She liked my message when I asked her out?

appolonysian · 2024-06-27T14:18:30+00:00

Just leave it. Best case she comes around, worst case you don’t hear from her again but didn’t get ghosted chasing a woman who didn’t want you. Win win.

IamWisdom · 2024-06-27T13:58:58+00:00

Typical girl. Just move on

870P_ · 2024-06-27T15:58:14+00:00

No one is that busy. That’s especially true for women. If my golf buddy shoots me a text, asking if I want to play a round of golf on Saturday afternoon, I reply. I say sure, what time? I say I wish I could, but my son has a little game, can we go Sunday instead or I say thanks, but I gave up golf.

Women typically are less busy than men. Their days are filled with a lot of fluff and little substance. Women are extremely fickle. They live for the moment. They are materialistic. They always have a plan “B” man. Don’t let her play you. Don’t be that guy.

OuchCharlieOw · 2024-06-27T16:04:50+00:00

Probably has to do with how far out you asked

Tatleman68 · 2024-06-27T11:01:46+00:00

Wait for at least a da because she might be busy, and ask if she had time to react on the invite.

Other than that, just move on nate

cemj86 · 2024-06-27T17:48:00+00:00

Worry about the other girls you have asked out. Oh wait you haven't, because if you did you wouldn't be worried about the one tap of the screen from one uninterested woman.

Brother keep applying yourself over and over and over again until you get the desired results. Not every woman will like you, not every woman will use you for attention but every woman WILL do what they want and if that want isn't you then like I said keep applying. The last thing you want is to be stuck on the one.

miyass_miyass · 2024-06-27T17:58:10+00:00

What kind of answer would you expect? You didn't really suggest a concrete plan or anything. Honestly her response is totally reasonable.

Try again next week but in future ask girls out when there's actually a time you can give them

You wanted to lock her in out of nervousness and fearing you'll lose her if you don't ask her out right away

PossibilityNo8765 · 2024-06-27T23:38:45+00:00

Women suck..she probably waiting to see if a more exciting plan happens. Her friends might go out that night.... I'm sorry dating is such a shit show in 2024

gtaIIIstan · 2024-06-27T14:32:08+00:00

And does she actually know that you're busy this weekend? If not, it sounds like you're kicking the can down the road. So you can't exactly complain about her less than fully enthusiastic response. Next wknd is also eons away and she might not want to commit to/know her schedule for a whole week away. What's missing here is calibration.

The first step for me is always saying WHAT I want the date to be ("chill bar" "new rooftop" "chill drinks in the park"). THEN once I get agreement on that, I get a sense of her schedule and tell her mine if relevant. This is when you'd say something like "I'm actually going away this wknd and then it's 4th of July... how's next wknd looking?" When you carry yourself this way and she's still being meh then you have the right to be annoyed. But not the way you ran the interaction.

In any case, I would circle back end of the weekend with a value-giving statement about the wknd/4th of July etc, and then if the vibe is good, move back to the idea of date. You could even be assumptive: "so are you still around this wknd" etc

DaygameCode · 2024-06-27T11:00:10+00:00

It means she is acknowledging that she read your text to not leave you on seen, but that she is not committing to anything and would rather not give explanations as to why cuz she doesn’t really owe them to you.

Next time; you want to make sure that if you suggest a plan it actually the same week and not two weeks in advance, and that you build up towards getting her excited which involves getting her to feel in a joyful mood, and also suggesting an specific date activity that gets her anticipating the day instead of just saying stuff like: “wanna go out with me sometime?” or “wanna do something” or “we should go out”.

If your plan to ask her out isn’t specific she won’t get excited for it. If you are trying to get her to decide what she wants to do, so that you adapt to her preferences, she also won’t like that because its not her job to decide where to go or what to do during a date.

So yeah, be specific, suggest an specific date plan, suggest an specific date, time and location, don’t try to insinuate that you are willing to do whatever she wants if she doesn’t like your proposition, and don’t ask two weeks in advance.

And lastly, know that even if girls agree to go on a date with you, they will very likely change their mind if something better comes up even at the last minute, so the more in advance you plan something, specially something that isn’t even specific or exciting will likely get turned down.

awaalehimself · 2024-06-27T13:29:33+00:00

Let's just be straight up, asking girls out straight away is boring, lazy and predictable. It gives her too much to think about and she'll just feel overwhelmed and not run.

Instead. You qualify her first, subtly screen for logistics then invite her to something cool you'd already be doing anyway and her coming is a bonus.

BayCsre · 2024-06-27T14:43:04+00:00

I’m with her now. I’ll tell her you’re impatient and need an answer right away.

Powerful-Ad9392 · 2024-06-27T15:31:23+00:00

Assume she's down to hook up. Tell her when and where you're going to meet up with her.

Epiphanic_Eros · 2024-06-27T17:10:44+00:00

Don’t sweat it. She was probably offended that you scheduled something so far out

Affectionate_Gene782 · 2024-06-27T17:44:04+00:00

Woman here - she liked it because she was flattered but she wasn’t interested and didn’t know what to say/didnt want to hurt your feelings

HJGamer · 2024-06-27T22:33:15+00:00

You need a fuck yes, if not then she's probably not worth it

Clean_Awareness_4233 · 2024-06-28T02:27:03+00:00

Send her a message after a day. Tell her some like " don't think to hard now" it's nonchalant and not begging

VrilHunter · 2024-06-28T07:18:42+00:00

Not interested. Move on.

private256 · 2024-06-27T12:01:52+00:00

I know a girl who likes a message and then writes a response, sometimes 2 days later. She’s just that busy. There’s no romantic either ways though.

artefakt2013 · 2024-06-27T16:47:13+00:00

Next biggest lie, "I don't have notifications on." Meanwhile, I've sat next to her and hear/see all 13 app icon notifs on her screen

sleepydevil25 · 2024-07-14T03:01:19+00:00

lol dude this happened to me two weeks ago - said let’s get food sometime, and she just liked my message.

She then just tried to casually keep this convo going with other topics. Responded to even my Instagram stories. And I entertained the idea by chatting with her for few days. But still, no mention or reply to let’s get food sometime. Nada.

I’m just not gonna message her anymore or when I see her in person, will just be friendly to her. Clearly she’s just not that into me.

Aristox · 2024-06-27T15:32:52+00:00

Give it up to 24 hours since the like and then text her something like "Does that like mean yes haha? You wanna meet me at [bar] on [day] at [time]? I especially like that place cause [reason], I think we'd have a lot of fun"

lolothe2nd · 2024-06-27T12:30:20+00:00

It's a response I would comment ok nice knowing you and see If it provoke a response..

Title	She liked my message when I asked her out?
Author	Standard-Metal3161
Upvotes	20
Comments	45
Date	June 27, 2024 10:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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