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| 5 | Quick Case Study… why not to listen to female’s dating advice (Not an inkel rant)The same reason I wouldn't give women dating advice other than general flirting tips. Although I know in general what attracts me, I have no idea how to teach a woman how to become attractive. I have no idea about clothes, make up, hair products, pussy shaving tools, etc. I may say I don't care about a woman's nails, but the reality is I notice a woman who has a nice manicure vs one who chews her nails and they look like shit. Men always say they want minimal make up on a woman only to see that … | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 58 | I asked this a few months back but how can I keep a woman’s interest?I only ever worried about how they would keep my attention. Focus on yourself and what you want and they will want to stick around and take care of you. Don't worry about them. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with girls losing interest ultra fastThe one you slept with sorry to say but sex sucked for her. If you were any good she'd want a repeat. So you need to practice more. The others who knows? You were probably too needy. That was always my problem. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dude you can't be a geek and hide behind techniques and apps. For fuck sake. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.If women were having the gangbangs every weekend that men on PPD imagine they do, then by sheer probability, these men would get in on some of the action themselves. The reality is, most women are not having the wild sex with multiple partners all the time as men fantasize. The question is why? If you ask most women, they say they just don't meet enough men who arouse them sexually. If a guy being attractive looking is not sufficient to arouse a woman, then something is missing. Men have a diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:05 PM |
| -3 | [deleted by user]Text her everyday, like walls of text, don't go an hour without texting. If you do, women will forget you very quickly because of their female brain that doesn't allow them to remember for more than an hour or so. If you skip texting her, she will find another dick to suck on. But if you keep texting her, you will occupy whatever little brain space she actually has and she won't think about going on Tinder and finding another cock. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ask her if you can join. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:02 PM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]If you are advanced enough you can do anything. But the reality is guys use daygame to actually avoid going to places where women go to meet men. It's part of the self sabotaging mechanism. Choose the method that has the lowest chances of success so you don't actually have to succeed. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?Women have about 5 days a month in which they can get pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Are your answers to "Where can I meet guys" and "where can I meet women" the same? How would your advice differ between the two?Of course it's the same. It also depends on what type of guy/girl you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Straight men, when is it OK for gay men to cold approach you?I'm a man who lives in NYC and has gay friends. I get approached and have been hit on by gay guys. Is it okay? I mean, of course it is okay. Who am I to tell you you can't go for what you want. Just be aware that I won't be interested, but you don't know that I'm not gay until you have spoken to me. As a matter of fact, I admire that fact that someone tried. But there have been some really weird ones. Once, while walking to work a young guy jumped almost out of nowhere, as if he had been stalkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?Actually getting pregnant is not that easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:58 AM |
| 3 | How to become the "bad boy"You are going on the right direction. While some dweeb will show up and say "a woman just needs to put on a pair of shorts and a tank top and every guy will want to fuck her", I need to remind you that women are usually ahead of the game when it comes to social skills, fashion skills, grooming, make up, etc. They have been doing this for years, while a 25 year old nerd has been neglecting his social and grooming skills for....well 25 years. The biggest hurdle to someone being a bit of a bad boy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:56 AM |
| 10 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?Okay okay your advice requires me to go out of my house, preferably in clean my laundered clothes and socialize wjth other human beings. How do I achieve ONS by staying home and playing video games while jerking off to anime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him?Why don't you bring it up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him?Be non-chalant and discuss things honestly and openly. Ask her does she experience orgasms? What are her views on sex? And most importantly, don't push them for sex. Just express who you are and what you want and let them make their decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Not really. You still need to be in control of the interaction, set the stage, take responsibility for everything. A woman needs to feel secure and safe with you, that you are able to take care of business. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Exactly. You have to understand that the techniques and "game" comes from a place of "I'm down here, she's up there, I have to find a way to get her attention and impress her". Basically the old trope of putting her on a pedestal and kissing her ass just in a different way. I use talking to women and engaging with them as a way to test out if I will be interested in going to bed with them not as a way to get them in bed. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:28 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Completely 100% agree! I feel into the pua trap many years ago, not as bad as wearing a top hat and high heels to the club, but I was that guy that had to angle every interaction with a woman to try and get something out of her. One day I realized that it had been literal years since I went out just to enjoy myself and have fun talking to people and not trying to hit on women to get their number or try to get them in bed. I couldn't even remember the last time I was actually genuinely interested… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:03 AM |
| 2 | First Date: Why is it bad to talk about past relationships?I think you should ask. Because if a woman keeps talking about how horrible her exes are and how they are all cheaters or assholes, it tells you something about the one common denominator - her! | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 10:58 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You are thinking about what the woman is thinking. You can't think for two people. People can barely think for themselves nevermind two people. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him?So how would waiting let's say 3 months tell you better that this person might possibly be good at sex as opposed to just....sleeping with them??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 3 | What is a healthy replacement for the "Manosphere"Dr. Robert Glover, Anthony Clark "The Game Dr"., Johnny Soporno, Zan Perrion. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Newbie Question: Why is "Romantic Love" so important in English Speaking countries/cultures when it comes to "dating"?Dude, troubadours didn't have to sing about love to get hot milfs. They just had to strap on their lute, grow their hair out and wear really tight leggings. And here you though Motley Crue invented hair metal and groupies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Question: Why is "Romantic Love" so important in English Speaking countries/cultures when it comes to "dating"?I mean the culture where arranged marriages are predominant is Indian. Honestly, I don't see how Indians would mate otherwise if it weren't for arranged marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Female Hypergamy only works because men let it workToday I learned I'm a hypergamous ho. I hoed around on my youth until I was ready to settle down for a good woman who matches my values and lifestyle. Who knew! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him?Guys just don't get it. If you present yourself as this perfect goody two shoes guy, a woman feels that she has to respond wjth the same. If you are authentic and show her you don't judge her for being slutty or wanting hot sex, she will be much more likely to sleep with you. The gu yes who get laid the most are always the least judgmental guys I know. They enjoy women and they appreciate a woman who's test driven a lot of cocks and knows how to play his dick like a trumpet. They don't judge bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him?How does waiting affect the quality of sex in any way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him?And how do you go about it then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 0 | What do people mean when they say ''Just be confident''?You do not need an exterior basis for confidence. All confidence must be internal. If you are confident because you have a great job, what happens when you lose it? If you are confident because you are muscular, what happens when you get injured and can't go to the gym? Your confidence goes down the toilet. So what is confidence? It's going after what you want without fear and with a reasonable expectation of success. But the most important thing is lack of fear. You award yourself confidence by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You don't need to fake anything. Just don't be super available and cling to women. Walk away first, that kind of thing. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Do women want guys to be confident or what?Firstly be honest with themselves. Are they really up to par looks, dress and social skill wise? I have reviewed mens dating profiles and the ones not getting any matches are always guys who looks like absolute dorks. They all want their anime girl but none of them is willing to dress better and groom better. Many consider buying a well fitting pair of jeans and anything other than a plain white T-shirt a betrayal of their innermost self. Getting a nice haircut and using hair product means they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Do women want guys to be confident or what?It is. You think you should be getting all these women even the average ones, but you are not. Isn't that the core of the problem? You are not being confident by thinking you deserve more than you are getting now. That's delusion. Confidence is when you believe you are worthwhile as you are and you are not hiding yourself behind a nice guy persona. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Do women want guys to be confident or what?Every single guy I have met who struggles with women (including myself when I was young) has the same thought running through their head. "I'm a great guy, I do so many things for women, I have a good job and I am clean and well groomed, why are women not attracted to me? They should be. Why are they attracted to these other jerks?" So you have this entitlement which can be good in the right context but not here. The problem is that you think you should be attractive to women because you are try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleThe cat photo is something I gleaned form watching a female friend of mine trying to date through OLD. The problem with the cat photos is that it was indicative of a larger problem these guys had. Basically all of them were dorks with zero sexual energy. I also posted actual research in another comment that showed women perceive men with photos wjth cats as less masculine, more agreeable and less dateable. That's is "unfuckable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:20 PM |
| 0 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleIf the end goal is to get dates and have sexual choices, then women are winning even with their filtered and group photos. You are losing. It's clear cut. You can cry to your momma about how unfair it is, but unless you do something about your own chances, there you are. I can't understand how that's offensive or revolutionary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleDidn't mean to trigger you so badly. Just trying to bring self awareness to people who are delusional about their attractiveness. Dorky guys thinking they are a 10 and that they deserve some manic pixie girl. It's just sad. There is so much they can do with that, but let's all pretend that delusion is the better choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleYeah and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:25 AM |
| -1 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleIt's your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleI think someone recognized himself in number 9 on the list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 04:50 AM |
| 2 | What Are Some Unconventional Methods Or Places To Find Someone To Date?Stop outside of your house. Go on different routes and explore different areas of your city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 04:50 AM |
| 11 | What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub?As much as is needed to become good at sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the talehttps://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32526856/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 04:42 AM |
| -10 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleYeah they are pretty lame. They basically say "I haven't had sex in years or maybe ever". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | I've been to hell and back and lived to tell the taleAhhh so cute. Another wimminz hater | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 04:30 AM |
| -1 | How to keep it interesting over texts?It's the only way to get through these dorks. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 04:22 AM |
| 6 | How to keep it interesting over texts?Yes, you should be texting women all the time. Big long paragraphs and walls of text. You should never go an hour wjthout interaction with the object of your desire otherwise her female brain will start thinking g about all the dick that she is missing on. See if you don't occupy 100% of a females brain with constant texting, her brain will compel her to get on a dating app and swipe on Chad and sucknhis cock 30 mins later. Plus, women have a very short memory. Like goldfish. So if you are not c… | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 9 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themIt makes all the sense in the world. Women are genetically looking for a partner whose genes will be good for her baby and who will take care of her while pregnant to ensure survival of baby. A male who takes charge and runs the relationship is someone she can rely on when she is in her most vulnerable position (when pregnant). A man like this will also pass his strong genes to their baby and therefore ensure that the bloodline is continued. A woman who picked a weak submissive man who needed di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 12:38 AM |
| 5 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themFound the guy that likes to get pegged everybody. ;) j/k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 12:35 AM |
| -1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Are you saying that women know women better than wanna be male dating experts? Sistah pluuuuueze. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:46 PM |
| -6 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Negative. Everybody knows women don't like sex and make it difficult to get in bed. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls at clubsShow up an hour before closing time looking by fresh and not drunk. Look for girls who are wjth their back towards the bar and scanning the room with a slightly nervous energy. Make eye contact, hold it and then approach thinking this thought over and over and oozing it from my our eyes "Baby, Im going to bang your brains out tonight until they leak out on my pillow". | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it necessary or helpful to turn the conversation sexual when you’re escalating or not?You need to flirt. Flirting is a combination of humor, teasing, being playfully naughty and sexual innuendo. You dial the naughtiness and innuendo up or down depending on the girl and situation. If you want fast sex, dial them up and see how she reacts. If she plays along, she is dtf. If not, she's not thinking about sex wjth you, so bail. If you are interested in dating, a little naughtiness and sexual innuendo is okay to show you are not an eunuch. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Mental purgatory going out soloWatch the whole thing https://youtu.be/izS1TkECG5A | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:51 PM |
| 7 | 3rd date going bowling and dinner any tipsText and say "hey change of plans tonight. Feeling a bit tired so let's watch a movie at my place. I will get the take out you bring a bottle of wine. My address is .....". If she declines you know you never had a chance. If she shows up, she's ready to get down. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]It's all about being a challenge. If you are predictable and easy to get and always available, you are basically boring. And not only that, but basically it means you have no options and therefore your sperm is not in demand and therefore low quality. Guys who have plenty of dating and sexual options are often careless and unavailable because they can afford to lose a girl. Women pick up on that vibe and instinctually they know that a lot of women are chasing after him, therefore his sperm is in… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:47 PM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]Bro we are not going to validate your irrational beliefs that you are a disfigured mouth breather. You need serious psychological help. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:38 PM |
| 148 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Well, emotional connection doesn't mean "we chatted for three weeks before going out on a date and had 15 dates before we made slow, tender love". Emotional connection can be as little as a few minutes of flirting, teasing each other back and forth, have some emotional and sexual tension before jumping in bed on the first date. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys on here are jealous of womenYou want low maintannce sex go fuck men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Guys on here are jealous of womenThat's true. It's also something men don't understand about women. The wind can blow a certain way and we get hard. For them to get aroused so much more is needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s women’s nature to exploit men’s sex drives, they evolved to be this wayThat's why you walkways have to ask a woman if she's experienced orgasms in her life. If she hasn't or it has been rare, her likelihood of being able to manipulate you easier jumps severalfold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Guys on here are jealous of womenI'm jealous that women can experience multiple orgasms, a bunch of different orgasms and are basically orgasm machines. We, men, are like....plop or squirt and we are pretty much done for the night unless we happen to be in a good shape and extremely horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:06 PM |
| 0 | What is the most intimate way someone can show you they care?Swallowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 9 | Why is it a bad deal?Because we've trained women that they should play hard to get if they want to be seen as a good girl and a girl of quality that is relationship material. Because when guys sleep with a woman an hour after meeting her, they wake up and think: "jeez what a stupid slut to sleep with a loser like me so fast. I bet she does that with everybody". And then you wonder why women play hard to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 8 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Honestly I'd be pissed off I wasn't invited to the lesbo party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:31 AM |
| 3 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?Then become a DJ. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:31 PM |
| 6 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?Start a band. That's what I did. Even the ugliest men turns into a sex symbol the second he straps a guitar on his shoulder. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Started a conversation with this girl I find attractive and when I flirt or compliment her she lowers the tone of her voice.Do you mean she says it quietly or her voice gets more bassy? If it is the first, it is a good sign. If it is the second, then it's a bad sign. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]When she sits behind you, turn to her and say "You always sit behind me, are you just checking out my butt?" | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You should answer after looking deep into her eyes "OMG, because your eyes are the exact same color as my brand new Porsche!" | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That's pretty nice! | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Fear is the only thing stopping you from getting laid and getting anything in life really. You can't understand just how turned on women are by men who lack fear, phobias and anxieties | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | What is the point in discussing these issues if there is no solution to them?The solutions are out there if you want them. It's just easier to blame everyone and everything else but yourself. They see too much benefit from being a victim and talking about how unfair the world is. But it's all an illusion. The behavior and mindset is keeping them from getting what they want. Instead of crafting themselves into attractive men who can get dates and girlfriends, it's easier to complain and do nothing. Until they see that this behavior is doing absolutely nothing for them, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 02:25 PM |
| -1 | What is the point in discussing these issues if there is no solution to them?Men here don't actually want solutions to their problems. They benefit too much out of them to give up their way of thinking and behaving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | If a very desperate person finally got into a relationship, what kind of abuse or mistreatment do you think they'd tolerate?Total hogwash. A man's behavior is what makes him an attractive man. What you are seeing is a pro free am installed in you since childhood that tells you you are only allowed to have confidence and self esteem if you have what society wants out of you. In mens case this means a successful male, an athlete, a rock star, etc. in woman's case society values only her looks. Therefore good looking women are allowed to be confident and have self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | What's so wrong with being good enough for sex and not a relationship?Women crave security the way men crave approval. They are taught from an early age to exchange access to their vagina for security, be it a committed relationship, favors of monetary and other value (dinners, fixing her car, helping her get a better job, etc) and the ultimate reward - a ring on her finger. It's a deep seated need, a craving that is stronger than logic. The same way a man values approval by society and is prepared to do anything to gain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | If a very desperate person finally got into a relationship, what kind of abuse or mistreatment do you think they'd tolerate?The behavior is his SMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Need advice/tactics on sleeping with multiple womenCan you summarize what you ranting on about? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | My unpopular opinion about modern dating and equalityLol at they have pussy and so have power. Dumbest thing ever said on these forums and I've read a lot of dumb stuff here. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 04:06 AM |
| -1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsOh yeah, there is no way she liked me for me. It must be because she's a desperate hoe. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Worry less about 'rejection' on cold approachWell IOIs are how women approach. I mean you will very rarely see a girl coMe up to you and say "hey hot stuff, wanna get out of here?". But they will look at you, smile, hover, make an excuse to talk to you, or bend over or forward in your line of sight (yes, a waitress knows that you can see her boobs when she leans over your table). So they have already approached you, you just need to go over and say hi. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That's not what this is about. It's about being able to spot girls who went to the bar or club to get laid. The closer it gets to closing time, the less picky they are (they want to go home wjth a guy and get banged). It's about making it easy and conveying the message that you can indeed get the job done. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 03:08 PM |
| 4 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menKeep talking... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 11 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menIf men are so lonely and not getting sex the who are all these women fucking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Text game - different states of mindGuys overthink messaging on apps. You should not be trying to get to know the woman or ask questions over text. The first few exchanges should be playful teasing and joking around. Otherwise known as flirting. If this goes over well, meaning the woman responds and engages in it and she makes you think "okay, she actually seems interesting and playful", only then do you ask her out. None of your early interactions should be "where are you from, what do you do, where do you live, etc". | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:45 PM |
| 29 | [deleted by user]Once in the past week? Or... | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 12:00 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I've always had harder time getting ugly chicks in bed than the other way around. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Do you think flirting forces attraction in a girl?I would say no. It is also useless to even talk to them, or go outside of your house because it has already been predetermined if women are attracted to you, so why bother. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:02 AM |
| 275 | [deleted by user]Show up to the bar/club an hour before closing time looking well rested and fresh (not drunk). Look at the girls who are with their back to the bar and scanning the room. Make eye contact and if they hold it, think this thought in your head over and over while you are approaching them: "I'm going to fuck your brains out until they leak on my pillow". | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:00 AM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]Completely not true | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | What the One-Child Policy has meant for all the 30-year old men in China nowExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Need advice: how to escape the "fun friend zone"?Lol, why are you "friends" with women you are sexually interested in? And I don't mean friends, because being friends is great, I mean "friends". Meaning you pretend to be their friend cause you want to fuck them? It shows me that you set up the relationship based on a lie and then you blame the woman for overlooking how great and fantastic and stable you are. If you had even half a ball you would express your sexuality and interest in them straight from the beginning so there is no ambiguity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What the One-Child Policy has meant for all the 30-year old men in China nowLol who cares. Killed off all their baby girls and now they are a nation of a fucking sausage farm incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:06 AM |
| 5 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.What if I told you that if you wanted a girlfriend badly enough, you would have found a way to get one? What if I told you that if you really wanted it, you would fix your looks as best as you could. What if I told you that if you really wanted it, you'd find a way to improve your social skills and meet women all around you and even have sex with some of them. What if I told you that the biggest problem sexually unsuccessful men have is that they are just not horny/motivated enough to do what ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:49 AM |
| -1 | If a very desperate person finally got into a relationship, what kind of abuse or mistreatment do you think they'd tolerate?The one thing men don't seem to get is that the lower your tolerance to bullshit from women, the more likely you are to get them easily. The higher your tolerance for bullshit, the less likely you are to get laid or even get into a relationship. The problem is you guys think - okay I want a woman, but I'm desperate, since Im not getting any woman therefore I need to be even more desperate. And so on and so forth. A death spiral, because the more desperate you get, the mess likely you are to attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Improving daygame close rate, any legitimacy here?When I was actively dating, I only needed to do a handful of approaches to get dates. What I do though is not possible for a lot of guys. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?Ugh | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Need advice -- what I did wrong? and if she is interested?Yes that's very bad. Shows you lack confidence. Next time, follow my formula: "Hey, let's go out" "Okay, I would like that" "Does this Thursday at 7 work for you?" "Mmm no, sorry, I am busy, but I can do Friday" "Ok, Friday works. Meet me at 7pm at Cafe Brooklyn. And try not to think about me too much ;)" If she says anything like "hmmm, I don't know yet, I will let you know 15 mins before the date if I can make it", you should reply with....compete silence until she says "but hey, I can definit… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 13 | Need advice -- what I did wrong? and if she is interested?This was terrible. You are acting like she's the one doing you a favor by agreeing to go out with you. You changed your date 4 times before she even got a chance to respond which shows how much you lack confidence in yourself. While she may have been interested initially, she definitely is no longer because you came across as a total excuser. That's why she started acting like she's too busy. Why did you mention the thing about your car? That's so bad. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Daygame vs nightgame and which ends up being the better long-term.To you maybe | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Daygame vs nightgame and which ends up being the better long-term.Attention whores are easy to spot. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:09 PM |
| 0 | What do you advise a young men (18-21) to do?Stop being a fucking pussy and go for what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction?There are two things women want. Safety/protection - which is why they will o for men who are tall, muscular, wealthy, all these are signs of someone being able to make her feel safe. Having a nice 401K and a stable job doesn't make you a good protector. The only thing that does is lack of fear. A man not afraid to express his interest in a woman, not afraid to be honest and not afraid to get rejected will perk up any woman's ears. excitement - this is a combination of being playfully confident … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:00 PM |
| 24 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itMystery Method has always been trash. It works from the assumption that the guy is down here, a nobody, a loser who would be lucky to smell a girls pussy, and the woman is up there, she's hot, she has all kinds of men throwing themselves t her, her life is perfect and all figured out. So all the guy needs to do is to endlessly impress her, display his value and Meg her so he can raise himself to her level. The problem is this assumption is so far from reality it's not even funny. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Could attraction be a negative thingTake responsibility: you let yourself be treated horribly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you advise a young woman (18-21) to do?Have as much sex as possible and become good at it if you want to date a guy like me (but I'm also married, so don't even try). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I have always advocated the direct approach. The problem is that, just like most socially retarded men, you are skipping quite a few steps. Firstly, why would you want to date or have sex with someone you know nothing about? What if she is a bitch, a psycho, a thief, a manipulator? Why would you ask someone out without as much as talking to her to see if she's interesting AND interested. Men are prepared to stick their most prized possession, their dick, into pretty much anything. Would you take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be turned off if a man told you how much he's worth on a first date?I doubt that the said date ever happen other than OPs imaginations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be turned off if a man told you how much he's worth on a first date?Yeah that never happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:19 PM |
| 17 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?The guy who wrote "No More Mr Nice Guy" and who coined the term Nice Guy, Dr. Robert Glover, actually says that he works with a lot of romantically unsuccessful men and by far the biggest problem they have is the lack of social skills. Guys who lock themselves into a routine, wake up, go to work, don't talk to anyone, go home, stop for pizza on the way home, drink or smoke pot, play video games or herk off to porn, sleep and then do it all over again tomorrow. In a situation like this where exac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 5 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?Not really, it's a social construct. A woman is told that if she out of her own volition does whatever she wants, such as sleep with a man shortly after meeting him, because he turns her on, or he is her type, or she is bored and horny, she is no self respect slut. Good girls always get rewarded for their vajayjay, whether through gifts, expensive dates, or even commitment. So to feel like they are not a slut and to make sure the guy they are courting doesn't think of them as a slut, they play h… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Tips on picking up women at a poolDid you just take a swim or are you just happy to see me? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:01 AM |
| -1 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayCause women can't say no. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | For the people who know womanese when a girl says shut up after a tease what does that meanShe is not thinking about sex wjth you. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Anyone Else Think Abundance Mentality is a Complete Crock?Thinking that you only have one or two women in your entire city who are the right person for you and you may never get another chance is the definition of desperation . | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Daygame vs nightgame and which ends up being the better long-term.Where do you think horny girls go to? To your local park or library or to the club where they will have the highest concentration of eligible bachelors? Day game is not an end of itself. Day game is meant for when you go about your day and a charming beauty manages to stop you in your tracks so you have the skill to go and talk to her and get her to go out with you. It's weird to be running around all day hoping you will meet girls this way. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Anyone Else Think Abundance Mentality is a Complete Crock?Desperation makes for a stinky cologne. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 3 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?That's way too many words to say "trying too hard". | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girl flaking on date?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:27 PM |
| 11 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?Women play hard to get because you have trained them to. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?In all my philandering, I've met one girl who had really ridden the cock carousel. Incidentally (not really), she has been the only one to properly give me a deep throat bj. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:26 PM |
| 16 | Do men in general envy women?Honestly, I'm fucking sick of how wimpy and fucking pathetic men are. If you really envy women, you can get that fixed for 10-15K in Thailand. Take a look at those pathetic attitudes, putting yourself down, believing women have all the power and men none, painting men as losers who can't get a fucking date. Take a deep look and ask yourself, if you were a woman, would you want a guy who thinks like this? Would you want a pathetic, low self esteem loser who's already defeated in his mind? Why wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:20 PM |
| 11 | How do people date nowadays?Haven't you heard? People don't date or have sex anymore. They are just born into relationships or part of a Chad's harem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Navigating the platinum ruleHave you tried being normal and just having conversations wjthout trying to get something out of women? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:16 PM |
| -2 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayNo. Do you really think she just found out about her cousins' party. What's the excuse gonna be tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girl flaking on date?So none of this has happened yet? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:14 PM |
| 106 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?All of the things you mentioned are things that are actually you chasing the girl. All of them. To a t. The only way to really get women to chase you is to 1. Know your own value and what you bring to the table and 2. Have zero fear of losing her. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce woman over text, make her horny?Why? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Worry less about 'rejection' on cold approachIt's not approaching that's the problem. It's how you guys do it. You go out for the purpose of getting laid or hitting on women. And by extension you make sex with the woman the prize instead of your enjoyment being the prize. Women sense that desperation and are turned off by it hence why this type of approaching has such low chances of success. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Worry less about 'rejection' on cold approachExplaining why constantly pursuing women and approaching gives off the wrong vibe wjll take too long for me to type out. Men who get laid don't do any of that. Their vibe says "women pursue me". And sure they approach, just not in the desperate pushy way you guys advocate. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 3 | How to seduce woman over text, make her horny?Making her horny over text means you are not fucking her so you are just making excuses for yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:35 AM |
| 0 | Boring questionsLol what are you so panicky about? That a woman will find out you want to sleep with her? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | How to standout to women who have options besides just being very handsomeIgnore her | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:05 AM |
| -4 | How do I pull the type of guy I want?I mean how long do you plan on being a virgin? When your face gets wrinkles and your tits are sagging? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce woman over text, make her horny?What is the purpose of that? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Worry less about 'rejection' on cold approachIt has never been a numbers game. That's a total fallacy. You and those guys you refer to just have no idea what you are doing and what is actually making you so unattractive to women. You'd have better chances of success if you just say at a bar all night and did nothing. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Men have the power to enact change in the dating market. But it’ll never happen.Other men simping makes it this much easier for anyone who has half a ball. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | The reason Women in western culture can have power over men is because Men have no higher purpose than getting laid.What is the higher purpose women are striving for? How to make their ass look like Kim Kardashian or what toxin to inject in their face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USIn a closed system that would be completely impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundWhat? The bodybuilding craze has been around forever since Arnold at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:48 AM |
| 0 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundPeople of PPD say this shot all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundYes, because the best woman gets the one Chad, who can't really get laid himself either and who is also fucking 300 lbs land whales because, well, because he is a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundWell that too because they feel terrible if they don't look like they are being told they should look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundWell judging by how much men are complaining of sexlessness it seems that they haven't changed for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?No, guys would still be too lazy and attached to their nice guy persona to actually change for the better. And by better I don't mean morally more wholesome, meaning being more sexually attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Are you a basic white girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Shows how much self respect you have the way you talk about yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 10:31 PM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Shows how much self respect you have the way you talk about yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundYou put it very eloquently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundHonestly seeing the schlobs around me, I do wish women cared more about how men look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.People who dress like shit? Provide me with examples bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Care to provide any actual examples? Also where did I describe any type of dressing? How man drinks have you had so far today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.What does ok looking mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundYes of course, especially when all men really want is a woman with a fat ass to sit on their face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:01 PM |
| 3 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?You need to learn how to socialize and just be yourself. Go out and talk to people without and agenda and without expectations. Just be normal. With time you will become more calibrated and you will know what women are interested in you. You won't even have to try with them. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Why do you, romantic men want romance in lifeWell women always say it's not about how you look but about how you make them feel. Well, I want women to make me feel a certain way as well and romance is the game of me showing her that I can protect her and take care of her. Her job in this dance is to be swept off her feet and onto her knees, back, or doggy positions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 0 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?You are not trying hard enough to get girls to like you. You have to be more of a simp and pretend even harder that you are a cool guy. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:14 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]When were you planning on asking her out? At that rate when she's 60 and her tits are sagging? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundMaybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundWell to get girls you actually have to leave your house and socialize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundGirls always omit the part....we do it yo compete with other women....so we can stand out to the hot guy we really want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I take a girl who I know for less than a month to a UFC event?Many women get turned on by violence. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 15 | [deleted by user]Extremely important. But they need to be thin enough for me to rip them wjth my teeth. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Owen Cook (Tyler RSD) infieldWhy would you want to emulate a psychopath? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:26 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Lol wtf does it matter it just signals your lack of confidence to even have to ask. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I just give up?And he matched 4 times, 4 fucking times!!! With her and never asked her out! | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Oh wow funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:36 PM |
| 0 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.There you go. Men haven't changed since the ancient Greeks while women change every few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundDude who are the biggest action starts of the 80s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 0 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Have men's body standards changed since the 80s? Tall dark and handsome has always been a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundYeah but why? What's the motivation behind it if not to get attention from men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Should I just give up?Wow just when I think guys can't get any more desperate and have any less respect some poster manages to surprise me. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:56 PM |
| 16 | Little silly but doesn’t anyone have any tips on being better at making out/kissing?Practice wjth your sister. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:55 PM |
| -1 | Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation?Ask her if she knows what women in your city put behind their ears to attract men? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:54 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Well the answer is depends on what your goal is. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:54 PM |
| -5 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundShe would be virtually dissed for not having an ass and being a white blonde. That's like being a basic bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundI do not disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 05:44 PM |
| -1 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundIt's not just fashion. It's the body esthetic too. That's what you are all ignoring. Mens vkdy esthetic has not changed much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Women control how men act in datingWomen don't control you. You may let yourself be controlled but they don't control you. Saying they do is abdicating responsibility for yourself and your behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Yeah they did look bad. They looked like dorks. Why would any woman want to fuck that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Threesome | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]MFM | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoAs opposed to you tolerating BS and still getting one date every two years? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Every guy I've spoken to online who complains about not getting matches and attention from women has always 100% looked and dressed like shit. Women go out and spend hundreds just to buy a pair of shoes and these mofos can't even be bothered to wear shoes that don't look they were passed down to them by their great great grandfather. If you can't step up your looks game, you only have yourself to blame. Or on another note, few months ago there was a men & women of PurplePullDebate photo thread a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]And you still haven't had sex with any of them. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?As a girl friend of mine recently put it, there are two types of guys out there. The nerds who are afraid of their own shadows and the guys who are not afraid and know they are in demand so they get to act like assholes. These are the "choices" most women have. If I were to take an educated guess, 99.99% if the male audience of this sub falls into the first category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:39 PM |
| 3 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?The difference is that the women who complain can cruelly get men sexually interested in them while the opposite is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:34 PM |
| 7 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillI guess I don't get t the red pill rhetoric. I just can't identify. I lost my virginity in my teens, I had fun and lots of casual and relationship sex. Sure, there were points in my life where I struggled with women, but I've also been with enough women to know that the cock carousel thing is completely overblown. Mostly it's just vagina envy from sexually frustrated guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:36 AM |
| 3 | FWB: How to maintain it / General AdviceMake sure she orgasms. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:00 AM |
| 2 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Your dating success will be largely limited by your own neuroticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:28 AM |
| 4 | Women control how men act in datingThat's a lot of words for saying "I don't want to take responsibility for my own sex life" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z is alot more ruthless about baldingDo you have any tangible proof or are you just talking out of your behind! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 5 | A man's high body count results in a better sexual experience for women, but a woman's high body count results in a worse sexual experience for men.Pussies are made of muscle. So just like the bodybuilder in the gym who is curling iron doesn't have flabby muscles, so does not a woman who has a lot of experience having sex. If anything her pussy muscles get stronger and more controllable. And any man who has had sex with a woman knows that the more sex women have, the more relaxed and confident they get and the easier they orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea for Woman looking for a committed relationship to get dating advice from their married male friends?I think it's a great idea but let me tell you something. No woman has ever taken my advice and the ones I've given my advice to are still a bunch of miserable b*****s who can't keep a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Men dont have much to offer in datingI agree with you 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 3 | How to initiate a sexual interaction with a woman (Need advice)I know you are not going to do any of this because you are afraid of being honest. And because you are afraid, you will never get girls with ease. You either face your fears and find out they are completely made up, or keep trying to avoid the thing you fear by faking it and never making it. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?To set up the date yea | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Direct approach -- Do you go for if there's no eye contact (and didn't catch her looking at you)?Yeah, all the time. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate a sexual interaction with a woman (Need advice)Find a woman and tell her everything exactly as you told us. Tell her you just pretend to be a playboy because you feel afraid and insecure that she might think the opposite, but at the same time you are not in the mental space for an exclusive relationship. Say you just want a girl to explore your mutual sexual fantasies wjth | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Flowers are always a good idea. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Direct approach -- Do you go for if there's no eye contact (and didn't catch her looking at you)?I'm a lazy guy so when I was dating I'd approach girls who approached me first. But don't let that stop you from approaching someone with no signals. You just have to do it like you are choosing her and your opener is just stating the reason you chose her. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Yeah using drugs to hide from your fears is absolutely always the right answer. It has never not worked for anyone ever. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Yes absolutely...if you want her to flake on you and think you are no life loser. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 25 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnLol I don't want to be part of a club that would have me as a member. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Questions on abundance mentalityAnd what would you do if she did come back? | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Questions on abundance mentalityThat's BS. You are still clutching to the fear. Abundance mentality is not a technique to get a woman interested after you've fucked up. It's a way of life. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Let's see. They advocate never being honest, pretending that you are some super cool guy with an amazing lifestyle because you dress in a tophat and a monocle. They advocate telling stories about how amazingly cool you are although they are all made up. They promise a woman that they care for her and they will be there for her the morning after, only to run away like a cockroach at the first sign of light. They have a hundred different manipulation techniques for this and that. That's what conme… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:46 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]None of these are the right answers. If I were you, I'd be extremely offended and tell her. Ask her who does she think you are. Why would she ask you a question like this, that you feel hurt and offended and for her to take it back. You want women apologizing to you. Once they have apologized to you 10 times (for different things), then you've got them for sure. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How much effort in daygame?I put zero effort. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Questions on abundance mentalityHoping she gets back is actually the opposite of abundance mentality. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:39 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Well, PUA may sound good to you, but in reality it is the same as being a conman except in the sexual arena. It's about guys learning how to gain a woman's confidence and offer her something they have no intention on delivering in exchange for something of value (her sex). | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:38 PM |
| 12 | Spam approaches don't work personallyI have no idea who came up with the retarded idea that "hey sweet cheeks, can I get your number" is a valid approach. If I saw someone do this in public I'd slap them. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]https://youtu.be/Zdwg7BgEb_E | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Height is a killer for collegeSpeak for yourself. Lived in A'dam for 2.5 years and women would constantly check me out and eyerape me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:24 PM |
| 36 | [deleted by user]It's not your fault. Society has brainwashed you to constantly sabotage yourself with excuses. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You didn't ask for help. You asked if others have a similar experience because you want to have your irrational phobias validated. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Your brain will keep sabotaging you because it doesn't want you to succeed. There is no reason to get drunk like a skunk in order to meet women. As a matter of fact it makes you an impotent joke, high water intake or not. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:52 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I do t really understand what you asked that one girl dancing. Sounded pretty socially retarded to be honest. But anyway, your problem is super common especially with guys who are in the "community". Community guys make several assumptions from which they operate out of which also get themselves shot in the foot. Every community guy approaches a situation like this "wow gorgeous sexy girl, she must be able to get any man she wants, her life must be so great and easy and she has it all figured ou… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Recommended therapy to help me?Cognitive behavior therapy, David Burns. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 0 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”You have no fucking idea what direct approaching is. Go lurk in the shadows where you belong. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lol no. You are just too full of phobias and anxieties to approach a woman like a normal guy and not some drunk loser, like 99.9999% of men out there. Work to face and overcome your fear instead of drinking yourself to an early death. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 3 | What if I just said this? Would it work?Not if you do it in such an excuser way. That's like one step above pretending to be a friend. A step in the right direction but barely an improvement. What's the point of asking her if she has a boyfriend? If she's out at a bar socializing with men, she is not taken. If she were my go friend she most certainly wouldn't be out late at bars talking to other men. Get it? Instead of asking her if she had a boyfriend give her a compliment. Tell her you like her and find her very attractive. Instead … | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:33 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]It's funny to me that you are the biggest obstacle to you getting laid. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Awww womp womp | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 6 | I want to hook up with women who aren't just in my niche. How can I do that? Where can I go? (5'6", 25M)Yeah, sorry bro but you look and dress like shit. Instead of finding excuses for why you are not doing hat you need to do, go and get a stylish haircut from an expensive place that hires good looking women. Spend $50+ on a haircut not including hair product. Get a trimmer to keep your facial hair nicely trimmed. Go to a department store and hire a personal shopper to help you pick out sexy stylish clothes. Buy several outfits. Hire a personal shopper or a stylist who is a young attractive woman … | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:16 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]I have told this story several times, but I'm an old school guy. Got into seduction back in 2000's when it was just a single online forum for guys exchanging pick up lines and places to meet women. As time went by and the community grew, you started getting all kinds of weirdos including Mystery and his ilk of virgin nerds. Those guys popularized going out for the purpose of picking up women. A little know secret is that mystery could never get any girls. He got a bunch of phone numbers but girl… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:12 AM |
| 34 | The instant you show a girl too much interest, she plays hardOne thing guys need to understand. The second a woman figures out she's "gotten" you, meaning there is nothing she can do for you to lose interest because you are in hook, line and sinker, she will immediately lose interest in you. You are no longer a challenge or someone she has to win over by pursuing you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Ive (27M) Been with my gf(24f) for 5 years but cant stop thinking about other girlsIt doesn't get better. Source: married for 7+ years. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 3 | How do you avoid girls who just want another male orbiter?Another example of a guy shooting himself in the foot and blaming women for it. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to /deal with girls you know who seem interested in person but always flake on dates?Lol, I love guys who post stories like "this girl flaked on me three times, but I'm sure it's because she doesn't want to feel like a slut. Should I ask her out a fourth time? I think this time will be different?" If you are willing to tolerate so much bullshit you only have yourself to blame that no woman respects you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | I want to hook up with women who aren't just in my niche. How can I do that? Where can I go? (5'6", 25M)Are the photos on your profile representative or how you look today? | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:57 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Don't offer relationships, don't offer being a perfect goody two shoes boyfriend. Every time a guy does that, girls are conditioned to put on their "good girl" facade and the first thing they do is withhold sex "so he takes me seriously". It's the most retarded thing in the world but men perpetuate it (by saying stuff like "she hooked up wjth me at a party a hour after meeting me, so you know she is just a slut") as well as women. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How to stop feeling undateable and unfuckable?Why are you creating problems that don't exist? | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you go solo at bars when everyone is in their friend group and you're the awkward outsider?Never go out early in the night. For greatest and easiest success go an hour or two before closing time. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 3 | I Need Some Help.Wtf are you waiting for? The second coming of Jesus? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:28 PM |
| -6 | Height is a killer for collegeYou are right! Thank god I'm 5'11". Lol | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Guys, I think fucked up...OP is not horny enough otherwise he would have done something. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 03:10 PM |
| 4 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsIf you have a high tolerance for BS you should try as hard as possible to get them on a date. I for example, have an extremely low tolerance for BS which is why a woman gets only one chance with me. I like being pursued rather than pursuing. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What's the truth on older women (not cougars), and how to tell what they want?Nobody knows what women want the least of all men. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | How do guys end up sleeping with women they’re friends with or have known for a long time?I don't know cause I've never waited around for years just to smell someone's pussy. But I reckon they get drunk one night and the girl feels horny or bored or whatever and they do it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:22 AM |
| 9 | Guys, I think fucked up...You are just not horny enough. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | What're examples of light flirting that 'RR suitable for first dates?Oh god lame. Just grill her with questions. Find out everything you can about her. The flirting should always be framed as you accusing her of hitting on you. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 11:57 PM |
| 8 | how to approach a girl in a bus?How has sitting there and scratching your balls worked out for you so far? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.As long as you don't turn into a pathetic loser talking about your lack of self esteem and PTSD from not having skim milk for your latte this morning. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 11:54 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Facepalm | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:21 PM |
| -1 | Dancing approaches in clubs/barsYour problem is summed up in the sentence "WITHOUT being a creep" | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?Absolutely not! They are smiling because they don't want to be raped by you and are secretly dialing the police on their phone. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to pick someone up in Napoli?Nope. All Neapolitans procreated through immaculate conception. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]So what's the problem if you have so many matches? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 4 | I am going to travel europe and help guys for free with daygame. Should I visit you?Oh god | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Met girl at meetup event, how to proceed with textYou couldn't even refute what I pointed out. I'm trying to help but you have too many excuses. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:47 PM |
| 3 | is your goal one woman or multiple?Now I see why so many guys have problems with women.0 | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:31 PM |
| -2 | Met girl at meetup event, how to proceed with textIt sounds like you totally excused yourself because we all know you are not interested in learning her language or hanging out for fun. She knows you are an excuser and is probably not all that interested. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Met girl at meetup event, how to proceed with textIt sounds like you totally excused yourself because we all know you are not interested in learning her language or hanging out for fun. She knows you are an excuser and is probably not all that interested. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you expect us to take your word for it? Pics or it didn't happen Mr Dr. handsomeman | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | An annoying fact I've discoveredThank god, more for me. Well not for me, me, because I'm married, but for the metaphorical "me" that isn't you. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:53 AM |
| 11 | When you can tell a girl is watching you without lookingIt means you are weird creep and they are calling the FBI while keeping an eye on you. Expect a knock on your door any minute now. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:49 PM |
| -11 | Wings NYCNo, but now that I know you will be there I will go and take videos of you and post them here so you can be publicly shamed. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How to text for date with dominance while implying your fine with it not happening?Let's go out | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them?First you need to define what is a "nice guy". There is a lot of resistance to the idea that nice guys don't get laid because most guys find nice guy behavior beneficial to them. Being a nice guy does get you results. Sure, maybe only a first date, and a friendzone relationship with a woman but it does get you something. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | She wants to hang out in the morningI am young heart what can I say. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 04:13 PM |
| -2 | She wants to hang out in the morningBecause morning dates are not romantic. He wants to establish the frame of the relationship and as such shouldn't be agreeing to a morning date. He can say no to her available too. You guys are so used to women calling all the shots that you can't even bring yourself to say no to a woman. Jeez, how manly. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:36 PM |
| -4 | She wants to hang out in the morningThen you walk away. Stop settling for pussy scraps. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:28 PM |
| -3 | She wants to hang out in the morningYou can't say that you've been working on yourself and now you have confidence and then go and squander it by doing something you don't want to do. She is fully in control of the interaction here and you are just following like a good obedient puppy. Text her back and say "no, evenings are more romantic ;)" | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:01 PM |
| 3 | I am not only sweet ! how to change perception?Skank it up bitch. Dress slutty, put on red lipstick and high heels. Wear a butt plug at work. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:02 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]What is your objective here? Because I fail to see what you are trying to achieve. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Rejection gets me down!Okie dokie then | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:59 AM |
| 60 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Nothing different than us talking trash about some unattractive girl. Sorry it happened to you. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Rejection gets me down!Why isn't Tinder working for you? Do you look and dress like shit? Post your profile so we can give you tips or dm me | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:56 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You have to decide what it is that you want. What is your goal, what do you want to meet women for, etc. you need to be as specific as possible. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Rejection gets me down!It just means you are doing something wrong and/or you are picking the wrong women to approach. If you are a newbie, I would highly suggest you start with a socially approved place to meet women such as a bar or a club instead of normal everyday situations. While I admire your courage if you approached during the day, it is like playing the game on God mode. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:49 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Or desperate. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | First I approach, flirt , how do I escalate to a date?Tell them you can talk more about later and to shoot you a text. If they say, I don't have your number, be like "oh yeah of course, here is my card". | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 6 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?Why is this unethical? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:11 AM |
| -8 | [deleted by user]Honestly women are so rare. I mean only every second person on earth has a vagina. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 0 | will withdrawing from touch be beneficial?I think this sub teaches guys to be way too aggressive wjth touch, push pull, teasing and all this crap. That's total scarcity mentality that unless you are all over the girl and touching her and texting her all the time, she will trip on the first Chad dick that comes along. Read any romance novel and you will notice that the formula is always girl meets boy, boy ignores girl or is rude to her, girl can't stop thinking about boy although she is disgusted by him, boy and girl run into each other… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What is good sex?Make sure you work those pussy muscles so you can play me like a trumpet. Throw some rimming, deep throating and being okay with being spanked and submissive and you are a winner in my book. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:50 PM |
| -4 | What's your go to opener for approaching a girl on the street?Wanna fuk? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Lost interest on second day of texting. Now no reply. How to figure out what I did wrong?Sure dm me | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?Do a cost benefit analysis. You need to understand why you are holding on to the self defeating behavior. It is important to do this about the belief that "my self esteem/worth is attached to whether women view me as sexually attractive" and not about women being sexually attracted to you. There is nothing negative about approval from the opposite sex. But there are negative aspects of staking your self worth on their approval. Get it? You need to bring into conscious awareness the resistance yo… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:10 PM |
| -1 | How to not let rejection bother you?I mean I offered you a solution but it seems you can be bothered to try it out. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 2 | How to not let rejection bother you?Do a cost benefit analysis and weigh which side is more important to you. Perhaps you benefit more from holding on to this belief. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What made you fall in love?What do you mean did she hold on? You mean did she refuse to have sex? Of course not. We had a very healthy sex life. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | What do women find hotter, fireman or EMT?Always fireman of course. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]My opinion? You were ahead of the game and then sent this text which is so lame and full of excuses. You obviously want this to be a date and you want to express your interest in her, instead you decided to excuse yourself and say Hey I'm wondering if maybe, but feel free to say no, no strings attached, it's not a date, look you are probably not interested, but if you have absolutely nothing else to do, would you be okay if you have some ice cream with me? Yea I know you didn't say all these wor… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 02:25 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]I'm a foreigner. There are no dating rules. That's just a social construct and I actually strongly suggest you do not follow any such rules but rather make up your own. The key think in the US and what I hear from women everywhere (including Western Europe) is that men are absolutely terrified. They are scared to approach women, they are scared to compliment, and if they do hook up with a woman they are scared to be a bit on the rougher side when it comes to sex. Then you have the assholes who a… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 02:18 PM |
| 9 | What made you fall in love?I mean yes I was having sex wjth the others, but that's was just my thing. I didn't rub it in her face or anything. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 25 | What made you fall in love?My wife before she was my wife gave me all the rope to hang myself with. She didn't pressure me, ask me what are we, etc. I was honest with her at the time that we weren't exclusive and I was dating two other girls at the time. But eventually the lack of pressure and her being smart and feeding me well and giving me space is what made me fall for her. Most women go the exact opposite way. They pressure e a guy, ask him what are we, smother him until he either caves in reluctantly and unhappily o… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | rejected twice tonight . how do I not take it personally?It sounds like you have low self esteem and confidence. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 11:41 AM |
| 10 | How to not let rejection bother you?Well you are making some assumptions that are actually incorrect and hurting you. See, men desire approval the same way women desire security. Women will marry rich or go out with someone they don't really like because he can provide for their security. They are terrified of providing their own security and being able to take care of themselves. Hence the phenomenon of young women marrying old rich guys just to bang the pool boy behind their back. Men crave approval the same way. We need to be a… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Getting mix signals from cold approachIt seems that you need to do some deshying exercises first. My advice is to drive two towns over or even go to another college campus and just spend a couple of days talking to random people. Even do full disclosure that you are a very shy person, have always been and you recently decided that now that you are going to college, you will get over your shyness. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Need help keeping women.Do you know what you want? What do you want? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Need help keeping women.Chances are you are getting too needy. Do you start daydreaming about a relationship with them and date #107? Do you use too much PDA, are you overly responsive? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 9 | How should a woman make herself available for a guy to make a move?Get him alone. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | When do you tell a girl you like her?Within the first second. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Nothing else mattersActually the cause of your failure is making women your goal and adventure in life. Actually women don't want that. They desperately want to attach themselves to a man who leads a complete and compelling life. You are not the at guy. You guys don't understand that women are a nice bonus to a life lived with purpose and direction. They are icing on the cake. But if you hate the rest of your life why would they want to be with you? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | I really just want a LTR and family with a high value woman, what can I do over the next few years to make myself into a high value man?I've had at least 3 women in my life who wanted to marry me. Maybe more that didn't really tell me. What do I do differently than other males? I decide what I want and I go out and do it. I don't stop to try and figure out what a woman wants so I can give it to her so that maybe she can figure out what I want and give it to me. I was always on a mission. When I was on a mission to get settled down with girl, I went out and interviewed candidates. I knew what I wanted and picked the one that came… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Apply The Law of Attraction - And You Will See Yourself Taking The ReignsOk Toby robins | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:16 PM |
| 39 | [deleted by user]You have to go for women either in their 20s or 40s. The 30s are a weird place for women and there is a mad dash to secure a hubby and procreate and you don't want the drama. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I need advice 😂Exactly! | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet women in early 20s? Should I give up?Drones are for geeks my ninja | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Is sensitivity/anima a turnoff to most women?Basically a hooker with a penis? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You probably look like shit, dress like shit and take photos like shit. Post your profile here or in DM and will critique. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well, instead of making out in a bar or at a party, tell a girl, hey let's take a walk, I want to breathe some fresh air. Then when you are outside and it's a beautiful night with stars, you can stop and kiss her. This way she will think it was meant to be and the stars aligned. Every other guy is trying to make out with her in the bar and make her look like a slut in front of everybody. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]In my opinion, turning women on in the bar/club is the wrong tactic. You need to be patient. Instead of rushing to no, take your time to yes. Be a bit more mysterious and hard to get. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | How can I improve? Sick of girls giving me no attention and hanging me out to dryHave you tried ignoring women? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Does it seem like nightlife venues such bars and clubs have lately become more and more like sausage fests? Are women not going out as often any more?Has it occurred to you that women can be socially retarded as well? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Act decisive and confident? That's so unfair to men. How lazyphobic of you. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:54 AM |
| 2 | I need advice 😂As always this sub presents you with one of two choice: do nothing or hit on her and ask for her number. How about a third choice? Just talk to her like a normal human wjthout trying to "game" her, display your high value maleness, or in general want anything from her. Just say hi I'm Bob, what's your name. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:51 AM |
| 4 | “I bet that you can’t fuck that girl.”Treating other people like objects of some sick game between you and your friends is just a terrific idea. I don't see anything dehumanizing ik it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Whats the proper way to pull back from texting, so as to not "overtext" all day and keep her interested? Shall I say I'm busy right now and will reach out later in the evening?Only excusers need excuses | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:34 AM |
| -1 | Asking a date to have sex / come to my placeI interrogate my dates like they are at an interview. I want to know everything about them including if they have orgasms and what they like in bed. But I also know if they have a bunch of single girlfriends who will try to keep the single, I know what their relationship with their family is like, what they do for work, where they went to school. Etc. I kick the tires and run them through the mill. But I ask questions that matter to me. I want to know that she's not a drug addict/party girl, I w… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:33 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ask them if they have had orgasms before. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ?Of course. Your brain is trying to sabotage you by making you think that a woman will be turned off, while in reality she wants to compete even harder for you because she sees other women interested in you. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Right, because women never obsess over the guy who doesn't return their texts or calls. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Why getting a better body gets you attention?It's not the working out as much as the raise in testosterone. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:43 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I mean you wrote "DND" and "ladies" in the same post. What am I to assume? If you think I'm gonna make fun of you, you are right. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Stop going out with the goal of picking up women and start going out to actually enjoy yourself and have fun. You are making women the prize and not your own enjoyment. They can sense you are chasing because you are desperate. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you own a fedora? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Stop excusing yourself, virgin. Go out and get laid. Your excuses are only hurting you. They are keeping you away from getting sex and happiness. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I’m now in a relationship, but it’s been somewhat hard adjustingI've been married for 7 years and fucking the same pussy for 8. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The guy hasn't had a date in 3 years, probably a virgin. If he has a date every 3 years how long do you think it will take him to figure things out? We are not immortal you know? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I don't help excusers. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:33 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Okay. Well hit us up in 3 years when you go out on your next date. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]My thinking? You are not horny enough. If you were horny you'd be out there every night trying to bring a girl home. You are 22, wtf else are you doing wjth your life. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well, you met her then waited a month to take her phone number. Then started texting random stuff. So she figured out by the time you get to making a move to have sex she will be an old hag with her tits hanging by her belly button. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Girls need a bit more work to be ready for sex. All guys need is to wash their dicks and we are good to go. Women need to shave, make sure that are fresh down there, but also shave legs, pits, etc. So just chill. Being a horn dog will work against you right now. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroI agree. But my point is that as you have observed, people have resistance. A guy wants to have a great body, but no one wants to grow muscle because it involves a lot of hours in the gym even if you don't feel like it and eating like an Olympic athlete. It sucks. It's much easier to lay on your couch. So OP wants to be socially and romantically successful but he doesn't actually want to solve his problems because that would involve work, sweat, facing his fears and anxieties, getting rejected a… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:58 PM |
| -3 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroPoint to me what exactly he is asking for help with? What is the exact problem he wants to solve? This was posted over 7 hours ago and OP has made a couple of other short comments with nothing of substance. Again, I could list 20 things for him to do tomorrow to start improving his chances and he won't do them, because he is not really looking for help. At least he hasn't really indicated he is. Regarding your homeless analogy, if a homeless person really wanted to improve their situation they w… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:06 PM |
| -16 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroPeople like him don't really want help. If they really wanted friends or a girlfriend they would have found a way to get those things. Mostly they want to vent and other people to pity them. There is too much they get out of being a perpetual victim and too much to give up by no longer being a victim. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Family obligations causing me to feel trapped and hopelessTypical nice guy behavior to sacrifice yourself for others. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:12 AM |
| 0 | What is more important sex or marriage?Get pregnant and trap that mother fucker. He owes you fucking commitment and a ring dammit. Who da fuck does he think he is? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:11 AM |
| 11 | Social proof trips me outFound the Nice Guy! | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:46 AM |
| 30 | Age detection?Dude your posting history tells me you are a fucking creep. Just go hide in your room and don't come out plz. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:34 AM |
| 6 | This might sound ridiculous but. Does anyone else lose confidence as soon as they see attractive women?Actually believing that women hold your confidence and self esteem in their hands is what's fucking you up. Until you understand on an emotional level that you are the o key person who can control your confidence and self esteem, you will let other people manipulate you (knowingly or unknowingly). You are abdicating your responsibility and authority to women. They don't have the authority to make you confident and therefore have no responsibility for making you confident. And vice versa (actuall… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 18 | Is confidence the key to attracting others?Do they speak English in Rizz, mother fucker? | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Can therapy help with my fear of approaching? Possible social anxiety issues?Of course. But any therapist worth their salt will make you get out there and face your fear head on. If you think you can be hypnotized by an audio track and wake up fearless, you are barking up the wrong tree. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | How to get over lost time?Face your fears. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:10 PM |
| 5 | What can you say to compliment women's Boobs while making out?Tell her many women would pay a fortune to have her boobs. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:09 PM |
| -7 | Beach game?Comment on their nice looking body. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:09 PM |
| -2 | Won't I bother a girl if I approach her without her saying if she actually wants to be approached beforehand?Good, polite nice guys always get laid. It's a fact. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Did I do something wrong?Well your mistake was to ask her to kiss. After the first time you didn't seem to make a move at all. In my experience if she's there in a mixed company and wouldn't kiss you in front of her male friends, it's better to move on and contact her later. It's even better to save the kiss for later when you go out just the two of you. Too many guys make the mistake of turning a woman on in the club or bar and then she feels like a slut and shuts you down. It's always better to make her wait and antic… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this post made on r/socialskills about approaching?Completely agreed! Aside from doing this in the beginning as way to overcome your shyness and social anxiety, doing this type of "hanging at the mall to approach girls" is generally weird and creepy. I've done it and let me tell you it gives off weird vibes and women feel it. Instead go on about your day, do what you need to do and if a woman stops you on your tracks only then go and approach her because she stood out so much and "fate" brought you together. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Is having expectations of a ruining your inner game?Of course all the time. Expectations are the number one reason for getting depressed and disappointed with yourself. Especially if you expect yourself to be something more or different than you are. Guys go in expecting sex and that makes them angle all their interactions wjth a woman to try and get sex out of her. They expect her to be a bitch or this and that and end up talking themselves out of approaching just because. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:59 PM |
| 7 | What do you think of this post made on r/socialskills about approaching?There is a lot to unpack there. First of all, what do they define as a cold approach? If you dig under the surface they usually mean a guy who cat calls a girl, or says "hey there sweet cheeks" or anything else lame and predatory. Guys following women around yelling "holla at me shawty" or something else equally lame and predatory, etc. But for any socially adjusted man who can look at a woman and judge whether she looks busy, unfriendly, unwilling to socialize and therefore he will choose NOT t… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Fear of rejection and abandonment has ruined my mindset over the yearsDo you want help or are you just venting? | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:45 PM |
| 6 | I get dates with way more attractive girls through cold approach than OLD. Am I just that unphotogenic?Your photos are probably shit or communicate something undesirable. Happy to critique. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Call out or just move on?Lol, how much shit and disrespect can you eat before it occurs to you that she has no plans on ever meeting you? How desperate do you have to be to agree to a second and third time trying to meet her just to have her flake again? You deserve being treated like shit because you let women treat you like shit. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:43 PM |
| 4 | If a woman starts asking you questions/making some references to her getting something done (eyelashes/nails), is that good or bad and how do you “make use” of this?Jesus the autism on this sub. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?Just don't be crude | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?Whatever comes to mind. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:58 AM |
| 4 | I've had this "nice guy" or "very kind" problem ever since my divorce, pandemic, and now continues even despite major weight loss.No seriously, it's actually a fantastic book. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:06 AM |
| 3 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?Yes and no. I mean just going out and approaching randomly will get you some success, mostly because it changed who you are on the inside. Approaching a hot woman in a club or in a cafe takes balls and that in of itself makes you more attractive. Somewhat. But you need to handle all your fears and phobias to be truly successful. You can easily learn to approach and talk to women and still be fearful and excuse ridden underneath. And women sense that and they don't want it. That's how you get guy… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 12:09 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Well you are in chasing mode because you are chasing. You should treat every date like an interview and not an opportunity to impress them so you can get in their pants. Would you hire some rando off the street to work for you and handle your company's money for example? So why would you hire some random skank to stick the most valuable body part you have in her without vetting her and learning everything about her? You have to interrogate them hard. They are interviewing with you for a job. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Is this something I can fix or it's just, something that happens?If I were to Al's to post your conversation pre-date here, I will bet you a $100 that you overcommunicated and was too interested . | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Hey let's have drinks/food this Thursday. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:28 PM |
| 69 | [deleted by user]Women approach men all the time just not in the "hey sweet checks, come here often?" type of way you fantasize about. But they will look at you, smile, bat their eyelashes, hover around you or make excuses to talk to you about something stupid. When a woman approaches you like this, she opens a door for you to enter through. Whether you do it or not is up to you. But if you think you can sit in the corner nursing a beer and women will be lining up to suck your dick, I think you might be quite di… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:21 PM |
| 7 | I've had this "nice guy" or "very kind" problem ever since my divorce, pandemic, and now continues even despite major weight loss.How to get over the bitch and grow balls they can't resist. Google the pdf. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 4 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?Whenever you see a woman you want to approach your mind will come up with one thousand excuses. "I might bother her, she probably won't be interested, I'm not wearing my best clothes, she probably worn be attracted to Asians/blacks/Indians/blondes/British people/etc., I'm probably not her type, she will reject me, I must be taller, handsomer, richer, buffer, famous, cool, etc etc etc." It's not your fault that you have these excuses. They are installed there by society to stop you, a regular ave… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:00 PM |
| 6 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?When I was getting started I probably had to approach between 4-8 women to get a number. But then none of them would go out with me. I could easily collect 5-6 numbers in a day. They are meaningless. When I figured out how to do it, I could literally approach one or two women a week and I was guaranteed they'd go out with me. It has nothing to do with a numbers game. That's loser talk. If you do it the right way, you don't have to approach more than one or twice and a beauty will be happy you ar… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:03 PM |
| 7 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?I mean this was posted on a sub for people who are socially retarded. What comments did you expect? On the other hand, I keep telling guys beyond the initial stages of de-shying yourself and getting over approach anxiety, you should not be randomly approaching during the day. You shouldn't be going out for the sole reason of picking up girls. It actually does come across creepy and that's what most women are referring to. It is clear you just want to "pick them up" and it's a turn off. What work… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayThat's lame. That just shows that he lacks the confidence that she will show up and try at he is used to women flaking on him. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayShow up 15 mins late. If she texts you "here are you", you know she's there. If it is a long way and you are really feeling insecure, text her early and say you are running late. If she responds you are good, if not, she is ghosting you. So you may want to go to the cocktail bar anyway and seduce another girl. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayYour lack of confidence is oozing through my iPhone screen. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:26 PM |
| 0 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.Think about it. We are forced to acknowledge and show respect to random passers by. Strangers who are of no importance to us. When you pass by a person you have something inside you compelling you to make eye contact and acknowledge their existence. It's a completely useless social programming. It is also the thing that stops you from approaching because "what if other people laugh at me". This is an exercise to start valuing the opinions of others less and to care about what they think less. Yo… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Society has succeeded in brainwashing you that you don't deserve a hot gf. If everyone listened to Reddit randos, humanity will be extinct in a couple of generations. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:23 AM |
| 2 | How to increase interest without being desperate?You can cling to hope all you want but kind of makes you look pathetic. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:13 AM |
| 0 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.I will give you an even better exercise. Purposefully ignore every person unless they are a hot girl. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:09 AM |
| 3 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Dude sex was not good for her and she is avoiding you. Can't fix this okay. Just practice sex more, ask for guidance from every individual woman. Communicate learn what they like in bed. Every woman will be different. You couldn't even get it up the first time and when you finally did it just wasn't good for her. She probably faked an orgasm to get you to stop. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?We've seen explosive population growth since the 50s. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Omg, IKr, tots. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 5 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Need as in need a masculine presence in their lives. As in someone who provides safety and protection. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:59 PM |
| 9 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Yeah I mean it's a miracle that the human race has managed to procreate for millions of years given how picky women are, am I rite? Am I rite? | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:57 PM |
| 49 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Women need men more than the other way around, but they are much better than us at hiding their neediness and insecurity. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 93 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?I think you are misreading the whole physically selective thing. What's actually happening is that the man failed to arouse them properly. So women have to justify why they don't feel a spark wjth this guy and will say stuff like - I didn't like his goatee or he wore a black belt with brown shoes. Like these aren't things that can be easily fixed. And then next month you see them wjth a guy who dresses like shit and none of it makes sense. Again, these aren't some high standards women apply unif… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?Good man. Just be gentleman about it. Nothing crude. Give a woman a compliment and tell her "I hope you are open to getting to know each other better". Judge her reaction, then talk to her for a bit. Don't rush for phone number or anything like that. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?It's about how you look at the world around you. Most of us are raised to have a lot of sexual shame. But think about it. Every year the human population increases. Where are all these people coming from? They are fucking! And doing damn good job at it. Your mom that you think is a saint? Well, your dad put her ankles behind her ears and fucked her good and 9 months later you came out of her vagina. What do animals do? They fuck and eat. Eat and fuck. The human animal is the same. The only purpo… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 9 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?Your problem is that you are not horny enough. When your horniness overrides your fear, that's when you will win. Until then you will be smelling pussy from a distance. Face your fears. Embarrassment form getting rejected is a temporary sting. A flea bite. You are making this into a monster. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Talking with a dream girl and I can’t believe itYep fear is a always a good advisor. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Talking with a dream girl and I can’t believe ittell her that you want to go out with her as friends and that friendship is very important to you and that romantic feelings can develop over time but you will take your time. She will be tearing your clothes off by the second date. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenI don't think that's the real problem. The real problem is that when men don't have other things to do, they become overly focused on pleasing women. Instead of doing what they want, they do what they think the woman wants, which leads them to be fearful and awkward. The answer is to do what you want including going after women. But only do what you want not what they want. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | how do you get more matches on tinderIf I were to ask you to show me your profile, what can I expect? Would you look and be dressed like shit? | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Cultural gaphttps://images.app.goo.gl/qa5vgnAMA3c1y9xb6 | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Is being Indirect and Hesitation a turnoff?Yes it is. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Are women ever truly single?Thank god someone finally said it. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:21 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Start by not calling them females and outing yourself as an incel. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:59 PM |
| 8 | Are women ever truly single?You are shit out of luck. Every woman is already taken and what's even worse is they stopped making them. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Do men genuinely want to improve their dating lives?In psychology there is something called "therapeutic resistance". It's when the subject who is suffering, in our case a male who is not getting laid, resists all attempts to be helped or give up the thing that makes him suffer. I see this all the time. A guy makes a post about how he is completely unsuccessful with dating apps. I ask for them to post photos of their profile and lo and behold, the look and dress like shit. If I made tangible suggestions to solve their problem I get "why should I … | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 38 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyThis must be the most retarded thing I've heard on this sub. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:40 AM |
| 5 | Why do girls start playing games when you don't push for a date/numberBecause women are raised to believe their sex is the only value they have. Let's face it, you wouldn't as much as acknowledge female existence if it weren't for wanting to have sex wjth them. You could probably happily go your entire lives without talking to women if it weren't for sexual attraction. So when a woman puts herself out there and shows interest in a guy and the guy doesn't make a move, she takes that as the ultimate rejection. You not only reject her sex, you reject her entire being… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:28 AM |
| 12 | Where do you guys go to cold approach?You are the reason women don't want men talking to them. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The way I do with girls who speak perfect English. I look at them like I have their ankles behind their ears. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So who decides if someone is better than you? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So basically "I'm not good enough to date a woman with her looks". | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:58 PM |
| -4 | Help. What is romancing someone on a date look like to you?The guy has been on 3 dates with her. What the fuck is he talking about? Puppies and flowers? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:38 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Okay then! Good. So what is the exact thought behind putting someone on a pedestal. Give me an example if a recent situation where you out a girl on a pedestal and what you were thinking exactly. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:33 PM |
| -3 | Help. What is romancing someone on a date look like to you?The fuck are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Help. What is romancing someone on a date look like to you?Yes. Women view romance as connecting with a man so they can feel comfortable having great sexy wjth him. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Advice on approaching womenYou approach the girl you want to approach wjthout making excuses for yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | For those who've asked for the "real reason" or feedback after getting rejected, what kind of things have they said?You are trying too hard. This is the only one that has been of any value. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:25 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]It starts by examining what advantages you get from putting women on a pedestal. You might be surprised that this belief actually says great things about you. For example: -it means you are a true gentleman, a modern day knight who recognizes that women are more vulnerable and need to be treated specially -it shows that you have high morals and ethics -it shows that you are a caring and compassionate person who is willing to put themselves on the back burner so someone else can have an easier ti… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Shower her with compliments. Go to her checkout line and say, "you know, your coworker there checks people out faster, but I like the view from this check out line much better." Or tell her "you know, I see a lot of attractive women who work in your store (or who shop there), but when you come around I can't take my eyes off of you". | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:20 PM |
| 12 | What works romantically doesn’t always work socially, and vice versa.Being nice only works with your grandma and her friends. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:17 PM |
| -1 | Help. What is romancing someone on a date look like to you?Talk about sex, ask her if she's had orgasms before, how she's achieved her favorite orgasm, talk about how you like to take hot baths wjth candles and champagne. Ask her, what gets her in the mood. You need to find these things out and you need to get her thinking what sex with you will look like. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Need advice: I got her number, setup a date for this weekend but she doesn’t know if she can make it. So what do I do with her number now. Just ask to hmu when she’s free or what?Womp womp | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop making excuses to myself not to approachYou are just not horny enough. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?So what's the problem? Do you want help or just to complain and get pity? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Dr Robert Glover has a good explanation about it. Humans but specially women tend to have a bit of a herd mentality. If you watch a herd of cows and one gets spooked, they all get spooked. It's a defense mechanism. So when a woman senses anxiety and fear in a man, the anxiety and fear spreads to her because her biology is telling her "Danger! Danger! Danger!". And all her girlfriends are not afraid and avoiding you. Also women look to men for safety and protection and if you are so afraid and in… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 9 | Think back to some of the most fun and flirty conversations you've had with women...what were you talking about?When I'm whispering in their ear that I want them to be my dirty little whore sex slave. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I stay in touch after she said no?Tell her you like her as a friend. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Need advice: I got her number, setup a date for this weekend but she doesn’t know if she can make it. So what do I do with her number now. Just ask to hmu when she’s free or what?Don't take crap from women like this. Tell her you have canceled the date and she contact you when she's made up her mind. The more you kiss her ass and try to pussy foot around, the less she will respect you and want to fuck you. But even more importantly the less you will respect you. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How to chat people up with slow processing?Stop inventing problems for yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I've slept with women who know barely any English. You don't need to "talk" to get women in bed. Stop focusing on behavior the perfect flirty response. That's trying wayyyyy too hard. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginHow would her knowing that would have changed how you perform in bed? Perhaps lowering her expectations? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | What if heartbreak completely killed my desire to date/cold approach?You are just not horny enough. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 11:02 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Proceed to texting her for at least two months every single day, walls of text, telling her everything about yourself but without arranging time to hang out. It is very important that you do not take or show any initiative at all or even appear like you want to make a move. Avoid all sexual topics like the plague. Stick to very serious and deep conversations. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You need to substitute this thought with a thought that will call out the lie and be 100% truthful at the same time. A good one will be "I have no way of knowing for sure if this girl will like me or reject me and there is only one way to know for sure bar being able to read her thoughts. And since I don't want any regrets, I will go and talk to her and find out how she feels". | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:57 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with the “I’m not that kinda girl” girl?When a nerdy girl says this, make sure you have some BDSM gear ready, your ball gags and butt plugs cleaned and testicles shaved. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:55 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Kick her out. It's better to go play video games or masturbate than to deal with this BS. You are all so afraid you will offend some chick who isn't even willing to fuck you. Like you could get less sex from her. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:54 AM |
| 24 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginI'm all for honesty but when I was dating I wouldn't mention my bad gas or ass pimples. I just don't understand what you were trying to achieve with telling her you are a virgin. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 15 | Just read models by mark manson what should I read / watch next?Yes it's a book called "get off your ass and go meet girls". | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | textingThe more you text the more you masturbate. I know it doesn't rhyme but that's the reality. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Tips for Texting game ?Yeah your way is gonna get you a date with your hand. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Co-worker conundrumJesus just do it already she will be a wrinkled old had with sagging tits by the time you grow the balls to make a move | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:12 PM |
| 4 | How to make the woman take more initiative?A year of taking all the initiative, when you approach and chat don't take her digits. Tell her something like "okay, good talking to you. Shoot me a text and we will hang out some time". They will say "I don't have your number" and at that point type it in their phone and go away. If they text you, you know they are interested. If not, you have lost nothing. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to break the porn cycle?So are you really finding pleasure in it or is it just a compulsive behavior that helps you avoid the real world? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How to break the porn cycle?Ask yourself what do you get out of watching porn? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:24 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Dude lives in Morocco. Any wonder his ideas about women are so skewed. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I’m a grown-ass woman, and I’m scared to ask this man out. Someone convince me to do it anyway!!You are not horny enough. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 11:07 AM |
| 3 | How do I turn the tables?It starts with a mindset and vibe change. This is not a technique, although there are concrete things you can do to start on this journey. I would say the #1 thing is to sit down and figure out your "value". What you bring to the table. Seriously, most guys have zero idea what they bring to the table and because they devalue themselves, they end up chasing. They believe they need the woman more than the woman needs them, and whoever needs less has all the power. So what do you bring to the table… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been chatting up this girl and then found her on Tinder, wondering the best way to use this as an opportunityDude just get over your phobias and anxieties and ask her out like a real man. Stop hiding behind apps. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:58 AM |
| 11 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?If you ask most guys what kind of girl they want, they will tell you a nice, clean, pretty girl dressed in a beautiful flowery dress with no make up, etc. But then you go to a strip club and you never see this type of woman? Why? Strip clubs cater to men's fantasies? Why are there no nice, shy girls working there? Well, it works very similarly with women. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:56 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]We can't solve the problem that you are not horny enough to take action. You need to increase your horniness. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:54 AM |
| 0 | Which statements can I make, early on, to put the woman in a reactive state?Hahaha, you want me to give away my magic bullet phrase that always gets me laid? Nice try bruh. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:54 AM |
| 6 | Do you need the signal?Signals are actually a woman approaching you. Of course, you will not get "hey hot stuff, come here often?", but they will look at you, smile, hover, dance in your line of sight, etc. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveJust look up some guides online. I think you look amazing by the way! | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveWow you look hot!!! But you didn't go to a high end place did you? Did you ask them for some product? You probably want to get some kind of a paste to style it every day. In terms of what's left, it would be clothing. And please don't tuck your shirt in. You are not a 50 year old Asian man playing slot machines. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How clever hahahaha you are the bomb so witty | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveI would say that in person. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | M23 wondering how to look more attractivePersonally I think these clothes are a little blah. Wait until you have your meeting wjth a personal shopper. When they ask you what kind of look you are going for, say that you need a "sex" uniform. Stuff to wear on dates or when going out at singles events. Be as honest as possible. You want to look sharp and sexy. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:56 PM |
| -5 | [deleted by user]It's ghetto. Much better to go to Spain | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]No it doesn't. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]I love that you can just go to Paris because you were bored. I miss Europe. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | hard to getYou chase them twice as hard. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 01:54 PM |
| -9 | Where are these single women you guys cold approach to?My point is that OP says girls in groups are not single, I want to creep on some solo girl because I am a pussy. That's all. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:40 PM |
| -21 | Where are these single women you guys cold approach to?I have a stalker now. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:32 PM |
| -21 | Where are these single women you guys cold approach to?I don't know if you are retarded or just stupid. Women will never go out by themselves at a bar, but they will be there with friends and still be single. This ain't rocket science you are just a pussy. Admit it and move on. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 10:53 AM |
| 4 | I cant approach women(tips)How is it not a confidence thing if you are too afraid to approach? And what does your height have to do with anything? Either admit you are afraid or live in delusion | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 10 | Do you make it clear from the beginning that you are looking for FWB’s… or do you wait for her to ask “where is this going?”From the beginning. Give women the choice to know what they are getting themselves into. They can take it or leave it. This is not a deduction technique. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Talk to him about how unsatisfied you are in your marriage. Then mention that you used to hook up with someone who no longer works here in the closet at work (or motel or whatever). Just casually. Not right away. Weave it in the conversation. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 10:47 AM |
| 0 | Cultural gapDo you look and dress like the typical Indian foreign student? | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:28 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Your profile probably looks like crap, shit photos, you probably look like crap too. Post the profile and we will give you pointers. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah, in oppose land. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You were a total creep. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:47 PM |
| 21 | Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened.Just fyi, stop asking for Snapchat as the second thing you tell them. I don't know what movie you watched that made it look like that was okay, but you really need to nip this in the bud now. The objective of approaching a woman isn't to get her digits, it's to get a sense if this is someone you want to get to know better | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:46 PM |
| 46 | [deleted by user]Please don't. Only losers do that and you will not get anything useful out of it. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 3 | College in a month double text now?Funny, all women say this. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 3 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveFor a male haircut 4 weeks is the max you can go without getting touched up. Let me be straight with you here. I've given advice to many men like you. You've probably spent your entire life being told appearance doesn't matter, form doesn't matter and that all that matters is the substance, who you are. This is total and utter bullshit. Look at all the women around you who have boyfriends? Do any of these guys look like ultra dorks with zero fashion sense? Look at the women? Do any of them look … | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveYou go to a department store and ask or you can find a service online. The other alternative is to recruit an attractive female friend who is willing to spend a Sunday shopping with you in exchange for lunch or drinks. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 22 | Dating differences between races/ethnicitiesHave you considered that maybe they are just boring people? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:08 PM |
| 17 | College in a month double text now?It's not about double texting. The mistake he made was much much earlier in the interaction and her leaving him on delivered and not bothering to engage in 2 weeks is just the result of this. There is absolutely no reason for a man to be texting a woman he is not fucking for two months every single day. This type of over communication takes all the mystery and urgency out of meeting him in real life. Women don't chase the guys who are sending them texts every single day. Doing that makes you one… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | M23 wondering how to look more attractiveGo to a high end hair salon that employed young women like the ones you are hoping to attract. Book an appointment and ask the stylist to give you the type of haircut they would give their boyfriend. Ask them for recommendations on hair products and how to style your hair once you leave the salon. Spend a good $50-80 on your hair. Do not have your mom, sister or neighborhood barber cut your hair please. Next, go to a big department store and try to recreate a few of these outfits: https://www.pa… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 03:01 PM |
| 33 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderNot only is it a good idea but it's the only way! | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:00 PM |
| 47 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderNo it doesn't work. What does work is smothering women with constant communication every single day. Multiple paragraphs of text, good morning AND good night texts, a ton of selfies and memes throughout the day. You have to be in her face at all times. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | anyone here been practicing removing their “filter”? if so hows it been so far.You should always speak wjthout a filter as long as you are not crude or offensive on purpose. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:57 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]You are shooting yourself in the foot by having expectations of how interactions should go. When your expectations don't match reality, you feel disappointed wjth yourself. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 4 | College in a month double text now?Absolutely! She is SOOOOO interested that she is not replying to you at all. Why stop at double texting. Triple text her! Even better, show up at her house unannounced. She will love your initiative. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Totally | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | 'Dating 10/10 model girl' - Girl night outs - what is acceptable and what is not.It's you again. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Take the number and stick it up your ass. What else are you going to do with a number? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?Number or IG you are still chasing. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What do I do once I get her number?Stick the number up your ass. What else are you going to do? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:30 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You can rationalize it however you want. The fact remains you over communicated, become just another boring guy who she won over easily and are no longer a priority in her life. You overchased and showed your cards as a loser. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:29 AM |
| 0 | What is the thought process of a girl that is doing this?It means she thinks you are weird creep and probably a child molester. Dancing close to you is a signal that she came up with specifically for FBI sting operations. So when she is doing it next to you it means she is signaling the FBI to come and arrest you. You will be getting a knock on your door any minute now. Better call your lawyer. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:27 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It has never been about what you do. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:24 AM |
| 21 | Help me heal guys!!You sound socially retarded. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Tell your date that you feel really nervous. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Phone calls before dates?The more you communicate wjth a woman the less interested she will be. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:19 AM |
| -3 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?lol, this will be your reality if keep doing it the retarded way. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Self sabotageUgh? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Self sabotageWell what are the behaviors that self sabotage you? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Self sabotageYou sabotage yourself because you see more advantages to behaving the way you behave and are afraid you will lose those advantages of you give up your sabotaging behavior. Let me give you an example. Let's say you tend to get needy and clingy. What are some good things about being needy? Well, you can say you show more attention to women, you shower them with affection, you show them you care by blowing my o their phone or being too much in their face. It also helps you soothe your fears that th… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Field report: Went for dancing -> make out with a girl -> Got her number -> how to proceed further?Chasing is chasing doesn't matter before or after. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Have you tried saying hi? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meWell that one is true but only because we men play into it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:43 AM |
| -1 | How to keep a woman's attention/interest until the date (Tinder)?Keep texting them walls of text, every day. Try to be witty, funny and tease them. Always reply within seconds of them sending you a message. Try to tell them as much as you can about yourself over text. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meAnd then you guys complain that you can't get any pussy. Is it any wonder when you constantly shame women and make them feel bad for hooking up with you (or others) quickly because they happened to like him or found him sexy or just happened to be horny or bored. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 8 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meYou are basically saying "The only reason a woman would like me for me without me having to impress her with my wealth, accomplishments or social status is because she is a low value slut who'd fuck anybody". Reflect on what that says about you and what you think of your own value. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 15 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meI just hope one day you see how utterly self defeating your view of women is. You are basically giving women two choices. Sleep with me without any expectations, making you a dirty SLUT who has no self respect. OR play hard to get, make me take you out, buy you things, and prove myself to you, which in essence makes a woman a WHORE - someone who will have sex only if she is sufficiently paid for it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:52 PM |
| 51 | [deleted by user]Running away from your fears wjll never solve them. But thanks for participating. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:02 PM |
| 17 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meYou literally said if she slept with you it means she will sleep with ANYBODY! And if she was stupid enough to sleep with you it must be because she has no self respect. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:01 PM |
| 62 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meOh yeah, the Groucho Marx paradox: "I don't want to be part of a club that would have me as a member". In your case it is "I don't want to be wjth a woman who would like me for who I am, because I am clearly no good". | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:42 PM |
| 185 | [deleted by user]Now go do that 50 more times until you get cured of your social anxiety. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:23 PM |
| 0 | What are your top 3 best pieces of advice to give for Daygame?You do you man. I see creeps like you all the time in the parks and streets. If any of you were actually getting laid and getting girlfriends you wouldn't be out doing 5 day game sessions a week. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Goth GirlTell her to shoot you a text if she wants to get together. Let her chase or concoct some black good magic on you to make you fall for her. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:43 PM |
| 0 | What are your top 3 best pieces of advice to give for Daygame?Because it's creepy and weird. Go out to have fun and to help people have a good time and I guarantee you women will be coming to you. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:40 PM |
| 0 | What are your top 3 best pieces of advice to give for Daygame?Don't go out for the purpose of day gaming/picking up girls/trying to get laid. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Is this a rejection and should I move on with my life?What behooved you blurt this loser line to her? | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:27 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Men have become almost as passive as women, so the two of you are standing around thinking "why hasn't he/she texted to make arrangements for drinks? What an asshole/bitch." So both of you end up unhappy because none of you has the balls/ovaries to make a move. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What do y'all say to a girl you match with on the apps but she doesn't reply to that initial messageDo you really think this is the first time she's heard that line? | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Field report: Went for dancing -> make out with a girl -> Got her number -> how to proceed further?You are chasing wayyyyyy tooooo much. You really need to dial down your excitement and interest. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"You seem to hate yourself for being Eastern European. Why would any woman want to be with a man who considers himself and his country "bottom shit"? | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:23 AM |
| 2 | What is it that makes the men 'unable to commit' so desirable to women who want them to commit to exclusivity?Let me give you an analogy. You are an employer and you are looking for top performing employees. You have a choice. A. put ads on the internet, linked in, indeed, etc. and get flooded with resumes from people who spend their time polishing their resume and interview skills. These people will try to impress you, they will call every day asking for updates and telling you they are ready to start right away. OR B. Look for the employee who is already employed, who never sends a resume because he a… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:46 AM |
| 0 | How to be “mysterious” the right way?All of the above. Be nonchalant, end conversations first, dismiss yourself, don't ask for her number, just tell her to shoot you a text about doing stuff, not replying to her messages. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:40 AM |
| 4 | How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appealWell you and everyone else wants to fuck those hot 20 year olds so get in line, bruah. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Start in society approved places such as pubs, bars and clubs. Women go there to socialize hoping to meet Prince Charming. Or Mr Right...Now. Once you get good there you can graduate to approaching in non society approved places such as cafes. You are probably not ready. Also going out to such places for the express purpose of meeting women is weird and creepy. Don't do it. Only approach if you are actually there to get coffee and you see someone you like so you go and say hi. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]So you just played a scary scenario in your head and pussied out. What you feared never happened yet you are convinced it's real? | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:26 PM |
| -1 | yes but noStop asking women out. Just tell them to shoot you text and if they say "I don't have your number" then give it to them but let them initiate. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone successfully asked a waitress out?If Adriana Lima approached you while you were working and asked you out, would you turn her down? | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:32 PM |
| 14 | Just some thoughts in my headPlease don't start orbiting and being creepy. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Can’t stop checking phone for his response - what to do?!We know you do | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How to stop myself from speedrunning to sexting girls and what should I do instead?You should ignore them. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:24 AM |
| 0 | is hanging during weekdays at bars to cold approach girls worth itNever go out with the purpose of approaching and hitting on women. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:23 AM |
| 0 | What to do instead of shaking a girls hand?Have you tried bowing or curtsy? | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | When cold approaching, how do you balance being soft spoken vs hyperenergetic?All of this is because of low self esteem. Being soft spoken shows that you are not confident in yourself and being super hyper energetic is just overcompensating. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Can’t stop checking phone for his response - what to do?!This is the reason I tell me that texting every hour of every day, sending walls of text, does absolutely nothing to keep a woman interested in you. But ignoring her texts has her thinking about you 24/7. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:20 AM |
| 15 | The clubNevermind. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 01:15 AM |
| 20 | The clubStay in the club until closing time. I guarantee you you will walk away with super powers. Don't try to run away or fight the fear and awkwardness. Stay with it. Take a dive straight through it. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Focus on what you bring to the table instead of what you want to take from them (such as approval, validation, attraction, sex). Every guy out there is there to take. They need and want because they lack and that makes them creepy. Being a guy who makes other peoples lives better by being a the life of the party, confident, carefree, is someone that every one wants to be wjth. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuitWhat's your end goal here? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freeI didn't say women themselves were boring, it's just that their lives are usually more boring than men's. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]If it happens again; say "hey, are you breaking this on purpose so you have an excuse to talk to me? It's not cool to hit on your clients." Wink wink | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 10:10 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]So why are you so needy that you have to approach this particular woman? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Growing a pair and approaching a woman from the front and talking to her. If she is busy, don't be a fucking desperate loser and just move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:51 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]How on gods green earth can you think that this is cute and acceptable behavior? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:30 PM |
| -1 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freeHey maybe YOU game all day and do nothing but that's not most guys. you seriously need to date more if you think womens lives are more exciting. They literally sit around all day shopping for clothes to take selfies and post on Insta so some guy they are interested can notice them. You are just buying into the whole social media clusterfuck. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Someone help me decipher the behavior of this girl.Why would she be interested in some drunk guy? Just let it go already. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuitWomen who are not interested will not engage. The others will engage but won't respond for hours, but when they do they show interest. They will balance between one word answers and jot double texting for example. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:36 PM |
| -2 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freeYes! Womens lives are often boring and mundane compared to ours. They don't do much besides apply make up and gossip wjth their stupid girlfriends. So going out with a guy is an escape from the dullness of everyday life even if they don't feel chemistry with him. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:57 PM |
| 14 | Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends"60% of the time works every time! | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuitWomen play hard to get all the time. They are 10X more concerned with how they come across to a guy they are interested in. You should always be direct and to the point and take action. But she only gets one chance at being with you. That's the important rule that will keep you sane and away from being desperate. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuitYou are asking if you should be reactive to a woman's behavior. But that's how women are. Their sexuality is often reactive to how men behave with them. For men, you just have to be who you are. So are you a sexual being who is not ashamed of being a man and who can express his appreciation of female beauty? I don't change how I behave for anyone, I am me and I am comfortable being me. So make it clear to women who you are and let them make their choice - to take it or leave it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Did I fuck it up?Next time say "Oh wow, my mind just went completely blank". | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 8 | Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuitWhy would you want someone who doesn't want you? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?I wish it were. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:32 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]You need to start being more honest. Gave your fears. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Any of you guys go places with the intention of approaching women?Never go out with the intention of picking up women. It makes you come across creepy and thirsty. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Is too nice bad???Yep | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How to look hot for my wife on our beach vacationWear this https://youtu.be/Uq-9QBUmELA | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:40 AM |
| -4 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?You are right, I say dumb shit like this all the time and this isn't even the dumbest shit I've said. I've also said love and respect yourself! I mean how fucking stupid eh. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:09 AM |
| -5 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?Women lose interest the second they sense they have "gotten" you. That's why they will ghost after a heavy make out session, etc. They sensed they can get you easily and don't see you as a challenge anymore. You really need to be more unavailable and hard to nail down. Think of rock stars, they don't even bother to learn their groupies names and those groupies know they will never become a steady girlfriend or as much as get a date, but the thrill of getting sex out of an unattainable guy makes … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:58 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]What a creepy thing to say to her. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lol, that's like asking "when I visit a whorehouse what is my strategy to pay one of the girls and have sex wjth her?" | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You seem to be leaving a lot of details out. What happens after you make out? | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You need to get out and interact with women not read. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:08 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I don't do online dating but I was chatting to a female friend of mine who does it and she gets bored by guys who can't ask her out within a few exchanges. She assumes they are afraid of their own shadow and a bunch of excusers and she loses interest in them. Plus, OP literally exchanged paragraphs with her over the course of days. I think that's not only enough but entirely too much. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]That's not at all the point zi was trying to make. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Reading about meeting women is like watching porn to learn about having sex. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:04 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]So here are a few tips. Stop double and triple texting and sending a bunch of paragraphs. I don't understand the purpose of all of this. If she is on a dating app and you are on a dating app, the purpose is to find out if you are compatible and get along so you can have a sexual relationship. The purpose is not to talk about video games. So stop texting her and just say: "I would like to get to know you better in person. Let's go out this Thursday. How is 7pm at XYZ cocktail bar?" | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]You are talking to her like she's another boy. All logical and nerdy and over explaining yourself. From what I see she had a prompt on her profile about travel. You should have asked about this. "Hey, what's the most favorite place you have traveled to or want to get away to right now?" If she says something like Italy or Venice, reply with "hell yeah that sound like an adventure. I just came back from Mexico and you can't believe the pristine sand and beaches they have there". Just talk aspirat… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Do girls who constantly flake on dates, flake on other things like job interviews?These type of women flake on everything including each other. The problem is that if they are good looking men will give them a pass and let them get away wjth murder. You should never tolerate such nonsense. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Omg I fell comatose just by reading this. You need to work on your flirting skills big time. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Women want a guy who will make them safe and protected. Letting other man hit on her and get in her pussy means that that's how you will treat the relationship and she will soon find a guy who is not willing to tolerate such bullshit. So either be a bitch and get nothing or tell any suitors to fuck right off. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Dating App CoachDM me the photos you are thinking of using along wjth what you it is that you want (what kind of girl do you want to attract, what do you want her for, etc). Let's start there. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceWho's being a dick? I'm just bringing up the most common reason why men strike out wjth women. You'd just rather learn pickup lines than deal with the real issue at hand. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:37 AM |
| 39 | 🚨 My gym crush came up to me, smiled, and giggledAll hail the glorious god amongst mortal men!!! A god who has actually spoken to a real living female woman!!! Glory to you, Iceking123!!! | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceDo you want help or not? Sounds like you don't. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceI think we struck gold. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceSo post your photos here and we will decide. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceYou probably look and dress like shit. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Dude stop listening to socially retarded people who want nothing more than to make you full of phobias and fears that they are themselves suffering from. Women don't get approached. Everybody is staring at their phones and waiting on someone to reply to their DMs. The only guys approaching are desperate losers hence it is what women are mostly exposed to. Just be a normal guy. Your job as a man is to defeat your fears and take what you want. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Girl disrespecting youTell her you will not allow anyone to insult you. If she is someone you know and have been with for some time as dating or whatever, you can tell them that next time it will be their ass out the door. If this is a new person you just met, you put them in their place and then walk away. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:47 PM |
| 32 | [deleted by user]Yes, women want to feel safe and protected by their man and a skinny bitch can't do that. Start eating big and lifting big. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sure, MILFS go to grocery stores specifically to hook up with guys like you. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Self-diagnosing sticking points and accepting who you are versus improving yourselfIt's obvious you are making sex with them the prize and all of your interactions are angled to achieve this outcome, which makes you come across awkward and stiff. The only prize should be your enjoyment and pleasure. Only do what you want to do and invite her into your world not hers. If you really want to guarantee sex, you need to set this up from the very beginning. You need to let women know that you are not the relationship/boyfriend/husband type and that all you hope to achieve is to be i… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Always go out alone. Your friends will only hold you back especially if they are noobs. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:55 PM |
| 17 | Girl I was talking to for a bit ghosted me after a convo me and her had about “us”, I asked what’s going on she said she’s going through stuff and isn’t talking to anyone, just to find out she’s reconnecting with her ex.Women are socialized to never confront people directly especially men, because they don't want to disappoint them and hurt them. That's why virtually every woman comes up with the exact same excuses and BS to say "I'm not sexually interested in you". It's always stuff like "I'm not in the headspace for a relationship, I need to spend time finding myself, etc." only idiots take these on their face value because even the most depressed and stressed person likes having sex. It is is literally the d… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:54 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]...and? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't think the word "confidence" means what you think it means. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:16 PM |
| 50 | [deleted by user]I got a news flash for you, Walter Cronkite. Even ugly peoples fuck each other. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:45 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]If you are getting flakes, fake numbers or no responses it means you are doing something wrong during the approach itself. You may have a pleasant interaction, but it's like women who go on a date and say he is nice, but there was no spark. It means she didn't find you disgusting but you also didn't spark any arousal in her. The usual cause of this is making excuses, not approaching confidently, being too stiff and nervous or being too obvious about picking her up. Remember, the first thing wome… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Super hot girl stopped responding after being very receptiveYou really need to get to the point and be straightforward and take the lead. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfWhat's the point of working hard to become a sex machine that never gets used and just rusts? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Super hot girl stopped responding after being very receptiveI don't need to ask you to know that you were texting back and forth for days and never got up the never to make a move. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Where should I be going to meet more women in the U.K.?Yeah it's totally different like super different. In the UK you need to wear a top hat and a monocle just to be noticed and that's like table stakes. And if you are not at least a Count, forget about getting laid. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]What do you think makes you and those countries special? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:00 PM |
| -13 | Just be yourself and talk to women like they're human beings and you will be drowning in attention!There were some pretty disturbing things in his post such as trying to fuck drunk girls. Just an all around creep. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Apologize profusely. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:20 PM |
| 19 | Just be yourself and talk to women like they're human beings and you will be drowning in attention!It don't sound like you like yourself very much. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I love you, but be ready for every loser guy on here to downvote you and call you a skank for daring tell them how to get better at dating. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Keeping masculine frame?It's cause you are a nice guy who makes others a priority. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:29 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Don't bother with low self esteem women. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:29 AM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Speak English | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 2 | What exactly does non-neediness mean?The only solution to neediness is to work on your self esteem and self worth. Self worth can't really be taught, given or bought. You need to award it to yourself by believing you are "worth it". You can start believing you are "worth it" by doing the exact same nice things for yourself that you would do for someone who you admire and simp for. Take that OF thot that you believe is a goddess and start treating yourself the same way you would treat her. Over time wjth action, you will start belie… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do women want to be treated like sub-par humans?This reminds of the saying "After a lifetime of privilege, equality feels like oppression" and likewise "After a lifetime of being a nice guy to women, treating them like they are nothing special feels like abuse". | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Lol, you put your life on hold for 9 years to become a sex machine that never got used? That's one pretty rusty sex machine if you ask me! How about you stop making excuses and go for what you want. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:48 PM |
| -14 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?Like shit, they are subhuman scum anyway. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Going to Amsterdam soon what can I expect?Just flash your US passport to these poor, starved Dutch people and girls will be taking you home in hopes of getting that sweet green card and and the smell of Freedom! | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why has cold approaching such a bad reputition?Do it your way and you become one of the thousands of guys posting by on here "I've mad 2746 approaches in one month and all I got was a two fake numbers and one date where the girl flaked on me. What should I be doing?" And then an army of posters: "Obviously you should be approaching even more, man, cause it worked so well the last 2,000 times". | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Why has cold approaching such a bad reputition?Exactly. They will maintain that women can't read their thoughts, that women can't possible figure out they are full of shit or are trying g to present themselves as more than they are. I tell them it's all in your vibe, your body language and your communication. It's pretty easy to spot. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 3 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Thank you! I used to have different one from his time in prison. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:06 PM |
| -2 | I only ever seem to get anywhere with women who are 110% into me from the startWhy would you want someone who doesn't want you? That's some desperate incel shit. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you believe this shit you deserve to be a fucking incel. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:57 AM |
| 50 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?When you realize that feeling good about yourself has nothing to do with other people. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Why has cold approaching such a bad reputition?I never said don't make moves. Just don't try to angle every single thing you say or do so you can some sort of an outcome like approval or a number or sex. That's what makes it creepy and not genuine. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Texting game questionTell me you are autistic without telling me you are autistic. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:02 AM |
| -2 | Do you need a signal?The easiest way is when women approach you. But if you don't have any signals you can go in with the intention of finding out if that person can make an interesting friend. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:01 AM |
| 19 | Going to Amsterdam soon what can I expect?You can expect Dutch women to laugh at you. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:00 AM |
| 29 | Why has cold approaching such a bad reputition?When I was in my pua phase I used to work so hard for pussy. I'd go out all the time and would get shot down a lot and succeed maybe a little. Then one day I was hanging out at my favorite day game spot chilling and getting ready for my routine hunting, when I saw a group of young guys, decked out in peacocking gear run around and harassing girls wjth their "I need a female opinion" openers. Really old school mystery method/rsd bullshit. Seeing it from afar it looked like the girls were totally … | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Do you ever have real conversations with woman that you’re interested in?I find it worrying that you have to put up a "game" and constantly wear a mask when you are with women. That's psychopath behavior. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:49 AM |
| 0 | How do you practice cold approaching?If you don't have the balls or are not horny enough to get over your fear of approaching, nobody can help you. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:49 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You only THINK you appear confident on the outside. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:11 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]I have never met a successful ladies man who dresses like a clown and does magic tricks to get women in bed. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I make move on a girl who is taking things very slowYou have already agreed to play by her rules and get on her program which means you have already lost. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:09 PM |
| -2 | How to cut almost 'imposter syndrome" when dating really attractive, sought after girlYou sound weird bro. Your other posts are just cringe. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:08 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]So what's you plan here? To die a virgin? Do you expect some girl to come along and pick you up and fuck you with a strap on? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:24 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]When are you going to grow up and stop being so shy and nervous? Are you 5 years old? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Can anybody give me a flirty line or compliment that doesn't sound like something from a coming-of-age comedy film?Dude you are a total excuser. If you can't express your interest in a woman genuinely how do you expect her to see you as "the man". | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:23 AM |
| -2 | Got a 9’s number at the gym and need advice on where to goSpend a couple of weeks texting walls of text back and forth and having deep conversations but never asking her out. Then after about 2-3 weeks, you can say "hey, would you like to grab dinner some day"? Then when she says "sure", make sure not to make any specific plans and wait for her to suggest a day and time and even pick a place. You have to make sure that you are taking her where she wants to go out. Good luck! Don't screw it up! | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:20 AM |
| 21 | Field report: When on earth I will be stop being Nice guy?No advice man. You are just a dumbass who gets in his own way. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:14 AM |
| 0 | what if I don't meet my goals this year?If you are not getting matches online it means you look like shit, dress like shit or take photos like shit or all of the above. Work on that first. Set aside $1,500 for a new wardrobe and go out to a high end department store with personal shoppers. Pic the youngest and hottest one and ask her to pick out the sexiest clothes for you, the type she would buy her boyfriend. Don't hit on her. Before that though, find a high priced hair salon where young attractive women work, make an appointment an… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Do i need to be rich to seduce a rich girl?No, you just need to be a guy that her dad will hate. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety?Nope, there isn't. The fear is an illusion. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You found the time to write out this post but not enough time to bang a girl? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:49 AM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]Jesus when did 26 years olds become milfs? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Fuck me baby ?? CringeSlap me around like I'm your little dirty whore....step brother. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Buy the lube and strap on? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of self-deprecating remarks?Total turn off. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Am i scaring the hoes awayOoof you will definitely scare me away. Why don't you try something more toned down like "smack my ass and call me your dirty little whore while you slap your dick on my face". | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You sound like an excuser. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:41 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]They already approached you dumbass. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ask her if she wants to have sec in a full stomach or should you eat after? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Some highly practical advice wouldn’t hurt here every now and thenMan, my wife and I just came back from salsa night and the hottest girls were sitting around wondering when someone would approach them and ask them to dance. They fucked off after an hour disappointed that they didn't meet anyone. Moral of the story, learn to dance. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety?Nope | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 8 | How conventionally attractive are you?I've been told I'm pretty good looking (mostly by my mom and grandma), but haven't seen it make a difference yet. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 04:17 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Womp womp | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They like men who ignore them. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Need some advice for sexting / dirty talking with someone newYou should only be sexting with someone you are having send with. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?Take it one day at a time. Tell yourself "today I will take a break from being a creep and will try to act normal. It's only for one day. If tomorrow I feel like it, I will go back to being a creep." | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:48 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]Yes or have an open relationship where you can get new ass. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Stop chasing. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 86 | Gaining some confidence back. My local barista gave me her number and agreed a date, then stood me up... I just saw her againGood for you. Funny thing will happen now. The more you stand up for yourself and call people out( the more you will like and respect yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:41 AM |
| 11 | How nice should you be ?Why does everyone assume that the opposite of being a Nice Guy is being an insufferable rude asshole? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:12 AM |
| 0 | How to naturally approach women?Good for you | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:41 PM |
| -2 | How to naturally approach women?And women at the grocery store are looking for fresh produce not some stalker. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Honestly, you look like a homeless dude. You need to go to a hair salon that employs young women of the type you want to date. Make an appointment and ask that they give you a haircut like the one they would give their boyfriends. You need to do something about your facial hair too. Currently that's a non starter bro. Again, ask your stylist for some advice. And spend at least $70-80 dollars on your cut. I also think you dress like shit. While it's quirky and casual it is absolutely not sexy. Re… | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:07 PM |
| 3 | How to naturally approach women?Or maybe go to places where women go to socialize hoping to get laid? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What are your sources to find emotional fulfilment/support?Post it here. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Having a hidden agenda will always result in rejection. Trying to get laid means that you make sex with a woman the prize and because of that she is not only turned off but she can manipulate you in any way she wants, because you are just dying of thirst for that pussy, lol. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?So admittedly you did look like shit? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Got played by the classic 'going to the toilet' move.Did the women put a gun to your head to buy them drinks or even offer to go to bed with you if you bought them drinks? Did they even promised to stay and talk to you if you bought them drinks? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:20 PM |
| -1 | What are your sources to find emotional fulfilment/support?I forget on the internet everyone's a Chad. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:35 AM |
| 0 | What are your sources to find emotional fulfilment/support?Try not eating for 3 days vs not getting touched for 3 days. As long as you need women so desperately, they will always find a way to avoid you. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:44 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No I mean exactly. Why even try to be normal and socially adjusted. Too much work. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:45 AM |
| -1 | What are your sources to find emotional fulfilment/support?I mean that's a fear every guy has to confront for himself. You don't really need other people. You just sold yourself the story that you are miserable without others and wjthout women. I'm not saying that you should never have others in your life, but when you tell yourself you are worthless and incomplete wjthout others, you basically become a repellant to other people. Spend time learning to enjoy alone time. Don't shun it. Don't look at it as painful, lonely, sad. Look at it as having freedo… | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Make slow gentle love always. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:39 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yeah absolutely. You will totally be the first guy who has done that and the first guy who hasn't had the balls to exit his car and approach her like a normal person. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:39 AM |
| -4 | How do I start approaching?If you are not having success online it probably means you look and dress like shit. And you work 6 days a week and have no money and no car. Why would any woman want to fuck you? Are you that delusional? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I get laid?The more you try the more you chase the more desperate you come across the less they want you. You need to seriously sit back and not try so hard. Have your arms open and they will come to you. But if all your messages are with the intention of getting laid, you won't get laid. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:58 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Make your sole intention something else. Like having fun. Do you really think normal guys who get girlfriends and ons go out looking to get laid? Do you think this might look desperate and needy and therefore give you the exact opposite outcome of what you want? | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I know shooting my self in the nuts is bad, but I keep shooting myself in the nuts. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | New to game, need a good comeback quickGive a man a fish. But okay. I would reply with "it depends entirely on how much you have been misbehaving and what punishment you deserve ;)" | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You should never approach women aiming to get laid. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 13 | Do girls and women like being talked to?No. The human race has procreated through immaculate conception for millions of years. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Building ConfidenceGo out two towns over and spend the day making a complete fool of yourself. Do stuff that is so cringe and embarrassing that approaching a girl and getting shot down will be a walk in the park for you. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | How do I get laid?If you want to get laid stop trying to get laid. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 3 | how do you game very attractive girls in their mid-20s if you're 10+ years older?True that | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I seem to bore women and I can't fucking figure out whyTypically you show too much interest and she figures out she has "gotten" you in the bag already. Unless a woman is chasing you and pursuing you, she tends to lose interest quick. So I would pull back, hold off on kissing until the second date, and keep the first date relatively short, don't let it drag. Have things to do after the date. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | how is an average man disadvantaged in dating?I mean it's a miracle that most man have managed to have sex or that the human race has survived for millions of years and what not wjth those pesky women not wanting to have sex with anyone. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | how is an average man disadvantaged in dating?In my experience the best women are the ones that are hot but don't know it and inversely the worst are the ones who are hot AND they know it. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | So confused. Missed chancesDude chill. While you may think a couple of cheesy lines and the advice to always make moves will make you into an irresistible Casanova, the reality is that women date other people and sometimes they have a thing for them and may not be open to sleeping with someone else. It's okay. You did okay, but it happens. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:57 AM |
| 3 | I seem to bore women and I can't fucking figure out whyWhat's your question again? I could ascertain from your ramblings. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:54 AM |
| 18 | how do you game very attractive girls in their mid-20s if you're 10+ years older?Don't bother. It's not the advice they want to hear. They want to hear that women will like them for who they are and they don't have to change squat to be more attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:52 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Post some photos of yourself to see what you look like and what fashion tips we can give you. I find many men are totally oblivious to how they look and come across. Most guys who complain about not getting dates on Tinder look like shit. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Do you expect investment from a girl before asking her out, or just ask her out based on attraction towards you?What kind of investment are you looking for? Charging a cover charge for going on a date with you? What's the minimum floor? | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Lol | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?I'm saying that's what you come across as if old ladies like you. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Few dates after - how to get more intimate?Dude cummon. If you don't think she is manipulating you and praying with you you are dumber than you think. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?You are a nice boy! | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 12:28 AM |
| -2 | I feel like either she likes me or she doesn't on the first date. Like it's pretty much out of my hands. Am I right or wrong?Stop trying to impress women with your clean cat and presentable clothes. The less you seem to "care", the more successful you will be. It's like going to yo ur first dance and you dress up and arrange every hair on your head in the right way so you don't look silly. But once you've been to a ton of these, you stop taking them so seriously and become more "carefree". | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Should i try for a second text?I mean you asked her out like a total excuser so what do you expect. Call her on the phone and tell her: Hi Miss, this is Bob from the other night. Let's go out this Thursday night at 8pm. Is that okay? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Sharing eyecontact with a woman in a clubShe's not interested at all. She thought you were a creepy serial murderer and was keeping an eye on you while her friend was dialing the police. Expect special forces to kick in your door any minute. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Matched with a girl Saturday would it be too much to ask her to lunch/ dinner then head back to my place?Not only that, but guys value their most precious possession (their dick) so little, that they are willing to stick in anyone wjthout as much as vetting to figure out if she's a bitch, a thief, a psycho, etc. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 55 | [deleted by user]Play any song that has a wha wha guitar part in it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 48 | Introverts, what's your strategy?I can tell you what doesn't work: sitting at home and trying to materialize a naked girl out of thin air in my bedroom. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:07 PM |
| -3 | How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls?I find that people who scoff at small talk or even dressing attractively are just severely socially retarded. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:06 PM |
| 22 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?Common guys, this is your chance to talk to a real life female woman. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:04 PM |
| 34 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?You are a real human female woman? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Going to a camping music festival this weekend. Give me your best Sedditor adviceGive yourself a break from being yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:51 AM |
| 8 | what are reasons you should date multiple women at once?Because people are not inherently monogamous and your sex life will suffer. I don't care what anyone says but a man tires of the same pussy anywhere from a few hours to 18 months. Your brain starts telling you "Been there done that", there is no urgency to impregnate, your dick is a bit softer and all of a sudden you have more excuses to play that PS4 than pork your girl. But then you smell some new pussy and all of a sudden you are alive again! | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Looking for new dirty talk literatureHave you tried being an interesting person? No! I'm all out of ideas. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How do you ask them to lunch?I am taking you to lunch at 1pm. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:12 AM |
| 6 | You know how girls complain, “I hate how he acts different around his friends/others.” So what to do?You should always 100% change for women. You should always be what you believe they want you to be without having ever asked them what they want. Just make assumptions. And project. Don't forget to project your male perspective and experiences on them. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:11 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Oh god no. Your friends sound like losers. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:08 AM |
| 3 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?Well, the worst thing you can do is be ashamed for overthinking. If you believe that you should be a different way or a different person, this will drive you into an even deeper anxiety. Instead of swimming upstream, try going with the flow. Tell people, "jeez, I always overthink things and never take any action". Go up to a girl and tell her "You know, I can sit here all night and wonder if I should talk to you or not, and if you will like me or not, so I usually end up talking myself out of it… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:06 AM |
| 83 | How do I fight the overwhelming urge to reply to texts immediately?All you need to do is nothing. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:30 AM |
| -16 | [deleted by user]If you want to know whether a woman will end up in bed with you, make a "that's what she said" type of joke but without the punchline. If she plays along, she is thinking about sex with you. If she reacts negatively or like wtf, she is definitely not thinking about sex wjth you and you should bail. My favorite ones are: What do women in (insert your city here) put behind their ears to attract men? Answer: their ankles. If she let's say 27, ask her what's the worst thing about fucking 27 year old… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do?Women rationalize not being turned on by a guy, saying such things as "he had a goatee, eww, OR his shoes and his belt didn't match, ewww, OR he talked about this little brother a bit too much, ewww". Like these are things that can't be quickly changed. But they are not the reason. The reason is the woman did not feel turned on and aroused by the man eve if he was "attractive" to her. Chemistry means just that. Being turned on by a guy. Having emotional tension with him and a connection. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Female deception strategy?New phone, who dis. Oldest trick in the book. It's the female version of a neg and it is just as retarded. Do not tolerate women who play these games. Do not tolerate any games period. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on making people ( but in my case girls) think ur busy/interesting/going on dates etcBeing concerned whether others think you are cool is probably the uncoolest thing you can do. Nevertheless, you are facing the right direction, but going down the wrong path. Instead of faking being busy and unavailable, actually create a lifestyle that makes you busy and unavailable. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:03 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]In the US we have this formalized "let's go on a dinner date and talk about each others interests" thing. And then, you have to count the dates before your first kiss or when you go to bed, etc. it's a weird construct that is purely man made. In other countries people just hang out and hook up and then they are an item. It's not formal, there are no rules, expectations, etc. it's how "dating" should be. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 6 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?Dumb guys have one advantage that nerds don't. And that advantage is that they have diminished thinking processes and as such they tend to act instead of overthink everything. They are men of action. You are a man of thoughts, anxieties and phobias created by those thoughts. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | She doesn’t believe in loveStop chasing women who don't like you. And while you are it, stop chasing women period. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Talking through text ruins any chances I have almost all of the time and it never seems to get better:OP: I keep shooting myself in the foot. How can I shoot myself in the foot better? Please help! Have you tried not shoot g yourself in the foot? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:57 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]If she agrees, tell her "jokes on you. I usually have to pay extra for that". | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 3 | If A Girl Constantly Stares, Does She Want You To Make The First Move?No, she thinks you are a creep. She is keeping an eye on you while dialing the fbi in her pocket. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 02:06 AM |
| 26 | [deleted by user]Answer: tell you what. Let's go out for a drink. And just to put you at ease that I'm not carrying any weapons, you can perform a full cavity search on me. I will bring the gloves, you bring the lube. Deal? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | I’m really struggling with the idea of committing to one personIf I were to do it all over again I probably would never have an exclusive relationship with one person ever again. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Percentage of girls who would go to your house on the first date directlySo your dick is worth so little you are willing to stick it in any moist hole, irregardless of whether she's crazy, a thief, a murderer, a drug addict? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Who is here using only the Mystery Method?lol, everybody learned from DD? You may want to do some more research there buddy. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | How to know when to make the next move with a girl you meet at a bar?The best time to make a move was yesterday. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Percentage of girls who would go to your house on the first date directlyWhy would you invite a complete stranger to your house? You sound dumb. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | How invite to date without a car?Hello I'm a loser, how can I get women interested in me! | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:30 PM |
| 3 | “What is it bout’ men?” -Amy WinehouseWhy would men be interested in a relationship with you without first tryin the milk for free? Just because you have a vagina? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Wtf went wrong in your life that you are 37 and haven't figured this shit out bro. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Who is here using only the Mystery Method?No he did not. David X mentions that Mystery was his student and that he would go out and get a bunch of numbers but women would just laugh at him behind his back because he was a fucking weirdo clown. So stop making shit up. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:22 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]When do you plan on moving out? When you are 40? When you get married? When your parents finally get sick of you and kick you out? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:20 AM |
| 5 | She is the one who texts me, but it takes hours to answer me.The fact that it bothers you shows me you are too available, not a challenge and pretty desperate for female attention. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you rationalize vastly differing results with women and not allow it to alter your confidence?It's because on some days you feel good about yourself and really like who you are because something you may have achieved and on those down days you are back to feeling like your old loser self. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:18 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]What do you want us to do? Go to your house and force you to go out and socialize? If you don't care to do, why do you think anyone else cares? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:14 AM |
| 0 | Where Do You Approach Girls?Smart girls = library, fit girls = gym, nerdy girls = Comicon, dumb girls = abortion clinic. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Who is here using only the Mystery Method?Literally the worst thing you can do to your "game". | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:02 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]The answer is always more dick pics. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:14 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Why should women be interested in a grumpy and frumpy dork? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Club game /Streetgame 101 in in the statesIf you have phobias of going out to a club by yourself, this is the perfect opportunity to get over your fears. You go to the club and resolve yourself stay there the entire night until closing time (unless you are on Vegas where the party never ends). You can tell your fears "come on, do your best, now is your chance, I'm here alone, looking like a loser, do your worst." Pretty soon you will find you panicked for nothing. But my most important advice is this. Always go out for the purpose of ha… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Question: So girls might be afraid to have sex with you cause they’ll feel like a slut, but love being called a slut in bed??🤔🤔When you see a beautiful woman in public surrounded by her friends or strangers, what is stopping you from confidently walking up to her, pushing others aside if they are in your way, and saying "I like you, you look absolutely gorgeous". Think real hard, what's stopping you? Usually it is fear of disapproval. What will she think, what will others think, will they get mad at me, wjll they laugh at me, will they think I'm a loser. Well, women have a very similar conditioning that's been ingrained… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:56 PM |
| 36 | Will be able to pleasure women?No sorry, female pleasure starts at 5.1". | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I've been conditioned in a bad way and I'm currently seeking therapy for it among other things, but I also want to take action.Ask yourself why do you really give hot women power. And once you've answered this ask yourself what do you really get out of giving hot women power. List as many reasons why as possible and post them here. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Great 1st dates never turning into 2nd ones from OLD.Why are you in a rush to set up a second date? Think about it? You are afraid someone better will come along or that she will lose interest or she will get distracted by a new show on Netflix. This doesn't speak to a lot of confidence on your part. The longer you wait to call her, the more your confidence will grow. My suggestion is don't call or communicate much until your anxiety has disappeared completely. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Great 1st dates never turning into 2nd ones from OLD.Yes, that's her trying to chase you and you giving in right away. You give in = no longer a challenge, just another boring guy. Be more unavailable. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:40 PM |
| 4 | approaching girls at night?You really need to exercise some social intelligence here. If you approach lone women at night in a dark alley you are a fucking creep. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:32 PM |
| 5 | Great 1st dates never turning into 2nd ones from OLD.Next time don't mention or push for a second date right away. Be more ambiguous and play hard to get. The second a woman senses that she's "gotten" you in her web, she loses interest. Women need the thrill of the chase. They need to feel that they have worked for your attention and for that second date. Make them earn it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else create a monthly budget for their girlfriend(s)?No, but then again I'm not a psychopath | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:20 AM |
| -4 | Do girls talk about other guys as a test?You should never be a woman's sole source of dick. Insist on it if you have to. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Go out in clubs enough and you start spitting those women pretty easily. They look at you like a piece of meat that needs to be milked for sperm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Most sex workers are cleaner than your run of the mill girl next door. Number one, because that's their livelyhood, and they wouldn't risk losing it over a silly thing like herpes or crabs. Number two, they sleep wjth lots of men, so they have learned to take much better precautions than a girl who has no experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 113 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersIt's a case of wanting something because you don't have it. And when you do get it and indulge in it, it becomes boring. An incel will never comprehend how a man can get bored with having sex with the same woman. A married man will never comprehend how a playboy can get tired of porking a new girl every other day. And none of these guys can comprehend how porn stars need to take viagra and inject stuff in their dicks just so they can finish on a girls face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?Well, your argument assumes that women are the buyers and men are the sellers. And while I would agree that in reality this is the case in 90% of cases, the smart men, the men who actually get laid whenever they want, the roles are completely reversed. Everyone knows that in a negotiation the one who needs the least, has all the power. A man who has a great life, enjoys the heck out of it and doesn't need a woman to make him happy, complete or feel worthy will have his choice of women. Mostly be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women here, what ways do you show interest?And then men claim women never approach men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | The problem in modern datingThat's your personal value system you are describing here and then projecting onto others as if it were universal. You can choose whatever you want to consider valuable. That's a personal opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Well, for a coupon of days a month, if you are a healthy female, you start sizing up every guy and thinking "MUST HARVEST SPERM". Maybe it doesn't happen to you but it happens to most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | The problem in modern datingSo it's just a meaningless expression? Meaning it's your own opinion with no basis in reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The problem in modern datingPlease provide a specific definition. What criteria do you use to measure this variables? What measuring tools/scales do you use? Where does worthless end and where does high value start? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The problem in modern datingHow do you define value? Be specific? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:53 PM |
| -1 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Unless you can show me evidence that the opposite is settled science you can fuck right off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.It's peer reviewed and accepted in a scientific journal. It's not junk science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Your article points out exactly what I'm saying. It's like I'm taking crazy pills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Role of testosterone in female libido: https://www.dovepress.com/has-testosterone-passed--the-test-in-premenopausal-women-with-low-libi-peer-reviewed-fulltext-article-IJWH https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26589379/ Estrus: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2394562/ So stop talking out of your ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Hmmmm, are you sure? Cause I think you are wrong: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2394562/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.Lol. Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:14 PM |
| 38 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.It's just that the arousal mechanism for women is different and then they also have estrus which men do not. Women do absolutely get in heat for a few days a month. With men, it's much more even across the board. But at the end of the day I find it hilarious that men can say in one breath that women have dick offered to them all the time and they are banging a new dude every other day, but at the same time they are not horny at all and furthermore find only 5% of men attractive enough to have se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 06:58 PM |
| 10 | Journey from "Alpha male" to "Beta male" - "Notes from Underground"I mean is this any different than a woman who says, "I will try being myself and not trying hard", so she doesn't shave her legs or her pussy, stops putting on make up or getting her hair done. Stops dressing sexy and just puts on whatever, and when she's on dates she talks about her crazy hobbies and obsessions that nobody cares about. You think she will be able to attract many men? | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?Women hit their sexual stride in their late 30s and 40s so they are in high demand. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:20 PM |
| 2 | How long do you wait before texting numbers from daygame ? And what do you say ?You can text them at night and say "Hey, it's Bob, we'll talk soon". Then text them a day or two later wjth a specific plan of action. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:18 PM |
| 2 | How the hell am I supposed to curate an online image to attract girls?It's not just photos of you living your lifestyle. It's also about your personal style and the attitude you give off. Do your photos say "nice guy who calls his mom every day and is a bit afraid of his own shadow" OR "a guy who will fuck your brains out until they leak on the pillow". Despite popular dating advice, women actually prefer the second one cause they dirty and nasty as f. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Look up David Burns "When Panic Attacks". Some fear and anxiety you can solve by thinking differently about things, but mostly you have to do a combination of changing your thinking and confronting your fears head on. Typically the fear men have is of disapproval, people getting upset with them or plain embarrassment. They see danger in those things and therefore don't want to risk it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 11:01 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Every woman loves other women at least from the waist up. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Any tips ?Too late buddy. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Date This Friday!If you are already thinking about impressing her you are essentially making her opinion of you more important than your opinion of you and there is nothing more diminishing than this. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:57 AM |
| 19 | Text game on tinderActually not funny or witty at all. That's the verbal equivalent of a dick pic. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Size Matters, but not why you think it does…Lol, Sonny Barger, the founder of the Hells Angles was 5'1-5'2, do you really think he had a tough time getting respect from anyone e nevermind women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 10:44 AM |
| – | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?I'm the first to say that men are mostly all the same. I've given advice to female friends of mine and they hardly ever believe me, only for me to gloat after their breakup or them getting played wjth a "TOLD YOU SO!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 17 | The idea that “you can’t control who you’re attracted to” is disingenuous, and fails to recognize the variable of relativity in women’s ability to be incredibly selective. That is, a persons “standards” are fluid and fluctuate quickly in the absence of options.You can't argue with mentally ill people who believe their delusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | How are people supposed to find partners?I know right. I mean if you are terrified of even going out in the real world and you only experience it through tweets and Reddit posts, then how on earth are you going to have the courage to approach a woman and express your interest in her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | How are people supposed to find partners?How many times have you been arrested for that? Be specific. Time, place, arresting officer, and jail you were in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 0 | How are people supposed to find partners?Why would you not look good? Only low self esteem people don't take care of their external appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Something I do not understandA little on the nose. What do you bring to the table other than your ability to lose weight? Will a woman still feel respected by you in the morning? Will it cost her her reputation? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Something I do not understandThat's because you don't know what you want and are afraid to express it. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Something I do not understandYou have to do it tactfully and smart. You may put something like "if you are looking for a boyfriend, sponsor or daddy keep swiping. Or if you are looking for a friend to trade orgasms with, shoot me a line". | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 8 | How are people supposed to find partners?Again, that's why I say don't listen to women. You are referring to a vary specific case of guys being creeps and inappropriate and extrapolating this to mean "all approaching bad". A man can be very appropriate and confidently approach a woman like he is her Prince. But since this almost never happens to women, their only frame of reference is guys catcalling them from their cars or following them around on the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 12 | How are people supposed to find partners?What I am referring to in particular is "don't talk to us, don't look at us, don't even think about us, we only date men that we have dated before" hurr durr. It's just retarded. Everyone starts off as a stranger and I have met plenty of strangers in all walks of life who ended up in my bed (or theirs). One of these strangers became my wife. Several others became long term girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 3 | What to do in between organizing date and actual dateYou should text her every day several paragraphs so she doesn't all of a sudden lose interest because what girl would want to date a nobody like you anyway unless you are able to provide her wjth constant entertainment. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If a woman is not co tribute to anything of value to your life, why would you keep her around? You think you can change a young girl to have the attention span and desire to pay attention to you? Good luck. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:31 PM |
| -1 | Do or Don’t ask for a second date during the first date?I think it's a great idea. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 105 | How are people supposed to find partners?One thing I learned early on is that if you listen to women it's a recipe for going crazy. Stop apologizing for wanting to have sex. Stop apologizing for finding women attractive. Women want you to seduce them and turn them on. Listening to the shills on Reddit is madness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Does posting pics with girls raise SMV?Them are fighting words boy. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Anyone of you that succesfully pulls off the phrase "Those who run away get chased"?Doing this expecting the other person to chase is actually being attached to the outcome and being afraid of walking away. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 12:33 AM |
| -4 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?Absolutely same idea | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 12:27 AM |
| -6 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?Ask yourself why you feel the need to confirm? Would a confident men who women are dying to go out with need to confirm his dates because he is afraid they won't show up? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Trying to set a date but this girl is not great at texting back.I will give you a $100 if he asks her out in the way you suggest and she actually goes out with him instead of making an excuse or flaking. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:40 PM |
| -2 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?That is as needy as it gets. Why do you need to confirm unless you weren't confident she'd even show? The message you are subcommunicating is "women often cancel dates on me because I don't think I am good enough to get them interested in actually meeting with me". | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Trying to set a date but this girl is not great at texting back.Let's go out. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Trying to set a date but this girl is not great at texting back.If you are going to ask her out like wimp, best to not even bother. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:13 PM |
| 22 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?That's your subconscious mind trying to sabotage, trying to make you needy and clingy before you've even had a chance to seduce her. Guys texting over and over paragraph after paragraph for days on end bore women to tears. They want men of action not men of words. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]No they are not | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]When are you planning on getting laid? Do you have a date/age set for it? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Stop trying to read womens' mindsSpeak for yourself bro. I'm pretty psychic and can read thoughts alright. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Approach the one you want. Doing anything other than that is just finding excuses and not going from point a to b in the shortest path possible. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I think I’ve realized I act “too interested” on first dates. Is that possible/ tips to avoid that?Exactly no expectations and don't even touch them for the entire date. As a matter of fact, don't let it drag on, cut it a bit short and send her home without a kiss. By the second or third date they will be ripping your clothes off. You can kiss on the second date but again nothing more than that. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What does it cost to be a top 1% man?All you need is to actually love and accept yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?I've hooked up with women who didn't even speak a lick of English nevermind knowing what I do or not for work. The idea that a man has to be a productive member of society to get women is ludicrous. Bikers and drug dealers smash more pussy than most guys have seen their whole lives and they ain't model citizens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?That's your value system. You only value people who contribute to society. Everyone else is worthless. But that's your projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatWho cares about what the sub says in the notes. All that matters is what the users convey through their posts and comments. Don't play stupid with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?Lol not even close. Never said you need to fake shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatBut not without judgement which renders acceptance useless. You either offer nonjudgmental acceptance or no acceptance at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | There are tons of guys who self-identify as ugly but why aren't there many women who self-identify as ugly?It is crucial for men to have low self esteem, so they can have motivation to work harder and consume more. Their suffering moves society forward. Same works for women. Women compare themselves negatively to all the Instagram influencers and then go out and buy buy buy stuff to make themselves feel better and superior to other women who can't afford new shoes, bags and make up every month/season. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingThe market is the market. If there is an over supply of dick on one marketplace (OLD) and not enough demand, then only the most competitive commodities get sold. Hence only 5% of men on OLD being able to get a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingThat's not how supply and demand works. If there is more supply of men then there is demand, the price of the supply goes down. And vice versa, demand for women is higher than supply so they have the leverage and they can charge what they want. In the dating world that means they can get the most outstanding men to them. In reality though, there are more women alive than men. Men are in shorter supply. Include all the guys in the military, the ones in jail, the homeless and crazy ones who are ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:15 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Start here: https://youtu.be/A9t46Zdq6n8 | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:32 AM |
| 0 | Question for Women who have undergone surgery to enhance their looksYou never took me up on that offer to sit on my face. Pretty disappointed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatNo, you nailed it. RP guys problem is always self esteem and confidence. The issue is their value system. If you only value people who are successful in the eyes of society or are sexually successful, you will hold yourself to those same standards. And when you come short, you will beat yourself up mercilessly. But it's not all bad! You also get to feel superior and smug to people who are less successful than you or are virgins, etc. This is what keeps people adopting these dysfunctional mental … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite thatNot true. The whole idea of hypergamy is that a woman will keep trading up until she dies. It's just your turn. Enjoy the decline, alpha widow, etc. These are fatalistic Red Pill concepts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | What does survival value = to ? Replication value = beauty (stuff that represent good healthy on an unconscious level )Ugh? If I am understanding you correctly, men choose women based on their external signs of health, ie beauty, healthy skin, healthy hair, the right distribution of fat on the body, that all matter for a healthy pregnancy. Women select for fearless men, who can provide safety and protection to them and their offspring and who will pass their strong fearless genes into their babies. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You have scored the jackpot! A sexually liberated woman who gets off on being watched. Don't let anyone shame you for what two consenting adults and their cameraman do in the bedroom. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Tips for sealing the dealAs long as you are scared of your own shadow you will always have problems with women. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | What’s your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would otherwise get downvoted by the community?You don't need to be some Demi god to be attractive to women, just normal. The thing is majority of men believe they are abnormal or severely lacking. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hats like saying there are men who don't like big boobs. I'm sure such weirdos exist but they are so rare that their existence is insignificant. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | time manegment spinning platesYou are worried about managing time to text a girl you are not even fucking? And are worried what to do with 3 girls and don't even have sex? Common dude | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:51 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Go at 2am an hour before the club closes and only the super horny chicks who were hoping to get laid are left. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What are you waiting for? For her to rape you? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is She Just Stretching Or Trying To Show Off Her Body?Tell me you have never had a girlfriend without telling me you e never had a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What is the purpose of this whole thing? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:43 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Stop having an agenda and expecting a certain outcome. Men are like that homeless guy who says "hey nice shirt bro" and you know that the very next thing out of his mouth is to hit you up for money. He was not genuine, he had an agenda and the agenda was to butter you up so you give him money. Men do exactly the same wjth women, from their demeanor to their compliments to their questions, they all have an agenda behind them and the agenda is "please like me". And as it happens it is extremely un… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Status is the best proxy for a man's dating potentialWhen you think all of this can be solved by just feeling good about yourself instead of making your confidence more conditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 07:56 PM |
| 3 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?If you make your self esteem and confidence conditional on having achieved whatever society deems acceptable, then you will always be a slave to someone else's definition of worthy male OR you can give yourself permission and go for what you want. There is no inherent difference between a man who has a successful career and a man who doesn't. When they are in the club and speaking to a woman, she doesn't ask to see their bank account or their job title. A woman goes by gut instinct based on what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 6 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?That's just another cope for beta males who don't feel like they are good enough. It's placating them and forcing them to work harder hoping for some reward at the end of the rainbow. If they would just get over their fears and phobias and go for what they want, they would be much happier. That's what lower socioeconomic people do anyway. They are not concerned wjth being economically successful before they give themselves permission to go out and bang new chicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 06:18 PM |
| 6 | The more ambivalent I am towards women, the better I do.Men love bitches. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingMuch appreciated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingWomen don't work the way men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingJust because it doesn't happen to you it means it doesn't exist, am I rite? How has chasing women worked out for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingApparently there are 9 men to every 1 woman on OLD so it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingYou said that you still have to play a game and a dance, making it sound like it it something stupid and useless. I am saying that women need that dance in order to feel turned on by a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 11:46 AM |
| 5 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingWho would have thought that a woman needs to be turned on with some flirting and banter? Women, am I rite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 26 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingThat's exactly what this is a code for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingThis is so funny because in my years of experience (in the real world not online), women love to chase and win over men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:54 AM |
| 114 | The more ambivalent I am towards women, the better I do.Here is the little secret. Women love to chase men. They love men who are a challenge to them. It's the exact same reason they will line up to fuck a rock star that just got done fucking 10 other groupies in front of them and who won't even bother to ask for their name. That's why badboys score a lot. They are not the settling kind, they don't want to stick around and women go crazy for them. But the second you start acting like a woman has "gotten" you, at least in the beginning, the thrill of … | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Does posting pics with girls raise SMV?Dog pics maybe not but cat pics absolutely. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:39 AM |
| 4 | Do day game really help to get a relationship that last for like a year or more ? Or it is just for hookup ?Let me put it this way. Women always dream about meeting a guy in a way that fate decided. They bumped into each other at a cafe, she spilled her drink on him at a bar, or any other way that appears like "it was meant to be". Every single romantic comedy will follow this formula. It's what women yearn for. I don't think any woman thinks logging onto their Tinder account is very romantic and like it will get them Mr. Right. And just because of that, being able to meet women anywhere gives you a h… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:38 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]What parameters dude? Stop jerking off and get off your ass. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you really think that dating and sexual selection has radically changed in the last 10 years after working perfectly fine for millions of years before that, I think you need psychiatric help. Urgently. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:35 AM |
| 6 | How did men back in the days get women when they were a simp?How did humans manage to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years wjthout Tinder or the Mystery Method before it? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Women here, do you expect the man to plan most/all of the dates when you’re in a relationship?Men want to be viewed as masculine and strong but then scoff are their responsibilities and burdens that are required of them. If you don't want to lead and be in control, then hand over the pants to your girlfriend or get out of the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Seeing your ex’s downfall 5+ years later isn’t the satisfaction you think it isNah doubt it. She could hold it together for 2-3 months and she was hot so I could see it happening, but guy probably found out shortly after what he was in for. It is possible she murderer him and erased all evidence of them being related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sure Jan | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol, you let her call the shots and now you are the one suffering and you haven't even had sex. And you probably won't. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 4 | The state is the problem between men and women.If you define your value as a man by what you can provide financially for a woman, then you have no understanding of female nature or even your own male nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Ever been ghosted after good sex?This 100%. She faked it so hard to make you stop. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys “Set your intentions” ?You set your intentions before you get out of the house. This means deciding what you want. When you are with a woman you must let her know exactly who you are and hat you are about so she can make her own choice (take it or leave it). Do not make choices for them. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: I had two women make out with each other. Feedback will be welcomeOnly read title but they made out with each other not with him so...... | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction?Bullshit. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you do to inspire desire/attraction from your partner?It's not about what you do, it's about who you are. The two most important things for men are: overcome your fears and phobias that are blocking you from expressing directly and honestly that you find a woman attractive and knowing your worth as a man and what you bring to the table (protection, attention, sex,leadership, commitment, relationship). As you craft yourself into an attractive man who isn't afraid and therefore can provide protection AND you respect yourself and your time because you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Sex, Drugs, and Rock n' Roll Mega-ThreadThanks for your input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What are ways to affirm a man’s “masculinity” that aren’t tied to “dominating” or “subjugation”?Then you complain that men don't take the time to get you off. Women, am I rite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | What are ways to affirm a man’s “masculinity” that aren’t tied to “dominating” or “subjugation”?Masculinity isn't about subjugating others, but not letting yourself be subjugated. You don't need to eat your girlfriend and tell her she is worthless, but you do need to stand up to any of her bullshit nonsense and make her respect you. If she refuses, show her the door. Not being able to command respect makes you a pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | A Great Majority Of PPD Women Claim Their Partner Is HotI swear to god some men here have severe mental disease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:15 AM |
| 6 | Sex, Drugs, and Rock n' Roll Mega-ThreadWomen have always loved badboys, which PPD men can't comprehend because they were raised to be perfectly nice mommas boys their whole lives and were promised the greatest reward at the end of the rainbow if they just worked hard enough and become a doctor/lawyer/whatever: a super fine girl who'd love them for what they can provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Do women need a “comparison” to know if she’s aroused?Not sure I understand what you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:40 AM |
| 6 | The root of most debates on PPD is the failure to realize that men and women are very differentNot only that, but people constantly project their own gender's experience onto the other. Men see a hot blond and are ready to inset their semen in her without as much as knowing her name as long as she's willing. They think: If I were a hot girl, every guy will want to fuck me, so I just need to point my finger at someone/swipe right and I will be getting more dick then I know what to do wjth. This is a typical mistake men make not understanding that the female experience of arousal is complet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting you for moneyA boy become a man when he overcomes his fear of disapproval. A girl become a woman when she overcomes her need for security (provided by daddy/hubby). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Seeing your ex’s downfall 5+ years later isn’t the satisfaction you think it isI was casually cyberstalking an ex of mine that made my life miserable (I permitted it). I saw that she had posted photos of her wedding on Facebook and I was okay, she found a sucker to put a ring on it, good for her. Then I cyber stalked her a few months later and I swear to god, there was no evidence of a wedding ever occurring. No photos, no mention of the guy, no nothing. I feel sorry for the poor sucker but at least he found out eventually what a nut job she was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:34 AM |
| 7 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menK thanks for your input. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Advice for dating/meeting not at the bar/club/dating apps?If you are good enough one or two days is all you need. 2-3 approaches to find a girl YOU like and then get her to meet you, etc. From there you can be seeing 2-3 girls in a relatively short time. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menReread my post a few times. You are not supposed to never validate, you just need to do it as a reward for something she does as opposed to doing it so you can get a certain outcome. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 05:56 PM |
| 9 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menJust posting here for shits and giggles | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 04:57 PM |
| 186 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menHey what's up. I'm about to turn 41, I'm married, so I actually handled this part of my life in my 20s, but I also have the perspective of so many years of experience looking back and understanding what works and what doesn't. The thing about attracting women in your life is that's it's all about who you are not what you do. And changing who you are is much harder than learning a couple of pickup lines or taking better photos for OLD. In my experience the two biggest blockers men anywhere experi… | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 8 | Are men really worthless?I find the whole screeching about women not needing man absolutely hilarious. If women really believed that they wouldn't be trying to convince everyone and their cousins that they don't need men. As they say, the opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference. If women really didn't care they'd be indifferent. Instead they are screeching on every social media about men this and men that. Who is really the insecure and needy sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Are men really worthless?To believe that anyone else but you gets to decide if you are a worthwhile human being is absolute madness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:25 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]You are reacting way too much to them and trying to force being funny. You should be teasing them about them trying to hit on you. So the first one you could answer: "IKR, girls always fall for the guy from the wrong side of the tracks." The second, "so if we robbed a bank on our first date, would you be able to defend me in court?" | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI mean if you guys spend half of the energy you spend hating on women on actually making yourself more attractive and appealing, you'd all have girlfriends and stfu already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 07:10 PM |
| 9 | How to not feel depressed after an unsuccessful night out?You are tying your self esteem and confidence to your success with women, instead of who you are as a person. Ask yourself these three questions: Why I really tie my self esteem to success with women? What do I get out of doing this? Do I really need to keep doing this? Provide your answers here and let's dissect. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]Not funny at all. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]So you can spend all day wondering if she likes you to the extend that you come in Reddit and post about it and then still think about it all weekend. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | What’s your dating advice to the guys on here who can’t get success with women?this is a waste of keystrokes, but here it goes. I don't claim to know what women want (that would be crazy), but in my 41 years on this earth, with a marriage, several LTRs and numerous FWB and ons under my belt, it is my belief that first and foremost women are looking for someone who they can feel safe and protected by. Guys usually take this to mean that they should act like a "safe" guy, new rules trying any funny business, never being mean to her, etc., so they don't risk hurting her. But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesYou are 100% correct. That's all what these posts are seeking to accomplish. Women better change their ways...or else! Or else what? I think the implication is that or else sexually unsuccessful men will resort to violence and rape to get what they believe they have been deprived of. But here is the real crux of the issue. I was debating with someone onone of the threads last night who was convinced that his lack of confidence and self esteem was solely other peoples fault. By extension, him fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:09 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I find people who are hesitant to spend money on themselves to have self esteem issues. Basically you are sending the message that you are not worth it to dress well or look good. Think about what this tells women? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Even if it is true, (I don’t think it is) Why is being BBb considered such a bad thing?I think you may not be understanding what BBing means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:54 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]All of it. Scrap it and start new. I can tell right away that you don't have any success on the apps so you need to take drastic actions But before you do this, I want you to take the following action. Make an appointment at an expensive hair salon preferably one which employs attractive young women and ask them to give you the type of haircut they would give their boyfriend. You need to spend at least $50-60 on your haircut. Also ask them for styling product suggestions. After you are done with… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Even if it is true, (I don’t think it is) Why is being BBb considered such a bad thing?There is absolutely nothing sexy about a provider who has to chase a woman so he can provide for her. It's just dysfunctional behavior. The biggest myth of course, is that a man MUST do this in order to have a woman and that he actually ENJOYS the chase and spending money on someone. It's all brainwashing really. To fight brainwashing, you need to ask yourself 3 questions: Why do I really want to be a provider to a woman? What does it do for me to be a provider? Do I really need to keep being a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | if men have to commit to women to get "wifey" behavior from women (cooking/cleaning nurturing), do women have to earn husband behavior? (financial providing, protection)If anything men are prone in giving too much early on without getting anything in exchange. They call this displaying high value, but why should the man be displaying high value and giving stuff? Guys give away attention, financial investment and commitment way too early without getting anything of reciprocal value from women and in essence they end up devaluing anything they can bring to the table. If you give away your most valuable things for free, then they become worthless. That's why I wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 6 | If You Asked For Her Phone Number, Then Call HerThese days people meet on a dating app. Then they ask for each other's SnapChat so they can chat on another app. Then they ask for each other's Instagram accounts so they can see what type of life the other person is having. After sliding into each other's DMs they will exchange numbers so they can text each other about a potential date 3 weeks from now. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:16 AM |
| 59 | Advice for dating/meeting not at the bar/club/dating apps?I used daygame for years to meet women so I can offer a few pointers. The first thing is to decide what it is that you want. Saying "I just want to meet girls" is not enough. What kind of girls? Do you like them smart, party girls, tattooed girls, nerds, etc? What do you want them for? Looking for a gf or just a FWB or a ons? There are many different flavors and you have to make up your mind before you get out of the house, because this will form your strategy and places you go to. If you really… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | If women are Hypergamous, manosphere men want thatI love watching the hamster wheel spin! Lololol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | If women are Hypergamous, manosphere men want thatTRP philosophy summed up in one sentence: "I would want to be part of a club that would have me as member". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Fit shaming is becoming more acceptable as the average American gets fatterExercise is inherently fat-phobic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Reasons for ignoring texts or delays in responsesMy response is to practice detachment and indifference. If you are so attached to whether someone is replying to you right away, it means that you are more invested than they are and that makes you needy and desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?If any of these guys had any sexual experience they'd find that an "experienced" women is typically better in bed than an inexperienced one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 27 | Cold Approach is Not For EveryoneYeah I never understood why day game was viewed as some panacea. I always used it in between different things I had going on the day. If I was heading to the gym or grabbing a coffee or on the train. I tried it as the primary way of meeting women and they can absolutely sense you are on the prowl and have nothing better to do than harass them. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How to approach those who seem preoccupied/unapproachable?No, don't approach someone who is not open to it. It's stupid and an uphill battle. You have to learn not to be needy and let women like this go. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How to approach those who seem preoccupied/unapproachable?Correct! Unless you are super shy and have not spoken to a woman. In this case, it's worth it to develop some missions to get over this. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:10 PM |
| 6 | How to approach those who seem preoccupied/unapproachable?Only do that as practice to overcome your shyness but not as a general strategy. You should be going on about your day, chasing whatever purpose you have for the day and ONLY approach a woman if she really stands out to you. Then you can go out of your way to speak to her. But if you go out for the EXPRESS PURPOSE of picking up girls you will mostly fail as they can see your creepy weird vibe. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:56 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?And what? He is not "giving" her his dick? Is the implication here that a woman is rewarding a man/letting him have access to her vagina? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?Lol, ahahahha! No I don't think all men are like this, but many are unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:09 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?Because the meaning he is putting behind the words is that a woman is "giving" something to a man. She is "letting" him have access to her vagina/sex. This is an inherently disempowering frame of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:47 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?Lol, yes, I've always said that for men sex isn't just sex. They attach all this other meaning to it, like getting sex is the biggest stamp of approval, or it makes them feel powerful, or it proves that they are not the unpopular loser they were in middle school, etc, etc. if they just relaxed for once and connected with women without all the other bullshit they attach to the interaction, they would be getting laid much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Well funded audio-based dating apps have all flopped. That's proof that personality isn't as important as people say it isWell of course. The more you look into yourself the most stuff you will discover that is wrong or flawed or screwed up and e more you will try to cover it up with niceness. Smart men are always the ones who have the most trouble with women. Dumb jocks and thugs do fine because they don't think beyond tomorrow and certainly don't spend enough time looking into themselves to find everything that is wrong with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Fixed inner game but still struggling on datesWell, you need to walk us through how you meet women and how you set things up. Personally I'd skip the coffee dates and just go for drinks. Don't try so hard. Second, if you are so focused on losing your virginity you are likely making sex with them the prize, which is turning women off. I'm speculating of course, but you need to lol at dates as "I here to enjoy myself and if this girl shows me she can add something to my life then I'd consider sleeping with her". Thirdly, you are most likely n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 10:50 AM |
| 0 | How to recover strong attraction after Exhibiting signs of Neediness and Insecurity?Lol, looking for a bandaid for a gunshot wound. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 10:46 AM |
| 5 | Well funded audio-based dating apps have all flopped. That's proof that personality isn't as important as people say it isRight. Men assume that personality means being pleasant, liking your mom and caring for the starving kids in Africa. For me, a personality that attracts women means that first and foremost the man likes himself and respects himself. A man who likes and respects himself is not susceptible to manipulation and to being taken advantage of, because he doesn't need validation or approval from others. And since he doesn't bend for anyones whims that makes him insanely attractive to any woman because sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?Words are meaningless, but how you intend to use words means everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:37 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This is really weird and creepy and you seem to be the kind of guy apologizing for his existence. Not sexy bro! | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:42 AM |
| 19 | [deleted by user]The method of meeting people has changed. What women find attractive has not. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:41 AM |
| 13 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?Gave casual sex to? Jesus buddy, get some help please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Well my assumption is that it are not doing that well after the dates otherwise why post this question right? The thing that will make you sexy is confidence aka lack of fear. If you are afraid to express your interest in a woman, if you are afraid of making a move on her, kissing her romantically, talking about sex, etc., how can she rely on you to make her feels safe and protected? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I mean if you are going to come up with excuses, I'm not interested. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 9 | How do you guys tease women without it coming off as a straight insult?All teasing should be related to them hitting on you. So misinterpret everything as them hitting on you you; wanting you, trying to seduce you, etc. let's say you are with a coworker and she says "You are so great to work with, we are always having a laugh" and you can say "Jeez Jane, didn't you read the harassment manual from HR, it's not appropriate to hit on your coworkers". | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 6 | What Happened To NYC?People have left NYC. Only uggos, homeless, crackheads and ghetto ass people are left it seems. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]It means you are nice to look at but not necessarily arousing. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women get their hearts broken by good-looking men in their youth and then settle down with nice average looking guys when they're done with the toxicity?That's because the men are wimps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Question for woman: Who is the "highest value man" who has pursued you?100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do i get the confidence to start approaching?Meaning does it make sense to you to go and talk to a woman for example. Using your reasoning if it seems reasonable and makes sense to you and she doesn't look unfriendly, distresses, etc but receptive, then it is reasonable that she might be open to talking to you. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you go to clubs for night game?Go out about an hour before closing time. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Question for woman: Who is the "highest value man" who has pursued you?Apparently you don't even have to be truly attractive. Just above a 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Question for woman: Who is the "highest value man" who has pursued you?Lol high value males do not pursue. They are pursued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 04:38 PM |
| -2 | Would you take her back if she comes around?Holding grudges is always the right thing to do. I mean it totally these girls' fault that you were a loser. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | How do i get the confidence to start approaching?https://m.facebook.com/nt/screen/?params=%7B%22note_id%22%3A821658011918921%2C%22entry_point%22%3A%22MOBILE_POST_ATTACHMENT%22%7D&path=%2Fnotes%2Fnote%2F&state | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You sound like a serial killer. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Lol for wanting a virgin. Your funeral man | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]Well, the advice means don't make women your sole purpose in life. As in, have a life you enjoy and a partner/s will be icing on the cake. But agree, he needs to go out and mingle with people. I've tried for years to materialize a naked girl out of thin air and it still hasn't worked. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]They are gonna eat you alive. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesReally ridiculously good looking. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:28 AM |
| 10 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesTell that to my wife and countless girlfriends, FWB and ons. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesLol wants to meet women but doesn't go to the places that women specifically go to meet men. We got a rocket surgeon ova here. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesBtw, what you are describing is how most women APPROACH men. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:01 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Once you get over the initial shyness and being able to say hi and say a couple of things, I would start going to places where women go out to meet men. Bars, clubs, etc. Clubs might be a bit intimidating so start with bars. Go out with a buddy and if you see a girl, make it your mission to go over and give her a compliment and then go back. Don't try to have a conversation, just introduce yourself and say "I just thought that dress looks really great on you and wanted to let you know. See ya ar… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The only way is to get over your fear and do it. NO magic bullets are sold here. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How to be fun whilst still being taken seriously?Have you tried being normal? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do women ask disingenuous questions they already know the answer to?Funny guy. You should claim they raped you and #metoo them. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 5 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?Don't do it to impress women, so it because it allows you to better connect with them. Stuff like talking about relationships, sex and the latest reality tv drama. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Every time I get a girl her friends always mess things upYou don't need to engage the entire group. You can be nice to them, but you don't need to spend any time befriending them if you don't want to unless they are interesting. The real issue is the phobia that you have which is coming across your vibe and since women are highly attuned to sensing anxiety, they start feeling weird around you and want to leave. So you have t face your anxieties of talking to a group of women. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:17 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Just trust him on that one bro | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:14 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]ZERO OF IT APPLIES! It's the most retarded philosophy ever invented. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Being too prideful hurting me?What is the outcome that you want? What do you want these girls for? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesNope you don't. You need to challenge your fears. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:10 AM |
| 80 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?That's the wrong way to look at it. Trying to do ANYTHING in order to impress another means that you value their opinion of you more highly than you value your opinion of you. That essentially puts you on a lower status rung than a woman or whomever you are trying to impress. The weaker always tries to curry favor from the stronger by trying to impress them. Unknowingly you set up a dynamic where women have power over you and guess what? The one thing every woman is looking for is a man who has … | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t I ever get a second date after the first date?Stop kissing them on a first date. Be completely hands off. You can still be playfully confident but don't touch them. By the second date they will be ripping your clothes off themselves. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 27 | [deleted by user]No, but it's the greatest country for getting shot up by incels. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Why some men's standards do NOT need to go up.All you need is to face your fears and not apologize for wanting women. That's all you need to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexYou know, I'm not risking rejection for anything less then ass to mouth. Ok wish me luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 2 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexAhhh man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 4 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexShe paid for my drink! But anyway, I hope she likes me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 20 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexSo this girl was sucking my dick and let me cum in her mouth. Do you think she will say yes if I ask her out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 0 | If familiarity kills attraction, do ALL LTR's EVENTUALLY become void of attraction?Tell me about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexSo does the woman control it or do you as the man control how you come across? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 3 | If you masturbate in three to five minutes for a dopamine fix you may be setting yourself up for premature ejaculation later in life.So relax and take deep breaths? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexSo what leads you think casual sex is better other than it being free if expectations and pressure? And if it is indeed so, is that some fault of women or the fault of the men who set up the expectations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 0 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?Men don't seem to distinguish between being able to talk about how they feel in a mature and adult way and turning into pathetic cry babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 07:56 PM |
| 12 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexSo why do you assume that only attractive looking men get casual sex? It sounds like the guys not getting casual sex are trying to pretend they are boyfriend material and expect their woman to be low n count and adhere to expectations vs the guy who accepts women as they are, understands their nature, which is that they want sex as much as men as long as it doesn't cost them loss of reputation or respect. It's a self imposed problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | If familiarity kills attraction, do ALL LTR's EVENTUALLY become void of attraction?7.5 years? I would argue it's anywhere between a couple of hours and 18 months at most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?So you don't even care about the person? You just want some arrangement out of convenience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:25 PM |
| -9 | [deleted by user]Just cause you like frumpy chicks don't mean we all do bro. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?If there is no sexy time involved why not just partner up with a male friend? Or a family member? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Dating Model now for 2 months - What seduction/game strategies to employ once the initial 'gaming' has been completed?Have you tried being yourself? No! Maybe a bit late to try this now if you've been faking it all this time. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Asking the girl the reason for her you cutting you offGirl makes a Tinder profile hoping to get some deep dicking and all she gets is a guy who wants to take her out and cuddle for three dates and text her endlessly. It's tough being a woman. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | What to say when a girl says she likes your hair?You should see my bush/back. I am about to start a weave. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:41 PM |
| 9 | Tips for what to look for in a therapist to help improve my social anxiety / social life?Look for someone specializing in cognitive behavior therapy and who will not tolerate any of your bs. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]And you can't even get that. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Women with High Standards for Relationships will have Higher Body CountsIf sex is so easy for women why aren't they having it 24/7 with all kinds of different dudes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 05:34 PM |
| 0 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessIf anything men have delusions of inadequacy rather than the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 4 | The most obvious sign of women having the upper hand in dating is how many dudes you see who are completely whipped by women far less attractive than themBeing a bitch is a choice. You just don't want the burden of wearing the pants and calling the shots. It's a choice men make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?That's the outcome you want? So you will be okay with a sexless relationship that includes support and partnership? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | keeping engagement while textingThe only trick I have about keeping women interested is to text them less not more. You are likely boring the shit out of them wjth constant walls of text and robbing them of the opportunity to miss you and see you as mysterious. I once picked up a girl in a bar, got her number, texted to arrange a date a week later and didn't text her at all in the meantime. When we did meet, she told me "who are you? You haven't texted me at all, you are so mysterious". A nice guy will take that as "She's unha… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:49 PM |
| -2 | The balance of power among couples appears to influence female sexual desire via relationship satisfactionThat's the only way to constantly renew your interest in your long term partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:41 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Yep | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:40 PM |
| 6 | The balance of power among couples appears to influence female sexual desire via relationship satisfactionExactly. Usually I'm the first one to lose my sexual desire for the woman I'm with or rather grow bored of porking her. But then it becomes a viscous cycle. The man gets bored, the woman feels rejected so her sexual desire wanes as well. Now this is not to say that I am not still horny. But I'm horny for other women, not the familial one that smells like family . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | keeping engagement while textingDo you need to develop special skills to keep your friends engaged and interested in Jan going out with you? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?I don't think their standards are too high. They just want a guy who is not a coward, but who knows what he wants and can make them feel safe and protected and a guy who respects himself and will not bend for her. Everything else is icing on the cake. Whether he's tall, rich, whatever. The issue is, ask yourself how many men are truly in afraid of women and taking what they want and also respect themselves. The answer is probably 1 in 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Can a man be the smaller/weaker partner in a relationship?I don't think this is the right place for you to discuss your fetish or alternative lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:01 AM |
| 0 | keeping engagement while textingDude you are trying too hard and in trying too hard you are being unattractive. Hot guys don't have to try that much. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Had my first reapproach. Has it happened to anyone else?Yes. But what's the point of approaching so much and still not having a girlfriend? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They are really not. But you are either it or you are not and it seems you are not. You are probably giving off the wrong vibes, maybe you are an excuser or needy or pretend to be cool. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:55 AM |
| 70 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herBro you shot yourself in the dick. You meet a girl at closing time: what do you think she was there for? To talk to my li for 2 hours then get asked out on a lame date to go clubbing? Bro, she wanted sex. Why are you excusing yourself and go around in circles. Go the shortest way possible. What on earth is the purpose of talking so much and then asking her out to go clubbing, to do what!??? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Confidence means overcoming your fears and phobias. Whenever you come across something you know you need to get done and come up with every excuse in the book not to get it done, that's fear speaking to you. Let's take for example kissing. You go on dates and never make a move. You must make it your mission, that every date you go out on, you will make an attempt to kiss the girl even if it is unsuccessful, awkward, whatever. You must battle your phobias every single day. As you overcome more an… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:52 AM |
| -1 | Redditor in the bar indistry told me everyone will be able to tell I’m trying to chat with women, and they’ll find it weird. How true is this in your experience?That's the smartest thing I've read on this sub. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:48 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I'm sure your dates are also thinking "gosh, I hate shaving my legs and pussy, putting on make up, doing my hair, slipping into a dress a size too small and spending 2 hours in high heels just to get some guy interested in me. Can't we just skip to the part where I've put on 20lbs and walk around in sweatpants all the time". | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:48 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]This voice inside is your ego. Your ego is just a projection of how you think people see you and is only concerned with not being embarrassed or diminished. So when you want to try something new that risks rejection or embarrassment, such as walking up to a beautiful women and risking getting rejected, your ego will tell you all kinds of bullshit for why it shouldn't be done. But you need to recognize that the ego has no power. It is is simply a voice, like a crazy relative who is always shoutin… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 27 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’I don't want to be part of a club that would have me as a member. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 10:37 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yes | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Staying hard…tips?Stop watching prom and jerking off. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | keeping engagement while textingIf you are not an interesting person, then develop this side of yourself to become more interesting. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:15 AM |
| -3 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?Wtf do you need a relationship for other than that? To have someone cook for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:14 AM |
| -1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?I find that men who are unsuccessful romantically are just not fucking horny enough. I was once unsuccessful and shy. But I was more horny than shy, so I went out and learned to talk to women and take them home. It took a some time to find myself, but I did. I was just that fucking horny. The reality is that men who are sexless just have a motivation problem because if they really wanted a girlfriend as badly as they claim, they would have already gotten one. Instead, they all have excuses for w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:26 PM |
| 9 | Women live in 'post nut clarity' due to being the less horny gender. This is one of the main drivers of female pickiness.It's not that men are more horny, it's just that what takes to arouse a man is way more abundant than what takes to arouse a woman. I dare any guy to go shopping in his local Walmart or maybe go visit an old folks home and talk to me about being horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 08:45 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Yo, you sweat a lot or something? | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to mass approach in a smart way?How about you don't. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:47 PM |
| 9 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?You actually listen to women? You poor bastard. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think she is no interested because whe not reply this message?You seem a little too eager to schedule another one. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think she is no interested because whe not reply this message?Well, it's a bit too late now. The weekend has passed. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think she is no interested because whe not reply this message?She is, but you didn't plan anything because you weren't too afraid and you left it up to her. She concluded that you are not a man if you can't lead a simple planning of a date. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 9 | Dress "elegant" for average men is a mistakeWhy have all these losers invaded this sub and think they can for their horrible advice here? | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:02 PM |
| -5 | [deleted by user]The advice is to make your enjoyment the prize and not chasing pussy. How is chasing pussy working out for you? Because a lot of guys mistakenly believe that because they got over their fear of approaching, they are somehow making progress but in reality they are still not getting women. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you think she is no interested because whe not reply this message?I don't understand what you did here. There is no clear plan or course of action. You are being an excuser. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Women claim that men in reality do not care about how slutty a girl has been in her past, but then they also go on to defend women lying about their past to not get judged from men, don't these claims contradict each other?Unfortunately it's what women have been trained to do their entire lives since they were little girls. That's the real reason everyone hates easy women. It's not because there is something inherently wrong with a woman who test drives a lot of dick. It's just that men have been brainwashed such a woman is worthless and that they should go for the one that is giving them hard time and making them wait months because somehow her pussy is more valuable? Yeah sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How to stay motivated to approach womenThese were your words not mine. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 03:31 PM |
| -3 | How to get better at Day GameYeah got it. You are not interested in meeting women in the places they go to socialize and meet guys. you are not interested in creating an attractive profile on an app that is designed to out you in touch with women who are interested in dating. Got it. Makes total sense and it is clear to me that you want to be successful. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Are we as men drivven to success by sex alone? How many of you actually care about being successful if youre alone...Of course you are. That's why PPD is made up of such zombies. If you were actually happy with who you are instead of obsessing over your height, dick size, facial structure, hair line or lack there of, finances, etc., you wouldn't feel the need to fill this void with consumption and working hard to produce wealth and scaling new peaks. You'd actually go and have sex with beautiful girls and need very little to get by. You all work so hard because deep down you feel unworthy and not good enough a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:26 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Well, she gave you few very key pointers. #1 is you are anxious and not comfortable with yourself. That speaks to self esteem issues, so you need to handle these first. Look into cognitive therapy for these. Second, is you were too eager to impress her. The need to impress others is one of the most pathetic and diminishing things a man can do. You are basically making the opinion of this random girl more important than your own opinion of you. Think about it! If you liked you and were okay with … | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:16 PM |
| -1 | How to get better at Day GameMy two cents. If you are unattractive in the clubs and on the apps, what makes you think you will be attractive to women during the daytime? If I were you, I'd focus on crafting myself into an attractive man first and foremost. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:02 PM |
| 6 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?You have already implicitly agreed to the kind of relationship you are having, so why do you expect her to change now? If you want to change the dynamic of the relationship because you've changed your mind, that's your right. But my feeling is you will let her get away with murder because she is "so hot". | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | I want to start having more casual sex and hookups with guys or gals. How should I get started?It goes without saying - you can go alone to a gay bar but go with a girlfriend to a straight bar. All you need to do is have open body language, stand with your back towards the bar and scan the room every so often to catch a glimpse of who might be checking you out. Don't spend your time looking at your phone or huddled up with your girlfriend or group of friends. Especially men, but women also, are going to look for signs that you are open to meeting someone and are making yourself available … | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 11:07 AM |
| 2 | I want to start having more casual sex and hookups with guys or gals. How should I get started?Good! If I were you, I'd be careful with the apps and where you agree to meet people. Always in public, get as much information about them as possible. Other physical places I guess are wherever teens hang out in your town. In my day, we just hooked up through school and social circles, and if you are in the US you probably can't go out to bars. One trick you can try if you want a well off guy is to go and hang out at your city's expensive shopping street and surely some rich guy might try to pi… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 7 | what do you think of polo shirts?Not wearing a polo shirt is totally 100% the reason you are not "slaying" 10 chicks a week. Totally. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | How to stay motivated to approach womenWhat's the point of approaching if you are not actually getting together with women? I mean 200 approaches and not even a single date? Don't you think you are doing something wrong here? You are obviously miserable being alone and need women to make you happy. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | I want to start having more casual sex and hookups with guys or gals. How should I get started?Short shorts are attractive as long as you are. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:43 AM |
| -2 | Stood Up On Date, Girl Still In Daily Contact - What Are Your Thoughts Here?It's up to you if you are going to tolerate this nonsense. If pussy is worth to you more than your self respect, then go for it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:42 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Make business cards and give them out. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Asking to meet up in OLDYou need to be more direct and to the point and stop beating around the bush like a pussy. "Hey, let's go out this Wednesday around 7 for drinks. Is that okay?" | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 3 | [FIELD REPORT] Learn how to dance, trust me. A story of success and failure. (25/M/NYC)Yeah, not a good idea to tag along with girls. You should have taken the digits and split. And all of them telling you they have boyfriends is a bunch of bs. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 4 | What's the consensus here about women approaching men?Women approach men all the time. Sure, not in the "hey sweet cheeks, come here often" type of way, but they will send out signals like looking at you, smiling, hovering, making an excuse to talk to you, bend over or forward in front of you, dance in your line of sight, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:20 AM |
| 4 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Hourglass shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 10:03 PM |
| -1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?The same reason guys say they don't feel attracted to strippers or Kim Kardashian. Yeah right! They all want to duck this type of girl but are trying to protect their ego. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 7 | I was so blind about the reason I couldn’t do cold approachAll of this inner saboteur stuff is your ego, which is not really interested in protecting you. It is only interested in protecting its own fragile image and not being embarrassed. It will stop you from trying anything new that may involve failure, because usually we equate failure with embarrassment and other people laughing at us. The thing is, the ego is ultimately powerless. It's just a voice in our head and we can allow it to affect us OR not. It's like you crazy mom nagging you all the tim… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Having props will bring attention to youWhen I was your age and weight I had the most success with women. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 17 | Went to the beach alone. I’m tired of doing things alone.That's it. There is no magic bullet, no magic pua book or video or post that will reveal "the secret" to you. The secret is facing your fear and defeating it. When you are a man who is no longer afraid, women will be attracted you like flies to honey because they want a fearless man to attach themselves to. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Consistent cold approach success (2 tips)You approach them like a hunter who just heard his prey give itself away. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | What do women mean when they say they want a confident man?That too | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:15 PM |
| 9 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenNot even close to reality. Women are turned off by things like neediness, fear and phobias and pretending to be something you are not just to get into their pants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI guess that is what he is saying which will be the wrong thing to work hard on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenYep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:40 PM |
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