Is 3 dates in less than a week too much?

Detectiverice · 2025-03-29T14:03:56+00:00

Grain of salt, I’ve only recently gotten back into dating again.

In my opinion, If the vibes are great and she’s down, why not? Find out when she’s free to cook a meal together. If it’s before your vacation, great. If not, then you have that date after.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-03-29T14:47:27+00:00

No it’s fine. When you have good chemistry the rules don’t matter. Try to have sex on the next one waiting too long for that can ruin things.

GaryOak7 · 2025-03-29T14:12:26+00:00

Space it out dude, feelings develop when you’re away from the person, not with them.

She needs to miss you. You’re too available and you’ll hit a wall very soon where she pulls back and you’ll become frantic.

LIVELYVIBEZ · 2025-03-29T15:55:06+00:00

Sounds like she’s down to get a little bit more intimate since y’all already talking about meeting up at each other’s house. Literally just tell her what you’re telling us and I’m sure you’ll be fine.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-03-29T14:47:16+00:00

If it’s just for a hookup I wouldn’t say it’s too much. Maybe both of you clicked on sexual level and can’t wait to get there. Totally fine.

But if you think she could be compatible for a long term relationship, I would just take it slow. In my experiences if something comes fast it could leave fast easily too. Easy come easy go. But anyway there’s no writing in stone on how often is too often.

ChicoBrillo · 2025-03-29T15:20:14+00:00

If you’re really into her and it’s mutual who cares?

SalamanderNo3872 · 2025-03-29T19:31:19+00:00

Nope

actingasevan · 2025-03-29T20:33:01+00:00

I once saw a girl 4 days in a row after our first date. We just vibed really well and enjoyed each other’s company — we dated for a few months and was getting serious before ending things. So I don’t think there’s a right or wrong approach. It just depends!

Plastic_Friendship55 · 2025-03-30T20:38:18+00:00

Go with the vibes. In the early phase of dating you don't know her so you can't date to much.

I dated a girl 4 times within 5 days. Sex on the first date and things were great until I found out she was crazy. I'm glad I found out the first 5 days and not 5 weeks if I had dated her once a week.

Which-Return-607 · 2025-03-29T14:28:09+00:00

I would say yes too much. Reach out but set a date after your vacation imo, gives you time to see if your current feelings are valid

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-03-29T15:09:04+00:00

Casanova over here

Mc_Dickles · 2025-03-29T17:20:39+00:00

That’s pretty high yeah but ay if you got it like that then go ahead

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-03-29T18:00:40+00:00

Had to scroll your profile for a couple seconds to gauge your age. I was thinking you were either 18-21 or over 65. For a 29 year old, that is pretty needy and kind of demonstrates that you don't have much else going on. Try to space them out. The interim periods will also fuel more conversation on dates and give you both time to evaluate the situation.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-03-29T14:56:41+00:00

If the vibes are good she probably likes you. Girls pull back when they don't like you as a soft rejection. Girls still pull back all the same when they do like you in order to test how preselected you are. They may or may not know they are testing you, it is natural, it's a safety mechanism..

Pull back before she does. Men develop feelings through time together, women develop feelings via time apart. I personally would disappear and not touch base until I get back from vacation. Then she is wondering "why didn't he call?, what's he doing on vacation?, is there another woman involved?". Then when you come back her clothes will probably fall off.

Title	Is 3 dates in less than a week too much?
Author	trustmeiminnocent
Upvotes	8
Comments	23
Date	March 29, 2025 1:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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