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1

Girls like a man that takes care of himself.
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:30 PM
1

I think he was just crazy, I've worked in a grocery store before, you get all kinds of bizarre examples of human beings.
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:27 PM
3

A kiss is not a close, don't think it is. Try a different strategy like simply holding her close suddenly, looking her straight in the eye and telling her you want to see her again, but don't kiss. Its about telegraphing a clear message, not about grabbing a boob and thinking you have 'escalated'. Lastly never apologize for being a man.
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:00 PM
3

DON'T send her a novel. Just a simple "whasup" can be far more effective. message like you've known her awhile, don't be meek and passive or apologetic. Tell her you want to see her again, don't phrase it as a question but as a statement. Make it short and sweet and bold.
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:58 PM
3

Get out of your own skull, ignore the monkey on your back whispering suggestions into your ear and communicate openly with her. She is here to interact with you, give her your undivided attention.
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:58 AM
1

Depends on what you want. I like women who don't drink, but the reality is I have to accept the fact that most women drink, and heavily at that. I also don't like smokers...same problem here, a significant portion of women smoke as well. You just have to keep plugging away until you find the one.
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:45 AM
0

Girls are genetically wired for friendships and relationships. Even in kindergarten when they play its based on things like building a family and having boyfriends/husbands, etc. Boys on the other hand, play with fire engines, race cars, guns, video games until they reach maybe 8-9 years old and suddenly realize they like girls. That means they're a few years behind girls in development and guys don't have this resource that girls have built. The other thing is the lack of fathers in modern fami…
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:36 AM
0

A kiss isn't a close, don't be so obsessed with that failed PUA concept.
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:31 AM
2

And what are you supposed to be? (referring to her costume) Trick or treat! (have plastic pumpkin candy jug kids carry handy)
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:27 AM
3

Halloween is awesome, girls get the opportunity to dress slutty and show off their goods. Its fish in a barrel, so if you are invited to a halloween party by all means go!
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:25 AM
3

girls are more likely to talk to you if you have a chihuahua or a baby. Women are wired differently than us ya know.
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:23 AM
1

You may be too dependent on alcohol, it destroys common sense and judgment
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:22 AM
1

Not really, lots of girls love a guy that is not hesitant to be romantic and free with his emotions. Its just when you get creepy and clingy and say wierd shit is when they want to get away from you.
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:00 PM
1

Confidence and friendliness thats all you need if you got the looks thing down already
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:59 PM
1

Why would they? Girls have different reasons, they may just be having fun and don't consider you serious, they may be interested and will dump him later, or they just want to be coy about it since they're unsure. Its a bad thing if the first thing they blurt out is "I have a boyfriend"
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:58 PM
1

Give them a ticket with "date me pass" written on it. And have the starting date written on it (december)
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:57 PM
1

Its no big deal, sometimes they blurt things out. Its not like YOU aren't doing the same...
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:56 PM
3

Men have been dating women for 250,000 years why should that change. PUA is a scam and it always will be.
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:55 PM
3

Cars really don't impress women anyway. and PUA's generally are broke and just do this to scam for beer money.
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:54 PM
1

If you can't undo bra hooks with one hand, you need to practice at it
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:15 AM
1

Wear something dressy. And YOU should not show up in your college clothes, but dress pants and a blazer at the very least. Girls hate when they spend 3 hours getting ready and their date shows up in cargo pants and a crooked baseball cap.
/r/seduction25/10/17 06:46 AM
1

A reward? thats creepy in any case.
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:39 AM
1

Watch one of those romantic sex films for women, and imitate the dude.
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:56 AM
1

I think they were hookers.
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:55 AM
4

Don't treat them as if they are hot. Treat them as female human beings.
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:55 AM
0

Don't be freaked out or mean about it. Girls don't work on logic, they work on feelings, so if you're trying to figure out how she processes information you will fail.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:47 AM
4

I think the weed has pickled your brain, get off the leaf before you start hitting on girls.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:46 AM
2

She wanted you to buy a massage.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:43 AM
2

She will keep stringing you along for attention, I knew a girl who did that to me, I just ignored her after awhile because she was just using me.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:41 AM
1

I got banned, they found out I wasn't a virgin
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:16 PM
1

Persuading somebody to do something always makes them feel uncomfortable. Romancing a person isn't seducing.
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:10 PM
1

If she's at the bars, she isn't interested in you.
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:09 PM
2

She just wanted an ego boost, she has no real interest in you.
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:08 PM
1

You may not be a very good kisser or just gave her a creepy vibe, now she wants nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:06 PM
1

She's an older woman, go talk to her, she's not a giggly teen she can handle conversation. Also don't hit on her at closing time, hit on her right after you arrive at the bar. Women don't want to feel like they're the last table scraps after a meal.
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:03 PM
1

She expected you to make some sort of move or overture that you wanted to see her again. You showed little or no enthusiasm, she took it as an insult and she no longer is interested in a guy who doesn't value her at all. You screwed up.
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:02 PM
2

Not that many girls will just go back to your room and fuck. You really need to understand that women have to trust you first. Since you are a virgin, don't bother trying to pretend you're some sort of playa. Just talk to girls, get to know them and have genuine interest in who they are.
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:00 PM
3

A number is not a close. Spend more time with her and get to know her. They know you're a player, they don't want players they want men.
/r/seduction22/10/17 10:54 PM
8

Nobody really seduces anybody. Its just a matter of presenting the goods and see if somebody's buying.
/r/seduction22/10/17 10:39 PM
1

You don't necessarily have to keep a girl with you constantly at a party. Girls like to "mix" and see people. If she is interested she will leave, and come back to you later, maybe even multiple times. If she really is interested you will be the last person she talks to before its time to go home (aka she wants you to act on it).
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:54 PM
2

Wave at her, dammit, and smile.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:52 PM
0

Just tell her you're gay and invite her to see "Hello Dolly!" at your place.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:51 PM
1

Why get a number and then walk off? Are you scared to hang around with her. Maybe you drink too much.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:49 PM
2

Hands. Always start escalation with hands. If you're a butt or shoulder massager you're a creepy freak.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:48 PM
6

Talk to all of them, not just your "target" (whatever that PUA shit terminology is). This is important because it means you accept her friends as well, if you diss/ignore them you anger her. This is just basic human psychology here
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:46 PM
1

Picking up strippers? Ick, most of those women are druggies, single moms and disease carriers who hook on the side.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:45 PM
1

Yech, good luck with that friendzone boy. Do you go shopping with her? Do you paint her toenails? Does she talk to you about other guys? Then your chances are slim to none.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:44 PM
26

Tell her to fake getting angry over something, slap him and storm off. If she gets angry, slaps you and storms off then you know why she asked.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:42 PM
4

Take her to a gun range. Oh wait not that kind of conservative. Take her to some fun outing where you can hold hands. Forget ass grabbing, kissing, fondling. Your very first escalation should involve hands.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:41 PM
4

You lost, its not necessarily your fault. People make choices.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:39 PM
1

Just enjoy the movie, bring food, drinks, snuggle, she will give you indicators if she wants to ramp things up, its all on her, not you so relax.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:38 PM
1

Sometimes you just don't know. the usual indication is when she gets quiet....that means she's waiting for you to do something.
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:35 PM
1

Whats wrong with feelings?
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:34 PM
2

steady GF for years now, can't date multiple chicks, one woman is a handful as it is for me. its not hard to find a GF you just have to get out of your head, kick the monkey off your back and not be afraid to expose your personality to others.
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:18 PM
2

Don't worry girls can handle it.
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:17 PM
2

Looks are very important, and even if you are ugly you have to show girls you still care about your appearance, so dress well, cut your hair, exfoliate and smell nice. For some odd reason, guys still think they can pull chicks wearing cargo shorts, sandals and a dirty football shirt.
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:16 PM
2

A devil's threesome? (MMF)?
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:14 PM
1

You're only 16 for starters, just finish highschool, trust me you will realize once you graduate that it is not the world, its just a tiny microcosm of life thats a flyspeck in retrospect.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:40 PM
1

Strippers are there because they're paid to be there. Just enjoy the tits
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:39 PM
1

I'm short, I get laid. I've dated girls much taller than me. My present GF is 2" taller than me.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:37 PM
1

Thats retarded, drinking isn't good for you, neither is shouting. Simply actively moderate your voice when speaking, slow down a bit and focus more on the other person when talking to them.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:36 PM
2

French kisses should only be done in a sexual context (making out in a private location, during sex). When you do it in public or just as a matter of course it can be interpreted as you being rather perverted /gross/childish. Kissing for affection should just be with lips
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:35 PM
1

You don't "Handle" a girl, you get to know her. Treat her like a person even though she's hot.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:32 PM
1

Pickup lines rarely work, when they do they're usually spoken by a guy who is already attractive, confident so its interpreted by the woman more as a funny joke rather than serious.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:31 PM
1

You're blowing it by saying things that are clearly non-sequitur and essentially shock her, which isn't a good thing. Conversations have to flow and progress. You still are not one with the force, young padawan.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:29 PM
1

Maybe he's from brooklyn
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:27 PM
1

Clothing, shoes (women pay attention to our shoes ,who knew), keeping your body in shape (not necessarily ripped muscular), how you walk, general confidence in yourself, grooming/hair/skin. Be friendly, mature and knowledgeable.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:27 PM
2

I'm about 25% successful, so 75% unsuccessful.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:25 PM
1

Touching her hair, thats kinda creepy really, unless you're a hairstylist by profession.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:24 PM
38

Hookers are no substitute for real human contact. Don't treat liquor as liquid courage, chicks smell it on your breath and automatically categorize you as "nasty drunk guy" hitting on them.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:21 PM
0

Russell Brand's penis is the size of an infant's, he's hardly a benchmark for cool or awesome, plus he's a coke fiend. Just google russell brand naked to know what I mean.
/r/seduction20/10/17 03:46 AM
1

Just relax and keep dating her.
/r/seduction20/10/17 03:45 AM
1

Try thinking about her being with you, rather than just thinking of this faraway woman you could never approach.
/r/seduction20/10/17 03:44 AM
5

There are a ton of beginners here, thats okay. Thank god they're looking for advice from more experienced guys and not sitting in permanent woman-hate mode like incels.
/r/seduction20/10/17 12:48 AM
2

Move on. If she openly is telling you that she has a thing for another guy, you are automatically friend-zoned.
/r/seduction20/10/17 12:47 AM
1

You should engage her IMMEDIATELY the moment you sit down. Talk about how great the place is and get that out of the way, ask her what she thinks is good on the menu, suggest a wine, and then go right into chatting about her, not the weather, not how nervous you are. Don't be afraid to tell her she looks great but keep the compliments down to 1 or 2 at most. Your goal is to make her at ease, and if you're at ease she will be. NEVER talk about past relationships, ugh.
/r/seduction20/10/17 12:46 AM
1

Older = More mature. So act more mature, girls like that
/r/seduction20/10/17 12:43 AM
2

david wygants youtube channel
/r/seduction20/10/17 12:39 AM
5

Pretend it doesn't exist. Remember Stifler's mom....
/r/seduction19/10/17 05:37 AM
1

Never be afraid to show your intentions, never.
/r/seduction19/10/17 05:07 AM
1

Don't be afraid at all to give IOI's back. Be positive and give your entire focus to her while talking to her, don't do the random eyes wandering, looking at other chicks asses.
/r/seduction19/10/17 05:05 AM
1

You have to be quick thinking. If a girl told me I had nice hair I would be rather frisky and say "oh really, would you like to touch it?". This kind of playful humor can get girls interested and yet its innocent enough to not be crude and offputting. With sex talk just be blunt, don't even pretend to get embarassed when you say "I like 2 chicks doing a double dildo". Heck I once explained bukkake to a girl I knew and she said "ooh thats kinda interesting". WHOA! hold the phone...girls are dirty…
/r/seduction19/10/17 05:03 AM
1

Well just try to get into that "mental mode" where you are always ready to communicate. it can be tough for some, especially with all the other worrys of life (bills, relatives, bad hair day etc). After awhile you can be ready for the unexpected and can blurt out the "Hi, how are you?" with a forceful but confident and friendly voice.
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:59 AM
1

Get a really good picture of yourself since thats 90% of it right off the bat. Get a proper 35mm digital camera shot, wear non-retard clothing and make sure the background is a good one (aka NOT the men's room at a gas station).
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:57 AM
3

Ask your roommate for advice, if he's a bro then he will definitely help you out, its bro code.
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:52 AM
9

Easy, make sure you have FOOD. food is sexy, food is relaxing and it can be fun. Don't be cheap, have snacks. Liquor is good too but don't force it on her if she doesn't want any, some girls don't drink at all or don't want to get drunk and wake up with cum on their face not knowing what happened. When you sit with a girl, sit next to her, touching her hips with yours, no need to be shy about it, plop on down next to her and keep a throw handy in case she wants to snuggle under one. the trick is…
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:50 AM
5

You have to up your game. Remember 7-10s demand 7-10 dudes. A 7 will want a 10 guy, a 10 will want a 15+ guy. That means you must be absolutely perfect in every way, and to make things worse you must be a "natural" at it and not look like you're trying to be perfect. Lastly there is no such thing as a number or a kiss close, don't delude yourself over that idea. You must form a real, valid communication with a girl especially if she's an HB 10. She has to be wowed by you, the kind of guy that ma…
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:45 AM
1

Let your wife handle the particulars.
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:02 AM
6

If you talk like the way you post, I can see why girls avoid you.
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:01 AM
6

Maybe you're a 6? Its probably your self-centered arrogance that makes 7-10s steer away from you. I'm probably a 5 and have dated 10's before easily because I'm nice and I listen when they talk.
/r/seduction19/10/17 03:40 AM
1

You will ruin the friendship, thats the risk. I'm dating a former female friend. Our friendship is toast, but our relationship is doing good.
/r/seduction19/10/17 12:02 AM
1

Does it actually work?
/r/seduction18/10/17 11:04 PM
2

I run into a dream girl every 6 months, relax and move on.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:32 AM
1

Let her choose the girl, always.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:32 AM
-3

What is it with young people these days. If you just want pussy get a paid whore. You are missing out on a lot if you don't get into relationships.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:31 AM
1

How do you open? What is your technique, do you do a jarring cold open by sneaking up behind her and suddenly bursting in, or do you catch her eye first. You may think you aren't creepy but there are many things that can make you seem creepy.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:30 AM
12

Don't be afraid to have feelings. Chicks like that. Just don't be weepy and feminine about it. Man feelings are strong, wild and adventurous. Women want to be in on the wild emotional ride, but you must be the one in charge.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:28 AM
1

21 is not even old. Just talk to girls, don't make such a huge deal out of it and quit thinking every contact with a female must turn into some sort of pickup. guys who are natural pickup artists are friendly to most girls they meet and have few expectations.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:26 AM
-10

Just be friends with her if you don't want to pay. Its male privilege to pay for the date. You're not buying loyalty you are showing you are in charge, its worth the few bucks.
/r/seduction18/10/17 05:22 AM
1

Its all true, those are the qualities of a real Nice guy, not a "Nice Guy" (the fake nice guy who tries to weasel his way into bed with a girl).
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:28 AM
1

Go through your friend, see if he can pass the message along to her.
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:27 AM
1

Few women want an open relationship, you probably are shooting yourself in the foot big time
/r/seduction16/10/17 03:53 AM
1

Just freaking kiss her then, quit feeling up her ass and stick to lips and hands.
/r/seduction16/10/17 03:41 AM
3

wrestle with him on the living room floor
/r/seduction16/10/17 03:40 AM
2

Thats really creepy. The first thing I do when making out with a girl is kiss her. its making out 101. Sure she isn't a hooker? Hookers don't like to kiss
/r/seduction16/10/17 03:31 AM
1

Shoes, women notice a man's shoes, always. Remember that next time you wear some 10 year old grubby nike's and try to hit on chicks.
/r/seduction15/10/17 05:26 PM
1

The magic of the internet allows you to talk to people from everywhere, so use it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:46 AM
3

Clubs are great if you want to date alcoholics
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:42 AM
1

Sit down and ask yourself what you really want in life.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:41 AM
2

Its tinder, rejection without guilt. Get used to it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:39 AM
1

If thats your goal you have some serious self-esteem issues
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:39 AM
1

Don't jerk off at least 1 day before a date, preferably 2 or more if you can stand it. Also, don't drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs of any kind (even weed you pothead). All of those things mess up the plumbing down there. Quit focusing on yourself and focus on her, let your body do its thing without the monkey on your back whispering in your ear screwing things up.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:38 AM
1

You are the problem here, you are not being overt at what you want out of your relationship with her. Girls HATE wishy washy men. You sound exactly like the guy who is fishing for clues and is so terrified of making up his own mind that he is self-neutered sexually. No woman likes a man like that, none of them. Be supportive, be positive, be bold and be decisive. Men lead, women follow, it has been like that for 100,000 years and won't change.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:34 AM
1

Tell her you like Trump, feminists hate that but they get so sexually aroused by your conservative manliness they will make out with you. Think about it, have you ever seen male feminists with girlfriends, ever?
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:32 AM
1

Je ne sais quoi - that perfect mix of physical appearance and intrigue that makes you so appealing as to be irrestistible, but women can't quite put their finger on exactly what it is they like about you. So yes, you must have all your bases covered if you want to be a "player", just do it for the right reasons, not because you want to massage your own damaged ego.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:30 AM
0

Just ignore the fact neil strauss is a short balding jewish guy with a stutter who dresses like a strip club owner and the book is all fake.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:28 AM
1

If you're grinding on random women at a rap concert you have no standards at all
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:27 AM
1

https://youtu.be/uf8RbAGWxqY
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:26 AM
1

She looks horny, does she have a tinder? (asking for a friend)
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:24 AM
2

I don't know I don't really rate dudes
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:23 AM
1

I am one of those guys that last a long time too, have yet to have a girl tell me that. only once have I had a girl admit she was getting really tired (she was a virgin and wasn't used to doggystyle position yet) but she was not bored or anything. you have to gauge a girl carefully, when she finally comes, its probably a good idea to slow down your stroking and let her do her orgasm thing, then speed up after a few minutes for a 2nd round if you're not done yet. Most girls can come multiple time…
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:21 AM
1

If a girl is truly interested she will MAKE time for you, including cancelling other plans just to go out with you. just stop contacting her and see what she does. If she asks what happened to you, just say you have been busy with stuff, don't make it mean or personal.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:18 AM
1

You probably should just ask for a number.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:17 AM
0

Bi is pretty much gay though
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:15 AM
2

As long as she is not in your chain of command, enjoy! Just don't be too eager, establish a real relationship with her before you two strip down and check each other for ticks.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:04 AM
1

Menage a' Tois
/r/seduction14/10/17 08:53 PM
1

She wants sex but she doesn't want a boyfriend, so estabilish a ruleset for FWB immediately.
/r/seduction14/10/17 08:52 PM
3

2 days is usually too long. a day maximum
/r/seduction14/10/17 08:39 PM
-1

Spit on your penis before you insert.
/r/seduction12/10/17 06:27 AM
1

You waited too long.
/r/seduction12/10/17 06:26 AM
1

Naw just say east side or west side Don't try to nail her down on street or anything unless you want to seem like a creeper
/r/seduction12/10/17 06:25 AM
2

Did you talk to other girls and she saw you? She may think you're a "playa" and rejected you for that reason.
/r/seduction12/10/17 06:24 AM
1

Well I was hoping for more. You coulda slam dunked that asian woman at that point.
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:48 AM
1

"Nah, lets get some pizza"
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:35 AM
3

Is that it?
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:34 AM
7

Learn by doing
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:34 AM
0

Hot girls are picky. You have to intrigue them if you're average looking.
/r/seduction12/10/17 03:45 AM
7

You don't know a quality woman until you get to know her better.
/r/seduction11/10/17 08:02 AM
1

She's making excuses, my GF is taller than me. She just didn't like you and didn't want to go outright and say you're not attractive enough for her.
/r/seduction11/10/17 08:00 AM
1

Be a man, not a beta. Express your politics, getting her angry might just turn her on.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:57 AM
10

its college, girls want to meet guys, just don't wait too long
/r/seduction11/10/17 05:59 AM
1

Butabi Brothers
/r/seduction11/10/17 12:59 AM
1

Are you short and not attractive? Then you have an uphill battle ahead.
/r/seduction11/10/17 12:36 AM
2

Make sure you have plenty of liquor available, let the alcohol do its thing as you watch the movie.
/r/seduction11/10/17 12:35 AM
1

Just relax and let nature do its thing. As I once heard in a porn movie..."Less talk, more action"
/r/seduction11/10/17 12:33 AM
1

Do you LIKE it? Well then continue.
/r/seduction11/10/17 12:32 AM
3

take some money out of your weed budget and get a motel room
/r/seduction10/10/17 06:48 AM
1

Get drunk together. You will find out. Or instead you can do nothing and be unsure about it every day for years.
/r/seduction10/10/17 06:47 AM
3

Be friendly and open, and don't even have expectations of asking her out or having her attracted to you. Its liberating to not have that pressure all the time burdening you down.
/r/seduction10/10/17 03:03 AM
1

Dad bod is a thing, because all women essentially have some remnants of attraction to their father. If their dad was athletic they like athletic guys, if their dad was a lazy bum they end up with a lazy bum.
/r/seduction10/10/17 02:01 AM
1

They like lean trim male bodies, light musculature is always a bonus but not necessary. Its about proportions, the golden ratio. Narrow waist, wide shoulders, small but well defined butt, trim but fit legs. If you're even slightly overweight don't wear skinny pants....actually don't wear skinny pants ever, just a tip.
/r/seduction10/10/17 02:00 AM
1

They are being patronizing to you.
/r/seduction10/10/17 01:57 AM
1

Naw it wasnt' your fault. Its a female tactic, they say "I need space" in hopes you get angry or say something less than completely submissive, and they jump on it to start an argument because they wanted to break up with you in the first place.
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:49 PM
1

tell her you are having prostate issues.
/r/seduction09/10/17 03:23 AM
1

You have self esteem issues, its not them its you
/r/seduction09/10/17 03:22 AM
4

A friend of mine got depressed in college when a girl he liked dissed him. He lifted for 6 straight months and got muscles and abs. he then proceeded to party with at least half a dozen chicks over the next year. The lesson is self improvement works, because it helps self-esteem.
/r/seduction09/10/17 02:52 AM
25

She wants to chase, why not give her something to chase. Never give out your pie for free.
/r/seduction09/10/17 12:51 AM
1

Keeping up the shit test means she does not want to get closer to you, its her way of keeping you at arms length. The best thing you can do is just act bored with the whole thing and say ciao.
/r/seduction08/10/17 08:45 PM
1

Thats just asking for a sexual harassment lawsuit. If you make it quid pro quo expect to be fired on the spot when get back too.
/r/seduction08/10/17 08:43 PM
2

Just agree with her. Tell her that you party and have a lot of fun, and it probably wouldn't work out for that reason. (nobody likes to be accused of not being fun...its a quiet insult to her without saying it)
/r/seduction08/10/17 08:41 PM
2

tell him there's a party at your house, and when he shows up you answer the door in a bath towel
/r/seduction08/10/17 08:38 PM
1

Don't take a girl's overtures as an automatic signal to have sex. What it actually means is a girl just wants to feel closer to you, and your job is to reassure her by responding in kind. Its a baby steps kind of thing, she takes a tiny chance, you acknowledge and say its okay, and she gets braver and braver little by little. If a girl wants sex then she will literally start it herself. The moment she goes for your belt buckle is pretty much that. A guy that knows what he is doing creates the in…
/r/seduction08/10/17 08:35 PM
4

He meant you, not her
/r/seduction08/10/17 08:24 PM
-35

Seriously, you guys don't know what to do after sex? Oh man talk about working from square one.
/r/seduction08/10/17 04:50 PM
5

Naw don't get angry, probably just a misunderstanding. Just use google maps next time.
/r/seduction08/10/17 02:02 PM
3

Remember that a girl will evaluate you within the first 3 seconds of seeing you. Seems like she didn't like what she saw
/r/seduction08/10/17 02:58 AM
3

Wear a crop top and very tight pants, and put your hair in a ponytail, something about ponytails. Then advertise...
/r/seduction08/10/17 02:57 AM
1

statistically there are more brunettes anyway
/r/seduction08/10/17 02:56 AM
1

start touching her hand(s) first. its far more important than touching other parts of the body when you are trying to establish a closer bond with a woman. Shy girls will have a difficult time at first but they open up quickly when they realize the guy really likes her. You just have to be reassuring of your attraction to her.
/r/seduction08/10/17 02:51 AM
1

talk to her. If you keep staring she will think you want to wear her skin for a dress
/r/seduction07/10/17 09:17 PM
6

Just go to the local club and hit on the lonely groups of MILFS, and pick the cutest one.
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:55 PM
1

No, sometimes a friend is a great way to segue into a relationship, assuming you can pull it off.
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:39 AM
2

If you're really that scared just extend your elbow and have her hold it
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:01 AM
2

Not being a MAN
/r/seduction06/10/17 06:58 AM
1

muscles, clothing, hygiene, all the usual things
/r/seduction05/10/17 05:16 AM
5

Ouch that was a painful exchange. She definitely didn't like you.
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:09 AM
1

Like it or not you aren't their first choice. Its a numbers game so you will get plenty of rejections until you get a hit.
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:08 AM
1

You're nervous, have you tried calming herbals, low dose beta blockers or hydrocodone?
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:07 AM
2

She doesn't have a friend she knows? Thats usually how it works. Including strangers in the mix can be pretty risky these days, this isn't the swingin' 70s.
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:05 AM
1

thats the point, its even better if the cafeteria is pretty empty.
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:41 AM
1

sit diagonal from them if its a long table, so you aren't threatening their space but are still within conversation distance. then there's always the borrow the salt gambit
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:06 AM
1

sit next to her and say whats up, then ask her about yesterday's homework and tell her you are struggling and could use some help from a smart girl.
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:03 AM
2

Well I think a lot of the guys here are underaged too so its okay
/r/seduction04/10/17 02:29 AM
4

he's on the dance floor, you're not...just staring at him. Do the math.
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:15 PM
3

they're not in bars, so quit searching there.
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:14 PM
1

I just forget about her because she was never worth it anyway
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:34 PM
0

Go to the liquor store and purchase all the basics. then have some juices, a few extras like maraschino cherries, those little pickled onions, long toothpicks with frilly ends, and maybe some fresh fruit in case she likes girl drinks. Then get some cider or hard lemonade if she's underage.
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:33 PM
4

She's just messing with you. You are supposed to have a clever comeback so she smiles. Something like "I'm actually immortal, I'm just working here for fun"
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:32 PM
5

LD relationships are terrible. If either of you are really committed one or both of you would have moved and shacked up together.
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:44 PM
2

People can change their minds, it happens.
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:41 PM
3

Take her to a picnic, but have the picnic right in your apartment living room floor, complete with blanket, basket, wine. and have one of those nature sound CDs running.
/r/seduction02/10/17 11:03 PM
2

Quit worrying about "closes" and kino bullshit. Did you like her, did you show genuine interest that you wanted to see her again? She was looking for those nonverbal clues, not looking for a guy rubbing her ass. You had a date with her, that means you should treat her like you know her now, the awkward 1st date is out of the way. So just call her up and say "hey whats going on?" and re-establish the connection. Talk a bit and suggest a 2nd date "Hey we should do something, there's a movie....(in…
/r/seduction02/10/17 07:31 PM
1

Don't masturbate for 2 days before a date, so you get nice and rock hard quickly. Oh and don't drink, liquor really messes with the plumbing. Lastly get some sleep! If you wake up every morning with a boner you're sleeping enough.
/r/seduction02/10/17 07:28 PM
1

Always let your intentions be known, always. "Nice" guys are hated by girls because they are sneaky and pretend to be friends with the express purpose of weaseling their way into dating her.
/r/seduction02/10/17 07:26 PM
1

Keep encouraging her she's shy, they want to know you're more than just some dude wanting something from her. Don't neg her, ever. You are shooting yourself in the foot if you neg a shy girl.
/r/seduction02/10/17 07:10 PM
1

Have you considered using a pen to write your number on her arm and vice versa? The problem was you were not memorable to her. A kiss is not a close, it never was and never will be. Lots of girls will make out with a guy and forget them the next day, same for guys too, lots of them hang with a chick then just forget about her, on to the next one.
/r/seduction02/10/17 12:08 AM
1

The salesman approach can work but it puts people on the defensive.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:44 PM
2

You have some self esteem issues and all your social value is determined by friends and superficiality. Perhaps you need to quit hanging with guys so much and start concentrating on women. anxiety comes from the idea that everybody is staring at you and judging you all the time.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:36 AM
3

She wants a real relationship with a man, not a boy
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:33 AM
3

You said "mom". girls hate mommas boys
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:32 AM
3

I find Kazakh girls pretty hot. Just get on tinder and look for Moscow girls
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:30 AM
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Look straight at the guy and say "You're stupid"
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:25 AM
2

Why are you getting her intoxicated?
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:08 AM
1

She's still committed to him. She's just using you for emotional validating that she's still pretty and attractive to men.
/r/seduction01/10/17 09:56 AM
2

Give us an FR of what happened, with real details from an unbiased perspective.
/r/seduction01/10/17 08:30 AM
1

If you're good looking a sorority girl won't care. When I was in college I had a really cute sorority girl chasing after me. I got to know her in a literature class (mandatory prerequisite, I was a STEM student...), she didn't care I was in Gamma Delta Iota. Never acted on it because I was dating another chick and it didn't seem worth it at the time. So just be smooth, good looking and nice.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:15 AM
9

Just because a girlfriend has a boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to date you. Girls often have this need to not have a "gap" between guys they date, so they can transition smoothly to the new guy without any lonely weekends in between.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:09 AM
2

Just be yourself, because after all you can't be anybody else.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:05 AM
2

Drunk chicks just before closing time are easy targets for horny guys.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:03 AM
1

You waited a year....you are in the friend zone because she assumed you weren't interested in her as anything but a friend. Now that you are her friend she is wanting to get some feelers out to a guy she JUST MET (aka he's not in the friend zone yet).
/r/seduction01/10/17 04:52 AM
1

No you take a pill and you instantly get it, only $99 in 3 easy payments.
/r/seduction30/09/17 11:39 PM
1

Sometimes you have to segue' to a pickup. Just blabbering out "lets go out sometime" doesn't cut it if you haven't been busy reading her signals and gauging where you are at. Just because you and her are talking about cats doesn't mean you're establishing a love connection.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:55 PM
2

Its a party! just walk up to a girl and say hi, ask her what is she doing and ask her what she's drinking. nearly all girls are social creatures and if you open the conversation they will eagerly interact with you. they may say "we're partying, whoo" or whatever so keep that energy up and bump your glass and toast. even a shy girl will enjoy talking to a guy. Don't ask her those goofy mystery method openers like blurting out "who cheats more men or women?", just say whasup. Girls feel your energ…
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:50 PM
2

Just sit next to her and say whats up. The only reason for her to punch you would be if she's a rabid feminist.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:44 PM
1

Stop thinking about it altogether. Structured pickup makes you a robot.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:42 PM
2

Californication is a TV show, its not real. Vocabulary is important but it depends how you use it. If you toss in complicated words only because you want to show off well then you've failed. Using simple words doesn't necessarily make you stupid, some girls find that attractive because he's an "aw shucks" kinda simple dude who means what he says. Remember though 90% of interaction is nonverbal, 10% is verbal. How you say it is more important than what you say.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:41 PM
1

Strike while the iron is hot, the interest window of a girl is short. Its not because she's demanding, but because a guy that ignores her is insulting, and makes her self esteem plummet. No girl wants to try to talk to a guy that is slow to respond or doesn't give immediate interest.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:37 PM
1

Do you even get to know these girls you talk to? i'm hearing a lot about you but nothing about THEM. A guy comfortable around women always makes the convo about them, not himself, because he is actively listening and he wants to get to know them better. There's no mystery, its not about the best pickup line or kino. I have had girls tell me outright they like me because I listen and remember stuff they said.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:34 PM
1

If you are a good lover age does not matter. Skill matters. Women are women. A teen can send you a filthy pic over your phone or a 60 year old woman can, they're wired the same. Perhaps you should stop acting old, age means nothing, get out of that mindset.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:24 PM
2

There is no such thing as a number close, a fuck close, a kiss close, or a titty squeeze close. Women rate you on your behavior. If your behavior is childish and "typical" for a horny guy you won't get a 2nd date. A girl wants to be WOWED, she wants to meet a guy that makes them furiously call their girlfriend 10 minutes after the date ends and tell her about YOU and how awesome you were, and I don't mean in bed. Meanwhile you are butt grabbing hoping for the mythical 'close'. She wants you to s…
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:20 PM
1

take some beta blockers if you have insurance, valerian if you don't
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:15 PM
6

No, try thinking about this.....keep your mind open to opportunities to talk to women you find appealing, try to make it a 24/7 attitude. You are modifying the way you look at life in general. its like quitting smoking, its tough at first but after awhile you it will be 2nd nature. One thing you will realize is life comes at you fast and unexpectedly. Having a rigid "ask any girl nearby" policy doesn't help.
/r/seduction30/09/17 06:24 PM
1

response "how many babies?, and where will we send them to college". this is romancing, its a fun game and not necessarily serious.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:55 AM
0

The apartment doesn't fucking matter, just make sure its neat, clean and organized. WOMEN HATE FILTH AND FILTHY GUYS. They don't care about your TV, whether it smells like scented candles or if you have the latest artwork on your walls. They do care if your toilet is filthy, the place smells like cum and gym socks, or if it looks like a 12 year old lives there with an X-box on the floor.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:54 AM
2

In an office environment the "lets do lunch" thing is a standard. I've dated many a girl at work, there are no repercussions, don't listen to the virgins claiming "don't shit where you eat". Just don't date your boss, and don't date somebody you directly supervise, that is most likely already written into your employee handbook for obvious reasons.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:51 AM
1

I keep a small throw handy to snuggle under. Its a subtle invitation to get closer and who doesn't want to be under a warm and soft throw? Plus she can do sneaky stuff under the throw like touch your leg, etc
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:49 AM
3

I always start with hands, always. If she has a ring on I hold her hand and look at the ring and ask about it. they always have stories about the ring, but whats important is she feels the warmth of your hand and the touch itself. From that point if she wants to escalate in response she will do or say something.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:47 AM
1

she will be sending out "feelers" so don't diss her or neg her, just ask her to clarify. Say she says something like "you have nice hands" don't be a jerk, just say something like "really, are they soft, do you like being massaged with soft hands?" She wants you to give her definite responses back so she can then ramp up the tension.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:45 AM
1

its always awkward at first. just remember to say hello to her next time as if you have known her awhile.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:43 AM
1

I thought there were rules against that. She is supposed to help you find chicks from sororities.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:42 AM
0

She may think you will disappear on her suddenly.
/r/seduction29/09/17 04:12 AM
1

You have to make her chase you. You never do the "I like you too!" eager puppy dog response. That dries vaginas immediately. You have to say "thats cool, maybe we can go out sometime" instead. Girls want what they can't have.
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:26 AM
1

That would be gay, dating a frat brother.
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:24 AM
3

You can never know how a girl reacts to such a thing.
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:38 AM
1

The irony that if Hugh came out with a nudie magazine today he would be criticized by feminists and SJWs rather than lionized by them.
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:37 AM
13

I wonder about you guys that can have sex and not be comfortable with women, what are you doing when you are with her? Do you just pump and dump and move on? How are you missing out on intimacy so much?
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:36 AM
2

You're not comfortable with women, thats your problem. A guy who is comfortable can enjoy a woman on his lap as an entire romantic/sexual experience, not just a chick that gives you a boner like a cheap stripper. Just become the guy you want to be, if a girl sits on your lap, give her a hug and look her in the eye and say "How YOU doin?"
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:34 AM
1

Its no big deal, just because you don't get married doesn't mean you can't engage in a long term relationship. I've been in an LTR for 4 years now, never married and no kids but still enjoying life.
/r/seduction28/09/17 04:11 AM
1

I'll be the judge of that
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:35 AM
1

White guys are more masculine and confident. Asian guys are fairly passive and even a little feminine. Black guys are bold, sometimes overly so but thats how they score chicks. Just be more masculine, you have to stand out among the crowd of South Asian men-sheep.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:29 AM
2

No eye contact can be very disconcerting. I knew a guy who had this odd habit of not looking at a person when talking to them, it felt really strange even though he was fully engaged in conversation with me, he's looking to the side or down.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:20 AM
1

Even your commentary sounds gay, dude. Scale it back a bit, guys are fairly conservative in their conversation, gestures, etc. Flamboyancy is not something many straight men do.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:17 AM
1

The only kino you should ever start with is hands. Repeat after me hands first. Creepers touch women in wierd places and yes it makes them uncomfortable. Something as simple as touching her pinky does a hell of a lot more than massaging her shoulder like she's a hooker.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:55 AM
1

You should have not said a dumb joke in response to her serious question. You made her feel stupid for giving in on the 1st date, now she's embarassed and doesn't want to see you again. This is why you never neg a girl, ever. Maybe drunken pro bar sluts but not a girl you plan to see more than once.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:50 AM
1

If you have a dental plan, USE IT. I'm not that great looking but my teeth are perfect, and chicks dig good teeth
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:48 AM
3

Lets do lunch.... And just like that, OP is no longer a virgin.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:47 AM
1

If a girl in an elevator is interested she will talk to you out of the blue or make a comment of some kind trying to strike up a convo. Had that happen to me on my way to a tech seminar, minding my own business and she blurted out something about her office, it seemed odd, but it definitley was an opener. So I chatted and she gave me her number, boom just like that. The trick is to make a girl comfortable enough to want to talk to you, such as a smile, eye contact and enough distance to not be t…
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:46 AM
1

She's a barista she probably gets asked out every day. You have to be special to get a girl like that, the kind of guy who has something no other guy has, whether its a look, a certain mannerism, a level of intelligence or a sexual vibe that makes her want to get to know you better. If she was really interested she would have given you her number without asking.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:42 AM
1

You were probably a bit too eager. Lots of guys mistakenly think they can fuck close a girl on the first date and everything is great from then on. then they get their number blocked...
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:40 AM
1

He notices your shoes
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:35 AM
1

Women are not logical beings, quit thinking they are.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:15 AM
9

If his dick tastes like shit
/r/seduction27/09/17 02:59 AM
1

No its tough to do that without sounding awkward.
/r/seduction27/09/17 02:59 AM
0

watch buck rogers in the 24th century, gil gerard is pretty good at romancing princess ardala on the screen. emulate him.
/r/seduction27/09/17 12:11 AM
5

If you want one. Most of the guys reading PUA crap are virgins trying to figure out how to get laid. Try your local church singles group, lots of wholesome girls, you probably shouldn't try bar sluts for relationship building.
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:22 AM
3

A conversation isn't supposed to be an interrogation. You're supposed to share thoughts too, not just rattle off a bunch of Mystery method canned routines.
/r/seduction26/09/17 04:08 AM
2

She's an ex-girlfriend, keep it that way. the moment you go back to her you will realize why you broke up with her in the first place.
/r/seduction26/09/17 04:07 AM
1

just pretend to hurt yourself, guys like to check on a girl who fell and twisted her ankle
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:23 AM
1

You need to quit thinking inside your skull and hiding in there. To be more social you have to break out and show your personality. Its a mental game, if you hide inside your head you will sit around talking to yourself with inner monologue all day. Put it out there, women don't bite.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:22 AM
1

You sound like you're the fun but harmless asexual male that girls all like but never "like". You need to exude more masculinity and confidence, and not be that funny dancing monkey girls like but won't ever actually date.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:20 AM
2

Total aspie Mystery Method stuff.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:18 AM
3

"So what are you getting me?"
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:18 AM
7

Gosh its almost like women are people.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:17 AM
2

Great now you're a gay shopping buddy, move on.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:42 AM
3

Don't. Just express more than the usual amount of interest and see what she does.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:40 AM
1

wait 5 days until you get better.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:38 AM
1

Friend zone, move on.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:14 AM
1

It means nothing. did you have a good conversation did you share really great stories was there a "connection" that both of you felt? If the answer is no, then you need to work on that.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:14 AM
10

If a woman and a man are in a very stable relationship the man will just grin, look at his GF/Wife and they will both tell you to take a hike (nicely). You won't get into fights unless you're at jersey shore or you are hitting on extremely drunk couples at cowboy bars.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:12 AM
1

Alcohol works against you a lot of the time. The moment a girl smells it on your breath and you haven't even started sharing a drink with her she thinks "alcoholic". and you are already in the doghouse. It also affects your game and your sexual performance. Bad game and bad sex will not get you future dates.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:11 AM
2

Doesn't matter, some college students are working on their masters degrees and live at home so they can pay for school. Just act like an adult.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:22 AM
2

Just kiss his lips and if he's not clueless he will withdraw his sword tongue
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:19 AM
1

yes its terrible insecurity on your part
/r/seduction24/09/17 10:12 PM
4

hot russian women...as if there was any other kind
/r/seduction24/09/17 08:31 PM
0

just introduce yourself to him and ask how he knows the girls, take charge of the conversation
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:29 PM
-3

Women don't care about your social value, when they see you they evaluate how you look, how you dress, how you posture yourself and how they would feel holding your hand (and getting pounded by your tiny muscular butt)
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:27 PM
3

yes, never talk about past relationships, she doesn't care.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:25 PM
16

talk to her. its college! girls want to meet guys! Just don't act creepy and you won't be creepy. you know what creepy guys do, so don't do it.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:24 PM
3

Most women don't really like the touchy guys, they like the interesting guys.
/r/seduction24/09/17 03:17 PM
24

talk to her friends, if you diss them you anger her too.
/r/seduction24/09/17 02:35 PM
1

just have fun with it and be sexual with her in text. She's probably working up to it.
/r/seduction24/09/17 02:30 PM
1

well I meant to say something else but I didn't know if I would get censored or criticized for it so I cleaned it up.
/r/seduction24/09/17 02:24 PM
2

bros can always ask their GF's if she knows any single friends, its called networking and it works.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:10 AM
2

manbun, ugh. first mistake. get rid of any hipsterish fashion it makes you look feminine. A feminine man goes home alone.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:09 AM
1

I'm dating a woman 6 years older than me. I'm in charge and am not afraid to be a man around her, she loves it despite being older than me by a few years. Exert your manliness and she will quickly forget your youth. What bothers women is a man who is childlike and his actions remind her of that.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:08 AM
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think about HER the entire time. Take charge of the situation and be romantic and do all that stuff you see on TV that guys do when about to have sex with a woman. The less you talk the better, less talk more action. If you're comfortable and relaxed and excited the penis will stand at attention pretty quickly.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:05 AM
0

I always tell her she's cute, but I make it more than just "you're cute". I look 100% serious and say "holy cow you're cute" giving it a sexual vibe, said with intent and with a lower voice.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:04 AM
4

a game I invented: the mirror under the nose. Get a large hand mirror about 8" at least, then have her put it under her nose face up, then walk around the house looking down at the mirror. it feels like you're walking on the ceiling, its silly and fun and you can have a lot of laughs together.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:02 AM
1

You have to be an interesting person, that doesn't require social value, that requires a person who acts like he wants to get to know a woman on more than just a sexual level.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:00 AM
3

Skinny muscle is what most girls like. Trim, but decent muscularity, not jersey shore muscleheads. if you lift, you give yourself confidence that comes out when you approach.
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:59 AM
7

You mean assertiveness, not aggression. If you're thinking you're not being assertive enough, you are probably not being assertive enough.
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:58 AM
2

People want the fast shortcut way to get something.
/r/seduction24/09/17 02:21 AM
-1

Oh its worth it. 21 means your a baby, your brain wiring isn't even done yet. You will grow up.
/r/seduction23/09/17 11:19 PM
3

Sounds like you two just got separated by circumstances. You need to be a bit more masculine, with more intent so she understands with clarity you are wanting to see her, not be her gay shopping buddy. And tell your friend to buzz off
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:08 PM
0

lets say you are chatting with her about a place you went recently, say a casino, and it has a pool on the roof. she asks what its like and you can see her and you lounging on the open air couches, drinking mojitos and club music is playing. you are getting her to visualize herself with you in a pleasing social atmosphere. then you can promise to take her there. Something like that. Don't just say "whazzup, what are you doin" and other boring talk.
/r/seduction22/09/17 10:02 PM
-1

texting is a dance, you have to get her to visualize, challenge her, inspire and excite her.
/r/seduction22/09/17 09:43 PM
4

why not, girls like anything that gets them horny
/r/seduction22/09/17 09:43 PM
3

Whats with weed and you kids these days?
/r/seduction22/09/17 08:54 PM
1

They've done it so often
/r/seduction22/09/17 08:53 PM
0

Chode is a fat dick, not necessarily long Fuckboy - i dunno, maybe what some asian guy calls himself. FTC - mystery method stuff, pretending you are busy to try to impress a girl how great you are.
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:46 AM
2

Waiting too long, fast track to the friend zone. Timidity, fast track to the friend zone. Being afraid to act like a man, fast track to the friend zone.
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:44 AM
1

take some valerian
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:43 AM
6

Hang out with her and treat her like you two were never separated by time and distance.
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:43 AM
1

Neil Strauss is not an attractive man.
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:42 AM
1

this can't be real. every casino generally has a nightclub/dance club, except for maybe circus circus
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:41 AM
15

Grinding is what highschoolers do. Learn some fucking dance moves, girls like a man that can show off his goods.
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:40 AM
1

Beards are AWFUL. Best skip them entirely. Women want to see your face.
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:13 AM
2

Did you call her by name or just say hi.
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:12 AM
1

Frats are masonic organizations, might as well just worship the devil directly and cut to the chase. You are starting from square one, look to the right for links for newbies. Sounds like you have trouble making friends. You can't find a girlfriend unless you know how to make friends first.
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:11 AM
2

Rule #1: Don't neg, ever. You made it even worse by negging a shy girl which is a double don't.
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:09 AM
2

She's just being friendly
/r/seduction21/09/17 06:51 AM
1

They go together. Girls like the sunken cheek look because they know it means you have a very low bodyfat ratio and that indicates good abs and lean muscular body.
/r/seduction21/09/17 06:49 AM
2

Just dress well, be confident and remember older women don't care for the silly dating rituals of younger women. They're more straight to the point and direct. Just don't act like a teenager, it reminds them that you are the same age as their first kid.
/r/seduction21/09/17 06:48 AM
1

Its fine but eventually you have to take your shoes off around her and she will notice you suddenly drop 2" in height.
/r/seduction20/09/17 11:25 PM
1

At this point she should just conk you on the head and drag you off, because you're clueless.
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:30 AM
2

A date a month is pretty good, dude. Don't shortchange yourself
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:17 AM
1

Women are people, shocking!
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:37 PM
1

"8 bartenders" Make a joke, something like "free drinks, yay!" Don't get jealous, thats totally beta male.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:35 PM
1

Talk to all of them, if you diss her friends, she gets pissed off.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:34 PM
1

Well, maybe, maybe not. I'm dating a girl whos significant other died, but I have the advantage of him dying many years ago. In any case don't mention him, ever. Don't compare yourself to him, don't bring him up unless she does and always be nice about it. After all he's dead.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:33 PM
1

I tend to not enjoy products spoken by a whiny redhead with a cuck beard
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:29 PM
1

She's not interested. If a girl is interested she will make time for you, always unless its a dire emergency and in that case she will be flustered and apologetic. if she breaks a date and goes "meh", then you know your answer.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:28 PM
2

Negging is for bar sluts, not real women you want to have relationships with.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:27 PM
2

Most girls want to date/marry a man just like their father. If he's a great guy she chases great guys, if he's a drunken lazy bum she will end up marrying a drunken lazy bum. Go out and find yourself a dude just like your dad.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:26 PM
3

Quit thinking so much in your head, engage her and get out of your own skull, you should be focusing on what SHE has to say, HER ideas, and you should be 100% in terms of thinking and speaking. You're not a conversation robot rattling off predefined convo subjects. Its a dance, dynamic and free.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:25 PM
1

35 is hardly an older woman. Just be bold, if she truly is an older woman she doesn't want dating BS, she wants action. just act mature, not desperate.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:22 PM
13

They're very slutty so in terms of everyday wear I say no. But for private wear to entice a man I say YES. I do like thigh high socks/nylons though, very cute with shorts, very alluring.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:21 PM
12

Show us your picture
/r/seduction18/09/17 04:27 AM
1

He is a drunk.
/r/seduction18/09/17 04:15 AM
1

If they're busy they will be very enthusiastic at making sure to set a future meetup. If they seem ambivalent, you're screwed
/r/seduction18/09/17 12:50 AM
1

"Homework" wow you really are naive aren't you.
/r/seduction17/09/17 10:35 PM
1

No, asian men are not very much in demand by white women, that is the reality. Unless you have some serious musculature and you don't have one of those goofy asian haircuts, you might, maybe get a white girl. Asian chicks on the other hand are very much desired by white men.
/r/seduction17/09/17 10:33 PM
1

Just go up and strike up a convo with him about anything. If he likes you he will chat.
/r/seduction17/09/17 10:10 PM
5

No she obviously hates you
/r/seduction17/09/17 10:09 PM
5

Get out of your head and don't hide inside it when talking to girls. Talk with them,not to them and don't listen to your shoulder monkey whispering into your ear all your insecurities. Focus on her and FEEL what it is like to interact, don't be so scientifically clinical about a conversation
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:32 PM
2

you might try low dose beta blockers instead, less addictive than xanax
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:31 PM
0

Always order a fish dish, just in case she's a militant vegetarian. She won't be as angry at you as if you ordered a sirloin.
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:41 PM
1

Nobody ever does, deal with it.
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:40 PM
2

Spend as much time as you feel you need to.
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:40 PM
2

Looks like she closed YOU.
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:52 AM
22

Best place to pick up girls is at college
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:52 AM
11

Go for it. Unless you want to date a teen boy who is more interested in motorcycles, weed and fidget spinners than women.
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:49 AM
1

You should smile, you look like a serial killer with that 1000 yard stare
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:48 AM
4

Clean the toilet, scrub the toilet. Put in a new toilet seat. Its important
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:45 AM
1

Is there an IKEA nearby? Yes you do need a clean place. Women hate guys with filthy apartments, even if their own apartment is dirty.
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:44 AM
1

negging a girl, really? Even drunk she realized you were creepy.
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:21 AM
1

Can't hurt to ask especially if you don't seem to mind her willingness to a serious commitment.
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:16 AM
1

Not always, I knew a 6'2" girl who was definitely a woman but she had some serious man-hands with sausage fingers.
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:55 AM
1

Confidence combined with approachability. To be approachable you have to be friendly, dress well, take care of your hygiene, and even if you are not that attractive a girl will notice if you take care of yourself. DON'T DRINK. Loudmouth soup does not help you with women. The moment they get a strong whiff of alcohol on your breath you just knocked yourself 25% down the appealing ladder.
/r/seduction17/09/17 02:53 AM
38

You should always be enthusiastic even if she has shown it to you before. I once asked to see a surgery scar on a co-worker's butt, so I got to see a nice piece of her buttcrack too. Girls love showing off, and guys like to watch, so don't break the trend, mkay?
/r/seduction17/09/17 02:21 AM
3

PUA is a scam and pickup artist gurus are scammers, 100% of all the "success" guys have in real life is not the methods but the fact they actually started talking to girls after all the money they forked over for the material. I will save you $3000 and a boring 7-day rote seminar: Talk to girls. They really want us to.
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:28 AM
1

Ya neva know - Chris rock
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:26 AM
5

Strategy: 1) social media, get a GOOD pic of yourself (no cellphone, potato-cam shot in a public bathroom), sign up on tinder, bumble, etc... 2) Grooming, dust off your wallet and go to a salon, get the full boat, hair, shave, tweeze, facial. 3) Clothing, requires that dusty wallet too. Look at wardrobe realistically, separate your good clothes from you crap daily clothes, buy some new stuff for the image you want to project 4) Look in the newspaper, local entertainment guides, there are plenty …
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:25 AM
1

Don't be fooled with the Hollywood idea of a social life, its not real. A social life should be personally rewarding, not for showing off.
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:14 AM
–

Wear a rubber, and check for balls, lots of those trannys are pretty stealthy
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:08 AM
1

You have to be friends with them first. If you are actually friends with a girl thats gonna be easy, whether inviting them to lunch, drinking or dancing. Sounds like you don't know the girls very well.
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:07 AM
1

how old are you, what part of the world. its important
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:06 AM
1

You're just afraid of disease. Most women who aren't 50+ guy sluts won't have anything dangerous in their crotches.
/r/seduction16/09/17 09:50 PM
1

I love crazy girls, I once dated a suicidal cutter, lasted only 3 months but it was glorious.
/r/seduction16/09/17 09:48 PM
3

Its okay to be a "fun" guy but you may be giving off vibes as a harmless asexual dude. Girls need a guy that gets their pubes wet, so you have to exude masculinity, not be some clown prince on the dance floor.
/r/seduction16/09/17 09:39 PM
0

You might have OCD
/r/seduction15/09/17 11:40 PM
6

Play the bedroom game, something I invented. Tell her to go to the bedroom, take off her shoes ONLY. Then turn off all the lights so its pitch black and tell her to get in the bed with you. Reassure her it has nothing to do with sex and no sex will occur. Thats IT. Have a nice quiet conversation with her in the dark, and the rules are simple: No real rules, if you want to hug, kiss, relax, chat, play footsie its allowed. Or you can just talk and get to know one another without the problem of loo…
/r/seduction15/09/17 10:20 PM
-1

That is kinda weird. I've had a hard time NOT having a relationship. Maybe I'm just very good in bed and the girl gets possessive. Perhaps thats the problem, you suck in bed so they don't come back for 2nd's. Work on it.
/r/seduction15/09/17 10:17 PM
1

Sometimes, but rarely.
/r/seduction15/09/17 10:14 PM
1

Its pretty obvious, they come up and talk to you for no reason, or they stare at you more than a few times, or they always manage to stay near you in a public place, hoping you notice them. I just had a girl last week eyeball me something furious, then started up a convo for no real reason. She opened me. So now next week I will chat with her and seal the deal.
/r/seduction15/09/17 10:11 PM
6

They forget you 30 seconds after walking away, unless you did something really retarded, then they forget you 30 minutes after they walk away.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:54 AM
1

the question game? are you interrogating her trying to solve a crime? How about just getting to know her rather than using the autistic Mystery Method
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:53 AM
1

I've dated more than a few girls at work. Lots of people get into relationships with co-workers, its safer than picking up an anonymous bar slut because at least you know the person a bit. Just don't date your boss, and don't date somebody you supervise and you will be okay.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:50 AM
1

OK and then end it. She doesn't want to hang with you anymore she's being pretty clear about it.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:49 AM
1

You might want to start by saying hello and a smile, rather than a creeper stare. Its not tough to get on a first name basis with a girl, and after a few interactions you will pretty much know if she's interested or just being friendly.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:48 AM
1

There is no rule, because it depends on the discussion. Some girls are very talkative and drive the conversation, others are just the facts, some are there for validation, others for just some action. You have to be flexible and know your way around a chat. Eventually a convo peters out and you need to wrap it up so its best to set up a date before it gets awkward.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:46 AM
1

Girls are everywhere. I've even had girls hit on me while I was inline skating at the jogging track by the lake. Try to have a mental game to be ready to talk to a girl just about anywhere.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:38 AM
1

Next day of course. Don't wait 3 days.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:37 AM
3

Nah, if a girl is busy she means she doesn't want to spend time with you. A girl is never busy when she likes you.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:33 AM
2

Yeah I hate when women do things like that and don't let you have sex with them behind a building. Seriously you're just helping a person out.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:29 AM
0

The hotter the girl the more jealous you get, because you fear losing her. I'm dating a not so hot girl, and frankly I wouldn't be too concerned if she dumped me. So basically I could care less what she is doing when I'm not around.
/r/seduction15/09/17 03:14 AM
1

gave away your power but hey its okay she might be into you anyway
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:55 AM
1

Just get her flowers anytime, don't wait for a birthday or some special day. Women like men who surprise them with neat things.
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:53 AM
1

Don't get drunk. Just walk there, and if you do manage to get her to go to your place just have her walk with you unless she's in a time limited parking spot.
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:52 AM
4

If you do it right she will volunteer the number. You just have to imply that you two should get together again.
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:51 AM
1

Take continuing education classes at that college, boom you're college student again, get drunk and fuck some women
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:50 AM
11

No thats creepy in a Mystery fur hat way.
/r/seduction14/09/17 03:18 AM
1

Girls make time if they're interested.
/r/seduction14/09/17 03:17 AM
2

"I meant to do that..." and walk off
/r/seduction14/09/17 03:16 AM
1

Generally speaking, if you're hosting a party you need to focus on your guests to make sure the party runs smoothly, not be trying to hit on them.
/r/seduction13/09/17 04:48 AM
1

just talk to her, you're not doing anything that will get you reported to HR. If she wants you to go away she will let you know. If there's interest its a simple matter of inviting her to lunch
/r/seduction13/09/17 04:11 AM
2

I had a few of his MP3 products I had found on the internets. Its pretty good stuff but his sidekicks are really annoying. Some arab dude and some asian guy. I lost them though in the great HD crash of 2016
/r/seduction13/09/17 04:09 AM
0

Just tell her you had to have it fumigated because of spiders and it needs to air out a few days, then offer to pay for a hotel.
/r/seduction13/09/17 03:52 AM
3

I've done it before and I'm not even a photographer. The clothes just come off because girls LOVE the attention.
/r/seduction13/09/17 03:49 AM
18

There's never a bad time to approach a girl that is into you. (aka she's eyeballing you all the time in class).
/r/seduction13/09/17 03:40 AM
1

You already know her, no need to game her. Just remember that you need to do something like handholding by the 2nd date, and something sexual by the 5th otherwise its friend zone.
/r/seduction12/09/17 04:37 AM
6

You're not in highschool dude, its college. As an adult I eat alone a lot in cafeterias. I'm more worried about shoveling the food down fast so I can get to where i need to go afterwards. I don't care about who is looking at me, because frankly they're not.
/r/seduction12/09/17 04:35 AM
5

1) Obvious 2) Obvious 3) Obvious 4) Obvious
/r/seduction12/09/17 04:34 AM
1

You need a really good picture, forget about the profile nobody looks at those.
/r/seduction12/09/17 04:08 AM
1

The only off-putting major is Funeral Services
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:34 AM
2

Be nice, friendly, positive. Ask about them, only talk about yourself and briefly if asked. Don't use PUA, weasel words or other autistic Mystery shit. Dress well, like you meant to go there, and get your grooming in place, she will be looking at your face as well as your clothing. Don't be vaping beforehand and leave the trilby at home. SHOES. Wear good shoes, women notice shoes, we don't. Its a meet and greet not speed fuck, you won't have time to get a girl into bed in 10 minutes.
/r/seduction12/09/17 12:06 AM
4

He's tall, he's already 90% there.
/r/seduction11/09/17 11:41 PM
3

Because you can't work your abs in only 6 minutes, man!
/r/seduction11/09/17 11:40 PM
1

You've crawled up inside your head and are hiding in there. You need to be living outside your brain with an attitude that is looking around and being self-aware.
/r/seduction11/09/17 06:31 AM
1

Try talking to her and getting to know her first. Taking an active interest in her life is far sexier than yet another creepy guy wanting to rub her feet.
/r/seduction11/09/17 06:29 AM
3

If a girl looks at you 3 or more times, she's interested. Or perhaps you have a sharpie mark on your face.
/r/seduction11/09/17 06:28 AM
1

You're in too much of a hurry for the physical stuff, so they figure you're just another guy wanting to get his rocks off and move on.
/r/seduction11/09/17 06:28 AM
1

I'm just saying not that many marriages come from a PUA picking up some drunken bar slut.
/r/seduction11/09/17 05:26 AM
1

yes because its universally appealing to women for a man to know what he wants and is willing to go get it.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:17 AM
1

You don't date supervisors, ever. If its just a co-worker then its ok.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:15 AM
3

Can you run that through a translator
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:12 AM
1

I would have said "okay, hey lets do something" Take her to the grocery store, get root beer, ice cream and sprinkles and go back home and make floats. yes its silly, but women are silly people they like crazy romantic notions and guys who lead them rather than follow.
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:05 AM
1

Girls LOVE conversation, which is why they have their cellphones glued to the sides of their faces nearly 24/7
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:03 AM
2

A surprising number of people have found their husband or wife at work.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:08 AM
1

No because thats childish.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:08 AM
7

Sounds like you're bragging.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:07 AM
4

No you didn't make a real emotional connection. A girl can get a guy to make out with them anytime, but what she is looking for is a guy that can talk to her, pick her brain, share life experiences and make real sexual intimacy that she wants to feel again. You just kissed her and grabbed her boobs like a drunken sailor. Did you actually stop for a bit and just share some talk time with her, did you do anything genuinely romantic or did some simple intimate touching (backrub, footrub, cuddling),…
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:06 AM
1

Tony Robbins seems fake to me. Empathy comes mainly from changing your inner person to stop thinking about yourself so much and thinking about others. If you can't be bothered to listen to a person when talking to them, you're still need a lot of work with your empathy.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:02 AM
4

It has become a white hipster fruit. Look at youtube videos. I think the locals sell them as a joke to naive tourists.
/r/seduction11/09/17 12:38 AM
2

Dita Von Teese is hot but she just doesn't do anything for me.
/r/seduction11/09/17 12:37 AM
0

When you're in a relationship you don't game other women. This place is full of guys going out with multiple girls but confused as to why they can't get a real steady girlfriend, there ya go.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:32 PM
3

She seems to be more on point with relationships than you. Time to make up your mind as to what you really want in a girl.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:30 PM
2

Don't game a co-worker, just get to know her. And that gay guy, report him to HR and get him fired for harassment if he doesn't get the message.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:29 PM
1

Its just sex dude.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:26 PM
3

She's smart, she's not giving in to you and eventually she wants you to give in to her and do what she wants.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:25 PM
11

Sounds like you're more interested in weed than girls.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:23 PM
19

There was a method to the madness in Fight Club where the homework assignment was to start a fight and lose. Its to get over your fears...
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:36 PM
0

Send her a picture of Dick Cheney
/r/seduction10/09/17 05:10 AM
2

Talk with a girl, not to her.
/r/seduction10/09/17 05:06 AM
2

few MONTHS ago??!?! you still haven' t met her? your friend zone window is like 1-2 weeks tops, you're deep in the zone and it ain't the AutoZone.
/r/seduction10/09/17 05:05 AM
2

Why did you even ask for such a thing? Girls hate to talk about stuff like that, they prefer to let things just happen.
/r/seduction10/09/17 05:04 AM
0

Dad bod is sexy for some girls who have a bit of an incest streak towards daddy (very common, girls tend to date guys a lot like their fathers)
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:56 AM
3

None, my GF would freaking kill me. But I do have 3 options I can fall back on if this doesn't work out.
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:54 AM
1

You go for it. Storm the beaches.
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:53 AM
1

Remember the rule of Skippy from the TV show Family Ties. When he fawned over Mallory she never gave him the time of day. The one episode where he ignored her she suddenly showed interest. You should express interest, perhaps make an offer, and if she refuses just say "okay". Then act like nothing happened. If she is curious she will bring it up later on her own.
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:47 AM
3

You need to work on your connection skills. Repeat after me a number is not a close, a number is not a close. Simply snagging a number means nothing. Girls hand out numbers like they hand out sticks of gum to their friends. They know they can block you, ignore you or give you a number to a loser line.
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:45 AM
1

date 5 is when you make the move, otherwise she will be thinking you're gay. You should have just been inquisitive, say "I guess its time then isn't it?, grab her hand, smile and then kiss her on the lips". don't give her a dissertation on your weaknesses and inexperience.
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:43 AM
1

ask their girlfriends if they know any single female friends
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:41 AM
3

You get a motel room, go to redbox and bring a bluray player from home. Go to the dollar store beforehand to get soda, movie candy and popcorn. Motels always have microwave ovens and free ice for the soda.
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:39 AM
15

You don't, you let her know you're interested in HER.
/r/seduction10/09/17 04:39 AM
1

fork over the cash for a motel/hotel room. its a good neutral location and chicks love the extra tabooishness of going to a hotel to go fuck.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:02 AM
1

yes of course. You should suggest a meetup, thats what she really wants. No girl just messages you just to chat.
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:59 AM
2

Bad boys aren't necessarily mean. They're just extremely masculine and unrepentant about it. They can be the nicest guys around but still exude that male sexuality that makes women flock to them like moths to lightbulb
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:58 AM
-6

You blew it. You should have just said okay, meet with her and see if she wanted to fuck.
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:55 AM
2

Go for it, the worst thing that can happen is she gets pissed and moves out. Easily replaceable, and the next one might be F21 Just don't ask her out, but drop her hints like she looks nice, but have CONFIDENCE, even if she seems to reject you at first. Women are weird, they will initially reject, but then realize its a bit of a compliment, then they enjoy the attention and ego boost then later they start warming up to you. They work on emotion not logic.
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:50 AM
3

Find a boyfriend who can service you that many times. i have sex with my GF at least 3 times on friday night and saturday morning because it seems silly to waste time doing anything else. I once banged her 5 times, she never complained.
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:46 AM
1

I don't worry too much about it.
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:44 AM
1

Beta male video
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:28 AM
1

She wants sex, give it to her.
/r/seduction10/09/17 12:06 AM
1

It can be bad for a girl that has no time to teach a guy how to kiss or fuck. She will just move on.
/r/seduction09/09/17 09:11 PM
2

Hug them when the hurricane passes, see where that goes
/r/seduction09/09/17 09:10 PM
3

Yes. But being really really good looking helps get your foot in the door.
/r/seduction09/09/17 09:09 PM
1

Force yourself
/r/seduction09/09/17 08:40 PM
238

You don't really want to be that icky old guy pretending to be 21 and cruising for teen girls. Just be more of a worldly man (stop dressing like a college student) and girls will flock to you.
/r/seduction09/09/17 08:39 PM
1

http://imgur.com/a/8CfP0
/r/seduction09/09/17 08:38 PM
1

Everywhere. If you can be comfortable meeting women in all situations you are a truly rounded man.
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:45 AM
1

Hit up on girls within the first week of class. They're all single (most anyway) but they pair up pretty quickly. If you wait too long they will all have boyfriends.
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:44 AM
1

If you're unemployed you at least need to be going to school or at least looking for work.
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:43 AM
2

where are you looking for women? Befriend girls, they always have single friends and will give you referrals.
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:41 AM
7

I never feel up a girl in public, its too much like those teen kids who jam their hands down girls pants on the dance floor. You can do quite a bit with just hand holding.
/r/seduction08/09/17 01:45 AM
2

Sounds like you're in da zone.
/r/seduction07/09/17 12:32 AM
1

You're uncomfortable in your own skin. You can't be a romantic guy unless you're comfortable with yourself first.
/r/seduction06/09/17 04:45 AM
1

Flirt with all of them
/r/seduction06/09/17 04:45 AM
1

keep your hands in your pockets
/r/seduction06/09/17 04:00 AM
1

Smoking is a bad thing, always, whether its tobacco or weed.
/r/seduction06/09/17 04:00 AM
1

Don't worry about it, befriend them, its likely they will have a single friend who needs a dude.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:59 AM
1

See if you have mixer events where chicks from other colleges go to meet guys. Or better yet just go to high chick count colleges and hang out on campus. If she asks tell her you have a friend that goes to her university.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:57 AM
1

What did you say after you got the number. Did you make follow up plans in person? If you're gonna get a number you have to give her incentive to pay attention to your digits when they come up on her phone. If you snag the number and then disappear she will shuffle you into the "random dudes" folder.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:56 AM
2

You shot yourself down dude, don't cockblock yourself like that.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:54 AM
1

The game IS the fun, enjoy it.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:52 AM
1

Always, because I don't just get their number and run off.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:51 AM
5

Be confident and realize older women don't care much about all the strange dating rituals of younger girls. They are more direct and are not one to waste time.
/r/seduction05/09/17 11:38 PM
11

You are delicious and she is a zombie. Or it could just have been an accident
/r/seduction05/09/17 06:14 AM
2

You don't want to do approaches on campus unless you go to that college
/r/seduction05/09/17 04:32 AM
1

You're more worried about the mechanics of sex, you need to understand you are with a real person, the connection two people make is not just the penis in the vagina. You won't learn a thing if you just want to borrow a woman to molest.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:40 AM
65

A number is not a close, repeat after me. You have to establish a real communication with her for her to call you. Girls want to find that memorable guy, the one they talk about with their friends the next day. If you get a number and then just walk away, you will get a lot of blocks and ignores because you're just another guy.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:36 AM
2

1%
/r/seduction05/09/17 12:45 AM
1

never ask, make it a statement. "I really need your number"
/r/seduction05/09/17 12:31 AM
1

Some people don't blink as much as others. Look at Overly Attached Girlfriend (Laina Walker) videos on YouTube. Her lack of blinking borders on creepy.
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:43 PM
1

Every fall semester is a new crop of girls out of highschool going to college, and they have broken up with their highschool boyfriends. Fresh Meat.
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:42 PM
3

You don't
/r/seduction04/09/17 07:32 AM
3

My name is Chad. I always seem to get chicks, don't know why.
/r/seduction04/09/17 05:48 AM
8

She never liked you, but you were optimistic anyway. A girl will never brag about her past boyfriends if she wants to get with you.
/r/seduction04/09/17 05:27 AM
1

The 40's can be a real renaissance if you stay in shape, you become hot property to women as you have found out.
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:14 AM
6

The bar is high because you care more about what others think about you than what you really want. Nobody really cares what kind of girl you date, don't make it part of your social presence. You're superficial, thats your real problem. You need to sit down and think about what you really want in life and why you want it.
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:13 AM
2

Its college man, girls are there to get laid. Just make sure you do it early in the fall semester, thats when girls are mostly single and want to get boyfriends. People pair up quickly so if you wait until December you will have a tougher time finding girls unless you go to clubs near the campus.
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:11 AM
1

Depends on what she likes. I once dated a girl who would only have sex while listening to country music. My latest GF likes 70-80's music. I prefer 50's and classical.
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:09 AM
1

Tell her you want to send her a dick pic and send her a picture of President Richard Nixon or Dick Cheney.
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:07 AM
1

Use of humor is okay, but you seem to be using it as a shield to keep a woman from knowing more about you. The real trick is to get her on your side, to get her interested in what you are thinking. If you're this funny clown she won't care much. I do jokes occasionally but only in context of a conversation topic. Doing oddball humor can easily trash a conversation stream and make her lose her train of thought. At that point she may just decide to bail on you as its an easy way out after you say …
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:05 AM
1

Some girls text A LOT to many people. If your text gets lost in the shuffle it can take hours or even days before she realizes you texted her. This could also be a warning though, because if she is into you she will be looking for your text. Sounds like she's not.
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:59 AM
2

Maybe you go to the wrong clubs. Every club has a demographic, based on who they cater to and where it is.
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:57 AM
18

Nothing is 100% effective. It is the situation that makes you go for the kiss. Example: Went on a date with a chick, had a good dinner, we hung out, we got drunk, we talked for an hour, relaxed and chilled, and then things got quiet, I looked at her, she looked at me and I went for it. Another example: I went out with a chick, dinner was ok, she was shy but seemed interested. Was in the bar with her sharing a beer, I just grabbed her and kissed her out of the blue. It worked she liked it and kis…
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:55 AM
1

Talk to girls, if they like you they will want to dance and will pull you to the floor.
/r/seduction04/09/17 01:11 AM
2

Humans aren't animals at all. Throw out the PUA pop psychology. If you want to be an alpha, be an alpha. Humans have more flexibility in that regards than lions.
/r/seduction04/09/17 01:10 AM
1

Go for it, nothing to lose really, everything to gain.
/r/seduction04/09/17 01:09 AM
2

Use the wounded dove ploy, girls love to help an injured man heal.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:40 PM
0

No.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:40 PM
2

Look into David Wygant. I dont' get paid by him or anything, he's a much more inspiring person and doesn't have the creepy PUA vibe.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:30 PM
38

Nothing wrong with it, no love connection, it happens. Move on.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:28 PM
1

It should come out in the conversation. The moment she starts talking about stuff she is doing in highschool is your sign to say thanks and move on.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:25 PM
1

"Older Women" ha thats a very interesting definition you have there. You're just intimidated by women in general, gotta work on that.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:24 PM
1

Talk to her
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:23 PM
2

Thats a toughie, women in retail are paid to smile and be friendly because they want to sell you something. The main indicator of real interest is if she starts talking about something completely unrelated to selling you stuff, or she starts talking about her personal life or inquires about your personal life. The moment she says "Well, my boyfriend..." YOU'RE DONE.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:22 PM
1

Its not about what anonymous goobers on /r/seduction want, its what YOU want. If you want a deep loving relationship don't be afraid to get into one. The whole idea of that is so you can be yourself, and yes women will listen to your thoughts, feelings and insecurities. Remember many guys here are young and don't know shit about life yet, so they bounce from club chick to club chick looking for personal validation. Would you take advice on car maintenance from a 14 year old mechanic, or a 34 yea…
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:19 PM
5

This is a given. PUA scammers claim you can pick up girls wearing a dirty douchebag t-shirt, torn jeans and sneakers, just use their magic verbal formulas. Of course not, you have to dress up, get your hygiene and hair in order and present yourself as best as possible. Women do this all the time, they spend sometimes hours getting ready for a party or the club. Its more than looking good, its about caring about yourself. What a woman sees when a disheveled guy in cargo pants, wrinkled shirt and …
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:13 PM
2

Girls change their minds, you can too. Imagine how horrible dating would be if you were required to stick with a girl you went out with even though you decided you didn't like her.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:10 PM
3

His videos are very entertaining though. A dorky greasy haired brit with 80's style designer jeans who pays eastern european models to sit in his videos, look pretty and pretend they're his babes while he gives out retarded PUA information. https://youtu.be/JFKXeZeCYIM
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:05 PM
3

FWB is not a natural state of affairs between men and women. If you're lousy at sex and lousy with women, well an FWB generally is an indication of that. If you're good with women, an FWB will transition to a real relationship.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:04 PM
7

They certainly think about sex more than we do. In fact they think about it all the time, though not necessarily the mechanics of it. They think about guys and relationships a LOT. As for orgasms, they can have different kinds. My GF has clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms and tends to have a series of orgasms in a row with aftershock type of twinges. Guys tend the have the single volcanic eruption type of orgasm, kaboom then they're done.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:58 PM
6

When you're talking to a girl and you sense she's getting very interested and she suddenly becomes quiet, smile, grab her and move her closer to you so you touch. This move to beyond personal distance is your IOI to her. If she's receptive she will smile and laugh and position herself for a kiss. Girls with glasses may take them off in expectation to remove that physical obstacle to kissing.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:55 PM
6

Sex is a mental game. I am considered a brain and rather geeky, but in the bedroom I'm something else entirely. I take charge, I'm seriously romantic and have a variety of techniques which I switch around as I feel necessary. I don't ask what she wants, I do...then check for feedback, continue, and most of all TAKE MY TIME. If she has any specific requests, then I do them. There are aspects to sex that are very important. TOUCH is very important. Don't be using fingertips, it feels weird. Use th…
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:52 PM
1

Don't go out with her, girls are icky and have cooties. Exactly what are you asking?
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:43 PM
3

I'd say about 95% of all questions here are basic dating advice asked by noobs who have hardly talked to a girl much less dated one. I'm old, and can tell you dating is more or less universal regardless of age. If you could pick up chicks at 14 you can pick up chicks at 54. The opposite is also true, so you better learn some skills ASAP.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:41 PM
1

Here's a hint, she doesn't give a shit about your stories, especially about other people. Storytelling is PUA bullshit and bores the crap out of women. She has no interest in some friend you know that does cool things.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:34 PM
1

Look for the ace of spades tattoo
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:28 AM
2

Live life, then you will have plenty of stories. Faking tales of things you never did will get you into trouble.
/r/seduction03/09/17 05:27 AM
2

20 euros to get laid, a bargain.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:47 AM
1

If you're not too interested in dating her then don't date her.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:18 AM
3

"Hmm, are you saying I need a friend?" Say it with confidence.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:17 AM
2

Gold digger girls are very demanding, about everything. Warning sign right from the start.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:16 AM
1

"Oh what's wrong???" A depressed girl will want to vent about her situation. Don't even acknowledge anything as a rejection, just that she wants to get it off her chest or she wouldn't have brought that up. Its called conversation dude, its not magic but you need to learn how to have one in any situation, even in a foxhole under enemy fire.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:14 AM
3

Be really good looking, be so attractive and well dressed it intimidates the heck out of cosplay women. Just know something about sci-fi. I'm a stargate nut I know everything about it, so I dress as Daniel Jackson. Express interest in what they like in terms of anime, sci-fi, fantasy, etc. Its all about holding a conversation and having genuine positive attitudes. Don't go after booth babes though, they're paid hotties and have Chad boyfriends, so you're wasting your time. Don't worry about othe…
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:09 AM
-1

Don't tell good stories. LIVE good stories. This means leaving the basement.
/r/seduction03/09/17 03:30 AM
1

I read that as seducing a man's maid for some reason
/r/seduction03/09/17 12:15 AM
1

Just have fun with it, have a binky in your mouth and a helium balloon in your hand when shes shows up. Just kidding, its cool, nothing to worry about
/r/seduction03/09/17 12:12 AM
3

drunk, take advantage of drunk texting
/r/seduction03/09/17 12:11 AM
1

I thought it was funny because it puts the other guy in a strange position, how do you respond to such a surprising gesture!
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:54 PM
1

When you first rode a bicycle, it was a chore to stay on it. A year later and you can ride it even with your hands off the handlebars.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:54 PM
1

YOU may be having great sex, she may not be. If you are plowing a girl like she's never been plowed before, she will be very loyal to you indeed. You might want to re-assess your lovemaking techniques.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:52 PM
1

Are you japanese?
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:51 PM
1

Be smart, girls like smart.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:50 PM
1

Read up on the history of Casanova, its an eye opener.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:50 PM
2

Talk to her tomorrow.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:49 PM
1

Hot women know they're in demand, and yes they will play with you, but remember its just a game, don't get pissed off. Just be good looking.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:49 PM
2

Just talk to a girl, never ask her probing questions. You have to build a sense of safety, security and comfort with her. The rest comes naturally. If a girl likes you (they usually do know within a few minutes of knowing you) she will volunteer that information anyway.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:47 PM
1

never use emojis you're a guy
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:46 PM
1

Don't hang out with them if you're looking for girls!!! I had a lot of friends who were unintentional cock-blockers. One of my best friends did it all the time to me so I had to take him aside and say "Dude, you cock blocked me, don't you realize what you're doing?". He was actually surprised he didn't even know.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:46 PM
3

If you want a loving relationship don't waste time with gaming girls or you will just end up with a girl that is just a gamer herself.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:44 PM
2

Suburbia is great, go jogging, advertise yourself in the neighborhood. Girls are watching...
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:43 PM
2

Its better to say "thats cool, see ya" and end it there. She was going to flake anyway, a girl will always make time to see you if she likes you, even if she has to change plans with friends.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:41 PM
2

A friend of mine had a perfect retort, he just looked at him, pushed him away and yelled "Go on, git!" in a redneck voice.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:39 PM
5

age
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:38 PM
1

If a woman has sex with 10 guys she's not necessarily a slut. If she has sex with 100 then you should start to worry.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:38 PM
1

Thats kinda hot
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:37 PM
1

then don't gripe
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:12 PM
0

Sounds like you unwittingly are dating a feminist. Run away, run as fast as you can
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:39 AM
2

Get a motel.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:21 AM
1

I'm telling daddy!
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:20 AM
1

She thinks you might be a loser. Go out with her and prove her otherwise.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:20 AM
1

Her biggest fear is not disease but if you are totally incompetent with your dick. Girls don't like "Minutemen".
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:18 AM
1

Pick up guys at auto parts shops. Ask a cute one if he can help you find the right oil filter
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:17 AM
1

If you talked to them before you have some familiarity, why wouldn't you unless you made a fool out of yourself in front of them.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:16 AM
1

Facebook is not the entire planet.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:16 AM
2

Girls like guys older than them, its a thing. Maybe your clothing is telegraphing to girls that you are a young pup.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:15 AM
1

Well you sure like to take risks, you eat at Chipotle after all. That risky behavior should extend to women. Are there any hotties at Chipotle?
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:13 AM
2

Its a buyer's market for girls on the internets. Be prepared to be treated like the canteloupe with the bruise as she reaches for the firmer healthier looking one without even giving it a 2nd thought.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:12 AM
5

You have unwittingly been captured by the Friendzone. You should have been more overt with your intentions from the start so she would be on the spot to make a decision to date/no date.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:10 AM
1

Unless the woman is conservative then feminists slut shame the hell out of her.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 05:04 AM
3

You're supposed to say "I'm sorry", smile at them and strike up a conversation, not rush home and post on here.
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:02 AM
1

You still are shy, you will be shy for the rest of your life, accept it, but don't think its an insurmountable obstacle to meeting girls.
/r/seduction31/08/17 12:02 AM
5

Hit on chicks early in the semester, people pair up pretty quickly in college so over time girls become less available.
/r/seduction30/08/17 11:59 PM
5

Its somewhat threatening for a guy to randomly stop a girl and talk to her. You have to be pretty attractive to get away with it.
/r/seduction30/08/17 11:58 PM
2

You are being too timid, she has no idea if you even like her as more than just a friend.
/r/seduction30/08/17 11:57 PM
2

You live in a fat state and thats all the searches return
/r/seduction30/08/17 05:03 AM
1

You will be lucky to get a fifth date if you don't express interest immediately. I gave a girl I was dating a single red rose the moment she opened her front door on a 2nd date. it worked well, she knew where I was comin from and we dated for a year.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:36 AM
1

Make sure your photo matches how you talk. Don't talk like a biker if you look like a nerd, don't talk wigger if you are wearing a suit
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:35 AM
3

I don't watch much TV anymore, it pisses me off.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 04:32 AM
1

You think way too much for starters.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:31 AM
1

I once picked up a female photographer. I just asked her about her work, and gave her some insights on how I felt about things like wedding photographs, travel, etc.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:29 AM
1

shake her hand? You trying to sell her insurance? Tell a story about a female friend? Who cares, why should she give a shit about some friend of yours she knows nothing about. You are talking TO her, not with her. You should be aiming to try and "be on her side". Say something like "this place is great!" or this place is kinda dull isn't it? (something she can agree with). Hold off on the kino grabby boy, you hardly know her. Intruding into her space makes her feel uncomfortable. the first touch…
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:27 AM
1

1000 yard stare, don't do it, ever.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:22 AM
3

Plenty of fatties to fuck on OKC
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:21 AM
3

A social man doesn't try to isolate he tries to be inclusive. the life of the party always seems to know everybody doesn't he, while the creepy guy is always trying to cordon off a chick who tries to get out from under his outstretched arm.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:21 AM
4

You're too busy trying to think of canned stuff to talk about. You are not LISTENING. Yes women say things, and yes you should be listening and using what she says as conversation tools.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:19 AM
1

Hit the seal on the head quickly before it scurries off
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:15 AM
2

You don't seduce people. You just interact with them and if they see what they like they respond.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:14 AM
1

Antidepressants, totally kills your will to do anything sexual
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:14 AM
1

you're fucked. If a girl has made up her mind you're friendzone. Why bother. I had a similar thing with a crazy ass girl who was so lonely she wanted me to go to the theatre with her, she had no other intentions other than to waste some time but not by herself.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:13 AM
1

Just hand her the coin and sit down
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:12 AM
1

Bring a nintendo cartridge to your date as a joke, see what she does.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:11 AM
2

Always learn from your experiences, otherwise its #2
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:10 AM
4

You must be optimistic. Self-conscious, inward thinking is just self-defeating. Confidence is the key, when you see her don't act like a lost puppy who found its master. When you see her, smile and say "How YOU doin?" and tell her what you two will be doing tonight. (NEVER ASK, she wants you to decide, if she doesn't want that she will suggest something else)
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:09 AM
2

You're not in the friendzone yet, but you had better at least start holding her hand. By the 5th date she will think you're gay and not call you back if you don't ramp it up with actual romantic interest it will be señor blocked. (not talking about rubbing her ass, I'm talking about giving her a small gift, telling her you will take her places, showing you want more than to be a shopping partner)
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:06 AM
0

Nobody reads profiles, have a well composited photo of yourself.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:04 AM
1

I called her up and asked her out. It was that easy. We are friends but we are firstly romantic lovers.
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:53 AM
2

Ignore what she says and carry on.
/r/seduction30/08/17 12:10 AM
1

If you can't have sex with a condom you may have some psychiatric issues to deal with first.
/r/seduction30/08/17 12:09 AM
1

if you are going to screw your teacher do it in her house and don't text, otherwise the cops will find out and she will go away for awhile.
/r/seduction30/08/17 12:08 AM
2

be friendly to women, thats it.
/r/seduction30/08/17 12:07 AM
1

get a virgin drink. I once ordered one and the bartender gave it to me for free because it wasn't worth his time to charge me.
/r/seduction29/08/17 09:01 AM
1

You misinterpreted her, she may have just thought you were odd looking. Happens to me I sometimes stare at a person trying to figure out why they look that way.
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:51 AM
1

She changed her mind, people are allowed that.
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:50 AM
1

I'm dating a friend right now, go for it. Its risky because its likely you won't ever see her again if you fail, but its better than being stuck with a friend you have had feelings for and you can't do anything about it. Just don't declare your love for her openly you will freak her out. She will be thinking you have some sort of love shrine with candles in your basement and she will run.
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:48 AM
1

Not get cancer
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:47 AM
-1

Don't take ecstasy, don't drink, it kills your game, dude.
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:17 AM
-5

You will never be Chad then, chad will fuck it as long as its female and sucks his dick. (And I don't mean trannies, those are dudes with tits)
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:07 AM
1

It sounds like you don't know who YOU are yet. Time to do a Walkabout and figure out where you're going before you start looking for her.
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:36 AM
-1

NO, find a fat girl instead. Hookers are nasty, disease ridden and mean. You will either get robbed, cut or end up with a fez growing on your dick. Find a lonely fat girl and do her, it helps you, it helps her. I guarantee you will at least be friends aftewards.
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:35 AM
1

Move out of your own head, when you're conversing think of your mind as leaving your brain and dancing with her mind in front of you. That sounds odd but if you are cooped up too much in your own thoughts you simply can't hold a conversation. You have to focus on her, what she's saying and how she's feeling.
/r/seduction29/08/17 06:53 AM
1

Send her a picture of vanilla ice and tell her you're cool.
/r/seduction28/08/17 06:43 AM
1

All alcohol does is increase your chances of joining the 27 club.
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:48 AM
3

You should have gone over and talked to her?
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:47 AM
1

Yes by all means no delay, as the friend zone looms the moment you wait too long.
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:47 AM
1

negging doesn't work for all female personality types. For the drunken club girl types it works, but for shy girls its a huge turnoff.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 03:37 AM
1

What horseshit. What curbs teen violence is having a father around, not mindful masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 03:36 AM
3

Carpooling is great, you can get to know each other quickly that way. then you can get introduced to her circle of friends, party, get drunk and then she can lock lips all over you and ask to take you back to your dorm.
/r/seduction28/08/17 03:33 AM
9

Disney is now owned by them, and its just a tool of social engineering now.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 02:29 AM
-1

How YOU doin? (say it like Joey from Friends) or "Just wondering, but why haven't we had sex yet?"
/r/seduction28/08/17 02:27 AM
5

You are high quality female so you should aspire for a better man. Drunken guys at bars and PUA's definitely are not to your liking so don't go for them. Go to social mixers with upper level people, use your gifts of beauty, brains and work to your advantage.
/r/seduction28/08/17 12:35 AM
1

Look at attractive girls, they spend hours on their nails, hair, makeup, clothing. And guess what it attracts you. Do you pay attention to dumpy girls with sloppy clothing and hair tied back with a rubber band? You should pay attention to what you wear, it telegraphs to others who you are or at least gives them an impression.
/r/seduction27/08/17 10:24 PM
2

take a girl to chuck-e-cheese. relive your youth (unless you're 16 then its just a regular outing)
/r/seduction27/08/17 09:41 PM
3

And you wonder why real men like Sluts. They don't want do your laundry, they want to suck your dick, bounce on your hips like a cowboy and have you feed them expensive meals, thats it.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 09:35 PM
34

Just talk to a woman but don't have it in your mind that you HAVE to ask her out, you HAVE to impress her, or you HAVE to date her. Just consider it all field work in becoming comfortable in general conversational skills.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:11 PM
3

Just ask them what they're drinking, its a way to get them off the dance floor and to the bar where its quiet enough to talk.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:09 PM
1

its probably okay.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:06 PM
11

Many men are looking to marry a mommy. Its sad that women don't realize it until its too late. I'm a man. I don't let my GF clean my house, iron my clothes, pay my bills or wipe my ass. Too many men have mommy issues and end up using their wife as a substitute when their mommy dies.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 04:50 PM
8

Its a bit safer for her so she may be for that. Your place or mine is a classic way to do it. Tell her you prefer hers because you have a lot of naked animals at yours.
/r/seduction27/08/17 07:42 AM
1

Nofap just leans you to gayness, because you end up so horny even dudes start to look appealing. Then it becomes brofap when you're stroking it in the same room with other bros. Don't go down that path, stroke if you need to but always to the latest stuff from Brazzers.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 07:08 AM
2

You should always be ready for interacting with a woman. Think of yourself as a soldier, do you think soldiers only work 8-5 or are they ready 24/7 when they're needed? She knocked you for a loop by being so assertive, it should not bother you though. Always be ready for the unexpected.
/r/seduction27/08/17 06:30 AM
1

Act like the person you want to be.
/r/seduction27/08/17 06:26 AM
2

Just ask her "why haven't we had sex yet?"
/r/seduction27/08/17 06:25 AM
2

Girls are emotional creatures, and often say the opposite of what they mean. She may want a real boyfriend not a dick rental.
/r/seduction27/08/17 06:24 AM
2

You need to approach women with more bold personalities.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:10 AM
1

She probably just changed her mind.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:09 AM
1

"What, why are you home alone?, that doesn't sound fun" (she responds with the situation she's in, either she will invite you over or she will still be coy about it) "Well if you have netflix I will bring a pizza" (be bold) She's cracking the door open and you have to walk in or at least figure what she's trying to do with that statement. She might just be nervous and blurted it out by accident. either way you should see it as a conversation opportunity. Communication is where its at, don't sit …
/r/seduction27/08/17 04:33 AM
1

The moment she said she was home alone she was wanting a reaction, you didn't give it to her. I think you may have blown it.
/r/seduction26/08/17 09:12 PM
1

Like I said, eyes are important. Gooberboy is wearing aviators in most shots. Windows to the soul dude, chicks don't think like we do.
/r/seduction26/08/17 09:05 PM
2

You really can't steal a girl. She just chose you.
/r/seduction26/08/17 09:00 PM
2

Go to places where the girls are single, such as mixers, college bars and social events. Also establish a bigger friendship circle, girls like to be matchmakers, they can steer you to a girl they know that needs a BF. I'm good looking so I had no problem attracting greek girls, they could care less if you are greek or non-greek.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:21 PM
1

You really don't
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:17 PM
7

You're drunk, she's drunk. Don't do anything unless you're both sober.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:16 PM
1

Just be honest about what you want. If she wants more she will just bail on you, so don't be angry with her, she is not obligated to you in any way if she wants a real boyfriend not just a dick to borrow.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:15 PM
1

Nothing wrong with being safe. She's just telling you that you're a nice guy but rather dull and boring but doing it courteously. You are probably using humor as an emotional shield, don't do that. You must exude confidence, masculinity and sexual energy.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:13 PM
3

If you are uncomfortable, THEY are uncomfortable. Ever wonder why that popular friend of yours always has folks around him, he's always comfortable and relaxed.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:12 PM
2

Profile 2 shows a guy having fun, being social and pleasant. You can also clearly see his eyes Profile 1 is a dude being a goober in a public bathroom. He is looking down and his face is blurry. Girls want social guys.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:11 PM
1

Period sex is pretty messy. Did it only once, my shirt looked like something out of "Dexter". Smells different too. I can see why girls don't like to do it.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:08 PM
9

Women want a man to take charge, you deflated her mental image of you the moment you blurted that out.
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:09 AM
5

Thats why Chad lifts, to get women out of his mind
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:20 AM
2

Don't talk on the dance floor, let your moves do the talking.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:16 AM
3

You're only 26 dude, you talk like you're 74 years old. BTW actor Tony Curtis was 74 when he married a 25 year old woman. Quit whinging and just go out, you're not even done growing.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:16 AM
1

You will never get over regrets. Shelve them and move on.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:13 AM
1

You may be her dick in a glass box, but don't expect a relationship.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:12 AM
1

Talk to them about your life, your feelings, what you are thinking about, your hopes, ambitions and dreams. And don't forget to ask them about the same and LISTEN.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:11 AM
1

Women won't approach, ever. Its been this way for 100,000 years and won't change, this is not a new revelation.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:11 AM
6

The only reason she controls you is because she can control you.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:10 AM
1

Chad wins again, Chad always wins.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:09 AM
1

I was a commuter, it does limit your socialization opportunities greatly. If you have to communite, by all means go to all the rallies tailgate parties, join some groups, and talk to girls in class.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:08 AM
19

Forget about the internet groups all it will do is isolate you further. Find friends, go out, expose yourself to real life.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:06 AM
5

Lift weights
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:05 AM
2

Learn how to make friends first
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:00 AM
3

Let her escalate. Play the bed game with her. Tell her to stay completely clothed but take off just her shoes. Turn off all the lights so its pitch black in the room, get in the bed and tell her the rules: 1) You can do anything you feel like, talk, hug, sleep, kiss, touch. Lay on your back so she will snuggle with you. Conversation is easy because its dark and you don't have to worry about looking at her, her looking at you, and your chat with her can get personal and fun, and girls absolutely …
/r/seduction26/08/17 02:59 AM
2

You're too stuck in structured pickup. look to the right on the screen for basics of how to interact with women.
/r/seduction25/08/17 11:36 PM
-1

Girls don't dress up for men, they dress up for other women. They're in a constant cold war with others over who looks better.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:22 PM
2

goofy = coping mechanism for being nervous in a situation. Just calm down, lay off all forms of caffeine and think of yourself as george clooney, not adam sandler.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:21 PM
2

beta blockers, low dose such as coreg.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:20 PM
1

take antidepressants you won't get a boner ever again.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:20 PM
1

All the damn time. Sex doesn't seem to reduce it.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:18 PM
1

Your point and smile WAS the opener, just talk to her, don't ask her to dance, if she's interested she will say "lets dance". Remember to use situational awareness. Fixed structured pickup doesn't work here, you have to be able to react to what she says positively and be prepared to be clever and funny.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:17 PM
1

Walk over to her.
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:40 PM
0

Just point at her and smile
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:29 PM
2

Glasses are trendy, and girls like smart guys.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:49 PM
1

No need to break up with her. I know a guy who literally collects women he has met from all over the country and periodically visits them from time to time. If you're good they never really forget you.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:47 PM
1

High notch count = more diseases, more problems, complete misunderstanding of why you are seeing women at all. Its not a race, there are no door prizes for winning. I know a guy who has been with 1 (ONE) woman his entire life. He's married to her happily, he really knows how to talk to women but he loves his wife (she is pretty hot too). Numbers aren't important, finding happiness is.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:45 PM
20

Nothing wrong with being nice, your problem is you are "Nice", that syndrome where a man tries to use lies and subterfuge to get a woman to like him. You have to be honest about your interests in a woman and express that to them.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:43 PM
1

Talk to females like they were guys. Learn to interact with them on a regular basis before you take that huge step of trying to on the more challenging level of romantic interest.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:42 PM
1

Thats basically it, have a really good pic of yourself.
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:50 AM
2

Some of those girls are 12 years old dude.
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:18 AM
0

Read romance novels. Girls actually believe in that stuff.
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:17 AM
2

Isn't that what tinder is for, finding quick sex?
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:15 AM
5

Just talk to girls already, enough theory.
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:14 AM
2

Sooner the better, she's already been asked by dozens of guys if she's cute. The beginning of the semester is a dating smorgasbord for other guys.
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:14 AM
1

"No prob, see ya"
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:56 AM
1

It's harder for them to ORGASM Now thats not true, women can rub one out easily, many do it at work and you don't even know.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:40 AM
1

Kiss her on the cheek and be enthusiastic about it. Tell her you will be seeing her again definitely.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:39 AM
10

She "forgot". If a girl really likes you she won't forget you! You might as well go on the date though, she offered.
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:37 AM
0

Now I'm not sure what you really want. Get a hooker.
/r/seduction24/08/17 11:33 PM
2

Plenty of Fish, OKCupid, Match. Its a lonely fat girl smorgasbord.
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:19 AM
0

No, paid whores are a horrible introduction to sex. You're more likely to end up a woman hating serial killer after the experience. Fuck a fat girl you know, its not as bad as you think.
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:37 AM
3

Quit whining in general.
/r/seduction24/08/17 07:27 AM
1

I was just speaking from my experiences.
/r/seduction24/08/17 07:22 AM
2

you're 34 and a virgin, you're hot property for single women in your age range, disease free. Find the local older folks club, they do exist. I've been to a club that everybody there was at least 40-50+ A very different environment indeed, everybody is far more mature and talkative.
/r/seduction24/08/17 05:03 AM
1

Held hands yet?
/r/seduction24/08/17 04:03 AM
1

Take my approach and it will automatically filter out the club chicks. I've run across more traditional women in clubs, they exist.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:57 AM
1

its a 2 year relationship, she probably wants to move on, she's young
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:56 AM
2

Shy girls shouldn't be gamed. Forget the PUA and be more direct, friendly and more decisive. They will want you to do everything for them, just make sure you give them the confidence in you that your interest is real and honest.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:52 AM
2

Perhaps you need to change your clubbing strategy. Forget about escalating, making out, and going for the F-close so soon. Try being a bit slower and more measured in your approaches, and you will end up with women who are more interested in something other than just a dick for the night.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:47 AM
1

Just be a man. Its not about being nice, its about acting like a man. Being passive, meek and pliable is not what men do.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:31 AM
2

Don't open your mouth wide, its kinda like eating ice cream but with some tongue action.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:20 AM
10

You should seek professional help for your psychiatric issues really
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:18 AM
1

No need to ask really. I had a girl in highschool way back when just sit next to me after eyeballing me a few times, pretty brave of her, so we chatted. College isn't highschool you shouldn't encounter bullying or strange teen behaviors.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:17 AM
1

She owes you nothing. Only rapists think a girl owes them pussy just because she went to your room.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:16 AM
2

Either way really. If she's interested she will call you. If you're interested you will call her. If you exchange numbers its very likely you are both interested. Just don't pressure her to give up a number. A girl will give it to you freely if she's interested. If you force her she will just give you a local radio station loser line number or block you on her iphone.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:15 AM
1

You don't that's the challenge.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:13 AM
3

Its just common sense. Dip fingers into vagina to get them wet, rub the clitoris lightly in circular motion. If its too sensitive for her, spread fingers and rub around the clit, or just above it. The tugging sensation is very stimulating without being too direct. Remember in porn shoots the women aren't really excited, they are just acting. The guys have to be excited because of the erection thing.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:12 AM
1

The day you found out all PUA teachers are scammers and frauds...
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:53 AM
2

Quit worrying about escalation so much. There are no magic touch points on a woman. Alphas know about escalation because it comes natural to them, they're not thinking about what to brush against or what to rub. They're busy forming a real connection to her, an emotional bond. The brain is the most powerful weapon, use it. Structured pickup just makes you into a dating robot, predictable and boring. The reason you are doing poorly on dates is you are rambling through your mind on what to do next…
/r/seduction23/08/17 09:19 PM
2

You can't buy confidence, you can't borrow somebody else's confidence, you can't rent confidence, you can't learn confidence in a book or on an internet site. Its time to stop typing...
/r/seduction23/08/17 09:15 PM
2

Time to repost this in /r/cringe The 1st one was okay "naughty girl", the 2nd one "real fun" was just creepy.
/r/seduction23/08/17 09:12 PM
1

Fake it, like when you broke mom's vase and told her the cat did it
/r/seduction23/08/17 09:07 PM
1

Never be afraid to express your intentions to a girl. Girls want to meet guys, they think a lot more about dating than we do! While we're busy working on cars, drinking, fighting wars, building skyscrapers, inventing new things, girls are busy wondering why no guys are talking to them.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:19 PM
2

Just have the mental state of feeling you're attractive, interesting and successful. I'm not saying you should be arrogant and think you're the best guy on the planet, but think of yourself as a contender.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:17 PM
1

Hope you tossed all your skinny pants. There's no way to teach kissing or how to be comfortable around a girl, you just have to do it, expect it to not go well the 1st time (it may go well, who knows you might be born a natural and not know it) and learn by experience.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:16 PM
1

Don't thank her! She isn't your caseworker! Just say "whats up" and have a very short text chat and tell her you gotta go because you got some things to do, but you will be seeing her again. Note its a statement not a question, don't ever phrase a 2nd date request as a question.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:14 PM
1

Ottermode - lean and muscular but not Jersey Shore. Like a swimmers body.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:12 PM
2

I always have a lot of success, but I seem to be good at suppressing any jitters and get into the flow pretty quickly. A girls smile really relaxes me when I'm talking to her. My first time (years ago) was a librarian, she warmed up to me immediately and we had a 2 year relationship which was very sexual but a bit stormy. Worth it.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:10 PM
2

Rule #2: Do NOT talk about fight club
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:09 PM
3

Sometimes I wonder about this place. I sure hope this was a joke story.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:09 PM
0

Don't drink, don't smoke, don't have tattoos, don't drive a motorcycle, have a 8-5 job, have money in the bank, don't have a goofy ass hairdo, wear nomal clothing (don't be a wigger, etc...) and always treat your girl with respect and make sure you know exactly what you want to do in life. They will think you're the best, but your GF may have 2nd thoughts about you because females tend to like to rebel against their parents.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:08 PM
2

before you can find love you need to learn how to interact with people on a non-sexual level. Start with training to help you forge business contacts.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:06 PM
3

Certainly not in engineering class unless you like asian and indian dudes. I always did best in my prerequisite courses I had to take like literature, history or bowling where the female count is much higher.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:02 PM
175

Just talk to girls, thats all you need to know. If you clam up you are going nowhere.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:01 PM
4

If you aren't man enough to pay, don't date. Your right hand doesn't ask you to pay.
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:53 PM
3

Try to be wanty, not needy. Wanty is more assertive.
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:53 PM
1

Anthony Weiner did this all the time.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:27 AM
1

Have you gotten every job you have interviewed for?
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:26 AM
1

Look to your right under "NEW HERE?" and Guides:
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:26 AM
1

Generally a girl won't let you have sex with her until at least the 5th date and sometimes later. Why are you so horny, don't you have any self-control? Try enjoying her company rather than being "that guy" that only cares about whats in her underwear.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:22 AM
2

Cute is a compliment, handsome is a compliment, roll with it if you get either one. Stop thinking about you you you so much and focus on her.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:20 AM
3

I wouldn't mess with it. Changing it would make you look wishy-washy.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:19 AM
1

You should chat them up and see if you can study with them for the finals.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:18 AM
1

Masturbate 4 hours before the date so you don't get a boner during.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:57 PM
1

There is no 100% success guarantee with women unless you're one of those pervs that will mate with anything female. Just have fun on the date, maybe it will work out, maybe it won't.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:56 PM
2

You're scared of girls. It may actually help you get a better connection to a girl. Sex comes later when you 2 get hot and heavy in private. In the meantime you want to learn more about her mind not her snatch.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:54 PM
1

Its not necessarily what you say but how you say it, your body position, your facial expression, your confidence. Thats why a Chad can say something borderline retarded and yet chicks swoon, because he knows how to express himself in a way that makes women wet.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:53 PM
1

I tend to just keep it light at first, a good smile, a bit of enthusiasm "How are you?" "I'm hungry, alright let's eat" (assuming restaurant) "Lets have some fun today" (note its not a question its a statement) "That is an interesting outfit" (it invokes conversation, its not a judgment, she can tell you where she got it, why she likes it etc...) "My you're lovely" (right off the bat establish some rapport and enthusiasm for her). Questions? this isn't an interrogration its a date. Best way to s…
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:50 PM
1

Yeah I'm sure many girls complain about swiping lots of hot guys and getting nothing
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:45 PM
1

Apps allow people to be less regretful about rejecting somebody, so you had better get used to being rejected on a mass scale. Welcome to the digital age.
/r/seduction22/08/17 08:13 PM
2

Why do you wait so long. JANUARY?!? Its freaking August now. You have a short period of time before you are friend zone for life.
/r/seduction22/08/17 08:10 PM
1

I dunno about that. "This one girl" means there is a girl who in your mind is ideal. Nothing wrong with going after what you want. Everybody has had a lifetime crush on somebody, its what drives us forward.
/r/seduction22/08/17 08:09 PM
1

No, gaming a girl does not build intimacy. If you want a real relationship with a girl that lasts you drop the PUA shit and start to communicate honestly and openly. Most of the crap spouted here on this board is how to get laid, not really how to get a GF.
/r/seduction22/08/17 08:06 PM
0

I've had a girl tell me i have very smooth hands. I just quip its my office job that I never have done a had days work in my life. Its a good way of hinting they're white collar (more money) than somebody who digs ditches or works in mcdonalds.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:15 PM
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I find them to be sluttier, more possessive and kinda crazy. Thats why I stick to white girls.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:12 PM
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"Nice" guys are NOT nice. They're obsessive, creepy and secretive. They pretend to be nice to a girl in hopes they can sneak into a relationship. Thats why girls don't like them. Just don't do that, kickboxing won't fix "nice"
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:07 PM
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Probably see a psychiatrist that reads like a person with body dysmorphia
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:05 PM
1

holding hands should be your FIRST kino. bumping butts and grabbing ass is not kino, its molesting.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:04 PM
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Whinging about having girlfriends, only on /r/seduction! Post this on /r/incels and see what happens.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:03 PM
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Probably a guy
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:02 PM
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700 is even worse.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:01 PM
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DON'T! Prostitutes are a terrible introduction to sex. Just fuck a fat chick, its a heck of a lot better than some cold unfeeling whore who you won't be able to get a boner with. Hookers generaly avoid to give you "The girlfriend experience" because they want to keep sex and intimacy separate. AKA they just want you to fuck them, pay them and leave. You want intimacy, not just a hole to put your thing in.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:00 PM
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Yes phrase things as a statement not a question, that much is obvious. Questions are meek and weak.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:57 PM
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Just talk to girls, don't act like a highschooler. College is a different world, you can't talk loud and be raucous in class and you have to respect the professor or you're out. So just get into a college mental state. And remember lots of the girls in college are freshman so they're basically ex-highschoolers of a few months.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:55 PM
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So what, who cares. Only feminine men care about the gossip.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:53 PM
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Yes people date at work all the time. Only virgins think its a bad idea to do so. SO MANY people end up marrying co-workers. The reason is obvious, dating can be unsafe to both men and women. Bar people can be alcoholics, perverts, serial killers, creeps, stalkers. Co-workers you know more about and can often trust more. No wonder people date each other at work!
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:52 PM
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Touching hands can be very intimate. its much better than ass or boob grabbing like many guys do then they wonder why the girl runs away from them.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:50 PM
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If you messed up the next one is in 2 years.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:48 PM
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Hurry up or some other dude will
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:47 PM
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You can't ever know if a girl wants an LTR. If you just want mindless anonymous sex get a hooker. You're single, not married, so even if she implies a relationshop just be open and honest that you are a fuccboi. She will probably dump you so you can move on to the next fucc
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:46 PM
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You made the mistake of thinking about your situation. Think about your COCK instead, relax your mind and enjoy the fact a chick is blowing it. I find blowjobs to be amazingly relaxing and I just let Mr. Dick do his thing. He knows whats goin' on. Stop thinking 2 steps ahead its self defeating. Getting laid is not about thinking but its about feeling and doing, get into the groove.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:44 PM
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Lots of people think braces are cute, including girls. Women in their 20's are not giggly tweens ya know.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:42 PM
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College for the most part is BS. The only reason the powers that be want everybody to go to college is so they can be politically indoctrinated into all the SJW crap that is going on right now. Trade school is fine, college has its purpose sometimes, and lots of people with good jobs never went to any sort of formal school outside of highschool.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:41 PM
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Why would you be depressed you kissed a girl? Wow you sure know how to turn lemondate into lemons. She started the kiss you're supposed to continue it. When I am in bed with my GF I probably kiss her 200 times during the whole act of lovemaking. There's no time or number limit on passion, just remember you're the man, she's wanting you to kiss her. Oh and don't kiss her like she's your sister (don't make sucking noise) unless you're into that.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:39 PM
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Ask her parents for a date with her. Thats generally how it works there.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:36 PM
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I don't want to embarrass myself. If you don't take risks you will never succeed at anything.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:35 PM
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Get a really good picture, thats what most girls look at anyway. In other words be good looking and you will succeed. Don't take a grainy selfie with a potato-cam, use a 35mm in good light, with a sensible background and a good shot of your face and especially your eyes. Even if you're ugly you still need to do this, because not every girl has great self-esteem, you may get picked anyway. You don't want to be an ugly guy with a bad photo, you will get ignored completely.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:33 PM
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In most salons you can ask for a specific stylist, so remember to get her name. It may cost you a few extra bucks. This is common because women are picky as hell about their stylist thats why that service exists. Just be really talkative and nice, it may take more than 1 session. If she's interested she will steer the convo to your life and to hers, hinting she's available. I had a hairdresser do that to me, and she hinted that she wanted to see me outside of the salon. I was courteous but kind …
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:28 PM
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You can't make a woman like you unless you own a mind control device, but if you have one and use it you're just a dick.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:23 PM
1

Like it or not, most people date within their own race. Its not racism is just human psychology. Its unfortunate you end up with a lot of ratchet women of your race but I'm sure there are more dignified and educated types. Perhaps you are simply looking in the wrong places.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:22 PM
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Not much of one. Just never date your boss, and never date a girl who works for you directly (aka you're her supervisor). There are official policies against that and HR can take action against you. It also exposes you to the risk of being accused of Quid Pro Quo sexual harassment. If its just some work chick who is in another unit or division its fine, play ball.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:18 PM
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She just enjoys attention. Its part of the game.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:16 PM
1

Learn how to be comfortable with yourself first.
/r/seduction22/08/17 11:53 AM
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Nobody reads profiles, get a better photo its 90% of why they swipe. The photo you submitted has too little of you in the shot, its a stupid pose and she can't see your EYES.
/r/seduction22/08/17 11:46 AM
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A kiss is a very intimate act, and it can be intrusive when a girl is not ready for it.
/r/seduction22/08/17 11:45 AM
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Best time to strike is first few days of the fall and spring semesters, girls are eligible and want to find guys as soon as possible.
/r/seduction22/08/17 12:31 AM
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She's obviously not interested otherwise she would have given you her number so you can take her for some coffee.
/r/seduction22/08/17 12:30 AM
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If a girl is interested she will MAKE time for you regardless.
/r/seduction22/08/17 12:05 AM
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