Have You Tried Not Being a lil Bitch?

seduction-ModTeam · 2026-08-11T01:47:59+00:00

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blastobassddboi · 2026-08-10T16:44:38+00:00

Literally all we see. WORK ON YOURSELF GUYS! MAKE YOURSELF FUCKABLE

sexypirates · 2026-08-10T16:44:50+00:00

a lot of ppl have problem with inner game too, changing how you think is probably the hardest part lol

but agreed, 99% of the problems would go away if they got fit and put in the reps talking to ppl

jensonfox · 2026-08-10T17:05:42+00:00

I'm missing a leg, what's the tip?

SarahFemdomFeet · 2026-08-10T16:56:09+00:00

But I thought woman would be sexually attracted to me for my nice guy personality?

/s

No-Forever-7283 · 2026-08-10T21:05:37+00:00

Yeah recently I went to the city and tried to approach and I realized I’m a lil bitch. Spent the whole day trying to approach and only got one approach in. I’m trying to be better. I’ll get there eventually

Dorsiflexionkey · 2026-08-10T21:26:50+00:00

Based and truth pilled op.

Many men here are so fucking concerned with their bitch ass problems that they’d be better off just retardmaxxing. Honestly.

StreetMix90 · 2026-08-10T18:40:32+00:00

not helpful

Sea_Independent_9511 · 2026-08-10T21:43:21+00:00

Gusanin a sus consejos de gusanin ok ok va te creo pero por que tanto insultos no bro estas mal esa la mentalidad y el carácter le gana a todo no es trabajo es el aura. Si tienes que trabajar PARA EL BIENESTAR Y BENEFICIO DE ELLAS NO POR TI OJO POR QUE LA ROPA ETC ETC ES POR ELLAS. Y E VISTO QUE TIENEN. AHORA AHORA SI APLICANDO TODO LO QUE TU DICES Y NADA QUE LE VAS A DECIR TAMBIÉN PERDEDOR MI AMIGO GUSANIN. ESO CONSEJOS BÁSICOS NADIE TE VA A SALVAR PERO MIRA LA REALIDAD Y ACEPTA LAS REGLAS CHAVAL. POR QUE PIENSA VISTO. (como me friega que venga uno a dar moral con insultos si vas a dar consejos te portas con alfa como hombre vas a dar valor, no como tu tío borracho divorciado militar qué tira insultos por que tiene dedos para escribir.)

daviddionut · 2026-08-11T00:12:49+00:00

Honestly just have fun and someone will engage with that

FangsForU · 2026-08-11T01:11:18+00:00

Dude, I 100% agree with this! Fucking A. Men need to man the fuck up and be the captains in their own ship, woman will board once you are ready to set sail.

shortyman920 · 2026-08-10T17:08:17+00:00

Honeslty, what I don’t see suggested or taken here often is therapy. Many of us who struggle approaching women we like have some inner demons blocking us or freezing us.

NotA-Spy · 2026-08-10T19:21:14+00:00

this subreddit sucks

WebNew9978 · 2026-08-10T17:16:23+00:00

I think it’s safe to say that the whole be a man rah rah speech isn’t as effective as it used to be. I also think that this whole no one cares Mo is coming to save you is a big reason as to why the red and black pill are thriving among young men.

Everything has changed in every way and that includes the men today. We now know what women find attractive and don’t. Unfortunately for some of us men, we now know that we’ll never be able to have a romantic and sex life due to things beyond our control.

Like you have said, sex is privilege and only 40% of men reproduce. With all of this info, the ones who know they will never have that privilege will have a reaction that you and many others have. But we don’t have the right to tell those men how they can and can’t react to being left out

Easy_Grocery2199 · 2026-08-10T17:38:24+00:00

In this economy?

EnvironmentalTalk340 · 2026-08-10T21:32:33+00:00

Im not currently in a relationship and neither do I really want one. Dare I say I feel rather empowered when I see those posts and even yet get a little kick of out of seeing people so damn desperate to find self worth/ satisfaction in another. Id rather spend my time improving my self regarding my weakness and strengths but sadly I have arthritis now at the ripe old age of 23. My bad if that sounded a little out of left field but yeah this realization that the sports, working out and stuff alike that I've been so fond of and constantly looking for ways to grow in these last few years has been essentially put down for good, now im just kinda put in a place where I guess ill give this relationship stuff a try. That's my official signature of defeat. I concede to find this satisfaction in another even if I dont care for it one way or another . Cure for arthritis when?

CaptainSprinklePants · 2026-08-10T17:27:05+00:00

Tbf I've met plenty of fat, short, ugly, unemployed guys who live with their parents and still do well with the ladies. It's less about any one of those points as it is the underlying mentality of helplessness and self-pity that tends to accompany it. No woman wants a partner who's going to transfer the relationship they have with their mother and treat their girlfriend like a maid-mommy-therapist.

Put the work in, take ownership of yourself and your life, and self-actualize. Ain't nobody coming to save you but you.

slippy-tiddy · 2026-08-10T17:03:22+00:00

Too true,

Keep doing what you’ve always done, and you’ll keep getting what you’ve always gotten.

MrTerno · 2026-08-10T18:57:44+00:00

Couldn’t agree more bro!! The thing is this community suffers from adverse selection which means ppl come here not because they like seduction or wanna expand their love life but because they can’t pull at all. So that victim mentality ends up being very popular here

Think_Reporter_8179 · 2026-08-10T21:54:10+00:00

Curious, narcissism aside, where did you get the 40% figure?

Aurora--Black · 2026-08-10T17:37:04+00:00

No, people need to stop leaving home. Fhe economy is horrible. It's better for the family unit to stay together than to split up.

You're just doing what the oligarchy wants you to do. Stop supporting them.

Extreme-Bid-5989 · 2026-08-10T17:15:23+00:00

most of the innergame problems come from a weak identity or trauma. to get laid you still have to do the innergame work most of the time. Eliminate the problem at the root not the symptom.

still it's a very good thing to work on yourself don't forget that.

mattintaiwan · 2026-08-11T00:34:36+00:00

Some people take the "support others in the community through constructive criticism and kind advice" approach, others take the "tough love with a bunch of curse words" approach.

Cool, you're doing the latter. Just be aware that nothing you're doing is interesting or unique. But I hope you're getting all the pats on the back you were hoping for.

Title	Have You Tried Not Being a lil Bitch?
Author	plz_callme_swarley
Upvotes	138
Comments	102
Date	August 10, 2026 4:38 PM UTC (1 week ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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