Dick pics

LSTW1234 · 2018-10-19T02:59:40+00:00

My theory is that a lot of men who send unsolicited dick pics are motivated by exhibitionism, they’re not necessarily expecting it to “work.”

PennnyLame · 2018-10-19T02:34:36+00:00

I enjoy getting them from my husband when I ask for them. I cannot imagine getting one from a dude in the early stages and having me respond with anything other than laughing at him. One of my gf’s gets a lot them- she has a lot of sex- and she’ll hand you her phone and be like “look at this!” without warning. So be aware, people may pass them around...

whitetrashcarl · 2018-10-19T04:06:04+00:00

I never really liked sending or receiving nudes

It just feels trashy to me

squidracer · 2018-10-19T04:28:06+00:00

I've sent duck pics with decent response 🦆

throwawayemotions34 · 2018-10-19T03:13:27+00:00

Tinder days dick pics were very common.

Hey good morning beautiful :)

2 mins later, dick pic

Thinking about you....

Captioning him sparwled out in bed dick in hand

Its not attractive. Dicks don't look appleasing like that. Your basically telling me u jerked off and thought it would be a good idea to send the pic and think id jump on through the phone.

Its not cute.

SmurfESmurferson · 2018-10-19T04:38:43+00:00

True story, from a Certified Olde(TM):

Back in the heady days of the early 00s, CraigsList was just a teensy little website barely anyone outside of metropolitan areas knew of

Reader, I was in a metropolitan area, and needed to sell an end table. I chose CraigsList

One day, I posted a pic of said end table, in all its gleaming, hard wood glory. Three pics, actually, with a very generous offer - "Best Offer Accepted"

Two hours later, I opened my email

OH MY GOD, SO MANY DICKS

threemonsters · 2018-10-19T03:28:30+00:00

Most women don't want to see a picture of a guy's dick unless it's explicitly asked for. Look into the research, women don't care that much about dicks when it comes to sexual attractiveness. You'd do much better with a sexy shirtless pic than a dick pic.

Random unsolicited dick pics are a huge no for me, I don't know why dudes even do that. Dick pic from a dude ≠ nudes from a woman.

Texastentialism · 2018-10-19T02:55:33+00:00

Never received one. Can't say I'd be very receptive if I did.

abaxeron · 2018-10-19T11:16:04+00:00

Never sent, never received. The only woman who saw my dick pics is my dermatologist.

beachredwhine · 2018-10-19T03:02:54+00:00

Never sent one the very idea sounds incredibly dumb. Have sexted with a few extro girls. Personally I prefer to do my sexing in person.

That being said to my surprise many many women have told me that not only have they gotten many dick pics, they have not only engaged with the sender, but gone on to bang him. At this point I do believe that sending dick pics can be a winning strategy. Women will get the treatment they reward, after all.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2018-10-19T13:47:46+00:00

Another dude chiming in to say he doesn't do this unsolicited, and only with women he's already sleeping with... and thinks it is a bad idea unless maybe you're hung like Lyndon B. Johnson... and even then it's probably a coin flip. Some women do turn down big dicks b/c they think they have a dainty little coochie and don't want it wrekt.

I think the squidracer approach of sending them something funny is better. They laugh, they fuck.

sassafrass203 · 2018-10-19T14:23:32+00:00

years ago there was a real cute guy at my work, and we would flirt whenever we would pass by each other. (i was about 22 at the time, he was maybe 19?) once i got his number, i was actually really disappointed that he sent a dick pic right out the gate, out of no where. i liked him but that was just weird to do so fresh in the beginning.

Gravel_Roads · 2018-10-19T18:36:03+00:00

Two points for me. I got sent one from a dude I was briefly hooking up with. I’m pretty casual about being in an open relationship, and never really minded partners talking about other people they’re hooking up with.

Somehow, this inspired him to send not only a dick pick, but one with a girl sucking him off, too. I can’t even guess why his horny brain thought this was a good idea. Worse that he gave no warning and I opened it at work.

If getting chewed out, ghosted and blocked was his goal he succeeded.

TriadFamilyTimes · 2018-10-19T21:33:25+00:00

It is incredibly common. One of my gfs is on fetlife and dudes will just send dick pics. Sometimes they like announce it. Usually, the announcement comes and before you have time to process, the pic comes after. Sometimes it just pops up at a lull in conversation.

Besides all the other bad aspects of it I really love imagining a face to face conversation where that's the moment someone just whipped their dick out of their pants and was like "so, do you like it" because if you saw anyone do that in real life in conversation you'd want them committed or registered as a sex offender.

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CatchPhraze · 2018-10-19T04:19:31+00:00

It's cool if asked for or an exchange where they sent a picture of themselves first.

But don't do it unasked. At worst some states have the same laws for digital nudity and flashing as they do in real life. At worst if the woman reports you it'll get you banned off the platform.

FireAlarm911 · 2018-10-19T05:59:36+00:00

I've never sent one unsolicited before. Though I'm sure some guys have been sucessful with it before albeit it's probably rare. Top SMV guys can do just about anything and pull it off if they find the right girl. On a similar note I've had women that were interested in me get somewhat offended that I didnt ask them for/send nudes after a while of knowing them which I find kind of funny. It's almost a norm for a guy to ask for/send nudes, so I can see how they might take that as me not being interested in them.

SlimLovin · 2018-10-19T15:05:49+00:00

I've personally only ever sent them to someone who was already interested in me, and only after the dirty talk has already begun.

Overwhelmingly positive responses in those instances, but do not send your dick to someone willy-nilly. (Pun intended)

You will end up on r/creepypms with all the other serial dick-piccers.

metrosexual80sfan · 2018-10-19T17:09:31+00:00

I was in an LDR in my early 20s and even though we were pretty open with talking about sex and all, being that I'm feminist she had to really push me to do anything and I'd never initiate since I wanted to be 💯 sure she wanted me to. It was really hard (no joke intended lol) for me but I worked up to it and usually just sent suggestive ones since she liked those too.

No matter how horny you are I could never imagine sending my dick to a woman who didn't want it, even worse to a total stranger

platinummattagain · 2018-10-20T16:23:01+00:00

I got asked to send a someone a dick pic but I think they were probably a catfish/scam

xelaandra23 · 2018-10-21T06:26:57+00:00

I'm a woman. It has never worked on me. I never understand how common this is.

Salty-Bastard · 2018-10-19T02:23:22+00:00

Dick pics are appropriate when asked for, unless you're a Richard Nixon fan. I would ad that if your a Tinderist and your best asset is your dick you have nothing to lose by sending one.

WhatIsTheMeaningHere · 2018-10-19T03:04:25+00:00

It did happen to work on this 25 year old lady that I banged when I was 19.

Title	Dick pics
Author	Pope_Lucious
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Date	October 19, 2018 2:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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