Okay guys.... 2 kids (2 and 5) I make more money than her. House in her dad's name. We took over the mortgage, lived there for 8 years together and her dad only lived there for 2 years before we moved in together.

She's told me to move out and take nothing and she's going to put the house in her name after I'm out of the house.

I've talked to my lawyer, showed him texts/FB posts/bank statements/home improvements on the house and he Says I have more than enough info to sue her and her dad for a settlement from the house if she's not willing to give me anything to move out.

The problem is, she can't afford an increased mortgage. If I get my portion (about 1/3rd) it will add about 100k onto the mortgage which she will NOT be able to afford. Meaning the kids will be forced out of their house (it's 50/50 custody, I'm going to be forced back into my parents house because the market is fucked)

She has NUMEROUSLY told me to "get out, take nothing and figure it out". This obviously pisses me off for her having ZERO empathy for me being forced out of the house.

I've also offered to buy the house off her. I said I would pay her + her dad combined 130k for the house. Gives her 80k and gives her dad his down payment back. She's said hell no to that.

So the debate is.... Do I sue? Risk all out war with the ex? I'm 100% certain I have a case. I have lots of texts from her and her dad saying the house is OURS now and we OWN it.

If I walk away with nothing she is going to take over the 80k remaining on the mortgage and have dirt cheap bills to pay while I struggle for the next several years trying to save up for my kids.

What do I do....