The private Facebook groups secretly destroying men's lives...

DMFan79 · 2024-01-05T12:33:46+00:00

I would never ever go out or even talk with a woman who needs to use these groups.

These subjects show signs of paranoia and are likely to become stalkers.

All damaged goods to avoid at all costs.

smit009 · 2024-01-05T11:58:14+00:00

How is this even legal?

Past_Study_4913 · 2024-01-05T11:33:08+00:00

Was never about protecting women. Never is. Its protecting hurt egos.

plumberack · 2024-01-05T13:15:31+00:00

These groups are the largest femcel groups on the internet. They are retaliating against men who reject them.

GhettoJamesBond · 2024-01-05T13:49:16+00:00

This is weaponized dating we are dealing with. Now any woman you date feels they have a right to destroy your life.

TheTinMenBlog · 2024-01-05T11:14:01+00:00

A toxic series of secretive Facebook groups, containing thousands of bitter women, has arrived.

The shady campaign that seemingly started with good intentions, to protect women, has since became a hotbed of finger-licking revenge, faux compassion, and machiavellianism.

It’s called, ‘Are we dating the same guy?’

It’s the name given to the countless groups popping up in many of the world’s major cities, each boasting tens, or even hundreds of thousands of members.

If you’re able to sneak into one, you’ll likely find a grim primordial soup of resentment and anger; as vengeful single women share the names, photos, and even home addresses of men who have wronged them on the dating market.

A place where insecure and power-hungry narcissists compare notes on how to deceive, stalk and surveil men; and flagellate themselves with sad stories of rejection, and inadequacy.

Have you ghosted a woman?

Were you selfish in bed?

Did you make an inappropriate joke?

Perhaps you did nothing wrong at all?

It doesn’t matter. It won’t protect you from being strung up and pulled apart within the kangaroo courts, and pity parties of AWDTSG; whose secret members act as judge, jury and executioner to tens of thousands of men.

The lives of such men have already been torn down, destroyed, and even lost, in the name of so-called ‘women’s safety’.

But some of these women have fought back; leaking the hidden conversations, and blowing the whistle on the whispering campaigns, and terrifying trials within.

So where do we go from here?

Is AWDTSG really about protecting women, or is it about hurting men?

What do you think?

Shout out to r/AWDTSGisToxic

~

Images by Becca Tapart, and Shubham Dhage.

DamianDaws · 2024-01-05T14:20:05+00:00

I was posted in one of these groups, most of the comments were great, except for one where the girl said “something was off” and it was the same asswipe woman that literally tried to go through my mail after I took her on a date because she said her ex husband had bad credit. Note that it was also 5 years prior to us talking to each other. Another girls friend laughed and tagged a girl that I used to date for no reason. I told the mods to take it down and they were angry that one of the girls told me that I was posted. I told them that I didn’t consent to that and to take it down or I’d seek legal action against all of them and eventually they took it down. Those groups are disgusting.

XenoX101 · 2024-01-05T13:16:21+00:00

This is what happens when women get a pussy pass, communities that would have been instantly banned if they had men in them are allowed to flourish. There is no way a community like this would survive if it were men doxxing women they met on a dating website, not even for a second.

genobeam · 2024-01-05T13:51:12+00:00

Facebook and social media is destroying everyone's lives.

El_Psy_Congroo4477 · 2024-01-05T14:26:38+00:00

Women who act like this are likely cheating themselves. The sheer hypocrisy is astounding.

I dated a woman who was paranoid I was cheating on her, (I wasn't and have never) and demanded I unlock my phone and let her read my texts. I said "okay, let me read yours too" and she immediately went silent and never asked me that again. Months later I find out from someone else she'd been cheating on me the whole time.

somirion · 2024-01-05T12:29:54+00:00

"I respect his feelings, BUT" - no, you dont.

aries0413 · 2024-01-05T14:28:25+00:00

Men get off social media and dating apps, work on making a better you, stop simping for 304s.

LAMGE2 · 2024-01-05T12:48:35+00:00

Oh yeah, 8/10, any women who isn’t a misandrist feminazi is a pick me woman, yeah right I forgot, thanks anonymous member

Present_League9106 · 2024-01-05T14:18:43+00:00

Can we get an Am I Dating an AWDTSG Woman? Because I have some safety concerns.

DifficultPapaya3038 · 2024-01-05T12:05:39+00:00

Dating is dead lol.

What an absolute joke this whole world has become

SnioperFi · 2024-01-05T13:47:22+00:00

Don’t wanna be a dick and generalize but it seems like the vast majority of women only spaces online end up misandrist as fuck.

SkeptiCynical · 2024-01-05T14:54:56+00:00

Good news is that you can get a TRO / refrain-from in family court if you find out someone posted about you in these groups. My ex made the mistake of naming and shaming, now she has her third RO from a guy who dumped her last year.

Frird2008 · 2024-01-05T12:12:23+00:00

It is for this & many other reasons why I'm voluntarily choosing to stay single for as long as possible.

ButWhatOfGlen · 2024-01-05T14:28:42+00:00

As always ❤️ I'll say it again... You grab the heart of the issue and illustrate it in bite size pieces that function perfectly for today's media consumers.

While reasoned debate and longer discussion are necessary to change our world, your graphically presented bites hit the nail on the head and quite possibly promote just such debate.

Bravo, Sir Have an upvote ☝️

EnvironmentalBuy244 · 2024-01-05T15:45:03+00:00

These are the same women who would get all upset about their SO doing a paternity test on their child.

They don't see the parallel. Posting on that site implies that they think the guy may be a cheater.

eldred2 · 2024-01-05T18:34:58+00:00

It's just the latest version of women using whisper campaigns to hurt men who reject them.

Literally_a_Dogskull · 2024-01-05T20:41:56+00:00

"these women are essentially doxxing men" Protects their identity The irony

TheReplacement69 · 2024-01-05T15:21:18+00:00

Its sad that the real reason why they had those groups was bastardized by malicious women who were in it for themselves.

If it had only stuck to safety, even men would have supported these groups. I would have.

The_0bserver · 2024-01-05T17:42:27+00:00

On an aside, a big thank you to the women who weren't so far up their own asses that they could see how shit the practice was, and gave a heads up to the dudes.

And a big 👍 to the 👑 that dropped these losers.

TheWinterNights · 2024-01-05T22:12:02+00:00

80% of the women go to date the top 5% to 10% of men.

"Are we dating the same guy?" - is that why they can't get into STEM?

Also ignoring that those women talking "dating" on a hookup app is really funny. Like they don't really believe they have a relationship because the guy was bored and had a slot on Friday evening are they?

Geiir · 2024-01-05T17:21:59+00:00

I bet a lot of the responses to their posts are made up. Who would have thought that would happen when you post a picture of a dude on a page filled with toxic women 🤦‍♂️

Zeemo123 · 2024-01-05T18:54:04+00:00

Can u imagine the shitshow this would've cost if Men does it

White_Buffalos · 2024-01-05T21:52:45+00:00

It's a hate group, just like the KKK or ISIL.

KingCashew8 · 2024-01-05T15:24:32+00:00

How would I be able to infiltrate my local group like this?

throwawayincelacc · 2024-01-05T18:41:07+00:00

Man… slide 5 where the man wants to prioritize his son and that’s a red flag?

I’ve been on dates with women who couldn’t get off their phones. Were always texting or calling others. It was absolutely terrible.

A guy who can make a commitment to family would be green flag to me… but I guess that’s too logical for these hateful women.

PostNutLucidity · 2024-01-05T19:43:23+00:00

I hope this opens more people’s eyes about what some individuals are willing to do while hiding behind the shield of apparent ‘safety concerns’. It’s actually quite disgusting when you think about it and reveals their level of character.

‘Safety concerns’ is used as a Trojan Horse to allow them to sneak their unverified gossip, slander & reputation destruction in without this slimy behaviour facing any scrutiny or consequences.

Furthermore, they’re also piggybacking off the trauma of genuine victims to advance their own twisted agendas and making a mockery of them in the process.

Glork11 · 2024-01-05T15:58:24+00:00

Throwing this out here, foreign (not yours, that is) airtags should ping you if they've been following you for a while (if you use an Apple device), since Apple doesn't want to be known for facilitating stalking people. And if you're on Android, supposedly Apple themselves released an app that will periodically scan for Airtags, I haven't seen it but I use Airguard, and from experience it works, it also lets you use the speaker on an airtag to locate it, even if it's not your own (I'm presuming this is supported by Apple themselves).

karn39393939 · 2024-01-05T23:16:18+00:00

And women wonder why men are walking away.........

edward-regularhands · 2024-01-06T06:57:53+00:00

Disgusting

StopManaCheating · 2024-01-05T14:33:24+00:00

Stay off of dating apps and don’t be on social media at all.

Problem solved.

tommyvercetti42 · 2024-01-06T05:30:34+00:00

Wtf was the last one, she killed him for what?

EfficientSimplicity · 2024-01-06T06:22:19+00:00

Men need to come together and sue Facebook for hosting forums to harass men

LittleHamNerd · 2024-01-06T07:35:23+00:00

Fucking hell.

Temporary_3108 · 2024-01-06T08:50:04+00:00

Basically the top 20% phenomenon

WintersIsComing95 · 2024-01-05T22:54:43+00:00

Is this real or is this click bait for men the same way those exaggerated female victim stories are click bait for women

Chemical-Scarcity915 · 2024-01-05T16:55:57+00:00

They're just like you guys lol

Stilltryin4gold · 2024-01-06T12:33:28+00:00

Are We Dating the Same Girl NYC is live too.

Actual_Cygnus · 2024-01-07T06:58:27+00:00

Why don't men have a Facebook group of Women who have dumped their husbands to get alimony?

Aimless-Nomad · 2024-01-07T09:39:18+00:00

u/TheTinMenBlog

A post illustrating what this group is all about:

This is a warning for all men on dating apps.

Over the past year there have been Facebook groups popping up in major cities all over the US called “are we dating the same guy (city)”

These are private Facebook groups filled with thousands of local women who screen shot dating profiles and ask for details about the guy, and other women are posting pics of their exes and making accusations and claims about them.

There are stories of men losing jobs and dates because of a bad date in 2013.

People are posting personal information, and it’s turning into man bashing in front of thousands of locals.

It’s all one sided and the man being accused of things can be there to defend themselves.

Even mens wives are being contacted telling her he’s a creep because he sent a sick pick 5 years ago before he was married.

It’s absolutely crazy this is being allowed on Facebook but it is.

Not surprising considering social media (society in its entirety actually) panders to women.

More Posts on this group concerning this:

My boyfriend and i are victims of this toxic group

Victim of “are we dating the same guy” Facebook group. They posted my name and picture.

“Are We Dating The Same Guy?” Has Become A Hate Group To Slander Innocent Men

My experience with "Are We Dating the Same Guy"

Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!

Operation Chicago - Are We Dating the Same Guy Facebook Groups!

Has anyone heard of these Facebook groups called “are we dating the same guy”?

He Just Doesn’t Want to Murder You - The Free Press covers the ‘Are We Dating The Same Guy’ facebook groups

Comments from another forum:

If the main concern is "safety", then why was the group called "Are We Dating the Same Guy?", showing that the primary concern was guys dating multiple people?

Does the definition of "safety" now extend to safety from infidelity? If so, are guys entitled to that same safety, by the same means (i.e. posting pictures of girls with their full names and branding them cheaters)?

It's just duplicitous as fuck to pretend this gossip network was for "safety" rather than slandering guys, casting blame for bad dates, general shit-talking, and petty revenge.

The woman behind it is also enough of a grifter to claim that 50k isn't enough to start a website that hosts jpgs and comments, which strikes me as off. The project will likely fall through, if not for the lack of developers gullible enough to think they're really building it for "safety", then for the exact same legal reasons as Facebook when they dropped the original groups.

2) These women are basically creating online armies/raiding parties/criminal organizations that any woman from anywhere in the world can join to destroy men with doxxing and false accusations. Fun times, we live in.

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Tradehub-57 · 2024-01-07T16:53:34+00:00

This is obviously disgusting, but why are we blurring out their nameshouldn't they be put on blast? Shouldn't the people there dating know? I mean especially the ones that say they're gonna rob their boyfriend

gigachud1337 · 2024-01-07T22:16:11+00:00

Nice of them to leave a paper trail of all the shit they do

Content_Eggplant_936 · 2024-01-12T06:27:54+00:00

Oh you mean to tell me women are hating men in private spaces? Doesn't surprise me, it's already accepted when they do it publicly.

Title	The private Facebook groups secretly destroying men's lives...
Author	TheTinMenBlog
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Date	January 5, 2024 11:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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