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Stanley975 · 2021-08-23T18:31:35+00:00

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TheSmallestSteve · 2021-08-23T18:18:35+00:00

Yikes. Listen man I would never date someone that much younger than me, but if you’re going to anyway then AT LEAST wait until she’s 18.

Bellissimabee · 2021-08-23T18:22:39+00:00

Short answer no. Long answer, still no! She's a kid, her brain hasn't finished growing. Do you really want the drama a 17 year old brings?

Narcan9 · 2021-08-23T18:44:02+00:00

"my whole life could be ruined"

And you're contemplating going forward with it? Let that sink in.

At least wait a year man! There's way too many women out there to be thinking like that. Scarcity mentality you're working with.

RealHumanBeing2020 · 2021-08-23T18:25:43+00:00

No way.

Silent_assassins3 · 2021-08-23T18:58:17+00:00

Oh shit 😂

CarloB24 · 2021-08-23T18:56:31+00:00

Sometimes I wonder why I'm still in this sub

SweatyVariety8856 · 2021-08-23T18:21:36+00:00

No you shouldn't wait until she's over age if it's something real

ricoconyo · 2021-08-23T18:27:40+00:00

No, no, and no some more. Even when she turns 18, avoid that. If you guys still keep in contact after a couple of years then maybe but age gaps are always controversial

YoungCapoon · 2021-08-23T18:26:39+00:00

Less u tryna catch a case then eeesh. Not recommended

kettlebell_workout · 2021-08-23T18:29:02+00:00

Depends on the age of consent in your country.

Obviously, you will get judged by other people. So take that into account as well.

TheGoatLives24 · 2021-08-23T19:04:12+00:00

No man. There are so many older girls out here. Try harder

Anxious_Humor4668 · 2021-08-23T19:11:22+00:00

You’re only considering it because you have a lack of options. Get talking to more women and then decide whether it’s a good idea or not. At the very least you can keep in contact with her until she’s 18. It doesn’t matter what the legal age is, she’s simply too young.

Ducharbaine · 2021-08-23T19:43:17+00:00

Nope.

And don't hang around waiting for her either.

strikerx07 · 2021-08-23T20:25:30+00:00

Wait till she's 18. It's not worth the gray area

celinewashere · 2021-08-23T18:55:00+00:00

Don’t be the creepy old man.

jwilhelm0618 · 2021-08-23T18:27:51+00:00

Safe-Investigator271 · 2021-08-23T18:36:18+00:00

ask your mom and go with her advice

DunionKnight · 2021-08-23T19:17:47+00:00

That’s called grooming. A lot of popular figures on YouTube have been caught doing that. It’s a career and life ender.

If you had met when she was 18. That’s a different story. No previous history for one. Some will argue that her level of maturity still puts you at risk. Although, even under the best of circumstances. If you had something ongoing. An argument could ensue and you may say something to hurt her fragile and developing ego. Then there’s the idea of making it harder for her to pair bond going forward.

That said. At 18 you’re an adult. Sex is sex. Something she can enjoy with someone far more mature than those her own age.

earsurgery9 · 2021-08-23T18:38:00+00:00

What country?

I mean, if you're in the UK and she's hot, go for it! (age of consent is 16 here. No age gap laws)

If she's not legal where you are, then obviously no. NOt worth it

pokemonpokemonmario · 2021-08-23T18:41:02+00:00

This is legal in my country and still looked down on. Wait till she's 18 man at least.

Spiritual-Reserve440 · 2021-08-23T18:55:40+00:00

First of all no sexual interaction, second of all are you tying to drag a minor into such thing as gambling ?????

Wait till shes 18 and consider

If you cant even do that then give up cuz if u rlly consider her future, yknow anything you bring into her life will more likely harm than bring good...

Youre the older one and if you can't be mature then there is no reason for you to act out on that feeling.

I know shes old enough to think for herself but she has never experienced society fully. You cant just risk it cuz she cant take responsibility nor can you considering shes a minor and youre not her dad.

micro942021 · 2021-08-23T18:57:01+00:00

Just tell you you are into her and also tell her the fact she is 17 makes you feel uncomfortable for having those feelings. Communication is key. She might just like you as a friend. Girls are super weird.

bandsupjay · 2021-08-23T19:21:39+00:00

Fuck is wrong with u

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-08-23T19:32:45+00:00

Bro, no idea why you're wasting your time with 17 year olds lol they haven't even graduated high school! What you wrote here should tell you everything you need to know: "she’s a minor and if I get caught bringing a minor to a casino, providing her drinks, or even have sex with her that my whole life could be ruined".

Long story short, tell her she's too young for you and move on.

pittpolice · 2021-08-23T20:35:31+00:00

Depending on the casino, don’t try to use a fake… even the best ones won’t pass. Their requirements are far stricter than just a local bar.

PiperBigBell · 2021-08-23T20:44:33+00:00

So she's below the age of consent in your state and you're trying to fuck her, and you post about it online? You're an idiot and the police will have a field day interrogating you after she gets emotional because she didn't get her way. Girls that young are ticking time bombs for emotional drama. Find someone who is legal to fuck.

The only reason you like this girl is because she's easy. You spent a lot of time with her at work and now you're attracted via familiarity. Move on bro and avoid these rape charges. Go jerk off, violently, and get these stupid urges out of your system. Go cold approach. Do anything but fuck around with this young woman.

tacsoe · 2021-08-23T20:55:01+00:00

No stop taking her to dates and wait till 18 that's it ..

strength_and_bravery · 2021-08-23T22:06:05+00:00

Wtf dude, get a grip. At least wait until she's 18, man.

PoPoChao · 2021-08-24T02:13:43+00:00

Dude. Wait until she’s 18

Rare_Opening_2743 · 2021-08-24T04:10:20+00:00

Just ask yourself one question:" Am I a pedophile? "

rmovny_schnr98 · 2021-08-24T07:57:20+00:00

Just because you don't have the emotional maturity to date someone your age doesn't mean you should ask out kids.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-08-24T08:25:24+00:00

Even if she’s responsible enough to make her own informed decisions and there’s no manipulation (it doesn’t sound like there is) ask yourself, is she really worth jeopardising your entire future?

If the answer is anything besides fuck no you need to reassess your priorities

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