A girl emails you back a month later. You think Sally might like you. Your Tinder girl flaked but wants to meet up tomorrow. A girl initially rejects you but wants you a month later.

You log onto to reddit and ask us what you should do.

That is toxic. Why? Because it shows that you are afraid to fail, and it shows a lack of self confidence. A self confident man wouldn't log onto reddit and ask what he should do in a situation. A confident man just does. A confident man may make a mistake. But he makes the choice to learn and move on from it. Next time he won't make that mistake. Asking a bunch of random people on the internet what you should do doesn't help you AT ALL.

If they are right then you are relying on others and not yourself.

If the are wrong then you have someone to blame.

In any situation with women just take action. The best teacher with girls are girls. And what I mean by that is the best way to learn this stuff is to fuck it up. Go fall in love a few times and fuck up the relationships. You'll learn a lot.

But using this subreddit as a crutch will only hurt you.

llama