Y'all motherfuckers overthink way too much.

There's just no need to overcomplicate and overanalyze things. Don't think, feel. Just go for it. Don't hesitate. Don't try to plan every single step. Take it easy. Everything is in constant flux so you can never plan perfectly for all situations. It's better to adapt in the moment and match the vibe.

That doesn't mean to be passive and inactive but it means to not stress about trivial things and just go for it.

She's not responding to your messages? Oh my god what could this mean? Have I insulted her ancestors? How do I get her to like me!? Just stop. Girls flaking on dates? Good. That means they were never worth your time in the first place. Don't take it as a jab at your personality or looks. Just accept it for what it is and move on to the next one. No matches on Tinder? Fuck Tinder. Actually go outside and meet people. Too scared to put yourself out there and meet people in bars? If you can talk to female coworkers then you can literally already talk to any woman.

Instead of racking your brains about scenarios and pickup lines and how to carry on the conversation literally just go for it. You can talk about fucking anything. As long as they are not an asshole or busy most people will be receptive to you. A girl is looking at you more than once and has maintained eye contact for a few seconds? That's a primitive caveman signal for you to go ooga booga over to them and start courting.

Be confident in yourself. Believe you are the sexiest baddest motherfucker in the world. But don't just believe it, actually take action to become that person.

You basically just need to be attractive in SOME FORM and not be an autist. Being attractive doesn't mean to be 10/10 gigachad supermodel. It means to be the very best version of yourself and to be desirable. Even if you are a 4/10 you can literally bump yourself up by a few points by working out, doing skincare, being fashionable, eating and sleeping well, and being a genuine person who is capable of normal human contact. If you are a skinny/fat and weak piece of shit who stays in the room and plays League of Legends all day, would you even want to be your friend? To be desirable to other people you need to be desirable to yourself first.

The universe is basically infinite and this planet we are living on is a tiny ass speck of dust. The universe doesn't care and the world doesn't give a damm if you get turned down by a girl at the club or if something shameful or embarrassing happens to you so why should you?

JUST DO IT.