How do I become attractive enough to have success on Tinder?

zinvl · 2022-03-12T12:34:35+00:00

In my experience and most of my friends', Tinder isn't worth your time & energy bro. One of my best mate is tall, has an attractive face & is very confident. His dating game is strong af, yet after 3 months on Tinder he only got 2 dates and his pictures were definitely good 🤣

The thing with this app is you'll just build desire through the scrolling process without getting anywhere near the same amount of effort you're putting in in return. Dating should be a fun & equal game. Tinder is neither of both.

unfknblvbe · 2022-03-12T11:38:30+00:00

High quality photos make sure you importing good stuff at high res

robbywallstreet · 2022-03-12T15:14:14+00:00

Delete all apps. Look your best, be in shape, dress well, and approach women in real life until you develop outcome independence and a solid confident set of go to opening lines and conversation.

An attractive girl shopping in Target might have 80 dudes messaging her on Tinder she's not interested in other than attention and hoping someone will really stand out ,or she many not even have Tinder.

Either way, a bird in the hand, she sees you in real life, if she finds you somewhat attractive and confident you just got a date.

Normal guys with zero matches on Tinder or who get a few matches that go nowhere could get 4 dates a day out in the real world if they'd do what 99% of other guys don't and take initiative.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-12T11:40:51+00:00

Shit son. I'm pretty good in person, and on other apps. But Tinder is so shallow I've never had luck there. Good luck. But maybe you should try finding a better platform? I have lots of dates without Tinder

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-03-12T14:13:31+00:00

Lean face, muscular frame, nice hair, nice jaw, social status, wealth, nice eyebrows. Show these in pics.

Alternative-Purple29 · 2022-03-12T18:08:22+00:00

I think your best bet is to meet girls in person. It puts you ahead of all the online guys no matter what you look like. Seriously, go to the grocery store for an hour. I do pretty well in person and I just talk. I don’t really have any game yet. At 42 yes old. Lol. I just talk to everyone and naturally win by just being fluid in my conversations. Online you get lost in a sea of pics. No way to judge if you have an ounce of self confidence. Women don’t care about looks like men do. As long as you are not hideous, you have a 50/50 chance with any girl, assuming she is sexually available!

Regular_Dealer_5077 · 2022-03-12T12:56:00+00:00

Taking on some martial arts (kickbox in my case) classes helped me massively. It can get you in shape and builds your confidence which girls can sense.

Also taking some time to get good pictures is worth it. Plan a day with a friend and do somewhat of a shoot. I did that and it was a fun day and the pictures were great.

Also you can start out on bumble to build your texting game as tinder in general is a bit harder because you need to open the conversation. Good luck!

dheidjdedidbe · 2022-03-12T17:40:22+00:00

Avoid all apps. They are all scams and guys will never get matches

2022-03-12T16:21:40+00:00

Work out, and improve your style. Then learn how to take really good socially intelligent pics for tinder, bumble, hinge, and facebook dating.

Muaythaimonk · 2022-03-12T18:20:37+00:00

Get jacked. Pay for high quality model photos. Have a dog. Look visibly wealthy. The end.

OThinkingDungeons · 2022-03-12T16:22:01+00:00

There's pretty good guides out there on how to dominate online dating, but honestly so few people read them it's sad.

This represents one of the best guides out there: https://www.zirby.co/blog/tinder-profile-guide

In a nutshell it's about knowing what photos work and how to get them and actually putting in the work to get them. Online dating platforms are visual platforms, not having good photos makes as much sense as having a car that can't go from A to B.

Alternative-Purple29 · 2022-03-12T18:19:06+00:00

Your best bet is to meet girls in person. It puts you ahead of all the online guys no matter what you look like. Seriously, go to the grocery store for an hour. I do pretty well in person and I just talk. I don’t really have any game yet. At 42 yes old. Lol. I just talk to everyone and naturally win by just being fluid in my conversations. Online you get lost in a sea of pics. No way to judge if you have an ounce of self confidence. Women don’t care about looks like men do. As long as you are not hideous, you have a 50/50 chance with any girl, assuming she is sexually available!

FlatDistance5 · 2022-03-12T14:59:38+00:00

Get to a low bodyfat %, then do a lot of professional activity photos so for example playing beach volleyball with your friends, riding a motorcycle not posing but being active. Mix that with some casual/slightly sexy photos shirtless staring into the camera. With some being in a suit staring away, others showing off your fashion sense. NO BATHROOM SELFIES

Have it like a theme first pic sexy casual, 2nd activity, 3rd sexy, 4th activity, 5 casual, 6th activity.

Hire someone to make a great sexual bio and you shouldn’t have any issues..

My recommendation for tinder is Austin Dunham, and Playing with fire (they’re great for text game too)

universalvoid87 · 2022-03-12T14:34:33+00:00

Plastic surgery and tinder gold

DryBumblebee9029 · 2022-03-12T18:08:12+00:00

I think its just the name of the game. Oversupply of men. Basically what you do In my eyes wont bring you closer to your goal. It's like asking what can I do to get better at gambling.....maybe don't.

Richi_Boi · 2022-03-12T12:34:51+00:00

Attractive hobbies; Music; Sports (anything but just hitting the gym); Put your sign in your bio ♑️; Anything with animals

Maybe you dont read it... but women read that stuff!

Men by far outnumber women there, so you really need to stand out. And consider other options

Intelligent_Risk_728 · 2022-03-12T17:22:39+00:00

I've never been on tinder or here before today for that matter but money doesn't make you attractive or for at least someone that you're going to want to be around, the working on yourself and trying to build a social circle is a good start, I don't know about an internet social circle? I really feel kinda forced to be on here now, what's the point in tinder away? To have a relationship or to screw a bunch of ppl ether way the sites probably not what you want in your life. Sex is awesome till you find Love and then it's meaningless, well that might not be right because I tind to love myself the most while single and have a lot of sex then to which is usually how I wined up in a bad relationship

Intelligent_Risk_728 · 2022-03-12T17:49:20+00:00

No doubt!

lauraxcastillo · 2022-03-12T18:14:31+00:00

define success on tinder though

HorusCok · 2022-03-12T22:08:58+00:00

Drink more alcohol...

Oh wait. that's backwards. Text your matches to have THEM start drinking before video call or in person meets.

NervousGamedev · 2022-03-12T22:33:09+00:00

Honestly I think the bio is where it's at. Women are a lot more tolerant of not-super-hot men than the reverse. But it really depends what you're looking for. My partner is a self identified slut and we both show each other what we're up to on dating apps for fun. She considers the ridiculously hot looking guys "nice looking dildos" because she's found good looking guys are generally less good at sex and less interesting people overall. I'm conventionally attractive enough to have some success on Tinder but a lot of that didn't start happening for me until I rigorously curated my profile photos/bio. Paying for features like extra super likes and using them confidently also made a big difference. There are 3x as many men as women on Tinder (according to the company) so a big part of it for men is getting your profile seen at all.

daddysgotanew · 2022-03-12T23:30:23+00:00

Unfortunately, it’s one of those things you’re born with (face). You either have it or ya don’t

invaderjif · 2022-03-13T01:31:37+00:00

Just lie. Take Chris Hemsworth or some clearly not you celebrity, throw your face on it (don't bother being careful with the photoshop they already know it's fake), and boom.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-03-13T06:39:34+00:00

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Title	How do I become attractive enough to have success on Tinder?
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Date	March 12, 2022 11:30 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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