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Endoss/r/seduction19/07/18 06:22 PM
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"Lets trade numbers and get drinks soon"
/r/seduction21/08/18 07:24 AM
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Sounds like a mature woman that you fucked up with.
/r/seduction21/08/18 07:23 AM
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Going off the piano analogy, "faking it" is knowing how to play a few cool songs on the piano and "making it" is knowing the fundamentals of music that allow you to quickly pick up new songs. Learning game is learning songs, working on yourself is developing fundamentals.
/r/seduction11/08/18 01:42 AM
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If you're worried about getting kicked out of school or peppersprayed, you seriously need to reevaluate how you approach women and how your interactions go. The worst I've ever gotten was "sorry, I have a boyfriend".
/r/seduction30/07/18 09:27 PM
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This has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:39 PM
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Cold approach pickup is only as unnatural as you make it my dude. You probably haven't had much success with it which is why you say that you'd rather get to know someone and build a connection first... but the heart of cold approach pickup is to speed up building that connection in the first place.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:53 PM
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Convert a number into a date. Escalate, ideally to sex. Hang out with the girl once a week-ish and start having sex consistently. Don't bring up the topic and eventually she will.
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:55 AM
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Yeah that's kinda where I'm at. I'm 100% comfortable opening a girl, chatting, escalating physically, getting her number etc etc. But I watched an RSD Tyler/Max combo video on relationship management recently and it really resonated with me and has really made me consider the paid content. I feel like it could take me to the next level of game and after 6 years in reading a lot of bad and good articles I feel like I'm out of things to learn from others for free and am kinda on my own to execute …
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:51 AM
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6 years of studying basics is enough study. I want to know if paid content is similar to the "college" of game where a big investment now can make for a great payoff later that wouldn't be achieved in the same amount of time without.
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:14 AM
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"I never spoke to her or responded to her flirting" "Why did she stop?" Seriously? This has to be a troll post.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:51 PM
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You should go take a class in formal logic because it's clear that you have no idea how burden of proof works.
/r/seduction26/07/18 01:18 AM
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Getting called "stud" is prolly my fave.
/r/seduction25/07/18 09:42 PM
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Irrelevant. You're overthinking this to an extreme.
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:14 AM
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Hostels are an instant social group. Often times you'll find those traveling vagabond types that know all the local places and already have invites to awesome parties that they'll let you tag along with if you're a chill dude. I think you're seriously downplaying their utility - logistics are already gonna be a challenge in a foreign land. I'll take social proof over good logistics any day.
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:07 AM
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You're overthinking. Escalate physically during the date, starting with "safe" touches like a playful punch on the shoulder and gauge her reaction. You don't tell women you're into them, you show them.
/r/seduction24/07/18 12:59 AM
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You need to give us more specifics or at least an example before we can really help. My guess is you're not screening properly.
/r/seduction20/07/18 10:53 PM
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Yeah I guess you're right.
/r/seduction19/07/18 07:11 PM
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People here date women (?) with a more realistic view of how they actually operate. I'd say it's the entirely right sub.
/r/seduction19/07/18 06:39 PM
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Lol? This can't be serious. Grow up. Do stuff after work, learn to manage your time and stay on the ball.
/r/seduction18/07/18 06:15 PM
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This. Companies use social media to market themselves. Men should follow suit. It's not a requirement for a fulfilling dating life, but it opens doors for sure.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:41 AM
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Bro, it's all about screening for women who have qualities you want. Maybe some self reflection is in order - If you're attracting these types of women, it's because you're putting out signals that these women respond to.
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:08 AM
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Good stuff, but it's "report". Rapport is a completely different word.
/r/seduction16/07/18 06:12 PM
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There are two ways to pass a shit test. Agree + amplify or ignore. 90% of the time agree + amplify should be used, and it doubles up as flirty banter. Good stuff.
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:18 PM
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Sums up my mindset while reflecting on the night
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:57 AM
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Smile and say "have a nice night". On to the next one.
/r/seduction14/07/18 06:21 PM
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Not single: "not surprised. have a nice night" Not attracted: "oh fair maiden you have slain my ego and I shall never recover" Basically eject asap as gracefully/playfully as you can.
/r/seduction14/07/18 04:48 PM
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Basically "go team" but adapted for the school. Then I introduced myself and got her name.
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:59 AM
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Yeah, I agree. She would have given me her number anyway (most girls give out their number like old folks give out candy on Halloween night) but I think the two "prep" questions made her a lot more excited about giving it to me. I'm gonna field test this some more before I make any hard conclusions though.
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:54 AM
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If she wants to see you she will make time.
/r/seduction25/06/18 02:13 AM
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Eye contact, smiling, and engaged in the conversation are the simplest of all.
/r/seduction20/06/18 07:58 PM
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Alpha male other guy.
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:42 PM
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Your fatalism is pathetic. Having a career isn't "bullshit", it's the primary mark most people will leave in this world. Have you ever tried to work for a career? Or did you just give up when someone else told you that you couldn't do it or when things got hard? Statistics don't apply to individuals. By your argument, no one should ever pursue a PhD because only 2% of the country has a PhD. I don't want (or care if) you do anything. Approach all the women you want, but you have to understand tha…
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:14 PM
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First of all, that's not a question. I literally told you what I think you should do and you refuse to listen. You realize that getting women and having sex is a side effect of a full, enriching life and not some unrelated mission, right? You keep talking as if self improvement and approaching women are mutually exclusive endeavors. I'm saying that if you actually put in some effort into yourself to where you begin to see positive changes in your life, you will start to increase the amount of wo…
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:14 PM
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First off, good job for approaching at all. Your nerves are probably showing and they can absolutely feel it, and this makes them nervous in return. Engage her emotions, have a conversation that goes beyond "what's your name, what do you do, where are you from, etc.". A popular technique is the cold read ("You don't strike me as an east coast girl, you're from California aren't you?") where you make an assumption about the answer to a question you want to ask instead of asking the question direc…
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:11 PM
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Hard to tell without a detailed FR, but if I had to guess it has to do with social calibration. They're in a mall to shop, maybe they are in a rush. Maybe they can feel that you're only there to talk to chicks. Do you circle the food court waiting for your next target? My opinion (which may be wrong) is that daygame cold approaching should be done spontaneously as you're out and about doing things you would normally be doing anyway, not something you go to a place to do for a couple of hours. De…
/r/seduction25/04/18 05:44 PM
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Wow that's wild. Definitely a "pay attention to actions not words" situation.
/r/seduction24/04/18 11:23 PM
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I want to know how much time there was between "hah ok" and the next text. That text is a great example of not being needy while still being interested in the context of the convo.
/r/seduction24/04/18 11:14 PM
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Good post, but you could have said what you needed to say in fewer words. That was a 1300 word post where you essentially said "Hey guys, I've been around for a while, here's my advice. Seddit isn't a one stop shop to fix your problems, and if you want girls you have to invest in yourself and become someone people are attracted to in general." Now obviously I'm simplifying things, but this would be better as a 400 - 500 word post imo.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:15 PM
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You talk about "gifts" and conditions as if they are some immutable insurmountable barrier to having a normal life. I want people to succeed, so here's some tough love for you that I really hope you think about and internalize. It is completely irrelevant whether or not other understand, empathize with, or care about your plight. No one gives a shit about you, or what you do. I don't mean this in a bad way, I mean that people have so much of their own shit to think about that they literally have…
/r/seduction24/04/18 05:32 PM
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It's the same, but easier. Literally just invite dudes you meet to stuff you're doing. If you vibe with them, you'll keep hanging out. If not, you won't. Pretty simple.
/r/seduction24/04/18 05:17 PM
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This is called developing standards.
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:24 PM
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Read the original post, people who have serious problems with it really don't get women. Sure it has some broad generalizations, but we're here to learn how to pickup women, not one chick with a niche set of personality traits. Although I'm not a fan of calling women "plates" myself.
/r/seduction23/04/18 03:17 PM
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LingeringGnome hit the nail on the head. This is a textbook example of why the advice on this board about texting is always to only use it for logistics. Otherwise, you risk doing what happened here. It didn't start off too bad, but as it went on it just got needier and needier.
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:17 PM
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OP listen to this guy he knows exactly what he's talking about.
/r/seduction23/04/18 04:38 AM
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You've been confronted by uncomfortable information that will actually improve your life and instead of taking it, you decide that "they don't get it" and continue living your life the way you've been doing it. Let me ask you something. If what you've been doing your whole life isn't getting you the results you want, why don't you change what you're doing? You would rather argue for your limitations than know that there are no limitations. You can't use autism as a catch-all excuse for every bad…
/r/seduction22/04/18 04:24 PM
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Didn't watch your video but: Minigolf Bowling Arcade games Hiking Drinks (alcoholic or non-alcoholic) Are my go to dates.
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:20 PM
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Spot on
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:25 PM
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I think you're grasping at straws in an effort to be correct instead of facing the problems that make your life the way it is.
/r/seduction18/04/18 05:01 PM
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I don't mind long messages, I just don't think you have anything worth saying beyond whining about how shitty your life is. Do you even want to succeed and improve? It seems like you don't. Like I said, this goes beyond women. Seduction is about building an attractive lifestyle and conveying that lifestyle to others. Most people have an average lifestyle but have enough game to convey their lifestyle in an attractive way. You have a subpar life and a deadly fatalist outlook which combine to turn…
/r/seduction18/04/18 04:59 PM
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I don't really care what you think about yourself. Honestly dude, you sound like you have deep issues that go beyond women and I think you should be working those out before you even tackle the problem of finding a compatible woman.
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:27 PM
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Yeah you seem to have a pretty good handle on how things are. I do agree that having unique fun things to do together is better than doing generic things - but both are good (they're generically fun for a reason). I see a lot of posts here that overthink every detail to the extreme and I wanted to get it out there that relaxing and shooting the shit is going to get you much further than coming up with the perfect convo.
/r/seduction16/04/18 10:03 PM
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I disagree. I see where you're coming from: common interests make it easier to establish a long term relationship with someone in a pure, logical sense. But that's the thing about relationships (of all kinds), they're not based on logic, they're based on emotion. Comfort isn't about liking the same things or wanting to talk about certain topics. Comfort is about giving each other space to be vulnerable, about creating a bubble where you can share the deeper parts of your identity with someone el…
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:37 PM
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You're talking about those two "parts" as if they're different. They're the same. Teasing, being playful, etc. is comfort building. You don't need anything in common with someone to make them comfortable around you.
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:04 PM
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You've got to be a troll man. Every single post you make reeks of seething resentment and desperation. You realize that you and the story you tell yourself about yourself is the biggest obstacle you have, right? You have an extremely warped view of what a date is and - on a deeper level - what humans want from each other. Do you really think that wallowing in your own self pity is going to make you happy?
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:01 PM
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How many women do you approach a week?
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:41 PM
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Anyone who gets up in arms about this very legit concern should be dropped. What I would have done differently is instead of probing her with questions, state bluntly "look, you're a cool chick, but STDs are a concern for me and I'm not comfortable hooking up with someone that I'm not sure is clean." And leave it at that.
/r/seduction15/04/18 03:59 PM
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Let yourself feel it, don't fight it. Trying to relax is like trying to fall asleep. It only happens when you let go. Meditation can train you how to do this.
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:38 PM
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Low effort questions deserve low effort responses. Read the sidebar is perfectly legitimate advice, esp. when it's clear they haven't read the sidebar.
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:31 PM
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You can escalate at a bar as well. Check out DiCarlo escalation ladder. Once she looks at you with "fuck me" eyes, suggest going to her place. If she asks why not yours, deflect with something witty/sexy (don't kill the vibe). It's tough, but doable. Maybe something like "bad idea unless you want to put on a show for my folks".
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:29 PM
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I think The Game is a bad first read because it puts newbies in a bad frame. If that's the first thing they read, they're going to be using outdated and bad things because they're not going to understand why those things worked in those situations. Models gives a much better no nonsense approach. I do agree that "just b urself" is often mistaken as "I don't have to do anything different for people to like me", which is total bullshit. Birds of a feather flock together. If you want a high quality…
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:24 PM
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Sure, value plays a large part in game, I agree. My guide is tailored to the tangible parts of game. Obviously you should be improving your life, career, body etc. every day if you want the highest quality women. Value is also relative. If you're trying to bang a 10/10 rich supermodel, being a 25 year old just staring his career is gonna put you on the low value side of things. If you're trying to fuck a 8/10 college chick, you'll be on the higher value side of things.
/r/seduction12/04/18 11:51 PM
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You 'randomly' saying that you loved her probably freaked her out bro.
/r/seduction11/04/18 09:25 PM
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Bro you're over thinking this. Face her, look into her eyes. Put your hand on her waist. Pull her in and lean in for the kiss. Done. There is no perfect moment, you create the perfect moment.
/r/seduction09/04/18 11:33 PM
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Say something. Wait for response. Repeat. Seriously man, this is ridiculous.
/r/seduction06/04/18 04:50 PM
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Go to parties anyway. If someone asks you why you're not drinking, say you're the dd. You don't have to drink just because other people tell you to.
/r/seduction28/11/17 07:30 PM
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No one is going to be able to accurately answer this question. Sounds to me like you're projecting your attraction to her onto her actions. If you want to know whether or not she was attracted to you, you should just talk to her.
/r/seduction19/11/17 08:38 AM
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Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, you need to get out of your head.
/r/seduction18/11/17 04:59 PM
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Talking to girls like they're human beings instead of trophies to acquire.
/r/seduction18/11/17 04:55 PM
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You've provided absolutely no details, so my answer is just a shot in the dark, but if these girls are moving on after a few weeks it means you're not developing any kind of real bond with them during your time together. Also, 3 weeks isn't a relationship. You don't know these women. Are you physically escalating with these women?
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:06 AM
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Coaching and products are a waste of money considering how much material is available for free on youtube. Rest is good.
/r/seduction02/09/17 12:26 AM
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You're asking for permission to talk to girl from strangers on the internet. If you're interested in her and haven't asked her out, go ask her out.
/r/seduction01/09/17 11:38 PM
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Someone's projecting.
/r/seduction01/09/17 11:36 PM
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You should go approach some women.
/r/seduction01/09/17 12:48 AM
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It's all the same. I applied seddit knowledge in college with great success.
/r/seduction31/08/17 04:47 AM
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Experience is king. Slowly push boundaries and adjust your actions to the responses you get.
/r/seduction20/08/17 01:47 AM
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Yeah these are all good as long as you keep a good balance between them. Your points boil down to comfort, emotional connection, intent, and abundance mentality. Calibrating the balance of these points to specific girls is what brings these concepts together, some girls need more comfort, others want more sexual intent.
/r/seduction19/08/17 02:12 AM
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Lol? Nice meme. Out of curiosity, what got me a spot on the shit list?
/r/seduction19/08/17 01:49 AM
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I can't be the only one who has realized that this guy is literally just a troll.
/r/seduction18/08/17 10:02 PM
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You don't have to have the same interests to talk about why you find things interesting. You: "I like gaming because it really brings out my competitive side." Her: "I'm the same way with volleyball." That being said, your question is awe-strikingly dumb. Not sharing all the same hobbies or interests doesn't matter. What matters is connecting over the reasons why you do the things you do.
/r/seduction17/08/17 09:02 PM
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That too.
/r/seduction17/08/17 08:57 PM
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Your conversations are boring. The last thing someone in school wants to talk about is school. Here's a handy acronym for what to talk about: FORD - Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams Don't talk about RAPE - Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics. Also don't talk about rape. This is just a starting point, but the general idea is that you need to elicit an emotional response during your conversation. Talking about someone's major will not make them want to keep talking to you.
/r/seduction17/08/17 02:28 PM
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Idk if this is the case, but I've found that if you find all people you meet to be boring, then it is you who is boring. You can't force yourself to be interested in someone. What do you care about? Talk about that.
/r/seduction16/08/17 01:10 AM
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What kind of dates are more expensive than $20? I guess a concert, but I would only go to a concert with a girl that I already knew was interested in me.
/r/seduction16/08/17 01:07 AM
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If you have a college degree and a job, just pay. If dropping $20 on a date puts a financial strain on you, you've got more important problems than women. Don't be a wallet, but being stingy just makes you bitter.
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:24 PM
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Keep rationalizing, bro.
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:16 PM
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This post is you asking internet strangers for a thumbs up on wrecking some dude's marriage. Have a fucking soul, bro.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:49 PM
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Get your head out of your ass and stop being so self important. You care too much about shit that doesn't matter.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:41 PM
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Once she says yes to a date, get her number and transition to text. It'll boost your success rate.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:35 PM
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"Hey, I'm a busy guy and I'm sure you're a busy girl. Let's [insert date idea here] on [date when you're free next]."
/r/seduction12/08/17 07:55 AM
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Don't bang your coworkers if you want to keep your job. $$$ > pussy
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:36 AM
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Why not?
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:35 AM
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You didn't talk to her for a week, she probably lost interest. You can't build attraction through text.
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:34 AM
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You're overthinking this. She just wanted to smoke bro.
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:32 AM
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It's highly dependent on the people and the specific situation. Has nothing to do with distance; everything to do with the people and the relationship dynamic.
/r/seduction04/08/17 07:04 PM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction04/08/17 07:01 PM
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wow i never thought of it that way :^ )
/r/seduction04/08/17 06:24 PM
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www.pornhub.com
/r/seduction04/08/17 01:31 AM
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Your coworker is a dick. Next time you see her (if there is a next time), tell her that you were telling your coworker about a cute girl you met and that he decided to be a dick.
/r/seduction04/08/17 01:27 AM
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Why have sex with someone you don't want to date?
/r/seduction04/08/17 01:21 AM
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What would you suggest instead?
/r/seduction02/08/17 09:26 PM
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Kinda nitpicky, but musicians don't 'tune to the strongest player', they tune to a known absolute value (usually A440 from the oboe). Advice rings true, whatever emotions you project are the emotions others will pick up on and react to.
/r/seduction02/08/17 09:03 PM
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Might be cool in a book, tryhard irl.
/r/seduction02/08/17 08:57 PM
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It's only rude if you make it rude. Try this line when you're talking to a girl you just met: "You seem like an interesting person and I'd like to get to know you better. Let's trade numbers and set up a coffee date."
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:00 PM
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Be more invested in your perception of yourself than her perception of you.
/r/seduction02/08/17 05:56 PM
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You're not really contributing to the thread. I'm asking what people think of the wording of a general opener in a situation where you're familiar with the girl but want to get to know her better, not for inner game advice.
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:21 AM
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I find I have more success when I stay away from questions and instead make suggestions that include a way out for the girl (e.g. 'Let's go to dinner if you're free.').
/r/seduction02/08/17 04:35 AM
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Seems like you're overthinking this. It's just a complement. Say thanks and move on.
/r/seduction02/08/17 12:39 AM
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You've got a lot of room for improvement if you can't compliment random girls on their looks. Don't lower your standards, up your game.
/r/seduction01/08/17 11:27 PM
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Reddit has self-aware humans? A rare find.
/r/seduction01/08/17 11:06 PM
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That's not a sign, that's a billboard on a skyscraper. Next.
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:57 PM
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Your comment made it seem like you didn't believe it was possible to party and get good grades.
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:43 PM
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You're trying too hard, and you didn't go for a date/phone number, you're just talking about nothing.
/r/seduction01/08/17 08:25 PM
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It's possible to party insanely hard in college and also get excellent grades. The two aren't even remotely mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:32 AM
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"Hunt for women" Lol dude. You don't hunt for REEE-males, you go about your day, and when you see a pretty girl, you talk to her. If you have a 'deep inner world', you don't get bored talking to new women because you're meeting a variety of them in a variety of settings, unlike walking around in a park approaching random chicks where you'll probably be having the same conversation over and over.
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:20 AM
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"Thoughts, words, actions align." Probably the best summary of all RSD material (Tyler uses this phrase in many of his older videos)
/r/seduction01/08/17 04:34 AM
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You're talking about maturity disparity as if the likelihood of the 18 yo being more mature than the 28 yo is equivalent to the opposite scenario. Live and let live doesn't apply to people who actively try to have sex with children. I'm done reading through your mental gymnastics.
/r/seduction30/07/17 08:37 PM
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Start by exercising and eating right. Go see a dietician and find a weightlifting program on the internet (i recommend kris gethins 12 week muscle builder). Find a hobby you enjoy that lets you interact with others. Think of what you want to accomplish in your lifetime careerwise and start taking steps to achieve those things.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:39 PM
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All you have to do to sleep with this type of girl is have a 5 star French waiter at your beck and call.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:30 PM
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If you think the decision making skills of 18 year olds and 28 year olds are on par, you've got a seriously warped view of emotional maturity. I will say that 18 and 28 isn't unheard of. I think the 18 year line is the hardline though, which is why I'm up in a flurry.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:39 AM
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It only sounds like a stupid fallacy to people who think that there are no ethical implications to dating someone who isn't fully emotionally mature as a nearly 30 year old adult.
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:56 AM
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Ask for her number, text her to set up a date.
/r/seduction29/07/17 04:33 PM
5

You're mocking a reasonable rule of thumb to justify your attraction to emotionally immature women (relative to you). Take to the logical extreme; is age still just a number when the numbers are 16 and 60? Not a chance. Age may be an arbitrary value, but the concept it represents is very real.
/r/seduction29/07/17 04:04 PM
6

Statistics aren't applicable to individuals. If you want to spend $20,000 to impress chicks, rent a sports car.
/r/seduction26/07/17 01:46 AM
1

She has a fiance, she has a huge online following, she probably deals with shit like this all the time and is just having fun. Don't pursue taken women, it's more trouble than it's worth.
/r/seduction22/07/17 07:35 PM
1

Stop speculating and go talk to her.
/r/seduction22/07/17 05:52 PM
3

Complains about too much theory, opens up with 'harness your inner reptile'. That aside, habit building is significantly more effective than other forms of self improvement.
/r/seduction21/07/17 02:46 AM
3

I don't wait. If I get a girl's number, I text her the next morning about getting coffee a few days out. They either agree, agree but reschedule, or decline. Then, they either flake or show up. I only devote attention to girls who agree to meet at a concrete time and place and then show up when they say they will. P basic stuff.
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:45 AM
2

For the first date I usually go straight for the date asap and after that it's a bit more banter in between setting meets.
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:37 AM
4

Your dad being her PI is a bit dicey imo, could represent a real problem for her if you two break up and it's not amicable.
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:35 AM
13

You don't tell her that she's attractive, you show her you find her attractive by escalating physically.
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:26 PM
2

You will never have a happy relationship with this woman. Do yourself a favor and move on to the next chapter of your life.
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:13 PM
1

You're trying to justify lying about your age to sleep with women by getting approval from the internet. I'm not going to tell you how to live your life.
/r/seduction19/07/17 09:50 PM
1

No only betas and cucks care about personality. ... Bro, you don't need an internet forum to give you the go ahead on screening for women that suit your particular taste.
/r/seduction19/07/17 05:52 PM
1

Neg-hit? You've been reading way too much pickup material. Who cares how many women are judgmental of your age? Let me say this once again: You have literally no control over it. Why are you wasting brainpower thinking about it? Go for women who don't care how old you are.
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:06 PM
1

You're not restricted by your age; it's all in your head. Don't lie to someone you're trying to connect with.
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:02 PM
2

Do you seriously want to date women who are judgmental of something you have literally no control over?
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:47 AM
1

You're right; there's no reason to interact with strangers, so why bother?
/r/seduction18/07/17 11:21 PM
6

Now who's making assumptions?
/r/seduction18/07/17 10:59 PM
2

Dude, I can't define a life for you to live. That's your job. If you want to take this to pm, I could give you my insight into what you need to be happy, but it will boil down to "live a life you love so much that you stay up late and get up early for it".
/r/seduction18/07/17 10:57 PM
1

Literally the sidebar of this sub
/r/seduction18/07/17 12:56 AM
1

It's pretty clear what your problem is. Develop your life into something you're proud of before worrying about women.
/r/seduction17/07/17 03:57 PM
2

Okay, then plan an evening date that you would both enjoy, take her on the date, and try to kiss her.
/r/seduction16/07/17 10:27 PM
1

Nice meme :)
/r/seduction16/07/17 10:23 PM
2

This sounds like it comes from a solid foundation, but I'll have to field test this before I form an opinion on it. Have had plenty of success by using text strictly for logistics and getting a date setup as quickly as possible.
/r/seduction16/07/17 10:22 PM
3

A lot of the time it's that you forget to text girls because you can't keep track of all the recent additions to your contact list. Better things to do than text girls all day, so inevitably you forget that you even have a girl's number. Disclaimer: Not a 'master' of game, just my personal experience.
/r/seduction16/07/17 10:02 PM
10

Don't tell her how you feel, show her how you feel by asking her out on a date.
/r/seduction16/07/17 09:55 PM
1

Save this? You're fine dude. She was tired. Ask her out to coffee and build on the connection you made.
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:44 PM
-6

No, people who interact with women they don't actually like for the sole purpose of sleeping with them need to grow up.
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:41 PM
1

What about it? Those thoughts are a meaningless jumble of insecurities that only you have access to. You have control over your own self talk. If you actually hate your life, fix it. If you're just complaining about your life, fix your attitude. It's okay to start slow, like by walking up to an attractive girl and asking for the time. Then maybe the next day you'll ask one for directions. The week after that, you walk up to one to tell her she's pretty and then wish her a nice day. The month aft…
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:22 PM
1

Rationalizing inaction won't get you anywhere. Assuming that you wont 'actually give a fuck' about the interaction 'beyond physical attraction' is limiting, and it will prevent you from connecting with people you might have gotten along with had you given them a chance.
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:15 PM
3

Dude, Marla hasn't been into you romantically for 7 years. That's not suddenly going to change, especially since she's signalling pretty hard that she wants to keep it platonic by inviting Lara out every time you meet. Find someone else to put the moves on before you ruin your nearly decade long friendship with this girl.
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:10 PM
10

Grow up bro.
/r/seduction16/07/17 03:36 PM
6

Why would you want to talk to a girl who tells you that she's taken when she's interested? She's either a liar or a drama queen.
/r/seduction16/07/17 03:10 PM
1

No. Move on.
/r/seduction16/07/17 01:17 AM
6

Do it every once in a while and it's fun, do it all the time and she will quickly get annoyed.
/r/seduction15/07/17 04:56 PM
12

"They are annoying as fuck" This seems like a rant more than actual advice. Is your advice summed up by 'don't be a fucking douchecanoe'? Because it sure seems that way.
/r/seduction15/07/17 03:36 PM
3

How does this have so many upvotes if every comment is so negative? Anyone who upvoted have a reason as to why they did?
/r/seduction15/07/17 03:29 PM
2

You are waaaay too concerned with stupid labels. She likes you. You like her. Travel together, make some memories.
/r/seduction15/07/17 12:10 AM
2

"Hi! I'm x, what's your name?"
/r/seduction14/07/17 04:25 PM
2

Definitely by a doctor, one cause of bad breath that persists despite dental hygiene is when a piece of food gets stuck in your tonsils and rots.
/r/seduction14/07/17 12:38 AM
6

Get your tonsils checked if you have bad breath and flossing/brushing teeth twice a day doesn't fix.
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:40 PM
1

Got the date, good job. She told you when she was free, so she's definitely interested. Good luck :)
/r/seduction12/07/17 07:27 PM
5

Too much writing for the amount of actionable advice. Your whole 'dominance hierarchy' section promotes insecurity rather than confidence, propogating the idea that one's worth is derived from how they compare to others. Self-worth comes from the alignment of your thoughts, words, and actions, not from your arbitrary hierarchical position in a social construct.
/r/seduction12/07/17 07:20 PM
3

Literally walk up to a girl and talk to her.
/r/seduction12/07/17 07:07 PM
1

Risky how? You don't need to approach every girl. It isn't an all or nothing game.
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:49 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:21 PM
5

Shortly after the date (an hour or so): "I had a blast, let's do it again soon :)" Is what I usually do (or some variation).
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:46 PM
16

If you do it like him, probably. Waiting outside of a store to approach chicks is creepy af.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:43 PM
10

You don't have to be talking about sex to talk sexually. Flirting with sexual intent is about the body language, tone, and implications that back up your words.
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:49 AM
1

Now we're getting somewhere. You're talking about closed ended questions (e.g. "What school do you go to?"). Ask more open ended questions ("What made you want to study that?"), listen to her response, then relate with your own story, and your conversations will feel less stagnant and formulaic.
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:27 AM
1

Ok, you're confusing the words 'boring' and 'logical'. What's 'logical' about talking about sales quotas? How are you even defining logical?
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:58 AM
5

Don't text her. Delete her number.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:54 AM
2

Being logical and being fun aren't mutually exclusive. Give me an example of a recent conversation you had that fizzled out and I'll have more to go on.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:49 AM
5

First of all, mgtow and incels are most certainly not self improvement subs, and trp barely qualifies. Women aren't a game, they're just other human people. Believe it or not, beautiful people can be just as shitty as ugly ones. There are good people of all kinds out there, men and women; seeing women as a game will prevent you from meeting them.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:47 AM
2

You know what they say about people who call themselves "nice"? It applies to neediness as well. Coming back from behind in romantic affairs is more trouble than it's worth. Learn from your mistakes and try dating someone else before you consider trying to date this girl again.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:33 AM
1

http://www.bluelight.org/vb/archive/index.php/t-233767.html This one has been a crowd pleaser with (at?) my trysts.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:25 AM
0

Are you saying you've never had a conversation that contained 'jokes, emotion, fun, or creativity'?
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:21 AM
5

Bro, you are way too invested in a girl you only went on a few dates with. From what I can tell by your post, you came off to the girl as desperate. Move on, and next time, don't text a girl you barely know every day.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:16 AM
2

Learn to make them orgasm multiple times before you're even inside them and by that point they won't care.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:09 AM
1

Should be in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:08 AM
2

You're taking this way too seriously. Cool down, champ.
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:07 AM
8

This doesn't say anything about how an online presence improves your life, it's just a generic guide on making an instagram account. No actionable advice that actually helps you meet and date women.
/r/seduction11/07/17 07:37 PM
11

Let her go bro. You've clearly got more important problems than girls that aren't into you to deal with. If she was into you, she would've been down to hang out 1 on 1.
/r/seduction11/07/17 07:09 PM
15

They're not 'plates', they're humans. Lying to women for sex is pathetic and terrible.
/r/seduction10/07/17 09:02 PM
27

I've found that the key to good conversation that keeps women (and you) entertained is listening, probing a bit deeper into the story she's told you, and then relating to it with a story of your own.
/r/seduction10/07/17 04:55 PM
8

From the limited info you've given, I'm guessing that when you're an 'asshole' to women you're exemplifying non-neediness and when you 'respect' them you portray needy behavior.
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:03 PM
1

It sounds like she is averse to hanging out with you. I would advise moving on. You left out a bunch of specifics, namely what you texted about with her, and the specific way in which you asked her out. My original advice still stands though; move on.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:38 PM
1

This should be in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:32 PM
1

IMO, you've missed your chance to get with this girl. In the future, rather than asking her to let you know what her schedule will be like, suggest a time and place in the same message you ask her out in. This prevents situations like your current one. "How would you feel about [activity] at [time] on [date] at [place]?" They either agree, agree with a reschedule, or decline.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:29 PM
1

The idea that seduction is 'clever exploitation of working of mind' sounds manipulative and shallow. Seduction is about creating deep and powerful emotional connections through genuine interactions.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:11 PM
2

You can literally say anything you want.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:03 PM
1

This has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:57 PM
2

So, recall all of the times you have ever smiled in your life. Next time you make eye contact with this girl, smile at her. If she smiles back, walk up to her and say hi. Talk to her for a few minutes and if you like her, get her number, suggest that you go for coffee sometime soon, and excuse yourself by saying that you need to get back to your workout set. Easy peasy.
/r/seduction07/07/17 04:17 AM
2

How old are you?
/r/seduction07/07/17 03:05 AM
2

Preach. Last sentence captures my thoughts perfectly.
/r/seduction06/07/17 05:47 AM
1

Is there anything you do like?
/r/seduction05/07/17 01:30 AM
1

Make a move after you're no longer in her class.
/r/seduction05/07/17 01:24 AM
1

I'm not saying it won't work, I'm saying that these techniques would result in positive responses from the wrong type of women for me.
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:08 AM
2

Drop this chick. Do you enjoy pointless drama? This girl sucks, don't waste any more time on her.
/r/seduction04/07/17 11:55 PM
1

"If you are American and she is latino you could say 'DO YOU HAVE PAPERS MISS?'" Lol. Do you ask Asian women if they're fresh off the boat, too? I can see how the openers you've written here can come off as funny, but to me the tone consistently feels douchy. I'm biased, of course, but that's my two cents.
/r/seduction04/07/17 10:50 PM
1

Who is more likely to find their soulmate, the person who is waiting for the perfect woman to come along, or the person who meets a lot of women and connects with them on a deeper emotional level? Your standards aren't what's holding you back, it's your lack of experience and confidence. Go out and meet women; you will see that they are flawed humans. Your idea of finding the 'perfect' woman is an unattainable fantasy.
/r/seduction04/07/17 04:42 PM
1

Ok, then sit at home for the rest of your life feeling sorry for yourself. There is no secret. Just go out and do it. Instead of being controlled by your insecurities, learn to control them by acting despite the fear. Start slow, maybe one approach before you go home. Maybe it'll go well and you'll want to do more. Complaining about how sad you are isn't going to fix anything.
/r/seduction04/07/17 04:25 PM
2

tl;dr don't date someone because someone else told you to.
/r/seduction04/07/17 04:12 PM
0

How is it not? You have a mouth and a brain, nothing is stopping you from talking to strangers except your own insecurities and limiting beliefs.
/r/seduction04/07/17 04:10 PM
1

This is mental masturbation garbage.
/r/seduction04/07/17 04:06 PM
1

My bad, disregard.
/r/seduction04/07/17 04:04 PM
1

Suggest a time and place for coffee/date.
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:52 PM
12

tl;dr don't waste time on women who aren't attracted to you.
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:50 PM
3

He's right though.
/r/seduction03/07/17 06:34 AM
3

This is a trainwreck in the making. Suggest meeting up and if she says anything except 'yes', move on.
/r/seduction03/07/17 06:33 AM
1

Your article was unintelligible gibberish.
/r/seduction03/07/17 02:19 AM
3

Where? Literally anywhere. On the street, in a classroom, at lunch, etc. Don't make it your mission to go places just to hit on women. Have an interesting life that provides natural opportunities to meet (and hit on) women. What to say? Literally anything, but remember to calibrate. You don't need to be a master of social situations to have a good conversation that leaves somebody wanting more. Make observations, listen to what they say, and find a common connection. How to close? Depends. Typic…
/r/seduction03/07/17 12:56 AM
3

She's extremely insecure and you should stop talking to her unless you enjoy drama. You're kind of a dick for assuming that she's lying to you just because she doesn't want to bang you.
/r/seduction02/07/17 05:31 PM
1

Well, given what you've told me I'd say you blew it. Unlike you, I don't have all the information; I could be wrond about this.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:03 AM
5

Short answer: you can't.
/r/seduction01/07/17 12:36 AM
1

Define 'bad'. Chances of her texting you are pretty low.
/r/seduction30/06/17 11:36 PM
1

Idk how old you are, but a lot of your rules aim to portray someone who is disinterested and unattached in hopes that the woman in question will be attracted to this kind of behavior. They're not the worst guidelines if you're trying to compensate for the natural tendency to get overinvested in someone too quickly, but they're not a substitute for having a life outside of women from which you can draw validation. Are you waiting 2 days to text someone because you need to obey some arbitrary rule…
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:38 PM
2

If you never 'give away power'/'get emotionally entangled', you're gonna find it much harder to connect with the women you meet.
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:24 PM
1

Typing through a screen vs talking to a person.
/r/seduction30/06/17 08:59 PM
2

If you find yourself running out of things to talk about after the 2nd date, it means you haven't connected with the woman in any meaningful ways. Think about the last time you hung out with a good friend of yours. You probably meandered from one topic to the next without even thinking about it. Do the same with women.
/r/seduction30/06/17 08:42 PM
1

Online is easier but doesn't build confidence like cold approaching does.
/r/seduction30/06/17 08:27 PM
3

You think tying up women is gay?
/r/seduction30/06/17 08:06 PM
-3

I agree, emotional manipulation is a shitty thing to do. His point centers around assertiveness and taking the lead on making plans though, not telling women they're not good enough in the hopes that they'll try to gain favor.
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:32 PM
1

Walk up to her with confident body language and move your lips to make words come out.
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:19 PM
2

You don't see anything wrong with trying to bang someone who's in a relationship? Lol. Keeping yourself on someone's radar and making a move after they're newly single is one thing; actively making moves on someone who's taken is completely different. Rationalize your shitty behavior to yourself all you like, it doesn't change the fact that what you're talking about doing is deplorable.
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:16 PM
-1

"You seem like someone I'd like to get to know better. How does coffee at (time and place) sound?" Same principle. Seems like you're hung up on his specific example rather than the core concept.
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:09 PM
3

Don't ruin someone's life just because you want to get your dick wet. Have some standards.
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:55 PM
8

Have you tried going to an anime convention and talking to girls you're attracted to?
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:53 PM
4

What's the point of doing this if it usually doesn't go anywhere in the moment?
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:52 PM
5

My method is a direct answer to the question in your title.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:47 PM
5

Don't ask for advice if you don't actually want to change anything about yourself to get results. You're conjuring up a ridiculously unlikely hypothetical scenario instead of just trying this method.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:38 PM
2

I see what you're trying to say, but by putting relationships and sex into separate, opposing mental boxes, you are destroying your ability to attain your goals. To answer your original question, read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:35 PM
7

Don't ask when a girl is free. Instead, suggest a time and place when you're free (e.g. "How does coffee at %place on %date at %time sound?"). If she's free and wants to see you, she'll say yes, if she's not free and wants to see you, she'll suggest an alternative time, and if she says anything else, she doesn't want to see you.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:30 PM
1

How are you planning to get to a relationship with a girl without having sex with her?
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:17 PM
1

Find a hobby you enjoy and meet women through that hobby.
/r/seduction28/06/17 07:37 PM
19

How do you pronounce your name?
/r/seduction28/06/17 05:35 PM
1

Because it's literally the most basic and neutral opener that exists in the human species. Creepiness is a manifestation of misaligned intent and behavior. This approach is only creepy if you are creepy.
/r/seduction28/06/17 03:21 AM
1

Only if you act creepy.
/r/seduction28/06/17 01:41 AM
4

Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:04 AM
2

Here's some more explanation for you: She's not interested. Move on and find someone who is actually attracted to you rather than trying to convince someone to like you. It's not only needy, it's a tremendous waste of time.
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:33 PM
1

Find a girl who you likes you and it won't be a problem. Instead of being insecure, be willing to learn.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:38 AM
2

What is your mother's maiden name? What street did you grow up on? What is the mascot of the first school you went to? Your questions make you sound like a serial killer. What do you look for in a girl? Ask questions that screen girls you meet for traits that YOU find attractive.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:16 PM
1

You care more about her perception of you than you care about your perception of yourself.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:13 PM
4

tl;dr: Don't lie to women by pretending to be someone you aren't and they'll like you better.
/r/seduction12/06/17 07:22 PM
2

You deal with it by respecting her decision and moving on. Do you want to waste months or even years convincing a girl who isn't romantically interested in you to change her mind, or would you rather be finding women who are already attracted to you to build memories with? You showed her your sexual intent, and she did not reciprocate. You have saved yourself immeasurable time and anxiety over whether or not she feels what you feel, so don't waste your time trying to convince her otherwise.
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:14 PM
8

The real answer to almost every question on here is "Try it and see if you get better results than before".
/r/seduction23/03/15 01:21 AM
2

Take the alternate and make that your whole profile. Short, sweet and it screens out women who don't share your sense of humor b
/r/seduction02/02/15 03:39 PM
2

"But how can I make her just absolutely fall for me?" You can't. Just be a chill dude, enjoy each other's company, and escalate physically.
/r/seduction26/01/15 07:42 AM
3

"Hey, long time no see. Lets grab coffee and catch up."
/r/seduction31/12/14 05:08 AM
3

Figure out her favorites, and more importantly figure out why. Just know what things are is something anyone can do, be different by trying to figure out why they're a certain way. You'll find connecting with people a lot easier.
/r/seduction22/12/14 07:13 AM
1

From this field report it sounds like she's not into you at all.
/r/seduction04/12/14 05:43 PM
4

"She's not looking for a relationship and neither am I at the moment. As it currently stands it seems she just genuinely likes dick." Sounds like you answered your own question man.
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:45 AM
10

Do you think a guy who says he doesn't have guy friends and only hangs out with girls is cool or lame?
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:23 AM
2

If you had actually given the article a read, you would have realized that the list is a list of traits that insecure people have.
/r/seduction02/12/14 04:31 AM
1

Confidence comes from trust of the self. Focus on who you are and trust that you are someone worth depending on. Trust that you're able to do what needs to be done. Trust your own instinct and you will find yourself brimming with confidence.
/r/seduction29/11/14 10:22 AM
1

Everyone has a certain kind of nature and the faster you find it, the faster you can solidify your reality. Having a strong reality is about being true to your wants and needs in every aspect of your life.
/r/seduction25/11/14 03:35 PM
6

Those are both excuses to not approach.
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:00 AM
1

Ask interesting open ended questions. Talk about something different. Separate yourself from every other person who talks about the weather and talk about your passions.
/r/seduction19/10/14 08:03 PM
1

Interactions are only mundane if you make them mundane.
/r/seduction19/10/14 07:28 PM
1

Not talking to her at all guarantees that she won't be interested ever. Talk to her.
/r/seduction19/10/14 05:46 PM
1

If she's attracted to you she will make an effort to see you. We make time for the people we like and excuses for the people we don't.
/r/seduction14/10/14 03:37 PM
1

Don't draw attention to your Kino. Keep eye contact and make it natural, the same way you don't draw attention to physical contact between your friends.
/r/seduction08/10/14 02:44 AM
3

I started applying things on this sub to my life when I was 17 and its definitely better to start as early as you possibly can so that when you hit the point in your life where you meet an incredible woman who you connect with, you're not stuck not knowing how to escalate into a romantic relationship.
/r/seduction08/10/14 12:28 AM
2

Text game is the weakest form of game and Kino is the key to sexual tension. I don't see how you're being successful if your sticking point is a fundamental pillar of game.
/r/seduction04/10/14 08:49 PM
2

Anyone can pull numbers. Pulling women is a totally different story.
/r/seduction04/10/14 01:06 PM
0

The best way to feel worthy of hot women is to actually be worthy of hot women. Lead an attractive and interesting life and convey that in your day to day actions and conversations.
/r/seduction30/09/14 02:45 PM
1

In the future, address the concern as quickly as possible so it doesn't become awkward. "Hey, I am just the worst with names, could you remind me of yours?" At this point, you could ask her to put her number into your phone and get her name that way.
/r/seduction30/09/14 04:07 AM
2

You got to a girls house after just meeting her and you got her number. Solid job. Any standout lines from your conversation with her?
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:34 AM
1

It can take minutes or it can take months. It all depends on how fast you escalate and how you run game. Keep in mind that often times, the faster you build attraction, the less room you have for error.
/r/seduction29/09/14 01:51 AM
2

You get thrown off by girls who idly chit chat and you also seem to get mad at girls who confirm date plans with a straightforward answer. Do you want her to answer every single question you have the moment you ask? She's not at your beck and call.
/r/seduction24/09/14 08:54 PM
2

Marketing scheme that does have good advice but isn't even close to worth the amount of money you would spend.
/r/seduction23/09/14 12:12 AM
1

Kino
/r/seduction22/09/14 08:59 PM
1

These are great. Work on your delivery if you're not having success with these. Girls are people who want to have fun. None of these lines are meant to be said or taken seriously.
/r/seduction22/09/14 08:42 PM
1

You do some self reflection and understand that your happiness depends entirely on being internally at peace with your life.
/r/seduction21/09/14 08:30 PM
-4

This is a problem beyond the scope of the sub. You already know what to do: talk to the girl. We don't know you, we can't help you with any serious personal flaws unless you give us a lot of backstory. Everyone has their own shit that they have to deal with and it's childish of you to ask someone else to figure out yours instead of just dealing with it by yourself.
/r/seduction21/09/14 04:48 PM
1

It doesn't make a fucking difference what kind of shoes you wear.
/r/seduction20/09/14 09:51 PM
2

You're over thinking it. Like completely. Either kiss her next time you see her or drop her.
/r/seduction19/09/14 07:13 AM
4

Your last sentence is more accurate than you could possibly imagine.
/r/seduction19/09/14 06:58 AM
4

Walk up to them, introduce yourself and then talk to them like you've been doing your whole fucking life with anyone you've ever met. If you like them after a short conversation, suggest another meet up and get their contact info.
/r/seduction18/09/14 09:38 PM
30

You sound bitter as fuck. How bout instead of complaining about how unfair the game is you improve yourself and your skills?
/r/seduction18/09/14 01:18 AM
9

Grow up. You're too good for the people your age? Every girl you meet is boring? Maybe you're the boring one. Maybe you don't know how to ask questions that prod at people's interests. Everyone is interesting. The only ones who can't see that are the boring people.
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:32 AM
1

Trying to change yourself just so that other people like you is stupid. Be yourself and be a good person. Focus on that. Be social and friendly to everyone. My friend has an insanely high number, and it's because he's friends with literally everyone. After you have a lot of friends, you become really comfortable in social situations, and it becomes really easy to escalate with girls.
/r/seduction13/09/14 10:24 PM
2

I approach girls regularly on campus. I usually use a situational opener. It's pretty hit/miss. Either they'll be into your opener or they won't and you can use that to decide whether to keep gaming or just leave.
/r/seduction11/09/14 10:23 PM
1

Stop making it a big fucking deal. If a guy pulls a chick and you don't because he's more attractive, remember that you're literally back where you started. Just keep talking to women and you will eventually realize that looks literally don't matter. What matters is what kind of deep connection you can make with a woman while using that connection to make her feel better than any other guy in the room can make her feel. Seduction isn't about saying the right thing to a girl, it's about making a …
/r/seduction08/09/14 09:06 AM
1

If she was interested she would have met up with you already.
/r/seduction07/09/14 06:45 PM
1

Girls defy logic. The only thing you can do is take silence as rejection. And don't take that statement out of context, it applies contextually to your situation.
/r/seduction06/09/14 04:36 AM
1

Really dude? It's pretty obvious that she's not interested.
/r/seduction06/09/14 04:11 AM
1

It matters if you let it matter. You've never even asked a girl out, so why worry about something probably isn't as big of a deal as you're making it out to be.
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:20 PM
2

"I did xyz and nothing worked waaaaah" Shut up and do better. Take what you want. You talked to a few girls you were in clubs with? Wow, I bet no one has ever talked to them before. How bout you kiss them and if you can't, at least try? How bout you work on your language so that you can say the right thing at the right time? Try harder and push your limits. You'll find success outside of your comfort zone. I guarantee it.
/r/seduction04/09/14 03:07 AM
2

The more of a connection you have, the more you should lean toward a call.
/r/seduction04/09/14 03:03 AM
1

Place definitely. You can play around the walking thing pretty easily, especially if you go to a club/bar because you shouldn't be driving in that case anyway.
/r/seduction31/08/14 05:30 PM
2

You're terrified of women. You should figure out who you are before you start trying to bring people into your life. Learn how to connect with yourself before you start trying to connect with others.
/r/seduction31/08/14 05:28 PM
0

"Unless I show some strong interest and make active effort in pursuing." Seems like I found the problem.
/r/seduction30/08/14 06:21 PM
2

Are you really 20? You type like a high schooler.
/r/seduction30/08/14 05:21 PM
0

Dude, sorry but, fuck you man. We all did it and guess what, it's not like you're going to go through an intensely life changing alteration by saying hi to one girl. It's fucking scary no matter how much confidence you have. Do it anyway.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:19 AM
1

I'm turning 20 this October.
/r/seduction28/08/14 08:04 AM
2

Remembering a name is literally the easiest and most fundamental part to connecting to a person. Seduction is all about creating an intimate connection as quickly as possible.
/r/seduction26/08/14 08:21 PM
35

tl;dr It's only a problem if you make it a problem.
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:57 PM
-1

This sub is first and foremost about self improvement. Pretending to forget someone's name to knock them down a peg or two is decidedly not a trait that I would suggest someone who is trying to improve themselves to have. I did answer his question in my original post. You want me to sustain my position with arguments? Literally the first thing you find out about anyone you ever meet ever is their name. There are almost no exceptions to this. Names are important and anyone who thinks otherwise is…
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:51 PM
0

What the fuck? They're a fucking person. Don't just forget names for no reason. It's rude as fuck. Remembering a name is common fucking courtesy.
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:28 PM
2

Keep looking until you find the girl that you think is right for you. Give every girl a chance but never settle for less than what you want.
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:10 PM
4

Solid, but I will say that your views on fraternities as being pointless is just plain wrong, probably colored by the lack of greek life on your campus. Fraternities open up a huge network as well as an awesome support system. Brotherhood is a big part of being in a house, which fits with the whole "having your shit straight". Your brothers get on your ass for not being on top of your shit all the time, and it helps to keep everyone on track for success. Also, social events happen literally nons…
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:03 PM
3

First of all, don't worry. Literally every year tons of freshman run into this problem. All improvements start in the mind. Don't let thoughts of crushing failure hold you back. Failing to succeed does not mean failing to progress. So what if a girl doesn't talk to you or you had an awkward conversation? If you're still worried about a 5 minute window of your life a month later then you're being ridiculous. So, fill your thoughts with improvement. "I'm gonna say hi to this girl". Better than not…
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:18 AM
32

Are you guys serious? Look into her eyes when you talk to her, give subtle but obvious touches, first to her arms then her hands then her body. Smile at her and make her laugh. Make fun of her and play punch her. Grab her hand, pull her in close, kiss her.
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:34 AM
1

No one owes you any moment of their time for any reason whatsoever.
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:27 AM
3

This is the perfect field report.
/r/seduction25/08/14 03:22 AM
8

You sound like a fucking asshole. Get some class.
/r/seduction25/08/14 03:21 AM
2

The first half is good but the second half isn't that great. If you've gone on a date with her it doesn't matter what you text her anymore. Just leave the phone alone until you want to see her again instead of worrying about what to text. If you've gone on a date you've got a pretty good idea of if you're gonna want to see this person again, so texting becomes stupid.
/r/seduction25/08/14 02:58 AM
3

Always talk to a girl directly by introducing yourself then memorizing their name. Then, you try to make her laugh and break the touch barrier as fast as possible. Find a common interest in something that she likes a lot, and then take her around the party doing different things until you just look at her really seductively and then kill her.
/r/seduction25/08/14 02:25 AM
1

There's not a whole lot you can do. Shoot her a text in a month and see if she's down to meet up. Until then, keep on gaming.
/r/seduction23/08/14 08:53 PM
16

Do a bunch of cool shit and talk about it.
/r/seduction23/08/14 08:28 AM
122

Lol. She has 3 exams and didn't think about a guy she had gone on two dates with? Seems reasonable to me bro. You were being unchill for calling her selfish. It's kind of ironic because you were just talking about self respect and focusing on yourself, but you get mad at her for doing the same.
/r/seduction21/08/14 02:54 PM
1

Well I've already kissed her a lot. It's past that I'm having trouble with because I don't think she has a lot of experience.
/r/seduction17/08/14 09:22 PM
5

This is perfect. Exactly what I was looking for. Will do this on our next date and then report later.
/r/seduction17/08/14 09:15 PM
13

Telling me to escalate when I asked how I should be escalating isn't helping to answer my question. I'm talking to plenty of girls. It shouldn't be in /r/asktrp because I don't think trp values are good for the type of person I want to be, and it's a question that can be applied to a wide range of situations.
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:56 PM
1

Go hard or go home. Learn how to drink, but don't drink a lot very often. The easiest way to get any house to love you is to talk about how good your GPA is and how much you love brotherhood while you're also super hammered. Talk to every chick, because chances are, they're probably insecure about something stupid, meaning the hot girls are often into anyone who talks to them.
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:45 PM
1

Talk about anything and everything. If you run out of things to talk about, ask a question and shut the Fuck up to listen to the full answer. Remember things that were already said. Just talk to them. Have a fun conversation.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:13 AM
1

If you're always looking toward the future for things to get better, you're going to miss all the great things that are happening in the present.
/r/seduction04/08/14 07:40 AM
1

If you're always doing things you don't like because someone told you that you have to do them, you're not going to be a happy person.
/r/seduction04/08/14 06:12 AM
1

If you don't think talking to girls is fun, you shouldn't talk to girls.
/r/seduction04/08/14 04:04 AM
2

Don't try to win their approval. Just show them who you are. If who you are isn't awesome, become awesome and then show them who you are. If they don't like you and you're awesome, then there's no reason for them to be in your life. If you still want them, figure out what you need to change about yourself (if you feel like it's worthwhile) to get them. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone, you need to be yourself and have other people decide whether or not you're as awesome as you think yo…
/r/seduction04/08/14 03:02 AM
2

They're not "plates", they're fucking people. I'd say just be genuine, but you sound like a genuinely Shitty person, so go improve yourself first and then try to be genuine. Fucking treat humans like humans. Don't call them plates and don't be so worried about what they're going to think of you that you're calculating every move to maximize your chance of getting laid with everyone you meet. You should be focusing on maximizing your chances of getting laid with the kinds of people that you're at…
/r/seduction29/07/14 06:28 PM
6

she's not interested at all. you're not good at texting. don't try to game people who you met through a random text.
/r/seduction28/07/14 03:38 AM
1

dont text them often and use every text to set up a concrete meeting instead of wasting your time trying to generate any kind of interest over text.
/r/seduction28/07/14 02:16 AM
3

Go out, see what works, see what doesn't. If for some reason you seem to get laid every time you eat a radish before going out, maybe you should keep eating radishes before you go out. None of this stuff matters in the bigger scheme of getting results. Awesome nights are all in your head. Every night has the potential to be an awesome night no matter the circumstances.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:23 PM
6

There is. It's called "style life challenge".
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:35 AM
1

Wear something that represents you. The same way that you want your physical appearance to reflect who you are inside, you want your clothing to reflect who you are. I have two friends who are incredible with women, one wears dress shoes, button ups and nice pants every day, the other wears slightly oversized sweaters, jeans and skate shoes. The important thing is to wear clothing that shows that you actually give a shit about how you look. As long as you have a personal style that you like and …
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:34 AM
1

Pride is a source of evil.
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:15 PM
1

Too much pride man.
/r/seduction12/07/14 10:03 AM
1

You sound like a total fucking asshole. You probably are, considering that you make judgments about someone's entire life after seeing two lines of text from them. Friends talk shit to friends, but if someone is genuinely trying to get your help and you tell them to go Fuck themselves, you're the one who needs to go fuck themselves.
/r/seduction12/07/14 05:15 AM
1

Yeah if a friend asks me about how to get better at something I usually just tell him to go fuck himself. Usually a good way to retain friends.
/r/seduction12/07/14 12:26 AM
2

telling your friends to go fuck themselves. really great idea.
/r/seduction11/07/14 10:42 PM
2

No. The number one fear anyone has is rejection. All you're doing is passing along the burden of rejection to the girl. If you give your number to her you're no longer in control of any further interaction with her, that whole burden falls on her You're displaying a fear of rejection by not taking a risk and asking for her number. You no longer have any say in whether the interaction proceeds any further. There is nothing positive that can be gained from the situation.
/r/seduction15/06/14 06:41 PM
5

"It's okay for me to be a bitch and if you call me out it's now your fault."
/r/seduction13/06/14 03:32 PM
10

get one
/r/seduction10/06/14 04:01 PM
1

Make the other person feel comfortable.
/r/seduction10/06/14 04:00 PM
-2

Drop her. Why would you have sex with a girl just because she's hot if she's a total bitch?
/r/seduction10/06/14 03:47 PM
2

I had a date yesterday where the girl and I got coffee, talked at the coffee shop for a while then moved to the park, climbed trees and kept talking, then played on the playground. Think of things you have fun doing for free and do those things.
/r/seduction10/06/14 03:31 PM
2

It's really fucking scary at first. Adrenaline pumping when you do your first day game approach. But honestly, it's kind of like jumping off a diving board for the first time. You just have to go for it, and once you're doing it all the fear is gone and it's just pure excitement.
/r/seduction09/06/14 04:28 PM
2

Either talk to more girls or use the time in between dates to learn cool skills, read some books and generally improve yourself as a person.
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:08 AM
80

"You're right, there's no way you'd be able to keep up with me. Help me find a suitable girl."
/r/seduction08/06/14 02:15 PM
1

It literally isn't. You walk up to someone and you can talk about anything you would ever want to talk about. I've gone up to girls and asked "what's your favorite part about nature", or "did you know bananas are evil?" and then transitioned into a very real conversation about who we were as people. Then, I could see if i liked her enough to even want to pursue her since I've seen what kind of person she is. It's not weird to want to connect with someone you just met: it' only human.
/r/seduction08/06/14 08:14 AM
26

This whole article is about building an ego and then going on a power trip. "Don't cold approach because you could risk ruining your status with a bunch of failed approaches" "You don't want to be known as 'the guy who tries to talk to girls.'" What the fuck kind of bullshit is that? That's not only the opposite of outcome independence, which is the most basic concept taught here, it's also a denial of who you are. You are a guy who tries to talk to girls. If you talk to enough girls, people wil…
/r/seduction07/06/14 10:19 PM
1

Yeah you're missing the part where you go talk to girls and figure out what works and what doesn't.
/r/seduction04/06/14 01:25 AM
2

Say what's on your mind. Don't ask a random question just to be random for no reason. Ask because you're interested and it's a fun question to ask. "What's your favorite dinosaur" can get you a few surprised laughs and responses here or there, but it becomes rapidly obvious that you're not really interested in the response after they answer the question, because you had the question ready to go long before you even decided to approach them. When I approach, I like making an observation, or askin…
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:23 AM
0

I think life becomes infinitely more fulfilling as we develop our people skills, because we get to effectively and comfortably share our lives with other people without becoming a burden on them or having them become a burden on us. I agree that everyone can have a fulfilling life without pickup, but I think that pickup skills will be the inevitable conclusion of a fulfilling life.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:17 AM
2

I think more simple the ideas of seduction are made the easier it will become to learn. Dividing up certain aspects of seduction into "beginner" and "advanced" realms is counterproductive to learning the skill. Seduction is being your best self combined with the art of talking to other people. Everything else falls into one of those two categories. If you want to pull consistently, you have to be able to be interested in who a girl is, not what her body looks like. Likewise, being your best self…
/r/seduction28/05/14 10:31 PM
3

When you feel adrenaline, that's you stepping out of your comfort zone. Don't let it direct you back to something comfortable. Face it and say "This is going to be really fucking hard and really fucking awkward but it doesn't matter because it's exactly what I want to be doing in this moment." and talk to that girl.
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:34 PM
4

Being genuine in your intentions and interactions goes a long way to stay on the amiable side of that line.
/r/seduction12/04/14 03:02 PM
3

Should've been on the list honestly, but I kind of see that one as a given that doesn't really have to be spelled out like some of the other things do.
/r/seduction12/04/14 02:48 PM
3

It's not the women you're unrealistic about, it's the way you talk about meeting them. "They won't be found in bars or clubs, and I've only seen a few let alone met any". It sounds like you're talking about unicorns not women. I've met incredibly interesting women at bars, I've met some of the most boring women I've ever interacted with at events that are supposed to be 'classy' or 'sophisticated'.
/r/seduction16/02/14 11:13 PM
3

You sound like you have unrealistic expectations from the women you want in your life.
/r/seduction16/02/14 04:11 PM
2

Act like the person you are.
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:10 AM
1

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. That book should give you a good crash course on having good interactions with others.
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:16 AM
2

If you make plans with your guy friends a week from now, would they flake if you didn't talk to them for a few days? Send a text the day of to confirm the date but save banter for the date.
/r/seduction10/02/14 08:41 PM
3

Good but for your second example, you said she found you vulnerable, but that would be the wrong word. Vulnerability is the opposite of neediness, and is an attractive quality to have.
/r/seduction10/02/14 08:38 PM
1

That line of thinking is straight up delusional. You're just giving them sexual attention and receiving nothing back. You're giving value to them for no reason, they have a boyfriend, they know they're hot. They're not going to "want to get with you so bad" just because you told them how much you love their tits when they're in a relationship. They're going to use you for attention and then you're not likely to escalate to further than where you were without the help of alcohol. Your behavior de…
/r/seduction08/02/14 04:49 PM
2

I don't want to fuck girls that I've been rejected by, which is the underlying intent behind these actions.
/r/seduction07/02/14 09:45 PM
24

The things you're suggestion sound really cringey. If a chick doesn't want to bang you, you remove her from her life for the most part.
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:28 PM
1

You need to improve yourself before you can improve with women. Do something that you think is awesome and delve into it with disregard to how other people will think of it. Try a variety of activities. Watch tv and movies to see what you do like. Expand your world. Don't just say that you don't like something for xyz reason without trying it. Variety is the spice of life. Once you become a person with his own dreams and aspirations, you will become more confident and the women will follow.
/r/seduction06/02/14 06:05 PM
1

Next time you see her strike up a conversation, then say something to the effect of "you're cute, let's meet up for coffee later this week". If she says yes, text her later with a concrete time and place. If she says no, at least you tried. Make sure to build some kind of attraction before you drop that invitation though. That's on you to flirt with her and make her laugh though.
/r/seduction06/02/14 04:02 PM
5

If a girl doesn't like you enough to stay with you for a long time then either who you are sucks or the girl isn't right for you. Take a look at your friends and see what kind of relationships they have. Are they founded on substance or just infatuation? Will they last past the honeymoon period? Being your own person will be infinitely more satisfying than any woman, and judging by how jealous you sound of your friends, you aren't the kind of person that is currently self driven by a life purpos…
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:21 AM
2

She has a boyfriend. If you're trying to seduce her, you've lost the battle before it began. If you genuinely just want to be her friend then talk to her like a normal human being.
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:15 AM
3

Be a real person with your own aspirations that you constantly work towards. After you have that and find a girl you're happy with dating, open them up to your life bit by bit over time, having a good time doing things together.
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:11 AM
7

Are you serious? Why would you ask someone on a date if you're not sexually interested in them? All men and all women want sex as a general rule.
/r/seduction30/01/14 10:21 PM
1

Think of it this way: if you don't see a friend of yours for a few days, do you feel weird when you see them again? Keep the same frame with girls.
/r/seduction27/01/14 06:41 PM
0

It's very obvious that you have no idea what Greek life is all about.
/r/seduction27/01/14 06:39 PM
3

Ugly people call others ugly to feel better about themselves. Who gives a fuck about the opinions of people who don't bring value into your life.
/r/seduction27/01/14 06:25 PM
1

You didn't lead the interaction. You started out well but by the end you submitted to her frame. Next time try to keep leading and setting up a time that works for you. If she wants to see you she'll make room in her schedule.
/r/seduction24/01/14 08:49 PM
1

Speak from your chest, not your head.
/r/seduction23/01/14 08:50 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction21/01/14 05:58 PM
2

Asking a girl what day she's free is a mistake. Text in a few days with a specific date and time in mind. If she wants to see you she will.
/r/seduction21/01/14 10:30 AM
1

Day game is way harder because people expect you to approach at a bar, and are more receptive the the approach overall because of that.
/r/seduction18/01/14 03:02 PM
1

There are an infinite number of reasons a girl would stop talking to you. She's your friend, you would know better than us because your description of the situation is really vague.
/r/seduction12/01/14 11:47 PM
1

There are some women who will never be interested, and there are some women who are interested from the start. Then there's the group that hasn't made a decision, and seduction is getting this group of women to become interested in you. Maybe your game isn't as good as you think it is. If you aren't able to generate attraction in women who haven't made a decision about you, you're either the unluckiest person ever or your game isn't up to par.
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:41 PM
3

The way you worded it made it seem otherwise. If you're comfortable with that, then that's great. Be sure to find someone that understands this and is compatible with the way you see intimacy.
/r/seduction25/12/13 05:28 PM
4

You're altering your behavior for her. There is nothing more needy than denying who you are just to gain the approval of another person. Let her go and try someone else, but next time don't suppress something that you're comfortable with just for the sake of a girl.
/r/seduction25/12/13 05:17 PM
2

If your delivery is off you will seem really awkward. It's less about what you say and more about how you say it.
/r/seduction25/12/13 11:21 AM
1

Confidence is trusting yourself in whatever you are doing. You have to know that what you are doing is what will be most successful in the given situation and you have to not just pretend to believe it, but truly believe it. If you have a skill that you're really good at, that's what confidence feels like. If you can transition that feeling of assurance to social interactions you will appear and feel confident. From there it's simply having experience talking to a lot of different people in a lo…
/r/seduction24/12/13 11:33 PM
16

If a girl is disrespecting you and sees nothing wrong with disrespecting you why do you want her in your life anyway?
/r/seduction24/12/13 07:39 PM
2

I mean great for you for getting laid but it seems like you pretty much had sex laid out for you on a silver platter.
/r/seduction24/12/13 07:11 PM
3

You clearly don't understand the words you use. Ad hominem is when you attack the author without addressing anything they say. The guy pulled a direct quote from something you wrote and called you an asshole because of something that you wrote. That's not ad hominem. A lot of the things you said are valid and interesting. Some of the things you said are stupid. You come off as extremely arrogant in your posts and generally that's not the best way to convince people that you have something worth …
/r/seduction23/12/13 07:31 AM
-4

Putting an excessive amount of caps in your post doesn't make you right. If you know that your "relationship" will be over in a few weeks what's the reasoning behind not ending it immediately when you realize it's not going to work out?
/r/seduction23/12/13 06:36 AM
18

There are people who you wouldn't expect to be genuinely interested in though. It's having that open mind about being interested in them that's the important part.
/r/seduction23/12/13 12:32 AM
3

"Cool, have fun on your trip"
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:15 AM
2

Exactly. Online everything changes. There's no body language, eye contact, kino etc. How can you be interested in someone if you have only talked online? That's why seddit always says to only use text/Facebook to set up a meet. The more experience you get the more you realize that a lot of the advice on here is geared toward beginners who need huge drastic changes in the way they interact with women. It's fine to date online and to text people just to have a conversation, but people often ONLY d…
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:33 PM
1

You're not wrong at all, I just feel like it's more of an aside than a primary way to meet people. If I was staying somewhere for a long time, I probably wouldn't even touch Tinder past the first week.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:18 PM
6

Tinder is inherently anti seduction because you never have to do the scariest part: approach. It's nice to play around with when you're in a new city, but finding a woman that you think is high quality will probably never happen with Tinder.
/r/seduction16/12/13 06:34 PM
2

Vancouver bc actually. Sorry man D:
/r/seduction15/12/13 12:18 AM
3

Weird, where I'm from people skip out parties all the time to go to the bars, mostly older guys/gals.
/r/seduction14/12/13 08:32 PM
2

2 questions. What is frame? I have a general idea but don't really have a solid understanding. How do I make physical escalation during something like a coffee date feel more natural? I'm good at initial attraction and getting a first date, but on the date I have a hard time using kino at all.
/r/seduction08/11/13 09:10 PM
1

Damn dude you sound mad, maybe you should chill out. The way he wrote the field report gave me a joking vibe. My style is to joke around and to not take anything seriously. Works for me, and I don't need someone I don't know telling me I'm unfit for social interaction.
/r/seduction04/10/13 05:17 PM
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Don't listen to that guy, he doesn't know what he's talking about.
/r/seduction04/10/13 03:49 PM
2

You need to chill out. This post made you seem like a guy who thinks he knows what he's doing but is really clueless.
/r/seduction02/09/13 08:59 PM
2

You sound like you think you're better than everyone because you're smart and that 'regular' people arent good enough to talk with you. I used to have this mindset when I was a high schooler but now I get that I'm not as smart as I thought I was and thinking of others as beneath you because they're not as smart as you makes you look like a total faggot. Who cares if someone's not as smart as you? I have friends that are dumb, friends much smarter than me, friends that grew up here, friends that …
/r/seduction26/05/13 02:01 PM
15

TIL responding with more than one word is tryhard.
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:18 PM
1

Being funny and relatable is superior. Holding a regular conversation is boring as fuck compared to the one that makes you laugh.
/r/seduction08/03/13 04:54 PM
5

The ultimate goal for me is to have a long term partner who I actually like and who likes me for who I am.
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:27 AM
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