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-Long-Dong-Silva- · 2021-10-10T05:59:19+00:00

mate unless you're giga Chad this is terrible advice to normal guys this is how you get kicked out of places or worse

bald29 · 2021-10-10T07:30:52+00:00

This advice is like a tutorial of how not to do it

burncushlikewood · 2021-10-10T08:15:04+00:00

Just kiss when you have gauged that she wants it, you need to build rapport first, I've made out with 24 girls, but telling men to just go for it is bad advice, if she is comfortable and attracted to you then you seduce, that's just mystery method stages of pick up, first attraction, then comfort, then seduction time, this whole process takes 3-10 hours, so ideally you should be kissing after an hour or two at least, however my fastest make out was 30 seconds, mind you this was the 3rd girl that night so jealousy played a factor

reveillemoname · 2021-10-10T08:17:48+00:00

Hello, woman here, please don’t fucking do this

One-Awareness9491 · 2021-10-10T06:20:34+00:00

Fucking creep

boycott-mondays · 2021-10-10T09:27:23+00:00

lol bro this is reddit, full of neckbeards and feminists. You're discovering that in the real world, physicality is more about sensing micro expressions, eye contact, smiles etc and then going for the kill. These autists are going to discourage you because you're basically a rapist in their eyes, but trust me when I say you're golden. Obviously if you get the cheek, then leave the girl alone, but theres nothing wrong with going for it if all the signals say "go".

BanalityOfMan · 2021-10-10T05:55:18+00:00

Wow. Creepy.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-10T05:30:15+00:00

Dates? Lays? Or do you only care about kissing girls?

Also I wouldn't ever ask girls if they have boyfriends as you'll kill your chances with a ton of girls who wouldn't slept with you.. but now that she told you, she feels guilty, and it's game over.

invinciblethoughts · 2021-10-10T09:27:36+00:00

Wow! People here thinks it's creepy? It's in clubbing environment. Do you think they were dancing 6 feet apart?

He said, he first approach and dance with girls not go randomly and just go for the kiss. He's building comfort, getting close physically, building tension and arousal, he shows his intent with body language.

This obviously wouldn't work on other environment. You guys are pretty quick to judge people.

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2021-10-10T09:29:19+00:00

Ho activities. Yes it can work. But mostly it won't. Someyimes you get lucky and the first or within the first few tries of something, it works, but that doesnt mean its a good rule. It means its a coincidence. If you should learn anything, its that so much of this shit ia oure coincidence and you huat gotta keep your head up after you fail.

CommercialFig344 · 2021-10-10T12:38:01+00:00

I mean, just go for the kiss once you’ve have danced with the girl and have a connection with her. Not out of the blue mate!

ImmortalZ0dd · 2021-10-10T10:46:17+00:00

This reminds me of a college party back in the day..

Spent half the party bartending for my buddy for his bday house party.. flirting with the girls and getting tipped by the guys for mixing great drinks.

I spoke with a BFF of my friends gf afterwards.. I was a little tipsy at the time and I was feeling some serious attraction vibes when I spoke to her.

Leaned in and started kissing her outta nowhere. Immediately afterwards I said "I don't know why I did that.. but I just had to"

We had awesome sex afterwards and kept it a secret (mostly). A true ONS.

That shit will definitely work... if you time it appropriately!

shzoom1 · 2021-10-10T18:11:03+00:00

Welll this js borderline assault so no thanks

Blaphrodite · 2021-10-10T21:01:56+00:00

Someone is going to punch you in the mouth if you keep doing this.

Not the desperate girl in the club though. Imagine how you’ll feel when she tells you that you sexually assaulted her. Hopefully like the big cohones head honcho

ScarletLetters4U · 2021-10-10T08:10:57+00:00

Wtf ewww. No. Just no. 👎

AvocadoCatnip · 2021-10-10T10:47:51+00:00

You should be able to kiss 5 girls a night in a decent club. At least, you could in the 00's, clubbing seems to have gone downhill.

Look, you can still (AND SHOULD, MUST...) get consent if you go for a fast makeout like this.

Basically give her the chance to reject it or get out of it. Escalate fast but keep eye contact with her, pause long enough for her to figure out what is happening. Most girls are up for it.

Moikepdx · 2021-10-10T17:00:30+00:00

You created emotion and drama. You created a story in her mind where she is a main character, not just another person in the bar. And you were the other main character. She wanted to know where the story goes.

You just experienced life as alpha.

dotchandler · 2021-10-10T17:19:38+00:00

Creep alert also enjoy ur herpes

nomadiclives · 2021-10-10T10:54:01+00:00

This is sexual harassment. Don’t do it

Due-Librarian-1268 · 2021-10-10T20:05:26+00:00

Trump ?

3Equilibrium · 2021-10-10T06:40:29+00:00

I had success with this but last time I did it she backed away. First time I ever missed the signs so much and that made me question myself and my confidence in doing it in future, so lately I've been leaving it too late. So much so one girl last month literally said "if we don't kiss soon this is going to get awkward". Now I realise she was flirting with me but just for fun and I shouldn't be so wary of kissing. Even if it was me not reading her I still shouldn't be put off in future going earlier than other guys.

Op-Toe-Mus-Rim-Dong · 2021-10-10T13:30:11+00:00

I think your logic and technique are sound. However, public vs private displays of this are very different and should be taken on an individual approach. I can tell you are wrong because you don’t see the value in risk assessment here. You kissing this dude’s gf could have left you bloody and in a pulp in the alleyway. However, the physical element and vibes you are giving off seem to be on point.

ebmnm · 2021-10-10T13:50:50+00:00

Overall bad advise. I would say it could work if your dancing with her and shes very receptive but usually a bad move. What if shes just having fun and her boyfriend is there you need to at least talk to her first

urelatedissues · 2021-10-10T16:05:38+00:00

Do not just go for the kiss, it may sometimes work in a club but not all the time and it also depends on the kind of club, you have to gauge the moment. If the time is right go for it. If its not then dont, better to be patient than labelled a creep

Havregrot2000 · 2021-10-10T16:11:50+00:00

Being causal and on the make at the same time is an art. I would recommend watching Californication and summon your inner Hank Moody 😎 He is the boss of everything related to hooking up.

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