Your “Average Man” is Not Enough

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-06-22T12:27:55+00:00

Hope you learn this life lesson earlier than I did.

Feeling sorry for yourself, acting like a victim, and being jealous of others will only lead to misery.

You feel like a loser because you have a loser’s mentality. If you’re actually serious about changing, take ownership of your problems. The victim mindset is addictive because it gives a false sense of security.

If you want the life of a millionaire, then complaining on Reddit won’t get you there. In most instances, self-made millionaires had to put in a ton of work, get rejected, have others shit on their dream, yet they still pursued it.

montanalombardy · 2022-06-22T13:43:12+00:00

Dude stop it.

Billions of average men have had sex though the history of mankind. The average woman is attracted to the average man.

Yes, some people are more fortunate. They are born rich, or look like a model, or have a talent that makes them famous. So they live awesome lives. But that is the 0.1% of people and you can't compare yourself to them.

Guess what, guys who are dumber, uglier, fatter, poorer than you are getting laid right now. There is nothing stopping you except your low self esteem.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-22T13:16:09+00:00

Your big problem is not that you are average but rather that you hate yourself.

That attitude is what turns women off. And even if you claim that you don’t show this attitude to women, they can smell it.

Women have a 6th sense to smell insecurity in a guy, they can tell because the difference between a guy who is truly confident and a guy who just pretends to be confident is very noticeable. .

BigBrownBicep · 2022-06-22T16:34:59+00:00

You can hate yourself and be unsatisfied with your life and still get laid if you can work through it and take action.. sounds like you aren’t though and your game is just weak

tractorinballs · 2022-06-22T14:05:11+00:00

Your last paragraph is everything. The internet has tons of fake BS on it my dude. Those “rich” kids aren’t the only people getting laid. Also, adjust your standards.

potatoeswithfries · 2022-06-22T12:25:06+00:00

I'm shorter than you, probably average in many ways, and I have no problem with getting women. I mean, I'm not getting laid like a rockstar, but I also haven't really been lonely for even a day in the past couple of years.

The problem is not that you are average, the problem is that you are dissatisfied with yourself and that you're giving up. And it doesn't even sound like there's anything wrong with you, outside of the way you're thinking, so you're beating yourself up for no good reason.

I look at all these rich 18-22 year olds on the internet and get envious.

This is your biggest problem. I'm guessing Instagram. Instagram is making people insecure. Get off of it.

Then stop with the "incel" self-identification, since you're not one, you just haven't even properly tried to get a girlfriend. Read this, then get out of the house and talk to women. It will get better.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-23T07:37:28+00:00

Bro you still gonna be an incel while you hate yourself and hate everything and everyone around you. You know what the single biggest things are that makes the difference between successful guys and average guys? Simply habits and mindset. You you're thinking the same thought as a guy who doesn't get girls and you're doing the things that you normally do sure everything's gonna be the same. So you have to act differently, behave differently and think differently then magical things can happen

Marcoscondit · 2022-06-23T19:06:36+00:00

I hear people say this and think it’s bs . My neighbor is a fat soy boy looking dork and he’s dating one of my sisters best friend who is fine Af, and no he’s not rich or tall, been together a minute, I know a guy I worked with who is 43 looking 50 , he ain’t rich was a cook at a fast food place and I found out he was banging this fine 19 year old I was trying to fuck and this dude short bald dark and fat honestly I still almost puke thinking about it and I knew that girl for a while she wasn’t a hoe either she actually rejected alot of guys at my work so it was more shocking she chose that dude other girls couldn’t believe it either

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2022-06-22T13:08:02+00:00

With this attitude, youll never get laid. I guarantee it.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2022-06-23T03:25:24+00:00

I guess kill yourself then? Not even sure what the point of this post is other than childish crying and trying to get emotional validation from people on the internet. Quit being a fucking baby and BECOME above average. Go to the gym. Dress edgier/sexier. Go approach girls and talk to them and get better at it. Do anything other than be a little whiny baby on the internet. And get the fuck off Instagram and whatever dumbass apps you have. The universe doesn't care that you're sad. You'll either get what you want or you won't. It's up to you. I swear to God, some people.

epimpstyle · 2022-06-22T17:42:05+00:00

You said that "women look at me from time to time"... but the question is what are you doing at that moment?

Maybe you don't like the girl who is looking at you? Why don't you talk to her?

Nani21k · 2022-06-22T17:52:12+00:00

Bro just take a deep ass breath and chill, it seems like your insecurities are fucking with your mindset, for you to think this way, listen up my friend, dont ever do something for other people just to please them, and make them like you, and those people you are envious over, are just like you and every single person out there, just with more money thats all, but suprise suprise that may not make them more likeable nor will girls flock around them, if thats all they care about, wich is the end results of a loser with no life, and even guys dont like those who are like that

Tactical_INTJ · 2022-06-22T19:35:14+00:00

If you ever feel too weak, just watch those UFC fighters who are way out of their prime still risking their lives inside the octagon for some money.

If that can happen, you can sure go out and talk to some girls to brighten your day at least.

alent3976 · 2022-06-22T20:07:06+00:00

so do something about it

SadBox4529 · 2022-06-22T20:12:33+00:00

19……stop right there. Dude what the hell are you stressing about you’re still a baby. How’s the best time to get a skill, eduction or qualification. You’ll be 23 or 24 when you graduate. Hit on chicks but don’t hate yourself man. Wtf??? You have a whole world a head of you.

rudebwoy100 · 2022-06-22T20:39:32+00:00

Unless your goal is have some kind of a harem in a mansion/castle somewhere you shouldn't have issues attracting a woman. Get over your insecurities and put yourself out there my guy.

Title	Your “Average Man” is Not Enough
Author	peterpantheman69
Upvotes	6
Comments	55
Date	June 22, 2022 11:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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