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Ilovethaiicedtea · 2022-02-08T03:20:04+00:00

Do it seems like she'd be dtf

saryiahan · 2022-02-08T04:32:46+00:00

Date no, do a one off or fwb if she’s up for it then yes

MadmanInABluebox · 2022-02-08T13:25:04+00:00

I’d recommend using this as a learning experience. She’s coming from having sex with women, definitely make foreplay a big focus and communicate.

If you hit it off, then cool, you got a bi partner.

labyrinthlilith · 2022-02-08T03:12:14+00:00

I’d honestly be cautious about this being some sort of scam. Make sure you share your location with someone you trust that can keep an eye on you while you’re meeting this person.

2022-02-08T05:15:32+00:00

It's pretty suspicious situation, girls often say things that they don't mean at all.

Just don't engage yourself and keep an eye for crazy bitch symptoms :P

Selvane · 2022-02-08T14:52:35+00:00

If she wants to experiment with men, do your best to show her a good time! Got to represent for the guys bruh

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-02-08T07:19:24+00:00

Done it. No issues.

willgo-waggins · 2022-02-08T05:51:36+00:00

Yes I have in exactly the same circumstance (I had just separated and was getting divorced and she had broken up with her long term partner). It was one of the better periods of sex of my entire life.

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-02-08T03:32:11+00:00

She's probably gonna be nuts.... you're basically dealing with someone with a self admitted identity crisis.

That said, casual, go for it.

It's not that unusual, notice the huge disparity between girls who identify as lesbian in their teens/20s vs women who identify as lesbian over 40.

MattySmatty616 · 2022-02-08T12:57:04+00:00

Obviously fuck

Then what feels right, no way to know if she's gf material without knowing her. Sexuality isn't black and white and girls understand that much more than men.

18cmOfGreatness · 2022-02-08T13:17:52+00:00

Many people who self-identify as gay are actually bisexual. I never heard of a real gay man wanting to "experiment with a woman"—his dick doesn't even gets hard at a woman, so this would be meaningless. The same goes for bona fide lesbians, you can't make them wet.

FakeSafeWord · 2022-02-08T15:47:54+00:00

heh I tried once a long time ago.

She was a gold star lesbian. Just got dumped, said she was feeling reckless.

Got to my place, she sat on the couch and I quadruple checked with her that she was cool with moving forward so I just stripped down piece by piece while staring at her giggling.

I was naked and she touched me for a bit and then said okay now what? So i said well, how do you normally start off, and she said I dunno, a bit of head, so i slowly took her pants off and she had the biggest bush I have ever seen. I seriously could not navigate my way through that jungle. So i was like... ehhh can... we do a bit of a trim? Not shave, just... to kinda cut this down a bit. She was embarrassed but said yes. I took her into the shower and had her strip down and stand in the shower, but not under the water.

I spent like 40 minutes trimming her ridiculous bush. I ended up completely covered in pubic hair from head to toe. I got her rinsed off and told her to go wait in the bedroom so i could figure out how to get all this out of the shower and into the toilet where it would drain properly. It was actually kind of exhausting having done it for so long at awkward angles, getting pubes in my mouth over and over and had been on my knees for so long, I really wasn't in the mood anymore.

I finally get done and she's laying in my bed with her upper body perched up on her elbows in what I thought was kind of a 'come hither' type of pose. So I slowly crawl on the bed towards her and she says...

"Please don't rape me?"

Ohhhhhhhhhh, yeah okay, not sure how to process that after everything that just happened so uh, "no you're good, i think we should call it a night"

Next week I ran into her at the same place I met her, back with her gf. And that, children is how I trimmed a lesbians pubes. What was the question again? Would I date a lesbian? No, probably not.

its4thecatlol · 2022-02-08T07:32:27+00:00

I recently did this with a girl from Hinge… it was not an easy lay nor a rewarding relationship for me. She said she was bi but had exclusively dated women after a traumatic relationship with a man. There was a lot of baggage and a tremendous amount of miscommunication. Dating lesbians is very different than dating grown men, and this girl is going to have no experience with the latter. She will interpret things you say in the way she’s used to interpreting them from women. The girl I dated randomly thought I was trying to friendzone her, cancelled our date at the last minute, and then rescheduled 4 days later.

In a way, she was even less experienced than even a virgin because she had to unlearn expectations from the lesbian world. I constantly had to reassure her about trivial things.

If you go out with this girl, sex will be difficult. She’ll probably be too tight for you to slide in. The girl I was dating was as soaking wet as any girl I’ve ever been with and I still could barely get inside of her. I had to go down on her for a long time with every single trick I know, and I still got the feeling she didn’t enjoy it as much as she would from another woman who intimately understands her own anatomy. I learned a few things from this part 🙂.

Your mileage may vary. If you’re just trying to fuck and she’s down for it, I’d go for it. But if you’re going to try to date her semi-seriously, understand that you will be in the pilot seat of something burdensome and difficult. As the man you’re always expected to make the first move, but this time you’ll be expected to explain the entire dating process on top of that.

It wasn’t for me. She was blonde (my favorite), hot, it started off well and we had some good times, but the challenges made it unenjoyable and confusing as a whole.

I’ll give some advice on the sex too: Prepare to go down on her for a loooooooong time, like 30min+. From what she told me, lesbians usually don’t use dildos and mostly just finger and eat each other out. A dick will hurt her. You very likely will be the biggest thing she’s had inside of her. Unless your dick is like 4in, it’s going to be difficult for her to get it in. Forget about rough sex. You’re going to need to be as gentle as possible the first time.

Drewsters9 · 2022-02-08T09:45:40+00:00

Yes and hope she becomes bi lol

wft45 · 2022-02-08T08:35:13+00:00

Yes!!

ZuphCud · 2022-02-08T10:01:26+00:00

I'd have two of those.

2022-02-08T10:21:43+00:00

Are we dating or experimenting? There’s a difference there.

Mr-HHHH · 2022-02-08T12:37:27+00:00

When I first met my wife she was in a sexual relationship with another woman - nothing ventured nothing gained

coldbeer669 · 2022-02-08T13:06:56+00:00

Yea I would

jjwondor · 2022-02-08T13:44:15+00:00

Yeah sure! Why not? Unless I’m looking for a relationship only, and if that being the case I’d have a conversation with her a date or two in just to gauge whether or not we’re going in the same direction

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2022-02-08T13:55:27+00:00

Yeeeap

indigo_pirate · 2022-02-08T14:33:38+00:00

Video call before the date to verify…

Otherwise good luck

2022-02-08T15:22:40+00:00

Done that about 7 or 8 times. A lot of women who think they're lesbian aren't that sure.

2022-02-08T15:24:33+00:00

I would, and have.

My wife actually volunteered my services to a co-worker who was a Lesbian. She had never been with a guy and used to ask about it all the time. She ended up being our first threesome.

Rairaijin · 2022-02-08T17:11:38+00:00

Then she's homoflexible

SnooSketches6409 · 2022-02-08T18:18:40+00:00

Keep in mind that sexuality is not binary. It’s a sliding scale. Someone may really have an attraction to a gender but still be interesting in certain members of another gender. A guy can love women but sometimes want to be with a man. This is more normal than you would think.

TurkeyBaconClubberin · 2022-02-08T10:04:10+00:00

Stop prying into my life, sir. I literally as of last night began dating a self professed lesbian who's making an exception for the 1st time in her life. Lmao

griddigus · 2022-02-08T03:05:59+00:00

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slumxl0rd87 · 2022-02-08T15:19:41+00:00

You better know what you’re doing. Don’t go bang her if you’re a lousy lay. If she’s going to experiment better make it worth her while lol

bittr_n_swt · 2022-02-08T05:20:13+00:00

She deffo wants to fuck easy pull

posuccess1 · 2022-02-08T17:20:55+00:00

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dionysus1967 · 2022-02-08T06:36:23+00:00

No because you’re just a toy to her, seducing is about making her fall in love with you

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2022-02-08T12:13:06+00:00

What kind of question is that? Yes

2022-02-08T13:09:44+00:00

Unfortunately no. Cuz there would be the definite possibility of a breakup if the girl believes she’s still gonna be a lesbian in the future.

FWB would be a better option imo. So no one’s feelings get hurt.

h8xwyf · 2022-02-08T14:12:16+00:00

Noisss... 👍

griddigus · 2022-02-08T14:19:00+00:00

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Furaskjoldr · 2022-02-08T15:05:14+00:00

Date or relationship? No I wouldn't.

A one time fun fling type thing? Yeah sure why not.

2022-02-08T15:54:00+00:00

Please update us in a week or so?

2022-02-08T16:54:32+00:00

Just remember, you are the variable. Tell her to get another constant so yall can get a 'control group' going

2022-02-08T17:07:44+00:00

fuck yea as long as she's good looking

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-02-08T17:12:38+00:00

That depends on you. Let's say you really get in deep, a she says, sorry back to women. There was this dude on an advice thread. He was going out of his mind because his wife had a lesbian lover on the side. So the guy was like, we had a third (female) join them in sex often. He was obviously devastated, calling the lesbian lover ugly etc. He told his wife he loved her, she reportedly told him the same thing, however....she said she was keeping her lesbian friend regardless. People asked him about inviting people into the bedroom ....... He said he was going to force his wife into counseling, he's obviously devastated.

comacove · 2022-02-08T17:43:12+00:00

Have fun, man!

EmperorPornatusXI · 2022-02-08T18:58:10+00:00

Would sleep with her, but probably wouldn't date. Or, if we do date, probably wouldn't be as emotionally invested in it compared to dating a straight woman.

No_Load_7183 · 2022-02-08T19:55:03+00:00

I mean as a good fwb sure but I wouldn't want to emotionally attach myself to her since she isn't into that.

ZollJo · 2022-02-08T20:23:48+00:00

Is this a trick question? Of course you do it.
It's a win-win and can even evolve into a win-win-win, if you know what I'm saying. ;)

Renshato · 2022-02-08T21:27:22+00:00

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The_James_Bond · 2022-02-09T00:30:31+00:00

I had a lesbian say I that I attracted her once so I got that going for me

Think-Price2451 · 2022-02-09T01:33:02+00:00

Lmfao

Think-Price2451 · 2022-02-09T01:33:10+00:00

Bruh u gunna get hurt

Jeetuprime · 2022-02-09T01:44:11+00:00

Maybe let her feel her legs out before thinking of a full on dating scene. Wouldn’t be fair to either of you if you got attached but her compass still points strongly to women. Bet she’d understand too if you put it honestly.

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