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kn_4 · 2021-10-14T18:54:12+00:00

I didn't either. Is it really important? As long as I can do things in real life I don't care.

that_old_white_guy · 2021-10-14T18:51:48+00:00

I could have my sister send ya some.

Mission-Assistance73 · 2021-10-14T23:43:20+00:00

:/ Most girls are not sending nudes because it could cost them their jobs. This is like saying, "Most girls are porn stars." Um, no. Clearly, they're not. You watched a bad podcast. Relax.

I've had guys send dick pics to me unprompted, but I've never received a female nude (except from straight guys pretending to be lesbians for shady reasons). It's not a female interest. A woman could have sex whenever she feels like it, so why put her job at risk?

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-14T19:28:35+00:00

Why do you think Snapchat got so popular when it first started?

A way for girls to act slutty and not have to worry so much about her pics being stolen.

jimmie-russler · 2021-10-14T19:56:22+00:00

Nice try OP ;)

Bapubaa8129 · 2021-10-14T18:28:57+00:00

Just talk sexy with them and they send nudes pretty fast

IndianRedditor88 · 2021-10-15T03:00:17+00:00

Better to be away from women who are handing out their nudes. Very very high chance that their private pics are being circulated on the internet.

It is a terrible decision for both men and women to share nudes and private pictures no matter to whom they are sent.

tulip-in-a-cup · 2021-10-15T01:19:40+00:00

i wouldn’t worry too much, i think this is extremely normal. as a woman, i’ve never sent nudes, and most women i know generally don’t either. i’m sure there are some that do send nudes regularly, but i don’t think it’s abnormal whatsoever to have never received nudes

skinticket02 · 2021-10-14T18:37:49+00:00

Baby steps are king my man .

If you're having a hard time with nudes , you should probably go a few steps back. Get comfortable being around women you're attracted to first.

truthbomb999 · 2021-10-14T19:47:40+00:00

I just come here to get this off my chest and say I have never received nude photos from anyone I’ve talked to and I have talked to many girls before.

Obvious question here, but did you ask them for nudes or are you talking about the last episode of he bachelor and trying to be their friend?

I had no clue this was something people GENUINELY did

I'm confused on how you approach and talk to women...

xNilon · 2021-10-14T22:32:48+00:00

What are nudes? Can someone show me?

kurapikachu020 · 2021-10-15T04:27:41+00:00

The podcast was bullshit, not all women send nudes and they don't so it all the time. Heck, I only sent nudes once to my boyfriend when we were apart for the summer holidays, but we haven't sent each other nudes since (since we see each other every day on campus).

ANewOriginalUsername · 2021-10-15T05:35:39+00:00

Unpopular opinion: I don't actually like receiving nudes from girls. Finding pictures of naked girls in today's age is like walking into a clock store and wondering what the time is. Usually if a girl offers to sends me nudes, means I've already seen her naked, and will probably see her naked again soon so what's the point? And the girls I want to see naked but haven't? Pretty sure seeing their naked pics is technically illegal?

whiplash81 · 2021-10-15T15:40:06+00:00

Most of the nudes I've received were either in the context of the conversation (when meeting in real life wasn't an option, but we were both turned on by each other) or just straight up unsolicited.

The key is to not make it obvious that's what you want to see - that's just creepy and one sided. Instead, create a safe and comforting space for her to open up.

Flirt. Keep it interesting. Feel the energy. Space out your responses to match the time frame it takes for her to respond to you. Be fun. Your goal is to get her to look forward to seeing your texts. Eager people respond quickly to messages. Uninterested people do not.

TomUdo · 2021-10-14T18:25:13+00:00

They do.. But sexting comes first.

Usually at least.

notforcurious · 2021-10-15T02:58:00+00:00

I like to have nudes from the girls I got laid with. It's like trophies to remember years later

YourNewProphet · 2021-10-15T04:54:32+00:00

I guess nobody twerked for you? I guess you just doesn’t live in ghetto among degenerates, that’s why you don’t get all that shit and people around you are more … developed

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-14T19:31:22+00:00

Maybe I'm weird I never ask girls for nudes, doesn't really interest me in the slightest.

Sometimes you get those girls that want to send you a daily video of them masturbating.. gawd damn, stop flooding my inbox with these random videos I didn't ask for.

No_Whole_9818 · 2021-10-14T21:22:57+00:00

It's considered foreplay for them now. It's a perfect way for them to get the sexual attention they so desperately crave.

steveblahhh · 2021-10-14T23:48:45+00:00

What's your snap? I can set you up homie. Crawl b4 you walk

handiball · 2021-10-14T20:19:42+00:00

porn is better

2021-10-15T10:57:47+00:00

I'm 32 and haven't either. In fact, I haven't even held one's hand. What does it mean? I don't know.

heraldos · 2021-10-14T19:43:20+00:00

Who cares ? Really You can see it in real lífe.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-14T20:06:05+00:00

It's much better that you are the one taking their use photos then having them send you their own.

LakersAreTerrible25 · 2021-10-15T00:32:28+00:00

You won't unless you ask for it. I could care less for photos

socialreadia · 2021-10-15T03:21:30+00:00

Don't feel bad I have never gotten interest from a girl minus a few really scandalous crazies

Mshalopd1 · 2021-10-15T03:51:14+00:00

Some girls love sending nudes some won't do it man. If you don't ask you won't find out either way haha. But don't ask by literally asking, tease it out w some flirty texting, maybe a picture of you with a kinda sexual context (NOT A DICK PIC), shit to escalate the convo and see if she's into it. If that's what you want. It def feels good to get a nude.

bonebrithchugger · 2021-10-15T13:25:09+00:00

A small number of girls send photos for anything. Most have/will for someone their in a relationship with, if the male suggests it. Most would for someone they perceive as being in the top 5%. Some, extremely few, won't.

ZosoWicca · 2021-10-15T13:44:32+00:00

I hope not to recieve any pic from a serious girlfriend.

no_not_this · 2021-10-15T15:33:05+00:00

Pretty much every chick I’ve fucked has sent me nudes. Mostly unprompted. Maybe I’m just dealing with different types of women though

peaches_onions · 2021-10-15T18:46:23+00:00

I volunteer as tribute

Life is short

Shadow__Account · 2021-10-15T21:08:23+00:00

I make sure to let women know I am discrete and trustworthy and that I don’t judge but encourage her sexuality, I do this indirectly though, for example by telling a woman I have home made Porn videos and when she asks to see them tell her I will never show them to anyone because I respect the girls’ privacy.

Lifedeather · 2021-10-15T22:08:09+00:00

Nudes are compromising, why nudes? Do it irl LOL 😂

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