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| 5 | CMV: Baldness will eventually be cured, and this will change the SMP considerably, since baldness is the main threat to a men's looks as they age.I can't put my finger on a number, but a lot of men look perfectly fine with a shaved head. For most guys, the drop in SMV is due to weight gain. There is, of course, a cure for this but lifestyle and metabolism make it more and more of a challenge as you age. I should lose weight, but my biggest "tell" at this point is bags and wrinkles under my eyes. I don't think I can get rid of those without surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 10:09 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: Do you think you're typical, an outlier, or in between?THere are at least two different aspects to this. First is that blues will go on about how their dating style and social interactions are more "natural" than reds implying that reds are the outliers while blue pill is "normal". OTOH, there is the blue pill tendency to emphasize the unique and wonderful nature of each individual (including themselves) and the red pill aversion to considering themselves or anyone else a "snowflake". Having said that, I am a strong outlier in many ways: ex-military… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't TRP reproach men for going after women who are "better' than them in the SMV?I don't reproach these men because they make me look so good in comparison. But consider it is men complaining about the women who are picky and women complaining about the men who are sub-par. Women are not complaining about picky women and men are not complaining about high-expectation losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Most times women get "pumped and dumped" it's because they are bad at sexThe OP title still stands in that most will get dumped for bad sex. The reverse is that if the sex is good the guy will come back for more. The final comment could have the addendum: The only time a woman can get away with being bad at sex is:1. when the man has a scarcity mindset regarding women or 2. the man has never experienced good sex **3. They have other sufficiently attractive qualities** The two are difference claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Paternal discrepancy, interesting topic.You are taking what I said a bit far. The point is, if you are tagged for paternity then get the test done. In a seemingly LTR, obviously the chances are less, but still. . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Are you sexist? Lets find out with one hypothetical question.There is a difference, but personal preference can still make you sexist if it is irrational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Are you sexist? Lets find out with one hypothetical question.It's not sexism, it's sex-realism. Rape and molest are pretty strong words but the fact remains that shit happens and given that 90%+ people are heterosexual, it is more likely that shit would happen between a guy and a girl rather than two girls (or two guys for that matter). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Are you sexist? Lets find out with one hypothetical question.Red Pill "total stranger to you". Unless you are insane, that implies third party referals and for this purpose, two of equal and compelling credibility. I would want a baby sitter of the same gender as my 11 year old child. Times have changed and maybe it is irrelevant that at age 11 I spent a fair amount of time watching over my 7 and 5 year old sisters after school until the end of the workday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Care About A Woman's Status"Status" is a kind of nebulous concept that means different things in different contexts. The OP seems to mean general "prestige" when talking about women. I think only guys with tight-knit UMC/UC families really pay attention to the status or prestige of the women they are dating due to those family pressures. It's not that men don't care about status *at all* but rather that a) it is generally 3rd or worse on their list of priorities such as looks, lifestyle, persanality, interests, intelligen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Hey PPD: what's your favourite love song?A love of model-based experimental analysis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Hey PPD: what's your favourite love song?Nights in White Satin by the Moody Blues. As some people pointed out, while it isn't lovey-dovey song, NIN's Closer has a certain spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Paternal discrepancy, interesting topic.Would you bet a quarter million dollars on the draw of a black jack? (1 in 26) Remember, there is no upside and you don't win anything: it is just a chance to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Another Online Dating Study on M/F DesirabilityI depends on which field they are in, and YMMV significantly depending on your outlook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.It's not about making or having money or spending money but rather the manner in which it is all done. That separates the AlphaBux from the BetaBux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 01:50 PM |
| 7 | "TRP focuses too much on women"If you have some basic social skills it can be surprising the extent of the halo effect from having good looks. People will initiate conversations and then consider your lack of response as being the strong silent type, or being thoughtful or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 08:49 AM |
| 3 | "TRP focuses too much on women"True to a certain extent in that when you are fat you get a porky pig face, double chin and such. Still, some people are pretty rough looking even if they are otherwise fit. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 08:47 AM |
| 20 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Lift is the most reliable and straight forward method to increase SMV. Style and such can be taken on advice and give a boost. Facial aesthetics are set without surgery. Social skills are difficult to build if you don't have them, and nuanced and vague enough that they are hard to teach. Money, fame and power have have no magic formula to conjure for an AFC. However, bodybuilding is a science and all it takes is dedication to achieve results. I am not saying that anyone can be Mr. Olympian, but … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 03:45 PM |
| 2 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Re-watch House of Cards (up to the point where Kevin Spacey became an accused pederast). | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Like Groucho, I would not want to join a club that would have me, but unless the top mods decide to change the parameters of the front page description of this sub, the focus and end goal is on women. TRP (this sub rather than the broader philosophy) is about "sexual strategy" so obviously the focus will be on women. And this is exclusively cis men dealing with cis women. Non cis-men giving input is welcomed but a side show. Financial and fitness advice is welcome but ultimately a sideshow until… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR's dirty little secretThis isn't some grand illumination as it has been floating around for years and has been independently developed and expressed by multiple sources including yours truly. My version is roughly an 80/20 rule that has nothing to do with Pareto. You should be 80% alpha but 20% beta if you want long term stability in your relationship. Black Dragon goes with 85/15 to the same end. Roughly speaking, that goes from one day a week (14.3%) to 1 weekend a month (23.3%). Of course, that is simplistic. It i… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Rotating Polyandry, PROOF of AWALT.The standard line is that divorce rates run at 50% (it's more like 43% and falling, but the decline is largely due to fewer people getting married as we go along - we know that non-marriage relationships are inherently less stable and that out of wedlock births are on the rise). I recall a chart that broke things down to something like 20% to 30% being both stable and happy. Among my closest friends it is a mixed bag. One was in a 12 year relationship with no kids; then he dumped her and moved o… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Women are more picky with their partners, yet a large number more men seem to be "punching" than women - why?Long term they do. Short term? Be the Frat Boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill GemsMore actions than looks, although I do ok in the latter. Bond was ex navy and secret service. I am ex army, trained by the airborne, combat engineer, explosive demolitions, various martial arts, law school graduate, world traveller. This must read as being incredibly narcissistic. I considered applying to CSIS but I decided to walk away from that life and now I teach ESL and married a gorgeous Filipina. I live quietly overseas and will return when my fellow citizens put Trudeau to the curb. I th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 08:18 PM |
| -2 | Henry Cavill says he’s hesitant to hit on women bc of #metoo and the female collective goes crazyI married a gorgeous Asian girl who has more modest expectations. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 07:58 PM |
| 10 | Henry Cavill says he’s hesitant to hit on women bc of #metoo and the female collective goes crazyIt seems like there has been a techtonic shift in the RMP. In my youth I did some really freaky shit but women in the 80s and 90s had a certain amount of discretion about them. It remains to be seen if I become rich and famous, will one of these girls be a cockroach who comes out of the woodwork? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 01:49 AM |
| -1 | Red Pill GemsThe funny thing is, I am about as close to James Bond as 99.9% of people will ever meet. And it works. Chicks dig it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob.I married a nice trad con Catholic girl from the Philippines. I have a wife and blow jobs on tap. Lucky me. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Cultural Observations of a 19-Year Old American MaleR041: combat engineer. I built shit and I blew shit up. Edit: there is no problem that an appropriate amount of C4 can't solve. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Henry Cavill says he’s hesitant to hit on women bc of #metoo and the female collective goes crazyMy given name is Clark so I have been living with Superman jokes for half a century now. Even an A list actor like Cavill can't speak the truth without getting dogpiled. I am glad that I am out of the game but I feel sorry for young guys who have to deal with this, | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 01:09 AM |
| 8 | Physical attractiveness and its effect on reported sexual outcomes in both genders.Hot chicks are picky. Slim, stacked, smart girls choose quality over quantity. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Henry Cavill says he’s hesitant to hit on women bc of #metoo and the female collective goes crazyHe is a at the same time a smart man who is unwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Cultural Observations of a 19-Year Old American MaleWomen want what they can get away with. I am not "hyper masculine". I was trained by a left coast law school and the Canadian special forces. I am not "alpha tough guy". I was a skinny kid who got picked on until I said enough is enough. Women want strength: physical strength and strength of personality. They want a MAN who will take care of them and protect them. This is nothing new. This is 10,000 years old. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Cultural Observations of a 19-Year Old American MaleI am now in my 50s but I had boat load of cultural observations as I pushed 19. We are talking 1985, which is like an opening line to a rap song. I was a teenage incel. I was a skinny buck 45. I was a "nice guy". And I was frustrated until I got my shit in order. Here is what I did, 30+ years ago and AFAIK, women haven't changed much. I joined the army reserve and trained and lifted and packed on 20 pounds of muscle. I joined the debate society and learned public speaking. That did wonders for m… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (15 July 2018)What do you think about ass play? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: If you have spent time on self-improvement related to your dating life - did you ever feel that you weren’t good enough for/didn’t deserve a partner?Dude, YOU ARE WORTHY. You write in complete sentences and you are working to make your body top notch. Improve but never change to be a girl's bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Who is better marriage material: PhD student or woman with a steady middle class job?Then good luck for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Who is better marriage material: PhD student or woman with a steady middle class job?Yes $40k to $50k but $70k to $90k seems like a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Women are more picky with their partners, yet a large number more men seem to be "punching" than women - why?I have been 12% body fat and otherwise smart and laughable. For ONS and stuff, then the body rules. Anything more long term and they will take dad bod with a good personality. My advice is to get 12% body fat to have all your bases covered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Women are more picky with their partners, yet a large number more men seem to be "punching" than women - why?WTF? I clock in at 138 and most of the dudes I have met in person are not knuckle draggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Who is better marriage material: PhD student or woman with a steady middle class job?Ultra-smart dudes are a fetish to some. Rumour has is that Einstein fucked Marilyn Monroe. I am not quite there. His IQ was something like 168 while mine is more like 138. I got married last November. To say that I "settled" would be a huge insult to my wife. She has a 2 year associate degree and if I had to guess then an IQ around 120. But your comment gets me thinking. In high school I befriended one of the local geniuses. In a student body of 1500+ I was #4. When we were bored in math class w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Women are more picky with their partners, yet a large number more men seem to be "punching" than women - why?For hook ups they go for Chads but for anything serious it is a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Who is better marriage material: PhD student or woman with a steady middle class job?The exception does not disprove the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What wouldn't you tolerate from your partner's past?My young self would say nothing. My mature self says n count > 3 is bad news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Why most very-high-value men get married instead of following their supposed "sexual imperative"?My closest friends are blue pill but very alpha. Case 1 married a Brazilian hottie and they are going strong years later. Case 2 settled down with a flaminco dancer many years his junior. Case 3 married his college sweetheart and raised two sons before divorcing her ass in favour of a Hong Kong girl a dozen years younger. Me? I am not a famous actor or anything. I am decent looking and have enough smarts and game to play the field if I wanted to. However, it is taxing and found a woman who takes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Women are more picky with their partners, yet a large number more men seem to be "punching" than women - why?Women choose for decent IQ and laughable personality over 12% body fat and ripped abs. Jocks attract a certain teenage type but talking a good game will get you into the pants of hot women over the age of 23. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male echochambers about casual sex cause inexperienced men to feel like they lose out a lot more than they actually doThere is a certain narrative, especially amongst college-aged guys that the gold standard is party party party party with casual sex with a new hottie every few days or every week. That is not the way it works in real life. TRP will not magically transform you into a slayer of pussy but if you embrace it you can find a relatively hot girl to have something resembling a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: Who is better marriage material: PhD student or woman with a steady middle class job?This is basically my take on it. In my experience, the smartest and best educated women I have dated turned out to be bitches and whores. I can't univeralize that; it is just my observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Who is better marriage material: PhD student or woman with a steady middle class job?I suppose it depends on her major. I have dated a PhD STEM type and the end of our relationship was just things moving along. But really, if she is getting her PhD in womens studies then you are just asking for it. I have 7 years of university studies and I ended up marrying a woman with a 2 year associates degree. But seriously, $70k $90k: do you have a realistic assessment of today's job market? Some hot off the press graduate is not going to make that kind of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: NOT Football!!!!! (Climate Change) (14 July 2018)It was global cooling and then global warming and then they had to say "climate change". The fucking climate changes year to year but there is nothing to suggest that there is a global peril. It is just fascist leftists who want the government to impose their rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How much does fame/status turn you on? The manosphere is full of claims it's a huge turn-on, and that if a man whispers in your ear that he's a "famous actor" then the tingles start flowing.I have told this story far too many times, but here it goes again. . . I was a teenage incel until I made some life changes that included ditching my glasses in favour of contact lenses, getting a New Wave hair cut, packing on 20 pounds of muscle and. . . AND fronting a rock band that performed in front of the high school student body and their parents. The last thing was the kicker. IMHO, if I was my skinny, nerdy self who had the balls to be lead singer, I still would have had 90% of the play … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: In your experience of awful marriages (and vicious divorces) that you know, how often did things start off genuinely awesome vs. how often were there red-flags from the start that indicated disaster to come?Probably a 90/10 split between red flags and good things gone bad. I was a divorce lawyer for 4 years which is only a representative sample of the worst of the worst. OTOH, my mother and two sisters have racked up 5 divorces and 8 husbands among them. As a divorce lawyer I saw shit like young girls having children with full patch Hell's Angels and crack heads marrying crack heads. The other thing was personality disorders. Borderline, paranoid and such. In my personal life, women make bad choice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you define as"pushing past LMR?"China don't like Youtube. Can you give me a summary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Extended Hypergamy means women are never happy no matter how much life improves.I don't have time right now but look at what proportion of GDP is government spending. The really fucked up thing is the Constitutional regimes in Canada and the USA. The latter was established as a federal government with limited powers while the former gives the federal government more powers. However, last time I checked, Canada has a 40/60 split between federal and provincial spending while the USA has a 60/40 split between federal and state spending. SCOTUS and POTUS have, over the last 200… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP for those of you who are enjoying the decline, what would you do if society collasped 10yrs from now? How would you survive?I like what u/prodigy2throw said: "mad max situation". I happen to live in China but I will be back in Canada in 10 years. If the decline turns into a complete collapse I would re-connect with all my army buddies, withdraw, strengthen, and then rebuild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | (Q4M) have you ever cheated on a girlfriend/wife? What was her reaction?I've never outright cheated on a girlfriend. There have been several ambiguous situations where I break things off or a girl torches our relationship and then she gets incensed because I am fucking someone else shortly thereafter. I can only think of one case where I cucked another guy. I didn't know she was married until I was at her place and she - an aspiring fashion model - was evidently DTF while her navy husband was floating about in the Atlantic for 6 months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you define as"pushing past LMR?"One matra is "pay attention to what she does, not what she says". LMR and ASD are not the same but they are related phenomena. ASD encompasses external considerations of appearance to the outside world: you, her friends, her colleagues and such. LMR is internal conflict about what is desired on a visceral level and what social programming says. Occassionally there are in fact good reasons not to go through with it but it is a monumental task to separate rational thought from the spinning of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Extended Hypergamy means women are never happy no matter how much life improves.My calculations include provincial taxes for Ontario. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Extended Hypergamy means women are never happy no matter how much life improves.That and the fact that interest rates are forced to be low which kills everyone's incentive to save. Inflation has been kept under control for the last several decades. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Extended Hypergamy means women are never happy no matter how much life improves.For income taxes alone you have to make more than $100k in Canada to hit 28% average tax rate which is like $75k USD at current exchange rates. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Extended Hypergamy means women are never happy no matter how much life improves.The government game is to hide taxes as best they can. A VAT is the most above-board and obvious, but it also gives the most encouragement to avoid and is the easiest to avoid with under the table transactions. Other sales taxes get buried in the price such as for cigarettes, liqour or gasoline. Payroll deductions are fairly obvious if you bother to look but they hide two things: your marginal rate as opposed to your average rate, and employer contributions are hidden. http://www.businessinsider… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about consentshe doesn’t want a sossig in der. But that is just circular: there is no consent if she doesn't want it, and she doesn't want it if she is not consenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 11:30 PM |
| 3 | BDSM PORNSTAR CRIES SEXUAL ASSAULTAFAIK, it is still confined to campus and student interactions but who knows what darkness lurks in that's of feminist activists, legislators and judges? There was a case in Canada several years ago where the girl said no, the guy stopped but he tried again a few minutes later and she said no again and he stopped and. . .I'm not sure how many times that cycled but at one point she didn't say no so he proceed. He was charged with sexual assault and it went all the way to the Supreme Court. When a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/18 11:22 PM |
| 6 | BDSM PORNSTAR CRIES SEXUAL ASSAULTThat's the first thing that came to my mind. If the whole scene wasn't working for her all she had to do was "Red Light" or whatever. Of course, if Yes Means Yes becomes law, she doesn't have to Red Light for it to be sexual assault. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Status for men is more important than anything in dating (Story #1)Not that chick because I am over twice her age. But say this chick who is a bit older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Status for men is more important than anything in dating (Story #1)But it's not the only nor the most important thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 06:34 AM |
| 2 | What She Says She Wants, What Actually WorksOne of the biggest causes of divorce - either proximate or initial - is not paying attention to your wife. If you are silly enough to get married in the first place, you can pay attention to her or pay alimony and child support to her: your choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 01:34 PM |
| 6 | The sad realities of modern datingThe hell with that noise. I moved to China. The last 3 girls I've been in bed with were all BMI 19. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Q to male users who are against financial abortion for men: would you change your mind if you were tricked into an unwanted pregnancy?In Canada, roughly speaking, the guideline amount is about 10% of your gross for 1 kid, and 25% of your gross for 3 kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Status for men is more important than anything in dating (Story #1)It seems like every few weeks some crypto-black piller posts something like this, and it doesn't end well for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Football!!!!! (07 July 2018)Revenue is one measure because it is people voting with their wallet, one way or another. Average viewership would be another, or average attendance. Participants would be yet another way, but that is broken down by formal leagues and pick up games. Basketball has a huge advantage with the latter in that all you need is a ball, a court, a pair of running shoes and a few guys to play an informal game. The other sports need more equipment, more players and a larger venue to play. But then again, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Football!!!!! (07 July 2018)Depends on how you define "popular". And limiting one to "ice hockey" skews the numbers simply because the venue and equipment required. Basket ball is the favorite to a third of those who say football is number one, but basket ball has more than 3 times the number of participants. The record numbers for TV viewership are surprisingly similar for basketball, soccer and hockey. I can't seem to access the document on the number of participants but it makes a difference whether they only include or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] - Do you support financial abortions?There are consequences and there are consequences. Even if abortion was 100% illegal (and that was enforceable) safe haven laws mean that a newborn child can be given up without any further consequences. If the father wanted to actually be a parent while the mother did not, it could still be possible to terminate parental rights and her child support obligations. If a woman can avoid virtually all consequences short of a few pills or an out-patient procedure, then why can't a guy do so by filing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] - Do you support financial abortions?It's a question of "viability", the point at which the fetus could survive outside of the womb in any event. Wikipedia has this info. In the United States 56% of pregnancies after the 24th week survive. Otherwise some places define it as low as the 16th week. The Journal of the American Medical Association had one article saying 20th week and two others saying 27th week. The so-called "logic" of the viability test really doesn't make any sense. If the fetus was in fact 100% viable given current … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Football!!!!! (07 July 2018)Wikipedia says NFL, MLB, NBA, NHL then soccer then NASCAR. The gap between soccer and hockey is roughly a factor of 4.5 to 1 in terms of league revenues. The difference between hockey and football is about 3 to 1. Other internet sources say, for 2017 gross revenues: NFL $14 billion MLB $10 Billion NBA $7.65 billion Same trend as the Wikipedia numbers which use 2016 or 2015 revenues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: What is your stance on abortion? How do you think legalization of abortion has helped/ hurt societySafe, affordable, reversible birth control for men, other than condoms, would be a game changer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What is your stance on abortion? How do you think legalization of abortion has helped/ hurt societyI suppose because the people who won't understand sex ed and will not use birth control properly are the people least likely to make good parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 10:26 PM |
| 3 | [Q4BP] - Do you support financial abortions?I am posting under the Automod because I am Red Pill. I agree with the idea in theory, but there are so many practical problems with with trying to make it a general solution. A first step would be to stamp out paternity fraud so guys are not getting tagged for child support for a kid who is proven to not be theirs, plus throwing in some meaningful consequenses for women who lie about it. I read somewhere that under Roman law, a child born in wedlock was automatically the responsibility of the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | [Q4BP] - Do you support financial abortions?The usual response against men being allowed to waive parental right and responsibilities is that they should have kept it in their pants. However, there is no acceptance of the argument that women should have kept it out of their pants. Hilariously, some feminist are calling for a sex strike against any many who is not pro-choice. As a matter of logic, that would be a good way to avoid a lot of abortions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 10:00 PM |
| 2 | [Q4BP] - Do you support financial abortions?IIRC, 20 to 24 weeks depending on the jurisdiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Time waster double standardMen are the vast majority of homeless, suicides and workplace fatalities. They pay the majority of taxes while receiving a minority of the benefits. They have less job satisfaction and work-life balance than women. They have to register for selective service while women don't. The paucity of women at the highest level of business and politics is a function of women not having the drive, competitiveness and thick skin necessary to succeed in these fields, at least not in the same numbers as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn't the ideal relationship include getting some strange?This is sort of Black Dragon's schtick: an open long term relationship with one primary partner and some FBs on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] In your experience are UMC/introverted/smart women NAWALT?The institution is called "The Presidency", a bit different than what I was referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What, if anything, have you settled for in your marriage/LTR?In many cases it is not a matter of "settling". No honest person will tell you that it would not be better if their SO was better looking, more fit, had better social skill or had more money. But it is what it is. I have dated fashion models and business execs making six figures. My wife is neither. Assuming she would not branch swing, it would be nice if she was while retaining all the qualities I married her for but I am not settling because she isn't a complete unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 04:00 AM |
| 2 | [Q4Men] In your experience are UMC/introverted/smart women NAWALT?I clock in at 138. While the average is 100, the average person on the street is about 105 to 110 because the left tail tends to be institutionalized so you never meet them. Einstein and Hawking were 160-ish so I can get along with almost everyone except the gangsta types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (08 July 2018)Maybe. I find the links (on my phone) during slow times at work and I post here after work (on my PC) so there are some cross-platform issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you date someone who rejected you for being too fat/ out of shape who wants you back once you get fit?That's your reality,space cadet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is RP trying to achieve equality of outcome?There are the "phasers" but any proper reading of TRP is not about hate but rather about understanding and acceptance of reality. Trad-con monogamy and marriage 1.0 were sort of "equality of outcome" oriented. Guy gets a girl, girl gets a guy and they pair up, have 2.1 kids and live harmoniously or whatever until one of them dies. Post '70s marriage 2.0 changed the equation. I have remained willfully ignorant of Jordan Peterson because I have a life and don't have the time to spare right now to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (08 July 2018)In the wake of Justice Kennedy's announcement of retirement and the thought that Trump will want another conservative on SCOTUS, some feminists are calling for a sex strike for all pro-abortion women because they worry that Roe v. Wade will be overturned. It is general fodder that feminists have no sense of humour but apparently they have no sense of irony either. And this may be the proper policy solution. Whenever guys complain about ridiculous chld support laws feminists tell them to "keep it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Would some feminine men be more attractive to women as crossdressers? Interesting topic.I have noticed that younger women like lower BMI guys to the point of "heroin chic" while older women like beefier buys. It was a long time ago but I went through the transformation from being a teenage incel to with an SMV of 3 or 4 to grabbing that brass ring and being an HB 9 and it was the perfect storm of factors. In the last 25 years it has been more about game and leveraging my intellectual assets rather than lifting and trying to sell my body. I went through a fat crisis and had to drop … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you date someone who rejected you for being too fat/ out of shape who wants you back once you get fit?I just love to express reality while you promote an unhealthy version of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: attractiveness is not the ultimate indicator of how good a man is in bed.I don't know. I am a straight guy who has had sex with zero men. However, by analogy. the quality of sex with women is independent from their looks, by some measures. I would guess that certain really good looking guys could be complete idiots in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Would some feminine men be more attractive to women as crossdressers? Interesting topic.He played with his hair and clothing, but the dude was rather masculine. I dunno, I didn't watch Purple Rain or whatever. Still, at a reported 5'2" and 120 pounds, he was so supremely talented and went with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Would some feminine men be more attractive to women as crossdressers? Interesting topic.The Chinese government is putting together an educational package to teach boys how to be masculine. One of the reasons cited is that Chinese (as well as Korean and Japanese) pop stars are so feminine. (I mean fuck, some of them are more feminine than some of my ex girfriends ;-P ) RAIN made a good go of it by chopping off so many limbs in Ninja Assassin but most K-Pop, J-Pop and C-Pop (not so much as the others) just come and go. I live in China and when I go into KFC they always have promotion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 03:27 PM |
| 9 | " But Muh Genetics! :'( "I mentioned elsewhere that over 130 IQ, it doesn't matter for practical purposes. It can be a detriment if you are spergy. Richard Feynmen, Albert Einstein and Stephen Hawkings were profoundly intelligent men who could express themselves in ways well beyond the 30 point rule. Many don't. I had a friend in high school who was one of the top three minds. There were three kids who always won all the academic awards and he was one of them. We did the "Sir Isaac Newton Physics Contest" written by ove… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] In your experience are UMC/introverted/smart women NAWALT?This begs the question of what your definitions of UMC/LMC/LC and such. And you have to separate economics from sensibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 02:35 PM |
| 3 | [Q4Men] In your experience are UMC/introverted/smart women NAWALT?AWALT applies. Everything Red Pill applies. In your experience are UMC women better than LMC/LC class women? Define "better". Better in bed? Better RMV? All things being equal, the higher the SES of a woman the more she demands from her guy, and frankly that is perfectly reasonable. Are introverted women better than extroverted women In general, you should match. Two extroverts will party together while two introverts will do their own thing, or what I term as "being alone, together". A male ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you date someone who rejected you for being too fat/ out of shape who wants you back once you get fit?That's a big assumption Not an assumption but a clarification or point of view. . .a colourful analogy. Look around your house, apartment or whatever room. Do you keep it clean or are you a slob? Do you wallow in your own filth? I think not. But if you can take such meticulous care of place that you live in, why would you not take care of the body you live in? feel good to be with What does this have to do with the kind of shape someone is in? A healthy person tends to be a happy person. Plus, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] If you were an average looking man looking for casual sex, how would you go about getting it?Unless there is an abortion after the fact. Plus the authorities consider drunk sex to be rape. So who is stupid: you or the entire justice system? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Marriage/LTR Material WomenHave you ever been initially uninterested in woman, only to change your mind later (again, with no significant change in her appearance)? If so, what happened? No. My first LTR was my friend for a full year, but after a summer where I was training with the military, she filled out and got some style and I packed on several pounds of muscle while getting my body fat down to about 12%. That is what set things in motion for the next 3-1/2 years. I almosts married her. I would have married her if I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Football!!!!! (07 July 2018)Soccer is the biggest sport in the world except for Canada (where hockey rules) and the USA (IRCC it is baseball, basketball then NFL football). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 09:22 AM |
| 7 | " But Muh Genetics! :'( "Teenage (high school incels) are annoying. Roughly half of high school kids are virgins and another 20% or so have had one sex partner, another 10% have had 2, so one is not hard done by and it isn't out of the ordinary to not be getting regular sex before graduation. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 09:12 AM |
| 6 | " But Muh Genetics! :'( "I infer that it means that people who are separated by more than 30 point ts of IQ will have a difficult or tedious time communicating. Roughly speaking, that is like someone in the top 20% trying to have a conversation with someone in the bottom 20% (statistically that would be the 16th and 84th percentile). Alternatively, think of your typical college student (IQ 115, again 84th percentile) chatting with a genius (IQ 145, top 0.27%). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 09:00 AM |
| 12 | " But Muh Genetics! :'( "Anything over 130 has no real world effect. It's obviously good for math, theoretical science, philosophy and certain creative fields but in, say, business, the milItaly, politics and personal interactions in general it doesn't add much and may even be counter productive if you are too clever by half or just plain spergy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 08:45 AM |
| 3 | What, if anything, have you settled for in your marriage/LTR?"Black Anus" I can be rather infantile a times but that one never occured to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | What, if anything, have you settled for in your marriage/LTR?Male and Red Pill. Down side is that she only has a two year associate degree from university and can only pull something less than minimum wage compared to western countries at current exchange rates. I've dated fashion models and she is not. However, she is smart and her education was cut short by a lack of funds, not a lack of brains. She is BMI 19 and pretty, somewhat photogenic when she sets her mind to it. She has traditional values and even a more radical test like "make me a sandwich, br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] If you were an average looking man looking for casual sex, how would you go about getting it?Apparently, this isn't a thing in the Blue Pill world. To be honest, date rape charges are rather rare in any event but you are still playing with fire if your go-to play is to get drunk, get her drunk and then fuck while drunk. Sober "manipulation" is superior IMHO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you date someone who rejected you for being too fat/ out of shape who wants you back once you get fit?Unless they can point out a specific genetic problem, then yes it is obvious. If your body is a temple and it happens to be a bloated 250 pound pyramid of fat, they don't respect themselves in that sense. I am not some skinny man or steroid monkey. To be honest I need to lose about 10 pounds to be fit again. But there was a point when I porked out to about 200 pounds and looked at photographs of myself and something inside me said that enough was enough, so I cut 15 pounds of fat in short order.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] If you were an average looking man looking for casual sex, how would you go about getting it?Drive drunk. Most don't get caught. Not good advice. Not full, informed and enthusiastic consent. I could get that any day of the week being Red Pilled. No drugs or alcohol necessary. I have made it a personal policy not to get loaded around women because because bad things happen or at least you get sub-optimal outcomes. The irony is that I cashed out of this silly game after 30 years of it and got married a few months back and only drink - alone - when I can't be with her. If "That's literally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/18 11:35 PM |
| 9 | Q4All: Would you date someone who rejected you for being too fat/ out of shape who wants you back once you get fit?Pregnancy is certainly an exception of sorts. It's an unavoidable biological necessity that you are going to pack it on especially 6 or 8 months into the process. The thing is, western chicks use it as an excuse to stay fat. They put on X number of pounds and then keep it on after giving birth. I live in China and at one point, in the space of 18 months, three of my colleagues became mothers or fathers. In all three cases the mothers were back down to a 20 BMI within a few months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you date someone who rejected you for being too fat/ out of shape who wants you back once you get fit?Male. Yes but it is a two-way street. If she is someone with the discipline and self-respect to stay in shape and I finally got my shit in order to fit-match her then why not? A lot of people here are saying they wouldn't like that personality type, which I assume means shallow and facile. However, the thing about 90%+ of fat people is their own personality: no discipline, no self-respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 11:33 PM |
| 2 | [Q4BP] If you were an average looking man looking for casual sex, how would you go about getting it?The thrust of this thread is that if you are average and blue pill, then get drunk and/or stoned so you can have drunked/stoned sex with drunk and/or stoned chicks. Great strategy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | (Discussion) Man Children and Side Moms – Building Better Umbilical Cords TogetherWomen find "benevolent sexism" hot, even if on an intellectual level they don't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Theory: People with Second Tier Attraction (Above Average) Almost Have Dating HardestBut you have to leverage it. You have to make it be relevant to the type of women you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Theory: People with Second Tier Attraction (Above Average) Almost Have Dating HardestIncels don't say that. Guys who are getting laid say that to the incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Theory: People with Second Tier Attraction (Above Average) Almost Have Dating HardestIf you aren't a natural, "it" is still largely a choice, once you figure out WTF you are doing. If you are retarded, obese and fell out the ugly tree and hit every branch face first on the way down, then you are rather fucked. But very average guys can find their niche, get in the flow, or ride their wave right into shore. You have to find what works for you and then leverage it. I used to be a good singer and fronted a rock band and that was something. I don't play guitar either but how hard is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Theory: People with Second Tier Attraction (Above Average) Almost Have Dating HardestWhen I was 18 I made some profound changes that took me from zero to hero. It went to my head and I turned into an asshole for several months, but otherwise basked in the fawning of the girls. (I totally understand why Justin Bieber is such a fuck up - he is my young me times a thousand). Funny thing was that I graduated from high school, went to college, landed a girlfriend quickly but she was all about money and marriage. I had a really high SMV and RMV but I was so fed up with women that I we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Theory: People with Second Tier Attraction (Above Average) Almost Have Dating HardestBut it is true. Being in a rock band beats "lift" every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 04:50 AM |
| 7 | What's wrong with nice guys?"Nice guys" has a few connotations. First is the compliant beta type who seeks to please his woman or women in general. Type 2 is similar but gets really fucking angry when the bitches don't put out. The third is calm, cool, helpful, respectful and had lots of friends. That's where you want to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you’re a monogamous type, what would make you leave a girl you had a good thing with?The question is a bit circular because if you were monogamous and had a good thing, you wouldn't leave. I think you have to say "an otherwise good thing". From experience there were two things: mental illness and not spending time with me. Hypothetically, you could add infidelity, sexual denial, general bitchiness or controlling behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: pls help me betabux? How is betabux made?I think there are two basic indicia of betabux: 1) a lack of sexual attraction 2) provisioning in terms of a supermajority of the household income Number 3 would be a lack of leadership on the part of the man. On point one, if it is transactional then that qualifies. Being "sexual generous" is a bit ambiguous because it could be duty sex or she might actually enjoy it. the median amount of sex that couples their age and relationship time have. Probably beta. What is the median these days, once a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 03:46 AM |
| 5 | CMV: if you don’t post more on red pill subs, you have no business claiming to be RP here. And you certainly shouldn’t be pretending like you understand theory.TRP is not a religion it is a perspective, and it is a tool box; alternatively a well stocked bag of golf clubs . I comment on TRP regularly and post occasionally. I don't lift because I don't have to. And I got married 8 months ago. So some say I am not Red Pill enough. But the thing is I had 30 years experience in dealing with women before I stumbled on to that sub, and then subsequently found PPD. TRP is largely in accord with 3 decades of first hand experience and second hand observation (in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Theory: People with Second Tier Attraction (Above Average) Almost Have Dating HardestFront a rock band Enjoy end of story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/18 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Women should no longer be sent to prison unless they have committed a serious crime says Justice SecretaryThe plans were welcomed by prison reform campaigners but are likely to raise concerns that vulnerable men in the prison system are being treated unfairly compared with women. Pretty much sums it up. Pussy pass or leveraging their kids for a get out of jail free card. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Being considered "marriage material" as a man is an insult and a bad thingFor marriage it is absolutely about money. The first one wouldn't LTR a guy who didn't make six figures. The second one would otherwise be happy with an average north american income; her problem was daddy issues and other emotional problems. For dating purposes, as long as you are not completely broke ass it can work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/18 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What makes someone "marriage material"?I am beyond putting up with bitches and my wife is a sweet, loving and hard working woman. However, it was her DNA for blow jobs and cleaning up that sold me on marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 04:53 PM |
| 0 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?Everything you say are assumptions, presumptions or just wishfull thinking because my guess is that you are a female. Do you really want me to go down the list? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TV & Film (30 June 2018)Sometimes I think GRRM is brilliant and then other times I think he is a moron. But maybe it was Benioff and Weiss who pulled the trigger. I write some episodic sci fi and don't kill off characters except by implication. To rewind a bit, I am rewatching "Person of Interest" and at the end of the final season 5 our hero gets goes down in a blaze of glory before taking a cruise missle that wipes put his killers. Mixed emotions about that. Edit: I thought it was contrived. As a suggestion: have a t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | You've lifted, now look good, got your life together, approached and still don't get hot girls. This is the only reason why.I'm trying to tease out your definition of "status": fun, adrenaline rush and bragging rights. a fun lifestyle, they want to feel a part of a big community friends and society to think highly of them, Hot girls want cool guys, cool means high status, high status helps you get hot girls. [This is so circular as to be useless. Then let's break it down: Being fun and a an adrenaline rush is a function of personality, lifestyle as well as looks and money. . with a bit of creative application. Braggi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that MRA (Men's rights activism) is so ineffective compared to feminism? An attempt to look at and explain this phenomenon.Feminists act more masculine while MRA types act more feminine. Men are better at getting real-world results. Masculine women > feminine men, in this context. Second is that very few people take male victim status seriously, so they can't play the victim card. It's been a few centuries since men could "hear the lamentations of the women" and a lot of what goes on now is just social pressure and personal choice. Next is that women are 51% of the electorate and the vast majority of male politician… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Theory: People with Second Tier Attraction (Above Average) Almost Have Dating Hardest"Almost hardest" is kind of a silly term. Instead of using "tiers" why not use "quintiles" because it is common speak in TRP and elsewhere to talk about the "top 20%" (ie. the first quintile)? Over the last 30 years I have run the gamut from a skinny, awkward, fourth quintile (20% to 40%) teenage incel to being at the top of my game, to being everywhere in between. At the 60% to 80% level you aren't going to be banging 3 supermodels every weekend but you will have more success with (serial) mono… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Conflicting signals: women are their most sexual at 18 or 30?There is a nuance to this. The 18 and 19 year olds are more than twice as likely to have multiple sex partners over the course of a year compared to the 30-34 year old set. Of course, the older women are more likely to be married or LTRed. If you add a few years and compare early 20s to early 30s, the younger ones are easier to game with less ASD and LMR but the older ones are actually hornier but many want an LTR and start imposing a 5-date/2-month rule or some such thing before they will have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 01:41 PM |
| 2 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?You might be on to something here. I am from Toronto - largest city in Canada. I don't really have a conceps of a small town upbringing. In business school my girlfriend dumped me after I made it clear that I had no present intention of getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 04:59 AM |
| 3 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?It's a mixed bag. Of my three closests friends, one married his college sweetheart, raised two sons, and then dumped her ass for an asian girl a dozen years younger. The other married a Brazilian woman who was a friend and they are going strong 20+ years later. The third knocked up a girl in his early 20s but played the field until a few years ago when he went common law with his business partner's little sister, and now they have a daughter together. OTOH, between my mother and two sisters, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 04:54 AM |
| 4 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?Common knowledge is that 27 is the average age of first marriage and the divorce rate is something like 43%. However, if you are white, religious, actually married at 27 rather than earlier or later, are educated, and don't come from a broken home your chance of getting divorced plummets to something like 10% or less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 04:44 AM |
| 3 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?High RMV women do not fall for TRP tactics One of many PP/BP fallacies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 04:40 AM |
| 2 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?There are three basic categories of Red Pillers. There are young guys who have no clue, there are the divorcees or generally fucked over guys, and then - maybe 10% have learned a thing or two. In my early 20s I was hot property: good looking, business student, good career prospects and such. But I JUST SAID NO! A good chunk of eligible people pair up in college. The real question here is how many single women over the age of 25 are worth committing to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 04:37 AM |
| 2 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?Something like that given that the average age at first marriage is 27 or so. They meet in college, date for a few years, then are engaged for a few years and there you have it. I could have been married to a great girl in my early 20s but I thought I was too young. She promptly moved on and married some beta dude and AFAIK is still with him 20+ years and 2 daughters later. It took me another quarter century to find the right girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?I have had my share of dishy, pale blondes but here I am, swimming with the mud people, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TV & Film (30 June 2018)Little FInger was one of my favorite characters but he played the game, lost , and got hits throat slit by a little girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Isn't life too short for anything other than "HELL YES?"This is maybe 10% of our relationship but if I said to my wife "make me a saddwich and then blow me while I watch the game on TV" her response would be "of course". Again just a small part. I am ex-military and so I was willing to fight and die for my country. Now I am married and we are willing to do anything for each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?Eyeballing it, I would say 5% I have lived in China for 5 years and I married a Filipina so shitlords like Jam and others talk crap about that, but really: what does the average North American girl bring to the table? Most are fat and by definition half have IQs under 100. Second hand they seem bitchy and self-entitled and create more problems than they are worth. Funny story: Found an iPhone app with birds and their songs. One bird was the "Red breast Nuthatch" and I had to say "didn't I date o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What makes someone "marriage material"?Ya, basically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What makes someone "marriage material"?This is really going to sound shitty but : blow jobs and domestic services. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | why are you still shitting where you eat?It's not disgusting, it is just weird. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Being considered "marriage material" as a man is an insult and a bad thingI'm not going to post a pic of my wife but here are the last two girfriends before I got hitched. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/562c45fc1064a2ff5b32c22525b5027362b313f9d1f4a25128569f491935708e.jpg https://k3.okccdn.com/php/load_okc_image.php/images/0x61/952x1022/0/2450735584700245749.jpeg?v=1 They date "old ass men" because some of us are intelligent and compassionate and know how to treat a woman. And it isn't about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 05:11 AM |
| 3 | why are you still shitting where you eat?First step is to own your fashion sense and not try to be hip and young. On the other hand, engage: find out where the parties are and attend. Unless you have significant financial resources, play the poor student just like everyone else. By age 30 I was an army sergeant, a published author, a game designer and I had travelled to Australia. I don't know your story but if you have a story then you have to present it. Most 18 year old girls have done NOTHING and they like a good story. It's now Ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 05:00 AM |
| 3 | The Vast Majority of Men Are Probably Not Worth a Woman’s Commitment, let alone Deference or SubmissionEw - is she mad ugly? Because I don’t know why anyone in their 30s dates an old ass man. As if she would not fuck George Clooney. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Being considered "marriage material" as a man is an insult and a bad thingJam, you have a messed up view of the world. I am a decent looking guy who has dealt well with his age. With a bit of eye surgery and lifting, I could pass for a 30-something. More importantly is that my IQ is higher than yours and your prospective suitors combined. My wife is pretty. Not mad hot because I traded in some hotness to get stability, warmth and all those other LTR effects. My ex ex was a fashion model and my ex could have been one. How old are you, Coco Puffs and what do you think y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 04:39 AM |
| 3 | why are you still shitting where you eat?The remarkable thing about teenage girls is that if you treat them like women, most will rise to the occasion. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 02:38 AM |
| 2 | why are you still shitting where you eat?I am saying it is weird to play hot potato with the same girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TV & Film (30 June 2018)Little Finger was the biggest player around and he got his throat slit by a teenage girl. So. Beware! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TV & Film (30 June 2018)You really should read Starship Troopers but keep in mind that is was as much a political essay as it was good fiction. LOL. I married a Filapina and we are talking about kids and I said that I would name my son Rico. She put the kibosh on that. (Juan Rico is perhaps the only Philipinne action hero ever). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | If Men's Rights is so critical - why are there no actual MRA groups protesting on the frontlines, causing civil disobedience, really making their voices heard? Why is MRA limited to sullen bitter internet forums?The thing is that TRPers - myself included - consider MRA types to be pussies who beg for the government to right various wrongs. Personally, I do not give the government that legitimacy. Public protests are for low quality people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Being considered "marriage material" as a man is an insult and a bad thingI am not sure of what the V is in CMV is but here it goes: Build value in your 20s so you have options in your 30s. Marriage material? My advice is to stay clear of that until you are 40 or 50 (I got married at 51 to a lady 17 years younger). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: To be successful with women, men are better served by pursuing friendships with men rather than sexual relationships with womenThere is the theory that success itself is a pussy magnet. It's not about freindships or relationships with other men but rather social recognition. I will try to stay within the 4 walls of the OP and talk about middle school to college. The quest is to stand out among the crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:37 PM |
| 3 | The Vast Majority of Men Are Probably Not Worth a Woman’s Commitment, let alone Deference or Submission"Women" do not outperform "Men" academically. Girls outperform boys in our pussified public school system. It's a mugs game to say whether men or women are smarter than the other but it seems rather clear that men have more outliters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:30 PM |
| 2 | The Vast Majority of Men Are Probably Not Worth a Woman’s Commitment, let alone Deference or SubmissionThere is a mix of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:22 PM |
| 2 | The Vast Majority of Men Are Probably Not Worth a Woman’s Commitment, let alone Deference or Submission5'4", 150 pounds and a 100 IQ. ICK! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:14 PM |
| 9 | The Vast Majority of Men Are Probably Not Worth a Woman’s Commitment, let alone Deference or SubmissionI am probably wrong but I picture her as pretty, slim and psycho. Not wrong on the last part in any event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:11 PM |
| 6 | The Vast Majority of Men Are Probably Not Worth a Woman’s Commitment, let alone Deference or SubmissionThey’re selfish. They’re lazy. They’re shortsighted. They’re cowardly. They lack direction. No, we are fat and complacent. I might give you cowardly. They don’t put in all the work on their appearance that they should. Jam, post a neck to hip pic and then we can talk. They don’t carry their load of domestic duties. Personally, I cook and she cleans so it balances out. In most relationships the guy puts more time at work outside the home so that also balances out. They’re not curious about life. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TV & Film (30 June 2018)I prefer fiction in written form, I think. I am the opposite. I will read 500 pages of whatever from the non-fiction rack but I prefer audio-visual to meet my fiction needs. Frankly, that is because I am sort of lazy. When I recreate I don't want to spend lots of intellectual energy to engage with the text. Don't tell me a story - show me a story. It's a personal thing. I have, in fact, read every James Bond novel, but they are lost to me given the movies I have watched. I have also read every R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TV & Film (30 June 2018)Unfortunately, Kevin Spacey is now toxic and while I loved the first few seasons of House of Cards, I have to put the rest into a shallow grave. Apparently, it was based on a UK series, so maybe you can hunt that down. A number of my favorite series have closed down including Person of Interest and Burn Notice. I am currently following The Punisher. Game of Thrones is not due to finish up until next year and only then can we properly assess it. However, the most Red Pilled dudes there are a dwar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 05:45 PM |
| 25 | How To Never Be AloneI am a confirmed introvert and self-identified sigma male who does well with women but doesn't always play nice with other guys. I can count on one hand the number of male friends I have and I do not collect female friends: they are girl friends and I only have one inventory slot for that in my life. There is a huge difference between "being alone" and "being lonely". That's me but I think I am an outlier. I recall reading somewhere that 70% of men in the western world are extroverted. My plan i… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | why are you still shitting where you eat?I guess you miss the turn of phrase. "Musical _______" involves a situation where a limited number of people take turns engaging with each other and then moving on to another partner within that group. Bringing in people from outside the group is not "musical" by this. And the term "complete strangers" is loaded. If you have the social skills to meet people from outside your social circle and get to know them then those people are are not "strangers", complete nor otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionIt's a loaded term that I agree with in principle but not in practice. Been around the world and found That only stupid people are breeding --Harvey Danger If you think it would fly anywhere at any time where the government would offer, say, $1000 for men to submit to voluntary sterlization then I would support that initiative. Some well-adjusted guys who want to close the window would take advantage of it, but mostly crackheads and indigents would be lining up to get snipped for a G-note. I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 05:15 PM |
| 22 | why are you still shitting where you eat?I will give you this. Summer jobs that are not career-track interships or whatever are viable hunting grounds. I was in law school and all the fancy jobs sort of dried up so I applied to a retail clothing clearance outlet for the summer. They took me on but as a 30 year old ex-military law student, they put me on security detail. All the other hires were teenagers working cash or keeping the merchandise tidy. During slow times when there were no potential shoplifters, I would flirt with the girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 05:11 AM |
| 12 | why are you still shitting where you eat?Both of my sisters married guys they worked with and both are now divorced, with one of them being cheated on with another girl in the same office. You can get away with dating or having a tryst with a colleague in the same industry who you interact with collaterally but who doesn't work in the same office or firm. You are still playing with fire. To take this one step further, don't date anyone in your social circle. It makes for good sit-com material (Friends, 90210 and such) but really, you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 05:01 AM |
| 6 | The "Redpill" Guide for Women - A Guide to Unhealthy Relationships and Emotional ManipulationIt might be a double standard but men should have an abundance mentaility and next any girl who develops her own abundance mentality. . .to your detriment. If you have 5 plates in rotation and one of them is sleeping around with 4 other guys, as long as you are both cool with that then everything is fine. However, you have to keep that in perspective in that she is a slut who you should not overinvest in. No guy under the age of 40 or maybe 50 should heavily invest in just one woman. You have to… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 04:47 AM |
| 6 | A story for the Guy who ‘can’t believe she went back to her husband/boyfriend’.I didn't know she was married until it was basically a sure thing. So at that point you have on the one hand horny fashion model and on the other some moral aversion to adultery on her part not yours. I think the vast majority of guys would have followed through just the way I did. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 04:33 AM |
| 7 | Why Feminists Enjoy Rape Fantasies"consensual nonconsent". This is golden | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Why Feminists Enjoy Rape FantasiesThe thing to keep in mind is with every rape fantasy comes a fantasy man, and the plain fact is: you aint him. I am not Fabio nor James Bond but I do OK. Right place, right time, right man. . .rape away and they will love it. But don't presume anything. You will just piss them off and maybe get a 911 call on your ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 09:39 PM |
| 4 | My Experiences and AdviceRejection is the norm and if you can't handle it then you can't handle life. Unless you are Batman prepared, you will probably be rejected. This applies to walking up to a girl at a bar as well as firing out resumes to get a new or better job. In the latter context, there was a job I absolutely wanted. I put together an inch-thick dossier on the organization and key people and I memorized it. I aced the interview but still got rejected. However, they were impressed with me and offered me an alte… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 09:15 PM |
| 21 | A story for the Guy who ‘can’t believe she went back to her husband/boyfriend’.AFAIK I have only cucked one guy and I feel a bit bad about it for reasons that I will explain. This was back in the early 90s when telephone dating started (internet dating was a decade or so away). My buddies needled me saying that only fat chicks and fuglies would use it. However, it was novel (keep that word in mind) and all sorts were trying it out. Keep in mind, all you have is their voice and their words to figure out if you match. One of the earliest invited me over to her home, and I we… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 09:01 PM |
| 8 | The Free Market Economics of the Red PillUp until the 20th centrury, democracy was defined more like what we could call a "mobocracy". The term is a bit more nuanced now and includes republics and constitutional monarchies. Some one party states, such as in Asia, abuse the term to create the fiction that they are acting for the people. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 08:15 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Has Too Much Respect For WomenWomen are wonderful but. . .limited creatures. They can add a lot to your life, but don't expect too much from them. This post and its upvotes are why more reasonable-minded TRP men get shit on. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 09:47 PM |
| 27 | The Free Market Economics of the Red PillIn school, I hated group work. Since I was one of the top students, others wanted to hitch their wagon to me. I was too you to develop proper leasership skills and being put in a group was a directive from the teachers that I had no control over. The end result of a 4-person group is that I did at least half the work but we all shared the credit equally. This is socialism. It is like "group work". Useless people get to share in my sucess as a matter or right. And the worst part is the implicatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 09:09 PM |
| 6 | The Co-existence of Nice Guy and RPBlack Dragon says that you should run with 85% Alpha and 15% provider traits to keep an LTR in tact. I say 80/20 but we are just quibbling over numbers. What is more controversial is my hypothesis that there are two Nash equilibria and a 20/80 mix will work as well. That is, you can be beta nice guy 80% of the time but if you don't assert yourself 20% of the time, you will get walked over, cucked, and abandoned. Going 100% either way doesn't work and 50/50 is just being bi-polar. The OP gives a … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 08:53 PM |
| 8 | The Co-existence of Nice Guy and RPThe Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Unless you are having sex with your colleagues, that is secondary to what TRP is about. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 08:45 PM |
| 3 | “Women have lost the art of making a man special“I would never start a discussion that might plant the seeds of feminism in her. She is a farm girl with 3 sisters and a brother and she had to give up university when the money ran out, and moved to China for more lucrative work. We haven't had deep discussions about her upbringing from K-12. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Domestic Violence Defined for TRPKeep in mind that one of the things I learned in law school is that words don't mean the same thing to those without a law degree. But to follow up, I am highly in favour of what is simply called "plain language". | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 01:48 PM |
| 6 | My experiment running "asshole game"The correlation and causation of assholes and success are a bit muddied. When I jacked up and fronted a rock band the attention I got went to my head and I became an asshole. Guess what? The girls didn't care. In some cases like in business or crime, being an asshole is our primary asset and your success flows from that and then the ladies follow. Rich assholes have their pick of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 01:38 PM |
| 2 | “Women have lost the art of making a man special“I suspect the OP's points are true generally. But my wife (yes my TRP friends, wife) makes me feel special. Then again, I live in China an am married to a Filipina with an associate degree in nursing science and several years experience as a domestic caregiver. When things run smoothly they are great just like everyone. When I hit a bump, she is there to pick up the slack. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 01:30 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread June 27Build social proof and do the 7 like you mean it. It won't kill you gamewith the 8-9/10 but make for more intersting table conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread June 27Not in itself if it is done from a position of empowered benevolence. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Is MeToo turning into NotYou at small companies?> just get the job done You want equality? DO IT! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Hostile reaction to giving redpill adviceIf he wants to save his marriage (for whatever reason) then agree and amplify. Open it up and then work on YOU. Build your SMV and fuck more and hotter partners than she does. Then give the ultimatum to call the sex war off. Either she zips her vagina or you divorce her for Suzie fashion model. Keep in mind:make up sex is great. Get this shit out of your system and carry on. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Domestic Violence Defined for TRPI am a former divorce attorney. I represented both men and women. The law is quite simple: you don't smack your SO around. The APPLICATION of the law is all messed up by various social and legal biases. OP, interesting post but it doesn't contain ACTONABLE advice. If chose to, I could parse through it as a former advocate and get some enlightenment, but 99% of the guys here are teenagers, divorcess or AFCs with no legal training and a lot of this will be lost on them. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 11:07 PM |
| 2 | ASD, aka lying: it goes deeper than we knowJust flirting as none of them were prospects. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | LEARN TO FIGHT, PUSSYNot instead of but in addition to. Yes, when heroin addict LeBron runs at a cop with a meat cleaver, then you shoot his ass. In World War Whatever, obviously firearms are superior to HTH or melee. In civilian life it is a bit more complicated. You don't always have time and space to deploy a firearm. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | LEARN TO FIGHT, PUSSYI am a fucking Canadian living in China. Last I checked the number of CCPs in Ontario were literally one in a million. China doesn't have mass gun murders, they have mass knife murders. Training is key: there is a general rule that a weapon used in self defense will get taken away and used on you. That includes firearms, especially low calibers like .25, .32 and .380 ACP which may or may not be fashionable as ladies guns. I suppose the other thing is that a concealed carried firearm is useless u… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Yet More Proof of Pay Gap MythUhm, they did understand that the discussion is about men vs women and not whites vs everyone else (except Asians because they actually make more, so they are not by definition a minority since they were never discriminated against in history)? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 02:50 PM |
| 4 | NYT: Single at 38? Have That Baby"Elective single motherhood" That term makes me cringe. I guess unelective single motherhood falls into two categories: a minority of widows and a majority who let Tyrone bareback her without considering his fatherhood credentials. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:31 AM |
| 10 | Yet More Proof of Pay Gap MythBecause 2+2=4 is part of a patriarchal paradigm. Can you imagine how flat the world would be if we based architecture on estrogen math? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Yet More Proof of Pay Gap MythIt's a feminist talking point. Feminists are maybe 20% of women but they use these lies to rile up another 20% to 40% of women, and the in turn appeal to roughly half of the guys who have the power to do anything about it. It's a whole tail wagging the dog thing when 10% of the population has 70% convinced of a lie and willing to actually pass laws to fit the former's agenda. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:13 AM |
| 49 | Yet More Proof of Pay Gap MythAt the risk of circle jerking, there is no pay gap but rather a productivity gap. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:08 AM |
| 1 | LEARN TO FIGHT, PUSSYThat would give me a chubbie to see a woman choke out a man. LTR prospects would be cut. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | LEARN TO FIGHT, PUSSYBecause the guys that know this shit keep you close. Men with swords need daggers. Men with rifles need pistols, and daggers. You just never know when you are too close. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 12:05 PM |
| 19 | LEARN TO FIGHT, PUSSYAs a personal policy, I basically never upvote or downvote. I could explain that policy but the matter here is that the OP has me conflicted because there is silver and dirt here (not gold and shit), and I wouldn't know which way to vote even if I I did. Kept in mind that "fight" and whatever you think you know have completely different meanings depending on context and life experience. Street brawlers, ring fighters, cops, and the military types approach things in different ways. Up to being a … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | ASD, aka lying: it goes deeper than we knowI've done this only twice over the last 30 years and both times it was with an HB3-4 who was throwing herself at me. I find it hard to imagine any normal guy putting up LMR if things are going swimmingly with an HB 7 unless he is married or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 10:47 PM |
| 5 | ASD, aka lying: it goes deeper than we knowI use the term "ret-con" to describe the way women will reinvent hostory. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 10:33 PM |
| 4 | ASD, aka lying: it goes deeper than we knowI once walked in on a bunch of women lamenting about how hight their n-counts were. So I said "but if it wasn't good, then it doesn't count." All their faces instantly lit up. I can't believe I was able to say that with a straight face, but it seemed to make their day. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 10:29 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill IRL: Double Standard SituationOther than earnings - and that is a productivity gap rather than a wage gap - virtually every metric favours women over men in modern, industrialized nations. They live longer, have higher life satisfaction, better work-life balance, lower stress levels, etc etc etc. That is even before considering all the affirmative action programs that pave the way for mediocre women to compete with competent men. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Is this it? 25 years old and this is what I haveFortunately, I never had to kill anyone, but there is a carry over. PS: I can shoot a silver dollar out of a bullseye at 100 metres. The Chinese piss in the streets rather than shit in the streets, lol I have a job to do and I do it. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How many people do you know are in relationships via cold approach?Zero other than internet | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is this it? 25 years old and this is what I haveI have degrees in business and law and I had to GTFO and teach English in Asia. There is no failure in that. I am also ex-military so my previous job was to kill people. I walked away from that. You need to get your head out of your ass, your money out of the bank and put it on the table. Then figure out what you want from the rest of your life. In a few weeks I will be in a position to ask you to be my guest here in Asia. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 02:39 PM |
| 14 | Feeling really alone at some moments.Don't do anything stupid! You are not alone, I will respond to any messages you send me, If you want or need it, I can have a sexy girl respond to your messages. See? Easy? --- But listen, my friend: nobody has it easy. Life i s a shit show and you have a front seat. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 02:25 PM |
| 3 | In a weird spot. Advice?I will be a bit poetic to say: Fuck her or Fuck her. Get the romatic tensions out of your system and take her to bed, or else toss her aside. A decade? I clocked in my fifth decade. I had that one chick who almost killed me. That was hmm two decades ago.. Cut bait and move on. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 02:14 PM |
| 3 | The Ultimate Frame exampleI get the gist of this and concede that one wanabee facing 5 successful people who accept no excuses is the ultimate shit test. Not to much carry-over into pick up game, unless you are gaming top-tier women who actually give a shit about that. IME few will call you out that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 02:03 PM |
| 3 | AskTRP told me to hard next my ex. I accepted her back and guess whatI think you made the right choice. Calm down, take some time, and then find your next. It took a whole lot of man to just say no to her! Lesson learned, now move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Legs/feet tell you everythingI love posts like this. Even if they are complete bullshit they give insight into the poster. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Legs/feet tell you everythingJust from observation: best relationships come from women with dainty feet. duck-footed lumberjack bitches will have problems. This applies across the spectrum from hobbits to amazons. Not science. . .yet. . .just observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Do women also have a problem with TRP because it's training them to be womanizers, players and fucbois?I try to talk like an educated man. I am not, in fact, a serial killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/18 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?Fuck you and your warnings. I am sick of newbie mods trying to police me. PPD-Angel . . . seriously you are too full of yourself. You are no Angel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Do women also have a problem with TRP because it's training them to be womanizers, players and fucbois?exactlty....you have no clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The source of all the problems between the sexes grows from being a tournament species, and the solution is to genetically modify the species to be monogamous styleThere is a min-max. You will find the sweet point, but not just yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Transexuals (23 June 2018)I am very male and much a cat person and I am insulted.. Everyone should pay their own dime. I am a 21st century man. However, just because I accept people's choices (and they are largely state-enforced) that doesn't mean I condone them, and it doesn't mean I have to celebrate them even if government money is thrown at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 10:52 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The source of all the problems between the sexes grows from being a tournament species, and the solution is to genetically modify the species to be monogamous styleYou are over-thinking this,dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women also have a problem with TRP because it's training them to be womanizers, players and fucbois?Men order themselves from highschool to board room. Bitching about the hierarchy of things serves no purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?Jamms is a nuthatch. She contributes nothing. I do not have anything against her personally by but she is just dead weight here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?Dudes, lift and Plato, that's 90% of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?I am talking large scale but small scale even smart guys like me make stupid decicions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 05:40 PM |
| 11 | Comparing two posts on /r/relationships. One where a biological mother refuses to meet her long lost biological daughter and one where a biological father refuses to meet his. Guess how the responses differ?Note to men: don't have problesms. . .have solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 05:32 PM |
| -3 | What women first and foremost are attracted to is..This is Dinsey, Yes, women want men with principles but if you don't bring cash then prinicples mean nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?I have a degree in business. Wall Street players are far bigger monsters than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?But from where you are a sitting, you see nothing, you know nothing. You are an ignorant child who cries and cries about things she does not have the capacity to comprehend. You only confirm my view: white men are smarter than women or others. That's fact, not fiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?You miss the point. Men monitor themselves. I don't know you and you don't know me but if somebody fucked up my girl or my bro, I am not going to call the police. Hell, if someone fucked you up, I would be willing to give some justice. "beating someone in an alley" is a sad fact, not an injustice, in many cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 05:04 PM |
| 3 | The Seven Lifting CommandmentsI was army engineer and had to lift 100 pounds over my head, for 12 hours at a time. That is different from building muscles that chicks want although there is some overlap. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Do women also have a problem with TRP because it's training them to be womanizers, players and fucbois?I have made my choices. Very few men who have killed for their country will talk about it. It is some empty phrase to some empty head. Good night and good luck because some really messed up people are watching over you. . .and you have no clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?I don't worship violence, I just happen to be very good at it. Small men like you will never have to make decisions that I have. I just want to be left alone and live in the arctic. When your oh-so-smart people and your politicians can't sort shit out it is always guys like me, or Chris Kyle that have to solve your problem, from a distance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?Unless they deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Is there a correlation between a person's character and partner count?You must understand that the effects on women are very different from the effects on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Do women also have a problem with TRP because it's training them to be womanizers, players and fucbois?It's Fight Club: you don't talk about Fight Club. Every man chooses his own path, and that is ON HIM. I found my baby doll, and if some Trejon, or whatever tosses a perfectly good girl aside, then that is on him.....not on me, not on my philosophy or ideology,,,,,it is always on the man himself and the woman who let it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?I tied the knot last year after 30 years. I think I could add some practical comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?We aren't "entitled" we are just smarter and more productive than women and mud people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 03:52 PM |
| 5 | shit-test realizations for beginners from a recovering BPI love the term "Amused Mastery" but it is so difficult to define and so hard to lock down and so hard emulate. I can do it and have done it but context is everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 03:48 PM |
| 12 | The Seven Lifting CommandmentsWhen I was in the army, I lifted for performance. I needed to be stong and fast because somebody's life might depend on it. Afterwards, it was just to get chicks. There is a subtle difference to lifting for looks. My sensei said that "perfection is not a destination; it is a direction". As a personal policy, I don't up or down vote but rather I just tell people what I think. OP: Post more. This is good shit. Give us bad shit and I will tell you. Don't let it go to your head but if you are this w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 03:39 PM |
| 2 | The dinner dateIt is contextual. Physical communities are different and ethnic communities are different. If you want to have a discussion or give advice then give context. I was born and raised in Toronto, lived in Vancouver and got married in Hong Kong to a Filipina after living in various cites in China. CONTEXT MATTERS. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?That would explain our attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?Maybe I should talk with him and collaborate on a dating manual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | why do approx 2/3rds of divorced men remarry?Come to Asia, the 40 year olds have bodies like teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | why do approx 2/3rds of divorced men remarry?I've heard that story. I've climbed Mt. Baker, I've climbed "Mt. Doom". I'll give a pass on Fuji. But the logic is sound. I used say that I was the only person in my family who has never been divorced because was the only one who never got married. Pray for me because 6 months ago I made it legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?If you want some insight into positive and negative masulinity, then [this](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Niggas\_vs.\_Black\_People) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?We take care of negative masulinity; generally in the back alley with a pool cue. On a grander scale, sometimes guys like me have to go to Africa and stop the rapes and slaughter committed by grown boys with guns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?It is contextual in that the blue and red worlds evaluate masculinity differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?My house; my rifle; fuck you all!! Works so far last century and this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?Everything I read about Peterson is third hand it seems. But it sounds good. I sort of agree with the given point. I am a monster. I am ex-military and don't belong in civilized society except for one thing: I CHOOSE to NOT be a monster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like?http://mydoggy.rocks/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Old-English-Sheepdog-wallpaper-41.jpg I'm shaggy, I'm cute, I will pull your ass out of a fire, but if you fuck with my flock, I kill you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:30 PM |
| -2 | Comparing two posts on /r/relationships. One where a biological mother refuses to meet her long lost biological daughter and one where a biological father refuses to meet his. Guess how the responses differ?Nobody can force a woman to carry a baby to term. Pawn your iPhone and you can pay for an abortion. Excuses, excuses and more excuses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:23 PM |
| 24 | Comparing two posts on /r/relationships. One where a biological mother refuses to meet her long lost biological daughter and one where a biological father refuses to meet his. Guess how the responses differ?This is golden. Sad, true and golden. She saddest part is the way it applies by way of analogy to almost any question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?Reds don't say that women enjoy BDSM but rather two distinct things: 1 they enjoy being "submissive" which is not necessarily BDSM and 2 they like it rough. Neither are universally true but either-or probably covers 90%+ women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?"men" +"entitled" in a sentence written by a woman (presumably liberal, white American woman). Something delicious about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:08 PM |
| -2 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?Porn is fine but Sturgeon's Law is in effect. I suppose that applies IRL given that only one in 10 of the women I have been with were really worth it, either emotionally or in the sack. Porn isn't really a thing here in China and the girls have some odd ways about them. So ya, I absolutely had to introduce some "porn sex" into our bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 01:06 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] So wealth affects the SMV of a man. Does it affect the SMV of a woman?A woman with style can see an increase in SMV with wealth but it is largely a negative as men are going uphill in the face of her wealth. If you are in the same social class then whatever, but an east ender gaming an uptown girl has a shit task ahead of him unless he is cabana boy material. Of the handful of women who I have dated that were pulling six figures, none of them had anything special because of their wealth per se. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Experiences w/ men bringing “porn sex” into the bedroom?Pgiven that only one in 10 of the women I have been with were really worth it, eitheis great but Sturgeon's Law is in effect. I suppose that applies in real life as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 10:03 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread June 20I am lucky because I have a good face, even in my advanced (50-ish) age but there are plenty of hot guys who fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch face first on the way down. Style can't be underestimated. Danny Trejo is like 5'9" and a pudgy senior citizen with a face that I will not comment on. And yet "voted Sexiest Actor Alive (again)". | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 08:29 AM |
| 5 | The Ultimate Law of Power - Create your own kingdomEvery loser has a book they never wrote, a movie they never made and a game they never brought to market. Don't be a loser. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 08:16 AM |
| 1 | why do approx 2/3rds of divorced men remarry?Point taken. The thing is that family responsibilities push men to maximize their earnings (even if they personally don't get to spend the money on themselves). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Should pro-choice mentality be extended to male parents too?The state would have to pick up the tab if guys were off the hook for child support. This philosophy goes to ridiculous lengths as even guys who are 100% known to not be the biological father get tagged for child support on various grounds. As a matter of principle I think guys should have an "out" if women do (in the form of easily accessible abortions) but as a practical matter, it will never fly. Off the top of my head I know there were at least one case in each of Canada and the US where the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/18 10:24 PM |
| 2 | why do approx 2/3rds of divorced men remarry?Married men tend to earn more money and are less likely to engage in risk taking behavior. But you are right about the fat and married thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | why do approx 2/3rds of divorced men remarry?The vast majority are blue pilled and will continue in their blue pill behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/18 10:07 PM |
| 13 | The Ultimate Law of Power - Create your own kingdomThere is a shit test: "are you a player?". The few times that has hit me I played it straight : "No, I am a game designer." Some people here thought that had too much cheese for their pizza but the fact is, yes, I design board games and have a published title that you can buy on Steam if you like. The OP is on to some larger thing here but I can say : don't be a player, design your own game. Unless the dice turned against us my business partner and I were basically unbeatable at our own game. (F… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 09:17 AM |
| 2 | LTR of 6 months cheated with ex. I'm fucked upBeen there, done that. She's not over him so you have to get over her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Choreplay isn’t choreplay- it’s men finally stepping up to the plate and taking on some of the mental loadBetter for you so live it up with your beta boy until it ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | The Boy CrisisAfter Johnny Rico as my wife is Filipina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | The Boy CrisisI am at the cusp of having a child. For factors outside this discussion, I want a daughter; but my wife wants a son. If I have a son then I have a task before me. I will never buy him an X-box or whatever. If he wants it, then he can get a job and earn it. However, I will buy him kits or sets that explore chemisty, photography, or whatever. I will buy him a chess set and a go board. But the best wisdom that I and my own step father can pass on to him are military virtues and martial arts, and pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Choreplay isn’t choreplay- it’s men finally stepping up to the plate and taking on some of the mental loadWomen are bitches and we can blame them all we want, but the fact is that men fail to do two things. One is to not get a dad bod. You don't need a six-pack or 17 inch guns but for the love of god put down the Cheetos and lift or run or something rather than watching "Dancing With The Stars". Two is to is to give affection, appreciation and validation to your woman. If this small chore is too much for you, then don't get married. IME and by observation and readings, the prime reason for divorce i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Choreplay isn’t choreplay- it’s men finally stepping up to the plate and taking on some of the mental loadThat isn't "choreplay", that is just the OP being a demanding bitch. Keep in mind that when any woman says she wants a 50/50 relationship, then that is women speak for her wanting to get her own way 80% of the time. But riddle me this batgirl: do you really want your guy to take a 20% cut in his take-home pay so he can "chore play" and balance out the household duties? Average guy makes $50k-$60k so are you willing to give up $10k a year (which probably you would otherwise spend) to scratch this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | What users to do you most respect from an ideology opposing yours?Ok so either those who agree with me have a modicum of respect, and/or those who don't think I am a shithead. It is not flattering for anyone concerned. PS: u/submongrel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 12:58 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] What would it look like if men put as much effort into there appearance as women?On the flip side, Vancouver women dress like they are going camping, Toronto women are much nicer, Montreal moreso and Manhatten girls have some of the best fashion sense in North America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 09:00 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What would it look like if men put as much effort into there appearance as women?Metrosexuals and gay guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 08:56 AM |
| 1 | A Beginners Guide To Using Steroids SafelyDepends on the gearand where you are. What, are you living in Angola or something? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 08:06 AM |
| 1 | The Inconvenient TruthThat is one view, and it is wrong, lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Stuck? Move.I needed a change of scenery for grad school, which took me from Toronto to Vancouver. In the aftermath I moved to China. I have lived in Jinan, Changzhou, and Shenzhen while visiting Shanghai, Nanchang and a few other placed. I am going back to Shandong province to be with people Ilike and have my new wife my my side. Asia is it and she is a Catholic | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread June 20A long, long time ago, I was a teenage incel. In a very short time I got the stylish haircut, ditched classed in favour of contact lenses, ditched my wordrobe and shopped at the in place,joined the military and packed on 20 pounds of muscl and fronted a rock band. If I could do it, then you can do it. SMV 4-------SMV 9 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill: TRP doesn't guarantee success with women. It just raises your odds.So you say. I am very Groucho Marx on this but I would be pleased if you could make a stronger case. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Why we are getting marriedI married my wife because after 30 years of dealing with bitches, I though that she was not. . . But as a practical point we needed marriage status to help us with our visa situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.Do you have a single news article for a source? Um, the entire fallout from 2008? Are you illiterate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Arnold Schwarzenegger as a Role ModelMake the most of it: He is not famous just for his big muscles; he is famous because he sought out and took every opportunity available. He did this in buidling his own supplements and workout franchice but more in his movie career. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill: TRP doesn't guarantee success with women. It just raises your odds.But seriously, this is junior grade understanding of TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:01 PM |
| 0 | A Beginners Guide To Using Steroids SafelyDon't post illegal shit, or at least put it in context. i presume you are American but I am a Canadian living in China. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:00 PM |
| 4 | The Inconvenient TruthThere is right and wrong, there is good and there is bad. To the extent that I am wrong, it is only to an extent. Don't get emotional, but do not be clinical. I teach, and my students teach me as much as I teach them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The Essence of StoicismOP, I agree with what you are trying to do but here is the sole (and soul) essense of Classic, Stoics theory: YOU MUST FORGE A WILL IN LINE WITH REALITY. This is TRP: pulling back the veil and actually looking at what you will have to deal with in your life! If you carve a path in life, and there is a tree in your way, they you have two options: 1) kill that MOFO tree and keep going 2) go around the tree. In practice, option 2 tends to come up more because we are mere mortals (or just lazy). Sto… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workI see your point, at least partially. Billionaire are such an outlier that us mere mortals can discount them. Elon Musk will have a status that I will never have. But it is irrelevent. I think you are thinking so far out of the box that our X, Y, Z trackers are having problems. My ex would fuck, marry, do "the anything" for Elon Mosk. She fucked a whole stream of ugly business men but my guess is that he is at least passable. She wouldn't commit to me unless I had a six-figure income. She was sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Realizing I always had the make of an Alpha but was stuck in my beta mode.Just asking, but did you write this when you were drunk? If so, delete it and try it again when you sober the fuck up. Many men have potential to be Alpha, every man has the potential to improve. Just get your head out of your ass and stop fapping for now. Purge your past: don't forget where you came from, but don't let it fuck up where you want to go. In the future, don't date "emotionally scared" girls. It's sad but you have to save yourself first before you deal with their shit. Get the fuck … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 07:08 PM |
| 150 | Make her day.Many years ago I had a job manning the information desk for a local community college. A pair of women, obviously mother and daughter approached and asked for curriculum information and such. I pulled out two copies of each and gave one copy to each woman. Mom said something like "Oh, I don't need that." I said "Oh, I thought you were two young ladies exploring your educational options." Mom smirked and said to me "You are going places. I don't know where, but you are going places!" She picked u… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Would men still get married if they understood AF/BB?Men would if they embraced it and found that ALPHABUX was the prime strategy. I don't know how many would have the dedication to commit to it, nor the ability, genetics or whatever. Hypergamy is a bitch but if you can always remain the best option, it can go well even if not perfect. Taking that to extreme gets into all sorts of grey and interesting areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.What you mean is nothing that offends anyone. At your request PPD-Lucifer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workI would only be Elon Musk as a gift to humanity and hope that whatever I come up with next will benefit it to the extent THAT IT JUSTIFIED MY PERSON SMV SACRFICE. I have to clarify: a billion or so dollars would be great and if I could stay me and have a billion dollars, then I would do it in an instant. . . My wife might not be enthused but. . . I sort of disagree with you in that gold diggers, silver diggers, sugar babies and outright whores are plentiful enough that they will congregate aroun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.I am reminded of the car park building in *Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocol* that basically summoned your car to the front of the lot without any staff. There are warehouses that use automated measures to pick and deliver products. Walmart is huge on automation and their distribution centres are something else. But yes, expert systems have the potential to displace a lot of what today's "professionals" do. Stock brokers are kind of fucked in my opinion. A machine can do both do both fundamenta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.And it's only going to get worse at the top ->this<- income earners pay --------------------------> this <------------------ proportion of taxes to support the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.The mud people will still have kids and then we will let them in the country or give them amnesty after they run the border because we need people to flip burgers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.There is absolutely zero financial cost of marriage to a woman unless she is the minority and earned substantially more than her husband when he divorces her ass (without a prenup). Child bearing takes women out of the workforce for at least a few months, but more likely a few years or several years or more. That always reduces a woman's earning potential and does so for the rest of her working life. >physical health is another, emotional investment, body autonomy is another, Right because 90% o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Reddit hates /r/TRP because it's filled with nerds. Not because of misogyny .I'm pretty sure if you check the Billboard 200 or whatever, the rap songs with misogynist lyrics are vastly outnumbered by those that aren't or those that have nothing to do with men discussing women. Secondly, a quick internet search reveals that there is plenty of criticism of misogyny in rap (and in other genres, but frankly, hair metal doesn't have the same cache it once did). Third girls who seem to like misogynist rap music are not the same ones who will criticize it. By "school" the OP co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workEddie Murphy has 8 kids with 4 different women. Then there is this guy or him and his two "friends". The latter link has pictures, which are enlightening and sadly none too surprising. http://articles.latimes.com/2012/may/18/nation/la-na-nn-tennessee-man-has-30-kids-20120518 http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2159476/Tennessees-deadbeat-dads-The-men-81-children-46-different-women--theyre-paying-child-support-them.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workStatus among whom? Where do single-singles fit in? Above single mothers, above coparenters or above a garden variety provider? As for men, guys who have multiple chilidren with multiple women are generally low status unless they are wealthy and provide for their kids. A player who is serial dating or plating hotties *without getting them pregnant* and is doing it above board given that women want to be with him and a lot of men would not mind being him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workOne is the expected mind reading. Two is that women want to talk at you, not too you. If they have a problem they want someone to validate their feelings of being wronged rather than a discussion of how to solve the problem at hand. Along these lines, some women are skolds while some are bossy micromanagers. They want the guy to split the housework 50/50 but if he does they will constantly bitch him out about how he isn't doing it right. Third, women are - at a minimum - non-persuasive. They are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workIf you don't know, I'm not going to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workforeplay can include washing the dishes. Good post but you lost me there; too darn cringeworthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP is generally okay for hook-ups if you're just down for a fuck. It's only a really disturbing problem in long-term relationships, and/or when exploiting the trust of timid girls with low self esteem who don't know how to say no.Apparently so. I guess we are sort of magnanimous that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is generally okay for hook-ups if you're just down for a fuck. It's only a really disturbing problem in long-term relationships, and/or when exploiting the trust of timid girls with low self esteem who don't know how to say no.It's basically a meme the way men and women physically abuse each other, and the victim always comes back for more. In terms of addictions, their partners will turn a blind eye or else try to "save" them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP is generally okay for hook-ups if you're just down for a fuck. It's only a really disturbing problem in long-term relationships, and/or when exploiting the trust of timid girls with low self esteem who don't know how to say no.Many if not most TRP concepts still apply to LTRs. I am not "Dark Triad" but I am ex military and a former trial lawyer. One thing I can say with confidence is that women are attracted to dangerous men. I don't just mean me but also the SSF I worked with and the Hell's Angels I tangled with in court. Joke: How do we know that Frankenstein's creature was not a monster? Answer: If he was, the chicks would have been all over him! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is generally okay for hook-ups if you're just down for a fuck. It's only a really disturbing problem in long-term relationships, and/or when exploiting the trust of timid girls with low self esteem who don't know how to say no.I am from Australia. Whereabouts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is generally okay for hook-ups if you're just down for a fuck. It's only a really disturbing problem in long-term relationships, and/or when exploiting the trust of timid girls with low self esteem who don't know how to say no.I spent 4 years as a divorce lawyer and I am the only person in my family who has not been divorced. Women are attention whores. The main reason they will divorce you is if you do not pay attention to them. Cheating doesn't go over well but addictions and violence get a pass if the guy gives his woman the attention she craves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP is generally okay for hook-ups if you're just down for a fuck. It's only a really disturbing problem in long-term relationships, and/or when exploiting the trust of timid girls with low self esteem who don't know how to say no.As if women don't drink, cheat and go all DV on their men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | When women settle the marriage failsWomen don't "settle". They simply have an over inflated sense of their own value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?What is your major? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?If I was not married, I would go back for my PHD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?YAAAA. Sweet girl, totally hot in the sack, but sadly she was a silver digger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?It is cool as fuck but I have never banked coin. That is the trade off. If I could pull my head out of my ass I could earn $150k in YVR or YYZ. Maybe, just maybe, my wife can unfuck me and get me to fulfil my full potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What have you noticed regarding people who you know who have either (A) gone from super-hot to not so hot or (B) gone from super-hot to post-Wall or (C) gone from not hot to super-hot?It was a weird but memorable phase of my life. If a demon offered me the choice between fame and oblivion I would think hard on the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?She has a daddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?Just a thought but isn't the best assessment of your SMV/RMV simply a catalogue of those who fuck you and want to LTR you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?She is a sweetie but wants a guy with a six-figure salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 11:12 PM |
| -5 | Fucking UnicornsFilipina godess you fucking loser. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?Hwmmmm She was my "almost" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Don't shit where you eat vs Where else are you going to shit?Have you noticed that THAT THIS IS THE FUCKING INTERNET?????? I am Canadian, I live in China, I am married to a Filapina. Roll the dice and I would be working in South America and married to an African Queen. I travel but I have a hard rule against hitting on girls I work with. It is just bad news all around. Never EVER date work colleagues. Getting back to my initial point, this is the internet and the world is your oyster. Edit: why are idiots down voting me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 04:43 PM |
| 2 | The Solution to Your Problems with WomenWhen you are comfortable in your own skin, EVERYTHING is on easy mode. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 04:06 PM |
| -10 | Fucking UnicornsIF there is such thing as a unicorn, I bagged mine. Check back with me in 20 years. I am white bread Canadian and she is a LBFM. I sometimes ask about how bad the North American dating market is. I try to resist the urge to say what Asia is like. But nothing succeeds like success. Place your bets, gentlemen. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Q4ALL: What have you noticed regarding people who you know who have either (A) gone from super-hot to not so hot or (B) gone from super-hot to post-Wall or (C) gone from not hot to super-hot?C) This story is 30 years old but still has some relevance. I was a teenage incel. I got fed up and made a few changes. I joined the army reserve; I made master corporal within 2 years. That and lifting put 20 pounds of muscle on my frame. I joined the college debate team. I purged my stage fright and indirectly purged my approach anxiety. I went from being invisible to saying "no" to 6s and 7s. Frankly, I was a complete dick for about 6 months to a year because I did not know know to handle my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?Why the disparity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?What mental illness, if I may ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 08:54 AM |
| -1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?5'3", 120 lbs, 17% body fat, Sounds good. Hold yourself together! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?Like this 38 year old https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/562c45fc1064a2ff5b32c22525b5027362b313f9d1f4a25128569f491935708e.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?"Age adjusted" lol. I love it I'm 52. If we are ever in the same city, let me take you out for a beer and we can game 20 year olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?I am like a 6 in each. If I lifted and otherwise gave a shit, I suppose I would be an 8 SMV. If I leveraged my law degree rather than teaching Englilsh in Asia, then 8 for RMV too. I have good facial features and a 138 IQ without being spergy. I am ex-army but when I served I kept my body in shape. As of September my salary will be $40k CDN but that includes room and board and a cost of living that is a third of state side. If I lived in an American city of any consequence, I would have to make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 02:57 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] What makes a man fun/not boring at different stages of your life?Jam is a Red Pill specimen, give or take. I love to read her nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Is online dating "beta"?Overtime I have become decent with my approach but my way with words is much better online. Actually, my wife approached me! Stop worrying about alpha and beta and do what works for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What makes a man fun/not boring at different stages of your life?And the thing is, these women have an associate degree from Skookum U and are rocking a 23 BMI, and yet want all of this in theor men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 09:19 PM |
| 6 | A Case Against KidsA lot of Filiinas are whores. I vetted but you didn't. Let's sese how it plays out. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Is going crazy a shit test?Try this: When you are alone grab her by the throat, gently but firmly. Then sus out your issues. Purple an Blue Pill types will have a hemorhage but the plain fact is that sometimes you can't have a reasonable discussion with a womea without your hand on their throat. This is extreme and you have to cut bait if she gets violent. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 11:57 AM |
| 0 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyAfrica is a rat crazy place. I am trained in business and law but I study all sorts of subject in my free time. For various reasons, Africa is a marvelous subject of study. PS: I am Candian living in China. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Men: What do you think is the biggest dating challenge for women? Women: What do you think is the biggest dating challenge for men?I have been out of this for a while but the if you want to see the biggest problem then look in the mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Men: What do you think is the biggest dating challenge for women? Women: What do you think is the biggest dating challenge for men?sexual experiences left on his bucket list. Speaking as one man, THIS. Only one box left to tick, but it will probably involve flying to Thailand, much to my wife's chagrin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 09:32 AM |
| 8 | A Case Against KidsThere are only two jurisdictions on the planet wirh no divorce laws: 1) Vatican City and 2) Philippines. I married a Filipina and we are discussing kids. I want it to happen but it has to happen soon. I think there is a certiain joy, or at least satisfaction to having a son or daughter, and that joy and satisfiaction will survive the collapse of society as we know it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 09:27 AM |
| 0 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyTokyo and Mumbai are over 4000 miles apart. This does not look like this. Doesn't look the same, doesn't talk the same, doesn't act the same. Canada and the USA are something of exceptions as we have established a common culture across 2500 miles, but still, there are half a dozen or more sub-cultures, not including immigrant groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 09:21 AM |
| 4 | Focus on the Destination or Journey?Back in the day my karate sensei told me "perfection is a direction, not a destination". Millionaire? Depends on your definition. A million dollars in assets? Any chump can do that. A million dollars in earnings? That takes a bit more. Take a DEEP breath. Exhale, repeat. You obviously have skills and are being paid for them, so run with that. Chll the fuck out for at least a moment! If women are your problem then we can talk about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownThe thing is, if you think you are "hot as fuck" you probably are not, at least not to the extent that want to be. You are playing with fire. If you are in a bullshit job and not worried about references, then nobody cares. I took a retail job during law school and I was shameless about hitting on the teenagers. I was 30 and the girls were <20. I was ex military so my job was security: dealing with shoplifters and such. When there was no customers around, I would flirt. I moved into a new apartm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How does one lower one's standards?More like the 90s. Still ancient history if you are still in college at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 12:10 AM |
| 0 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyEast Indians and Japanese do not and should not fall in the same category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Anger Phase...Addressing Rollo's SMV Chart As It Relates To Early 20'sYou are probably right, but can you explain inany deatail where things have changed and where I am wrong? Still, some things never change. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyOne more entry in the Womanese dictionary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyI am agnostic. Atheists tend to assert the negative to the point of being annoying; it's their creed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:08 PM |
| 0 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyAtheists are a funny bunch; I mean those that self-proclaim to the point of being annoying. Technically, classic Buddhism is atheistic, for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyTechnically, Indians are dark-skinned caucasians. One needs a separate category for East Indians, and perhaps Latinos. You can get picky and differentiate among Africans, Afro-Americans, and Caribbeans. I live in China. Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Koreans and such are all significantly different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyWhen a woman says she wants a 50-50 relationship, that means she wants to get her own way 80% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyBDTY. . submissive? Can't picture it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | June 2018: PurplePillDebate surveyWhen I am stateside again, I am getting a Maine Coon: the cat the thinks it is a dog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdown>Q4All: What are some other ways to de-sexualize the workplace? Don't shit where you eat. I have worked in film and television and it is completely different than an office environment. People come and go. You have a job to do but once one of you is on the way out, there is nothing wrong with asking for their contact info. The 5 second rule is insane. WTF is a "lingering" hug? And flirting is not necessarily sexual; it can just be banter and a lot of women like the attention. Those that don't te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How does one lower one's standards?Several years ago I dated this frumpy accountant who was a semi-pro 5-pin bowler. She was interesting but I kept having to say no to anything more. Then finally she takes me out and gets me liquored up and then we go "parking". If the genders were reversed it would have been a good candidate for date rape but really, I was a willing participant and I did in fact like her. However, after slamming in the bucket seats of her Honda it was just too weird so I never spoke to her again. That was probab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How does one lower one's standards?Same guy? Cripes, I didn't even read that thread because the title struck me as being retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:15 PM |
| 2 | How does one lower one's standards?N-count is not the best measure. I went through a phase in my early 30s where I though fucking more women would be enlightening or something, and so I lowered my standards so as to bang something new weekly for a while. It was worthess at best and a mistake at worse. So I cranked it. IMHO to STR or LTR a series of 8s is way better then fucking your way through a zombie apocalypse of 6s,5s or outright undead. As long as you are not indugling bitchyness you will be much happier getting your weekly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownharassment is in the eye of the beholder Your life and your career should always be wired tight. If you let this ride and roll the dice on everything you build coming crashing down over the feels of some female coworker, then I guess you deserve what you get. Yes, harassmet is in the eye of the beholder but some random bitch at arms legth can 't take you down the way some cut with and an agenda running about your office. Don't shit where you eat. . .ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownIf this is what it has come to then I am doubly happy to have a non-white-non-northamerican-non-over-priviledged bitch whom I can look at lovingly without getting heartache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What is your love language?That's because you are a solipsistic introverted whatever hiding under your rock and expecting guys to lure you in with gifts of candy while standing outside the SMP and make absurd comment on how the reset of us live. (Ban me now as her pretention triggers me, lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 03:17 PM |
| 5 | June 15 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadI said "fuck you" in rather subtle terms to my employer and they said "fuck you" back in the way they are jerking around my job transition, Improvement? I think a 20% salary increase falls under that . But now my soon-to-be-ex-employers are being real bitches about this transition. I work overseas so it is not as simple as you might think. People love you as long as you fill their needs; get something for yourself and the knives come out. Dealing with women is not so differerent. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 03:06 PM |
| 5 | June 15 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadSummer job? I am two or three times your age but you draw respect because you seem to know what you are doing. Not perfect but not flailing about like a drowning man. Don't approach but don't monk mode because you are cresting enough to not pull back for now.The women are there and waiting for you - AT YOUR BEST- to come in an take them. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What is your love language?In an LTR, we make up our own language. We have words, phrases, terms, and even complete sentences that go over the head of everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you feel about your impending sexual decline as you age?Cancer the astrology sign or cancer t he malignant tumour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: How do you feel about your impending sexual decline as you age?Your libido is only a weakness IF YOU LET IT BE. I like fine wine, I like fine food, I like fine women, I like less-than-fine women. Live it but don't let it rule you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you feel about your impending sexual decline as you age?Focus. Don't make stupid dick decisions. But otherwise, let your libido flow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What is your love language?The general wisdom as far as I know is that French is the language of love, English is the language of logic and or rhetoric and German is the language of war. But maybe you use "langauges" in a nontraditioinal sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Are attractive people better or worse in bed? What does logic suggest? What does your experience say?The majority of 8 or 9 women are passive, which is to say "boring" unless you create a more interesting narrative. At worst, you have to play clown game and entertain them all the way from the bar to the bed. The thing is, I have BDSM tendencies. That is how I get my jollies, and I get them with those 8s and 9s because they are so boring otherwise. That should be past tense. I married a 6/7 and she is everything I need in bed (albeit not everything I want). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 01:12 PM |
| 10 | Anger Phase...Addressing Rollo's SMV Chart As It Relates To Early 20'sRollo's SMV chart as it applies to men as they age has the implicit assumption that one is following some sort of vaguely Red Pill lifestyle: you are working on your game, your finances, and keeping your body in shape throughout your 20s and into your 30s. Most (blue pill) guys *do not* peak in their 30s. They peak in their last year of college, sort of like women, and then go downhill from there but for their emerging beta-provider traits as they ramp up their career. The average age of first m… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What % of a woman's RMV is looks/beauty for you? Also, what are the other factors and what % would you give these other factors?I have a baseline. Below that, RMV drops precipitously but above that the gains are only marginal. So on the one hand, I am shallow to the extent that I would never LTR a girl who rates as a 5 or a 4, but on the other hand I am not willing to put up with nonsense in an LTR just because she rates as an 8+. In days gone by I dated chubby chicks with a view to the long term, but at one point I had to slap myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP???Many red pillers have a streak of individualism to them while most blue pillers are sheep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Can most men achieve "enthusiastic consent"? If so, can they achieve it consistently?Women tend to be passive, so I am not sure what you mean by enthusiasm. Most don't feel comfortable talking dirty, even when you encourage them. Most are not screamers, many are not even moaners. My ex and I were getting down to business and I asked her if she wanted me to be gentle or rough. She said "rough" and then her whole body relaxed; not limp like a corpse, but relaxed and then I took it from there. OTOH, it is a terrible turn off to have the impression that she is just giving in and all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 01:17 PM |
| 5 | Numbers game vs Social circle gameI have a very small social circle. As a teen or early 20-something back in the 80s and early 90s, I was dating other students. Into the 90s, telephone dating came in, and then after 2000 internet dating became a thing. I never went in for swipe apps like Tinder but about 90% of the girls I have dated in recent history have come from OKCupid and such. The point here is that it works for me. What is most effective depends on you, your personality, your circle of friends, and the nature and strengt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 01:05 PM |
| 3 | I find it strange that people with more conservative views are Blue Pill/old fashioned with dating compared to the Left.Red Pill types tend to be conservative but not tradcon. A disproportionate number are libertarian, but many if not most are in favour of small and/or local government, low taxes, deregulation and such. The vast majority are not religious and many take evolution far too seriously. It's hard to look at politics because the media itself is wired to be left of centre. At any opportunity, Democrats/Liberals will be portrayed as cool and Republicans/Conservatives will be either nerdy or overbearing. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread June 13"Good thing I don't like thick women" | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 09:12 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread June 13Single mothers rely on the state. More single mothers means more power to the state. At the risk of sounding all conspiracy like, those in charge hate the thought of individual families deciding what is best for themselves. And in particular, the idea of a patriarchal household. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 09:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Non-violent non-participation is a more effective solution than radicalization. (Long!)"Left over women" (LOW) are prime hunting ground for middle age white guys who want to settle down. Many, if not most, 27-33 year old Chinese women have bodies like teenagers, and they hold their value for a decade or more. The LOW tend to have their own money so they are not gold or silver diggers. The Wall of 27 or 28 is a social construct rather than biological fact like it is with white chicks. One woman described it this way: "The A men pair up with the B women and the B men pair up with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?Yes, but BMI is bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] How big of a factor does breast size play in your sexual attraction to a woman?I am not what you could call a "tit man". They are fun to look at, they are fun to play with but in the end they are not much of anything importaI. At best they are a bonus. I tend to like slim or petite women, and they are usually rocking A cups. For bigger girls, they have to have the 0.7 waist to hip ratio and the tits to balance that out. I briefly dated a girl with G cups. Her boobs played a very small role in our debauchery. An ex of mine was 5'4" and 110 pounds. Of her own accord she got … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?18 is underweight Depends on the girl. My wife is BMI 19 but she has a muffin. She could trim out at a healthy BMI 18 absent some additional muscle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's descriptions of "female nature" are wrong because they are based on cherry picked anecdotes instead of measurable gender differences.So you say. Ego much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Non-violent non-participation is a more effective solution than radicalization. (Long!)It depends on the age range. Among "dating age" (roughly 18 to 30) you are probably right. It remains to be seen if Chinese society will implode when a few hundred million single men opt out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | How good are you at recognizing fake orgasms?Hence the difference between fellatio and irrumation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Don’t envy Chad: He’s getting bent over by women more than anyone. Be thankful you’re here.My karate sensei told me "Perfection is not a destination, it is a direction" | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Don’t envy Chad: He’s getting bent over by women more than anyone. Be thankful you’re here.if you're a wierd guy Stacey won't give you any attention The trick is to be weird in the right way I am not Chad. I am average height and average build.The only things I have going for me are decent facial aesthetics and a top 2% IQ that I have learned how to leverage. It's all farts in the wind at this point as I got married last year to a girl 17 years my junior. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?It's posted on line which makes it iffy at best, but I run with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Japanese porn is downright depressing.I am a white male with an internet connection so I bump into J-porn then and there. It does nothiing for me. The girls are cute but they are little more than furry squeak toys who make funny sounds when a guy with a 3 inch dick sticks his finger in them. I live in China and I married a Filipina. I have chatted with some guys here who have first hand experience in Japan and they give it good reviews. The take away from this is: shut down your computer, put your dick back in your pants and buy a p… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Don’t envy Chad: He’s getting bent over by women more than anyone. Be thankful you’re here.I am fatter but smarter, Ha ha. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Don’t envy Chad: He’s getting bent over by women more than anyone. Be thankful you’re here.Forget Chad. There is only you and you can get whatever you want out of life if you go for it. Be the best you can be and everything will come to you, including riches and bitches. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] Enthusiastic consent: Do you always look for this when fucking?College campuses are the leading cesspool of American life. I live in Asia;I got married in Asia; and even by your twisted standards yes. . .I get "enthusiastic consent". Having 5 feet of hotness on her knees begging for your cock has a certain thing about it. For guys to deal with the new reality there are two basic strategies. One is to get into the BDSM culture. The reason is that a lot of what you do has to be dragged out into the open and explicitly agree to, sometimes even in the form of a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Guy posts on multiple dating subreddits saying he prefers younger women, gets called 'misogynist'Non-paraphylic hebephilia is otherwise known as "being normal". Most guys won't act on it, however. Certainly I don't unless I see an end game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:55 PM |
| 13 | Guy posts on multiple dating subreddits saying he prefers younger women, gets called 'misogynist'It was like disagree with Obama and you are a racist. Reds use the term "feminist" like a scalpel in comparison to this blunt instrument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Guy posts on multiple dating subreddits saying he prefers younger women, gets called 'misogynist'I'm in my 50s. Have you looked around to see what women in their 50s look like? I was dating women in their late 20s and early 30s. Frankly, if I could have gotten away with it, I would still be dating teenagers. However, I threw in the towel and married a 30-something who is 17 years younger than me. I'm not some Chad and I am not rich and I am not whatever, but I am a guy who has enough going for him to pull this off. Misogyny means hatred. I don't hate women, I don't even hate women over 40 b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How good are you at recognizing fake orgasms?:-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Humans Flaunt Attractive Partners to Enhance Their Status and DesirabilityThere is a joke about fat chicks and mopeds: they are fun to ride but you don't want to be seen with one. I stand 5'10" and I have made some posts before about the ideal height for women. The "Nash Equilibrium" so to speak is 5'0", 5'4" and 5'10". The latter are the most awkward in bed but they give you the most status in a social encounter. I went the other way so my wife is 5'0". It is a weird sort of status in that everyone want to mother her (us). I am MC by birth and LMC by upbringing. I su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 02:28 PM |
| 0 | How good are you at recognizing fake orgasms?One the one hand, I have to take her word at face value. She tells me that 2 minutes of cowgilrl gets her off. OTOH, tie her down with her legs spread and there is no question that my oral techniques bring her there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How good are you at recognizing fake orgasms?Slip a C-note the technician to give you some private time and then fuck the bitch with her head in the chamber while recording. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?Unless you have a metric to judge facial attractiveness, then it has to be ignored if you are doing any sort of scientific inquiry. Great, fine, yes, facial attractiveness is important but you can't measure it with a protractor and slide rule, for the most part. I would have to dig deeper to tell if low BMI women tend to have 0.7 WHR or if they are just skinny coat hangers. I don't know where to find that data, so if you can help me out, it would be appreciated. 2) Google [vixen of your choice] … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Non-violent non-participation is a more effective solution than radicalization. (Long!)In China as a whole there is something like a 1% or 2% deficit of women. I suppose that is exacerbated by white guys like me who come here to steal their women. "Reality" shows are not a good guide but they do reveal a kernel of truth: Chinese chicks want a provider. If you can't afford a condo and a car, most will not give you a second look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Best Hobbies to Meet WomenOk, you got me. A girl who knows her way around a tai chi sword gives me a chubby. Crouching Tiger is almost 20 years old but the fight between Zhang Ziyi and Michelle Yeoh had a certain erotic quality to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?Tactful makeup and a good hairstyle, plus creative camera angles can make the most of your face, but yes, there is not much to be done about it otherwise. TRP tells guys first and foremost to lift. The basic reasons for this are that most guys are overweight, and getting yourself down to a BMI under 25 with a body fat percentage under 15 is the most straight forward way to improve your SMV. The same applies for women. Instead of grousing about "where have all the good men gone?" they should put … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:23 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP's descriptions of "female nature" are wrong because they are based on cherry picked anecdotes instead of measurable gender differences.And people who agree with TRP tend to be incels with even more limited experience. I stumbled on TRP a few years ago after 30 years of dealing with women. The only reason I still hang there is becasue it is largely in accord with that 30 years of experience. A lot of TRPers are teenagers and college kids who don't have that experience, but that is the point: wisdom passed forward. On that point, I don't consider TRP to be "science"; it is a form of folk wisdom that guys share amongst themselves.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP's descriptions of "female nature" are wrong because they are based on cherry picked anecdotes instead of measurable gender differences.That's your own biases talking, rather that speaking from a position of knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP's descriptions of "female nature" are wrong because they are based on cherry picked anecdotes instead of measurable gender differences.Roll 2 - six sided dice. The odds of rolling a 6 are not the same as the odds of rolling an 11. And you ask me what I am smoking? Reality weed aparently, something you abstain from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Best Hobbies to Meet WomenGranola sports are good for meeting women. Ultimate frisbee comes to mind. The girls who play have hot bodies. Any sport that matters relies on women watching you. Personally, I don't recommend rugby. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 06:10 AM |
| 9 | Best Hobbies to Meet WomenGood stuff.Pick up a guitar, learn 3 chords and then slay. Bada Bing Bada Boom. But martial arts is bad news: the girls are agressive and/or have other issues. Correct me if I am wrong but North American girls are on to "photo game"? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 06:05 AM |
| 4 | Hypergamy, The Carousel, and Sound Investment StrategyTRP is fine. You have not dated many (any?) women so you are not qualified to comment. The OP is a good read but otherwise nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?Oh man! Don't get me started about dancers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?I suppose that is matter of evidence and discussion. If you see exceptions under every rock then you won't believe me. If you take in a reasonable sample and process it, you will agree with me. Edit: I ran the numbers on the top paid female actresses. I thought that was the most objective. There are many sites that have "The 10 most beautiful women in the world" or some such thing, and I encourage you to run the same analysis: get the name, find the height and weight, and compute BMI. All or vir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's descriptions of "female nature" are wrong because they are based on cherry picked anecdotes instead of measurable gender differences.If you have not notices a pattern to dice, then you don't have an understanding of statistics. If that is the case, I can't debate with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?Your outlier wife is just another exception that proves the rule. My little theory would say that she is a 6; if not then good on you, mate. My last two gfs were BMI 18 and 19 and maybe HB8. My wife is 19 and more an HB6/7. I'm not saying that buxom women can't be beautiful, I am saying that most beautiful women are slim. Pick any female movie star at random and odds are they fall in that 18 to 20 range. Look here and then look for their height and weight and do the math. Amy Adams BMI 20 Julia … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP's descriptions of "female nature" are wrong because they are based on cherry picked anecdotes instead of measurable gender differences.With enough experience,the sum total tends to be the same. You and I can roll a pair of dice and maybe I get 8 and you get 4. Roll them enough times and a common pattern emerges for both of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?Subjective experience within a common framework. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Trophy wives prove the wall is realThe Wall is where women's looks (and value in most contexts) declines. Post Wall women are not unattractive but they are less attractive than their pre-wall selves. Celebrities are in an odd category because they only tend to mix with other celebrities and most need a decade or so to establish themselves. The odd star will rise when they are young. Lindsay Lohan shot to fame as a teenager, so who did she date when she was 20? Bruce Willis, who is a good 30 years older. Celebrities also hold thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Trophy wives prove the wall is realCollege girls are too busy dating college boys. In my 30s I dated a couple of teenagers but generally my market from when I was 35 to 49 was age 28 to 33. At 48 I was with a 26 year old and there were some daddy issues there. At 50 I married a 32 year old. My dating history is mostly "half-plus-seven". I'm not rich nor particularly good looking but I am smart and I have leveraged that. Of my three closest friends, two are with women a dozen years younger, but no college girls to be seen, even fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?It works both ways. You can have a chick with the face of an angel but she can be held back by her body. I am not saying that having a 19 BMI makes one a 9, but there are virtually no 9s with BMIs much over 20. As an example, this claims to list the 20 most beautiful women in the world. Here are the BMIs: 19, 21, 17, 20, 20, 19, 20, 22, 24, 23, 20, 22, 16, 19, 18, 21, 19, 19, 20, 22. I don't have the links to all the sources, and some sources vary. The outliers are supermodels who tend to be ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Mindy Kaling’s address to Dartmouth’s men about dating exemplifies the hostile, chilling attitude modern feminism takes towards men.The thought that everyone is watching is rather creepy. Will they be watching in our bedroom as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 02:11 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP's descriptions of "female nature" are wrong because they are based on cherry picked anecdotes instead of measurable gender differences.People who disagree with TRP tend to be bloopers of limited experience, so this OP is laughble in that it asserts of others what it displays in its own right. The idea of "cherry picking" gives the most guffaws as one has to choose all the exceptions to the rules that TRP lays down clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:20 AM |
| -1 | Q4ALL: How does a 5/10, 6/10 and 7/10 in terms of attractiveness of the opposite sex look to you?In terms of BMI, your 8s and 9s are 18 to 20, the 7s are 20 to 22, the 6s are 22 to 24 and the 5s are 24 to 26. There are outliers like Christina Hendricks who is BMI 25 but still rockin' a 0.7-something waist to hips ratio and huge tits to match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.Ask around, mate: anecdotes tend to pile up into what is called evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?The term is "intersubjectivity" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is your mission?I am going to cut 10 track CD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Non-violent non-participation is a more effective solution than radicalization. (Long!)I am a Canadian so I get taxed based on residence rathan citizenship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do women date assholes and then complain about male assholishness being a systemic issue?About half figure it out before age 28 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What’s the 20/80 rule for women?The problem is that when we mix disciplines, the terms get all fucked up. The 80/20 Rule under TRP is ***NOT*** a pareto principle. . A reasonable theory is this: : The top 20% of men *attract* the top 80% of women. They "attract them'; they don't marry them or even fuck them, but they are the guys that they want to "get with". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Chad is a stupid term that men use to blame women.PS: I DON'T BLAME WOMEN THEY JUST **ARE** | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Chad is a stupid term that men use to blame women."Stupid terms" are considered such by stupid people who don't understand the context nor conotation or real world phenomona that they are oblivious to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I live at home with my parents (I'm 32) and still have a decent dating life?You are in rough times. If your father is competent - legally - then let him be the patriarch. He makes all the decisions about everything unless you convince him otherwise. In this day an age it is not the social stigma to be in your early 30s and living at home *as long as you have good emloyment*. ____ My suggestion is not for the feint of heat: YOU HAVE TO ASSERT YOURSELF AS PATRIARCH OF YOUR FAMILY. If you are the best positioned and you have a top tier inome and your wealth is comfortable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Non-violent non-participation is a more effective solution than radicalization. (Long!)I opted out the moment I accepted a job offer in China. I am building my nest egg and as far as I a concerned you can take western civiization under while I take care of my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What is the general consensus about lesbians?Irrelevant. GIven that, "lesbian" *can be* just another shit test thrown at men. I have not had a threesome (damn it!) but I have dated a number of confirmed carpet munchers. They had shit luck with shit guys and found some solice in other women. My understanding is that maybe 1-2% of men and a few more points of women are "just that way". However, my view is that 10% of men and 20% of women - maybe more - can "swing" under the right circumstnaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why the way things are in Sexual AttractionSMV and RMV are separate. A man with a high SMV could wash up on a beach with tattered clothes and some (rather high SMV) woman would take him in, care for him, and fuck his brains out. The old movie *Trading Places" comes to mind where a high RMV guy can be stripped of everything. You talk about "the number" like it is a bad thing. Men are inately hierarchical. We like to put things on a scoreboard. I can give you examples later. >it would be an average of many factors including intelligence, p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.Observation: first, second and third hand. This is ancient history but when I was early 20s I dated this one girl. She was 5'10" about 130 pounds, blonde hair, blue eyes. A solid 7 if not an 8. She was also valedictorian at her high school and one of the few women I have ever dated who were a mental match for me. I'm 5'10" and at the time I was maybe 150 or so. I was on leave from the army reserve so my strength, BF%, cardio and such were not peak (they in fact peaked a few years later). We star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.Sounds about right, for women of that set. Would you agree that it is on the man to maintain his body, virility, passion, interest, affection and income - *to her standard* - to keep her around rather than dumping her for someone less bitchy, a dozen years younger, who appreciates all the other things he has accomplished, but for the threat of losing half his wealth, half his income and all of his kids? Is there a female equivalent for "schlub"? My Yiddish is not so good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:47 PM |
| 0 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.What part of "actions speak louder than words" (facta non verba), and "tingles uber alles" (sexual attraction above all else) do you disagree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:38 PM |
| 0 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.It's a bit difficult to separate the sarcasm from your actual POV. Women want to get fucked well, but in an LTR/marriage it is collateral (although usually necessary) to the concepts of attention, affection and validation. The whole *mothering" dynamic sends a marriage into the waste bin, groin first. Having said that, a proper division of labour does not create a mother-and-child dynamic. I do a slim majority of grocery shopping and cooking. She does the lion's share of cleaning (laundry, sweep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:35 PM |
| 0 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.Not all lesbians are created equal. I would love to see a breakdown of divorce rates among "lipstick lesbians", "bull dykes" and as many categories in between to be meaningful. If you have two lesbians who think like women but act like men, it would not be surprising that their divorce risk was higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:01 PM |
| 0 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.Whatever doctrinaire TRP says, many if not most divorces are a matter of the woman feeling like they are not getting enough attention. Part of that is sexual in that they want their husbands to fuck them regularly but more it is about the attention, affection and validation. One dynamic is that the guy gets so wrapped up in his career that he doesn't spend time with his wife (and kids). He may or may not love his job but he gets so wrapped up in making a living that he doesn't make a life out of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 11:56 AM |
| 3 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.Half of married people paired up early and got married by 27-28. The divorce rate is. . .half. The half that are not getting divorced is more likely the 25 to 30 crowd. The rest are either younger or older. The OP is only talking about the older ones. Assuming 80% of people eventually get married, half of those marry in their late 20s, and half of the remainder marry later rather than earlier, the OP's generalization only applies to about 20% of women. Edit: Keep in mind that most manosphere con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.The stat that I love to toss around because it is so interesting is that divorced men as a group are the most likely to be incels (defined as no sex in the last year - but not a virgin) *and* the most likely to be highly promiscuous (defined as 4+ partners in the last year). [Page 18](https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf). For divorced women, you see the incel part, but not the promiscuous part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 11:23 AM |
| 2 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.Explanation and justification are two different animals. And when I say "explanation" I don't mean that she can use it to explain away her decision but rather for outsiders looking in, it certainly explains a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 11:15 AM |
| 2 | What if the increase in women filing for divorce/uhappiness in relationshils is also influenced by how they leverage SMV.We've been around this mulberry bush several times in different ways. The classic is simply the case of the "Alpha Widow". My more complex theory regards the Ratchet Effect where women compare their current boyfriend to *every* past boyfriend across multiple dimensions. If her current is not as good as or better than all previous guys in all respects then she nexts him and finds another. However, if he had at least one quality that was superior to others, that adjusts her standards further upwar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?1) Squeaky, like Bernadette from Big Bang Theory or too many Chinese and Japanese girls. 2) Gravelly, like they have had to much booze and cigarettes in their time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?In the army, you needed a 70% to pass any written test, but then again, if you fail out in the field, you can die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?IME, if you have some common terms of reference, and you aren't dealing with the three classes of guys I mention above, the SD is more like a half point to one point at the most. That is, if I say a girl is a 7, roughly two-thirds of other guys won't go lower than 6 nor higher than 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?"Average" is ill-defined. You can talk mean, median or mode. Plus it is very context-specific. The SMP as a whole is skewed towards the lower end. That is, it is not a symmetrical bell curve. The "average" person in society at large probably rates a 4 or even a 3. OTOH, if you are in college surrounded by relatively fit 18 to 22 year olds, the average there would probably rate a 7 overall. In general, a 5 is someone very plain looking. Not ugly, not obese but maybe a bit overweight and with no n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?The vast majority of guys find a 6 to be attractive (bangable), but if you are swimming in a sea of 7s to 9s then ya, you probably will not be dating a 6 in the normal course of things. The questions still stand, at least is theory: 1) would you choose a peach of a 6 over a bitchy 8 to be in an LTR with? 2) Would you get into an LTR with someone who you *don't* find physically attractive if she was perfect in every other way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?That being said, if I had to choose from a group of women who all passed my "looks test" (for lack of a better way to put it) .. I wouldn't make the final decision based on looks. I'm not sure how many other guys think the same way we do but there is a baseline for physical attractiveness and then you look for a "hook" in terms of personality. The flip side is that if you are hitting on those 8s and 9s and actually getting somewhere then you start looking for red flags rather than hooks. But yes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?There is a shift from the last bit of the discussion in the OP to the final question, and they straddle the title of the post. YMMV but basically my previous two partners were 8s and I ended up marrying a 6/7. The thing is, I think I am on solid ground to say that the vast majority of guys are in fact physically attracted to a girl who is a 6. But to answer the final question, ***no***, I would not have married my wife if she way a 5 or a 4 or something and I wasn't physically attracted to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do women date assholes and then complain about male assholishness being a systemic issue?Women crave excitement, drama, and to be entertained. Guys who provide all three tend to be assholes on one level or another and have trouble toning it down during quiet moments when she decides she wants to be "serious". Unitl a woman hits the Wall, the quiet, nice guys are largely invisible to her. It's a question of priorities. Purps and Bloops will comment that many Reds have a low or distorted opinion of women *because that's the kind of women they attract*. Personally I think that is nonse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?Just as a hypothesis, sparks or chemistry or whatever are proportionate to the square of the guy's SMV/RMV. A woman will 100% hamster feelings for a guy who is a 10, roughly half the time for a 7, a quarter of the time for 5 and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 06:53 AM |
| 2 | The link between polygamy and warThe Q4All doesn't flow well from the OP's content and headline. In many of the cases described the women did not consent or else did not have any reasonable alternative. Plus, war is not the only type of social dysfunction. Another thing is teasing out the causal relationship between polygamy and war, crime, interpersonal violence and such. For instance, There is a strong correlation between income inequality and homicide rates across countries. IIRC, the relationship holds, albeit not as strong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 06:34 AM |
| 4 | Reminder: The biggest part of 'Relationship Management' is choosing the right woman.I recall this first date I went out on a few years back. She was smart, pretty, sexy, and funny. However, there were this little things that popped up over the course of the evenings. To call them "red flags" would be an overstatement. They were things I could handwave or gloss over for an evening, but I could tell that there was no LTR potential and an STR would have been more trouble than it was worth. So the moment of truth happens as we are wrapping things up and she says "So where do we go … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 04:17 AM |
| 2 | [Q4BP] How do men vet women for possible divorce rape?Past behaviour, if you can figure it out. Observing how she reacts to perceived threats to her socially or careerwise. If she is overly defensive, overly self-protective, and/or ruthless in pursuing her own self-interest, she will probably turn on you if/when the time comes. And of course, BPD types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?At the point where you need to issue an ultimatum, the relationship is effectively over. I suppose for women then commit-or-break-up might be appropriate and might even work. For men, if no other technique has worked to stop bad behaviour, odds are she doesn't consider you valuable enough for an ultimatum to work. At best it will delay the inevitable: she will either call your bluff, or be resentful and dump you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Red-Pillers who may have daughters in the future or already have them, would you stop them from riding the cock carousel?Most of the CC activity occurs when girls are at least nominally adults so there is no way to stop them at that point. The better strategy is to raise them well so by the time they are adults they will choose to not ride the CC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What are the most important physical effects of female aging to you, and why exactly are these things so important?On what, jail time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: What are the most important physical effects of female aging to you, and why exactly are these things so important?Thank fuck I live in Asia. The 40 year olds have bodies like teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: What are the most important physical effects of female aging to you, and why exactly are these things so important?Half plus 7 is a plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Post a picture of what a perfect 10/10 female body is to you. Ignore the face.Not my cup of tea but I can appreciate the look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: how would you feel if a random 5-6/10 woman you barely know started aggressively talking and flirting with you out of the blue?Flattered at first. Annoyed eventually. Do I come across as a conceited shit if I say this has happened to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What are the most important physical effects of female aging to you, and why exactly are these things so important?Boobs and ass....which is why I have not dated 14 year olds since I was,,,,,14. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Post a picture of what a perfect 10/10 female body is to you. Ignore the face.I have multiple sensibilities in this matter. I would say Lynda Carter and Audry Hepburn. https://cn.bing.com/images/search?q=lynda+carter+images&id=A2AF7FF671BC9827F6B7E51BDAFDE79D30B0BEBC&FORM=IQFRBA https://www.harpersbazaar.com/celebrity/latest/g4985/audrey-hepburn-style-photos/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: is it better to be a very happy Beta, or a neither happy or unhappy Alpha?This screams of "false dichotomy" I am more Sigma than anything and relatively happy with the way that things have turned out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Telling young men to settleOne should seek self-improvement, not "pussy oriented". Get on top of your world and the pussy will find you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Telling young men to settleI think you are right, but that is because most men do not put in any effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Telling young men to settleIn my life, I have made a lot of mistakes but I think I got one thing right. I didn't get married until I turned 50. Play the field and once you have a half century and a decent n-count under your belt, then consider your end game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 28I won't say hamster. That was more capybara. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/18 04:31 PM |
| 4 | What unsavory qualities could make a woman a relationshipcel?Of course, most men don't look any better than the women here body wise. That is kind of the fuck of it. I don't lift right now but I walk and try to eat right and keep myself at BMI 26. By international standards I am "overweight" but if I lose more all my female friends tell me I look like I am sick or something. The larger point is that men as a group a fat fucks who don't take care of themselves. You don't have to "hulk out" and you don't have to wear Armani. Get trim and be stylish and BING… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Your SO has just been fired from their job....I am rather trad con, and so is my wife. I can pay for everything and her job is to keep house. Male, 51, Red We are looking into some online businesses for her to do and me to retire on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Is there a difference between “who you are”’ and “what you do”.Women are not attracted to "men" they are attracted to money and status. You have to search for the exception in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 08:15 AM |
| 10 | What unsavory qualities could make a woman a relationshipcel?The average American girl has a BMI of 29. My last three girls had BMIs of 18, 19 and 20. I live in Asia but WTF? It's been a while so you tell me: are the women stateside bitchy, entitled cunts? Fat chicks can get laid, and bitches can get laid, but there is a tipping point where AFCs have to say enough-is-enough. Really? I don't see it happening. Western men are so brainwashed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Why are more women than men interested ( As an "interest" ) in serial killers?Men want some control of their environment. Women want "drama". They want something interesting, and what is more interesting than dating a serial killer? I overstate that, but it is true. After I mustered out of the army I traded my uniform for blue jeans and a leather biker jacket. I abhor violence but I happen to be really good at it. It was really weird the way too many women picked up on the latter. Funny thing: psyche was my first choice as a major but my father shamed me into studying bus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 07:58 AM |
| 1 | TRP is scientific, not pseudoscience.I agree that TRP is a praxeology. My point is that it rests on "folk wisdom" rather than science or ideoology or religion or whatever. We do what works based on what many other men have experienced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:57 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Men are not judged by who they are but rather by what they have accomplished: money and status. You strike me as a smart girl so why are you so opaque as to this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?I rarely upvote but I will give you one for this insight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?There are a billion dating age women in the world and if you look hard enough, you will find one who is not "obsessed with money and status". Money and status attract women but largely the WRONG type of women for anything more than ONS/FWB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Are your sisters, mothers, aunts and grandmothers AWALTs?I have a mother and two sister and among them they have 8 husbands and ex-husbands. Not "boyfriend" or whatever but legal marriage husbands. My sister divorce-raped her ex (who was cheating fuck, but that is an other story) and that funded her round-the-world tour. My mother specifically DID NOT divorce rape my father but I wish that she did because my life would have been a whole lot easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | TRP is scientific, not pseudoscience.But TRP is not an Gnostic Cult either, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 28Good ideas stand on their own. If you are a teenager and have something of value to say, then I will acknowledge that. The whole concept that ECs or MODs have words more valuable than yours is pure fuckery. I am with Groucho Marx in that I would not want to belong to a club that would have me. I don't want to be an EC or MOD. Lord knows I have been threatened win bans or have been banned and that is not what I am here for. I suppose the best moments were when somebody said "thank you" because th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | TRP is scientific, not pseudoscience.Look up a comprehensive definition of "folk wisdom" and then tell me TRP isn't. We use some scientific methods when they are available but largely they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?Tab A , Slot B. . .it goes well. And Slot C but not Slot D yet. . .I a working on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTestShe is Canadian with a dash of Jamaican. When I was 20 I canooldled with 15 year olds so I get that. You are young and inexperienced and warped by popular culture. When I was 20, I considered 30 to be "old". Funny thing, she is not my type anymore as this pic was taken before your were born. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | TRP is scientific, not pseudoscience.You talk too much. TRP is Folk Wisdom http://www.blackwellreference.com/public/tocnode?id=g9781405161251_chunk_g97814051612518_ss1-8 >Folk wisdom reflects time honored assumptions about the management of life that are more frequently validated by common sense than empirical science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:38 PM |
| 0 | TRP is scientific, not pseudoscience.TRP is "folk wisdom". It is the accumulated knowledge of a quarter million men over 10 years or so. No cucked university would ever allow us to test our theories to a matter of scientific precision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Do men hit The Wall? What does post-wall RP life look like?Men get old and fat just like women but our fertility has a slow degrade and income and status increase as we age, which is important to women, but not the reverse so much. If you are Red Pill, you will keep or improve your physique into your 40s. Yes, you will still look older, but that does not have the same social implications that is does for women. The problem with TRP is that is has no end game. I got tired of it. At age 50, I can't fuck college girls without an "arrangement". I could game… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Question for BP: Do you sincerely believe Reds lack ANY nuance?"Nuance" is just a bloopy term for "I disagree with you but can't explain why because I don't know what I am talking about". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:13 PM |
| 2 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?Morally, I think women *should* carry a pregnancy to term and that men *should* support their children. But the reality is that we have a culture of ME that evades responsibility at every turn, and a leagal system that asymetrically deals with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?She compliments me rather than challenging me. She fills in all my blanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What does everyone think about polyamory?Poly people are ....*off*. I spent some time in the BDSM community but I had to get out because they too were *off*. I am not totally onbaord with (Blackdragon)[http://www.blackdragonblog.com/] but he advocates for open relationships while still finding poly to be a bit *off*. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Is Marriage Only for the Rich and Well-Educated?A successful, long term marriage is for the wealthy,educated and religious. Sadly, Tyrell and Lakisha won't make it despite having 3 kids together (and perhaps other kids with others). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 11:42 AM |
| 1 | If sexual strategy is amoral, then why do redpillers moralize female sexual strategyWe de-moralize by exposing the true nature of women and then dealing with it. Women are not "evil". . . .they are just women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTestWell yes, everyone has different tastes but there is a large amount of intersujectivity as to what is good looking, and if you think that girl is "average at best" you are fucking autistic. What, in your world, constitutes average and above average? Again, if you are a UCLA fratboy jock or a porn-addicted basement dweller then don't don't bother, because I have you figured out. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Should I only date girls I want to marry?IMHO the healthiest attitude is to go into it with a view towards the long term. Odds are, it won't pan out so you move on. Personally, perhaps 10% of my n-count involved women I chose for an ONS or as an FWB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I only date girls I want to marry?IMHO the healthiest attitude is to go into it with a view towards the long term. Odds are, it won't pan out so you move on. Personally, perhaps 10% of my n-count involved women I chose for an ONS or as an FWB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Vetting and marriageIt's a matter of risk management. Perhaps I am a hypocrite. I chatted with a woman online for two months and then after our first night together I proposed. We got married a year later. So far, so good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Beginner BDSMOddly enough, dominance-and-submission have only a thin relationship with BDSM. You can have a sub who loves to get tied up, spanked, ATMed and whatever, but to carry on a day-to-day relationship is a nightmare, like herding bitchy cats (if there is such a thing). OTOH, you have have the ones who like things rather vanilla inside the "bedroom" but in quieter moments don't challenge you and are willing to follow your lead in most if not all matters. If you are a complete schmuck then you don't ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Sexual strategy for the 9s and 10s.Partly so, but you have to approach from an angle that the other guys don't. The obvious problem is that you will annoy her "social circle" (ie. guys not like you who want to fuck her too). | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaAs a note: sports and media stars who pull coin are in a class of their own. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Stating the obvious in China gets you bannedI dunno mate. IME 3rd gen Asians are just like any other American girls but they have a certain look about them. I agree: toxic. Funny thing. I am married to a Filipina. My one buddy married a Brazilian and the other went Mexican. The third had a Portuguese wife (Azores) but divorced her ass and is now shacked up with a Chinese girl a dozen years younger. I can appreciate a big tit blonde as much as the next guy but I am asking myself if they are now obsolete, other than if one is a race warrior… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Is peanut butter a safe way to help bulk up?Commercial peanut butter like Skippy and shit is loaded with sugar so don't go there. Find a bulk food place that makes peanut butter out of peanuts and nothing else. Almond butter is good too. However, nuts are third tier or so. You should be eating steak and chicken breasts. But here is a bonus trick: fry up ground beef (ie: hamburger) and when you are done, put it in a strainer and pour boiling water over it. That washes away most of the fat. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a Hoax...I'm all fucked up because I am a Canadian who doesn't actually play hockey. Uhhm how about "haversack" or "backpack"? In any event, lots of reasons why I won't get divorce raped. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a Hoax...Whatever works for you, bro. My ex was basically ....half. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 02:47 AM |
| 2 | I had a woman break me down to the lowest point in my fucking life and I need help.Women are like that. Some times the make the man, and some times they undo him. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Stating the obvious in China gets you bannedThe other type with Asian features but who show off their Gucci bags and Tods shoes and order pumpkin spice...they are just as bad as the other girl in the US. Entitled to the core, Sounds like Hong Kong bitches. More trouble than they are worth IMHO. IME, the keepers are those whose father sacrificed EVERYTHING to give his daughter a top notch education overseas. They are whip smart, and not entitled. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 02:37 AM |
| 1 | On toxicity of the Red Pill and why you should take a breakRead some Aristotle. Some anger is good but most is bad. 2500 years later we don't have better guides, LOL. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 08:33 AM |
| 1 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.That doesn't fly in polite society. The capability of violence has some cache. The absolute coolest dude I ever met was the British shot put champion. He is the biggest human being I have ever met. His arms are bigger than your legs. His hands could grab your skull and crush it. I am Canadian, so firearms are not a thing. The guy knew at least on a subconscious level, that nobody would ever fuck with him. . . . And he was happy | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 08:25 AM |
| 4 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.Top frame is when you convince her that she deserves to be hit. "I'm a bad girl and I need to be punished." But more generally, if you have to resort to violence, you fucked up something along the way. I was a skinny nerd as a kid and got picked on and beat up. When I turned 18 I joined the army reserve, picked up a few martial arts, hit the gym and packed on 20 pounds of muscle. Funny thing: I have never been in a fight in my adult life. Funnier thing: chicks started mistaking me for a "bad boy… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 08:01 AM |
| 4 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.This is so, fucking, true. Hence, my motto to just walk away. Their feelings will change ten minutes later and you can get on with things within 24 hours. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.I am pretty good with words. I have a law degree and was a champion public speaker and debater. The thing about women is that you can only use words in good times. Once you are at odds with a woman, words are useless so you have to do what men do: Action. Don't say shit. . .do shit. And your most basic and mind-calming action is to simply walk away. For one, it is good for your mental health, and for seconds it drives the bitches insane. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 07:54 AM |
| 0 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTestBut show me...show me, my friend what you consider to be an 8 or 9. Bonus points if you can even claim to have fucked them. Game, set and match I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 07:43 AM |
| 1 | I had a woman break me down to the lowest point in my fucking life and I need help.First off, age does not mean much. If you are a guy who is paying attention then let the "Half Plus 7" rule be your guide. If you are 18 then half is 9 and plus seven is 16. If you are 30, then half is 15 and plus seven is 22. If you are 50 (like me) then half is 25 and plus 7 is 32 - the age of my wife. Secondly, and more importantly, this is a learning experience. OP: Edit your post to state 5 mistakes you made, and 5 points on how you will never repeat those mistakes. Avoid alcohol. Drink a g… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 07:40 AM |
| 16 | Marriage is a Hoax...I got married 6 months ago. I'm in my 50s. The OP writes like a teenager on crack. My recommendation is to not get married until you are my age. Make the "Half Plus Seven" rule work in your favour as long as your can before settling down. Odds are you will eventually tire of the game, but at that point you will have the experience and knowledge to separate wheat from chaff. I recall Roosh writing something along that lines. Having said that, I have a hockey-sock of safeguards in place that your … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 07:26 AM |
| 10 | On toxicity of the Red Pill and why you should take a breakThe "Anger Phase" is just that: a phase. TRP is one of the only places you can get the fuck over it and not be shamed for having real and generally valid emotions. There is a very "mailed fist in a velvet glove" atmosphere. Post a problem here and, along with actionable advice, about half will be "I feel for you, bro" and the other half will be "now man the fuck up". | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a son? Don't ever send him to public school. Confessions of a conversvative history teacher.Quebec is terrible in many ways. Put the kid into the English system. My brother-in-law went through that and he is perfectly bilingual. My wife and I are working on our first kid. I expect that she or he will be able to speak half a dozen languages: English, French, Tagalog, Ilocano, Putonghua (Mandarin), Cantonese. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Stating the obvious in China gets you bannedThere is a definite difference between FOBs (Fresh Off the Boat) and ABCs/CBCs (American/Canadian Born Chinese). And it is totally different than gaming in situ. I live in Shenzhen and it is going on 5 years now. I actually teach university preparation so I know that the girls that are landing in your lap are not typical. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 06:39 AM |
| -1 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTestShitlords like you come in two flavours. First is the UCLA freshman who figures that the cheerleading squad is a representative sample of average American girl. Second is the basement-dwelling know-nothings with a sour grapes complex who have to tear down everything around them to give their pathetic life meaning. I will however give you the benefit of the doubt and say that you are just a typical guy who has a thing for blondes. But look at the metrics: 5'4", 114 pounds. She was 110 pounds unti… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 06:31 AM |
| 14 | Making Friends as an AdultA change in adult friends is largely a change in career or job. I have life-long friends from the army, from my my law practice, and from my game-design company. This seems like a different theory of PUA where you are trying to pick up a guy to be your bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 10:53 AM |
| 0 | Friend Zoning WomenI rarely vote one way or the other, but you are being a dick about this, so I gave an upvote. For the record, I live in China and had a number of near misses before marrying a Filipina. I have no opinon on Japanese women other than internet porn suggests they are furry squeak toys. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 10:52 AM |
| 8 | Do you have a son? Don't ever send him to public school. Confessions of a conversvative history teacher.I am a private school teacher working overseas. I got married 6 months ago and now we are talking children. NO FUCKING WAY would I send my kid - male or female - to a public school in the west. Ontario is probably the worst. The teacher's unions collaborate to elect a Liberal government who gives them more shit. A typical 30 something teacher is a millionaire given their income and pension benefits. One wag calculated that they make $150 an hour or something similar. Keep in mind that "education… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 10:48 AM |
| 3 | How To Stop Procrastination (FOREVER)I was thinking of procrastinating but I decided to do it tomorrow. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Stating the obvious in China gets you bannedIf you are North American (ie Candian or USA) then my post only applies to the FOB (Fresh Off the Boat). Once they have been here for a year or two they are no different than the other livestock that is present. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | From a RP perspective, how do you "lose a girl in ten days" - on purposeDiscuss a threesome. Make a hard line about it. She will either back the fuck off or....you get a threesome! | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:15 AM |
| 5 | Do women believe their own hamstering?There is a sidebar piece about The Lightswitch Effect. I have posted about something similar I call Ret Con. Women will re-invent past events and experiences to justify their feelings and actions in the present. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | For those of you in LTRs..The fuck of it is that you always get more interest when you have a plate/gf/LTR because of social proof. I am a terrible flirt so I roll with it. I am committed to my wife but it drives her insane. The term I have is "dreadlocked". Be aware that the question will arise:"Did you fuck her?" | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Doing noFap but I cant concentrateLift, approach or get a hooker. Or do MMA or something. For some reason, rolling around on the floor with half-naked, sweaty men is a complete boner killer. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Desperately need a stranger to vent toTime to re-connect. If your family is family and your friends are true friends, they will take you back. Lift: it burns off those negative emotions. Otherwise, GAME. Fucking a new, hot chick is one of the best ways to prove to yourself that they are fungible. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I start?If you have savings and you have employable skills, then "fuck it!" Quit your job and travel. If you are under 30 there is a shitload of countries you can get a working holiday visa to. You need the savings for airfare and to sustain you through dry periods, and the employable skills to get you work as you travel and land a decent job when you are stateside again. I can only talk about my time in Australia and China but I am sure there are hundreds if not thousands of guys here who can tell you … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Stating the obvious in China gets you bannedI rarely use the term "asian" because the girls in different countries have completely different mindsets. I can talk about Chinese and Filipinas but that is about it. All I know about Thai, Japanese and others is from what I read in places like this. In Hong Kong, Shanghai, and perhaps Beijng and some other second tier cities with a party culture, you can run night game normally. Day game kind of freaks them out at first because, as far as I can tell, Chinese guys don't approach. Online game in… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 08:56 AM |
| 4 | What are some red flags to look out for when surveying a potential LTR partner?Divorced is low level. Molestation issues is high level. Physical violence is in between. Favouritism is low level. I have two examples of the latter. One girl was a 6 on a good day but she had a younger sister who was more like a 9. Another girl who was Chinese had parents who really wanted a son; her younger brother got treated like a prince while she got scraps (and her dad had anger issues and would beat her - she left home which is unusual for a 20-something unmarried girl in China). These … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Which part is the most crucial? Opening, asking out, or closing?ABC Always Be Closing | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | I’m going to be a dad. My ex is not communicating with me.Lawyer up. Get an order for the DNA test. If you are dad, then go for joint custody and guardianship. AFAIK the "tender years doctrine" is no longer on the books but in practice is still looms large. I would also suggest getting an order that the child cannot be removed from the state without your consent. But again, get a good family lawyer to give you guidance in this matter. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 06:55 AM |
| 4 | What are some red flags to look out for when surveying a potential LTR partner?Meet her family. If there is something fucked up about her parents, siblings or even extended family, or something off about her relationships with them, then dollars to donuts there is something messed up about her and her LTR potential. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | How does one become the well rounded man?Read, travel and do shit. It gives you perspective. It makes you interesting, and chicks love interesting guys. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Why am i basically completely invisible to women. Do any of you guys have a similar problem.Pick up a guitar, learn 3 chords and rock on. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:58 AM |
| 2 | What's everyone thoughts on the Braincel idea of face > personalityFrame and game trump all else. In saying that I don't suggest that you don't work out, or don't get your wardrobe and grooming and your body in line, But from experience and observation, not so good looking guys with top notch social skills do surprisingly well | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:57 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?My game. Do you do work like this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Skinny Guy Bulking DilemmaKeep your workout reps in the 8-12 range to encourage hypertophy. IMHO, minimize fat intake while focusing on lean protein intake: steak, chicken breast, ham and such. However, give yourself some fat wth nuts, olive oil, fish etc. And give yourself enough carbs to burn though your workouts. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?How about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?Well done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 11:34 PM |
| 16 | When an Internet girl hits the Internet WallShe's turning 25 in a couple of months. Is that really The Wall? I searched out her pics and (perhaps in older pics) she has a hot body but her face is just meh. Apparently she wants to be entrepreneurial and market training vids, supplements and such. Things tend to peak and then slide so I don't see the big deal. I have no idea what kind of person she is but "fitness models" with so-so faces are a dime a dozen on the internet. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 08:13 AM |
| 3 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?A lot of TRPers are teenage or college incels making under $15k a year. AFAIK, the older guys are well above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?What kind of art and what kind of writing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?Just curious: what is your discretionary income? (Gross -say $150k - but less taxes, housing, food and clothing.) Taxes could chew up $30k to $50k. A mortgage or rent could be $25k to $50k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?If I get back in the game it will start as all family and crim. I hated that shit but now I have a much more mercenary attitude because I have a family. I would enjoy the decline and see if I could jump into what I really love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?OK, but what part of NYC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?So you have significant investments in stock and real estate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 03:34 AM |
| 2 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?It sucks. I was a game designer and my biggest regret was that we couldn't pay our artists well. They had BFAs from UWO and they absolutely kicked at what we were doing, but in the end it was minimum wage for all of us. Thank fuck we loved what we were doing. What kind of art do you do in terms of style and media? I want to get back into game design and my biggest obstacle - other than my own procrastination - is that I don't have artists on board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 03:30 AM |
| 1 | What is your job and industry? How much do you make a year?I work in education overseas. My net after tax is about $27k at current exchange rates. However, given my benefits (room and board etc) and the cost of living here, I suppose I would have to gross $60k or more in a modest American city to have the same lifestyle. It's renegotiation time and I'm looking for a 30% raise plus trying to get my wife into the mix. If successful, starting in September, our household discretionary income will be somewhere between $50k and $60k a year. In terms of lifest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 03:23 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 23Single * gives you italics; double ** gives you bold; triple *** gives you both. It is a matter of style and difficult to explain in a short post, but that is the basic mechanics. Use > for quoted text. There is ~~ for strikethough but that is generally for sarcastic purposes. Similarly ^ is used for superscript, but mostly to sayTM in a humourous manner. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:45 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 23Funny story is that when I was in the army and on exercise, they circulated the census questionaire. When asked how many hours we worked in the last week we cast a nodding glance at each other and put "168". You have 168 hours each week of your life to do something. That is 24 hours a day. Unless you are weird, get 8 hours of sleep. Work 8 hours in your basic job that pays the bills and puts a roof over your head. Set aside 4 hours a day for abolutions and eating. That leaves you 4 hours a day. … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 23Lift, get a haircut you fucking hippy, buy some nice clothes and do something interesting and worthy of note. The hard truth is that you may have to cut ties with friends who are holding you back. Keep in mind that alpha/beta is on a spectrum and not hard categories. Reinvent yourself and then associate with guys who are a bit higher on that scale. Almost by magic, the women appear. . .with interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:31 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 23Conservative women tend to be smarter - in the right and proper ways - and they don't put out as much. College boys will ape liberalism to fuck liberal chicks and the horrible thing is that the ideology will rub off. Conservative girls are still prone to hypergamy, but it manifests a bit differently. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Stating the obvious in China gets you bannedI live in China and I "live" in China rather than through bullshit web/twitter posts. Chinese chicks largely don't suck dick and even fewer will swallow. It is only tolerable because their BMI is 6 points lower than American girls and most have an n count <3. But they are trainable. Setting aside the "Great Fire Wall of China", which can be easily circumvented by a VPN, unless you are advocating for a big democracy cake walk right through the middle of Tienanmen square the commies generally leav… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTestHow is a woman older than you a 10 Oh, back in the day I was 28 and she was 29 who always got carded at bars. Something like this would be more 8 or 9 given that I do not believe in 10s. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 12:53 AM |
| 8 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTestSome chick asked me if I was a player. I said "No, I am a game designer." That was factually correct as I have one title in circulation, but the meta is more important. To the extent that you can, don't play the game, but rather design your game and then own it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What is red pill ideology all about to you?You are the one shifting the goalposts, puppy. If you have no interest in understanding, then 10,000 posts by a quarter million men on and off will not enlighten you. You are just a typical blue pill nothing who knows nothing about TRP and yet likes to criticize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Q4All: Would you rather have your son be an ugly 3/10 with a heart of gold, or an utterly ruthless, sadistic, sociopath that's a 9/10?I am a "white guy" who is a 6 or 7, but I get into 8 territory due to my intelligence and savvy. My wife is an "Asian 6" who I chose because I am tired of the game and she is the safest bet imaginable. The clock is ticking and we have to decide about kids in the next few months or it goes off the table. I want a daughter and she wants a son. The OP is something between a false dichotomy and an absurd question. My wife is 4'11" but my uncles were 6'2" and 6'4". Maybe this shit skips a generation.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 12:39 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Does the state have to be involved in marriage?Good try and yes. You seem to live in a different world than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What is red pill ideology all about to you?TRP does not feel the need to conform to dictionary definitions. We have our own vocabulary and if you don't bother to learn it, then please don't bother to debate it. You simply look foolish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 12:20 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Does the state have to be involved in marriage?That is the basic problem: men get no comfort or certainty of anything because the "lifelong" agreement of marriage can be dissolved on a whim of his woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 12:19 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] Does the state have to be involved in marriage?LOL. Comfort and certainly of what? Keeping his nuts in a sack and being able to punish him during the marriage as well as after? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:33 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Does the state have to be involved in marriage?To believe that, all the people you know would either have to be shitty men who offer nothing or else shitty women who see no value in a man other than taking their money both during and after the marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Does the state have to be involved in marriage?The state has to be involved in one form or another, in anything that is called or looks like a marriage. But let me rephrase that: the state has to be involved in anything that looks like or is called a divorce. If there is no co-mingling of assets or income, no differences in working roles, AND both parties accept that as well as accepting the mutual claims of legal ownership without contest, then that is the only exception I can think of. In other words, largely a fantasy exception. Women fil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Military Strategy (21 April 2018)Apparently, HIARCS for OS has an ELO rating the same as Kasparov's. Komodo (the new reigning champion) is like 3300, a full 450 points higher than Kasparov. Stockfish came second. That's running on a 64 bit Quad Core with all the stops pulled out. So you're right in that sense. However, you can generally select what level of play you want. My larger point was that computers don't play like humans. I obviously could not beat any of the programs on their highest level, but changing my strategy to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What is red pill ideology all about to you?It's controversial because bloops either don't believe it outright or they think men behave the same as women. Hamster, check - especially you reds 'Tis to laugh since your blue hamster is running full tilt. And you don't seem to understand solipsism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 12:38 PM |
| 2 | What's your gender, age bracket and notch count? Have you lied about your count?Male 51, basically averaged one new partner since losing my V-card. Met my wife a year and a half ago and it hasn't gone up since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness and IQ of College Majors -- Does the relationship between attractiveness and IQ depend on gender?The quote said the IQ-attractiveness correlation remained for men but was negative for women. Doesn't that sort of suggestl that the dumb jock meme is false but the dumb blonde meme is true, rather than the other way around as the OP states? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Beauty's objectivity.Once you make it into the, let's say, 5% of best-looking people on the planet, then people have preferences. But you need to get into that 1/20 slot first, and the standards for that are universal and cross-cultural. Just as an analogy, a lot of data sets corelate well in full, but the corelation breaks down when you look at the top examples. Everyone knows that you need to be tall to be a top basketball player, but among basketball players, the best are rarely the tallest. Everyone knows that b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Beauty's objectivity.Those genes are recessive. There are blonde-haired blue-eyed Mongols but they are very rare and look a bit strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Never be an "employee"Or at least, because it doesn't make economic sense or the business has expanded to the point where the owner doesn't have the time to do everything. OTOH, a lot of jobs exist because they require a special skill set. I'm not graphic artist; I can't draw for shit. I hired artists to do all the drawings and illustrations. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Military Strategy (21 April 2018)at all but the highest levels. Your iPhone App isn't going to beat a grandmaster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you think Meghan Markle is actually attracted to Prince Harry?The USA has had more tyrannical faggots. Plus you have Hollywood and the fucking Kardashians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What is red pill ideology all about to you?AWALT? Controversial outside of RP itself. Lightswitch Effect? Disputed by blues, if not outright controversial. Women don't love the way men door want? Alpha Widows? Does Dread Game work on women? The Hamster? The Wall? Most Responsible Teenager? Amused Mastery? Solipsism? Some of these are even hotly debated within TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What is red pill ideology all about to you?I didn't attack the OP. I simply don't accept the terms of their loaded question and I explained my POV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | If MGTOW aren't low value men why don't they take TRP approach?There are various colours of MGTOW. I went MGTOW when I was at the top of my game because women would have cluttered my life. What I see now is an excuse. Failed men who have given up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Q4RP: What is red pill ideology all about to you?I don't do "ideology". I stumbled on TRP after 30 years of dealing with women. All I can say is that it is in accord with my experience. All the " self improvement" is for shit eaters. How brain dead must one be to DISAGREE that a man should should lift and make coin? What is controversial about TRP is the nature of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think Meghan Markle is actually attracted to Prince Harry?I defer to his highness's assessment of the matter. I am Canadian. I was hoping he would tag a nice girl from Vancouver or something. Officially, QE2 is still our head of state. I love her to bits. I wish that we could patriate this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Angry at Women? Here’s Why.Cats are a chick thing. Dogs are a guy thing. I say this as a guy who has a cat. When I get stateside I will invest in a Maine Coon: the cat that thinks it is a dog. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for punishing meIt's not punishment, it is TRIAL BY FIRE. Welcome to the brotherhood. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Never be an "employee"In one respect, I guess I was a shitty lawyer. In another way, I saved my clients thousands of dollars because I talked things out rather than marching their ass into world war whatever. I recall meeting a top divorce attorney for negotiations. My boss asked me what she looked like. I told him she was built like cheap barrel of rum. I asked around and there was a consensus: she is a complete cunt and her clients love her. She represented bitter ex wives who wanted to create as much confusion as … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Just cured from an illness that affected my personality from 2013-2017. Should I bring it up to people whom knew me back then? (Serious answers pls)The past is in the past and your are the man you are RIGHT NOW. Be mysterious as women love that shit. Otherwise, be who you are NOW. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | What are the most efficient ways to control your angerAnger at whom? Fucking a beautiful women drains all the anger away. If you are angry at women, then that is more complicated. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:27 PM |
| 4 | What are the most efficient ways to control your angerI rarely upvote but there you go. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:25 PM |
| 3 | I don't know what to doShe has proved her worth (ie ZERO). Move on or go for the hate fuck. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | do you think theres an ideal time to stop messing around and be serious?The blips are hitting 30, hitting 40 and hitting 50. I am in the latter category. If it's not cool, then don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?I am married and I told her I want to have threesomes. She said no but gave me license to have a threesome on the side. The market for threesome fuck buddies is rather thin so really, my only option would be to fly to Thailand (I live in Shenzhen, South China) and get a few whores there. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:18 PM |
| 2 | What cologne do you wear?Pussy juice | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Ceteris Paribus (but it never is) a low n-count get more "points" than a high n-count. The thing is, the more attractive a girls is, the higher her n-count will be. That's a proposal, not hard fact given that HB9+ will not put out much because Stacy wants her Chad. One of the prettiest girls I was with admitted to n>20. She was a club rat and probably boned guys who picked her up there, but more telling her father was a semi-rich business man who set her up with potential husbands. She lamented … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceAssuming the guy knows his breakfalls, you won't hurt him unless you do a bitch move that he can't roll out of. When I was a kid this huge bully took a hate on me. Thankfully, he didn't simply punch my face in but he got his jollies out of picking me up and tossing me on the ground. After 10 minutes of that shit he got bored and moved on. I just brushed myself off and that was that because my breakfalls were solid. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Never be an "employee"In the past, I was working for Bell Canada doing "service calls" but the real thing was to place call display boxes. I guess I date myself, but at the time call display was a novelty. As an entrepreneur, I designed a board game and two friends and I produced it. We sold it on 4 continents and maybe to the tune of a million over a few years. I certainly don't regret that. It was a few of the most awesome years of my life. I want to get back into the game. . . of games because it is a shit load of… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Beauty's objectivity.Wear the bra. As friendly advice: do push ups. Toning the pectoral muscles pulls everything else up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Beauty's objectivity.I will give you that facial proportions and other certain features carry across time and space, but there are widely different cultural standards of beauty. Cultural standards have shifted for men in that being bald is cool, if they can pull it off. There are African chicks with shaved heads, extended necks, or giant lip disks who are considered hot in situ but could not get a date on a Saturday night in Manhatten. I will agree that male standards have been fairly consistent for the last 3000 ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Beauty's objectivity.(Baby) blue eyes and (natural - ie life long) blonde hair is rare. Rare things tend to have value even if they are useless, like diamonds. My eyes are steel blue, not baby blue, but as I live in China women go gaga over my eyes if they get close enough to get a good look at them. It isn't even a sexual thing. I had curly blonde hair until my early teens and the old ladies doted on me. At one point my Chinese girlfriend asked me if we had a baby, would it have blue eyes like mine. I had to explai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Beauty's objectivity.I've seen my share of National Geographic. They also tend to flop all the way to the ground. Ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Beauty's objectivity.I think it might be a more general thing that pale Asian women (Chinese and Japanese) are higher on the pecking order than their darker cousins (Filipinas, Thai, VN, Burmese etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Beauty's objectivity.If you want to go back to the stone age, skinny bitches died in times of famine. The chubby ones were considered more valuable because they could survive hard times. The SES signals were totally different for the thousands of years leading up to the 20th century. In the past, skinny or muscular girls were lower class who didn't get enough to eat and had to perform physical labour. Soft and chubby chicks demonstrated that they didn't have to work for a living and came from an upper class family. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Beauty's objectivity.IIRC, Brazil is the country with the highest rate of breast reduction surgeries. It's more about the "bunda" (ass). Haven't been there myself but I have friends and one is married to a Brazillian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Beauty's objectivity.There are certain cultural aspects. In poor times/countries chubby chicks are considered a good thing because it speaks of abundance and social status. In rich countries, being thin is in because it speaks of restraint and discipline. The only universal I know of is the 0.7 waist to hip ratio. A similar bust-to-waist ratio is probably common if not universal. Others that stand out because they are uncommon, but may or may not be universal standards of beauty are curly blonde hair and blue or gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceThe first few UFCs were about as close as you can get to a street fight but over time, to gain legitimacy and sanctioning, it got nerffed into a sport. Gloves were added, lethal techniques banned, time limits imposed, refs will stand the fighters up if the ground game is getting too boring. We sparred all the time but you can't go full speed because it is too dangerous. I did judo and that was fun because you could go all out and not worry about hurting the other guy. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?It doesn't factor into the equation. In this day and age I never expected to find a virgin, but generally speaking my LTRs were n=3 or something like that. There have been a few exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 06:25 AM |
| 0 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceMMA is a sport. Trad JJ is a martial art designed for real combat. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | when you read that some man being described online was able to get laid.....There is a bad tendency amongst guys online to talk shit about the 7s, 8s, or even 9s they slammed on the weekend. More likely, the guy is a 6 and the girl is a 6 and they banged so what of it? The 6s are banging 6s; the 5s are banging 5s and so on. When that's not the case the girl is either gold digging or he has some sort of status/fame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Don’t wait for sex: An Experiment with results I expectedAs I mentioned elsewhere, in a lot of cases you don't get to the third date. But if you pre-vet to get an idea of your compatibility - and this is particularly important for non-swipe internet dating - then 3 face-to-face meetings is plenty of time to get them into bed. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 06:10 AM |
| 5 | Don’t wait for sex: An Experiment with results I expectedThe most powerful tool you have in your toolbox in almost any situation, not just with women, is the ability to walk away. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Don’t wait for sex: An Experiment with results I expectedThe three-date rule is in effect. In 30 years there was only one girl I waited for, although by date 2 we were heavy petting and having naked showers together. I got married 6 months ago and my wife and I banged on the first night we met. Having said that, you can generally tell on the first or second date whether or not there is some chemistry there. In many cases, you simply don't get to the third date for whatever reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 06:04 AM |
| 45 | Never be an "employee"Specifically a divorce attorney. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 05:45 AM |
| 4 | Never be an "employee"Don't know that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 05:39 AM |
| -1 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceYes | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:38 AM |
| -1 | Never be an "employee"I read what is written. Learn how to write. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Never be an "employee"I believe in the products I design myself. Other products, not so much. From training and personal experience, you are absolutely correct: never ask a yes/no question. Make it open-ended and engage them. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceAs an alternative suggestion, DON'T get into MMA. If you want fitness then MMA is not the only game in town. If you want self-defense then MMA is somewhere between ok and completely sucks. These days it is rather easy to find a Muay Thai trainer. The trickier part is to find a traditional stand-up ju jitsu sensei. I briefly trained with a guy who was no nonsense. You grab the guy, break something, toss him down (not necessarily in that order) and then you move on. If you go to the ground you hav… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Never be an "employee"Are you saying that the most elite defenders of your freedom are "useful idiots"? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 8 | Why does TRP consider tattoos on a girl to be considered a Red Flag?It is an indication that they cannot think long term. It's part of the TRP version of the Madonna-Whore complex. We love whores. On any given Friday we want to find one to be our that night fuck fantasy. OTOH, TRP is very conservative and to the extent that you would ever consider an LTR or marriage, then that should be with a very traditional girl: low or no n-count, no drugs, no tattoos etc. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 9 | Never be an "employee"This sounds like revenge fantasy from a nerd who can can't hump, shoot or prevail in HTH. I was army reserve so my closest buddies had civilian jobs and lives. However, I trained with the airborne and "blue bill (sic) beta cuck" is not something applicable to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:18 PM |
| -19 | Never be an "employee"Great post. The only problem is that very few people make good salesmen. I have a business degree, I have a top 1% IQ, I am an award winning pubic speaker. . .and I absolutely suck at sales. Ok, not completely. I worked in a call centre foisting caller ID boxes on people (this was a few years ago). My numbers were above average but the top guys had a je ne sais quoi that I could not replicate or emulate. My thing is product design: creating something that "sells itself". When I went all entrepre… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:11 PM |
| 187 | Never be an "employee"I have a motto : "Always have two jobs; one to pay the bills and one to get rich off of." The plain fact is that most guys can't start their own business and be their own man, but you can have something on the side that can pan out. A buddy of mine is a soccer coach at a public high school. He imports high-end shoes and sports accessories and sells them on the internet. His business now nets him more than his teacher's salary. I have to get back in the game. I used to be a lawyer but it was so s… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | First rule of dealing with rape accusations and the police, keep your mouth shut.I agree generally but the "drunk card" works against you. If the chick was loaded and can't remember this or that, it seems that people will fill in the blanks with facts that work against the guy, unless you have the documented evidence to back up your own story. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | The Importance of Practicing a HobbyMeet a girl and within the first 10 minutes she will ask you "what do you do?" Many of us are a victim of circumstance in terms of what we have to do to put food on the table. However, whatever you do on the side - your hobby - you can completely own. Never lead with your beta. If you are a $150k a year bank manager who likes art, then you are an "art collector", not a bank manager. If you are a broke-ass barrista who writes, then you are a "writer", not a barrista. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Starting the red pill journey at 17I'm 50. I had to figure this shit out myself before the internet and before TRP. Thank the gods you got the info you needed when you needed it. Good on you to put it into practice. A good 90% of men are too lazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | First rule of dealing with rape accusations and the police, keep your mouth shut.In a he-said/she-said situation, if she gets up on the stand and "says" then the evidentiary burden of proof will shift to you. Unless you are very lucky, she won't get demolished on cross examination leaving you no choice but to testify. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | First rule of dealing with rape accusations and the police, keep your mouth shut.Criminal liability attaches at 13 or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:24 AM |
| 10 | Q4RP: What do you think of the theory that TRPers select for low quality women?It is a strange Blue Pill revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | What are the *genuine* problems of being a super-attractive woman?1) You are damaged by all the attention you received along with the halo effect for the first 20+ years of your life. 2) You can never know who wants you for you or just you as a trophy, either short term or long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedCriminal complaints are certainly something more than internal policy violations. How the HR department handles the complaints is somewhat analagous to how the Kampus Kangaroos handle complaints. There is a question of subtance, and process, and substantive process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?I think that under some ethical framework, both parties have something to gain and they investigate that exchange, even if it seems a bit off to the rest of us. Can you imagine a poker game where one player can move table to table and simple take everyone's ante/blind without actually playing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedJust theoretically different, but not in practice. Excuse me as my William James is showing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 11:11 AM |
| 9 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedYou and I are arrested for a crime that we may or may not have committed. We are interrogated separately and offered a deal: rat on the other person and they go away for a long time and your go free. (Not applicable to this is that if neither rats then you both get a slap on the wrist and move on). If you have the suspicion that the other person with "rat" (in this case, cry rape) then it is in your best interest to rat on them first so they take the hit and you can walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 11:09 AM |
| 11 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedI hope they just change the rules so nobody gets screwed and nobody wins big lawsuits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedI agree mostly but for two things. Interpersonal relatonships in any organization can fuck up that organization. Hence the TRP rule of "Don't Shit Where You Eat". OTOH, college campuses are a bit different, but still you two entwined souls are part of the same community and misconduct can really mess with the dynamics. As a bit of realism, "personal time" is theory at best when you are dealing with someone who you have to deal with as much as half of your waking life when you are not on "persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedI made the same analogy elsewhere. However, the "accused" should have some reasonable recourse and not be subject to what amounts to defamation that can and does fuck their future prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 10:58 AM |
| 4 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedTomato - Tomato. The evidentiary rules are so messed up that it is almost impossible to prove that a woman changed her mind, and that is the way feminists like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedI agree with you that this is more of a drunk sex issue rather than "yes means yes". Unfortunately, the drunk sex rules are retarded too. In principal, I don't see a problem with any institution setting its own house rules. Keep in mind that virtually all criminal acts have a civil counterpart where the standard is the preponderance of evidence. Additionally, private, non-unionized companies routinely investigate and take action regarding employee conduct that would or could be criminal if all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 4 | Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspendedI like the analysis that it is a "Prisoner's Dillema" situation where the two people are encouraged to "defect": do unto others before they do unto you. It's not even really about "affirmative consent"but 1) the fucked up nature of the kangaroo courts that investigate Title IX violations and 2) the rules regarding drunken sex. As a side show, it is just another example how women/feminists scream for equality. . .until they get it. Then they realize that being treated like a man kind of sucks giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?I think the better analogy is the guy who dangles committment in front of a girl and then PnD's her. Maybe she wants his committment because he is the alpha stud, or maybe because he is the high beta she would like to dig some gold from. Either way, it is a bait-and-switch with the switch being that you ghost the person once you got what you came for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Q4Men: how should a woman reject a cold approach?Normal people don't unless there is something in context that starts the ball rolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameThe law is dumb as it is just a trap waiting to be spring on a guy who messes up his escalation process. A guy who knows what he is doing generally won't, even if, technically speaking, he is commiting numerous sexual assaults along the way. You speed up, you slow down based on reactions and there isn't unless you botch it at one point, or the chick is crazy which can include massive ASD after the fact due to family, friends or boyfriend finding out you did the deed. At that point, you basically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:41 AM |
| -1 | When does vaginal tightness start to decline in a woman, and is it a significant factor in SMV?Unless word gets around or the guy is forward and can prove it. . .and the girl in question is a size queen. Women largely don't care as long as a guy is not significantly below average, and the non-size-queens have an upper limit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameYes, putting your hand on her knee expressess attraction but it is also physical contact that is escalating so you are supposed to get affirmative consent before you do it rather than guage her reaction after you do it. That is why affirmative consent, as defined, is so fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameMoving in for the k-close is one thing. Other kino - that is touching - is a lot harder to signal without looking kind of stupid. The classic hand on the knee for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What happens when all the men in the world are practicing TRP advice?I recall reading about an experiment where they had a bunch of people - a mixed group of males and females - who got tossed together in some sort of (artificial) social situation. The researchers employed "coders" to rate all the men and women on the basis of attractiveness. Then - I think in a manner forced by the experiment, but otherwise voluntary and mutual - they all paired up into couples. The results were almost perfectly assortative: most attractive with most attractive, least with least… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What happens when all the men in the world are practicing TRP advice?I love the left wing "poverty activists" who are always pushing for more "income equality". The thing is, unless you institute a totalitarian regime that confiscates all property and income and divides it out to every person equally, there will always be a top 20% (wealthy) and a bottom 20% (poor). In line with that thinking, even if all guys were practicing TRP, some would do it better than others and and you are back to having a top 20% who are doing well and a bottom 80% who may be struggling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameYou need consent at each stage, not just "the end", whatever that happens to be in a particular case. You need confirmation before you escalate, not after by judging their response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameIf I was in college today, knowing what I know now (and being 30 years younger once again) I would go back into the BDSM community where things like written contracts and explicit verbal play are more SOP and not such a mind-numbing turn-off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameIt's a joke unless you are a school kid staring down the barrel of an expulsion or worse because you miscalculated with the wrong person. Keep in mind that you could escalate non-verbally and everything could go swimmingly well until the next day or a week later when for whatever reason the girl changes her tune because then the evidentiary burden gets put on you to convince people that all those non-verbal cues amounted to affirmative, clear, voluntary, enthusiastic or whatever "consent". Witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameKino escalation is almost never be "affirmative consent" as written. Unless there are huge IOIs, or some sort of verbal confirmation, or some physical confirmation (non-verbal cue) you receive before you actually make contact, then you are potentially toast. In large part, you can't be "checking the other person's response" until after you have already escalated. At that point, it's too late unless she retroactively consents or otherwise confirms that you are a mindreader and that she consented … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Affirmative consent and kino escalation are the sameExamples of giving non-verbal consent may include Pulling someone closer . . . Actively touching someone Initiating sexual activity See, this is the fucked up part. If they express their consent this way, then how do they know they have your consent? It's the same basic mind-reading problem. If you put your hand on a girl's knee, you won't know if she has affirmatively consented until after you have already done it, with the only real exceptions being if she does verbally agree or takes your han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Unpopular Opinons (12 May 2018)Sure, it would be great to hear from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it time to turn the clock back on society by like 50 years?Another example disputing the OP claim about women's access to education only being in the last 50 years. In fact, guys weren't allowed to attend Vassar until 50 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Unpopular Opinons (12 May 2018)Alibaba was good but it's sliding fast. Everyone is getting on the bandwagon and and trying to charge first world prices for third world products. Not sure what the answer is. I don't have any "connections" but I know some people who are reasonably business minded and are bilingual that might be able to help out. I currently live and work in Shenzhen which is a huge production centre. However, that will probably be changing in a few months. My wife and I are thinking of getting into some import-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What are your relationship flaws?f you are with me, you had better be okay with living with at least 150 pounds of dog. You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:48 AM |
| 5 | Q4TRP Has TRP content dropped in quality over the years?What you accomplish in life and how you present is heavily connected with who you are as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:41 AM |
| 6 | Q4TRP Has TRP content dropped in quality over the years?Someone posted recently to the effect that some women are excessively picky and some are "picky-picky". The former want one or more qualities of a guy to be sky high, generally looks and money. The latter have a particular shopping list of attributes that are as unique as themselves. If you meet either of these, you are SOL if you don't make the cut in either direction. Most women have a set of minimums and then a sliding, composite scale. Whether their minimums and target score are reasonable i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:39 AM |
| 4 | Q4TRP Has TRP content dropped in quality over the years?It still comes down to frame, game, money, looks and status. Points i to iv are partial manifestations of frame. Luck I almost irrelevant because of the law of large numbers. Of course dating advice works. It's just that misapplied advice and shitty advice don't. For things to be otherwise you have to assume that men are both incapable of learning from experience as well as incapable of conveying those lessons to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:11 AM |
| 9 | Q4TRP Has TRP content dropped in quality over the years?TRP doesn't have that many years under its belt anyways. On the other hand, if even 1% of current members occasionally post something useful, that adds up to several lifetimes of experience and insight. I arrived at TRP about 30 months ago and it seemed that the side bar and various top posts and maybe nor so top posts by some of the ECs and such basically represented about 95%+ of the possible wisdom that could be collected there. The remaining quality posts are either a) reiterations of what c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:00 AM |
| 4 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.I get these epiphanies every now and then. I mean shit: I am one or two decades older than Todd and I don't work out regularly but I am looking pretty damn good by comparison. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Showing your laptop/phone to your LTR?I got married 6 months ago. We were dating for a year before that. I don't keep my laptop or cell password protected. She's free to use the computer or phone if she needs to. What is annoying is when she snoops. She will go into my message history or my picture archives and then get all pissy if she finds "The Ex Files", so to speak. I'm not in contact with any of my former girlfriends, but on the other hand I don't make it a practice to erase their existence when we break up. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Is it time to turn the clock back on society by like 50 years?Vassar was founded in 1861. It went co-ed in 1969. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Is it time to turn the clock back on society by like 50 years?May 1968? That sucks if you're French. Gold hit a record high $39.35 an ounce Vietnam peace talks begin Boston Celtics beat LA Lakers 4 games to 2 for the Championship Schooling is overrated, especially college. Most people there don't belong. It used to be that getting a university education was something special. Now, every swinging dick with a C average out of high school figures they're entitled. Everything needs to have a university program. Law, pharmacy, accounting and such used to be app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Unpopular Opinons (12 May 2018)To take Via Rail from Toronto to Montreal is $120 for a 5 hour trip each way. In China, a 5 hour train ride will cost about the same but the thing is they zip along at 300km/h, or roughly 3 times as fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 05:02 AM |
| 3 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.To "be swarmed" is setting a rather high bar. Being able to score 8s on a relatively consistent basis is much more doable. I think that the OP's point is that you don't have to be top notch to do well in the SMP, just better than the majority of other guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 04:44 AM |
| 1 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.My ex is 5'9" and 130. Depending on your source, Gwendoline Christie (6'3") is either 165 or 185. 5'11" and 165 would be BMI 23 which isn't bad. Women tend to look better at BMI 21, however. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.Thank fuck I live in China (average female BMI 23.4) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 04:09 AM |
| 8 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.5'10" 182 | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Ask PPD: How many first dates did you go on until you met your gf/bf?With a few exceptions, I exclusively use internet game. Not swipe apps but the more "traditional" path of having a profile and looking at theirs and swapping messages before you meet. The conversion rate was astoundingly high in that most first dates ended up being my gf for a spell. I met my wife online. I asked her to marry me the first time we met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the posters here are old and married. Why?RP has three clusters of men. First is the young and frustrated from 16 to 20-something. Second is the 30/40 divorcee crowd. Third is the 40-ish guys who are at peace with the SMP. Personally, I got married last year, but that doesn't change the fact that I have 30 years of experience in dealing with women before I tied the knot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/18 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Had lunch with a Taiwan girl and asked her what the difference was from the Mainlanders. She said "We don't spit and we know how to line up." | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Chinese women are more "silver diggers" | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Hell. . . . . . . . . .Yes | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Doesn't the type of sex matter more than body count?I'd have to find the link but there is at least one study which showed that a man's n-count has basically no divorce risk associated with it, which is completely differerent than for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it better have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?Of course you realize that quote was a guy talking about another guy, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Leg day ruined by just one female.Been living in China for 5 years. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Leg day ruined by just one female.I used to be a divorce lawyer. What always threw a monkey wrench into the proceedings is when the woman says "he scared me". | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 09:44 PM |
| 6 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Unpopular Opinons (12 May 2018)I love living in China. No Gay Pride Parades. Very few fat women. Bullet trains that run on time. A bottle of Coke costs 50 cents rather than 2 bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/18 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs Beta"I don't want to be rich cause women will see me as BB, better be a 4ever broke musician living in skid row and have pussies." I didn't say anything of the sort. What I am saying is that using money to attract women will attract the wrong type of women for all the wrong reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaHe's a sports star which is another class of its own. Even in high school the jocks were more alpha than the math club. I'm not making anything up, you are cherry picking a case that I didn't specifically mention. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there is something "off" about Leo DiCaprio? If so, what do you think it is?It's not a question of height. The Manlet The Man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/18 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaJesus fuck man, there are 200 million dating aged women in China alone. Don't be so AWALT. Many will play with their fucking phones and I hate that shit. About 90% marry up by age 24. Keep in mind that I am dealing with Asian girls in situ while you are dealing with them in America. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | The frustration men feel towards women is because they can't influence them anymore.No, but what we as a society enable or encourage will come about. If you have ANY arguments in your bag of tricks that says single motherhood is a good thing, then I would like to hear them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaThis is out of scope but I will address it. Looks are important but it is not the be all and end all. In my travels I have seen fat men score. Some brothers here will tell you how short men score. Maybe you fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch face first on the way down. Now pick your sorry ass off the ground and get back into it! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | The frustration men feel towards women is because they can't influence them anymore.Modern women want men to pay for their choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 09:09 PM |
| -1 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaI am overstating the case to make a point. Money is clearly a path to freedom but using money to get women is not the best choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaLight a candle. Everything you read here I had to learn first hand through 30 years of dealing with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If society really cared about the children, why did they destroy marriage 1.0?You are too Malthusian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:18 PM |
| 8 | Question for Feminist Women : Do You Always ask for and obtain enthusiastic consent before you do something sexual with a guy...????OFF SIDE This asks for women to take responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | If society really cared about the children, why did they destroy marriage 1.0?And that is the problem. We are talking shit but the plain fact is that any civilization needs to grow and me personally . .I want to tell Entropy-8 (male or female) how to carve their way in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How to come to terms w/ my racial identity?I am white. I am so fucking white that if you looked it up in dictionary, my picture might be there. Read some Thomas Sowell. He is THE MAN: black, white, pink or purple. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 12:08 PM |
| 2 | What do you respond to “what are you looking for here?”I am looking for someone with potential who has the courage to see where this will go. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 12:03 PM |
| 1 | What is frame exactly?There are two aspects of frame. First is being unflappable in the face of adversity Second is to draw others into your "realty bubble" | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:58 AM |
| -6 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?China. Only a fraction want white guys and only a fraction of them have families that will accept you, but the law of large numbers applies. The national divorce rate is 4%! The average BMI is 6 points lower than America. Learn the language and then go to a third-tier city and game those teenagers and 20-somethings (most pair up in college and are not accessible). | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How would you guys hande a LTR in the creative field?This is not unique to the film world. If it makes you feel any more secure, I have been in your world. Focus on you and be classy and charming with all the nymphs that you interact with on a day-to-day basis. Be willing to let go of a girl whose ambition over reaches itself (to mangle Shakespeare). Mate, I was looking at post grad and the options were film school or law school. Sometimes I wonder if I made the wrong choice. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:44 AM |
| 10 | Why are redpill such fans of the theory that men have no agency or judgement?Red Pill is very much about owning your shit. There is only a narrow sliver who would advocate knocking up a woman and making a runner. Statistics show that 70% to 90% of divorces are women wanting out of the for-life vow they made. And the examples are legion of baby mamas making really bad choices regarding the men they allow to impregnate them. RP advises to get off the booze and get into the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaAt the risk of attracting trolls I will give you this. Maybe you don't like Asian girls but set your prejudices aside and admit that most men would consider her an 8 or a 9. Her father was some sort of businessman who was willing to disown his girl if she married a guy who didn't earn as much as him (at current exchange rates that would be cresting six figures). As the hypergamous woman she is, this worked for her . . .and yet it didn't. In bed, after the fact, she would complain to me about the… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Male contraceptive pill just a matter of moneySee it enough for what? To make a cheap generalization? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | The frustration men feel towards women is because they can't influence them anymore.You are insufferble, and hyperbolic and a bunch of $10 words that you can't earn in a free market. I am not forcing men to die 10:1 in industrial accidents. I am not forcing our nation to hire under qualified vaginas. Your game is marked and no one with the intelligence of a gnat takes you seriously. The problem is that people with the intelligence of a gnat form a swing vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 06:42 AM |
| 16 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaThe "sniff test" for Alpha is if you offer no material benefits when they fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (06 May 2018)I sort of had the opposite experience. I am Scorpio and my Scorpio girlfriends played out exactly as predicted. My wife (of 6 months) is an Aries and that 210 degrees is a real mystery. In any event, the intel is that Moon signs are more important than Sun signs. I am INTP...I must test my wife to satisfy this compulsion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 04:51 AM |
| 3 | The frustration men feel towards women is because they can't influence them anymore.The problem is that women are out of control because they have so many privileges. And men are frustrated by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Male contraceptive pill just a matter of moneyI don't see that. The complaints are: 1) paying for kids that aren't mine 2) paying for kids that were ripped away from me If you don't believe me, I will do a straw poll on TRP. We are harsh on bros who make bad decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Do you think there is something "off" about Leo DiCaprio? If so, what do you think it is?I didn't like him in the 90s because he was just another pretty face. In his 20s he was a manlet that I could not take seriously. Somehow, at 30, he joined the brotherhood and proved his acting chops. His best work is The Departed, Inception and The Revenant. The biggest criticism I have at this point is that they put him into shoes that are far to big to fill: Howard Hughes and J. Edgar Hoover. I'm not a chick so there is no tingle factor here, it's just what he delivers on-screen. The guy is w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Q4RP: Do you think it's okay to lie to women or hide your intentions in order to get sex?I've said elsewhere that the seduction process is not like an IPO prospectus. There is no positive obligation to disclose every material fact that might influence the other person's decision. That being said, an outright lie is simply wrong. OTOH, unless a woman conveys her intentions (honestly) then I can only assume that we are going down the garden path together. If what happens happens then that is one thing. If she says some shit like "I love and want to be with you forever" as we start to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Male contraceptive pill just a matter of moneyThis has nothing to do with single mothers because the shitheads that impregnate them don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Race Traitor Indian Girl hits "The Wall" and wonders why Indian Men won't date her.In some circles I am a race traitor. But seriously, my wife has a BMI of 19 as opposed to the American average woman with 29. There are only two jurisdictions in the world where divorce is illegal: Vatican City and the Philippines. I will give you a hint: I did not marry and Italian girl. But the Chinese are huge racists, at least parents of girls who like white cock. I was getting serious with one girl and she told her mother who was like "I cant' stop you, but if you marry him or have children… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] how does a father impact a kids lifeMums give soft skills, dads give hard skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:15 AM |
| 2 | If society really cared about the children, why did they destroy marriage 1.0?Children are a lifestyle accesory like a Gucci bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaRisk-taking is sexy. Women love that shit. I'm not saying it is the best play for everyone, but I am stating it as a fact of nature. Women love the players who win. Otherwise, I agree with you. An entrepreneur is someone who thinks working 16 hours a day for themselves is better than working 8 hours a day for someone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaIt is a dog's breakfast and at this point I can't put one above the other. But if I did, I would switch 2 & 3 because as I have aged, my body is not what it used to be but my game is better than ever. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Woman Says Harry Potter Ride 'Fat-Shamed' Her Because She Couldn't FitThat's absolutely a fair comment, but being 6'3" is not the same as being 300 pounds at 5'7". | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:22 PM |
| 9 | Status vs Money ; Alpha vs BetaAttenuate my friend, to balance your value agains their desire. If you are a banker who likes novels, then you are a literature enthusiast. Never lead with your BUX. If you have $100million from banking but your buy high art, then you are are and "art collector", not a "banker" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 02:00 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 09I agree with u/pm_me_your_pantry But if you get self conscious about it then either lightly touch the tip of your thumb to the tip of your index finger, or hold it loosely like western soldiers do when marching: sort of like a fist but pull the pinky in tighter, extend the index knuckle, and then put the thumb on to of the "Y" crease of the index finger. This is a reasonably good picture. Of course, you don't "march", just walk normally. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 09Value =/= Status, and status is only collaterally related to money, as in how you make it and how you spend it. A broke ass musician has more status than a successful accountant in many equations. The accountant is not irredeemable if he spends like a playa. . .. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 09For one thing, 5'8" is not a problem for the majority of girls (keeping in mind the average is about 5'4"). I'm 5'10" and with girls 5'9" to 5'11" the only issue was that they would always wear flats, as much as I would have loved them in 4" stilletos for various functions. Ditch the suit and get some stylish, casual clothes. It confuses the hell out of less sophisticated girls because they see it on some subconscious level but don't reconize the brand names or the styles (and truly rich guys re… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 12:52 PM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread May 09There isn't this "thing" called an alpha. It is a set of behaviours along a spectrum from less to more that women find sexually attractive. Some guys have natural genetic advantages of height, mesomorph, and facial features, or SES advantages or simply the "touch or the Blarney"/gift-of-the-gab. The point is that through RP a guy can move up the ladder beyond their original station. OTOH, the plain fact is that the top 20% is always the top 20% and if everyone were improving then there would sti… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:54 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 09Personally, the separate the wheat from the chaff and have a high fibre diet in the process, with a view to finding a love muffin half my age to settle down with. Mission partially accomplished. I'm 51 and she's 34. I just got tired of the game. More objectively speaking, I wonder how many punters actually think they will be running day/night game and spinning plates as a senior citizen? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Woman Says Harry Potter Ride 'Fat-Shamed' Her Because She Couldn't FitFrom the OP link: "In this case, rather than turning people away daily from an incredible Hogwarts moment, Universal Studios could have simply designed and built a ride from the start that welcomed a diverse range of body sizes, especially as more and more Americans identify as fat or plus size," she writes. I love the way "simply" is thrown in there. If obesity and weight are ever recognized as a "disability" then it will be all out jihad by by the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) and the … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:31 AM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread May 09From Yao to Mao: 5000 years of Chinese History | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 08:07 AM |
| 15 | Woman Says Harry Potter Ride 'Fat-Shamed' Her Because She Couldn't FitSetting aside a wrongful death suit, that would be very Darwinian. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Low fertility rates in modern countriesIt would help but wouldn't be worth the price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?It is different in reality but it is calculated and evaluated the same way in practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?According to that comment, either explicitly or by implication, she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?In many cases, it isn't a matter of "putting up" with it unless it is having to love and respect a total shrew or sharing house chores after working 60 hours a week. You either have the job, the religious views, the teetotalling, the responsible ethic, the mental health. . .or you don't. Depending on the job desired, these aren't unreasonable, even if they are unrealistic these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?Many women don't just want "stable"; they want something way beyond that even if they don't offer it themselves (money and status anyways). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?There is a difference among being picky about your sex partners and being picky about your life partners or more specifically who is going to father your child. Your average bloke gets into a relationship to "see where it goes", including the prospect of an LTR. He is going to be just as picky as any woman regarding personality traits and pehaps career or SES and such, but maybe more picky about looks in the context of an LTR. OTOH, guys are obviously less picky about their sex partners than wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?In some cases, the guys think they are way better than they are. I'm not into bodybuilding but I did go to a regional tournament and there were a few contestants who - simply put - should not have been. They were in great shape and muscular but way short of being at a competitive level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online, and what is their deal?I don't go to bodybuilding.com but I see it a lot on TRP. I basically attribute it to sour grapes. You see a lot of field reports and such where guys are talking about 7 or 8 or 9 that they banged but you never have a link to a pic of the girls. There are various reasons for that, but if you do post a link there are always a bunch of shitlords who will savage the girl as being "a 5 at best" or some such nonsense, even when it is quite clear that any normal guy would rate her an 8. There's no dou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Low fertility rates in modern countriesAs general wealth and welfare increases people tend to adopt a K selection strategy which pushes the fertility rate towards 1 except among the wealthiest. OTOH, lower classes tend to adopt an r selection strategy due to a) culture, such as with immigrants and b) lower intelligence. In terms of women's rights, as the opportunity cost of having a SAHM vs a working woman increase then women or couples collectively are less inclined to have children, and if they do they will have fewer. Again, among… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?My basic point is that the population of women is different than the population of men so the same standards can't be applied to both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?It depends largely on your actual body fat percentage which can be estimated based largely on your waist measurement. Reference Basically, anything under 34 inches and you are considered fit by the American Council on Exercise (17% BF). Under 33 inches and you are considered athletic (<14%). OTOH, over 35 inches puts the estimate over 20% BF which I concede is "fat" although various agencies consider it "average" or "healthy". For what it is worth, there are a couple of studies that tried to est… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 04:30 AM |
| 2 | How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it?I don't recall any RP men making the claim that it would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?And mysteriously, 175 isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Women are never completely at fault if they end up single mothers.But they all got it, and if they don't take advantage of it, then that is their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?So in your mind women should have a bmi less than 21?? Maybe you are "big boned". Rule of thumb before BMI came along was something like 100 pounds at 5' tall + 5 pounds per inch. Then you can add maybe 10 pounds on top of that and a few pounds as you age. Depending on your height and specific weight, that would correspond to a BMI between 20 and 23 which is where women tend to look good and healthy. My mother ran into health problems because she was overweight and the doctor told her she had to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 02:55 PM |
| 18 | Women are never completely at fault if they end up single mothers.Women fought long and hard for abortion to be a "right" (regardless of what the putative father says). Any woman who doesn't take advantage of that is clearly at fault, at the end of the day. Her body; her choice; her fault for what results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 10:31 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?You can define it by body fat % although that still isn't perfect. I guess it is a matter of whether someone looks ok in a swimsuit. Keep in mind that I am only pushing the high end of "normal" by about 5 pounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 10:29 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?You are just under BMI 24. Keep in mind I am only talking about 1 point over what the "expert" call a "normal" weight, not Ronnie Coleman who is more like 300 pounds at 5'10" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 10:24 AM |
| 7 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?That is a 5'4" girl who is 140 pounds. Just because the average is 155 or 160 or something doesn't make 140 pounds not overweight. A more proper weight is about 120 or so. That does not look "starved", that looks healthy. Unless you are built like Christina Hendricks at BMI 24, you look fat. Alternatively, you would have to be build like a powerlifter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 10:19 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?That's 5'10" and 180 for reference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 05:57 AM |
| 9 | Q4Men: What's so bad about single moms?Not per se but they expect you to contribute a lot to the relationship in terms of finances, housework and other miscellaneous things that have more to do with the kids than with you. In that sense they are high maintenance and you are always the number 2 (or 3 or 4 or whatever) priority in her life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 05:53 AM |
| 15 | Q4Men: What's so bad about single moms?Dating short of an LTR is fine but if you cohabitate then you are there with the little monsters and you can't maintain any sort of discipline because of the "you're not my daddy!" thing. That really sucks. Otherwise I think you hit the nail on the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 05:48 AM |
| 8 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?normal-weight girls (BMI 21-25) BMI is something of a crock because most guys at 26 BMI are not overweight but most women at 25 or 24 are so that is basically an institutional bias right there that is not helping things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 05:44 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] why doesn’t the fat guy get any love?Depends on The Fat Guy. But more seriously, I have known a few fat guys who had no problems with women because they were intelligent and charismatic. But on the larger point, yes it is a double standard and men as a group come across as whiney if they make hay about something that women can spin into a human rights movement. The MRM gets mocked, even by other parts of the manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 05:33 AM |
| 4 | How did redpill come up with this 'women would be happier in the 50's" rhetoric, when Gallup stats show that stay-at-home mothers are the most depressed and angry?SAHMs Most Happy Research has found that stay-at-home mothers are happier than those who go out to work. The survey said that if staying at home with the children were counted as a job, it would rank as having happier workers than any other trade or profession. Meanwhile: Are SAHMs Happier? As in so many things psychological, it depends, says "Working Mothers, Stay-At-Home Mothers, and Depression Risk" by Margaret Usdansky and Rachel Gordon in a report for the Council on Contemporary Families. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryIt's what I call "serial polygamy". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | 23% of middle-age men in Norway are now childless, compared to 13% of womenIt's Norway. The ethnic makeup is a lot different than in the US/Canada/UK and other places. Only something like 13% of their population is immigrants and their birthrate is higher than the locals. Meanwhile Canada is more like 20% immigrants and a larger portion are not European. So I suspect the distribution of childless men is a lot different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!Why, because that is what she said? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 10:25 AM |
| 1 | What's the worse possible scenario in the event you never get married?What's the worst that could happen? All my friends and family pre-decease me just as I become an invalid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for men to cheat but not for women?"Be Civil" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for men to cheat but not for women?Unlike you I can write in complete sentences, with some capitalization, and at least an attempt at punctuation. My English is fine; you just aren't really worth the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 06:30 AM |
| 2 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!I'm not suggesting the girls are hookers or gold diggers but rather that they make a lot of bad decisions in life, including getting knocked up by the older guy. Situation power. . .situation status? Is that what Celine Dion's husband had? (He started managing her when she was 13 and he was 39. ) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Why is it okay for men to cheat but not for women?There's also a thread going on on PPD about dread game, and cheating is at the very end, when you know your marriage is over. For better or worse (no pun intended) when husbands cheat they usually don't intend to leave their wife (and kids?) behind. However, when a woman cheats, she is already planning filing for divorce. Not always, and not immediately, but there is a distinctly different pattern involved. So TRP's "Dread Levels" actually encourages guys to go against their natural instincts to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for men to cheat but not for women?What's good about it, other than for him since he got his tiny dick wet by posing as a beta because he doesn't have a high enough SMV for the first girl to bang him without a committment of some sort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for men to cheat but not for women?I don't know of any TRPers who advocate or glorify "cheating". Their big thing is to have "casual" relationships, avoid "the talk" and have 2-4 plates or FBs or FWBs to choose from at any given time plus having the option of an ONS on a good night. In many of the examples about women cheating, they were in an explicit relationship involving some sort of committment (probably asked for by her). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 06:10 AM |
| 3 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!Weird. Five years is not that uncommon, especially after a divorce, and particularly in the context of this discussion. Kid must think GF is a hooker/golddigger. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it as hard to get a decent-looking girl as the manosphere insists it is?A bunch of Muslim countries are worse but I'm not sure if they were including foreign workers in the population. The communist revolution actually blunted the traditional bias against women somewhat. Still, since it has the largest population in the world even a small difference means a lot of guys who are or will be SOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 05:34 AM |
| 1 | 23% of middle-age men in Norway are now childless, compared to 13% of womenThat's a bit far fetched but the implications of my numbers above is that we are moving towards "serial polygamy" where mom walks away from her husband and there is a new one ready to take her place and have more babies rather than go for one of the left over never married guys. Meanwhile the lowest SMV/RMV women are either getting shut out or giving up all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 03:48 AM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!LOL. I'm 51 and my last three girls have been between a dozen and two dozen years younger, with BMIs between 18 and 20 including a fashion model and another that should have been one. I'm just question whether their really doing right, cause I know I am and that's not what their doing! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | On DreadIs it the least suspicious the post was made a few days before April Fools'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 03:36 AM |
| 10 | New Study on Tipping Servers Determines That Women Are More Superficial Than MenThey are paid less if they are ugly. . . and work for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Should or shouldn’t women’s breasts/nipples be sexualised?I guess the question is whether they should be treated as particularly sexual parts of the body and therefore differently from other parts that are not as much, like a bare midriff. Apparently, in NYC there was a 1992 court decision that says women are free to go topless without being arrested. About the same time, the Ontario Court of Appeal set the precedent that topless women in public were legal. Based on that a city bylaw in Maple Ridge (ie. Vancouver) which said that any female over the ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/18 01:58 AM |
| 32 | 23% of middle-age men in Norway are now childless, compared to 13% of womenThe key is this: What actually happens often is that men who are already fathers get recycled. While divorce rates have been falling in the last 10 years or so, I can only assume they are significantly higher than in 1985. You can look a bit deeper into the numbers. If the rate for men went from 14% to 23% while for women it went from 10% to 13%, then the gap between the two went from 4% to 10%. The implication here is that 10% of men are having babies with multiple women now compared to 4% in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:57 PM |
| 6 | 23% of middle-age men in Norway are now childless, compared to 13% of womenIndia is worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | 23% of middle-age men in Norway are now childless, compared to 13% of womenI'm pretty sure it is there already. I just can't find it. I was posting in the discussion there a while ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it as hard to get a decent-looking girl as the manosphere insists it is?Absolutely. To be considered "overweight" you only need to be over 175 pounds at 5'10". If you lift at all and your BF% is 15 or less, that is nothing. On the other hand, a woman would basically have to be like Christina - Fucking - Hendricks to look particularly good at over a BMI of 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How not to fall in love with best pussy I ever hadYa, Chinese Finger Trap. Actually the worst case for me was this really hot BPD chick who totally went wild in bed. . .and in the living room. . .and while tied to a tree in the park. . . | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Bumble: A Revolutionary New Product or Business as Usual?That might have been the idea, but it was a dumb idea because 1) the guys can't contact you on Tinder unless you swipe them, and it would be quite easy to tweak the other simple to have the girl send some digital IOI first and 2) you don't know what the guy is going to say until he says it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it as hard to get a decent-looking girl as the manosphere insists it is?College crowd or college-educated crowd, as in those who graduated, are now in the workforce (and still single)? Depending on the faculty, you can't swing a dead cat without hitting a hot girl on a college campus. But funny that, the same two rules apply here in China. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it as hard to get a decent-looking girl as the manosphere insists it is?The overweight/obesity factor is even worse than reported because they use the same BMI scale for both men and women. The reality is that women should really be about 2 points lower in BMI just to be "decent looking". OTOH, the percentages include all ages and people gain something like one point of BMI per decade on average. As far as age is concerned, there are only 10-12 million women in each 5-year cohort in the USA, or about 3% of the population. Half of those are married by their late 20s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Is it as hard to get a decent-looking girl as the manosphere insists it is?But is the OP a woman? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] why don’t women like technology as much as menBejewelled and Candy Crush = connectedness? Whoda thought? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you keep comparing yourself to women?TRPers don't spend a lot of time complaining about how women have it better, certainly not on TRP and not really here outside of it being a comeback to the whining women do about how much privilege men have so we need unequal standards to have equality. And the next part isn't self pity but just continued frustration with the solipsism of not being willing to acknowledge it (plus maybe the hypergamy). This is Purple Pill Debate and if you want to debate then don't call other people whiny bitches… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 09:17 PM |
| -1 | [Q4All] why don’t women like technology as much as menUnless it's a smartphone, then things reverse somewhat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Bumble: A Revolutionary New Product or Business as Usual?Various apps over the years have had "Winks" or "Likes" that were just zero-effort clicks. OKC and of course Tinder have matches, and why would a woman swipe, like or wink, or whatever and then think it was some new innovation that she had to then start a conversation with a guy she already indicated she wanted to? It just seems like bullshit femnist talking/marketing points in trying to make Bumble trendy by "empowering" women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Lifetime payout divorce settlements to end in UK?Don't worry, she'll create this hardship if it gets her a mealticket. There was a case where the ex-wife kept coming back for another feeding from the alimony trough by claiming that she was still too traumatized by how abused she was in the relationship such that she couldn't work. I can't remember the outcome (I think she got another extension) but people were making some uncomfortable comments about how, in a no-fault jurisdiction, that looked an awful lot like fault. I recall another case wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Lifetime payout divorce settlements to end in UK?The breadwinner in the relationship shouldn't be punished for their partners incompetence at earning a living Well ya, but the stay-at-home-spouse shouldn't be punished for removing themselves from the workforce to take care of the family while the other wasn't around. If a guy is silly enough to keep a stay-at-home wife, not mother but wife, for any significant time without a pre-nup, then you are orchestrating your own downfall. Hire a maid and get the bitch out working. and I think the spendi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Lifetime payout divorce settlements to end in UK?The child support situation can still suck if you lose custody, have multiple kids, and they have any special expenses (child care, medical or education generally). That's where the litigation seems to be shifting to because it isn't necessarily ruinous if you can get shared or split custody. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Lifetime payout divorce settlements to end in UK?That should be 1.5% to 2% per year of the relationship (marriage or cohabitation to divorce) as well. I didn't write that very clearly. I'll go back and fix it. And paying both sides legal costs and losing your house and car The point is there is very little to fight about anyways. At least in Canada, if there is a division of property and the ex is not otherwise jobless and impecunious, they typically have to pay their own lawyer fees. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Red Pillers Don't Want To Pay For Dates, But Hate Career Women TooWell, ya, that's what I was saying. Teacher is 2 years post grad at most and you work bank hours with summers off so much easier to be raising kids, but a bit of an exception to the rule, expecially in Canada. But if you study business or maybe engineering and then don't go in the workforce for 5 years, a lot of what you learned is not relevant anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 5 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!In the cases at hand, it seemed that it was the guy who bailed, which is a minority case to begin with. Still, you don't think a guy should support his kids if he bails on them? Men are happier with quantity over quality. A "quality woman" does as much for a man as a "low quality woman": nothing. But the girls these guys are hooking up with, in most of the examples, don't seem to be all that high quality anyways, plus they are just shacking up again so quantity is only +1. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from WomenFew women say that on a first date. They either announce it ahead of time (such as in an online profile) or they stay silent for some time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Questions for All Pills on Swallowing the Red PillI've just seen it happen a lot and heard the same from other guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!Different dating scene; different dynaic. Last three girls I was with had BMIs of 18, 19, and 20 and were anywhere from a dozen to two dozen years younger with one being a fashion model and another one who just looked the part. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 07:59 PM |
| 20 | How not to fall in love with best pussy I ever hadYeah, focus on what's between your ears and not what's between her legs. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 12:21 PM |
| 6 | Lifetime payout divorce settlements to end in UK?Several years ago Canada introduced Spousal Support [ie "alimony"] Guidelines, but they are advisory only and non-binding so a judge is free to ignore them (subject to reversal because they didn't follow precedent). The basics were simple: 1.5% to 2% of the difference in income [Edit: per year of the relationship] for a period of 1/2 to 1x the length of the relationship (cohabitation+marriage). There are some exceptions for longer marriages, shorter marriages and older couples. There is also a "… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 12:18 PM |
| 3 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!I'm middle aged but not a PUA. I tightened up my standards in my late 30s and I took a hit on sheer number, but quality went up. Then I moved to China and the game changed completely. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from Womena degree of honesty WTF does that mean? Nobody is entitled to a second date with anyone. He's not expecting the second date. He's explicitly cutting down on second dates to see which of them are entitled. They think they are entitled to a commitment or a paved pathway to one and if he takes that off the table, they jump. it's pretty shady to [yadda, yadda] Who is splitting hairs? The girl certainly isn't being honest with him until she freaks out when he won't offer the commitment. I still think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from WomenAny men here who would stay if on the first date she said "on with the ring before in with the thing"? Again, more double standards. Women wouldn't do that because it's as autistic and self-defeating as a guy saying on the first date that he only wants sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 11:30 AM |
| 7 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from WomenMost posts about the friendzone in TRP will tell the guys to own their shit and get out of it, move on, or not be there in the first place. If a guy ends up in the friendzone, in most cases it is his own, damn fault. You blew it, she thinks she can do better than you, so prepare for orbit to give her validation or be her emotional tampon. Or leave. You would never hear equivalent advice given to a woman as to why the guy will not commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Questions for All Pills on Swallowing the Red Pillof some sort. A number of guys have concluded that long term monogamy won't work so they try for some sort of covivant who will let him fuck younger chicks on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from WomenThere is such a thing as "lying by omission." He's dating, not circulating a IPO prospectus. Assuming that my other post is wrong and there is nothing substantially wrong with his delivery, the women don't ask earlier and when they finally get around to doing the own due dilligence instead of making the man put everything on the plate for them, he balks and they freak out. You will probably have fewer women call you back Well ya: ergo, entitlement depending on how many ghost him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 11:00 AM |
| 7 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from Women"Hi, I'm a gold-digging bitch!" "Sorry, I'm a tail-chasing playboy." Oh ya. . .come great communicators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:54 AM |
| 9 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from WomenOf course, we aren't loaded or anything, so there is that. There is majorly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:53 AM |
| 5 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from WomenUhm. . .people who make seven figures and have the free time to do so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Slowly Shifting Redpill due to Entitlement from WomenI think it is something in your delivery. Your basic thesis might be correct but yelling, screaming, slapping, thrown items, stalking, trespassing? It takes something fairly extreme to trigger that, especially if it on a regular basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Only gay men view men as sex objectsFull Monty, all the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 08:08 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Only gay men view men as sex objectsThe hamster is strong in this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 08:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Only gay men view men as sex objectsMost women don't view most men as sex objects. The 80/20 rule is in effect but the vast majority of women view at least some men as sex objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 07:21 AM |
| 39 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!This post is humorous in its own way but not much to brag about for a few reasons. These older guys are knocking up chicks and then rinse and repeat. I don't see much indication that they are men of means who can "afford" to drop the ball on their first family and then move on to a second or third with a newer, younger girl. I put "afford" in quotes because maybe they can just get away with it either by living close to the poverty line, or else jumping ship after their first set of kids are grow… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 06:13 AM |
| 19 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!I recall reading a news article about a guy with 43 kids. He only had something just above a minimum wage job so it was the baby mammas and the taxpayers who will pay. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers Don't Want To Pay For Dates, But Hate Career Women TooApparently the full specialist residency is a year longer in Canada but I know my one buddy did "rotations" in the areas he didn't specialize in and I don't recall that taking more than a year (this was 20 years ago at this point - maybe things have changed or I have forgotten the details). I also dated a doctor and I might be confusing residency with some sort of practicum. She and her classmates ended up in a legal dispute because they were working, but the pay was either shit or zero. At the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."Maybe you have it backwards: it's not a question of whether being independent, masculine and charming is abusive but the opposite. If you are abusive would that make you independent, masculine and charming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."Pic of dude and two chicks who fought over him, with one stabbing the other to death. Apparently, the murdered girl thought she was in a serious relationship but he called it FWB. Another comment was that he was controlling, made her wear pants in public so guys couldn't look at her legs, and she lost 30 pounds. From Heartiste: Josh loved posing for cell phone portraits: flexing his biceps, waving a gun, showing off the tattoo that arcs across his back in inch-high Gothic letters: CAMACHO. While… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 05:11 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."Oddly enough, behavior isn't mentioned in the OP, only beliefs. Looks and SMV are held constant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."The belief that all abusers are Petyr Baelish level masterminds is pretty insane to me. A sleeveless undershirt is called a "wife beater" for a reason, and you won't see Petyr Baelish nor Patrick Bateman wearing one. sexually successful As defined by n-count alone and perhaps average SMV of partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."Other than if you define "abusive"=Dark Triad, would just being abusive rather than a nice guy come off as independent, masculine and charming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."As a theoretical point I would have to say "same SMV" because we are talking about a hypothetical man who, in the abstract, get a "personality transplant". Unless there is some additional suggestion that being abusive would imply targetting higher SMV women overall, then the average SMV would stay the same regardless of whether the n-count itself went up or down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."Basically: male n-count is to a significant degree a reflection of choices, and not, as some Red Pillers imply, mostly a reflection of one's "SMV". Yes, and no. Guys who specifically go in for PUA stuff or a fratboy/playboy lifestyle will end up with higher n-counts than otherwise, but SMV (having it, building it, working it) makes a huge difference in that case. OTOH, a lot of guys who do have high SMVs will pair up early (with a high-SMV girl) and then settle down fairly young while their n-co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."In this context we are talking about ass-smacking as part of rough, consensual sex rather than face smacking to put the bitch in her place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."Yes, by a HUGE margin. I don't know about that. Will an abusive attitude actually make an average guy more attractive, or will it simply piss off the girls he does get so he spends more time as an incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."It's a loaded question because too many bloopers and even purps will define almost anything advocated by TRP as being "abusive" or at least "manipulative". Truly abusive and/or manipulative guys won't have a particularly high n-count because of a) the personality type they have to target and b) the amount of effort and time that has to go into manipulating said women. We are talking about a painfully average guy in all other ways. A higher SMV male might have a higher n-count simply because his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Does dressing in an alternative style lower a woman's SMV?I would say this, given personal experience and the data collected by OKC which basically concluded that at a given average (mean) attractiveness rating, the girl with the higher standard deviation in her ratings will get more messages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Questions for All Pills on Swallowing the Red PillIn fact, for plate-spinning women it usually means that they don't sleep with their plates, but that they keep them in their orbit nonetheless. That's not doctrinaire and is specifically at odds with the definition of "plate" in the sidebar glossary. OTOH, I don't "spin plates" but rather have kept "a bird in hand and two in the bush", which sounds more like what you are talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Questions for All Pills on Swallowing the Red PillThis has been discussed ad nauseum, but AWALT does not mean that every last one of the 1 billion or so women of dating age "are like that". In any event, you don't have to accept it because you aren't a guy trying to date women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Questions for All Pills on Swallowing the Red PillAny power you give a woman in the current climate can easily be weaponized against you. This might not be what you are talking about, but do you notice that any argument you have, or any misstep - real or perceived - will come up again, and again, in the next argument and the one thereafter, until the end of the relationship when they all come out and you are a POS who never really loved them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Questions for All Pills on Swallowing the Red PillAs RP: The hardest thing is that nice guy behaviour doesn't work a) in itself and b) otherwise in excess. It's about looks, money, status and game, with being "nice" not factoring any more than the other 4 (hence my 80/20 theory about relationship stability). Other than in The Matrix, I had never hear of "The Red Pill" until about 2-1/2 years ago. So that meant I was figuring most of these things out for myself over the course of 30 years. Not so much a red "pill" but more like an IV drip. As Pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Stoicism is neither the denial or the suppression of one's emotions.There is Stoicism, the philosophy, which is rather all-encompassing but the part of it that includes dealing with negative emotions and such is just this. Stoicism as a lay term means something like "endurance of hardship without the display of feelings or complaint." (my emphasis) There was another post about stoicism and toxic masculinity, but things that might have been missed by the OP are that 1) by definition, stocism is neither the lack of emotion or the lack of displaying emotion but rat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women (overwhelmingly) enforce a sex toy/masturbation double standard: "you go girl!" vs. "he must be a creepy perv who can't get a girl in the real world", etc?The bowling ball is just me taking it to 11. Jezebel suggests "If you really want it to be fun, throw some sneakers in there, or place a large load of heavy towels or maybe some pillows in, but only on one side." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".Oh probably. The whole "participation ribbon" thing and those who argue for "equality of outcome" - even in stealth form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".Part of it is the messaging that society gives them to think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers Don't Want To Pay For Dates, But Hate Career Women TooA lot of that is simply the circles you walk in. If they met at a small town highschool, odds are they are (or will end up) blue collar. If they met at an Ivy League university, then their SES will also be close together. However, far and away it is more likely that the husband will out-earn wives. The highest figure I have seen is that in 38% of marriages, the wife will earn more, while other stats as low as 13%. So higher earning husbands outnumber their female counterparts by anywhere from 3:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers Don't Want To Pay For Dates, But Hate Career Women TooAnd for the record, I'm not suggesting that a woman should give up career ambitions - including med school - for their husband. However, it just makes more sense to delay those ambitions in favour of your family. If you want to be an MD you are looking at 4 years of undergrad, 4 years of med school, a year of residence, and then 1 or more years of fellowship positions or the like to actually get established. So you are now between 28 and 30, your career is just taking off and now you want to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".Seemed rather obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".Most won't, some will, and that will be usually in the form of "you were a strong candidate but we found someone more qualified". Still, it never hurts to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | If an attractive woman told potential partners that she has BPD, what percentage do you think would stay?You made a deal about it and I made a counter argument. Apparently some wet mods don't understand the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 01:13 PM |
| 3 | If an attractive woman told potential partners that she has BPD, what percentage do you think would stay?Not on the internet, apparently. Real life is a bit different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 01:10 PM |
| 2 | If an attractive woman told potential partners that she has BPD, what percentage do you think would stay?No woman would self-acknowledge and claim that she is BPD. They are not that self-aware and the disability itself prevents that. I loved a woman - very deeply - and it was only after the fact and talking with educated people that I figured out why our relationship always tanked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 11:41 AM |
| 1 | If an attractive woman told potential partners that she has BPD, what percentage do you think would stay?You are over-educated and underexperienced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers Don't Want To Pay For Dates, But Hate Career Women TooA lot of the Red Pill is like a defensive driving course where the basic axiom is that there are a lot of shitty people who will ruin your life if you are not actively aware of your environment. Red Pill men do not want to get taken. If some random chick asks me to buy her a drink, I say something like "you buy the first round and I will buy the second". I she blows me off then that is good evidence that my wallet was he first concern rather than my personality or value as a human being. There a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 07:47 AM |
| 3 | What would happen of asking for commitment women required men to sign a blood oath of love/commitment before sex?It's called marriage. The more interesting thing is to consider what would happen if women were forced to comply with their marriage vows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to be with someone you're not attracted to?It's manipulative or abusive if your cards are not on the table. I dated a frumpy accountant who I liked to hang out with but was not romantically attracted to. She got me drunk and we fucked in the reclining seats of her hatchback in the parking lot of a public park. Before anyone says anything: I OWN THIS. I was a willing participant but then cut her loose the next day. The more common scenario is for a pretty girl to cuddle up with an odious guy of means. I am a white guy living in Asia and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".Any large firm, yes. I spent a few years at a micro firm with one patriarch and me being one of two associates. It was 9-5 unless I was in trial mode. I used to be in the army and while on exercise the national census was dispatched with the question "how many hours did you work in the last week?" We laughed, and as a unit filled in "168". I interviewed with a boutique insurance defense firm and the guy was honest with me that I was their number 2 choice. What he said was "We are not Davies, War… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Is love an illusionI am not up on my greek philosophy, but "love" comes in many shapes and colours. I love my family, I love my friends, and I have loved many women, and now I love my wife. If I were pressed for a definition, the term "love" would come out in 4 different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".Fuck that. I "work" less than 13 hours a week. I'd be willing to go up to 20 hours if you doubled my paycheck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".JBY is good advice when you're a hot commodity Exactly! But most people aren't! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".I haven't been in a hiring position for a long time but I think it is a personal gift to be able to size up people in a short time. Socially, it takes me about 10 to 15 minutes to assess someone. In business, sometimes that means $100k riding on a handshake. In romance, it gets a bit foggy. I can peg the potential but as the Magic 8-Ball says "future is hazy". For what it is worth, I proposed marriage to my wife the first night we met. Make a note to ask me - in 20 years - how that has all turne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".JBY is advice that blue pilled alpha males - who have every genetic and SES advantage - hand out to beta males. Alternatively, it is the advice women give to (blue pilled) men so as to easier exclude them from the sexual market place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".With a job interview, if you don't get hired then one of the best pieces of advice that I have seen is to go back to them and ask for a list of reasons as to why they didn't hire you. Odds are 50/50 that they will shoot you a line of crap so you have to parse that, but honest criticism is the first step to self-improvement. For the next interview, either build what was lacking or learn how to fake it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself".Hands up all those who felt the rush of being hired for a job they were clearly not qualified for, and yet rose to the task and kicked some major ass. Hands up guys who have dated and made love to a woman clearly out of their "league" because you made all the right moves (even if at the time you had no fucking idea what you were doing). I like your term "hack the interview". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Job Interviews, Relationships, and "Just Being Yourself"."Just Be Yourself" is shit advice under any circumstances for 80% or 90% of guys. I recall one job interview where I was gunning. For me, it would have been the perfect job and as far as I could tell, I was the perfect candidate. I built a research portfolio that was 2 inches thick and included everything I could find about the organization, the position and my potential boss, and I memorized it. As it turned out, I was a victim of politcal correctness and didn't get the job, but they were so im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Mid-Life Crisis (for men): What of it?mid life crisis is a self inflicted wound by an optimistic man making too many concessions where he shouldn't in his marriage. I rather agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Mid-Life Crisis (for men): What of it?LOL. Either mom is "with the program" or he has a college girl on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 09:39 AM |
| 6 | Theory: men grow bitter with rejection because they try to pick up women outside of their leagueWe are on board but generall TRP impression is that women shoot too high until they hit the wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Male Hypergamy?I just know more stuff and am smarter than you. If I get the time, then I can make the online community know that you are the ignorant shit that I know you to be. Not today. . .my girl is coming to town. Oh shit? You don't understand that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A BeardPersonally, I sport a van dyke (aka "goatee" for the uninitiated) because it balances out my shaved dome. I did it pre-shave and I liked it because it got responses from women, and the most simple explanation is the "bad boy" factor. The thing is, various studies have shown that women like men with "stubble". Remeber that what women say is bullshit and what only matter is what they do. I agree based on my personal experiences and by simply Googling "beard of awesome" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Older Men, Younger Women, Part IIThis is beyond the scope of this post and (although trained in economics) I have not looked at the implications, but is this new generation of women so Red Pilled that they will use their youth to leverage the status and resources of older men? I men across the board as gold diggers are so 1000 years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Male Hypergamy?I have a job that does not involve saving links to ruin some keyboard warrior's day. But I am well read both online and with "dead trees". Having said that, what I have read is that within marriage, guys will cheat but not as a way out; women will cheat as a way out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 09:11 AM |
| 20 | Theory: men grow bitter with rejection because they try to pick up women outside of their leagueSome men, yes. However, that is not the basic phenomenon that TRP sees. A totally acceptable guy who is within the a girls's league will get shot down because SHE is shooting above her league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 09:05 AM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionI somehow doubt I be doing so. Be doubtful to death. Because there is no difference between the two. Only in your small mind Said nothing about politics. No, but the abject ignorance and stupidity of the comment is pervasive in both fields. I ask but I highly doubt you give me a source of where they said this I only suffer fools for a few posts. If you are so lazy and ignorant as to not understand your opponent's position, I am limited in the amount I am willing to help you out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Male Hypergamy?a survey of 3000 people found that women are more likely to cheat than men. Source At best, it is Scottish Verdict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 08:56 AM |
| 3 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionYour on the a roll with the jokes. Laugh yourself all the way to an ignorant grave. I somehow doubt it has worked flawlessly for you in those some 30+ years. Well duhhhh. I had to do it by trial and error. More so with TRP preaching traditionalism and all I highly doubt things will end well for you in the current age. You don't seem to understand the difference between what TRP thinks would be a better reality, and what TRP thinks is the way to deal with the current reality. why are you asking m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 08:16 AM |
| 4 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionI will do my own research if I have the time but it is a simple question to those who might have already done the research. Certainly if anyone - even you - asked a question where I had the answer on my fingertips, I would not be a shitlord about sharing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:57 AM |
| 2 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionRP isn't going to make things better. TRP is the accumulated wisdom of over a million man years. I don't advocate for TRP because I am some incel who got laid after reading it, but rather as a guy with 30+ years in the game who found it to be in substantial accord with everything I have experienced. They got taught and out dated script about women and never change course. ha ha. . .The Blue Pill. never learned how to socialize and such never learn social nuance. I agree with the first part which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Male Hypergamy?Yes, but they would end up hooking up with another old, fat chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Male Hypergamy?Funny statistic that I love to point out: divorced men are the most likely to be a) incels and b) players. Choose you poison wisely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:47 AM |
| 0 | Male Hypergamy?Men take commitments seriously. Women are the first to ask for commitment and then the first to walk away from it (ie. divorce). the statistics tell us married men are more likely to cheat on their wives than vice versa. Hey, there is a crock of shit. A man in his mid life crisis ditching his wife for some bimbo secretary half his age is a stereotype as old as time. Stereotypes have some basis in reality but the fact is, most guys can't pull that off, even if they wanted to. But any woman who is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:43 AM |
| -1 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionI thought that was debunked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:31 AM |
| 0 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing Prostitutionthey said it was not a terrorist attack Of course. We don't want to alarm the public or make anyone suspicious of certain ethnic or religious groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:31 AM |
| 1 | QForRedPill: what is “hypergamy” in the context of The Red Pill?Funny that. My wife is 4'11" and I am 5'10". In talking about kids, she says she would prefer a son while I would prefer a daughter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:28 AM |
| 6 | QForRedPill: what is “hypergamy” in the context of The Red Pill?Classic hypergamy is simply that women want to marry up in terms of SES. Red Pill hypergamy goes much farther in that women want to "trade up" in terms of looks, money and status, so they are flighty and not the least loyal unless you constantly present yourself as the best available option. Women don't "commit" the way men do and they feel no need to follow through with any agreement if at any time it becomes inconvenient. So called "Briffault's Law": The female, not the male, determines all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:23 AM |
| 2 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionIs there a legitimate source that examines the motivations of the driver/maniac? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionIs there a legitimate source that examines the motivations of the driver/maniac? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionFuck. The chickens have come home to roost. Is there a legitimate source that examines the motivations of the driver/maniac? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: if rp men were born women, do you think they would they hate men for their nature?That's a really fucked up question. Do you mean if I, given the sum total of my present life experiences as a man, were reincarnated as a woman? Do you mean a woman given my general tendencies and personality type? Do you mean pretty much any woman who swallows the Red Pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:07 AM |
| 7 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionMy understanding is that a large chunk of johns want the "girlfriend experience" and just someone to talk to, with the sex being secondary. I agree that raising better boys is a more effective solution, but certainly not the easiest. What is dead easy is if these guys would get over their angst long enough to swallow the Red Pill. Well, easy from a sociological point of view but damn hard for them, apparently. I don't think most incels are such because of their looks but rather there is somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionWTF happened in Toronto? I am a TO boy living overseas, so I am out of the loop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TRUMP! (28 April 2018)Obama got just over 51% of the popular vote in 2012 but IIRC, in places like Canada and France something like 80% or 90% would have chosen him over Romney. And don't get me started about women and their voting habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.I've been living in China for the last 5 years or so and married a Filipina 17 years younger. The fucked-upped-ness doesn't seem to have crossed the pond (I hope). But yes, many of the Millenials I have dated (depending on your definition, that is 11 to 25 years younger) were sort of off, but I attributed that to some sort of third independent variable regarding girls who date significantly older men rather than a generational thing. Mind you, my half brother qualifies as one of the older Millen… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Is That Your Belief?No mate: If you are 5'5" then you can defy reality directly. . .if you so choose. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 03:55 PM |
| 10 | Is That Your Belief?There is a so lot of hurt and angst in this post, but I really want to help. Reality, with a capital R is a construct that you can't escape from. One fallacious but common Red Pill belief is that you can defy or escape from Reality. You can't, but the thing is that you have to see what is going on: 1) Your only "limiting beliefs" are those that are not in accord with the natural order. If you are a geek with not interest in improving, then you won't get laid. If you are an artist or activist who… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it always on the guy to move the relationship forward(or end it)?It's always on a guy to move the relationship forward, even if pressured by the GF; it is on the woman to end the relationship. . . statistically speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Q4PP: Respectful way to break up a long-term relationship?"I need to do things in my life, and you need to do things. They are not the same things so I think we have to go in separate directions." I can write and talk words that look good on the page or maybe sound good in a speech but without knowing you better I can't give you anything better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: What are some non-physical turn offs?It's hard to separate the two: I don’t mean things that make her a less attractive option for a relationship, I mean things that decrease your desire to have sex with her. Self-entitled bitches with shitty personalities. Unless I can specifically run a hate fuck, then no. . .she is off the table, or bed or leather bondage pony, or whatever. I have no issue with overcoming ASD, LMR, GoodGirlism or even post wall "prove it to me" shit but a girl who is bitchy is written off. Generally it is those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] for those who were fat than became fit how did dating change for you?I guess that is why Fleshlight is a "thing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.I guess we could say that youth and looks are actually rather objective. We can argue about blondes, brunettes and red head and to a lesser extent but indicators of youth - while not the One Ring To Rule Them All - play out across ages and cultures. Yes, personal tastes about attraction and personality and such have become more subjective because nobody in the west wants to make babies anymore and support our culture. And the other thing is this: as a man in my 50s which I might do as a hobby is… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] for those who were fat than became fit how did dating change for you?If you are dysproportionate then reduce your leg load. (But always work your calves so you don't look like Mike Tyson.) I am not expert but maybe you should switch to specific strength training rather than having any hypertrophy messing with your plan. LOL. In high school when I was 140 there was a (friendly) kid we called "Bundy", after King Kong Bundy the wrestler. Oh shit, he must hav been at lest 220 but maybe more and no one believed I could squat him but I did. If you are "barrel chested" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] for those who were fat than became fit how did dating change for you?Personally, I use my left hand so it feels like someone else is doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.And you know what? They feel different. Even if they look the same in a photograph or in person, a 20 year old feels different than a 30 year old and so on and so forth to 40 year olds. I can only extrapolate to 50 year olds because the oldest woman I have slept with was 40 and she otherwise had the body of a teenager, but the feel was different. I am not Warren Beatty, but he is the man with the plan. At 55 he married a woman 20 years younger who was otherwise in line with his SMV, RMV, SES and… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.They can carry it, but it is all relative. I am not hyper-famous nor a millionaire but I have not had a problem in the last 20 years since I started going clean shaven. Some people make curious comments like "you have the right head for it". I mean, WTF? I am not a fucking Klingon. Celebrities in this case are merely examples of guys who don't have gorgeous hair who are still in the same league as other hyper-famous millionaires that do. If I said I know Joe who shaves his head and slays, you ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is a man or immoral if at 23....I don't recall her med regime as that was 15 years ago and I have moved on. She wasn't having "swelling", she was getting fat. It wasn't part of a flare up but rather a steady gain over the course of 3 or 4 years. I don't think it helped that we were both foodies, but . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TRUMP! (28 April 2018)The thing is, Democrat presidents tend to be wildly popular outside of the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 08:05 AM |
| 3 | CMV: it's unfair for men to expect women, but not themselves, to invest in potentialYou have to look at the age range generally. If they are college aged then some some frosh chick is not going to be interacting with a doctor who will be almost a decade older. What sort of "high value" woman is going to date the doctor out of the blue? Either he does actually grab a trophy girl much younger, or it will be another doctor or some business executive, or some Cosby Show analogue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 06:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it's unfair for men to expect women, but not themselves, to invest in potentialNo. It's becauses it is a CMV and you are circle jerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Stoicism can be part of toxic masculinityDepending on the demographic, most men don't have men around to explain the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 05:27 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 02Eat a lot and lift. I am 5'10" and was maybe 65kg. I joined the military engineers and we ate like horses and did things like build bridges by hand. I put on about 20 pounds of muscle over the next year. Then I was not in the field so much but rather going to the gym. All you need is 3 times a week for about an hour or an hour and a half. Bench, chin, military press, squat and then isolation movements like curls, pushdowns, situps, toe raises. I went back to eating heavy which included a 1000 ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 05:24 AM |
| 21 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.Perhaps an even harsher reality is that some guys can be attractive with no hair at an advanced age. Dwayne Johnseon is 46, but then again he is 6'5" and about 265. Jason Statham is 50 and more average sized at 5'10" (but depending on the movie, as low as 6% bodyfat). Bruce Willis, now in his 60s. Patrick Stewart, now in his 70s. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.Greg Berzinsky. He seems more Beard of Awesome. I was thinking more Kenny Rogers although that pic goes back to the 80s and he is now 79 years old. Does Man From Glad count? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 03:19 AM |
| 7 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.I am 51 and the plain fact is that I don't find women my own age attractive. I would posit that no guy finds women my age as attractive as comparable women who are significantly younger. I guess that I why I have been doing the "half-plus-7" thing for most of my adult life. I just watched watched Film Stars Don't Die In Liverpool. Annette Bening is 59 and she plays an aging Hollywood starlet from something like age 54 to 57. Great movie and I can see the attraction that a younger guy could have … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Is a man or immoral if at 23....It's not just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Stoicism can be part of toxic masculinityWhat "masculine scripts"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Gap between biological fathers and biological mothers is increasing with time.There is something fucked up about this number because every child has both a mother and a father. My first instinct is to say that the only way you can have this gap between men and women is if a share of guys are knocking up multiple women. Sure enough, this gem is in the article: What actually happens often is that men who are already fathers get recycled. My parents split when I was about 6 to 8 years old. Dad - a successful business professional - gets remarried to a woman somewhat younger.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Is a man or immoral if at 23....You can get hit financially for more alimony and your ex needs expensive treatment or in-come care or whatever. In theory, if the guy was the sick one, couldn't work, and didn't have savings or assets to burn through, the ex-wife could be obligated to pay. However, as we know only 5% to 10% of alimony payors are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Is a man or immoral if at 23....You don't need a 10 year marriage to actually like and care about the person you are with. The girl got handed a shit sandwich he seemed to be the best friend she had at the time as not even her family helped out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Is a man or immoral if at 23....I dated a young girl for 2-1/2 years who was tentatively diagnosed with Lupus. The two major things were arthritic flair ups (particularly hands and knees) and gradual weight gain. On a bad day, her knees would sieze up and she couldn't walk. This happened once at the Eaton Centre and I had to go to the service desk to borrow a wheel chair. In another case, her hands got so stiff and painful, I had to feed her because she couldn't hold a knife, fork or spoon. In photos from a year before we met … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] for those who were fat than became fit how did dating change for you?"Big" as in muscular or "big" as in fat? If the former I understand completely. When I was young and more serious about lifting I seemed to be making good gains in terms of building muscle and losing fat. Then I took all my body measurements and put them on a scale called the "Symetrometer". Apparently, all my upper body measurements were symetrical as were my lower body measurements, but they were not in line with my weight. It was like my upper body was right for a guy 10 pounds lighter and my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] for those who were fat than became fit how did dating change for you?Enough with the fapping! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] for those who were fat than became fit how did dating change for you?I was a skinny teenager, about 140 at 5'10" or BMI 20-21. After joining the military I packed on about 20 pounds of muscle and that made a huge difference although it's bit hard to tease that apart from all the other changes I made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 12:40 AM |
| 9 | Stoicism can be part of toxic masculinityIn whose world is substance abuse considered a masculine virtue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 12:22 AM |
| 6 | Stoicism can be part of toxic masculinityOP confuses their own interpretation of the dictionary term "stoic" with the philosophical school of Stoicism. The former is "enduring pain and hardship without showing one's feelings or complaining." The latter has a number of key points that completely unravels the points the OP is trying to make. The Wikipedia entry is enough for the task. The Stoics also held that certain destructive emotions resulted from errors of judgment, and they believed people should aim to maintain a will (called pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How Well Matched Are The Couples You Know?Mom is on husband #3. Little sis is on husband #3. Middle sis is going through a glitchy divorce and engaged to be married to husband #2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 11:53 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillThe average age to lose it is 16 or 17, so by 18 you are really not that far behind the curve. I didn't get laid until 18. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Relationships where the man is significantly older than the woman...In my 20s my gfs were anywhere from a year older to a few years younger. In my 30s and since they have been at least a decade younger with the biggest gap being 22 years. My wife is 17 years younger. I certainly hope it isn't doomed to fail although statistically speaking, large age gaps pose a high divorce risk. Some had daddy issues which created all sorts of problems, but it's not universal. Hooking up with a teenager when I was 34 seemed like a good idea at the time but she was sort of messe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How Well Matched Are The Couples You Know?All of my close friends have sort of odd pairings but they seem to be good matches. One married his business partner's younger sister: A Mexican flamenco dancer. Another married his roommate: a Brazilian woman who was about the be deported. That marriage of convenience seems to be convenient given that they have been together for 20 years. Another married his college sweetheart but then ditched her 15 years later in favour of a Hong Kong girl a dozen years younger. Meanwhile, I'm a former attorn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillEnjoy it, mate. My father got struck down by brain cancer just a couple of months into retirement. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] If it's acceptable to ask your dates about their n'counts to "test for compatibility", why it isn't acceptable to ask about their bank accounts and wages?There is a story, perhaps apocryphal, where a guy is on a first date and had to go back to his apartment because he "forgot something". He left a forged bank statement sitting on the counter and - naturally - as he was rumaging about in his bedroom the girl took a peak. The story concludes with dinner and fuck fantasy because the bank account balance made her wet. According to TRP it should have been the opposite as she would hold out on him to try and BB him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 09:59 PM |
| 0 | At what age are more than 50% of the best wife candidates already married?Tendencies are inate but behaviors are learned responses. It depends on the test questions but those that focus on tendencies are more stable over time than those that look at behaviors. I am INTP but you have to look at my history: entrepreneur, army sergeant, trial lawyer. All of those require a lot of extroverting as well as other things against type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | At what age are more than 50% of the best wife candidates already married?The median age of marriage is 27 but most of the top prospects get snatched up in college. Then again, I live in China. They tend to pair up here in their late teens. The exception is the "sheng nu" career women who are flailing about in their early 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Guide for weight lossOne note on BMI: it is bullshit. The whole 18.5-24.9 is nonsense for any man out of his 20s who hits the gym. If you are 5'10" and a trim 180, that is a 26 BMI. On the other end, it is nonsense for women. My last 3 girlfriends had BMIs of 18 or 19. You know what a 24.9 BMI is for a woman? That's like 145 pounds at 5'4". Unless they are built like Christina Hendricks (who is apparently BMI 24.9), that is not a good sign. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Guide for weight lossA bottle of vodka has about 1800 calories which is roughly the same as my BMR. A 20k walk burns about 1200. Multiply by 14 and that is about 5 pounds of fat right there. I lost maybe another couple of pounds and then the rest was simply water loss despite my hydrating 3 to 4 litres per day. "Poon" is one of those names that falls in the category of "you can't make this shit up". | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Guide for weight lossIt's a very personal thing. My sister swears by Dr. Poon which, as far as I can tell, is a modified keto plan. My mom, who is now in her 70s, had a health scare and was put on a low-carb diet (which is weird because the problem seemed to be fat rather than carbs). My best plan is high protein, low fat, and moderate exercise; the carbs take care of themselves. On the other hand, in a time of crisis, I dropped 10 pounds in two weeks on a diet of vodka and a regime of walking 20k per day, not that … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillI am ex-combat engineer. However I am also a law school grad. The first week of my first year that issue came up in some class discussion and I said something like "Some women are rather large". The feminists and manginas hated me for the next three years. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | There is no grand conspiracy. CMV.My wife is 4'11" and 92 pounds. It was frickin' hilarious to watch her change the water in my apartment given that an 18.9 litre jug is basically half her body mass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillLOL. . first rule of fight club, eh? TRP didn't "brainwash" me. . .life did. so to speak. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 07:55 PM |
| 0 | To those who DO NOT LIFT.The reason I don't lift is because I DON'T HAVE TO. My IQ is 138 and I know how to leverage it. I get pussy on tap just fine based on wit and smarm. Having said that, I don't want to antagonize you. . . . too much. "Lift" is the single best and most direct way to scoring hot women. Being ex-military and maybe 9% body fat and such, back in the day , I can attest. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 01:17 PM |
| 0 | What is alpha?I don't know why these niggas are downvoting you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 01:06 PM |
| 4 | What is alpha?Lift, game, money, status. Is there any real argument here? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | What is alpha?The "Alpha Male" is a leader of men and lover of women. That is not me, but I do ok, and most men can do "ok" with a bit of polish. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 01:04 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillI really don't get so-called "black pillers". Just how bad is the reality you live in? Life is a gift and I enjoy every day. If you feel unloved then look in the fucking mirror. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 12:59 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillI arrived at TRP as a 40-ish man with perhaps too much experience with women. The thing is THIS: TRP is in accord with my 30+ year of experience of dealing with women. The teenager and 20 something and 30 somthings who are coming here have what I never had and I had to learn by trial and error. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How does the dating market differ from between a 35 y.o. male and a 40 y.o.?Come on, Mate. . .it is on a sliding scale. TRP has a very clear path for young men to follow from age 16 or so until they are old and decrepid. If you lift and you invest and you work hard to build a career then yes. . .maybe 33, maybe 35, you will be at your kick-ass best to to slay pussy from 18 to oblivion. The sad truth is that the message is not getting out there. But honestly, there is nothing a 35 year old can do to outperform a 40 year old. Not on the track, not in the board room and no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 12:26 PM |
| 1 | All girls are bi until proven otherwise?This was a few decades ago but we had a term: LUG Lesbian Until Graduation. Unless you have been to Sex Ed 101, no teenage male has the first clue about what a clitoris is or what to do with it. 1) There are plenty of legitimate guides but it is really difficult to separate the wheat from the chaff. 2) Porn for one. Feminist bullshit for another. There is something in the middle that is lost on this generation. 3) Go on the prowl with them. Or maybe savvy it. 4) We aren't slow, we are just diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | There is no grand conspiracy. CMV.Feminism is government supported, government sponsored, government enabled. It is bought and paid for from k-12 and then all institutions of higher learning (maybe not UofA and perhaps not U of Phoenix). There is no conspiracy because it is completely out in the open. There has not been a patriarchy since about 1900 when women's life expectancy surged past that of men's due to modern medicine specifically directed at women, and - thankfully - giving birth is not such a crap shoot anymore. Even b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:39 AM |
| 3 | There is no grand conspiracy. CMV.Chivalry is not dead, but you have put it on life support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:05 AM |
| 0 | I think ive finally cracked female attraction. Heres my theory?All girls want the same shit: money, status, and a hot bod. Edit: The exception is my cat. She just wants food and a soft place to sleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?She is not clued in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | In wake of Toronto van attack, GMU economist Robin Hanson, proposes sex redistribution program, likens sex inequality to income inequalityIf I could have given this miscreant the Red Pill, I think I could have saved 10 lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?it’s pretty different from most here Perhaps but what works. . .works. we talk about things like giving oral Strangely it is a split decision as to who is in control when a woman gives head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 12:14 AM |
| 0 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?Dude, I lived in Vancouver for 7 years. This was back in the day when I was a hot 30 year old. The fags were all over me, but it just isn't my thing. (And that experience completely crushed any lingering homophobia on my part.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | The top 1% of men, in different categoriesGive me a break here. I can't bench 300 pounds and I am not a Calvin Klein underwear model but yes, I score 138 on some tests and 172 on the LSAT so here I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TRUMP! (28 April 2018)He forced the country into a recession which is exactly what was needed at the time, but many people won't forgive him for that. PS: he was a rather shitty actor but that training allowed him to deliver lines like "Mr. Gorbachev, BRING DOWN THIS WALL". All of this is coloured by the fact that he came to power in my formative years as an adult - age 15 to 23. An unfortunate part of Canadian politics is that our conservative (or Conservative) politicians are as cuddly as a sea urchin. Stephen Harp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?Hong Kong November 19, 2017 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 11:01 PM |
| 0 | The top 1% of men, in different categoriesTRPers focus on the top 20% I am just a decent looking guy who is in the top 1% of IQ. I don't seem to be on the spectrum so I leverage this. I say I am a 6 who presents as a 7 and hits on 8s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?Wife is notionally Catholic and we might have to go there and have a church wedding to appease her parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?Toddler? Do you mean making a baby or romancing my 4'11" and 92 pound bride? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?I think you have a point in that guys are lazy and won't put in the effort to max their SMV. +1 for TRP Still, there are so many TRP horror stories of guys who made great effort and still got screwed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?If you are not part of the solution then you are part of the problem so kindly piss off so silly people like me can have a discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?I am still at a loss. My issue, if any, is that flesh and blood mods ban me for not being "civil" I have no idea what motivates the AutoMod to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?Stockholm syndromey That's new. Trapped and loving their trappers. I see the possibility but not the facts on the ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?It's not a matter of validation but merely an inquiery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?You lost me. . .please clarify | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:55 AM |
| -1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?You sort of have me there. I am a Canadian ex-pat living in China and married to a Filipina. I have not been in the North American SMP for several years and I read TRP and wonder: "Is it really that bad?" Maybe honest, hard-working guys have to fly across the Pacific to find a women who really appreciates their value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Captain and First Mate: A healthy Dynamic?I consider this a cop out answer. Tell me: How do I keep my mate loyal and engaged? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:51 AM |
| 7 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: TRUMP! (28 April 2018)The most mild compliment I can give him is that he is better than the alternative. The thing is, a guy who has made and lost billions of dollars by the running of his mouth; it is not so far fetched that he could talk his way into the White House. I am a Canadian so maybe my opinion does not count for much, but you Yanks peaked with Reagan and have made a lot of bad decisions since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Where did the humor in TBP go?Humour is funny that way. (Is that even gramatically correct?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Where did the humor in TBP go?The humour is gone because too many of their members take themselves seriously. This is nothing new. One of the top archived posts is a rant about TRP that is mostly inaccurate but it gets the juices flowing. There is hope. One poster linked the Cosby decision: *A few hours after deliberations began Wednesday, the jury returned to the courtroom to ask, "What is the legal definition of consent?" “But O'Neill said that he couldn't give jurors a legal definition, telling them that was something the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How important is facial hair for attraction?There is a balance between facial hair and the hair on the top of your head. Facial hair doesn't work well with a mop like I had when I was younger. When I was in the army and had my hair short, we were allowed to have a moustache, but it made me look like a pedophile. In my late 20s I experimented with a vandyke (aka "goatee") and it added a certain edge to my otherwise business-professional look. Approaching 30, my hair was thinning. Natural Born Killers came out and I figured I could rock a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you ever be able to love a woman who didn't respect you?Fall in love? Sure Be in a relationship with? Never. That would be toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | is there a version of /r/askfeminists etc that isn't trigger-happy about bans?askTRP The answer will be something like this: make your intentions clear but not overt or explicit. My assumption is that you want casual sex but maybe you are wife hunting or looking for the mother of your child. It doesn't really matter. You will come off as creepy if a) your apparent SMV is not a point or two higher than hers or b) you do not appear outcome independent. "Feminists" are not the problem nor the issue. YOU are the topic of discussion. Up your game and the go forth and. . .whate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 12:39 AM |
| -1 | Toronto Man pledges allegiance to Incel rebellion and kills 10 people in terrorist attackI was born and raised in TO. I have been living in China for the past 5 years or so and this is just one more reason why I do not intend on coming home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Porn use may not be causing erectile dysfunctionLOL, Better yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricIf you understand it better than me then I guess you are a welfare queen or one of the corrupt legislators or bureaucrats who is part of the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Difference between dad jokes and mom jokes and what it means for reactions to age between GendersLet's wait and see. The problem with a lot of pill theories is that they are only falsifiably over a lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricYou and your ilk have proved to be impervious to facts and logic so I don't bother cluttering up the bandwith with such miscellany given that we have made the same arguments again and again and again for the past decade or more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of being seen as mega beta bucks- how to avoid?Cut your calorie intake. Take a caffeine hit in the morning (coffee or Diet Coke) but keep your macros - fat, carbs and protein - high enough that you don't burn out during a shift. If in doubt, favour protein. Have some low density snacks available during the day such as celery sticks or a salad with lettuce or bean sprouts. OTOH, keep a Gatorade handy in case you feel like you are slowing down. "about 20 pounds over weight. I'm 5'11" By BMI standards (endorsed by the WHO and CDC, but you - as … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Porn use may not be causing erectile dysfunctionWishful thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Porn use may not be causing erectile dysfunctionSo what, like half the America population? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricIf it benefits men at all, that will be an unforseen outcome resting on a conservative judiciary who reads ostensibly gender or race neutral legislation in that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricUnfortunately, your assertions (and you have many others outside of this debate u/storffish) simply don't jibe with facts and reality and all that inconvenient stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricI'm more of a classic conservative so sometimes I get into it with TRPers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricIt is a side issue generated by the comment that preceded. You are kind of noob as to how things flow here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricI will try, but apparently, you can't read. Women want men to pay for their abortions and contraception through government mandated and taxpayer funded health insurance. That falls disproportionately on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricWell duh. But here And it is women who would rather cut their income to get more government goodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricYou can google better than I can but "Clinton's Wage Gap Paycheck Fairness Act". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Difference between dad jokes and mom jokes and what it means for reactions to age between GendersIt could look that way to the outside but given that I have known him for 35+ years, it is a bit more complicated. She had her own success but she was not putting anyting into the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricAnd you are free to believe that but it won't fly in TRP. I guess part of it is the concept of whether the government is effective, efficient or even necessary. A LOT of Red Pillers are Alt-Right or Libertarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 02:14 AM |
| 2 | #MeToo is a Workers’ Rights issue and NOT “Buyers Remorse”willingly participated in sex with superiors You have to distinguish between "chain of command" superiors and socio-economic superiors. Within an existing structure, bosses should not be sleeping with subordinates. Feminists have their own view of why this is wrong but TRP simply says "don't shit where you eat". Jian Ghomeshi and Harvey Weinstein didn't have any pre-existing employment relationship with their accusers. The latter wanted a) the rush of being with a famous or powerful man or b) be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricIt favours single parent families and those are overwhelmingly single mothers who are in that situation due to their own choices and actions, plus the tendency of the state to give custody to the mother when the parents split or were never a couple in the first place. If men could - with 85% certainty - knock up a woman and then forcibly take the child and live on welfare, you might see some gender balance in the welfare rolls/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentrichttps://www.slayerment.com/my-body-my-choice-your-tax-dollars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 01:08 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricMRAs are part of the manosphere but they are shunned by Red Pillers because the tenents of the latter include accepting reality as it is and working within it (which are also some core concepts of Stoicism) rather than trying to have the government solve all your problems (a distinctly female/feminist way of going about things). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 01:07 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricBut the feminist talking points have been proven false many times but feminists simply ignore evidence and logic in favour of their continued narrative. The "wage gap" is a complete myth (actually, more of a legend as it has a kernel of truth blown all out of proportion so as to make a good story) but the Democrats in the USA are still looking at passing more nation-wide laws to address it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 01:03 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Human society isn't really gynocentricI'm a Canadian ex-pat but I used to look at all sorts of studies. IIR, there was a weird DV issue in the Aboriginal community where guys were getting killed by their female partners. But overall, the murder rate in the Aborignial community is a lot higher than in the rest of Canadian society. It is mostly them killing each other. If you have the time and otherwise don't believe me, do a linear regression of homicide rates and percentage of the population that is Aboriginal for the 13 provinces a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Difference between dad jokes and mom jokes and what it means for reactions to age between GendersI was in the army reserves and only saw that once: colleague in his early 30s showing me pictures of his 18 year old Vietnamese fiance. Not sure how that turned out. Apparently lawyers do it a lot. In law school they had the "Asian Law Club" which ostensibly studied Asian law to compare and contrast with the Common Law and Civil Law. In reality, it seemed to be a club for guys who scored an Asian wife while studying or working overseas prior to coming to law school. Later when I was practicing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Difference between dad jokes and mom jokes and what it means for reactions to age between GendersWho? Me or him? In either case you are wrong and probably using a TRP term that you picked up but in an incorrect way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How important is having a good bod when it comes to picking up women?TRP strikes as the centre of mass and does not account for fetishes. There is a tipping point where muscles and low BF% simply won't win you the day, and this is more true (not particularly true) of women with IQs of 120+. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How important is having a good bod when it comes to picking up women?The three truths are: looks, game and status. I have to dig back, but 12% body fat is the apex of the desireabiity curve. That is based on only female observation. I don't know of any studies that add the extra dimension of BMI vs BF%. Nor anything that differentiates the preferences of women as they age. So here is my hypothesis: Young girls like low BF%, low BMI guys (Bradd Pitt in Fight Club at about 8% and maybe 22BMI) while older women give way to heavier-set guys with BMIs as high as 27 an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 01:39 PM |
| 5 | To what extend is BDSM a compensation for a lack of submission and dominance in everyday interactions?I didn't really see that. I use the past tense because I spent several years back in the day in the BDSM scene. Perhaps it depends on how you word it but "I want a submissive girfriend" is a line that will draw all sorts of fire in most industrialized countries. Outside of particular social groups, saying "I'm into BDSM" is not cool, which is why you hold your cards close to your chest even moreso than guys who are very TRP. It depends on your subculture, and there are many perceptual biases the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 01:14 PM |
| 4 | To what extend is BDSM a compensation for a lack of submission and dominance in everyday interactions?It goes all sideways. The standing meme is that powerful men - politicians, business types, even religious leaders - get their rocks off by having women abuse them and tell them what pieces of shit they are. For women, it is different but still there was an inverse correlation between their professional and social lives and their boudoir behavior. It seems that the corporate bitch that you are dating will cross swords with you about so many things but they will go in for some nasty stuff once yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Difference between dad jokes and mom jokes and what it means for reactions to age between GendersBy definition, your mom and grandma locked down a guy and had kids. Take your father and grandfather out of the equation and those women are left being cat ladies sharing their pets' kibble. Put the men, as mature adults and provider instincts and abilities back into the equation, and it is a whole different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Difference between dad jokes and mom jokes and what it means for reactions to age between GendersSingle older men that can get laid, don't do shit like this. They are too happy. This seems so true. A buddy of mine got into a 12 year relationship, so about mid 20s to late 30s. He was an entrepreneur who finally made it. He says to me "I have everything I ever wanted, but I am so lonely now." So he dumps his woman pays her $15k as a parting bonus and to simply GTFO (they were arguably common law but I guess he dodged that bullet), bought a muscle car, got a tattoo, and grabbed a girlfriend ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How important is physical fitness for you compared to economic success in a man?I guess the flip side is to ask just how soul destroying it is for single women to face the fact that guys (not unlike me) date girls with BMIs of 19 to 21, and that is it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 07:22 AM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: What specific measures would it take for the average redpiller to feel TRP works and they are successful? (The lifespan of a successful redpiller)The thing is, I didn't find TRP until 2016 but I had been dealing with women since 1985 (and arguably before). TRP gave me a few tweaks but otherwise it was largely in accord with my personal experiences, theories and conclusions amassed over 30+ years of dealing with women and life in general. If somehow, TRP was available to me at age 16, things would have turned out MUCH different because I would not have had to learn through trial and error. It's purely speculative fiction as to whether I co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry is dead, And Women Killed ItWhat does any of this have to do with "chivalry"? Men and Comfort: I am ex-military and our motto was "home is where you dig it". I spent more nights than I can recall in a 6-foot tench or "hooch". However, the middle class ideal of a detached house with a white picket fence was not some feminist conspiracy imposed on men. Men want a sense that something is "mine" (my porch, my yard, my swimming pool, my rec room, my comfy chair that I sit in to drink beer and watch NFL). Men like comfort and a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.I don't know that you can elevate TRP to being a "philosophy" although there are philosophical aspects to it. I suppose to you, over a million years of lived life experience constitutes "absolutely nothing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.Most women don't want bodybuilders. They want a guy with 12% bodyfat and a BMI of 25, give or take. OTOH, actual bodybuilders are not starved for women as there are enough hot chicks - even if it is only 5% of the total - who fetishize that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.WTF do you want, guys to wear a body cam? Redditers are notorious shitlords. I could post pics of my HB9 girlfriend and it will get hamstered one of two ways 1) she is not actually my GF but rather an IG model I linked to or 2) she isn't a 9 but rather more like a 5. . .maybe a 6 in the right light. The latter tends to come from sour grapes incels as far as I can tell. And you have to keep in mind a few things. One is that simply making the claim is evidence. Second is that proof doesn't mean an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.Median 6 or 7. Statistical mean is more like 8 to 10 because of the outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.The "average" man is a bit of a nebulous concept. The actual average guy in America is 5'9" or 5'10", just shy of 200 pounds and something like 25% body fat. He has an IQ of just over 100 and makes about $45k a year. He lost his virginity in his late teens, has had 1 sex partner in the last year, and by his mid-40s will have a lifetime n-count of 6 or 7 (doing the math, that is a new girl every 4 or 5 years). A modest application of TRP and that guy can get down to a beefy 180 with 12%-15% BF, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 11:21 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP can improve a guy relatively, but it cannot make an average man into a chad.My karate sensei said "Perfection is not a destination; it is a direction." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Military Strategy (21 April 2018)But did Iraq have a Micky D's? That's the real question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Military Strategy (21 April 2018)Everything in war is very simple, but the simplest thing is difficult. I am Canadian and have been though winter warfare training. At 30 below, the simplest thing is MoFo difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Military Strategy (21 April 2018)Fast games are nice because they become more about strategy and shallow tactics. Like I said, my strategy was canned openings: Ruy Lopez, Italian Game, Reti opening etc. (I had to look up the names because it has been so long). Then I would switch to exchange and simplify to unclutter the board, and then run his ass all over the board with my queen or a pair of whatevers (bishops, knights or rooks). It was all about fucking with their equilibrium until they made a fatal error or you just ran the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 02:59 PM |
| 4 | How does every person on TRP mingle with HB 7+ women when most people are average?We are goal-oriented. If you only hit on HB7+ girls then you end up dating only HB7+ girls although you sacrifice quantity for quality. The other thing is that TRP has a few prominent age bands. College kids are, by and large, better looking than the rest of the population. That is basically 18 to 22 year olds with a stretch to mid or even late 20s for graduate students and PhD candidates. In the USA, UCLA is notorious for having a sexy student body (pun intended). In Canada the place to be is U… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The male penis is the most hated human body part in western cultures.Scientists have postulated a mechanism that would establish causation. In any event there is no rational, third independent variable to explain it and the causation certainly isn't flowing the other way: resistance to STDs does not cause circumcisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 01:11 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Will women ever understand the feeling of picking up and sleeping with a beautiful woman?Iberia, Liberia, Xanadu or Timbuktu: that's not the North American SMP, nor the Chinese, nor the Australian, nor anywhere else I have been. Women will throw off IOIs but the only ones who approach and open are the fat and ugly ones. Good looking women virtually never approach because they don't have to. They might get forward with 9/10 - 10/10 chadly rockstar/brain surgeon/underwear model but that is about it. Again, the exceptions prove the rule and I did have women approaching when I was in fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | The best way for a man to get casual sex/ ONS/ FWB is to maximize SMV and minimize RMVI find that younger women like the low BF% "heroin chic" sort of like Brad Pitt in Fight Club where he was about a buck fifty, BMI 22 and well under 10% BF. Older women, say 30+, probably prefer Achilles where Pitt was closer to 190 (BMI 26-27) and still really lean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Military Strategy (21 April 2018)Canada, USA and Australia combined are almost 3 times the size of China but will less than a third of the population. We have lots of room for cows. Plus, China doesn't really have the right terrain or climate. Chicken and pork are much more common and you chicken breasts or ground pork for a buck or a buck and a half a pound. Ground beef is more like $6 to $8 a pound. A cheap steak dinner at Pizza Hut or something will run you about $8 but a good one is at least $25 or $30, keeping in mind that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 11:00 AM |
| 1 | The male penis is the most hated human body part in western cultures.I'm for not using loaded terms in an otherwise intelligent discussion. In 50 years it has never given me a problem. The research is fairly clear that there is a connection between circumcision and STD infection rates but the exact mechanism isn't known. The foreskin certainly doesn't "catch" more aids or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Military Strategy (21 April 2018)China is the single largest holder of US debt, something well over a trillion dollars. China is the largest net importer of oil, having recently surpassed the USA. Saudi Arabia, Angola, Russia and Oman make up about half of their imports. The Three Gorges Dam is the largest power plant in the world. I think they have a number of other energy mega-projects. Not sure but I think Australia's trade is shifting away from east-west and more to north-south. Here in China, if you want a nice steak dinne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?I'm 5'10", so average. It was 1984. I got a new wave haircut, bought a new wardrobe, and ditched my coke-bottle glasses for contact lenses. I started fronting a rock band and joined the army reserves. Over the course of a few months I packed on about 20 pounds of lean muscle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 06:47 AM |
| 7 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?Single men are more generous than single women in terms of charitable donations but men tend to focus on 1 or 2 pet causes while women tend to give smaller amounts to a more diverse selection. Men are more cooperative a) in single-sex situations (ie. men cooperate with men better than women cooperate with women) b) in larger groups and c) over the long run. Men tend to form hierarchies while women tend to be more egalitarian. Men are more likely to help out strangers and physically assist people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 06:42 AM |
| 10 | [Q4All] Will women ever understand the feeling of picking up and sleeping with a beautiful woman?I suppose "no" for the vast majority of women because they are pursued, not the pursuers. On the other hand, most guys will never know what it is like to have a smart, beautiful woman trying to seduce you. I suspect that women get something of a rush when a good looking, intelligent man who seems to have his shit together is actively trying to woo them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 05:41 AM |
| 2 | "Post-wall women" stay single because they have absurd expectationsCareer women are their own thing. They don't pair up in college or while building a career the decade following graduation. Then at 30-something they start looking for a who is a few years older and makes maybe 20% more than they do, who is relationship-minded and yet hasn't paired up by age 35 or 40. Add in good looks and a personality to their shopping list and that virtually eliminates all the guys. Only 23% of men over age 25 are never married. By age 35, about 60% have tied the not. And whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 05:32 AM |
| 1 | "Post-wall women" stay single because they have absurd expectationsIME hot doctors tend to marry other hot doctors. If they make it to their 30s and are still single and kept in shape then ya, they are dating down 5 to 10 years or more. "You know what? This whole dating thing is a hell of a lot easier on a doctor's salary." ---my friend the (not so hot) ER doc. But setting aside the handsome doctor trope, there can be a few things at play. The most obvious and least flattering is simply that there is something in their personality that isn't attractive enough f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you know any men with unreasonably high standards? If so what are they like?As a group, and with respect to casual sex, men have much lower standards. But ya, the average BMI of American women is 29, 27 in the UK and 24 in France (20.6 in Vietnam, but that is another story). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you know any men with unreasonably high standards? If so what are they like?There are various issues with that but the thing is that women don't prioritize looks as much as men do when you are talking about overall attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you know any men with unreasonably high standards? If so what are they like?In America you have 70% of the population being overweight and 30-40% who are clinically obese. If you want a girl with a BMI between 19 and 22 you have already set the bar at the top 20% or higher, maybe top 10% if your target market is late 20s or older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?Guys who were attractive all the way through their youth can be somewhat tone deaf as to the natural advantages they have. When I was a kid I had more female friends than male friends. Then between ages 8 and 18 was my "awkward phase" and I was basically invisible to girls. Then I re-invented myself and holy shit, I got a lot of attention. That actually turned me off women for a couple of years because it just reinforced how shallow they really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?Thank fuck I moved to China 5+ years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: is it true that women expire at age 25-30? Would you marry a woman who is 34 but childless, low n count, and mentally stable?My wife just turned 34 and we only got married last year. Mind you, she is something of a hobbit (4'11" and 92 pounds) and could easily be mistaken for a teenager. Another friend of mine is pushing 40 but can pass for early 20s. Then again, Asian girls are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:23 AM |
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