This post is a repost of a deleted post. The reason behind the reposting is because the original post, according to moderator u/Captain_w00t, brought quality content to the r/seduction community.

The following text after the - - - symbols is the original post of which I, u/alexdiezg, take no credit for.

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She Comes First

Read this book. Love this book. Live this book. If you can achieve what this book talks about while also adhering to the r/Seduction values, you will be unstoppable.

Virgins/sexually inexperienced: An eager willingness to try new things, patience, and devotion to your partner's pleasure are the most important sexual qualities to have. Don't worry. With those qualities, you can have the world and you will eventually discover what the book talks about. If you read the book, keep it in mind during your first time.

Knowing how to sexually please a woman is one of the most important steps to seducing one.

In my experience, seduction is all about creating sexual desire in a woman. You are hinting and teasing at your ability to give this woman untold pleasures. Knowing what those pleasures are and how to take her there is essential.

Men have the stereotype as being hypersexual and unable to think about anything else. Well, the truth is that women are the true sexual freaks, friends, gods, demons,...whatever you want to call them. Look at the facts. Women are the only sex to have a dedicated pleasure system (clitoris) that serves no other purpose. The clitoris has double the amount of nerve ending as the penis. Women are more likely to be multi-orgasmic.

There is a catch. In the book, She Comes First, we learn the sad fact that women take around 15 minutes just to become aroused enough to orgasm. Men can go from soft to orgasm in as little to 3 minutes. Imagine having to beat your meat for 15 minutes in order to just get hard and then have to go longer just to orgasm.

Now imagine being a woman and having sex for the first time. You're with some inexperienced man who either orgasms when you touch him or within 30 seconds of entering you. You didn't even get started. You both have no prior experience, so you think that's what sex is. Some people go their entire lives thinking sex is as simple as penis in vagina, man comes, over. The women say "It still feels good!". The man says "I hit that shit for like 10 minutes straight". It is tragic.

Mind trick

Imagine that women are sexual gods. If you stimulate her clit she will feel twice the pleasure you feel when you receive oral. If she orgasms she feels at least twice the pleasure you feel when you orgasm. Imagine you could orgasm consistently to the beat of a song, not just orgasm once and collapse.

If you can properly arouse the woman, you summon this goddess. This goddess capable of receiving multiple orgasms beyond our simple comprehension. You can give her multiple orgasms to the point of being drunk, possessed, no longer in control of her body and actions. Brotha, let me tell you. When you get a woman to this point of ecstasy, the world makes sense. You understand why wars are fought over women. You understand why we save them first in a fire. They are not of this world. And when that goddess, lost in her passions, turns towards you in her pleasure. Begs you to enter her domain. Begs you to give her all of your passion. Oh lawd. Brotha. Shoot me in the fucking head. I could die a happy man lost in the embrace of that shared ecstasy.

Alright. I got a little carried away there. Sometimes, I get high, sip some wine, and listen to a lil Janet.

But man, first ya gotta arouse them. Give them the vibe that you know how to make them orgasm. Tell them you have seen a goddess at work, you have witnessed their ecstasy. Tell them you can take them their. If the woman knows what you are talking about, they will love it. If the woman hasn't been there yet, they will be excited with the anticipation of untold pleasures.

TL;DR: If you know that you can give a woman an orgasm, it can help your mindset when doing pick up. You know you can get a woman off. She knows she can get you off. Now it's an even playing field. You know you're hot shit, she know she's hot shit, now you duel it out.

Don't know what I'm talking about? Listen to these and really try and feel the passionate vibe.

Alicia

Mya

Janet

Lloyd

I'll delete this soon. [Hence the repost by u/alexdiezg]

I was just vibing out and realized that when I read this book and ended up giving a woman multiple orgasms, seduction basically just unfolded in front of me. I have had a ridiculous amount of success since my eureka moment. I feel once I discovered this ability, I was able to tell if a woman had ever orgasmed or not. If they had, they were turned on by my confidence. If they hadn't, it almost scared them.