Social anxiety? Approach anxiety? Scared of rejection?

Fuck approaching, fuck rejection

You tell yourself

"tonight.. I am not getting laid."

There you go, go out tonight, and just talk to people. There will be zero pressure, but don't solely focus on just scanning the room, being inside your head, worried about rejection.

Trust me, you will feel so free. Your goal in this is to GET TO KNOW someone, after you bash in your approach anxiety you start to realize, some of the hot women you approach, are just shallow and clueless. Or maybe her voice is weird, or maybe she's a trump supporter.. You'll never know.. She is human too.

Your only goal is to go and have fun, don't forget to chat up dudes, girls you would never think about having sex with, older people, etc, it doesn't matter.

Be social, have a good time, don't get hung up on just going up to hot girls and getting rejected. If she doesn't want to talk to you, well then whatever, you're just getting to know people, no harm done.

I did this last time I went out after a really bad weekend before, and man, you feel free.

I just wanted to say something else which someone pointed out to me, I have had a long history with pickup, and if you get an outside perspective sometimes things will be shown to you that aren't really clear to you.

I was looking at women like an object, I totally fucking FORGOT to treat them like another human, just be there to listen to what they have to say, where they're from, what they like, make a real, genuine connection. I had to take one on the chin, but I became a better person after I started realizing what I was doing. A lot of these pick up vids and strats are just pure manipulation, I'm not trying to manipulate anyone into bed, I'd rather hear what the girl has to say and make a decision from there..