I've had a lot of success dating since the ex moved out and just want to share a few pieces of advice for you men who may be getting ready to start this.

  1. Prioritize your health over women at all times. I tell every woman I don't talk or text after 8pm because that's time for me to power down and prep for the next day. If you let them, they will FaceTime and text you until 1am. Establish a hard break for all communication.

  2. If you plan to have a few drinks on a date, Uber to the date, Uber back home. This has saved my ass. A lot of the times I'll do dinner and then we'll keep the night going by walking to a new restaurant and having a drink. You get a DUI and your life is going to be wrecked. I'd rather pay $150 uber through the night than a night in jail and $10k in lawyer fees.

  3. Confidence. I tell them when and where. I don't play the game of when are you available. This Friday, we're doing dinner and I'll pick you up at 6. If she says she's busy or there's a conflict, I just call another girl.

  4. Dating in the same town. Be extremely vigilant on how active you are in your area. These women will run every kind of check on you to find out if you're telling the truth. Try to geographically separate if you're going to try and have a few stable ladies.

  5. Emotional Damage. A lot of these women and been put through the wringer. If you're up front and honest about your intentions, it will really help you. It'll either end the date early which lets you move on or she accepts it and you're good to go.

  6. Dont let them change you. Was out with a stunner last night and she was grilling me on why I liked to workout some much and I should just get drunk and have fun. Told her working for me is fun, I enjoy it, I prioritize it. Whatever you enjoy, don't be afraid to talk about it. Golf, video games, hunting, whatever. Be confident in what you enjoy. If she thinks it's lame, who cares. Bone her and move on.

Last but not least least, you gotta get out there and get reps in. Go on the dates and just practice. Have fun gents!