Wanna know why rejection hurts so bad/ why you have oneitis/ why your self esteem is so tied to women? It might be because you don't have anything better in your life.

What I mean is that you should always have other hobbies/goals/aspirations that you can work on. I got flaked on a couple of times this week, but honestly I wasn't bothered as it gave me some free time to work on a videography project.

If I didn't have this, I would've been up in my feelings, feeling all sorry for myself.

Coincidentally, I think this is how you display an abundance mindset, and display that your time is valuable. By actually making your time valuable.

It doesn't even matter what your hobbies are - whether it's building a business, long distance running, or model trains. As long as you have things in your life that are important to you, and you are passionate about them and prioritise them, then you will automatically begin to display higher "value" and be in a much better mindspace for game/seduction.

TL;DR : get some hobbies bro