Preface: 24M I‘ve been a long time lurker, but never read any material. Just went out and did my thing.

I had a 4 year relationship that ended in absolute disaster 2 and a half years ago. I had extremely low self worth and felt like a nobody.

I focused on work, dressing better, grooming, etc. and just started talking to people for any reason, to become better at social interactions. Turns out reading about everything and everyone your whole life makes you a good conversationalist.

I am not some Chad 10/10, but I am decent looking and women definitely find me attractive.

At the point of the breakup I was relatively inexperienced at 22 years old, having slept with 2 women, both during serious relationships. The first 3-4 months as I was getting the training wheels off and learning how to not be creepy and cringe, I had relative success and slept with 2 attractive and 1 drunk mistake women.

Since then the past 2 years, I have been very successful in sleeping with most women I want to. I don’t keep track but it is more than 50 and less than 100, guessing around 70. I have a type tall, skinny and (preferably) athletic, like models, ballerinas, track athletes, etc. All of these women had many guys killing themselves for a shot to do anything with them. I would say 50% of the women had long term relationships or were married, which disillusioned me further.

I really stopped going out on diner/bar dates over a year ago. I mostly bring dates to the park or on errands with me and sleep with them within the first 2 "dates". This made me realize, how little effort you have to put in and how pathetic many of us have been with trying to impress women.

The real problem starts here.

To all of these women I felt absolutely no emotional connection to or it was fleeting and gone within the week. I am now almost at a point, where I don’t find women attractive sexually and lose any desire for sex after doing it once with a new woman.

I would like to have a functional relationship and a family one day, but it feels like I am totally emotionally detached from women and I am approaching that point sexually too.

I guess I am somewhat looking to vent, but what kind of advice would you give to someone who played the game, ”won“ and would like to have a more fulfilling relationship with women in the future?

TL;DR Getting too much pussy almost made me limp dick. Want to have fulfilling relationships with women need advice.

EDIT: missed words