epiphany

TofuTofu · 2011-03-29T19:56:09+00:00

Nailed it!

Welcome to seddit, brother.

thirtysixred · 2011-03-29T22:36:17+00:00

I had a sudden realization while walking down the street one day.

"I'm the catch, not them"

thesacred · 2011-03-29T23:44:18+00:00

These types of posts always remind me of this exchange from The Big Lebowski:

Jackie Treehorn: People forget the brain is the biggest erogenous zone.
The Dude: On you, maybe.

Pick-up is about being awesome and happy. For you, maybe.

As for me, I'm not interested in "attracting all women" or in social climbing or self-esteem coaching or any of that. I like myself and my life just fine. That doesn't preclude an interest in learning and sharing techniques for getting a high-quality woman into bed and into a relationship.

Granted, I'm definitely am outsider here. And I think this illustrates why. As does the discrepancy between the number of upvotes on this post vs. the upvotes (or lack thereof) on everything I've ever tried to post.

mcjoey · 2011-03-29T19:41:37+00:00

seconded. this is what i tell my mates when they question seduction. theres no magic thing u can whisper in a girls ear to take her home. but there is a a way you can live your life which will draw women to you

General_Awesome · 2011-03-29T16:31:16+00:00

I'm a happy person. Have been all of my life...

But I only attracted 1 person, she wasn't my type, so I said 'no' to her (in a pretty bad way, I regret it actually)

Now, I'm trying to attract other women, but for some reason, I'm a chicken that doesn't dare to approach them, although I'm learning how to (with some progress)

Just wanted to say that it isn't really easy to get the women, just by being awesome and happy. But it sure helps alot (I think)

TheRealBFG · 2011-03-30T00:33:27+00:00

Exactly. Be cool for yourself. Face your fears. Conquer the universe!

yokhai · 2011-03-30T01:54:05+00:00

welcome to the club, now go attract me a sammich.

seventhirteen · 2011-03-30T01:22:06+00:00

FUCK YEAH! :D

blackdevildisco · 2011-03-29T22:57:01+00:00

So why does every FR center around interactions with females? Serious question. I see a lot of self-help mumbo jumbo around here, and that's all nice, but I feel like everyone's in denial about Seddit. This is a subreddit to help you get pussy. Nothing more, nothing less. There's nothing wrong with trying to get pussy, per se, but it's dishonest to be like "No, I'm really just trying to improve my own self-worth and inner peace by fucking this guy's girlfriend!"

talkstojeebus · 2011-03-30T00:24:39+00:00

I am attracted already!

taraka · 2011-03-30T13:46:24+00:00

I disagree with one thing though, people won't "magically" flock to you if you don't try.

Unless you have something really good going for you.

Title	epiphany
Author	nomznomznomz
Upvotes	185
Comments	50
Date	March 29, 2011 3:23 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gdz9m/epiphany/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/epiphany.1316848 https://theredarchive.com/post/1316848

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