Start ignoring her

Miguelito624 · 2016-05-09T21:00:53+00:00

Yep, this does work sometimes. I've found girls that respond to this are not worth effort/time, which is why I started ignoring them. It's an annoying game I don't play. Good luck.

Fly_MartinZ · 2016-05-09T23:48:47+00:00

Ever hear of the D.E.N.N.I.S. system?

didled · 2016-05-10T02:27:20+00:00

This is basically a douchey guide on how to get immature women.

Stevie_Stacks · 2016-05-10T00:42:28+00:00

Works. While it's true playing games like this is something petty or "immature" chicks may do, I see your hustle pimp just tryna get some booty. Hell if she's fine too got no problem hittin that that and then throwing her the deuce while you heely tf out her house.

dotisinjail · 2016-05-09T20:56:50+00:00

She sounds petty

Roamingkillerpanda · 2016-05-09T23:30:46+00:00

OP, this woman sounds incredibly petty. Why even bother?

a_nus · 2016-05-10T00:49:36+00:00

This works because you're portraying that she's not your top priority. You got other shit to do. You're not a chump that just sits around and thinks about her all day.

Funny thing is that even if you are a chump thinking about her all day (let's face it, many of us on this sub), you can still consciously ignore her and it'll still work for a limited time, until she reads through your bullshit, which she eventually will.

The main takeaway should be that you should get to the point to where you're subconsciously ignoring her. Improve your life, get awesome hobbies, and keep yourself so busy that you're not thinking about girls every 20 seconds. And honestly, that applies to many of the "seduction techniques" you read on here. The goal shouldn't be to memorize and apply certain techniques. Although it's necessary at first, the end goal should always be to get yourself to a point in life where you ooze confidence naturally, and assuming you're not autistic, the rest should fall into place.

ALetterFromHome · 2016-05-10T01:31:59+00:00

This is inconsistent advice. Depending on the situation. It's likely you'll just come off as an asshole and she will move on to someone else.

This is kid's stuff. Girls over 25 are not going to respond positively to these kind of games.

tony1449 · 2016-05-10T02:34:38+00:00

Read his post history, he's a fake. He sounds really unhappy and miserable. Work on inner game before pledging yourself to the red pill.

koolbro2012 · 2016-05-10T06:15:16+00:00

I, too, played childish games when I was in middle school.

getRedPill · 2016-05-10T12:33:39+00:00

While it's true this might work, in first place you should be aware this works only on some type of girl. The kind isn't that worthy in first place. She is like sugar, sweet the first seconds but then cloys your tastes and finally becomes harmful for your health.

Secondly and more important, you should do this, yes, but not because but not because of her, but because of you, your self-esteem. Whether you are avoiding a bigger head-ache or childish games.

Woujo · 2016-05-10T17:06:36+00:00

I'm tired of people giving advice as if they were general laws based on something ONE GIRL did. Every girl is different. yes, some girls will become attracted to you if you ignore them. Those girls are usually shitty and have low self-esteem. And girls who play these games will usually turn it right back on you once you start to like them. You're not going to catch anybody impressive with this tactic.

Also, getting a hug and a number is not something worth writing a post about.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-05-10T05:30:31+00:00

For this to work you need to first build a strong connection before trying this.

So I was talking to this girl at school, we got a long really well so I asked for her #. She said she doesn't give it out so easily.....

This isn't a strong connection. This is superficial banter at best.

I started ignoring her for the last 2 weeks because I have abundance.....

.....today I was walking to my class than she gave me the biggest hug infront of everyone in my class.......She gave me her number before she left.

So you see what happened here? She didn't want you when you were being normal and reachable. (Which is, by no means, needy.) That means she wasn't really attracted.

Then she wanted you after you "ignored" her. So what gives?

So I realised ignoring a girl really makes her miss you a lot. She starts thinking about you more, and probably puts you on a pedestal.

Nope.

What you did was activate interest based on the thrill of the hunt. Can you see the potential problem there? She's only showing interest when you're pushing her away. The interest is not based on who you are as a person.

This might be okay if you wanted a one off fling or a fling with a shelf life, but it won't work for anything longer. Because she'll need consistent distance in order for the chase to be enough to attract her.

You won't be free to be yourself if you want to stick around. Of course it's great if you don't want to stick around. All you need to do to end it in those cases, is basically stop playing games. The moment you stop, she'll be out.

Tentaye · 2016-05-09T23:46:13+00:00

Hmm. Good advice. Now all I need are tutorial on how to build string connections and we are go.

average_latino · 2016-05-10T01:19:38+00:00

The first step to getting someone to miss you is to get gone in first place.

AttractandSeduce · 2016-05-10T01:24:52+00:00

True story. For those who haven't tried this technique, It works BEST if you do it AFTER she has already EMOTIONALLY invested in you.

If you do it BEFORE, it's not much of a big deal to her.

2016-05-10T03:39:02+00:00

I don't get it. You can't be friendly despite not getting a number? This sub is supposed to make you more confident. I think you're confusing that with arrogance and hostility.

Speedingscript · 2016-05-10T16:33:15+00:00

So I realised ignoring a girl really makes her miss you a lot. She starts thinking about you more, and probably puts you on a pedestal.

Usually a girl pulling this shit is going to ignore you when you give in so she can feel better about herself.

I've met plenty of girls like her. Be nice, don't be rude and even greet her if she says hi, just don't ever get in her game. Trust me, I have punched myself a lot of times bc of this. Totally not worth it.

Fly_MartinZ · 2016-05-09T23:48:20+00:00

Where was there a strong connection built between you and the girl from class? I missed that part...

vardarac · 2016-05-10T04:44:47+00:00

Relevant XKCD

https://xkcd.com/800/

mad-n-fla · 2016-05-10T09:29:18+00:00

I can vouch for the opposite, never be "in love" with an ex who doesn't care the same for you, or she never will.

zomgitsduke · 2016-05-10T10:48:13+00:00

If a girl wants to play hard to get, make that a 1-player game.

V4refugee · 2016-05-10T15:58:33+00:00

Ah yes, the Dennis system.

DrManagoni · 2016-05-10T08:44:45+00:00

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Start ignoring her

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WORKS. WHILE IT'S TRUE PLAYING GAMES LIKE THIS IS SOMETHING PETTY OR "IMMATURE" CHICKS MAY DO, I SEE YOUR HUSTLE PIMP JUST TRYNA GET SOME BOOTY. HELL IF SHE'S FINE TOO GOT NO PROBLEM HITTIN THAT THAT AND THEN THROWING HER THE DEUCE WHILE YOU HEELY TF OUT HER HOUSE.

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WORKS. WHILE IT'S TRUE PLAYING GAMES LIKE THIS IS SOMETHING PETTY OR "IMMATURE" CHICKS MAY DO, I SEE YOUR HUSTLE PIMP JUST TRYNA GET SOME BOOTY. HELL IF SHE'S FINE TOO GOT NO PROBLEM HITTIN THAT THAT AND THEN THROWING HER THE DEUCE WHILE YOU HEELY TF OUT HER HOUSE.

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