Girls think I'm gay.

Low-Bread9747 · 2022-03-25T07:58:57+00:00

CASANOVA were very feminine too, I mean, when u look femenine u look less like a menace for women

franikolai · 2022-03-25T07:33:22+00:00

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Sabres26 · 2022-03-25T07:12:57+00:00

Do you have a feminine voice?

Travis_Varga · 2022-03-25T06:53:09+00:00

Ask the girls why they think so, it could be a number of things.

bonix · 2022-03-25T12:25:18+00:00

Girls have assumed that of me often as I have a bit of a feminine personality and energy. Something I've accepted and embraced. When I was single it really helped stand out at shows/clubs when talking to women. I can't even count how many times I took their attention away from beef heads saying cheesy pick up bs to them and ending up with their number or more. I still get asked that even after marrying a beautiful women, people are weird.

The worst thing you can do is try to change who you are because of what other people think.

Djjcollins · 2022-03-25T07:49:33+00:00

I’m going to give you this from angle that will show you this is actually a good thing . The fact that women think you’re gay will work in your advantage in life. The term is metrosexual. Which basicly mean you have a style and a image that says . I’m clean, I shower , I care about my appearance . I know how to match my clothes and I smell pleasant . It shows you are more then ripped up jeans and a dirty t-shirt guy. Eventually you will start attracting a higher caliber of woman . Anyone who call you gay or assumes you are because of your style or the way you look. Is the same people who believe the world is flat. The one thing woman and men admire about gay men is they work hard to look the best they can. Dress the best they can and to have the best style possible . I’m assuming you don’t act flamboyant. Im guessing it’s because of your clean cut look and the way you dress. Take pride in your style and the way you look. Who cares what some woman or women think. Take it as a compliment . Be secure with your sexuality . Look good always and those who say stupid shit and the ones who are stupid . Metro sexual mean stylish man not gay man . But take a tip from gay men . They can dress and they work hard to have a clean stylish appearance.

renegade453 · 2022-03-25T08:19:19+00:00

I mean do u have the desire to be more "manly" to fight it off?

mrgraie · 2022-03-25T08:30:46+00:00

Lmao. I received the same impression as well. It mostly happened when I was cleanly shaved.

Kmyrvang · 2022-03-25T14:51:47+00:00

This happened to me just a week ago last time. It can be hard to ask the women too because perceptions are often so subconscious. She said it was something about my smile. Idk. I do dress in tailored suit pants, tight white T-shirt, with matching black leather shoes, belt and Armani watch, the last two with silver metal, and I sit with a straight posture. But I wouldn't be surprised if I give off some feminine vibes having been raised by a single mother. It does bother me a bit. I think we'd all like to be seen as masculine alphas.

shadesofparadise · 2022-03-25T15:44:11+00:00

Same here! I've asked why, and girls usually say something like "because you're good looking and outgoing".

Definitely own it. Girls are usually happy to find out you're straight after hanging out for a bit wondering.

Growing a well-trimmed beard or stubble helps balance it out and add some masculine energy.

CautiousNail4876 · 2022-03-25T13:17:00+00:00

Why are you gay?

kustoob · 2022-03-25T08:02:27+00:00

Are u low test? Or do you do things that can be considered low test?

dumsaint · 2022-03-25T08:53:48+00:00

I've been told I have a kind-tired face and some women dig that. As if I've experienced shit - everyone has I suppose - and it didn't pull me down.

Be a dude that's heard it and shrugs and asks, "So you don't want these lips on you then, cool?"

puma085 · 2022-03-25T10:27:25+00:00

Have you ever tried to ask the women why they think that? There could be many reasons for that. Maybe you look or behave like gays behave in the head of these women. Prejudice is still pretty strong in the head of some people. Or it could also be a total different reason.

Cool_Diesel · 2022-03-25T16:09:11+00:00

Ask them why they think that. It could be a number of reasons. Do you talk with a sort of lisp?

Zebrahead033 · 2022-03-25T09:34:10+00:00

I've gotten this twice. Once at the gym. There was a group of women who decided to workout around me. I think it was 4 of them. They were bending over in front of me and taking selfies and what not.

I guess they assumed I would be staring at them or try and talk to them and I didn't. The truth is I thought they were gross and annoying. 2 of them weren't bad looking but they were so trying too hard and they were just so loud and laughing at every little thing. They we're like a group of hyenas with rabies who were high on cocaine. But I could hear one of them mention the gay thing to another when they saw I wasn't interested.

The 2nd time this happened was in line at the checkout counter at the groceries. I eat healthy. Very rarely will I ever buy junk food. Anyways this fat lady behind me makes the comment that I eat like a women. (Clearly not her though because she was a fat person who clearly doesn't put effort into her health, fitness or appearance) And then said the maybe he's gay.

Haters gonna hate.

fondlemysausage · 2022-03-25T14:35:19+00:00

Lol, more than a few of us have gone through this, it seems.

God forbid you remotely take care of yourself in any way and are relaxed around anyone. No flamboyance or anything.

RocketTheGod · 2022-03-25T20:23:36+00:00

I have the opposite problem hehe

2022-03-26T05:15:07+00:00

Looks matter a lot. So you have a masculine appearance. When you talk, do you talk in a lower tone or more high pitched. Do you act in a more masculine or a platonic or friendly way around women?

RPslimjim · 2022-03-26T12:06:03+00:00

You’re not masculine. It’s simple.

boynamedmad · 2022-03-25T17:19:53+00:00

Used to happen with me all the time. Nothing wrong with you or being perceived as such. It can be a benefit with women being more comfortable around you.

Istayonredditjsjsjs · 2022-03-25T07:42:50+00:00

I'm sure you're just looking mire taken care if then her . She's just saying the opposite of what she really feels

mightymite88 · 2022-03-25T07:43:42+00:00

same*. i consider it an asset. they usually feel more comfy with queer people. just make sure you signal intent properly and you'll be fine.

*to be fair i am ace and nonbinary, but not gay.

RPslimjim · 2022-03-25T18:08:47+00:00

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YoDaddy1069 · 2022-03-25T19:09:59+00:00

For some reason, a lot of girls ask me if I’m bi. Idk why. I think of myself as a decently masculine guy, but it happens anyway. Don’t give it too much thought

unfinity2 · 2022-03-25T19:51:52+00:00

Sometimes this ends up being a good thing as sometimes they’ll get really intrigued if they really like you on a personal level, then they find out your Hetero.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-03-25T21:06:33+00:00

They’re probably picking up on your disinterest and/or lack of nerves.

keytarna · 2022-03-26T01:10:26+00:00

That’s good man. Girls love gay guys. As long as you tell them you’re straight you’re in there

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-03-26T03:17:49+00:00

And then what happen?

Title	Girls think I'm gay.
Author	alfred250
Upvotes	43
Comments	51
Date	March 25, 2022 6:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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