If they want to scrutinize your relationships, then scrutinize theirs😂

crapcakes0987 · 2021-10-06T03:42:16+00:00

Yeah I’m getting asked that at 24 and I haven’t even figured out my career yet…

M1nette · 2021-10-06T04:43:37+00:00

There is this Quote by Nancy Astor "I married beneath me, all women do,, I am afraid she might be right...

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-10-06T02:45:44+00:00

Truth. They settled and they want everyone else to settle too. Misery loves company.

Antique_Fortune6974 · 2021-10-06T12:47:16+00:00

Oh I came up with an answer.. " It's because I don't want to go dumpster diving " hehe.

NotMyRealName814 · 2021-10-06T02:34:42+00:00

This is fantastic. I wish I'd thought of that back in my 20s and 30s when I was constantly bombarded with that question.

blueboobs- · 2021-10-06T11:43:02+00:00

💪🏽 💥⚰️ FATALITY 💪🏽💥⚰️

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-10-06T05:07:19+00:00

I notice women who are pretty narcissistic with their toxic male approval boyfriends condescend and have a bullying vibe towards me when judgmentally asking me why I’m single. I would be surprised and wouldn’t know what to say because I expect that from men but not from women, considering how many of us are traumatized by men due to them either raping us as adults, or molesting us as children, and just how toxic they are, why would you ask such a question?!

Now I notice they get all squirmy when I say things like “I have high standards.” And then they respond “I have high standards too!” I let the silence speak volumes lol.

Women who are content in their relationships never judge me for being single 🤷🏼‍♀️

My responses to “why are you single”, will now be “because I’m enough.” “Because I have high standards.” “Because None of them are worthy.”

Throw the snotty question back in their face. Watch the insecurities they are projecting onto you emerge.

It’s such a strange question… like why do you care?

Every woman whose asked me that has a boyfriend or husband who yells at them or whines at them when they can’t get sex when their partner is sick or inured.

Women desperate for male approval are chronically unhappy and still view other women as competition and dumping grounds. They don’t like other women and need a place to externalize their pathetic insecurities. (Sorry just left an 8 month abusive living situation with 2 misogynists, a couple who made my life hell and I’m still ranty/salty about it. Been 4 days out of that living situation and I’m already noticing my skin improving, my sleep improving, and confidence going up. Stay away from pick me ass’s. Her boyfriend was a fucking creep too.)

dancedancedance7 · 2021-10-06T02:47:48+00:00

Yup, happy people know how hard it is to find so they don't harass others about it.

kaitybubbly · 2021-10-06T05:18:33+00:00

Absolutely love this response, I'll have to use this next time a "concerned relative" tries to bingo me.

DoversBlue · 2021-10-06T05:57:16+00:00

Kinda did the same this morning with an interfering neighbour. Proud of myself 😌

ironglaciers · 2021-10-06T10:47:54+00:00

"So does that mean you settled?" 💀

extragouda · 2021-10-06T07:11:33+00:00

I love this response. This will be my answer the next time someone asks me.

The_Oracle_of_Delphi · 2021-10-06T04:12:24+00:00

GENIUS!

preppykat3 · 2021-10-06T04:23:38+00:00

Love this.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-10-06T03:22:31+00:00

😆😆😆😆

curiousandbashful · 2021-10-06T22:56:27+00:00

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Title	If they want to scrutinize your relationships, then scrutinize theirs😂
Author	ShieldMaidenLagertha
Upvotes	2488
Comments	29
Date	October 6, 2021 2:16 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q2b08e/if_they_want_to_scrutinize_your_relationships/
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