Caught sexting what next

SoyTanto · 2019-11-18T03:18:40+00:00

Sounds to me like you made a mistake and want to use the red pill to fix it. But you weren’t really following trp prior to it all. some dudes will have some decent advise, but I’d bet you need to work on the basics.

From my experience, sexting is definitely something women can get over.

Good luck.

Smuggler-Tuek · 2019-11-18T04:02:50+00:00

Jesus dude. Read the sidebar. I’m certain you haven’t. You’ve got a ton of work to do. I see a needy lying coward whose not in control of his life.

As for this situation yeah just own the mistake and she’ll come around probably. It’s a dumb mistake but probably on par with her catching you watching porn when you’ve led her to believe you don’t even masturbate except when she’s out of town and you only use your wedding photo. This is probably the least of your relationships issues if I were to guess.

InChargeMan · 2019-11-18T04:36:08+00:00

You done goofed. Own it, if you mean it tell her you are sorry, but don't immolate yourself. If you do it right you can maybe salvage to the point that the induced dread outweighs the trouble, but that will depend a lot on how much you suck in general.

Edit: Turns out OP is a dumpster fire. He is sexting other women 2 weeks after getting married. No helping that level of retard.

UEMcGill · 2019-11-18T15:42:28+00:00

What the fuck is going on with you dude? Your user history is all over the place. Plates, Married, not married?

I don't like the smell of this.

LucyDD69 · 2019-11-18T03:15:00+00:00

I wish I was more knowledgeable to help on this specific topic.

The only thing that I can think of is DARE ing and not DEER ing.

DARE v DEER

I’m looking forward to hearing from others on this topic

SBIII · 2019-11-18T10:59:42+00:00

Why are you posting a question like this with no background? How can anyone comment on this when we have no idea who you are, what your stats are, what kind of shithole you've dug yourself into?

To a man who has his shit together, sexting isn't really a big issue. To a beta fucking loser - to be caught sexting - is a whole other thing.. it just lowers your already low perceived SMV.

So which one are you? You have given us nothing to go on.. besides your post history:

Married and it's been great

Why the fuck are you lying to us? Ten days ago you were engaged to a pregnant chick and now - all of a sudden - you're married?

My fiance is gonna have a kid so I'm curious the effect on her own perceived SMV change or lack thereof.

Don't you think that her being pregnant is an important detail in this?

I just skimmed the rest of your history - it's not fucking pretty. Army dude with an ex-wife, bad credit history, woeful finacial control, gets divorced and gets the first plate he finds pregnant.

Then gets caught by said plate sexting other women.

Oh, and you have ADHD too.

Of course you have.

I dunno why you are here - have you read the sidebar? Do you lift?

Don't bother answering these questions or DEERing back - I can't believe a fucking word that comes out of your lying whore mouth.

BobbyPeru · 2019-11-18T05:18:07+00:00

Simple. Don’t DEER and own it

johnmic07 · 2019-11-18T04:03:54+00:00

Own the mistake and apologize. She won't leave you over sexting. You shouldn't apologize for stupid things that you aren't sorry for, but if you make a legitimate mistake you should be able to admit it.

Perfectinmyeyes · 2019-11-18T09:14:35+00:00

Fascinating reading these comments after recently having my marriage ended by my Husband when he found I had been sexting over a 6 month period in a 20 yr relationship.

I can only imagine the colour of his face if I was to try these lines.. "It’s sexting, calm the fuck down faggot. " "its definitely something women can get over" or even 'On a par with watching porn'

I probably won't do that. But it has amused me to consider it, thanks dudes.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2019-11-18T13:32:48+00:00

You went full retard too early, nice move.

RStonePT · 2019-11-25T13:28:25+00:00

Read Robert Glover's book on the sidebar. Esp. "hiding the badness" section

That's all you get.

JameisBong · 2019-11-18T13:50:37+00:00

Being distant,no guy can be trusted- wow she's better at this RP thing than you Sir. Withdrawing attention and explaining boundaries, you have a lot to learn from her.

But back to your problem,you shouldn't sext if you aren't at the absolute top of your game, right now apologize, STFU and get to work. She might forgive you eventually and maybe even trust you again.

red-sfpplus · 2019-11-18T15:25:53+00:00

This is the one time you get to use penis as your main advantage.

skuttt · 2019-11-19T00:26:49+00:00

If you have SMV and she knows it, then play like the sexting was just you playing with your options and you don’t give a shit. DARE like others say, deflect, agree & amplify, repeat, exit. Deflect: fuck it, you say, this is just messing around. Amplify: it’s not your fault other women find you attractive. Repeat, broken record. Exit, if she fucked you better would you be doing this? No, you wouldn’t.

tap0988534 · 2019-11-19T01:28:34+00:00

Sneak cheating is nuking your marriage. Double that for pregnant and double it again for newlywed.

If you are the prize, then you need to just be honest about your manly desires, and that you can promise to love her but not keep your cock out of other women.

EasyDaysHardNights · 2019-11-18T05:22:36+00:00

VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary.

You only get two lifetime Sorrys. Use them wisely.

RedPillGlasses · 2019-11-18T04:48:40+00:00

Give less fucks.

I’m not joking, it’s sexting, calm the fuck down faggot.

Title	Caught sexting what next
Author	kendallb183
Upvotes	4
Comments	39
Date	November 18, 2019 2:32 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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