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Avinctus · 2021-10-16T12:05:50+00:00

It turns out, I'm not Brad Pitt. Who would have thought.

froze_gold · 2021-10-16T12:10:56+00:00

When there are doubts, the answer is no. A simple philosophy.

putcoolusernamehere · 2021-10-16T14:45:26+00:00

I'm not a fan of ego-boosting methods like this. Basically in doing this, you're saying "girls need to treat me like I'm one of the hottest & highest value men in the world, or they aren't worth my time." It's dumb. You're not the hottest & highest value man in the world. You're letting your ego get in the way of some potentially great experiences.

nicohul · 2021-10-16T10:53:38+00:00

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MassiveRepeat6 · 2021-10-16T15:23:13+00:00

This is really fucking stupid.

SgtSplacker · 2021-10-16T13:37:49+00:00

I think it's a good methodology. It's meant to stop a guy from being converted into an orbiter. I just had to exercise this on a girl that was interested but just not enough. I am not interested in a relationship with a girl that does not have burning desire for me. A girl can keep a guy around for utilitarian purposes and never really feel that maximum attraction for him. For that guy theirs a buncha rules. The temper is shorter. The judgments are harsher. Headaches come easier. Communication is harder. It sucks being that guy. That's the guy that gets cheated on. The guy that's a constant project and has to change his ways "to be better".

dreameater42 · 2021-10-16T16:28:21+00:00

dumbest shit ive ever heard

gbizzle2 · 2021-10-16T10:18:09+00:00

Thats assuming that women are 100% about looks. If you're a simp it doesnt matter if you're Brad Pitt or not she still isnt going to have a high level of attraction.

AelfredRex · 2021-10-16T13:09:57+00:00

If you was Brad Pitt, would you be going "What if I was George Clooney?"

If you want to know what's going on inside a woman, just look in her eyes. You don't have to change your identity to do so.

ToxicBlood · 2021-10-16T14:55:58+00:00

This is ridiculous advice and it sounds ridiculous. None of us are Brad Pitt nor are we other famous celebrities who already have a public image/persona that people have created in their heads based on what they have seen. If she hasn't met you yet or spent enough time with you to understand what she would find attractive about you, there is no point trying to jump to conclusions about her level of interest. It's easy to fantasize a girl being completely infatuated with you right of the bat, but this rarely if ever happens. Here are some better questions that can give you re-assurance when trying to date someone new.

Does she seem excited about going on a date with you?

Does she help set up additional dates or does she just say she's busy without ever offering alternatives herself?

Does she ask you between dates about things you mentioned that you have going on or about how your week/day went?

As you can tell, some of these are pretty basic but the basics are really the most reliable things to go off of. If there's no real interest from her after the first date based on you answers to basic questions such as these, then you clearly have no reason to drive yourself crazy second guessing everything. Just set up an additional date if she agrees to it and direct your energy somewhere else in the meantime. Maybe things don't work out with the guy she was dating and now she'll have more energy to try things out with you. It's hard to know what's going on people's lives so do your best to not get hung up on girls too early in dating.

scenesick2 · 2021-10-16T15:25:16+00:00

you're a little confused but you've got the spirit. And this is the cringiest thing I've ever read.

IntrovertDatingCoach · 2021-10-16T16:13:33+00:00

This is so true, to the point where even a hint of someone I'm dating being the least bit flakey or non-responsive results in an automatic "NEXT" from me. Someone who truly likes you will darn near jump through hoops to spend time with you - heck, I've had dates with highly stressful, 12-hour a day jobs still try to find ways to squeeze me in for a date or night cap. Therefore, someone who has all the time in the world and can't answer a text or flakes on a date is no bueno!

__Gynotarian__ · 2021-10-16T17:55:59+00:00

A better rule of thumb to go by is actions speak louder than words.

DakiAge · 2021-10-16T20:18:53+00:00

You couldn't explain it very well so let me sum that up:

Everyone should see themselves as Brad Pitt so if a girl rejects you by saying something that she wouldn't say to Brad Pitt, just move on and find some other girl.

TheProMxn · 2021-10-16T22:40:33+00:00

Fuck it, I’m buying a Thor costume!

MoneyDiaryofaMoron · 2021-10-16T14:54:50+00:00

LOL! I’m sorry, but as a woman, this is the most asinine advice ever. Even Brad Pitt himself has trouble keeping women around because he’s kind of a major dick. Sure, he can get women because of his status, but what’s the point if he’s so insufferable that he can’t keep them?

Instead of cosplaying a rich and famous actor (which is something nobody reading this actually is) in your head, why not grow some self-love? Confidence comes with that, but first you need to love and value yourself. Then you’ll stop treating yourself like a street sweeper, picking up whatever and whoever indiscriminately like a lot of you do. Look at yourself and find some qualities you love, then keep going. Don’t stop until being by yourself is no longer some scary daunting task and you don’t actually need a woman to complete you.

That sort of attitude towards yourself will always get you women because we want to feel special just like you all do — which is to say that we want to be with people who want to be with US specifically, not just anyone. With a person who truly loves themselves, you’ll never have to doubt their motivations in dating you because they love themselves enough not to spend their time on just anybody.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-16T12:49:05+00:00

She's meeting/sleeping with you or she's not.

If not, she doesn't like you or your have bad Game.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-16T15:53:04+00:00

I really like this and often use it to demonstrate to guys that they are being if not played at least dealing with a woman who is not attracted to them. It is actually a good rule to protect yourself and keep your self respect.

Most guys will come up with all kinds of excuses for why a woman was rude to them, flaked, canceled last minute or got naked with them in bed but didn't want to fuck, etc. "Oh she had a genuine excuse and that's why she canceled 5 mins before the date, oh she didn't mean it this way, oh her ex abused her so she can't have sex (while she left the date with you and went back to her ex to suck his dick)." If you let yo ur self be treated like this you deserve to be treated like this.

PeacockBiscuit · 2021-10-16T10:24:52+00:00

This is my first time to hear about this rule. Interesting

mikedamike · 2021-10-16T16:55:26+00:00

Sounds like an excellent way to spend too much time in your head.

Ivabighairy1 · 2021-10-16T17:34:31+00:00

Instead of Brad Pitt, try this, if she is into me she will say yes. If not, she says no. As for her taking a test, if she’s into you she will add “maybe some other time”. If she doesn’t say that, she’s not into you. Comparing yourself to Brad Pitt doesn’t work.

Abundantmentallity · 2021-10-16T17:53:01+00:00

If you’re looking for great information on the subject of dating. (First dates, flakes, physical escalation, her level of interest, etc.)

Check out Corey Wayne on YouTube and read his book “How to be a 3% man” This one book has drastically changed my dating life for the better. I’ve listened to it 6 or 7 times now. Take good notes and enjoy the results:)

whatisthisaboutagain · 2021-10-16T19:45:33+00:00

If you have to ask yourself if she likes you, she doesn't.

It's as simple as that.

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