% of average looking dudes.
[–]PuroPincheGains 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And you get laid from messaging models on Instagram? And who said anything about physical appearance?
[–]ThePenTester88 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but what's the point in messaging a IG model though? To get a response and brag about it? It's not like they are going to meet up with you or anything
[–]Maddzilla2793 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You have to respond to DMs at some levels to keep your own engagement up. Especially when it comes from stories 😹😿
[–]ThePenTester88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well yeah but, I feel like you have a better chance of actually meeting or even forming a friendship with someone who doesn't have thousands and thousands of followers and guys hitting them up 100 times a day, like IG models do.
[–]MissionAd399 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You get a response then what? You DM 10, 2 respond, 0 meet up with you. So now we DMing IG models that really only care about blue checks and dudes that got something to offer for our own validation? Sad.
[–]PuroPincheGains 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. It's not seduction if you're not getting laid. Getting a response in Insta is not a success lol
[–]CloutComputing 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Only" have 900 followers? I guess I'm a loser at 200!
[–]WestwardAlien 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How tf do you people have triple digit follower numbers!? Do you know 200 people?
[–]dice19 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Only works if you have tonnes of social proof on your profile
[–]never_on_time 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
like what? pics with gals/friends?
[–]dice19 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
High quality pics showing a high value lifestyle, also a good follower count wouldn’t go a miss
[–]never_on_time 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What's a good amount?
[–]dice19 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
At least a full profile, 9
[–]never_on_time 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm an autist, was that a joke?
[–]never_on_time 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Wait did you mean 9 pics? I meant how many followers
[–]Exmerus 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
1k at least
[–]never_on_time 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Whaaat? I do not know one thousand people lol
[–]Exmerus 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very few people actually do lol. You gotta build an interesting enough profile so random people in other parts of the world follow you.
All the "influencers" barely know anyone really. Most of them just manage to fake a cool life and get people follow what they do. Pretty girls get followers for being pretty and uploading bikini pics. Fit guys get followed by other dudes and some thirsty women. Rich people who upload tons of cool pictures of themselves around the world.
[–]mjornir 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
only 900 followers
well above average my dude
happy for you but this feels out of touch for most guys
[–]WestwardAlien 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right? I don’t even have insta anymore.
[–]iamethgod 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No bottom line is you need to be attractive with social proof and obviously they aren’t going to respond to the thousands of simple “hey”s they get
[–]dice19 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How many of these models have you fucked yet ?
And guys are losers now when they call a girl beautiful ?
[–]DanielFromCucked 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Define success
[–]ArtOfGame 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's the point if she texts you but doesn't want to meet you? Isn't it better to go out and approach beautiful women on the street?
[–]5_7pickup 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Unless youre fucking these girls, none of this matters. Sounds like a waste of time if anything.
[–]activatebarrier 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You ever feel empty that you're just having meaningless sex?
[–]yehhey 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you planning on actually meeting them? Give an example of flirty banter through text never been able to figure that one out.
[–]KinxTheTimeStripper 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do you be fun and flirty?
Then what after that?
r/restofthefuckingowl
[–]lightlysaltedStev 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve not used it for models, but I find replying to an Instagram story with any girl one of the best ways to start a conversation with them.
Like for example, I went to uni with a girl that I got along with and lost communication with since I graduated. Now it’s been 2 years and it’s really awkward to just randomly start a conversation with someone you haven’t really spoken to for that amount of time, but I’ve found by replying to an Instagram story we was able to re connect and get chatting like old times again. It’s actually a really effective method.
[–]PuroPincheGains 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How many have you slept with?
[–]ikonik7 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have zero pictures and a private profile, I'll try it
[–]DeJuanBallard 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is clown shit
[–]caesarfecit -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah what are you selling.
Reported for spam.
[–]Visual-Guide5473 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m not selling anything?
I just figured out a way to DM girls on Instagram and posted this in case other people need help. I’m not trying to be some PUA sales wackjob, just legitimately trying to help.
[–]ThatBoiFromTheEast 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could I see your ig
[–]caesarfecit 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh yes, you invented sliding into a hot girl's DMs with a cold read.
If you're gonna tell me 2/10 girls you open this way you wind up going out on dates with... I know you're full of shit.
Not to mention, I'm positive someone was in here weeks/months ago with the exact same copypasta, claiming the exact same ridiculous success rate.
Not to mention you have zero history other than shilling for this snake oil nonsense 2 days ago.
Like come on, this is obviously some kind of scam or weird bullshit.
[–]never_on_time -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i recently though i'd try dming on ig again, tried it before, got a couple responses, anyway they like restricted my account? i don't have any followers and just made the account, i got a message about someone far away logging into my account and it said my account was associated with spamming or something. what do?
[–]vroomvroomski -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You're so right, the anti Instagram people are really missing out. My girlfriend broke up with me and I was worried I'd have to install tinder and would have no luck.
But I recently got verified on Instagram and now I can get dates with almost any model I want including influencers with hundreds of thousands of followers. The hard part is keeping her interest after the dates when they realize I'm kinda average looking lol. But so far I have still had way more success than any other thing I could've used.
[–]BusyEarn1n 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Have you found any particular sort of blueprint that works for it? Like follow, wait for follow back, like a few posts the next day, wait to reply to their story when it makes sense. Or do you just go straight for an interesting/fun DM lol and don't bother thinking about it
Feels like otherwise I'll just get left in msg requests never to be seen. Or even if they reply to the message but then my message gets lost in their busy inbox
Guessing verified is like a superpower but maybe average dudes can just set their sight not as high and still get some success do you think?
[–]vroomvroomski 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't follow them or like anything, I just reply to a story with a flirty comment while leaving room for plausible deniability. Usually their curiosity is piqued and they respond.
Yeah verified helps a lot, but probably some girls would still check the message from a non verified guy if they have a good profile
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Suure
[–]MissionAd399 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You probably got one of those fake blue checks. There’s ways to tell who paid for a blue check and who has one for actually being a social figure. Just hope the ladies don’t start catching on
[–]vroomvroomski -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Okay buddy
[–]MissionAd399 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
All you have to do is click the info button on your profile and compare it to that of a celebrity for example. Huge difference, don’t be delusional😂
Bruh I know I'm not a celebrity but I'm still a public figure in my niche and people respect that. I've worked with a lot of huge a list celebrities on music and have a very strong network. Plus I've gotten some press which is what allowed me to get verified
[–]onebigassgoat 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk cuz I would have to see your ig first to believe this
[–]TheInternalEar 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow! Treating a women like a human instead of a piece of meet gets their attention. Why didn’t I think of that? /s
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dming models you havent met in real life is a low roi waste of time.
[–]futuristicbushman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I blame you guys for chicks calling us Malignant love bombing narcs smh
[–]Sandvicheater 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unless you're willing to fly to Italy to seal the deal all these DMs chat with chicks across the planet means jack squat. The real test is if you can DM insta models who are in the same city, get a number close then a date then to bed.
[–]Mriconicdev 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How many have you actually gone out with ?
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