Hey there seddit, I have recently noticed from many FRs that many of you have problems dressing well.
To fix this I'd recommend heading over to malefashionadvice then READING the sidebar, then using the shopping links to purchase some new clothing.
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A list of quick and dirty tips you can do right now
But first, you need to learn the basics.
I'd recommend going on there and other fashion forums, lurking, and checking out what people are doing. Learn from them.
One thing though, MFA usually recommends clothes in an almost circle jerk like uniform fashion, partly because some of them are uninformed or lazy.
This is because they're trying to teach you the basics, the "staple" of dressing well. It may not be right for you. For example, if you are really really skinny, someone might recommend you 501 levis, but I personally wouldn't go for levis 501 STF(because they don't compliment very skinny people well), I'd go for 511s or 510s.
Just because they recommend something like desert boots, doesn't mean that desert boots go with everything. They're good people, but you have to be specific. Don't follow ALL of their advice on everything because not everyone actually knows what they're talking about, though this is the minority. Just because it works for them it doesn't mean it works for you. If you're from MFA, don't get butthurt.
The users on the sidebar all know what they're doing, when they post, listen to them.
Being fashionable isn't really as expensive as you think, you can be stylish on a budget. It's MUCH simpler than you think.
Dressing well is CRUCIAL, believe me it makes you a huge difference and communicates a lot about you to others. It says, "I am socially intelligent and know how to dress, I am social and cool." Even attractive chicks pay attention to a guy who is dressed really fashionably. It's an INSTANT DHV that you don't even need to communicate.
You do not need to dress flashy or with logos to be fashionable, muted colors, no logos, and being well fitted pretty much displays that you're so alpha and prestigious that you don't even need any "brand" or any shit to show off. It's a counter signal(think of like how someone who has a lot of girls to hang out with doesn't care about one girl, so you signal that you don't care because you have so many more options). Dressing better in no logos makes you stand out MORE.
Here's a quick example,
What do you think when you see this guy?
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This man, is INSTANTLY treated better, he looks powerful, badass, and he seems prestigious, he looks rugged and alpha. I feel like I'm ruining the badassness for you guys but I need to tell you because I know someone is going to come in and say I don't know what I'm talking about, but he's actually a designer, and gay, and has a feminine voice. I wouldn't google his other outfits, he breaks a lot of rules that most of you cannot pull off yet.
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Nothing is douchier(and I'm going to offend lots of people here) than going out with your button up stripey going to get laid shirt. You know what I'm talking about. It makes you look like any other guy. I've also noticed that many guys here wear graphic tees and striped button downs with DRAGONS on them. Don't do this. Edit: The video was a Louis C.K. - Dudes Trying to Get Laid. It's hilarious.
If you are over 18 do not purchase any graphic t-shirts with huge logos. Seriously, do NOT do this.
Before you purchasing things ask yourself, "What will I wear this X item with?" Create a whole outfit before you purchase your clothing and ask MFA about it.
here's a fashion meta-lesson from user onan,
here's a list of basics
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tl;dr Just go to the sidebar.
- no logos
- dark wash jeans
- no cargo pants
- no square toed shoes
- no getting laid stripy
- ditch the skating shoes
Oh and don't buy GQ GQ or anything like that.
Also, make sure your clothing fits well
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Here's a list of some good outfits I saw, I didn't read the articles, don't always trust the color wheel because some things can't really be worn. (Green+red)= Christmas.
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Right now, just stick to simple/dark/muted colors that aren't really too bright or crazy. I can't vouch for this site, what they say, or the articles, since I don't visit this specific site, however I am posting it because they have some good pictures.
Oh, and remember to dress for the seasons. Right now you should be buying a Spring/Summer wear.
Just remember, dressing well makes a HUGE difference. Part of looking good is also being fit, this is very important when you consider dressing well. If you plan to lose weight I recommend on doing this FIRST then purchasing a brand new wardrobe.
I've spent quite a long time writing this for you guys, I've been thinking about it for a while, I hope it helps you guys. Also if you improve your wardrobe post about it!
This thread is not about suits. It is a basic wardrobe guide.
tl;dr
Do you want to know how to start looking better?
Simplify.
Stop wearing clothes with logos, prints and crazy details.
Instead, focus on great basics. When I say basics, I mean basics. White t-shirt. Blue dress shirt. White oxford. Blue jeans. Gray wool pants. Khaki chinos. Blue blazer. Gray suit. Great boots. Basic shoes. Focus on blue, white, gray. Buy good clothes that fit.
Minimalize.
It’s OK for your clothes to be a simple frame for what’s important: you.
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