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Remember that women live by the rule of plausible deniability. Of course she isn't going to do anything she's not supposed to - in public. But it does offer her a perfect opportunity for something to "just happen". If you don't like a guy she's dancing with, she'll let you know he's "just my frieeeeend!". If you tell her that she can't dance with guys anymore, you'll be the mean controlling boyfriend and she will get Facebook to back her up on that shit LOL. It's why trp says women are like chil…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:47 AM
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My wife still doesn't know my notch count after 18 years together. She would ask when we first got together and I reply with: "Honey, why would I tell you? All that would do is make you overthink it and obsess over women in my past." "All those other women we're just preparing me for you." "It doesn't matter, because I choose to be with you now." Those types of answers. Eventually, she stopped asking. Something told me not to answer and I'm glad I didn't because I was right. She would have obses…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:23 AM
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Sorry for the late reply. He was 30+ years older, in his 60s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 07:04 AM
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Sex in a relationship is very important for men. Women who avoid sex or attach negativity and guilt to sex or shame their man for being sexual are trying to control him with sex. Everyone knows that women are the gatekeepers of sex, and sometimes women will leverage sex to get what they want from their man. All women will do this on occasion, but some women use sex as a tool to motivate and punish men. These women are not stupid. They will often blame their nonexistent sex drive on a medical or …
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:04 AM
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I knew a white single 30s mom who dated nothing but black guys, had three kids from two dads and had a thing for felons and ex-cons. She was quick to go into detail about her weekend conquests, until she met an older, well established black gentleman whom she viewed as an ideal Beta Bux. She quickly locked him down, got off the "train station" and endured mediocre old man sex. When he proposed to her six months later, she decided to all of a sudden be proper and demanded that they (he) remain ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 11:52 PM
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You're in a prison of your own making. Whenever you're ready to stop feeling sorry for yourself you can walk right out the front door and join the rest of us.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:11 AM
1

Avoid those conversations altogether. When put on the spot, just smile and say "I know nothing" or "no comment". They will try to get you into the conversation, but don't take the bait, because all it takes is for one of those chicks to "have a bad day" and bye bye jobby job! It doesn't matter that "everyone else was doing it!" or "that was months ago!". All that matters is that a female accused a male of being inappropriate, and we all know who gets fucked in the ass in that scenario, sweethear…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 08:48 AM
1

Here's where you should tap the brakes, so to speak. Treating women like children should be the result of childish behavior., to help YOU maintain order and sanity. Women are NOT inferior to men, nor are they less intelligent. We all know this, but around here this is worth stating the obvious. Use this technique sparingly as needed.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:08 PM
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What is meant by that is that you should approach women with an aire of superiority. Be the strong, supportive authority figure who's presence tells her everything will be okay. When she was a little girl and fell, she'd go to Daddy to kiss her boo boos and make her feel better. When you LTR a girl, you become Daddy. When a child tries to annoy you or threaten you or bother you, do you go off on them? No. You smile, pat them on the head and say "how cute". Children often need attention and coddl…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 10:25 PM
3

How many perverts does it take to change a light bulb? Just one, but it takes an entire ER staff to remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 04:44 AM
8

"You're right. We should probably just be friends". Then pull out your phone. If she asks what you're doing, tell her you're just texting some friends, seeing what's up.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 05:51 PM
1

"Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference." That's what he meant.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:46 PM
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Yea it's valid, and don't worry about labeling it. Living for yourself is the BEST way to live. Once women notice you having fun and enjoying life, they'll want in.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:41 PM
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"Women start at the top of the hill and coast down. Men start at the bottom of the mountain and see how far up they can climb." Translation: Women peak very young and as they age, they lose their primary assets (beauty and fertility). Society also tends to favor women over men (feminism). Men typically start off at a disadvantage socially, and instead accumulate wealth and status as they go, growing their assets even as women's are depleting.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:15 PM
2

It's only "dread" if she feels threatened by your behavior. If she hardly knows you it's called "nexting".
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:03 PM
2

Beware: When women get these feelings, they are just as strong for them, but women have the unique ability to completely change directions on a whim, like a plastic bag in the wind. They love you intensely until they don't anymore. We men, on the other hand, have been known to ride that oxytocin tidal wave of limerence until it consumes us and drags our cucked souls down into the crushingly depressing depths of Oneitis. Combat your traitorous rogue feelings by applying logic to the situation, wh…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 06:52 PM
1

I'm coming back as a woman's bicycle seat. I've earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:33 PM
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Show me a male abuser and I'll show you a woman that didn't know when to shut up and act right and just kept pushing, poking and bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 01:56 PM
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She's not stupid. She's confident and smug because she knows that there are eviction laws that protect her from being thrown out of your place without due process. If you own your own home, get the ball rolling on that process, record every crazy thing she says or texts and disregard the rest of the post. THE REST OF THE POST: Stop paying rent. Instead, put it all aside and don't touch it. Don't say anything about it. Leave late notices, past due letters and eviction notices where she will read …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:40 AM
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It's obviously a problem for you, and one that isn't going to just go away - in fact, it will just get worse. She's an adult, she can handle the truth, and if you want to continue to be with her then she needs to hear it. "Babe, your weight gain is starting to turn me off. You know I stay fit, and as a result, I'm attracted to women who are in shape. I'm not with you because I HAVE to be - I'm with you because I WANT to be - otherwise I wouldn't be having this uncomfortable talk. I think you're …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:09 AM
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I'll tell you about a story I think of whenever I hear the word "vasectomy". It was 10 years ago. For several months, I worked a shitty, labor-intensive manufacturing job with a high turnover rate. Jerry was around for three weeks. He was middle aged (50-ish), always smiled and had a fatherly disposition, complete with Dad Jokes. He seemed decent enough - certainly not as rough looking as some of the guys there, and he was a good worker who pulled his weight. Two weeks in, Jerry came to work one…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:43 AM
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"Oh , it would work out. Then I'd work it back in. Then out. Then in again... You get the picture."
/r/askTRP03/08/17 04:11 AM
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The closer you get to the target, the more flak you'll get pummeled with.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:13 PM
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A big part of male sexual strategy is the approach. While a few women have approached men, most of them still chicken out and say "it's the man's job". I applaud women who do walk up and ask a man out - that shit feels AWESOME. But it also carries the risk of rejection - something that men are used to dealing with. I have seen women melt the fuck down over rejection. That being said, I'd love for women to take over the male role of approaching. But they don't want to have to work for it.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:13 AM
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I have never seen any proof that women can fill the role of "Wing Woman". I have, however, had female friends either sabotage my efforts or flat-out refuse to help at all. The sabotage was always in that subtle, yet malicious way that women excel at. They were perfectly fine being cutesy and flirty when we were alone, but would refuse to flirt with me to catch another girl's eye. When they DID interact on my behalf, they would choose to talk to the girl, telling them what a "nice guy" I was, how…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:59 AM
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In general, I have evolved into an outspoken extrovert. My observations tell me that I can come across as a little too over-the-top and perhaps even pretentious or try-hard
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:17 PM
2

The keys to IDGAF success are: Not overthinking. Take things as they come and don't analyze every action, gesture and word for deeper meaning or red flags. Be present and in the moment. Not putting too much importance on interactions with women. Women smile more, hug more and kiss more than men and are more likely to over-hype their emotions rather than risking awkward social interactions. She. MIGHT want to fuck you, but most likely she's been nice Internalize the concept of outcome independenc…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:10 PM
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Like u/vandaalen, I've always had a tendency to hyper-focus on things which interest me, learning as much as possible, down to the most esoteric minutiae of a given subject. The flip side of this, however, is that I absolutely cannot be made to give any fucks about anything which I don't already feel strongly towards, or that doesn't hold my interest. As an adult, I was diagnosed with ADD and THAT explained why I was highly intelligent and aced my class quizzes and aptitude tests, yet managed to…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:11 PM
1

I had a similar issue. Three small skin tags on my scroat were always getting nicked when trimming. I just soaked a pair of nail trimmers in alcohol and nipped them as close as possible. That was four years ago and they never did grow back. It didn't hurt like I thought it would and they barely bled. In fact, when I was done I felt silly for being apprehensive about it.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:35 AM
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Your problem is that you care tool much. Whether you get the girl or make an ass of yourself, learn to be okay with it and have fun anyway. A man's failure defines him much more than his success, because the manner in which he deals with failure gives insight to his character. Be the guy that girls want to be around - not for what you can provide them, but for how you make them feel. Girls just wanna have fun. Be the most fun option. Be outcome independent. Get up and laugh when shit vote sidewa…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:24 AM
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How long have you been single? "As long as I've wanted to. I'm just taking my time and keeping things fun until I decide who I want to be with". How long was your longest relationship? "As long as it needed to be. I don't measure relationships by time, but by passion." How is a guy like you single? "Simple: I know what I'm worth and I don't settle for less."
/r/askTRP05/10/16 01:55 AM
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Pickup is a good way to build self-confidence and be comfortable interacting with women. It's a good start, but the end goal is to just bang chicks. Set your sights higher and make YOURSELF the end goal.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 01:43 AM
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You could stay with her and try to 'take back' the power in the relationship, but it would be nothing but a long, exhausting battle where you fight to reclaim your manhood, her respect and your ability to captain the ship. Is she worth it? Is she the woman you see yourself with as a successful man? Have you outgrown her, or can she rise to the next level with you? Or do you think you could do better on your own for a while? A lot of people would rather suffer a shitty relationship than be alone.…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 01:36 AM
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"I don't know. I'm not done sleeping with them yet and it's not like I keep a diary. But I'm here now."
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:56 AM
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For the most part, no. They are looking for babydaddies to provide, so they will usually try to lock down commitment with very little sex and will use the standard "not like that anymore" ASD.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 11:58 AM
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That's like asking "how can we make war fun?" The answer? You can't. Women perpetuate the CC - they don't need to consider men at all, and they don't. Patriarchy had "Boy's Clubs" that excluded women and Feminism has the CC, which is their expression of power over their own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 10:26 PM
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Give her plausible deniability. She needs to be able to tell herself it "just happened!". If you are too aggressive and romantic / sexual, then she won't be able to rationalize to herself that she didn't mean to cheat. The key is to be flirty and FUN! You have to be the most fun option she has. Ask her to chill with you and tease, flirt and get her having FUN. You basically need to overload her feels so that she's thinking of you morning and night. Don't do this on her terms -that's what orbiter…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 10:08 PM
1

Why is society set up specifically to ruin your life (as if society was a vengeful entity that had free will and could be blamed)? Being a victim is easy. Taking responsibility for your life, improving yourself and doing the work to get what you want is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 09:54 PM
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That means nothing. All women can be led astray if you aren't maintaining the relationship and showing her you're the better choice.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:34 PM
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Even negative attention is still attention. Don't waste any more energy on her. It just weakens you. Spend your energy on bettering yourself, not hurting her. Be the adult.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:29 PM
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You see your behavior as a crusade against injustice. Everybody else will just see somebody unpleasant to be avoided. Life is hard enough - why sabotage yourself and make it harder than it needs to be? Of course, in the Victim Olympics, the one who has the most to complain about wins!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 09:23 PM
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Other women approve of it, so they should too.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:10 PM
1

Don't hate women for being women. Understanding how they operate makes them predictable and easy to manage. No, they can't love you unconditionally the way you want to love them. No, you can't expect complete loyalty. And sadly, most women aren't intellectually stimulating - they don't have to be. Instead, enjoy them as they are, not as you THINK they should be. Love YOURSELF instead. If you need loyalty, get a puppy. If you crave friendship, get some bros. Women aren't supposed to be your main …
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:08 PM
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Treat her like another guy and go talk to hotter women. Let your actions tell them they aren't even on your radar.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 08:49 PM
2

When you are a child, you are expected to obey. As a man, the greatest thing for a father to see is that he raised a timid boy into a strong man. Even if you disagree with him on many things, he will respect you for having the strength to defend your own ideas - especially against him. Be your own man, forge your own path and he WILL be proud.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 07:58 PM
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Girls are stinky. Boys are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 07:42 PM
1

Nothing. You're an adult who makes her own decisions. But being polite and civil and having manners costs nothing and is much more effective for communication. Being a "super bitch" only serves to alienate you and make you less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 07:23 PM
1

Don't worry. When you come home, she will be just the way you left her - freshly fucked!
/r/askTRP05/09/16 07:14 PM
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It's a power play. You going with buds to another country against her wishes was seen as a show of strength that took her by surprise. You basically told her that she couldn't control you, so she went nuclear and broke up in a last-ditch effort to bring you to heel. Proceed with caution. If you still want her, give her comfort and assurance, but don't puss out. Make it clear that you love her and enjoy her company, but if she wants to leave then it's her choice and you won't hold her back. If yo…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 07:10 PM
1

I, myself (and most who identify as red) eventually realized that we were not content, our needs were not being met, and as a result, we were miserable until we identified the problem (ourselves) and made the effort to change. If it works for you, then why change?
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:38 PM
0

I'm non-political. The candidate that wins the election has nothing to do with my vote. Politicians are figureheads - marionettes that are on public display while unseen hands pull strings and make them dance. I'll vote when Congress gets limited terms and votes become public record - electronic voting can be corrupted, and until everybody can say "there's my name and my vote - it's all correct!" Then I will just continue to not give a fuck and focus on myself.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:07 PM
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Maroon yourself on a tiny island. You cannot exist outside the system because you are PART of the system. You can either learn to function in society and use it to your benefit, or you can tell yourself that society sucks and fuck all that mess. Either way, you won't be missed and nobody cares. So get out and enjoy life or close yourself off and let your social skills atrophy while telling yourself that you exist outside and apart from it. Never say no to a good thing. Nothing will be handed to …
/r/askTRP05/09/16 05:53 PM
1

Kegels work for men too. The same muscles that cut off pee flow also cut off ejaculation. When you squeeze those muscles, you feel it in your dick AND ass (prostate). When men cum, we relax those muscles to blow our wads. Practice tightening, holding (start at reps of two seconds, then work up to ten) and releasing. Test it while you are peeing. If you can easily stop mid morning-pee, it's working. If you can start-stop-start-stop like a water sprinkler, you have achieved dick control. When havi…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 04:37 PM
1

If a girl is into you, she will fuck you with her parents in the next room. The fact that she's making excuses NOT to fuck means she's not getting tingles. Women will move mountains for men they truly desire, give men they are interested in a chance and make excuses for men they aren't that into.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 03:02 PM
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Once upon a time there was no divorce, "til death do us part" was literal and gender roles were accepted and clearly defined for men and women. In modern society, marriage is becoming an impractical and outdated institution that can be entered or broken on a whim.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 02:40 PM
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If you're not into the guy, the night should end ASAP, preferably with a "you're cool, but I'm just not feeling any chemistry here." We much prefer being shot down right away than being led on in the name of "sparing our feelings" or "LJBF". Should a girl be friends with guys? Sure, if she's able. But I would tell men to be wary and not be friends with women they have ANY sexual interest in, and even then, only friend them if they can add value to your life in some way, since bro friends are eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 02:19 PM
1

Thanks. If you get me out of these clothes I might even let you wash them. But only if you're a good girl. OR NO LAUNDRY FOR YOU!
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:38 AM
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Suicide: a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:29 AM
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Include them in the process. Wind them up and get them going, then keep checking in on their progress. Get a large whiteboard to illustrate exactly who has been delegated what tasks and how far their progress is. "So your goal here is to get _____ by doing _. You're obviously good at __ so you've been chosen to work on _____. What are your thoughts?"
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:52 AM
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Suicide: a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:01 PM
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Start being busy, start being gone and start leaving your phone locked, turned off or at home when you're away. When she gets curious about your behavior you ignore, deny, use plausible deniability or agree and amplify. Learn to play guitar while you're at it.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 02:18 AM
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"You want to touch me? You want to roll around on the ground with me and squeeze me into submission? Dude. Are you gay? I'm not judging, just asking. Because I don't even want to touch you, much less get all up close and personal with you. Can't we just be friends? Why does everything have to be physical with you?"
/r/askTRP15/08/16 02:05 AM
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"Thanks for letting me know you can't make it. No worries. I have a few people in mind that would enjoy my culinary talents and be excellent company for the evening."
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:53 AM
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"It sucks that you have such shitty taste in men. Otherwise, you seem almost normal. You know I'm not a shrink, but I'll be happy to charge you like one if you insist on making me listen to any more of your relationship problems."
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:30 AM
1

Practice, practice, practice. Get your act down cold to avoid the possibility of brain-draining on stage.. Second, find an accepting audience to acclimate yourself and fine-tune your gig. Open Mike nights are good because the crowd and performers all know it takes guts to get on stage, so they are very supportive. As a bonus, a good portion of the performances suck - which can boost confidence.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 08:22 AM
2

On one hand, those chicks are trapped on a bus and can't get away from your sexy charms. On the other hand, those chicks are trapped on a bus and can't get away from your sexy charms. Because they are pretty much stuck with you, they are probably going to bury their faces in their phones or find something to occupy their ride that doesn't involve you. Their bitch-shields will be at maximum power and you will need to be charming, subtle and entertaining enough not to be shot down. And you could b…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 09:04 PM
3

Because Jesus and your dead relatives were watching you. But mostly because you know you should be cumming into some hot fish taco instead.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 08:12 PM
2

Whatever Peter North takes to shoot those huge monster wads.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:39 AM
2

Confidence is your issue. Your confidence is low because you don't challenge yourself, you haven't achieved anything and therefore have nothing to feel confident about. Women can smell lack of confidence like a fart in an elevator. You can look like Channing Tatum but if your confidence is shit, it won't help you at all. So build confidence. How? Pick at least one hobby you can use to boost your smv. Learn to play a musical instrument. Learn a martial art. Take dance classes. These things are ch…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:32 AM
1

It's probably a few things. She might want a better break-up that makes her feel better and gives her closure. Maybe she's trying to wring every last drop of attention out of you. Whatever her reasons are, they don't matter. Worry about you and learn to not pick at scabs.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:44 AM
1

When women vent, it's not because they want us to fix their problems, they just want somebody to sympathise with them, agree with them and tell them everything's going to be ok. That's it. If she needs help she will let you know. And if she's having a particularly bad day, you can go the extra mile to cheer her up. By choosing her for your LTR, you've signed on to become her FAVORITE emotional tampon, so suck it up. You're now her captain, her rock and her protector. I can't remember who said it…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:21 AM
1

Friends have lunch dates. If you want to be seen as a lover, you have to operate as one. Pick an activity that lets you isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 09:25 AM
3

"Safe place"? Sure. It's called /r/twoxchromasomes and it's full of other people who need "protection" from words and other dangerous things that require "trigger warnings".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 08:43 AM
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I'll tell you tomorrow.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 06:59 AM
3

Being sexual over text before creating sexual tension in person is a good way to sabotage yourself. Don't do it. In fact, don't text sexual at all - just use text for logistics to set up dates. Escalate in person, where it counts. Don't sext her up and fatten her up on free validation. That's orbiter behavior. You need her to want you first for that to work, so start cultivating attraction with her.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 06:52 AM
2

Her feelings are not your responsibility. The moment you let her moods dictate your actions, you're fucked. You're setting yourself up and showing her how well you respond to emotional manipulation. Women can't match us physically, so their weapons have always been emotional and psychological. Blunt her knives or she will whittle you down to a little nub. EDIT: I heard a good analogy that describes your woman's actions - the closer you are to your target, the heavier the flak becomes. Imagine a …
/r/askTRP18/04/16 06:32 AM
2

She thinks she wants an attentive, clingy man, but the moment you put her on a pedestal, she will dry up like the Sahara. Might as well start shovelling bucketfuls of sand into her puss now. Not that you should be a selfish, neglectful prick, but you should reward her good behaviours when she earns it (not when she demands or complains about it) and withdraw your attention when she displays negative behaviours. She is indeed looking for comfort from you. Amused Mastery works best in this case. M…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:59 AM
1

Speak to people wherever you are. Learn to small-talk. Also, know your audience so that you can keep the conversation flowing.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:15 AM
1

She knew she had stinky pussy, that's why she didn't want to have sex. It's probably a bacterial infection she's fighting. She was still horny, though, and wanted to get A LITTLE hot with you.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 08:03 AM
4

"I can show you right now but are you sure you're ready for octuplets?"
/r/askTRP06/02/16 12:10 PM
13

"This is going too fast for me" is code for: "I don't feel like you've paid enough for access to this feature / activity. I should hold out so I don't look too cheap." "I am not that kind of girl" (or similar) is code for: "I am exactly that kind of slut, but only if you're a strong, confident man who can bring out my inner whore."
/r/askTRP06/02/16 12:06 PM
2

In public, go out of your way to approach women in a non-romantic way. If you see two cashiers and one is a woman, wait in her line and chat her up. Don't ask for a number. Don't flirt or be sexual. Just approach until you feel comfortable striking up a conversation with a woman you've never met. If you're into monogamy and you respect your GF, then by all means you should remain faithful if that's what you want. I myself am married and I don't cheat on my wife. I do, however, still enjoy the th…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:27 AM
1

Tomboys love male attention and feel "safe" among male friends. They often hate the bitchy, cliquish nature of other women, so they try to cut all that out by being "one of the guys". They get the male attention and validation they desire without having to compete directly with other females. The down-side is that their femininity is often eroded from being around nothing but dudes and so they aren't as good at attracting men or maintaining relationships.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:14 AM
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Is this who you want to marry? This petulant child who's holding your emotions hostage by giving you the silent treatment? Do you think things will get better or worse after you get married, when she has secured your commitment in the form of a legally binding document? You might be able to unfuck the situation, but it probably took a long time for things to devolve to this point, so expect a long uphill battle with her fighting you every step of the way, should you decide to embrace your mascul…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:01 AM
2

When you take women off the pedestal you realize they aren't the prize you thought they were. That's good. Because you're the prize. And if you don't want to waste time chasing mediocre women, then don't. Wait for a decent one to come by. However, that doesn't mean you should become complacent or content. You should still be improving, growing and seeking opportunities to better yourself.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:55 AM
4

I'm right where you are, and I've had many women - none of which ever mentioned my size in a negative way. Women know the way to crush a man's ego is to go straight to the tiny dick joke. It's the one area we can't improve and every porn, late-night infomercial and women's magazine survey tells us our dicks are too small. Don't fall for the stigma. As a rule, I usually go down on a girl before intercourse anyway. Partly because I'm good at it and also for practical reasons - she can have multipl…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:48 AM
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You master Game the same way a BMX stunt rider masters a 50-foot ramp 100 feet off the ground: start on a small hill, practice and reach for bigger hills as you improve. It looks like magic, the way a stunt rider takes on a crazy jump, but it's just experience. So go get experience. Approach girls you have no investment in, this means you need to go to the mall and practice talking to girls outside your area whom you probably won't see again anyway. If you're not invested, you have nothing to lo…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:20 AM
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The examples you gave were Sexual Harassment: Retard Level! Because unless you're retarded, nobody is going to think that kind of behavior will go unpunished in a work environment. More typical examples of commonplace sexual harassment include telling dirty jokes, making a sexual comment, unwanted flirting and overly-friendly attention, comments or observations regarding a female's looks or physical attraction. Pretty much anything that can offend somebody will offend them. And if it's sexual in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 09:12 AM
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You made the first big step - realizing you're a bitch who needs to be more masculine. That's a hard thing to admit, and you need to give yourself credit for owning it. Second, forget what women say and watch what they do. Of course they say they want nice guys. But how many are happy to fuck an "asshole"? Women say they hate drama, but they create it. They hate being seen as "weak", yet they crave a man who puts them in their place who can handle their shit tests. Women pride themselves on bein…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:50 AM
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Nice Guys™ are manipulative and can become angry by their own self-delusions. Nice guys believe that by being a good person, good things will come their way. This is fine - in an ideal world. When a Nice Guy™ meets a girl he likes, he tries to charm her by being the most understanding, helpful, nice person she's ever met - all of which get him thrown right into the friendzone. Because the Nice Guy™ is a passive creature, and would never actively pursue a woman or make his true romantic intention…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 08:29 AM
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Approach her with your problem and see what she says. You have nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:11 AM
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As /u/speed3_freak said, don't be buying a car for women or what others might think of you. Instead, figure out what you look for in a car. Do you need a fast car? Do you like to floor it on the freeway and take fast corners? If so, maybe something with some balls and a low, wide stance to suit your driving style. Do you cruise? Do you prefer plush comfort to speed? If so, maybe a nice used Lincoln or Cadillac might be the ticket. If you fall between luxury and sport, consider a Lexus or similar…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:08 AM
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There's a difference between being tough on yourself and punishing yourself. There's also a difference between lying to yourself and being honest with yourself. It's healthy to push yourself toward a goal or talk yourself out of your comfort zone, but you have to be in touch with yourself. The sad truth is a lot of guys don't have a healthy, honest relationship with themselves. We can't always trust our gut, we don't give ourselves enough credit and we prefer to make excuses or take the easy way…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:42 AM
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There is a way to do this. Put a "video recording in progress" sign in the entrances to your home. Any chick whom you bring over will see the clearly posted signs. If they ask, inform them it's for security purposes. Just to be safe, put one on your bedroom door and let them have a chuckle at it. If you clearly post signs, they can't help but know there are cameras. By continuing to stick around after seeing the signs, they are consenting to be on "security camera". This is how cameras in stores…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 07:33 AM
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Never say no to a good thing. Dress nice, smell good, meet her, flirt with her, ask what her intentions are and have fun.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:17 AM
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They are dangling sex in front of you in exchange for a place to stay. This can only end badly. As soon as their last box is moved in they will inform you that they are not your "sex slaves" and they will do whatever the fuck they want. And good luck evicting them. If you agree to them staying there, it becomes their home too and you have to give them a reasonable time (up to a month) to find other living arrangements. Or they can say you hit them and the cops can remove you from your own home. …
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:14 AM
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I realize you are all adults, but you are in a position of power over her and if she wanted to make trouble, it could cost you your job if some chick said you offered her sexual favors for a grade or demanded she had sex with you. Not only that, but depending on the nature of your teaching job, it could ruin your chances of finding a similar job elsewhere. It's not unlike a boss asking an employee out, and while it might be an easy way to meet women, it also has it's risks. No matter how hard yo…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:01 AM
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Read this post and the next time you start to like a girl, approach her with intent and purpose and don't settle for less than you want.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:46 AM
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Apologies are for mistakes that require an apology. A lesser mistake can be handled with an "oops" or "my bad". But "sorry" should only be said when you mean it and when it is required. Once you stop apologizing out of habit, you realize how many other people do that too, and just how annoying it is to hear. Learn to say the appropriate response or nothing at all if it's a trivial manner that requires no words on your part. Most of the time, "excuse me", "pardon me" or even "hello!" can be subst…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 06:42 AM
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You can't tell him anything, because he's in love and if you point out what a bitch his girl is, you're going to be the asshole. It won't end well and the friendship will suffer. Nor do you want to cut the poor guy off just because he's with a total cunt. Instead, you can plan something which he will LOVE and she will hate. Like a football (soccer) match with a rowdy crowd, or a car race or something outdoorsy where she will be overdressed, out of her element and not the center of attention. Con…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:31 AM
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Women don't want to make all the decisions. They have to make their own decisions, why should they make all the relationship decisions too? Masculine men have that covered. Instead of asking where she wants to go for dinner, pick two she might like and let her decide which. Boom. You let her help with the decision, but you didn't put all the pressure on her. Women want to be with men whom other women find attractive. It's up to men to keep that attraction alive and not become complacent. We need…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:15 AM
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Even the most stoic, jaded girl will become a giggling shy bundle of nervous energy when she is in the presence of a crush or somebody who's giving her massive tingles. In the absence of those tingles, they may come across as ice princesses with zero libido or romantic desire, but that's just how they feel at the moment. We have all seen it happen: You overhear the fat tatted chick you swore was a lesbian tell another girl that so-and-so is "sooo fucking hot!" and while she's lost in her lusty t…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:54 AM
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Give yourself more credit. You've identified the problem yourself, now you have to take steps to minimize it's effects on you. The best way to get over a girl is to get under several others. Are there other girls you can hook up with in a casual way? You don't want to completely cut contact, because that's not practical for your situation. So you should switch your focus and minimize the interactions you have with her. One of the ways you can do this is to be honest with her - you probably won't…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:41 AM
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This. Men tend to get more out of technical or trade schools where they learn skills, instead of traditional schools which involve tests, essays and hours of cramming and study sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 05:30 AM
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Fortune favors the bold. Be confident. If you're not confident, then FAKE confidence. She's just a girl. She's more awkward and has more self-esteem issues than you will ever have. She's nothing to be afraid of. If you try and fail, at least you tried. If you try and win, you will always have that success. But if you never try you will always wonder "what if?". First, ask her damn name already and give her yours. Then ask if she's seeing anybody. Then - and this is a smooth move - you confidentl…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:25 AM
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Get him alone, where there is no audience for him to entertain, like at his locker or in a hallway or on lunch break. Just ask him "come here, I need to talk to you real quick". Then you lay it out: "Look. I don't know what your deal is, but you're starting to piss me off with all the shit you talk. It's really annoying. But I want to come to you man-to-man first instead of ratting you out to the teachers." "So here's the deal. I'm twice your size and I don't want to hurt you, but If you can't k…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:14 AM
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Men would definitely be looked at more closely and any incidents or accusations occurring in their care would be given special attention. Teenagers in particular know how easy it would be to get a man in trouble. I would not trust my future to whether or not a teenager wants to act out and cause drama. If given a choice between teenager / adolescent kids or younger kids, I'd work with younger children who's most malicious behavior might be throwing a toy truck at my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 05:03 AM
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If you move in with her, you give up your boundaries and privacy. If she moves in with you, how will you get rid of her quickly if you need to, or will you be stuck with her? All your stuff is there for her to go through at her leisure and vice versa. She will want to decorate and put her mark on everything, and you will have to get her approval to use the shared space for your activities (poker night, working on your vehicle in the garage, using the living room to play video games etc.) Will yo…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:56 AM
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"That's classified." "The less you know about me, the safer it is." "If I wanted you to know I would tell you, brat!" :) "Friday night is going to be amazing for me, but there's no way I can squeeze you onto the menu that night. Unless maybe for dessert at 4a.m.?" "If I survive Friday, maybe I'll tell you about it someday. Just not today." "I don't think you're ready to know that much about me yet!" "Just something that's been in the works for a while. So pick another day, before they all get bo…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:38 AM
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I was a stay-at-home dad for years. My wife landed a better job than I had - with excellent benefits, and with the cost of daycare being obscene, we decided I'd stay home with the children. It was a decision I don't regret and to this day I love interacting with young children and holding babies. Granted, those were my children. I would feel differently about taking care of other people's children though. For younger kids, there's always the worry of them falling or injuring themselves and havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 04:28 AM
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As a married guy, I know this one all too well. Anything you say can and will be used against you. I keep my answers short and concise. I avoid details and If it's not pertinent information that you don't need to divulge, then keep it to yourself. If you are pressed for details and you either don't want to give them or you question the motive for them wanting the information, then avoid it by changing the subject (ask them a question, start talking about something else or bringing up something u…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:05 AM
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She was being honest with you. You have shared a sexual situation that has made her feel close to you, and seeing you share that with another woman will make her feel a tad jealous. This is normal, and a lot of guys would feel the same twinge of jealousy or possessiveness if a really hot FWB that rocked their world decided to hook up with another guy. Is it rational? No. Emotions are never rational. But it's a type of mate-guarding that stems from our evolutionary past. In a way, she views you a…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:45 AM
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If there is sexual tension or attraction on your end, then no. But if there is zero sexuality between you then sure. Another thing to consider is what does she add to your life? Most chicks are boring as hell or interchangeable - they usually like the same music, enjoy the same activities and don't really bring anything to the table or add as much to the group dynamic as males. This isn't to say there aren't cool chicks out there, but they rarely plan, organize and oversee gatherings and events …
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:32 AM
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In nature, males compete and females choose among them. We are still animals and subject to those rules. Women have a passive mating strategy - they just have to pretty themselves up and not act like total cunts. Men, on the other hand, have to give her a reason to choose him over the other ten guys trying to get into her ham wallet. So yea, you're being weighed, measured and judged worthy or unworthy. It sucks, but it's the nature of the beast. Now that you're learning the rules, you can more e…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:31 PM
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THIS VIDEO is exactly what you are looking for.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 07:17 PM
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It doesn't sound like you need TRP. Guys don't come here because everything is going great. Guys come here because they are desperate to fix a dying relationship or recovering from a horrific one.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 07:09 PM
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Right. Just like all marriages are equal because they contain two people. Except in Utah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:31 PM
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I second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:04 PM
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Then you're not doing it right!
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:03 PM
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I was funny, but shy. I cared too damn much about what random strangers thought of me. The IDGAF attitude was my shield that let me open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:02 PM
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There was what I was "taught" to do (be a gentleman, put her first, be friends first, be myself) - none of which worked. Then later on as I became jaded from repeated failures and had zero fucks left to give, I used my sense of humor and blatantly forward flirtation and innuendo to make my intentions known. I was the funny "bad boy" that allowed them to be naughty without any judgments. I promised an exciting night out. Personality got me everywhere. I wasn't the best looking guy by any means, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 01:30 PM
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"Damn! I sure am glad that none of these women are asking me out for a change!" - said no man ever. Yea no. That statement is the equivalent of "it sure would suck if he wanted me for anything besides sex!" as uttered by a woman. It's just not something men and women would say. Ever. Kudos to any women who have mustered up the bravery to ask a guy out - you know how much courage it takes to throw yourself out there, completely exposed and waiting to hear if you're acceptable or not. Now do it ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 11:22 AM
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Most people would rather kill the messenger than deal with the issue when confronted with a cheating SO. If you find out something is up and tell him, he will only focus that anger onto you, since he won't even be in a position to do anything about it anyway. As /u/pavista said, just grab some popcorn and enjoy the train wreck and be glad you're not him.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:09 AM
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I personally don't understand the fascination with virgins. Is it being the first to "plant your flag"? I mean, every new chick I was with was "new to me", so I can't see that as a reason to put up with awkward, bloody, painful sex and all the emotional baggage that comes with being some chick's "first". I've always preferred a woman who knew what she wanted and knew what she was doing. Virgins just seem like too much work imo. But that's just my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:06 AM
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There is no "we". There is only "you" and finding the path that works best for "you".
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 11:01 AM
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Eventually their cars will break. They will need a man. If a tree or utility pole falls into their yard, they will need men to fix it. If there is a huge-ass spider in the bathroom, they will definitely need a man. If they get a tire blow-out on the freeway? Yup. Men to the rescue. When her biological doomsday clock starts counting down and she gets The Baby Rabies? Men. Or a sperm bank. Or many cats. Men need women because vagina.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 10:58 AM
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"A woman is never "yours", it's just "your turn" right now". To be fair, you never pushed for exclusivity with her, so she used your lack of a specific "relationship title" as plausible deniability to mess around with another dude. If you want a girl to be your "girlfriend", you ASK HER OUT. If you don't even push for something you want, then you have no right to be butt-hurt when you are denied that thing. Men lead, women follow. Men ask women out, women agree / decline. Males compete, women se…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 10:35 AM
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Any primate with thumbs can text. It's easy-mode. And it's not very effective, because she is probably just enjoying the free validation you're throwing at her while watching Netflix or Teen Mom and panting her toes. It's easy to take a few minutes to come up with the "perfect" reply in hopes of receiving a "LOL" from her, but again, anybody can do that. You need to work on face-to-face interactions. Learn to approach, open and hold her attention in person. Texts should only be used to set up lo…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 10:15 AM
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"Women start at the top of the hill and coast down. Men start at the base of the mountain, and it's up to them to figure out how high they can climb." This means that women start at the peak of desirability and go downhill. Men start at the bottom and must work for everything they attain - their worth is judged by their accomplishments. The hill is not very big. The mountain is limitless.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:43 AM
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Fake it til you make it. It's what I did, and it has made me the smooth motherfucker I am today. I was raised by a single mom. I had nothing but female friends in high school. I thought men and women should "just be friends first!" before becoming "serious" (gag!). And I had zero game and was constantly wondering why chicks loved "assholes" while I remained sexually invisible to them. So I decided enough was enough and I took matters into my own hands. I no longer cared what women thought - if t…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:07 AM
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Sure! Just kick down the door while she's pulling out her soaked tampon and taking a HUGE dump. Then whip out your dick. See you in jail.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:55 AM
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"You're sexist!" "Why is it always about sex with you?" and shoot her a disgusted look. "Oh my GOD, YES! I totally AM good at sex! Who told you?" with a shit-eating grin on your face. "SEXIST? Nah. I love the shit out of women. In fact, I fuck them ALL the time and they keep coming back. They honestly won't leave me alone. But thanks for your concern!" Dude. Fucking own it. Unless it's in a professional environment, in which case you have to totally amused mastery or ignore or laugh and say "tha…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:23 AM
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No. But hackey sacking does.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:39 PM
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"An armed society is a polite society. Manners are good when one may have to back up his actions with his life."
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:56 PM
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Give it a Greek-sounding name, like Tappa Nu Pi
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 09:20 PM
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Because men and women are DIFFERENT, as much as feminism wants us to believe otherwise. What works for men will not necessarily work for women and vice versa. But because we live in a feminist society, it's become taboo to call women out for being sluts. Since the dawn of time, men have been hesitant to commit to a slut. Our caveman ancestors knew that in order to further their genetic line and avoid being cuckolded, they had to avoid cavesluts. Once they found an acceptable mate, they still had…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 02:13 PM
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Women want to be romanced, and it's men's job to do the romancing. A diamond is forever. Buy her flowers. Happy wife, happy life. Do men get flowers? Fuck no, and that's fine with us. Where's our expensive jewelry? Where are the large, romantic gestures from the ladies? They don't exist because in nature, males compete and females select. Women aren't as romantic as men because they don't have to be, they aren't expected to be and there is no benefit to them being romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 08:58 AM
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The problem is that, while it creates massive tingles for a girl, it's also exhausting to pretend to give a shit about everything she says or does for an extended period of time. It can't be sustained. Eventually, your effort will slack and she'll be keenly aware of the changes. That's when the shit-tests and tantrums happen. My thoughts on this, for the above reason, is that is should only be used on: A: girls you are gaming and just wanting to fuck a few times. This is straight-up hustling, an…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 07:48 AM
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Call me old-school, but I think this gender identity bullshit has gotten out of hand, so let's simplify it: A. You LIKE dick. B. You do NOT like dick. Beyond that, you can identify as a cucumber salad for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 07:21 AM
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Sadly, most men without other options would gravitate to her orbit and settle for whatever scraps she threw at them. It's hard to walk away when you don't have anything else going on, but your eyes have been opened and you realize she was trying to downgrade you to platonic status. The obvious answer is to politely decline her offers to hang out - be up-front and let her know you have plenty of friends, but what you needed was a FWB and that you can't really see yourself sticking around if frequ…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 07:03 AM
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/brofist
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 12:02 AM
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READ THIS and be ready to learn some hard truths about yourself.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 10:55 AM
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HOLY SHIT NO WAY! Fictional movies don't portray real-life? Mind = blown.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 10:00 AM
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Yea no. NMMNG encourages you to speak up and get what you want, instead of putting others first and hoping / waiting to catch a break. Should you broadcast every mood, feeling, desire and thought? No. That's what women do. NMMNG helps you identify what you want and re-prioritize the way you handle your shit in a way that benefits you. Don't share your innermost thoughts with women. Don't show weakness and for fucks sake, don't reveal the magic to them, or else it isn't magic anymore. Bitches lov…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 09:55 AM
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There are "Fitness Tests", "Comfort Tests" and "Shit Tests". Fitness Tests are when people meet you for the first time and try to assess your value and worth. Coworkers and bosses may do this to you to see how well you can handle yourself or perform your job. Dates may do this to see if you're the catch they think you are. Comfort tests are the standard "How do I look in this dress?", "Am I prettier than her?", "I feel fat" type of shit women say when they need to be comforted and seek reassuran…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 07:54 PM
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The problem is that being a "nice guy" doesn't work unless you're a tall, muscular, attractive "nice guy" with money. If being a "nice guy" worked as a sexual strategy, every guy would be one. But the sad fact is that "be yourself" and "treat her like a queen" and other bullshit that men are taught from a young age is bad advice. This is because "ourselves" aren't good enough most of the time. "Be yourself" only works for women, because they just have to exist to get male attention. And this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 07:27 AM
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I agree that some posts are shit - just like in any other sub - but we don't take every post seriously, either. Believe me, we can smell the bullshit too. Not everything posted in TRP is gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 06:07 AM
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You are referring to AWALT: All Women Are Like That. It's a generalization we like to use at TRP which simply means: all women are capable of shitty behavior. In reality, you could say APALT (People) and it still holds true. The reason we even use AWALT at all is because society tells men to put women on a pedestal. Society has an "all women are beautiful" attitude but in order to have successful relationships, men need to stand up for themselves and not be afraid to call women out on their bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:38 AM
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One is in Dubai and the other is in India. What country do you live in? I'm guessing you're not in either of those countries, and therein lies the first (and possibly biggest) red flag. If they want a ticket to a better life in a better country, you are offering to be the vehicle that will take them to their goal - you are already beta bux just by giving them access to your country. I mention this because unless you've met them in person and spent a considerable amount of time with them, you hav…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:37 AM
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Women want to get married, but men want to stay married. How many retarded wedding shows are on TV for women to drool over? How many bride's magazines are there? Marriage is targeted at women. They just can't see it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 08:29 PM
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Here in the good 'ol U.S. of A., women initiate +70% of divorces, so it's not MEN who can't handle marriage...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 07:34 PM
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You lost your brother - sorry to hear that - my brother and I are close, and if I lost him, I'd be a fucking wreck too. I'd give myself time to mourn. And then I'd move on, because he'd want me to and time waits for no man, and as a man you have responsibilities. Your girl left you at the worst possible time? Of course she did - that's how women are - they are all about chasing their feelings. As long as you make them feel deep emotions, they will flutter around you like a moth to a flame, but a…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 11:25 PM
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Divorce Rape is the result, not the cause. The cause is that women become "unhaaaaappy!" and they will not honor a marriage contract like men will because they have no honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 11:08 PM
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A LOT of things are harmful for people with psychological issues - skydiving, driving, being out in public etc. That is a wonderfully loaded question. Many people on reddit have "psychological issues" - just look at TwoX or any other sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 11:02 PM
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If you want to see exaggerations, go to a sub with "trigger warnings" LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 10:50 PM
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Women have a sense of humor to a lesser extent, I should say. You can't joke around with women like you can joke around with men. Women take themselves too seriously to kid around with and it's easy to say the wrong thing. Men learn to talk shit to each other and joke at each other's expense - it's part of how men bond. Women are much too sensitive for this kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 10:03 PM
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Women don't have a sense of humor, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 08:12 PM
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We never claimed to not be biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:15 PM
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Thank goodness for Facebook and Tinder where you can complain about anything and get instant support, validation and "you go, girl"s! Women love the spotlight. Women crave attention. Why else would you take a hundred selfies, take pictures of your food and tell the world when somebody was being "mean" to you? Let's not pretend women are NOT all about this. Is it bad? No. It's normal. Men and women are different but complementary - it's when we are forced to compete in the same areas and are expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 06:22 PM
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TRP is more concerned with doing what is necessary to get what we (the guys of TRP) want out of life. I'd rather be somebody who has what he wants, even if he had to hurt some feelings to get it, than somebody whom everybody loves, yet is miserable inside. Does that make a horrible person? If I'm in a good mood and I see somebody get kicked in the nuts, I would feel bad for them. If I were in a shitty mood and I saw somebody get kicked in the nuts, I would be indifferent or maybe even laugh. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 05:35 PM
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Our mindset and emotions have nothing to do with the fact that we have noticed the same behaviors, witnessed the same outcomes had the same experiences with women in general. When men are angry, they get better. When women are angry, they get bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 05:21 PM
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If you are playing in a casino and a hot girl in a dress comes up and starts flirting with you, she is 7/10 times a prostitute. Casinos have a huge problem with hookers soliciting inside their casinos and they throw them out all the time. Sometimes, they find their way back in, but there are always new prostitutes that show up. While you're in the casinos, take your time and actually observe your surroundings. These women are not hard to find - they are well-dressed, classy looking and by themse…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:11 PM
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If enough men share the same "anecdotes", then one could assume that they are more than anecdotal evidence. This is what has helped nurture and cause the growth of TRP - enough men go there and see enough stories that parallel their own and it helps them internalize it and see the truth of things. If it were just a few neckbeards that hated women, as TRP opponents suggest, then it would be a tiny sub that nobody cares about. But new users on TRP ask the same questions, have made the same mistake…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 04:59 PM
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It's never her fault. It's always the man's fault. If you are both drunk, it's rape because she was a victim. This is the reality of our situation now. Also, yes. Women can get sex just for asking. A very few of them do, however, because they have to be attracted to the men they want to have sex with - a woman's sex drive is a ripple in the pond compared to the tsunami of the male sex drive. He has to be tall, attractive, in good shape, make more money than her etc, - in essence, women want a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 04:49 PM
3

HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA! Best. Response. Ever.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:41 PM
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When little girls fall down and skin their knee, they run to Daddy and he brushes it off and kisses her cheek and tells her it's going to be all right. When little boys fall down, they are told to get up and brush it off and stop crying like a baby. Girls grow up realizing that if they are hurt, they get support. Guys grow up realizing that if they get hurt, they need to move past it because nobody really cares. If women show outrage, they get comfort. If men show outrage, they are told to "man …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 04:35 PM
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MarriedRedPill is for us old dogs that did decide to get married. Would I advise a younger man to get married? I would advise caution, patience and a very strict screening process before wifeing up a chick. It's becoming increasingly difficult to find worthy women who would stick it out "through thick and thin", but AWALT still applies. It's Red Pill on hard mode. It's a study in holding frame. It's a buffet of shit tests and comfort tests. For us, the goal is to make marriage work for us, inste…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:28 PM
1

My hobby is music - guitar specifically, but I was into music before then. It's made me more analytical as a person. I can't just "listen" to a song. I deconstruct it. I pay attention to what each instrument is playing, how the song was engineered and mixed, how the parts fit together to form the whole and finally, whether or not I like it. That's the music part. The guitar itself allows me to hear a song or a melody in my head and play it through my hands. It's a wonderful tool for expression, …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:13 PM
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We don't "care", so much as we just roll our eyes and point and nod. The media panders to society, which is becoming increasingly gynocentric. We see all of this happening and it confirms what we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 03:58 PM
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Yes those feelings are annoying, but after you are with enough women, you learn that pussy is pussy and most women have so little to offer (besides sex) that they are virtually interchangeable. Just like sluts lose the ability to be faithful after so much cock, men lose the urge to commit so easily after so much pussy. This is good for men, because it allows us to hold out for a woman that is worthy of us.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:09 AM
2

Men and women - we all remember our first, and that can be powerful for women who slut it up and have hundreds of hookups in their life. They might not remember the second guy, or the third guy she fucked last week or the guy that was her 200th cock, but she WILL remember her first.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:00 AM
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This is how biology works. Men feel the need to acquire, guard and protect their mates. You have to go against this feeling, because this is how otherwise rational men sign themselves up to be beta bux chumps.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 12:57 AM
1

Women can smell desperation, weakness, low self-esteem and opportunity. If you have to smell like one of those, smell like "opportunity". If you hesitate, fail to escalate or fold like a lawn chair when the shit tests start, then you care too much. You need to care less. How do you care less? "FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT". How does one go about that? By internalizing a few simple truths. The truth is, you suck at approaching, engaging and attracting women - we've all been there. as /u/fnordsnord sta…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:11 AM
2

We all have a hamster, and it's never a good idea to feed it high-octane fuel and then put that little fucker in the driver's seat.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:49 AM
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This works fine for women, who can get by with a passive dating strategy - men compete and women choose. WE come to THEM. For men, "ourselves" are not usually good enough. We can always find room to improve. How do women improve? By accentuating their looks (makeup, flattering clothes), staying fit and in shape and learning how to be pleasant, feminine and learning how to compromise and by making an effort to learn how to take care of their men. How do men improve? By staying fit, by leading oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:22 AM
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She is so in tune to you that any changes you make in your behavior will be noticed, questioned and treated as a threat - especially if she sees you becoming independent. She has spent years wearing you down to a little nub, training you to be a "good boy" and putting invisible chains on you and shaming you when you tug at your leash. And now you want to undo all her hard work? About fucking time. If you think about it, it's understandable she will be upset - if she started going out alone, cut …
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:07 AM
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"Rape Culture" is a strawman made by feminists to put fear into women. Feminism has already granted women enough rights to be "equal" to men on a legal level. Now they are just going for extra points. They have to manufacture the outrage and hysteria that doesn't exist, because it justifies their existence. They have slain all their dragons - so now they are going after the turtles and rabbits and puppies. Because if there is no "struggle", there is no point for feminism to exist. EDIT: say it w…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:56 AM
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"Morality" is a human concept. We are animals first, and humans second. We are still part of the animal kingdom, even though we have managed to get out of the food chain. As animals, we are driven by the need to breed, and to facilitate that, sex feels amazing for us. As humans, we are influenced by moral and social constraints when considering how to best go about our sexual strategies in an "acceptable" way. What are considered "acceptable" sexual strategies? Firstly, it they must be legal. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 11:27 PM
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i had that shit, complicated by strep throat as well. You are on some heavy-duty anti-biotics and you need them to get better. Go to an Emergency Room if you feel like shit and have them hook you up to some I.V. fluids to re-hydrate you. Other than that, take it easy, take your meds, drink liquids and lay low until you feel better. Mono is some serious shit and can put you on your ass.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:16 AM
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I smell IRT. FOUND HIM! This guy. He is either one appletini away from walking into traffic, or he is a master-level troll. He still gets us to respond to his whiney shit-posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 12:12 AM
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The difference is that self-identifying feminists on Tumblr ranting about how "men are fucking pigs!" is perfectly acceptable and they will be passed around and shared. How many men would be able to walk away unscathed after posting "women are cunts!" on Tumblr? There would be outrage. There would be cries for his head and there would be women having seizures because they were not "trigger warned" - whatever the fuck that is. Man-bashing is fine. Men can "handle it". We have to, because we can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 12:02 AM
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Women get married all the time. They also divorce all the time and file +70% of divorces. So do it for the dress. Do it for the cake. Do it for the wedding gifts. Hell, you can do it five or six times if you want, but after the third time, the quality of wedding gifts might drop off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 11:51 PM
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This is why the vasectomy line should be out the fucking door, around the courtyard and wrapped around the block.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 11:44 PM
2

Your odds, your technique and your confidence will get better the more you approach women, while your anxiety, self-doubt and ability to give a fuck goes down.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 11:39 PM
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I am not Asian, so I can't give you advice any better than I could give that IRT advice on sleeping with a million blonde bimbos as an Indian guy, because I'm not Indian either. All any of us who are not Asian can do is offer conjecture. My two cents is that people are more attracted to what is familiar to them. Remember, women are herd animals. They don't pee without the herd. The herd listens to the same music and likes the same hawt guys. The herd is brutal, and any women that go against the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 11:35 PM
1

IRT IN DA HOUUUUSE! This is becoming a game: Spot the IRT. The "Where's Waldo" of TRP!
/r/askTRP29/08/15 11:14 PM
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On one hand, some pussy is better than no pussy. On the other hand, you know what you want and you have standards that you adhere to, and I respect that. Stop second-guessing yourself. Stand by your decision.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 11:12 PM
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You GF'd a slut. Of course it bothers you. For one thing, you have no other options, so you're experiencing oneitis instead of abundance. And because you willingly GF'd a slut and have no other options, all you can think about is the line of cocks waiting for their turn to pump and dump her. You never stick your dick in crazy and you can't turn a ho into a housewife.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 11:08 PM
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Fuck no. People just make words up nowadays. Trigger Warning. Rape Culture. Toxic Masculinity. Mansplaining. Wubba Lubba Dub Dub! \
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 05:46 PM
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Stop singing show tunes in the gym shower. But seriously, When I see straight men that I assumed were gay, they usually had some of the following traits: They were too fucking pretty. They were androgynous looking - like they would make a hot chick if they were a chick. They were meticulously dressed. Their clothes were starched, creased, clean, not a lint ball or wrinkle anywhere. Their clothing style was either very conservative or extremely fashionable and trendy, straight out of GQ magazine.…
/r/askTRP29/08/15 05:38 PM
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This. The billionaire can rent all the prime pussy he wants, for as long as he wants, but they do it for the money, not the tingles. They are hooked on his wallet, not his dick. Although I do agree that the end result is basically the same: they both get plenty of sex from hot women.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 05:24 PM
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Drinking brings out the emotions in people. You can't suppress your feelings or impulses as well while you're intoxicated, so yea - people act like fools.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 05:13 PM
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This is the best answer. On top of that, women understand the power of the male sex drive about as well as men understand the experiences of menstruating and giving birth. If we are in close approximation to a woman we find attractive for too long, it becomes awkward, uncomfortable and is no fun at all. Of course, most "nice guys" will be happy to orbit, thinking that eventually he'll "have a shot at her". But those of us who have been there and done that see the wisdom in keeping them at a dist…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 05:06 PM
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/u/rurpe is correct. If you back out of the decision now, you will only be seen as weak. From here on, hold frame, but stand by your decision. As a father, I can tell you that kids are not the death of you, by any means. They are the part of you that lives on after you are gone. They inherit the best and worst parts of you, so as a father, your job is to instruct them and lead by example. She got the baby she wanted. You can either divorce her, stay with her, or get a vasectomy on your own (she …
/r/askTRP29/08/15 04:46 PM
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You can do all of these things without TRP, TRP is just one route. But TRP is the only place where this information is together in one place, being actively discussed. Where else could the average frustrated chump, the guy raised by women and the guy with no male role models learn this? AWALT. To TRP, it's about female nature. It comes attached with the notion that women are not capable of unconditional love while men somehow are. +70% of divorces are filed by the woman. That's very telling in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 04:39 PM
1

The reality is the conspiracy? 3spooky5me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 04:21 PM
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Only if there's a reacharound in it for me ;)
/r/askTRP28/08/15 07:07 AM
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My apologies. I just thought I got a whiff of troll and thought that THIS POST read a lot like the one that "other guy" posted. Oops!
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:53 AM
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Is she white? Does she have hooves? How about a swishy tail or a horn growing out of her forehead? If she doesn't have all of these, then that means your unicorn is actually a normal human girl. Now that we got that out of the way, we can say AWALT. Say it with me: All Women Are Like That. That is a generalization we like to use around here. It means that all women are capable of betrayal, dishonesty and promiscuity. Does that mean all women are sluts? No. Does that mean all women cheat? No. Wha…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:48 AM
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Not one you've been in a relationship with for a while!
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:30 AM
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This video is a bit long, but it has a LOT of good information, including information on how to hold court in a group and be relevant to the conversation. Also, there is some good advice on chatting up girls.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:28 AM
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And he'll lick your balls if you put peanut butter on them!
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:24 AM
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Holy fuck. The rest of us practice to become Jedi Masters to deal with shit tests and this motherfucker is just BEGGING for it! Next, you should ask her to shit on your forehead. But seriously, why? You just let her know your insecurity. So you know what? The next time you have a fight (probably soon), she will go STRAIGHT TO THE TINY DICK JAB. Mark my words, you have given her a bomb to add to her arsenal, and she will use it. And it will sting like a motherfucker. Don't seek validation from wo…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:23 AM
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See? That's the best idea yet. And you came up with it yourself. I'd still get her to do the FFM though.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:13 AM
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Hello again, dumbass. How about you read the advice I posted on your other account in reference to a similar question you asked 25 FUCKING MINUTES AGO. Really? You want to clutter our sub up with this shit? You're becoming as annoying as that IRT that keeps buzzing around here. Reposting the same shit on different acccounts won't land you a magical answer to your problems.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:11 AM
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Bi, gay, poly, whatever the fuck kids call themselves nowadays - EITHER YOU LIKE DICK OR YOU DON'T. If she's just a plate, and one you don't mind dropping if this doesn't work out, then that's up to you. But demanding tit for tat with the FFM threesome isn't a good idea because that puts the responsibility on her, and we all know how much women love responsibility. If I were you, I'd do just what she did and meet a chick who's down for a FFM and spring it on her like she's springing this MMF on …
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:05 AM
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Be good looking, be in good physical shape, have a decent income, be able to put in the time to go out and approach and have his own place to bag chicks. Nothing is guaranteed. There are a lot of variables that come into play but as men get older, their options get older with them unless they have status or wealth to still pull young hotties. That, or they have to look like David Beckham and have the confidence to go with it. A guy in his 30s who's doing fairly well for himself should be able to…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:56 AM
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If you want unconditional love and loyalty, buy a puppy.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:42 AM
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America was founded by Puritan prudes that Europe couldn't even deal with anymore. America still clings to that conservative culture. And if tits are against the law, then guess what? Its the law. You break the law, you go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 12:13 AM
2

Absolutely. It's all in how you carry yourself. If you're direct, confident, driven and charming, you can do well.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 12:09 AM
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This. Women bend reality to fit their narrative. This is how they can hamster their actions - by never taking blame or being at fault in their own minds.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 11:42 PM
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She's a woman. There are no consequences, remember? It's never her fault.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 11:37 PM
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Run. Her reaction says everything. She was ready to claw your eyes out to get that phone out of your hands, and then she was ready to dump you over it. That proves that she has a lot that she has been hiding from you. She was probably worried that her ex sent a dick pic or a sexy text to her and was willing to do do anything to hide her deception from you. Run away from this woman. She is not over her ex. You are just the branch she is holding until she can find another to swing to. Get out with…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 08:56 PM
1

I'm a firm believer in clear lines of communication. If things are less than ideal for you, then it's your job to speak up and voice your concerns. It's the other person's job to acknowledge and address those concerns. From there, you escalate if your concerns are not being taken into account or your needs are not being addressed. After that, it's time to decide which course of action to take. For me personally, I told my wife from the beginning that as long as she took care of my needs I'd neve…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 08:13 PM
1

<3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 08:06 PM
1

Every couple starts out being loyal. Until one of them isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 07:59 PM
1

NO. Feminism is a sociopolitical movement. Period. Beyond that, even feminists can't agree on what feminism is. They say it's "equality" but it's really a female superiority movement that has already reached the equality it was originally founded on and is now being fueled by outrage, victim mentality and blaming all of it's problems on men. It's all about the female imperative, and that includes female sexual strategy. Feminism was a great thing once - it opened up the job market to women and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 07:42 PM
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If TRP "ruined" a relationship, then that relationship was already dead. Do you ever wonder why TRP exists? Why men flock to it and why the number of subscribers climbs so quickly? It's because it works and there is a need for it. If it didn't work, we wouldn't have grown so much in so little time. You think we are a disease, but we are a SYMPTOM of a disease. Feminism was the cause. We are the effect. They've pushed us. We're pushing back the only way we can - by improving ourselves and getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 07:30 PM
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Attraction can't be negotiated or denied. We like what we like. You happen to like thick girls. It's a sexual preference, so there's nothing wrong with it. Go get a piece of that big 'ol ass!
/r/askTRP27/08/15 07:15 PM
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If you want undying loyalty, buy a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 07:12 PM
1

First comes the anger. The rationality comes when they calm down. And I agree with Bill Burr's views as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 07:07 PM
1

Read this.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 07:05 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA! INDIAN RACE TROLL! BRILLIANT! It's about time that guy got his own fucking abbreviation. Fuck that guy.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 07:04 PM
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I would disagree. If it's an exclusive relationship or a marriage, then yes - it kind of is a sex contract. It's understood that your partner is the only person that you should be fucking. You rely on that person to fulfill your sexual needs, and it's your job to take care of theirs. I am of the position that if your committed partner drops the ball and isn't able to service you, even after repeated talks, arguments etc. then what choice does one have? Your only three options are breakup, dead b…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:56 PM
1

It's always funny. But is it ever surprising? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:45 PM
1

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:44 PM
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If you were sent here from TwoX or some other feminist site, then yea - we are literally the bastard child of Hitler and Satan. That's how we are known among them. But you could read some of the sidebar material and learn what this sub is really about. But you won't. You came here to chastise and shame us. For what reason... I don't know. But you didn't come here to learn. You didn't come here to assume that we might be decent, hardworking men, you just storm in and accuse us of being a hate gro…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:34 PM
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You handle it be recognizing it's just cunts being cunts. They don't know you. They know nothing about you except for an interaction that lasts minutes. And they can make that snap judgement about you? Cunts.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:08 PM
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Life isn't about being happy. Life is hard. Life is pain. There are good bits in between, but it's not all sunshine and roses. Swallowing The Red Pill means that there is no such thing as "unconditional love". Men love idealistically and women love opportunistically. That's just how it is. Men will take a bullet for their woman. How many women have jumped in front of a gun for their man? It's a highly disproportionate number, I'm sure. But that's what it means to be a man: women see you as dispo…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:21 PM
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I agree that the "lock and key" analogy is overused, and it would have been argued against had I brought it up. So I tried to break it down in terms she could understand. Because women have easier access to sex than men, it has no value for them. Since it has no value for them, it doesn't matter. Since it doesn't matter, why not have as much as possible? It's only sex. This is the view of the promiscuous woman. She can justify and rationalize cheating on her boyfriend because she was mad at him …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 11:22 AM
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Men flock to TRP because they are unhappy and not getting what they want out of their relationships. They stay because it works. Myself and a growing number of men are finding success where before we found only frustration. Results matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 05:53 AM
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"Creeper" is code for "not attractive to me". It's "creep shaming" and women know how much we hate this - that's why they do it. The whole point is to make you feel sub-human, to make you feel like there's something wrong with you. Most likely, there's probably something about the way you handle yourself. If you're more intoxicated than them, it could be a problem. If you act too "familiar" with them before introductions are made and they aren't comfortable with you, it could be a problem. If yo…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:44 AM
1

Some people are just scatterbrained or bad at managing their time "I have ten more minutes before I have to leave. I still have time to do my hair and makeup!". If she does it habitually, then that's just her. It could have been traffic or she may have had other obligations that made her late, but it's never a good idea to assume, because that will ruin your mood and in turn spoil the date. I'd call her on it without being angry or accusatory. "You're TOO LATE young lady! I've already proposed t…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:27 AM
1

"BUT THAT'S MISOGYNY! And possibly rape."
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 05:17 AM
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Text her that you're going to be in town for a few days and you want to know if she'd like to grab a drink. She will say yes or no or be non-committal (no). If she says yes, then meet up and go straight to kino when you see her - she's familiar to you, after all. If there is any hesitation or discomfort on your part, she will pick up on it and it will become awkward. Go for the kiss as soon as possible. Women aren't stupid. She knows what's up when an old fling blows into town for a few days and…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:08 AM
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Eminem wasn't born a good rapper - he practiced his ass off. The same goes for everybody who ever became great at their craft. You might not win a Grammy, but you can hone your skills, do something you love and overcome your fears. Not too bad.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:01 AM
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Texting isn't just for logistics. Texting is also a good way to keep you on her mind. They say texting is "just for logistics" because a lot of guys go "retard mode" with chicks and text about stupid shit and text too often. Be playful. Text her two or three times a day, but don't let her suck you into long convos. Keep the texts dirty. Women need permission to let their inner slut out. Be that guy that makes it okay for her to get nasty. Example: "You tasted pretty good the other night. Now I w…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:59 AM
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You like writing raps? How are you at rapping? Find an open mic night and get down with it. You won't get booed off the stage - people there know it takes guts getting up on stage and they will support you. It's a great way to learn confidence.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:44 AM
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The definition of Narcissism: Extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one's own talents and a craving for admiration, as characterizing a personality type. So take another selfie, ladies. Because there aren't enough on your Tumblr and Facebook.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:41 AM
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Congratulations, you cockblocked yourself. You have to approach women directly and with romantic intent when you are interested in them. What did you do to let her know you were "interested" in her? You asked her out to a public event. Friends do that. You invited another person. This confirms that it's a "friend" date. I've found this post to be the easiest way to illustrate what I'm talking about. You have to approach her as a lover to be seen as a lover. If you approach her as a friend, that …
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:37 AM
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Past behavior is a good predictor for future behavior. That's science. That means that statistically you can predict a person's future behaviors by examining their past. The past does matter, no matter how much sluts beg to differ otherwise. Other than that, why take a chance? If you found two great guys that hit every check on your wish list, but one had 27 previous relationships and the other had 3, which would you pick? Would you gamble on the guy who can't stay with a girl? Or would you choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 04:26 AM
1

It doesn't matter. You will still fail because you expect to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 04:13 AM
1

Remember the female national anthem: "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!" You have to be the "fun" option, unless you have a six-figure income or are a trust fund kid, in which case you can be as serious as you want. If given a choice between a serious guy and a fun guy, women pick the fun guy every time. The fun guy keeps things light. The fun guy lets her be naughty. The fun guy gets her imagination running. The fun guy is unpredictable and exciting and comes without obligations or drama. Notice I've …
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:11 AM
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It sounds like you know where you are lacking and you are working on it. You are on the right track. Your oldest friends aren't necessarily your best friends, especially after you embrace TRP. Sometimes building a better "you" requires an upgrade of friends as well, and that's okay. Learn from your mistakes and keep that shit to yourself. Use it as fuel to burn and light that fire in your belly that drives you upward like a rocket. That is the man's burden: you can't depend on anybody but yourse…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:59 AM
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If you think she's attractive: "Sorry, I only have deep, emotional talks with women I'm sleeping with." - and then leave. If she's not attractive: "Aaaaand this is where I leave. Catch ya later!" - and then leave. You're letting yourself become a "time ho". Time is the most valuable commodity we have in our lives. <------------------A______________B---------------> From eternity to here (A) is the time you are born. From here (B) to eternity, is the time you are gone. You only have the time betw…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:51 AM
1

I personally don't know any Indian guys, so I can't tell you where they are. I do know black guys, hispanic guys and oriental guys, and they seem to do well. I am not aware of any "anti-Indian" campaigning that is thwarting your efforts. It could be that women don't want to date you because you have zero confidence or self-esteem. Women don't want a zero-confidence man. Take responsibility for yourself. If you fail, it's because you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 03:42 AM
0

We recognize that women are people. And most people can be pretty shitty, right? We also recognize that women and men are different. What works for one gender does not necessarily work for the other. We have evolved to pursue different mating strategies and tactics. And lastly, we recognize that men are hurting because they don't understand how women operate.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:36 AM
1

I will counter your argument with who you are matters more than what you are. Because who you appear to be is a bitter man with an inferiority complex and a fixation on blondes. Even the most beta guys can stumble into relationships sometimes. All you have to do is at least be well-groomed and pleasant. But you don't want "any" woman, do you? You want a blonde supermodel. Most men do. But they don't cry when hot blondes aren't served up on a silver platter. Instead of demanding examples, why don…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 03:20 AM
1

Generalizing is not a bad thing. It's the most efficient way to get a point across or process information. Of course we know the "down side" of generalizations, but when we can all agree on them in general, what's the problem? Also, criticism and hatred are two completely different things. If you see somebody trying to change a car tire with a screwdriver, do you hate them? No. You will laugh at them, feel sorry for them or criticize them. Here, we criticize. We don't hate. What's wrong with cri…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:11 AM
1

Some of us are angry. Some of us have moved past that and accept reality.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:52 AM
3

India still has the caste system, where you can only rise so far before social restraints stop you and put you in your place. Western countries are not India, so you have to lose the defeatist mindset, because it is the only thing holding you back. Instead of looking at the mountain and saying "It's too big to even bother trying!", challenge it and ask "How far can I climb?" Instead of being ashamed of your race or using it as an excuse for failure or as a liability that's holding you back, embr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 02:50 AM
1

Ohhh burn! Anybody have any burn cream? I've been BURRRRNED!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:37 AM
1

I smell troll. There are a lot of talented female painters, musicians, writers etc. Here are some of my favorites. Painters: Olivia Julie Bell Amanda Conner Musicians: Sharon Isbin Malukah Tal Wilkenfeld Books: Mercedes Lackey Ursula K Le Guin C.S. Friedman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 02:35 AM
4

It depends on the reason for your response. If your hostile response is a result of oneitis toward the ex and you are having a hard time moving on, then all you are doing is displaying low value and lack of abundance. In this case, you need to realize she is free to hop on other dicks and be okay with that. Ghost her and go No Contact if it's hard for you post-breakup. Also realize that getting validation from your friend and seeing how much it upset you probably gave her a double-rush of dopami…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:31 AM
2

You can't just have a brotherly chat and lay TRP down on them and expect them to identify with it. They have to be at a point in their life where they NEED the advice. They need to have enough experience with women and heartbreak for the information here to resonate louder than the BP shit they've been raised with. What you could do is talk with them on a regular basis and find a suitable link on the TRP sidebar that might help them out in a particular instance, rather than just showing them the…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:05 AM
1

If you're letting them "think" you're their beta bitch boy, then guess what? As far as they are concerned, you are their beta bitch boy. Validation is validation - even fake validation. Look at how fake women are with each other, even "best friends". How much weight does some guy on Facebook liking her selfie really carry? They don't care. Any attention is good attention. And if you give that attention for free or "play beta", then either way she gets what she wants and you're left holding your …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:27 PM
1

If they are awkward men who haven't had much interaction with women and are starved for female attention, this is true. If the guy is attracted to this particular woman and has the opportunity to hang out with her, this is true. If the guy is looking to hook up and has the opportunity to hang out with multiple women, or in a setting that's predominantly female, this is true. But to straight-up ask a guy if he'd rather hang out with random women or random men, I think guys prefer to hang out with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:15 PM
2

Shes a party girl that went to two party colleges. She has daddy issues. She's not the kind of girl you bring home to meet Mom and Dad. She's the kind of girl you call at 3a.m. to fuck and send her on her way after she brings you a glass of water. But you know this. So don't worry about her. Keep improving, reading, learning and recognizing the areas in your life you need to demolish and rebuild. As-Salaam-Alaikum.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:56 PM
1

A lot of women don't know how to be good lovers. They have to learn. This is why I'd always prefer an experienced woman to a virgin. Sure, a virgin is "unconquered territory" and you get to plant your flag, so to speak, but a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to please a man is more to my liking.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:48 PM
1

My bad. I responded to the wrong post and got your reply mixed up. I deleted it.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:41 PM
1

My mistake. But I still stand by it and would offer that advice to any guy who feels he has to tear down others to build himself up.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:34 PM
1

She's sending mixed messages? You're the man - it's your job to ask her out. It's then up to her to say yes or no. So ask her out already. She's thinking you're the one who's sending mixed messages. You made eye contact, you probably flirted a little, but you didn't close with a date. Fortune favors the bold. You have to be forward and direct with your intentions. Ask her out. If she says no or skirts around the subject, then be polite and courteous, and next her. That means she's not interested…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:32 PM
1

Women do make their own choices. They choose the men they date and marry. They choose divorce +70% more than men. They choose to abort children that the father might actually love and want to have. They choose to get fat and then start a movement that demands that men find them attractive. They choose to blame everybody but themselves for their circumstances and shitty life choices, instead of taking responsibility and fixing their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 10:06 PM
1

By your definition, no. Because your end game is still "so you look better among women". You claim self-approval, but do you really base your value on how hard you can destroy some chump in front of others? I can see how beating out a tough rival in a sport or job promotion would elevate your self-esteem, but from the sound of it, you're still seeking validation from women. I don't blame you. Having women look at you with that sparkle in their eye is a powerful motivator and we men eat that shit…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:49 PM
1

You don't want to try to AMOG or fuck with people who have the power to make life hard for you. This includes teachers, bosses, law enforcement and people shoving guns and knives in your face. With these people, you need to act like everybody else would, because it will benefit you, where acting the fool will certainly harm you. You're not an idiot, you're just young. The problem with the young is that they don't think long-term. You only see what's in front of your face. You're not thinking abo…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:33 PM
1

With girls who seem shy, inexperienced, etc. it's a good idea to "instruct" them. Smack her ass and tell her to roll over and get on all fours. Eat her from behind and make her tell you she loves it, she's your slut etc. Tell her what you want, be enthusiastic (moaning, praising, playful hair pulling and spanking) and make her want to please you.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:23 PM
1

"Haha! Is that why your pussy is so loose?" Say it with a smile and toss a pillow at her head, then mess up her hair while smirking and laughing. Women know penis size is a low blow and sensitive subject, but what they don't want you to know is that telling her she has a huge tuna bucket will have the same effect on her. If you do it playfully, you're showing her that her comment didn't even register as an insult, but the barb of telling her she has a huge floppy whale-mouth of a vagina will sti…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:11 PM
1

FLIP THE SCRIPT AND CONNECT THE DOTS If you really loved a woman, would you "forbid" her from having male friends? If she agreed to never have male friends, would you then go ahead and meet up with a girl you met on a dating site? When this girl that you met on this dating site, whom you tell your faithful GF you're "not attracted to" comes, would you take her out to a party and spend an evening "showing her around the town"? Or would those actions make you a shitty, dishonest, controlling boyfr…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:00 PM
1

She's nobody to you now, and you're nobody to her. Keep it that way. This is probably just an attempt on her part to add another orbiter to her solar system.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:39 PM
9

Amen, brother. That shit makes my eyes bleed. I can only read so much before I'm forced to either stop or punch a baby. Thankfully there are no babies in my house.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 10:02 AM
10

Yea. It's rape. Everything is fucking rape now.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:56 AM
3

Hello oneitis my old friend Come to stick it in again? I can't help myself It's hard to stop So just shove it in deep then break it off! There are plenty of fish out there. Don't waste so much time on one woman, when you could be experiencing others - especially if you're putting in more than you're getting out.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:54 AM
12

I'm afraid the cancer is real.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:48 AM
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The fact that you wrote a fucking encyclopedia on her is telling. You need to RUN - don't walk - away from this chick. You can't fix crazy, it's not your job to fix her, and "being there for her" is just an invitation for her to storm in and ruin your life, leaving you a gutted, smoldering husk of a man. Is that what you want? As the others have stated, cut contact. /u/chief_slap_ahoe also had a good idea - CALL THE FUCKING COPS if she shows up after you've told her to kindly fuck off forever. A…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:46 AM
8

"Men have evolved to manipulate the environment to get what they want. Women have evolved to manipulate men to get what they want."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 07:08 PM
2

Being a legal adult means that the onus of responsibility falls squarely on your shoulders when you fuck up. This means that before you knowingly and willingly break a law, you should first know the consequences of breaking that law, and then proceed from there. If you don't know what your state's marijuana laws are, don't drive around smoking a joint. If you don't know what your state's gun laws are, don't walk around with a pistol tucked under your shirt. If you don't know how much time you'll…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:35 AM
0

If getting laid is a huge priority, I would go so far as to suggest an escort. They can be pricey, and you do get what you pay for, so go for a mid-priced escort or higher. Will this be expensive? Yes it will. But it will also do a few things for you. It will de-mystify the pussy and it will keep you from getting attached to the first woman you cum inside, saving you heartbreak and oneitis in the process. A lot of guys here would disagree with me, and that's fine, but if you have the resources, …
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:13 AM
2

You can't accept TRP as a young man until you've had your guts ripped out through a toxic relationship, or friendzoned yourself to the point of becoming physically ill, or tried your best to "be yourself" and realized "yourself" isn't good enough to get you what you want. To fully embrace TRP, you have to realize that up until now, you've failed. You've dropped the ball. You've been going about things all wrong. Only after you internalize that defeat and let it tear you down, will you find the s…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 08:56 AM
1

I can understand the appeal of smashing hot young pussy left and right, but in order to get there, you have to look at it logically: Resources. You need to be financially set. You will have to spend money on a good looking wardrobe, money to go to bars, clubs or wherever these young hotties frequent. You won't be able to close the deal when they see you live in a shitty studio apartment in the ghetto and drive a broke-down Ford Taurus. Time. You will have to dedicate a significant amount of time…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 08:41 AM
2

If you're that hung up on race, just move to the American Southwest, change your last name to Rodriguez and slay pussy as a Mexican. But a better plan would be to embrace your heritage, work on yourself and grow some balls and get out there and approach until you succeed. You're cluttering up my reddit with your bullshit and giving the other Indian guys a bad rep from the users that don't realize you're the ONE person that posts this type of dog shit on a daily basis. Nut up or shut up.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 08:21 AM
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You don't want to go there, and it doesn't really matter. If she's comfortable telling you it's six, then just go with that. The reason it doesn't matter is because maybe she doesn't count drunk hookups. Or maybe she doesn't count handjobs, blowjobs or anal. Or maybe she counts those three guys that pulled a train on her as one sexual encounter. Who fucking knows? Worrying about her past number will distract you from enjoying your relationship with her NOW. A better idea would be to captain the …
/r/askTRP24/08/15 08:15 AM
1

You remind yourself that she got hit by a bus and died. She's a ghost. Treat her like one until you can look at her as just another woman.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:30 AM
1

Again, in order to heal you need 2 things: distance and time. If you don't give yourself BOTH of those things, you're not going to feel better. Enjoy the self-imposed hell you've put yourself in.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:41 PM
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The correct answer, of course, is "send me nudes so I can make an informed decision." Aside from that, you have to realize that a lot of things come into attraction. Looks being first and foremost, personality and temperament coming in second and third. If we aren't at all attracted to how you look, your personality, intellect and college degree won't be enough to make up the difference. If you look decent, then sometimes great personality can tip the scales and make you more attractive. But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:41 AM
1

Ask them nicely, directly and offer some incentive to seal the deal. Give them gas money for driving out of their way - something to show your appreciation and make it worth their while.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:26 AM
2

I've been there - a lot of us guys have been there. I can only tell you what's worked for me: let that part of you that loves her die. Cut it out of your heart like it's a cancer, because like a cancer, it's slowly killing you. If you weren't in pain, why would you even post this? Of course you're in pain - you feel something for somebody that isn't reciprocated. It's like throwing your love into a bottomless abyss. Sure, she cares about you, but not like that, and sure, she likes having you aro…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:22 AM
2

Women can't even be trusted to take a birth control pill once a day - do you think some dried-up old housewife is going to want to be sexed up after months or years of dead bedroom?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 07:55 AM
2

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result than the one you keep getting. Thinking about her and why things went to shit and who she's fucking now is NOT GOING TO DO YOU ANY FAVORS. So stop that shit. You need to occupy yourself with something, throw yourself into something - be passionate about something so that your mind doesn't take you to those dark places. Get a hobby, go hiking, host poker nights, build scale models - whatever. You'…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:33 AM
1

Ditch her. Instead, make friends with other guys - preferably guys who go out and pursue women on weekends - not play Call of Duty until 6am. When you want to learn how to hunt, you ask the hunter, not the gazelle. Building a network of bros will get you out and socializing.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:24 AM
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It's a desperate power grab. She wants to feel in control again, but feels the power dynamic shifting - and she doesn't like it. She was totally fine with the former you - the you that would cave in to her whims, the you that would jump when she said "boo!". Now, you're improving yourself and she's afraid that will mean that she has to improve herself too, and that's probably more work than she wants to handle. So she's gaslighting you. She is turning this around and making you the bad guy to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:08 AM
6

Monk mode = jerk off and play video games? Why would they do that? They could get in shape, join clubs and work for extra money. You're projecting, bro.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:17 PM
3

A lot of women prefer a passive role.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 05:04 PM
5

As opposed to what? The possibility of some chick fucking your brains out and then having "regrets" and deciding she was raped, thus destroying your education or worse? I would absolutely advocate monk mode to men in college, or even better, that men avoid college altogether and spend that money on a trade school or technical school. Until colleges stop being pro-vagina / anti-male, I think men should avoid them altogether.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 04:33 PM
4

You have two options. Option 1.) is going to require some time, effort and a little money. Option 2.) is some Dark Triad shit and will test your frame, but it will give her a negative association with going out with friends. It just depends on what level of manipulation you're comfortable with. 1.) Be the better option. When her friends offer to take her out, you can one-up them by offering to take her someplace better. Or, you can invite all of her friends out with you guys to do something bett…
/r/askTRP15/08/15 04:19 PM
2

Also, women see it as "the man's job" to make the first move. Women consider gender roles oppressive, unless they benefit from them. Men need to stop approaching women and stop paying for dates. For equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:58 PM
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The "right temperature" is whatever temperature feminists say it is. Thankfully, they can't agree on anything amongst themselves, so we may have a few more years of patriarchal AC settings while feminists screech for more funding to elect committees, hold conferences and petition lawmakers.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 03:50 PM
2

"Transactional sex" - as in prostitution?
/r/askTRP15/08/15 03:36 PM
9

It sounds to me like you're confusing "shit tests" with people bugging you, so I'm going to spell it all out for you in a huge post. Read it. A "shit test" is when somebody intentionally tries to throw you off balance or put you on the defensive by attempting to irritate, disrespect, anger or embarrass you. In relationships, women do it to see how you respond - to see if you're "man enough" for them and to determine how well you can handle yourself - it's like when children try to see how much t…
/r/askTRP15/08/15 03:28 PM
8

Put your arm around her shoulder and do a sweeping gesture around the bar / club while whispering in her ear: "Tell you what, you naughty little minx: why don't you get one of those suckers to buy us BOTH a drink? I'll have a ___________. Come find me."
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:15 PM
12

Even better: tip the bartender well, and let them see you doing it. Because fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:12 PM
1

Scott Pilgrim agrees with you.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:31 PM
1

I would have taken a page from the feminist book and shamed him in public, shining a spotlight on his douchebaggery. "HEY! Don't put your hands on her!" -look around- "Hey! Did you guys see him put his hands on her? Not cool, bro! Be respectful!" While this is cunty behavior, in that situation it is acceptable because: That guy is a cunt. Anything else would have ended up in fisticuffs and possibly jail. It would have put him on the spot and your public outrage would have satisfied your GF's fee…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:26 PM
1

Some fucked-up "deadbeat dad" laws could mean that if and when you are caught, you will be made to pay for each kid until you end up homeless, at which point you cannot pay anymore, so you will be locked up in jail where you will rot for nonpayment of child support. Remember: Women have rights, but men have responsibilities.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:11 PM
2

A woman is never "yours". She is only "yours right now". Unless you got a virgin, men have enjoyed her first, and more than likely, men will enjoy her after you. Things can change at any moment and you can lose her to circumstances beyond your control. This is why you must maintain an attitude of "this is great, but it could all end tomorrow!". This is in casual flings, FWBs, LTRs and marriages - nothing is permanent where women are concerned, and so you must not live your life for them, because…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 04:02 PM
2

Women don't argue logically. They do it emotionally, to elicit an emotional response. You can't fight feels with logic. This is why you should never argue with women - it always ends up in emotional territory when they start losing, and suddenly you're an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 03:45 PM
1

+70% of divorces are filed by the wife. That means that yes, women are responsible for most divorces. I'm not saying they are at fault for whatever reasons lead them to it, but women don't seem to want to stay married as much as men - which is fine. Marriages will be dead soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 03:41 PM
1

Alpha Widows are a thing, but not a cause of "most" divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 03:36 PM
1

Think of a video game. The screen has an interface with a border around it - like a picture frame. Inside that frame is your game world. You see everything through that frame. It is your point of reference. Through this frame, you project your values, ideals, goals and personality. We each carry our own frames. And sometimes, we "break frame". We do this by stepping out of our frame and entering somebody else's. We let their values, goals, ideals and personalities influence us and we let that pe…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:19 PM
1

Correct. Penis = always wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:54 PM
0

In order for feminism to survive, it needs to create injustices. There needs to be an "enemy" in order to keep the party going. This is done by painting women as perpetual victims to men. This is a very shortsighted and narrow-minded strategy, because by constantly putting themselves in a position of weakness and appealing to MEN give them more resources and privilege and wanting MEN to take an active role to fix their problems, they are keeping themselves from the very "equality" they claim to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:42 PM
1

Google it? Isn't that the right response to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:37 PM
0

When you get mad at children do you call them worthless little fuck trophies? No. You roll your eyes and pat them on the head. Treat women the same way!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:34 PM
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If YOU fucked up and her moodiness is a direct result of you doing something disrespectful or wrong, then you should own it. Apologize once and move on. If she's just moody and not communicating on why and it baffles you, then you should proceed as if it's all sunshine and rainbows. She's an adult. She can use her words like a big girl and talk about what's bothering her. Or she can be ignored until she acts right. Don't scold her, don't react negatively to her mood, just ignore it. She needs to…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:15 PM
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You are not responsible for her moods or her feelings. That doesn't mean you can do whatever you want and she should be okay with it - it means that you shouldn't let her negative moods impact your decisions and dictate your actions.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:03 PM
5

BIOTRUTH: Men NEED to FUCK! This is pretty much the only biotruth that anybody needs to know about men. Men who can't control, satisfy or reconcile this urge are unhappy. This applies to the guys in the dead-bedroom relationships. This applies to the frustrated "shy guys" that can't approach. This applies to "nice guys" who "should be having sex with her by now!" This applies to the angry, unwanted men who blame women for not fucking them. For women, sex is an "option". For men, it is a powerful…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:32 AM
0

Wow, you sure have the whole "let's make the STEM girl feel unwelcome" thing down to a science! Would you post a step-by-step manual - FOR SCIENCE?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:12 AM
6

You can make improvements to yourself, but you choose not to, because it is difficult. And you are right. It's hard enough to accept that you are far from the ideal version of yourself, but once you get the process going and establish routines to set you on the path toward that goal, it becomes a journey - one that you will come to enjoy. But like any journey, you have to leave your comfort zone and take that first step. It sounds like you're just too chickenshit to put in any effort. Zero effor…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:46 AM
1

The same way everybody else knows their productive coworkers from the ones that just skate by and sit on their asses - their WORK speaks for them. Her skills will be evident vs. somebody who isn't as passionate, qualified or industrious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 02:28 AM
-1

Uh. Vagina? I dunno.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:26 AM
5

Love is messy. I'd rather fall into "like". As in "I like you. I can tolerate being round you."
/r/askTRP12/08/15 09:04 PM
15

"Doc, I think I lost a tampon in there!" "But you don't HAVE a vagina! You're a MAN!" "Oh... yea."
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:38 PM
3

I offered to get a vasectomy and was met with resistance, because my wife was convinced that I would be more likely to cheat if I didn't have to worry about getting somebody else pregnant. As it turned out, she ended up getting a hysterectomy for medical reasons, but I remember being taken aback by her thought process.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 07:23 PM
2

Nope. By their own logic, that would mean women are subverting men, and that narrative would not be allowed in a post-feminist society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 07:07 PM
3

This. We understand how the game works and we can navigate the playing field. We can see things how they are, not how we wish them to be. We realize that there isn't anything we can do to change society, so instead we choose to live our lives on our own terms and not those that society has determined men "should" follow. We get ours. The rest of the world can take care of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 03:49 PM
1

So she's looking for a smart provider. That shouldn't be hard.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:13 PM
1

All things being equal, I agree that smart and hot beats dumb and hot. We are not opposed to or turned off by "smart" women - intelligence just doesn't rank as high as "hot" and "pleasant". Also, it's good to have ghetto friends. Sometimes you need to make quick cash or dump a body.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:07 PM
2

You are right, why are you here? You can get guys, you just don't. So... go get a guy? If waiting isn't working, then get proactive and hunt. It works for other women. My cousin met his wife of 17 years that way. She cornered him and had her way with him, and the rest was history. Hunting is a viable strategy. As a modern woman, why not? Chase those nerds! If more women pursued men there would be less loneliness in the world. A lot of shy beta guys are too afraid to "inconvenience" women by appr…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:21 AM
2

You hit the nail on the head - the black girls I know are from the ghetto and they play the "loud, obnoxious" stereotype a little too well. As far as education goes - good for you. But I can guarantee that your tits and ass are a man's primary concerns. Of course he has to show interest in your education! He can't let on that his sexual attraction to you trumps everything else about you.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:17 AM
4

"Being Illogical is punishable by anal sex". Now THAT'S a law I think we can all "get behind". ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 06:09 AM
3

A lot of women have artificially inflated senses of worth. Society says "women are wonderful!" and you believe it. Facebook and Tumblr reinforce that "you go, girl!" attitude and even ugly girls on Facebook have tons of guys that like their selfies "Damn girl, you're beautiful!". This doesn't do you ladies any favors, especially when you remember that the average frustrated chump will fuck anything female just to end a dry spell. Sure, you all think you deserve a "666" man - "over 6', has a 6-fi…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:02 AM
4

They will ban it as soon as they have enough justification to not look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 05:50 AM
5

Wife and I got married in Vegas, told family where and when we were getting married and let them find their own way there. We booked our entire wedding and honeymoon through a travel agent who included flights to and from Vegas, San Diego and a cruise down Mexico, then a flight home. Our wedding was VERY cheap. The casino provided the wedding suite, the chapel, a photographer and the minister and our wedding reception was at the casino buffet. We just had to sign and file the marriage papers our…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:45 AM
3

If you never have success with men, then you have to ask the hard question: what are you doing wrong and what can you do to improve your situation. If nothing else, you can always do the work yourself and approach men you find attractive. Sure, it won't have the success rate that being approached has, but it will put you in control of your situation. As a side benefit, you will get just a smidge of perspective on what guys have to go through to get a date, even though you might have to approach …
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:34 AM
3

New posters won't know to follow a "format", they will just want advice on whatever they need help with. You are creating more work for yourself by asking people to post certain things on certain days. If somebody has a success, question or information to share, they want to share it now while it's relevant and hot - not wait until the appropriate day to share. I see nothing wrong with the TRP method of helping them and directing them to the sidebar. Also, if the "stupid" content of somebody's p…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 05:27 AM
11

Act like the others, but believe what you wish. No good will come from letting people know your anti-feminist views. We have to be wolves in sheep's clothing. There are far too many sheep and we are at their mercy. Practice TRP in your personal life, but keep that shit on the down-low.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:17 AM
1

Men prefer "dull, unfunny and boring" to "life of the party". Most women don't have any fun hobbies or have any interests in music besides what top 40 radio stations and dance clubs happen to be playing. A lot of girls nowadays are boring as shit, and we're fine with that. We're used to that. When a guy asks a woman what music she likes, what does she say? "All kinds of music!". When a guy asks a girl what she likes to do, what does she say? "I like to hang out with friends, travel and have fun!…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 04:57 AM
1

I did in the "edited:"
/r/askTRP12/08/15 04:35 AM
0

You again. Ok I'll bite. First, understand that the things that men are attracted to are not the same things that women are attracted to. Women are attracted to men who are handsome, successful, confident, have high status and a lot of resources (money). Men are attracted to women who are attractive, pleasant, feminine and attentive. That's it. We don't give a shit if you have an engineering degree from MIT or work at McDonalds. Your intelligence, if it's on the list, is the LAST thing we care a…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 04:28 AM
2

True. But if you're leaving a mansion with thousands of dollars in cash stuffed in your pockets, it will be hard to explain to the cops waiting at the gate.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:08 AM
3

If she's working at a STEM job because it's her passion, then she will learn whatever she can and perform to her best ability. She won't worry about her self-worth, because she will get by on her OWN MERIT - just like the guys - and her work will be good. I agree with you, that lowering the bar and creating incentives to fill a quota harms everybody - but that's what feminism does - instead of encouraging women to learn how to play the game well, they just move their goal posts closer until the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:02 AM
3

You need to work in Admissions.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:54 AM
1

Some guys prefer blondes, some guys prefer brunettes and some guys prefer to dress up in women's lingerie and have their dicks stomped on. Does this make them any less of a man? No. That's just how they get off. The dominance TRP speaks of easily transfers to the bedroom, but that's not the 'dominance' that's being referenced. When TRP says men need to be dominant, that translates to "men need to be able to handle their shit to get what they want so they won't be mistaken for pussies that can be…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:50 AM
8

This. Also, women are turned-off by men who show weakness, as fucked-up as that is. If you ever "open up" or bawl like a baby or even get a horrible illness that reduces you to a husk of a man, she won't be able to help but feel repulsed. It's a deeply ingrained primordial desire to choose the strongest mate. This is why you never lean on your woman for emotional support - that's what bros are for. She needs to be able to lean on you. It's your job to be strong for her. It's fucked-up, but that'…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:09 AM
1

Ok. Well, this thread is pretty empty. Maybe you can say whatever you wanted to say to the person who insulted you when you pictured it in your mind? Ready? ACTION!
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:00 AM
0

Paying taxes when large sums of money are reported as being exchanged. It's a thing. Could put you in a new tax bracket and fuck up your tax situation.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:58 AM
1

Why do you have to make it a gender thing? You trolled, we trolled, a good time was had by all. You came here to argue and "prove us wrong about being a whiny, fat cunt". So far you're not making a very good case for yourself. You should quit while you're ahead. Or whatever. I have popcorn and soda.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:56 AM
1

So you just came to argue. Nice. I'm going to go make some popcorn and refill my soda.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:49 AM
2

Congratulations. Go away.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:38 AM
3

Right? Responsibility - not even once!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:12 AM
0

I'm normally a bit rough around the edges as a default setting but in this sub, I don't have to keep up a "PG-Rated" facade. TRP purposely takes an "Anti-Tone Police" stance, since "Tone Policing", shaming and censorship are the tools that society (and our critics) have used to try and turn us into politically correct eunuchs who are afraid to embrace their masculinity, for fear of "hurting somebody's feelings". Here we allow each other to say what's on our mind in a raw, unfiltered way. We trea…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:05 AM
5

You're asking the wrong person. I'm sure one of these ladies has a "social science" degree and can help you solve that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 01:40 AM
1

When women love you, they love you because of how you make them feel right now. Tomorrow, they might hate you. It doesn't matter if you saved their lives, paid for their tits, bought them the house of their dreams or gave them children they adore - you can't count on them for emotional support. Also, women have no agency or responsibility. When they feel good, it's because somebody or something makes them feel good. And when they feel bad, it's because somebody or something is making them feel b…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 01:35 AM
1

Next time she brings it up: Her: You're gonna surrounded by hot girls! You better behave, Mister! You: Then you'd better fuck me REAL GOOD and treat me like a king between now and then, so I won't even feel like chasing women!
/r/askTRP12/08/15 01:01 AM
2

Be busy during her commute. Hit the gym or spend that time hanging out with your bros. The less she hears from you, the better. If she doesn't hear from you at all then that's all she will be able to think about and she will be wanting to spend time with you. No texts, no calls. But check your voice mails in case she has an accident. Use her commute time to be radio-silent and give her space so she thinks about you and misses you. The alternative is to let your jealousy rage and be up her ass co…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:49 AM
1

Shit test. And by caring this much, you lost. Who is this bitch? Does her shitty opinion on your mental status mean that much that you'd let it ruin your entire day? You're handing her a whole lot of power by allowing her mindless drivel to get to you. How much influence do you want her to have over your life - or any other random person that you let rattle you, for that matter? Can I have some of that power, while we're at it? I'll bet your father was a closet homosexual that thought about your…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:27 AM
2

Don't willingly or lightly put yourself in a position where your success or failure depends on others. Take control of the situation yourself. The bike idea is brilliant. Problem solved. Fuck that guy.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:17 AM
1

If you need a direction, you can find some in the military. Your meals will be provided, you will be trained and given a sense of duty, you will get paid and you will be able to travel to foreign lands, meet exotic people and shoot them.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:12 AM
4

You escalate when her "mild interest" becomes "major interest". You do this by focusing on you, not her. Do not do it by learning more about her, trying to impress her or making it all about her - this is how betas end up in the friendzone, providing attention and validation while she searches for Chads. Work on yourself, raise your value and retain some mystery - don't open yourself like a book to her. If you've already fucked that up, create mystery by backing off, being busy and having fun an…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:04 AM
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Yea, if you're into the whole 'brevity' thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:55 PM
3

Yes. A patch of hair, a soggy hole - that's all it really is. Why must men go through hell and back, just to spunk it full of jizz? - bathroom grafitti (author unknown)
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:29 PM
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Is this wealthy man in the closet? If not, he has nothing to lose, and he may even resort to blackmail to refuse payment, frame you for something or keep you in his pocket, forever his fuck puppet, lest you displease him, causing him to leak his evidence over social media or to the police. If he is in the closet, then he has a lot to lose and might see you as a threat to his reputation or well-being after it's all said and done. He might think you're the one that will blackmail him and take step…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:24 PM
10

Coercion? No fucking way. Let's just lower all standards and make the spaces "safe enough" so that any woman who wants a job in STEM can just walk in and get paid. Let the "nerdy guys" continue to do all the work while they take selfies from their "Badass Engineer Girl" offices and soak up all that sweet validation for being "brave" and "smart" enough to fight through The Patriarchy and become a symbol of female empowerment. Until it's discovered that her work ethic and performance are shit, at …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:38 PM
13

That argument has been made. Feminists retort with "well, if women don't want to be in STEM fields as much as men, then OBVIOUSLY there is some sort of gender discrimination that happens at a young age!" After all, if men and women are equal in all ways, how can little boys and girls possibly have preferences that are different and based on their genders? That, and fuck science, reality and common sense. Those are the "Trifecta of Evil" as far as feminism is concerned. With those three tools, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:23 PM
10

Check your science..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:15 PM
1

I cast my vote that the Patrice Scale be used. This is a 1-30 scale, because a 1-10 scale is often times too generous - a girl who is above average at an 8 on a 1-10 scale is closer to 10 than 5, where on the Patrice Scale, she would be a 20. It allows for more precise ratings without requiring too much effort. That being said, looks matter the most. Beyond that, personality. I would rather bang a pleasant, feminine 20 than a bitchy 30 who was "outspoken" and "independent" (a.k.a. insufferable b…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 09:58 PM
20

It's funny that women can delude themselves enough into thinking that "empowerment" can be had by showing some "sexy" photos in the name of... anything? She could go to college and earn a degree and maybe become a productive member of society - but that would take actual work. Hard work. Wouldn't it just be easier to reach out to other women and say "If I can still slut it up, you can too!"? This shows not only solipsism at it's finest, but it reveals some sad truths about women today. She equat…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:42 PM
3

Go out and have fun. Order a soda or ginger ale on the rocks and just sip on it. If somebody offers to buy you a drink, you decline and say you're so high on so many other drugs that if you drink alcohol too, you will ALL wind up on the news. But seriously, Just decline and tell them that you don't drink. Tell them you're a designated driver. Tell them whatever you want. Or don't. You don't need to explain yourself. Most of the time, people won't even question it and if you're holding a drink th…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 08:53 PM
1

Maybe there are some guys here that haven't heard of Steel Panther? Just maybe? Possibly? Out of the tens of dozens of guys reading this sub right now? Ya think? Is it possible? Out of all of the infinite possibilities of infinitesimal variation contained in the multiverse? Maybe one guy on his phone who goes "HOLY SHIT! Why haven't I heard of those guys before? I gotta hear MORE!"? Do you think? Or is it hoping for too much? Have we reached Steel Panther saturation already? That was quick. I me…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:35 PM
17

Not. Our. Fucking. Problem. Take men out of the equation and let women do whatever the fuck they want amongst themselves - as long as we aren't the ones put on the butcher block whenever one of them goes all "hell hath no fury". Give us our own spaces to get shit done so this world keeps spinning and civilization can advance.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:25 PM
-2

FUCK MANOWAR. I need to introduce you bitches to STEEL MOTHERFUCKING PANTER! EDIT: That may have been a bit harsh. Manowar are pretty amazing. They are the loudest band on the fucking planet, for fuck's sake. I redact my "Fuck Manowar" and instead have decided to make it "FUCK YEA! MANOWAR!". That way we can still be brothers united in metal. But seriously. Steel Panther. Those guys are funny as shit and give zero fucks about giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:48 PM
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Get rid of coed colleges. Have men's colleges separate from women's colleges. Just nip that shit right in the bud. It will protect men from false claims and it will make men one less thing women have to worry about. Both men and women can just focus on their studies and get shit done.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:39 PM
1

Where Jimi was raw and played through a LSD-fueled frenzy, the version I linked is more refined, restrained and nuanced, without losing the feel of the original.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:24 PM
3

We can't imagine how it would be to exist and be valued solely on our looks either. Nor can we imagine how it would feel to be able to warp reality to suit our needs or have a hamster that eats constant feels as fuel to keep that reality spinning. They just have different motivations and imperatives that drive them.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:20 PM
1

This happens to be my favorite version of Little Wing - by Andy Timmons
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:09 PM
4

I'm sure that there are a lot of men and women who would feel more comfortable in a same-sex college, as opposed to a coed one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:59 PM
4

I saw a post a while back that was pretty fucking epic. Guy had a dead bedroom situation at home, so he just said "fuck it" and found a hobby on his own. He used to play bass guitar back in college so he bought one cheap and would practice at a friends house. He got into a band that would practice weekly and his wife was going crazy because he'd leave a few times a week and not tell her where he was going, so she got suspicious. He gave his bass a female name and would refer to it as "her". So o…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 06:38 PM
1

You. Fuck you. You're littering our sub with your insecurity. Get on antidepressant meds and fuck off.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:24 PM
13

After Mattress Girl, the UVA Rape Hoax and pressure put on guys to "get consent at every level", I hope that number drops to zero. Guys in college don't need to be caught up with girls that could get them expelled or worse because of "regret sex". And women will have a much better time in college without worrying about men approaching them. Hell, I'll even go a step further and say that separate men's and women's colleges would be ideal. When I'm Supreme Leader of the World, this will be one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:20 PM
3

Most guys just hold their nose and pound that tuna anyway. I have gotten a few in my day that were so bad I had to leave as soon as the smell hit me (like a railroad train to the face). Stank pussy is the WORST!
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:57 AM
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Robots will NEVER be able to replace women: No emotions. Sure, it will be easy to program the robots to not give blowjobs, but how will they be able to fake a headache or fake being tired, or try to make you feel guilty because "all you think about is sex!"? Dat stank. How will they make the robots smell fishy or have them bleed all over the place? I suppose they could, but it would be much more pleasant if they didn't. But then again, that would ruin the realism. Unrealistic behavior. Can they …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:31 AM
1

As /u/VasiliyZaitzev (cool name, btw) said, you need to read No More Mister Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:39 AM
2

That smell does NOT go away, either. Do they not know to finger-test it before offering it up?
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:34 AM
1

sample-sized vials. They are tiny and have @ 12-15 spritzes in them.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 10:15 AM
2

Yea. I think mine wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 10:06 AM
2

+/u/User_Simulator /u/feminazis_stalk_me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 10:04 AM
5

/u/HappilySingleWoman Is entertaining. Do I agree with most of her posts? Hells no. But I always get a good chuckle from them!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 09:59 AM
2

Yes. Apparently it doesn't work for Indian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 04:41 AM
1

No. Because instead of working hard on improving your situation, you're fixating on the successes of others and equating the disparity with you being non-white. Even if you could magically become tall, white, muscular and handsome, you would still be you inside, with your shitty inferiority complex and you would find something else to blame for your lack of success. Men who are successful with women all had to start somewhere. They all had to get over approach anxiety, they all had to work their…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 12:04 AM
4

Introduce him to this sub. Part of the problem is that he's letting you disrespect him. He shouldn't reward negative behavior from you. He needs to learn how to be firm with you when necessary and he needs to learn how to put himself first so that he won't be weighed down with the burden of trying to make you happy all the time. Showing him this sub will give him the knowledge to potentially be the kind of guy that makes you push yourself to be a better woman - all he has to do is implement it a…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:24 PM
1

I would refer you to this post. You have to decide what you want from her and then you have to approach accordingly or else risk friendzoning yourself.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:50 PM
2

TRP is amoral - that means we don't preach from a moral standpoint. Some guys here like to use illegal drugs. Some guys here like to cheat on their girl. Some guys here have fetishes that include diapers, animals or being tied up and beaten. And we shouldn't give a fuck. Amoral. We keep the morality out of it so that we, as individuals, can decide what works for us. So if enhancement products are your thing then do it up. A lot of people hate this sub for this reason - we don't care about what's…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 09:46 PM
1

Yea. Fuck that guy. Judging from those names and his post history, we can tell that he is a friendless post-grad Indian guy in his 30s who majored in sociology, who prefers blondes (but can't get any) and is looking to move south to the US to try his luck. My advice for him would be to ditch his bullshit career, move to the US and get a bust-ass construction job to beat his ass and tear him down so he can build himself back up.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 09:38 PM
1

Amused, perhaps. Butthurt? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 09:26 PM
1

Nah. Honestly, anal was something I used to do only when it was requested, but I prefer vadge. Who wants to play in the mud when the playground is right next door? That's how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 09:25 PM
3

It's hard to say. A lot of times if they are really into you, you only ever get to see what they let you see - what they think you want to see. In worst-case scenarios they sweep their crazy under the rug and hope you don't notice it until you are too emotionally invested to run away. That being said, I think it will just take time and observation. Also, pay attention to her circle of friends. Are they all party girls? Does she only have guy friends? Does she not have any friends? If you are abl…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 11:48 AM
10

Nothing is going into my ass. Unless there are six inmates holding me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:24 AM
2

Your go-to response is to escalate until you can use your MMA training to silence opposition. You can't get ahead with that gunslinger attitude, especially if people know how you are and are waiting for you to fuck up. The first thing your MMA training should have taught you is to not resort to violence unless your safety absolutely depends on it. Training somebody to injure and possibly kill without also instilling a sense of responsibility and self-control is just plain negligent. You have to …
/r/askTRP06/08/15 10:12 AM
2

By getting pissy and snubbing her, you displayed low value. Learn to not let your plates rattle you. Amused mastery is key. You shouldn't have allowed her to blueball you in the first place, and even if she did, you should have laughed it off and not let her see it. Control your emotions.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:56 AM
1

A few suggestions: Work with the administration and do some research to figure out what degrees / programs you can still get with the classes and credits you've obtained so far. See if there are any options there that appeal to you that are within your ability to obtain. What are your hobbies? Can you use your loans or grants for whatever classes you want, or are they specific to your previous career choices? Do you have anything left or have you exhausted your loan and grant money? If you can, …
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:52 AM
0

Duh. But because they do it for a living, pros are more likely to catch something and pass it along.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:37 AM
4

Somebody was taking pictures, so not in this particular instance. Remember, women need plausible deniability. This means that in order for sex to go down, a few things have to happen: No evidence. No cell phone pics or vids allowed. They all have to be in agreement. If there's even one prude in the bunch that could possibly tell on them and ruin their social status, they will be forced to behave. They all have to get dirty, so that if one goes down, they all go down. Women do not have a sense of…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:36 AM
2

Right. So it doesn't matter what you tell her. Of COURSE you're going to go - but fuck her - she doesn't need to know that, and that's not the point. The point is, you display indifference in your text and make her hamster run - for the lulz. Bros before hoes. If she feels she has the right to drop a stupid text on you like that, then you should feel obliged to fuck with her head a bit.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:24 AM
6

And if Israel and Palestine could just reach some sort of peace... TRP thinks TBP is pathetic - TBP is an entire sub dedicated to parody and ridicule TRP, after all. TBP thinks that TRP is bitter, angry and toxic - TRP uses generalizations, harsh language and offensive subject matter. TRP can't take TBP seriously and TBP wishes TRP would go away so their sub can finally die in peace, having no further reason to exist. I don't see the two subs reaching a consensus anytime soon, but until then, TR…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 09:21 AM
4

Reply tomorrow with: "That sucks. I might have other things going on. Tell them "hi" for me if you go." It shows your indifference to her and the "group" and will let her hamster run wild, wondering what else you might have going on that would pull you away (displays abundance). It also indicates that you won't take any responsibility for future invites on her behalf. Whatever she responds with after that, you can ignore.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:08 AM
2

You were wearing a condom and unless you had an open wound where she bled, you'll be fine - especially since you washed it off quickly. STD's are a very real concern when engaging with pros.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:53 AM
1

Step 1: Work on yourself until women take notice of you and respond favorably. Be somebody whom they would want to be approached by. Step 2: Learn how to approach and talk to those women to maximum benefit. Put your understanding of female attraction to work.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:10 AM
1

Would you want to fuck a girl you refer to as "sis"? Don't answer that if the answer is "yes".
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:04 AM
1

I would argue that relationships are founded on emotional manipulation. Humans are selfish creatures - we will use whatever tools we have at our disposal to maximize our situations. If a man feels that demonstrating his charisma shows value and will improve his situation with his GF, then he will approach a group of women and flirt. If a woman feels like she can influence her BF's actions through emotion, she will cry and be upset when he does something she does not like. Manipulation is not a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 11:55 PM
1

You already have your current job, so you lose nothing by staying. You can always look for work elsewhere and give them an opportunity to counter-offer in order to retain you. Also, when you leave, be sure to give them full notice. You want to be on good terms with past employers for reference purposes, or as an option to rehire later if necessary.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:04 PM
6

"I like you. PUT A BABY IN ME! Oh my fucking GOD I'll bet our kids are going to be cute as SHIT! Send me your email so I can show you the wedding dresses that I like. Where do you work?"
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:58 PM
2

If it's any help, she probably can't stand it either. Yikes. What might help is if you get in a habit of not talking to her like that in person. Also, if you use that tone with any other women / girls, cut that shit out too. It's a Pavlovian response - you hear her voice and you automatically respond in "GF voice". You have to untrain yourself.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:53 PM
1

"Objection. YOU should message ME with the time and place."
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:46 PM
3

HOLY SHIT, GUYS! MY FLAIR IS ALSO - no, wait. That's exactly how I made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 10:39 PM
69

As /u/ImmensusSapiens pointed out, you should use pictures that show JUST YOU (in a fun setting). The first picture is confusing "which one is /u/KylarSovari?" and the second one either looks too pretentious or like it was taken by your defense lawyer. Not only that, but the pictures you used give very different information, and none of that information seems to translate into "hawt guy that I want to meet and fuck". Since you seem to be in decent shape, you should do one picture of you dressed …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:14 PM
3

Apologies for writing a fucking novel. It took a while to type, so just fucking read it. Have clear intent. If you want to hook up with women, you need to approach them with clear sexual intent. They may not necessarily be into you, but you should not leave them any plausible deniability as far as your intentions go. Approach them as lovers, not friends. Having long conversations about a woman's job, family or pet is something a friend would do. A lover would cut straight to the chase. Once you …
/r/askTRP05/08/15 09:43 PM
1

This is just like the whiny "I'm bad with women because I'm Indian and it's out of my control" posts that litter TRP on a daily basis. I will tell you (and the Indian guys who blame their ethnicity for their troubles) to man the fuck up and realize that as a man, you will sink or swim on your own merit and nobody will care if you drown. That's it. Nobody fucking cares - especially women. Women prefer successful men. They rescue animals in trouble - not men who are struggling. I suggest you read …
/r/askTRP05/08/15 07:53 PM
17

"Feels" can't be quantified either, that's why feminism relies on appealing to and playing on emotions, rather than logic. Feminists don't do facts well because they cannot even agree on anything amongst themselves - only that men are bad and women are good and that they deserve more attention and assistance than they currently get because it is not enough. This is why feminists are still using the "77 cents per dollar" as hard evidence of discrimination, despite it being proven to be bullshit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:09 PM
2

I would agree that sexual strategy (and the true nature of gender dynamics, as opposed to the socially acceptable narrative) is at the heart of TRP. I would also argue that TRP is so much more. TRP is one of the few bastions of manliness that refuses to cave in under pressure to police, tone down or worry about trigger warnings and hurting "feeeeeelings". As a defiant, fiercely male space that pisses off politically-correct SJWs and feminazis, TRP is also a symbol of masculinity - a shining beac…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:13 PM
2

If there is not, will not be and never has been any sexual attraction, then that's fine. That is the only way to truly be "friends" with females - when you do not see them as sexual beings. Also, as long as your relationship is mutually beneficial - some women see male friends as orbiters that exist to entertain them and do stuff for them - avoid entanglements with these women.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 03:56 PM
1

Think about John Wayne. He wasn't the biggest guy, but he had a presence to him. He didn't say much either, so what little he did say, others were eager to hear. If your voice isn't that deep, don't shout. If you talk too much, your words will carry less weight. If you say less, people will listen when you do decide to speak.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 03:46 PM
2

If that were true we wouldn't catch the amount of shit that we do. It's one thing to be seen as juvenile, but we are met with outright hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:37 PM
1

They won't come to you - not unless they want something from you. You have to approach some time. Get out there and take your lumps until you have something to show for it.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 11:27 AM
1

After anger comes acceptance. You were mad about it, but now you realize that anger was as pointless as being mad at the sky for raining. But that's fine. That anger gave you the fuel to push yourself into action. That anger was useful. But now you don't need that anger, so you can put it aside. With acceptance comes clarity. You see the landscape around you through a new lens. Instead of just bashing your way through it with anger, you've learned that you can now maneuver gracefully, choosing t…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 11:24 AM
0

THAT would be an actual unicorn.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 10:56 AM
0

Women have hugely inflated estimates of their SMV due to Facebook, Tinder and all those "you're so hawt" and "you go, girl!" they constantly receive. Even the fat ugly ones get affirmation and validation on FB. Therefore, a lot of low-quality women who have nothing but vagina to offer think they deserve a "hawt" guy with abs and a six-figure income. So you might as well just go for it, because you aren't the Prince Chad she was waiting for anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 09:33 AM
3

Exactly. Work within the system and exploit it's "rules" to your advantage whenever possible, rather than play nice and accept what is dealt to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:59 AM
8

This. TRP is a place for men to write their experiences, observations and discussions in an unfiltered, uncensored and truthful manner. It will not get any more honest than this. There we can say what most men feel, but would never admit to, because our viewpoint is seen as a threat - something that should be silenced, policed and toned down. We are men. We are passionate. We shouldn't HAVE to tone it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:56 AM
1

You are setting yourself up fora self-fulfilling prophecy. If you fear a thing bad enough, you will act in ways that will try to prevent it, but your actions may actuallly bring that fear to life. If you become a jealous, protective suspicious prick, she may push back and use that fuel as an excuse to branch swing.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:00 AM
1

Also, reach out to her through Facebook. Leave those cute public comments, not just so she can see them, but so she can giggle and show her friends. Make it public so she feels even better about it. Women need that validation and Facebook is their crack. Throw her some crumbs.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:57 PM
1

That's the best you can do. Try not to commit to being on a "leash", but at the same time, let her see the effort. It's a tightrope, but remember - it's not about her. You can find another woman, but your career is on an upward trajectory and you have to strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:53 PM
7

I was referring to the terms of their marriage. A woman can always find a man to marry. Will it be the one they want to marry? Eh. But there aren't a shortage of thirsty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 03:50 PM
1

Men are generally attracted to the same things: Low partner count. Nobody wants to kiss a mouth that has sucked a thousand dicks. But the ideal woman also has a healthy sexual appetite and is willing to try new things. We can hope, right? Looks and manners. A pretty girl that is pleasant to be around will beat an "opinionated" plain girl with a kickass personality as far as most men are concerned. Good family upbringing. Women with six step-dads and countless "uncles" aren't usually the most sta…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:44 PM
3

I agree with /u/asalways01, that you should give her compliments when she does something you like. Over-doing the compliments or tossing them out when she's fishing for them is a sure way to make them lose value. They will also sound more genuine when she doesn't hear them fifty times a day. Also, don't worry about the perfect signature phrase. As long as you fuck her good and give her tingles, it doesn't matter what you say or how you say it. She will think it's the most special thing in the wo…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:33 PM
7

She's throwing you "comfort tests". These are different from "shit tests". Shit tests are to see if you're the real deal - if you're "man enough" to handle her and worthy of her submission. Comfort tests are her demonstrating a need to know that everything is going to be OK. She needs reassurance that you're not leaving her for another woman or planning on ditching her for somebody better. Women worry about this because this is how they upgrade relationships. They always branch swing to a higher…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:27 PM
1

Shitting in a bikini. #justgirlythings
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:15 PM
1

"Fake it til you make it" is a very legitimate way to change your behaviors. I did it when I was younger to get over approach anxiety and it's given me confidence that I still carry to this day. It might sound strange, but you can actually program yourself by mirroring or adopting behaviors that you associate with success. Dress better. Go to a thrift shop if you need to. Wear collared shirts and slacks, or sport coats. Dress for success. Grooming. Make sure you look good before you go anywhere.…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:13 PM
2

My wife is a generation older than me, so I get it. Our music tastes are different, we have to explain jokes to each other because our frames of reference are so far apart and we don't agree on a lot of things as far as taste and style go, but those are minor things. The biggest thing for ME, being younger, was to trust HER experience and give her the benefit of the doubt, and as much as I hate to say it, a lot of the times she's right. So give him the benefit of the doubt. He might not have you…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:03 PM
1

Then it sounds like you're a good catch. It sounds like the biggest thing to overcome is the generation / age gap between you two. You see him as the old fart and he sees you as the immature girl. You two have to address that, but eventually that will work itself out.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:56 PM
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Direct him to this sub, please? He needs some advice! But to answer your question, no. Ignoring him is not being a dick. Doing your own thing is not being a bitch. Being yourself is not going to make you a bad person. If he can't accept you as you are, then that's not your problem. You're an adult. You shouldn't need to ask to see a concert with friends. But as a wife, you must also be able to flip the script in your mind. If he went out of town for a weekend with friends, would that bother you …
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:51 PM
1

For those who don't have ADHD, Adderall (amphetamines) will actually slow you down so you can focus. On people with "normal" brain chemistry, it will amp you up and make you hyper - it's fucking AMPHETAMINES, after all! When I was on Adderall, I was able to focus, stay on task and my mind didn't wander. I've been off it for a while, and my mind wanders like crazy on a dozen different things at once, I can't remember shit from one moment to the next and I have trouble following through with thing…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:44 PM
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You are very welcome. A lot of that "absorption" comes from people desperately wanting the other person to like them, so they will engage in their SO's hobbies, social circles and even (gag) adopt their habits. The more stable couples I know have different tastes, styles and hobbies. They pretty much do their own thing, but work together, if that makes any sense. You can't be happy if you adopt somebody else's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:38 PM
6

She is cute and talented and she actually knows her shit. Her mother was a ranked judo contender and she learned that shit from a young age. She has the background, the training and the experience to dominate Women's MMA - she's every bit the beast they make her out to be. Add all that to the hype train of her PR team, and she's heading toward "Mike Tyson in his prime" status. I'm surprised Don King hasn't appropriated her yet. And like Tyson - or any athlete, she will eventually get beat and fa…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:30 PM
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I can understand the trepidation - it's intimidating. But as a married man, I assure you my wife's identity did not become absorbed into mine and she did not lose who she was because she married me. It's like having kids. People think that having kids is the end of the world and it's not - it just means that you have to do things differently. After you become responsible for another tiny person you don't even want to skydive naked anymore - you just naturally adopt the new course your life takes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:23 PM
2

It sounds like incompatibility. Not that it matters. I say this, because you are here looking for people to talk you out of marriage. You want a consensus, and eventually you'll get it because it's what you want, and you want people to agree with this. You've made your decision, you just need to "talk yourself up" to doing something about it. We are only hearing one side - the side of a girl who doesn't understand male attraction, who admittedly has social issues and who doesn't sound like she w…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:13 PM
1

Doesn't matter. Had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:01 PM
1

She is wired for drama. Literally. Women who have been in long-term tumultuous relationships have brain activity that looks like adrenaline junkies. Her babydaddy and previous boyfriends were probably complete assholes to her, and so after years of that programming, she doesn't know how to have a relationship with a normal, caring guy, because the men who "loved" her previously did so with constant shouting, fighting and drama. So, in order to feel loved, she needs you to fight with her and "for…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 01:57 PM
1

A lot of women just don't know how to say "no" or they feel bad/sorry or pressured and so they just do it. They will give that guy their number and if he texts or calls, they will be busy. Or they will have a boyfriend. They will deal with it when it comes up and hopefully they will get the hint that she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 01:33 PM
1

You approached her as a 'friend' instead of as a 'lover'. You should have kept the conversation flirty and sexual, not asking about her job, her family or her hobbies - fuck those things. You don't care about those things. You wanted her long Russian legs wrapped around your neck, didn't you? Then stay on point. She picked up on the fact that you weren't going to be the guy to nail her in the bathroom stall, so she politely rejected you. You have to stay fun and flirty and nasty. Make her blush.…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 01:26 PM
3

Just know that there are risks involved, not the least of which is her possibly alcoholic BF, who might put up a fight to save his unicorn and be out for your blood. That's always a risk of being the new branch - dealing with the transition and all the drama that comes with it. Just don't mistake her for a unicorn like her current BF did. She knows what you like and is making herself the best possible option. You won't see the crazy / ugly she's hiding behind her back until she gets comfortable …
/r/askTRP03/08/15 01:21 PM
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The good news is you can pretty much pick and choose what you want nowadays. Don't want to take his last name? Cool. You don't have to. Want to keep your spaces separate? Draw up prenups that allow you both to keep your residences and properties exclusive. The only real benefits to marriage nowadays are insurance / medical benefits, tax benefits (maybe) and raising kids in a traditional environment. If you get sick, it's nice knowing your husband will pull the plug and not keep you languishing o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 01:13 PM
8

Look at the Big 5 - Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism, Jewism (yea, I know) and Muslinism (sorry, couldn't help myself!). Those religions all recognize that men and women have their place, and in the case of Judaism, Christianity and Muslim faiths, their texts and teachings pretty much say that men should lead and women should follow. I'm not very knowledgeable with Hinduism and Buddhism, but if you look at countries where those religions are practiced, they are also traditionally patriarchal, wi…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 01:06 PM
1

Women want two things: What other women want. What they can't have. So either her social circle agrees that he's "HAWT!" and so she believes it too, or he is the tantalizing Mr. Unavailable that is always just out of her grasp, making her want him even more. Maybe she's had a taste, but she definitely wants to eat the whole plate and lick the dish clean too. Or maybe he Alpha Widowed her and she hasn't found a man that gave her tingles that hard since.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:56 PM
1

Don't worry about getting involved with her - her family will put an end to that shit if it even leans that way. She is part of a wealthy dynasty and you bet your sweet ass they pay people to keep an eye on their princess at all times. If you want to be her friend and use her as a vehicle to land a career or further your own goals, keep it casual and most importantly KEEP HER ENTERTAINED. The worst thing you can do to a woman is bore her, and since you don't plan on fucking her, you have to keep…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:50 PM
3

But really, the number means nothing. The realization just comes to you. One night you'll be banging a hot chick, and she will remind you of half a dozen others you've banged and it will feel like you've been there before - like Deja Poon (I just made that up, but it fits!). For me, that number was probably around 30.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:40 PM
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You are not your job. Or your place of residence. Or your fucking earthly possessions. You can lose all that shit tomorrow and work your ass off building it back up again. You can walk away from all that shit and be no less a man for it. Will your woman stay with you through that? Eh. Probably not. But that's besides the point. It sounds like you just plain and simple don't look good on paper yet. I was a shitty student when I was a kid - smart as fuck, but I was lazy. I didn't realize what you'…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:37 PM
5

You're totally welcome! But honestly, it's NEVER enough, because we always feel like we're missing out on something. Like there is some unicorn that's been eluding us, just out of grasp. "Just one more" is the lament of men who love women, because it seems like something better is just over the hill. EDIT: at least that's how I saw it before I came to the realization that you already knew.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:29 PM
5

After a while you realize they might look, smell and taste a teeny bit different, but they are pretty much all the same physically. Pussy is pussy. Some are tighter than others but if it feels good enough that you can spill your load into it, that's what really matters. So then, the goal becomes finding a woman that compliments your personality and general outlook on life. Half the people in the world have vaginas and tits, so test drive some and maybe find somebody you can relate to. Or not.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:26 PM
1

Rejection is the bramble of stinging needles you need to endure to get to the sweet fruit at the center of the bush. Some guys can't get past the first few stings and they run away, longing for a glimpse, a scent or - dare I say it - taste of the sweetness they were not able to earn for their troubles. It's just part of the process. Guys who are successful with women aren't successful because they don't get rejected - they are successful despite being rejected. They just regroup and continue unt…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 09:02 AM
1

It's fine to realize your actions and behaviors aren't doing you any favors, but you don't have to retain such rigid control at all times. Remember the Female Theme Song - Girls Just Wanna Have Fun! You have to be the guy that allows them to be free and uninhibited and non-judgemental when she starts telling you about her past sexual escapades. If you're wound too tightly and don't exude that vibe that tells her you're the most fun option, or the one that's going to do things to her she's never …
/r/askTRP01/08/15 08:40 AM
1

I was raised by my mother. I was taught to always be friends first and then ask for more from a woman as far as relationships go. Needless to say, I had a lot of female "friends", but no GF. It wasn't all bad though - all those female friends I would have liked to hook up with told me all of their heartbreaking stories of the jerks who used them and tossed them aside - repeatedly. The hot jerks get the chicks. But why?. There was never any answer to that question, and it didn't make sense. It wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 08:26 AM
6

Women are much better at self-preservation. They do not willingly put themselves into harm's way and they tend to avoid conflict and confrontations whenever possible. They are great survivors. They know how to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 07:58 AM
6

Do you want us to fuck her for you too? You fucked up by inviting her to see a movie with a friend. That's supposed to be one-on-one time, and everybody knows 'watch a movie' is code for 'shoot my load up in your guts'. THAT is why you haven't talked to her since - she has gone on dates with men who gave her the dick she was hungry for. Honestly, why do you think women go onto Tinder? To find men who stimulate their minds? Wrong. They go there to find men to pound their tunas. So, with that in m…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:33 AM
3

Never loan out more than you can afford to lose. If you loan somebody money, or a DVD player or a set of clothes, hope for the best but expect the worst. If you need your last few dollars to finish paying rent or to eat for the week, don't loan it out. If you won't miss it, then sure - do it at your own discretion. Also, if somebody burns you by not repaying a loan or returning something they borrowed, don't loan to them again until they make it right. If they get pushy, remind them about the la…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:22 AM
3

I don't know why you were downvoted - this is the one place where men should be allowed to admit their own weaknesses - and I commend you for recognizing yours. I agree with /u/ThePedanticF0x - Learn frame control. Another thing I will add to this is to not let your bosses (in any workplace environment) overload you with their work or make unrealistic demands of you. Other than that, just do what they tell you, so long as it's within your job description. Fold those napkins? Sure. no problem. Cl…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 01:11 AM
1

What's more, women aren't built to put themselves in danger. How many of us guys got into scraps with other kids growing up, compared to women? We learn how to take that punch and dish some out. We brace for it and let it come. Women, by comparison, are the sex that's more likely to "talk things out", and that's fine - but not when danger is present and lives are on the line. In that case, you want the gender that's more likely to step up, risk death and do what needs to be done first and worry …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 12:40 AM
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Much like female firefighters. I want somebody that can pull my big frame out of a burning car or down a ladder over their shoulder out of a burning building, not some chick who's going to get fatigued and have to be carried out along with me.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 12:37 AM
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Read the sidebar material, read the posts from other users and in your everyday life, shut the fuck up, sit down and OBSERVE the women around you. Just watch them with this fresh insight and new perspective. The way they act will be anecdotal to what you've read here. The way they behave will read straight out of a TRP Field Report. The change will come, not when you start reading, but when you start seeing this shit play out in the real world before your very eyes. Women acting like spoiled chi…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 12:07 AM
1

He is in an LTR... for the moment. Like the mind of a woman, life is fluid and ever-changing. Don't build your life around a woman and let her feelings dictate your course of action, that was my main point. He's going to play it like he's going to play it, and we can't say what's right for him. He will most likely disregard that part of my post if it's not in line with his personal beliefs, as is his right. To each his own. Some of us are cheating whores, and we are cool with it.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 11:51 PM
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6 months is a LONG time to be apart. If you're not fucking your girl regularly, chances are somebody else is. You'll come back and find her just as you left her - freshly fucked. That's not a guarantee, but a very likely possibility that should be considered. If she WERE to cheat on you - high possibility - she would either bury it in the depths of her soul and leave it buried for eternity, or she will find ways to 'grow apart' and want to 'see other people' or 'need some time alone to think'. T…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 05:43 AM
1

I would forgo the alcohol, personally, because if she feels bad about it later, she could always blame the alcohol that "you made her drink". Give her one less plausible deniability loophole and do it sober.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 05:32 AM
1

We're all broken in some way. We all have things about us that need improving and people can always find faults in you if they look for them. We are messy, sweating, shitting slowly-decaying sacks of meat with our own selfish agendas, motives and goals, but if we allow ourselves to interact with others then good things can come of it. Alone, we are just single twigs; but bundled together, we become a Mighty Faggot!
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:06 PM
1

Willpower: Getting what you want by denying yourself what you want "right now".
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:03 PM
2

"Hey, Gramps! Good thinking! We can check out her ass as she climbs in the bus!"
/r/askTRP09/07/15 08:43 PM
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I did a thread on a similar subject a while ago: "TRP is like a salad bar - take what you want and leave the rest". TRP just opens your eyes to the reality of gender dynamics, mating strategies and common recurring tactics and themes among men and women. What you choose to do with that information is up to you. Some of us are married, some want to be the lead pony on the cock carousel and some of us would rather have a series of LTRs or go MGTOW. Find out what's important for you. Do you want to…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:52 PM
1

The short answer: Who fucking cares. I don't say this maliciously just to kick the hornet's nest. When you engage in sex with others, it should be natural for you to become hyper-aware of what you are doing and how it's affecting your partner - at least that's how it's always been with me (and other good lovers I've talked to). Don't be afraid to commit to a certain course of action (within reason - no "surprise anal") and see where it takes the two of you. Listen to her breathing and the noises…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 07:28 PM
1

It has always been like that. Men have evolved to manipulate the environment and women have evolved to manipulate others. Men's survival was once dependent on how strong and resilient he was. For women, who were physically weaker and sometimes had to scheme and maneuver to get the most advantage for themselves and their offspring, they had to be more socially aware, savvy and yes - manipulative. Women use more words than men per day - several times more, in fact. Women are more socially consciou…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 06:09 AM
1

Reminds me of This Post from a while back.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 06:04 AM
1

High school is a closed social system - like an aquarium - that has nothing in common with "the real world" outside. Once you leave High School, the things that you thought mattered will be seen for the trivial matters they are as you are presented with more important matters like finding a career or furthering your education. In other words, it really doesn't matter. You will lose touch with your High School friends eventually, and you will go on to find different social circles and have new ex…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 06:01 AM
1

It's another word for "Cock Carousel", but she gets the benefits of a "relationship" too. Sounds like a sucker's bet and a good way to get cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 05:39 AM
1

You have been existing as a resource to be used, rather than living for yourself. You think your value lies in what you can provide for others, and their validation gives you a sense of purpose. You are not comfortable in your own skin. You do not do anything without wondering what others will think. You would rather hide in shame than take risks and suffer embarrassment or humiliation. In other words, you are too scared to be your own man. We get it - it's hard. It's easier to cater to others a…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 05:30 AM
3

You can't drive a car by looking in the rear-view mirror. You can't move forward if you're focused on the past. We all fuck up and we all have things in our past that make us cringe. The best we can do is forgive ourselves and learn our lessons for those mistakes so that we aren't doomed to repeat them - the lessons learned hardest are learned the best. At 19, you're just starting out. I'm 39 and WISH I had found some place like TRP at your age - it would have saved ME years of wasted energy and…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 04:59 AM
2

A lot of guys think "being alpha" = "being an insufferable asshole". The best way to interact with people once you have unplugged is to act as they do, but keep your thoughts to yourself, lest you alienate yourself from those around you with your "truths". A lot of people are just not ready to hear your RP spiel - they can't accept it and you will be judged harshly for your views and opinions - so keep that shit to yourself. On the other hand, you will reach a point where you might get disgusted…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 04:13 AM
2

They can't see it because they don't care. Since they are at the center of their own universes, they can't be bothered with things that don't give them tingles or directly affect them. The Double Standards might as well be wearing Predator Camouflage™.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 10:30 PM
3

You have one chance to make an impression. After the first five minutes of convo - sometimes less - a girl either puts you in the "guy that can help me move furniture" box or the "hawt guy" box. You want to be in the "hawt guy" box, because once they have you sorted and categorized, you can't just switch boxes - you're pretty much locked in there unless you move mountains or break frame and shoot yourself in the foot. If you meet a girl for a date, dress up - don't be afraid to over-dress - look…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 10:19 PM
8

Are you pulling our dicks? KNOCK THAT FUCKING PUSSY OFF THE PEDESTAL! She's not some 'perfect creature'. She's a person who shits, bleeds and has her own selfish agendas, shortcomings and problems - just like everybody else. The fact that you've inflated her to mythical proportions in your mind shows that you are not ready to interact with women. My advice would be to go to the woodshed and enter into monk mode. Work on yourself, enjoy your solitude or the company of your bros and learn to appre…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 10:02 PM
3

No More Mr. Nice Guy as suggested by /u/vys1. We each have a finite amount of time, energy and resources. If you are spending your time, energy and resources on others, then you had damn well better be compensated for it. People (especially women whom you orbit) are more than happy to let you run your ass to death doing things for them, while praising you for being such a "nice guy". The reality is that we are all in the same struggle and people can do things for themselves. It's one thing to do…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:38 PM
5

Definitely a trap. Once you act on those impulses or she thinks you've acted on them, she will have the ammo she needs to fund her own pity-party extravaganza and make you the bad guy forever in every future argument - if she doesn't just bail and burn as much as she can to the ground on the way out. She's not giving permission - she's daring you to do it. Taking her up on that dare would be a bad idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 03:57 AM
8

You can't negotiate attraction. We all like what we like.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:37 AM
2

If a woman walks into a room full of men, the climate shifts instantly. The men self-censor themselves and keep a wary eye on her because women internalize everything and would take personal offense to the way we talk to each other and the topics of discussion. When she leaves, we can relax and go back to talking about guy stuff. This is just how it is. We CAN'T be ourselves around women, because "ourselves" would be judged harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 03:13 AM
1

My penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 02:53 AM
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Yes. You basically have a neon sign above your head that says "I'm a chump with zero pride". The reason she's even coming around is to ease her own guilt about fucking you over, and every time you accept her help or her company, it allows her to justify her actions and feel better about being a cheater. Stop enabling her and grow some backbone. Don't be angry with her or him - you let things go and they fell to shit - she's his problem now. You were weakened by events that were out of your contr…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 06:57 PM
1

Look at 1986 Metallica vs. modern Metallica. People grow, mature and change and it would benefit you to broaden your horizons and try new things.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 06:33 PM
1

This is her way of keeping track of you. If you're always texting her back, you can't be enjoying yourself too much or investing your full energy on anything besides her.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 06:30 PM
1

Maturity is not my thing, but I stand by my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 06:16 PM
2

You can't fix people, and she is definitely broken. That being said - why would you even consider a woman with that much baggage? Most sane men would cross the street to avoid her if they knew her past. Past behavior is a predictor of future behavior and you're not just playing with fire, you are walking a tight-rope and juggling fire torches over a sea of napalm. It's not a question of if you'll get burned, but how bad - and the answer is PRETTY DAMN BAD. With a world full of girls who are less…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 06:08 PM
1

They exist. They usually live in trailers that smell like cat piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 05:52 PM
1

You have scarcity mentality - it comes from not having other options readily available to you, so you mate guard whomever you happen to be seeing - in this case, your "exclusive fuckbuddy". You need to develop "abundance mentality" by getting other girls in your stable. Don't invest your emotions in a woman and then be surprised when your emotions grab you by the balls. If she's going to be a problem for your emotions, then you need to cut her off like a diseased limb before the disease consumes…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:28 PM
1

As the others say, you need to go silent. Women eat up male attention and you're feeding her without getting anything in return. This is why texting should mostly be for logistics, although if you must text, make sure it's flirty, sexual and remember the 2/3 rule - text her twice for every 3 texts she sends. If you're texting her too much, it's clear that you're the one that's being needy - and women hate needy guys.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:18 PM
1

First, as others state, don't argue with women - you can't win and this is why: no matter how logical and sound your argument may be, women don't care about any of that - they care about how they feel, and if they feel they are right, no amount of reality will change that. So the next time you are in a "debate" with a woman who's getting loud you can kill two birds with one stone - call attention to their behavior and make her feel like an ass for it. First, remain stoic and voice your thoughts …
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:06 PM
1

Back then they understood that regular sexual activity is healthy for a relationship. And yes, ladies - that was meant mostly for you. Of course, they had to throw in the part about the husband submitting too, you know - for equality (feminism).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:43 PM
3

Women like to dump out their problems and "emotional issues" onto others to either gain sympathy or to get out of being held accountable for their actions - if she's got issues, she's less likely to be burdened with responsibilities. This is something women do. Women get off on being the victim. Poor them. You should feel sorry for them and excuse all of their actions or else you might "trigger" them. But really, you should just stay as far away from them as possible, because they will manufactu…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:37 PM
1

If women were strong and independent, they wouldn't need feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:26 PM
2

Don't OVER-THINK it. You just asked the girl for drinks. You're thinking too far ahead and putting too much investment into it. In your mind, you're already thinking about dating and wondering how you're going to fuck her, or how horrible the night will be if you ask her out. Slow the fuck down. What does getting a drink have to do with fucking her or turning into a shitty night? You're letting your fears get the better of you and your nerves are wrecking your calm. You're sabotaging yourself. S…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:18 PM
1

There is a huge fucking world out there and you are a part of it. People are social creatures, and while men can appreciate peace and quiet, what you're doing is putting yourself in solitary prison. Get out, get some sunshine and find a hobby. You don't need to be an "Alpha Male" - for you it sounds like it would be enough to just be comfortable in your own skin. Stop thinking so deeply. There are no answers. We're born, we live and we die. Do you want to spend the short time on earth you have a…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:06 PM
2

Have you ever seen a Charlie Brown cartoon? You're Linus. The kid that still carries his baby blanket, but instead of it being a security blanket you have a security beanie. It's just a piece of fucking cloth. It does not determine who you are, and it will not protect you from the world. It's not something to hide behind and it's a glaring sign of insecurity and women will pick up on this - they are the masters of insecurity. So ditch it and go balls out. have you ever seen a guy with a bad toup…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 12:46 PM
1

Just smile and wave to call attention to the fact that they're staring at you.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 12:18 PM
6

To expand on that, women enter relationships for stability and comfort. She's more likely to find those things with a guy who is a good provider (makes good money) who's not likely to leave her for somebody hotter (so he's less attractive). If she wanted hot casual sex, she wouldn't choose the pudgy balding guy with the six-figure income. No. She'd choose the hot guy on Tinder with the body of a Greek god and questionable morals. If she had to choose between the two for marriage, it would be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 12:05 PM
9

Right now she is melting down. She probably went straight home and cried her way through a tub of ice cream, then straight to bed with the covers over her head. As the sex who has to compete, we are built to handle rejection - women aren't. Having men stop them as sexy-time is about to go down is a foreign experience to them and it really makes them question their smv. Her hamster is trying to readjust her reality to explain what the fuck just happened. Prepare for one of the following reactions…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 11:35 AM
14

This horse has been whipped to death, but I'll bite. Women have a much more inflated sense of value than men do. Just open Facebook and see the dozens of "damn girl, you're so beautiful" comments that women get every time they upload a selfie (every 10 minutes). Women gorge themselves on that validation, and it's not just pretty women - even mediocre and fat women get showered with compliments via social media. Next, throw in every rom-com movie ever, where the guy realized he fucked up and trie…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 01:13 PM
1

If you're a woman, you have options. If you never put your college degree to use and fail at your career, you can always get married. Then, after a few kids and after he's paid off your student loans, you can become "unhaaaappy" and divorce him and live off the alimony and child support. Men are seen as disposable utilities by a lot of women, and society reflects this. With +70% of divorces being filed by the wife, along with the initial expense of getting married (ring, dress, venue, catering, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 12:57 PM
7

I think it's fan-fucking-tastic and can't wait for affordable, enjoyable sex markets to arrive. This means that our incel brothers never have to leave the house again, except for frozen burritos. This means that single guys can get their rocks off in style and not be pressured to hook up with random chicks. This will also drive women insane. Women are encouraged to "find themselves" (be sluts), and most do at some point in their lives - but men don't have that option - males compete and women se…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 12:35 PM
3

This is textbook - it's like she's the woman Dr. Frankenstein assembled from the TRP sidebar: Her hamster's burning it's clutch out trying to readjust her version of reality to include the belief that herpes is a beautiful thing. In her mind, she's a special "empowered" snowflake with a message everybody needs to hear - because her "brave" experiences carry more weight than any scientific data or medical journal ever written. In reality, she's just another burned out party slut who's trying to c…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 10:36 AM
12

Read more sidebar. It will never happen. That's like a woman saying "Would society be better if men were attracted to old fat ugly women instead of young, thin pretty women?". To the beta guy it's fine, because he doesn't know any better. He doesn't know that if he took charge, got in shape and fucked his woman like a cave man she'd see him as more than a resource that's useful to her - she'd actually be attracted to him and want to keep him happy so he'd keep her around, instead of her leading …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 09:56 AM
5

She wasn't joking. Why would she joke about that? She probably did send a transcript, or was seriously considering it. Props for standing your ground. Men who stand for nothing will fall for anything. If she's willing to sacrifice the college of her choice, that's on her. She's a big girl and can deal with the consequences of her actions.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 09:47 AM
2

Stop worshiping women. They are not the prize. YOU are the prize. You are putting pussy first and letting the rest of your life fall to shit - this is not how a man behaves. Get your priorities sorted out and put yourself first. Maybe university is not for you - it's not for everybody. Some men are happier working with their hands instead of their brains. There are probably a lot of labor jobs you can take - the pay is going to be shit but everybody starts at the bottom and works their way up. T…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:42 AM
4

Their cake, your cake, my cake and whoever the fuck else's cake they can gorge themselves on - especially wedding cake (the most profitable cake).
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 09:23 AM
10

I had a cashiering job at a hardware store and I'd always hand the man's change to the woman, just to see their reactions. Usually the guys would just sigh at me and watch as the woman gleefully tucked the money away like a little girl that just stole a fresh cookie off the plate behind mom's back. I could always tell the men who captained the ship though, because their women would just smirk at me and hand the money back to him without him saying anything. But the vast majority of the time they…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 09:20 AM
10

Don't feel bad. You didn't write it. If anything, feel sorry for the miserable dried-up husk of a shell she is well on her way to becoming, and be glad you're not her.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 09:06 AM
1

Men age like wine. Women age like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:51 AM
0

If rape were about sex, then everybody would be raping. Oh wait - according to Feminist Rape Culture™ every man is a rapist. You might be right! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:28 AM
1

When the vikings tore through Europe, they did their fair share of raping, but most of them were farmers with families back home. If it was about spreading their genes, they could have done that without leaving Scandinavia. But they were the conquerors. The victors. The subjugators. They raped as a display of power, like taking loot from the buildings they sacked. A member of a viking raiding party has very little in common with a guy who has drunk sex with a girl at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:26 AM
1

You worry about what other people think. You worry that others will judge everything you do. You worry that people pay attention to you and wait for you to make a mistake so they can all say "AHA!" You are wrong. Nobody cares enough to even notice. These notions are in your head. Do you look at others and judge them as harshly as you think people judge you? No. Why? Because that's simply not how people act. We all have our own problems and lives to deal with and we're all too busy to notice or c…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 06:52 AM
3

There is no "alpha" or "beta" association with rape. Rape is not about sex - rape is about POWER. This is why men are raped in prison - as a brutal display of power. This is why women have "rape fantasies" - they want to feel helpless in the face of a man's raw physical power. In fact, before Feminist Rape Culture™, rape was classified as a crime of violence, rather than a crime of passion or sex. Now rape can be anything from a woman regretting having sex to having sex while drunk. The meaning …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 06:16 AM
1

Realize that those women don't know you, or who you are. You are a stranger to them - a blank slate. So you can be whoever you want to be. You can be as charming, dickish, smooth or sexy as you dare, and they have no idea whether or not that's the "real you". So they will shit test you, try to neg you and they will see if you can back up your talk. If you start stuttering or backing away or apologizing, then they know you're just another pretender. The only way to avoid approach anxiety is the s…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 05:53 AM
1

Men fall in love more quickly - that's just how we're built. Attraction can't be negotiated or denied. You like her for some reason that you can't put your finger on and it doesn't matter why - the result is what matters, and as a result of you being attracted to her, she's punching the shit out of your "stupid" button. It doesn't pay to be stupid over a woman. Ever. Realize what love is. Love is a chemical firework that explodes in your brain when you are exposed to somebody you're attracted to…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 05:43 AM
1

This post is correct - anybody can talk a good game, but once you establish she's into the flirty / naughty talk, it's up to you to get the ball rolling and keep it rolling until you score (or strike out). Grab her and kiss her. Wrap her up in your arms. Flex and squeeze her. Let your hands wander. If she pushes your hand away or blocks access, keep kissing and let your hands go somewhere else and try again in a few minutes. Whisper in her ear and hint at the naughty things you want to do to her…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 05:23 AM
11

It could be that you're not attracted to her or aren't wanting to settle down with her for some reason or another. I can't accept the idea that any man would want to trade a feminine woman who's happy in a traditional female role for a Strong, Independent Woman™. I call bullshit. Is she ugly? Are you just not feeling it with her? Is there something about her that makes you hesitant to commit? This just doesn't add up. I get that the chase can be fun and thrilling, but if she's that awesome, why …
/r/askTRP29/05/15 05:07 AM
3

Sounds like a great idea in practice. Until somebody brings their girlfriend or wife and ruins it.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 04:57 AM
2

Your job is not to respond to every shitty text she sends you - in fact, you shouldn't. Keep your answers short and sweet - don't ever try to explain yourself or elaborate for her. She knows what your terms are. If she's not willing to meet them, then somebody else will. Make sure she knows this.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:59 PM
6

Absolutely. "What do you do?" "I prefer not to say." "How much do you make?" "I prefer not to discuss my finances."
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 09:52 PM
2

She was looking for an excuse to leave and you gave it to her. If she was really that into you, she would have sulked or thrown a tantrum, but no - she saw her opening and she ran with it. This is not a girl you are going to get back, so don't even bother. She might try to contact you in a few months if her "new guy" doesn't work out and she needs you to be her "good enough for now" BF again, but you'd be a damn fool to take back a woman who'd leave you like she did. You're the prize - not her. …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:44 PM
11

When the drama passes and she accuses you of "not caring because I was locked in our room crying my eyes out for days", you can calmly tell her that you sincerely appreciate her removing herself from your presence when she has a tantrum, and that's how you'd prefer her to deal with such tantrums in the future - it allowed you some nice quality time to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 09:26 PM
7

They have no idea. Just like we have no idea how little sex means to women by way of comparison, since it's something that can easily be had by them vs. us. I say "can", meaning it's possible - but most women would disagree because they would never consider fucking some random guy who didn't give them gina tingles - they are only concerned with "hawt" guys. They have options, they just do not explore them. Men have many fewer options unless you are one of the few men in high demand.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 09:20 PM
1

Not likely. If they're into you, they might not even notice the sign - especially if you place it carefully or have other adornments on your door.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 08:52 PM
1

Women keep those things as trophies. Let her have it and move on. Wal-Mart has plenty of sweaters for cheap.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 09:50 PM
3

Easy. Put cameras up in your home, with signs letting people know the property is under surveillance. Put the same sign up on your bedroom door. It's up to them whether or not they want to enter your room with the clearly posted sign. Video tape every sexual encounter to be able to provide proof that no rape occurred. THAT is the only way. Anything less is her word vs. yours and we all know that once she starts crying on the witness stand, you're screwed. You asked how to protect yourself, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 09:44 PM
3

Women don't care how much you do for them or how well you treat them - as far as they're concerned it's your job to treat them like a princess. Women only care about what they are feeling right now, and their feelings can change at the drop of a hat - especially when they feel the need for something (somebody) new. She lost attraction for you so she's trying to justify to herself why you're the biggest asshole in the world so she can feel okay about leaving you. She's getting lots of "you go, gi…
/r/askTRP25/05/15 09:20 PM
2

if nothing else, get out of your house and walk / run / bike to where people are and be social. Develop interests or hobbies that allow you to interact with people you want to be associated with. Also, remember you're a YOUNG MAN, and men are capable of bettering themselves. Use your time alone to maximum benefit.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 09:53 PM
2

She's not a plate and she's not a GF - she's your wife and the mother of your kids. This means that you have to be a little bit more diplomatic and at the same time, you have to hold frame even more. She's looking for comfort from you. She sees you dieting and hanging out with guys who go out and do stuff, so naturally she fears for the worst - that you'll somehow hook up with hotter, younger women. She might also feel left out, like you don't take her out as much as you go out with your buds, s…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 01:39 PM
2

Absolutely. I'm banned from two relationship subs, TwoX and a few other subs because my opinions weren't part of the echo chamber and they dug through my post history, outed me in the threads and shadow banned me from those subs. Seriously, WHO GOES THROUGH SOMEBODY'S POST HISTORY? I would never bother to do that to somebody, no matter how much I disagreed with them. But, that just goes to show you that some people just need somebody to hate and be offended by. The victim / white knight status i…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:18 PM
1

You need to build up your armor. To do that, you need to go out and approach, approach, approach. After a while, you will realize that it's just a part of the game. Guys who are great with women get shot down a lot too - the difference is that they don't let it faze them and they succeed despite rejection. It's a numbers game - you'll lose a lot more than you'll win - but you will also become better at the game with practice and you will get to the point where rejection won't matter - that's whe…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:13 PM
1

You're a woman. You either want a guy and a family, or a career, or some mashup of both where you have to work your ass off at home and at work. You can't have it all. It's just a different situation for you, being a woman. Figure out what's important to you and work toward those ends. If you want a guy, figure out what we're attracted to. What women and men are attracted to are totally different. We don't want a "dominant" woman who feels she has to take control of every situation. We don't wan…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:06 PM
2

+70% of divorces are filed by the woman you're speaking of. You're almost better off just knocking up some random chick and paying child support. It's cheaper in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 01:55 PM
1

You are what you project. People see what you choose to show them, and then make decisions based on that information. Everything is part of "the game". If you want to show your "nerd" hand, then go for it. But remember - it's guilt by association - I used to play MTG too, and there was no shortage of social pariahs there. Do you want to be seen in that company, knowing you may be lumped in and judged by that criteria? It sounds harsh, but nature is harsh, and is never kind to the weak, sick or i…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:32 AM
2

You have been banned from /r/Pyongang
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 11:06 AM
7

Nagging is one possible reason, like you're demonstrating here. But that's not really enough to "hate" somebody over. It's more of an annoying character feature. But you DO provide us with cheap entertainment, so we are more than happy to keep revving up your hamster!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 02:42 PM
2

Somebody to listen to you talk. Somebody to kill spiders for you and do manual labor around the house (electricians, handymen, landscapers and contractors are expensive). Somebody to vent your frustrations on. Somebody to validate you and entertain you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 12:21 AM
5

Men do the romancing. Women get romanced. A better way to put it is "men are romantic, women are not".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 12:15 AM
7

Controlling = having 'scarcity mentality'. You're too invested in her because she's the only option you have and you don't want to lose her. What you need is 'abundance mentality' - and that comes from knowing you have more options available to you, so you won't tend to 'mate guard' them. As you experience more women and realize they aren't the prize you think they are, you will relax and not care so much about what she does, and will instead focus more on yourself and they will naturally follow…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 12:10 AM
9

"Romantic gestures" are considered to be part of a man's "responsibility". How many women put forth the time and effort to get their men little gifts or plan dinners or trips or romantic nights in? Look at every "romantic" commercial advertisement ever, and it's a man giving a woman flowers, or cooking her a romantic meal, or buying her jewelery or her coming home to rose petals and candles. It's never the other way around. Women aren't "expected" to be romantic, so they have the luxury of just …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 12:03 AM
1

Their penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 11:58 PM
1

Slow down there, buckaroo! Just because she complimented you and liked some shit on your FB doesn't mean she wants to ride your cock. Also, why would you want some chick that passed you up for a dozen other cocks since then?
/r/askTRP26/04/15 10:03 PM
0

Don't let a woman dictate your actions, and don't plan your actions around her. Also, don't worry about her feelings - that's her problem if she gets butthurt over you wanting some me-time. Do you live together? If not, tell her you'd like a few days to yourself. If yes, tell her you'd like some time to yourself and get out of the house for a day. She won't know what you need unless you tell her. Once you tell her, it's up to her how she deals with that information.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 10:01 PM
11

That has nothing to do with feminism Source, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 09:37 PM
12

If you can express your thoughts, people should be able to call you a racist. Think as you wish but act as the others do.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:21 PM
-1

People keep saying that, for some reason. Keep in mind these are kids I am addressing.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:15 PM
1

If you have morals, you don't even need to approach women in a sexual way. Just a little chit-chat to make them smile, or a little harmless flirting to boost your ego. Talk to women in public or in the grocery checkout line. Cultivate a social life. Throw parties. Interact with others and widen your circle of friends.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:56 AM
1

How much ass did you slay in high school? What percentage of guys in high school slayed ass compared to those who didn't? These are kids. They don't all have that option. If they are slaying ass, they wouldn't be lurking here. My advice was for the other guys - the ones who don't have any ass to slay - and there's nothing wrong with that. They will have their time.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:51 AM
2

The more you approach, the more you get rejected and the more you realize that it doesn't actually hurt. Each approach gets easier and as you fine-tune your conversations, you will see improvements. With those improvements comes confidence. It's not that guys who are good with women never get shot down, they just don't let it faze them and move on to the next girl despite being rejected.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:49 AM
3

Focus on your education. Work on yourself. Address your weaknesses and use your available resources to improve upon them. Don't waste time on women because at your stage of life, girls are not worth the hassle. Set a goal for your future and develop habits that will make you successful. This was all advice in my post. How is this horse shit? Remember, these are guys in their TEENS, not incels in their 30's I'm talking about. This is basic advice.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:46 AM
1

Grades don't matter for shit? Only if you plan working at McDonalds and living with room mates or parents because you fucked-off your education and can't afford to live on your minimum wage. If you bust your ass and persist at your goals, you will make gains. If your efforts are shit, you will get shit out of it.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:40 AM
-2

Don't fucking look at other guys that are better looking, older, or have richer parents than you and throw in the tower, fucking do something about it now. That's pretty much what I'm saying. And the "energy and free time" that most high-school kids have goes toward video games and unproductive bullshit. Not everybody can be a champion in HS - you can't just break into their cliques and be part of the cool kids, so they need to work on themselves, since school will end and the real world will st…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:36 AM
2

You're quick to call these guys geeks and dorks, and you're pretty much exactly what they don't want to turn into - a judgmental dick. It's not feasible for a lot of guys in HS to get laid - that's what I'm trying to tell them - it's not that important at their age, and they will get laid plenty when they get their shit together. They can't all be part of the popular "in crowd" and if they post here, you know they aren't. In high school, there are no AF/BB dynamics. Guys in school should concent…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:31 AM
3

The nervousness goes away when you realize you're the prize. That they have to qualify themselves to you. When you stop giving a fuck about what they think, whether or not they like you or what your chances are with taking them home, it will go away. And they will respond to you and eat that shit up.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:09 AM
3

You need to post more. You could really boost TRP's subscriptions with your attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 04:43 AM
2

Scarcity Mentality - when our options are limited or nonexistent, we tend to cling more tightly to women than we should. She's the only woman you've ever been with, and since you don't have anything else lined up with other women, she's it. What you need to do is develop an Abundance Mentality - this is when you expand your romantic options and know you can get with other women should you choose to. Go out, put yourself out there and approach women. Interacting with more women and feeling desire…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 04:39 AM
1

Dump the chick, work on yourself and focus on your grades.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 04:25 AM
3

Welcome to the sub, brother. Please use some damn paragraph spaces in the future. I almost went cross-eyed reading your wall of text and a lot of people probably gave up part way through. Read the sidebar materials and the required reading.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 04:20 AM
1

If they are successful, would they be lurking here? This post isn't addressed to the star quarterback who's fucking the prom queen, although the advice still applies. I'm talking to the guys lurking here who have confidence issues who are looking to improve themselves because they feel their situation is hopeless. People come here for help. I'm speaking as if they are the invisible kid, because he's got the most to gain from TRP. And if it helps, yea. I was pathetic in High School and didn't get…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:11 AM
2

You take your time and read all the sidebar and recommended reading. Lurk and read. Internalize it and use what you can - some of it may not apply to you and some of it may not "click" yet. Get ready to go through the 5 phases of grief and know we're here to listen and kick you in the ass when you need it.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 04:07 AM
1

Colleges are ground zero for feminist bullshit. Forget the whole 'rape scare' tone of the article - I was referring to the parts that stated that college shouldn't be considered the only viable option to a successful career. Men can go to trade or tech schools and still land decent jobs. Having a college degree isn't the hot commodity it was when our parents and grandparents were young, and it doesn't guarantee you anything but an extra line on your resume. Men need to realize there are options.…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:58 AM
1

High school is not the end-game. Things will change. If they get their shit together NOW, they will end up better later. That's the gist of my post. It's like I'd tell anybody else - women aren't the prize - we are the prize. Work on yourself and reap the rewards when your value increases. Younger guys just have longer to wait - but they also have more time to improve themselves.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:53 AM
2

If you see yourself as a loser, then that's all you'll ever be. You won't have the self-worth to aspire to reach for more. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:35 AM
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This blog had a lot of solid advice for men.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:00 AM
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College isn't the only option. Consider a tech school or trade school. At least you won't be forced to take a gender studies course.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:58 PM
1

Good catch. Luckily, they're lurking here, so I have no problems posting that, and that's also why I didn't elaborate on it. Most likely, they're aware of AF/BB from other posts.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:55 PM
1

Most of us had it rough in school, and I wouldn't want to go back either. I feel bad for the younger readers who see posts about spinning plates and read side bar material like Sex God Method and feel like they should be pulling that off at their age - when really that would just be disastrous for them. All in good time, my young friends.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:52 PM
1

Exactly. Because they get passed around the most and party the hardest. All that drinking and smoking ages them. All that time in bikinis turns their skin into wrinkly burnt leather. I have seen this happen so many times.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:48 PM
2

If you get good grades, get a good education or trade and dedicate yourself, you will be successful. If you're successful women will want to be with you. Along the way, you'll have several hookups, a couple of GFs and a few FWB's. You won't have to "wait until you're 30" to become successful with girls. The point I'm trying to make is that right now at this point in time, getting girls is the "ultimate goal" for you. Every teenage guy since forever has felt this way, but the reality is that it w…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:43 PM
4

You need to scroll down and read the post with the vid about girls on spring break being totally cool with cheating on their boyfriends. And that's just one week - she'll be gone for ten. Couple that with the fact that she doesn't want you to go. She's a pretty girl who has limited sexual experience and she wants to go abroad to "find herself" (which is girl-code for "having men use and abuse every hole in filthy, degrading ways"), and her slutty friends have probably filled her head with storie…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:26 PM
3

What answers do you expect to find with therapy? What have you gained from it, personally - I mean really gained? How has it helped you? These are questions you need to ask yourself. Therapy is somebody listening to you, and drawing you - sort of like those guys that hang out at malls or street fairs and draw caricatures of people - depending on how honest and messed up you are, the picture may not be flattering. But remember, it also depends on the artist (therapist) who draws this picture and …
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:11 PM
1

When you ask her that, pay very close attention. Watch the hamster spin.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:38 PM
2

"Found herself" is girl code for "I had filthy, disgusting things done to me and I LOVED IT!"
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 07:34 PM
2

The BEST example of "fake it 'til you make it" I've ever seen was in High School (this was in the 90's). There was this guy who was pretty much invisible. He was the ultimate stereotypical socially awkward incel - he couldn't color coordinate his hand-me-down clothes and he was just a pretty pathetic guy to look at. His sophomore year he comes back from summer vacation with long hair, all black clothes and he's pretty much gothed-out from head to toe. He turned his social awkwardness into anti-s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 07:29 PM
1

Of course she's nice and open to talking to you - she's a pretty woman who's used to having people be nice to her. That doesn't mean she's attracted to you, though. It sounds like a potential orbiter situation, so ask her out, but if she says "no" or is too busy then move on.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:43 PM
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Women have pretty much taken over psychology, so yea....
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:24 PM
1

Of course. A free meal and drinks, while some guy kisses your ass? Who turns that down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 06:22 PM
3

Most women are boring, compared to your guy friends. This is why you should cultivate strong relationships with your guy friends. You can talk about all the cool shit with your bro friends without all the passive-aggressiveness or worrying about offending them.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:21 AM
2

The men's bathroom - unless the women's bathroom is full.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 04:15 AM
1

Until one of them gets a GF and fucks it all up.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 04:15 AM
2

Because I'm feeling generous, you lazy bastard, I'll type this shit out for you: The rationalization hamster, or 'hamster' for short - is when people (men and women, although women are the undisputed masters) look for ways to rationalize their situation or their behavior. You can imagine a hamster inside somebody's head running on a spinning wheel, frantically trying to make sense or justify something. Here's some examples, you lazy shit: Beta Bill's GF is acting like a bitch, giving him the sil…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 04:09 AM
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Love is dopamine, oxytocin, adrenaline and a cocktail of other chemicals that your brain rewards you with when you are around somebody you're attracted to. Men feel this bond and get this rush much sooner than women do - it takes them a little while longer to bond (lucky them). After a while, you associate those "feels" with that person and it becomes "love". This is why guys get stupid over girls so soon, so often - nature really stuck it in and broke it off when it decided to give us "oneitis …
/r/askTRP21/04/15 03:43 AM
1

It's an uphill battle trying to regain ground that you've lost - you know this. So don't lose that ground again, right? If she was using sex as a tool, don't allow it. What you need to do is let her see how OTHER women respond to you now - take her out. When the server comes by to take your order, hopefully she's young and cute. Turn up the charm. Remember plausible deniability - when your wife scolds you for flirting, you need to be able to say "what? I was just being nice". Be smooth and confi…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 03:32 AM
2

Nope. I'd take my time and get to know somebody instead of strong-arming or emotionally manipulating them into marrying me after a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 01:14 AM
1

OR she just found out she's pregnant and wants you to be the daddy, so she'll fuck the shit out of you for a week and then "find out" she's preggers. It's happened before. Always be wary of a woman who wants to have mad crazy sex with you out of the blue after a dry spell.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 10:56 PM
1

Your wife now knows that other women find you attractive enough to cheat with a married man. Revel in this victory. The dread was nuclear level, but use this momentum. Be assertive in the bedroom and get the sex back in your life. She knows there's competition out there now, and you're not her little bitch-boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 10:45 PM
4

Look on the bright side: he's dead!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:23 PM
2

Well, there you have it. Basically, women are "unhaaaaaaappy". Some cheat or get cheated on, and I'd guess very few get smacked around. Maybe they need to eat more antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:20 PM
1

It honestly doesn't matter. They have the money and status to override their tendencies in either case.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 10:14 PM
2

Getting over a woman usually takes getting under several more. Keep pounding pussies. You'll get there.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 10:13 PM
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Always. Be. Escalating. A kiss on the cheek? Yea, you know in hindsight, but when it was happening, you totally pussed out. If you don't immediately present yourself to a woman as a man who is a sexual being with sexual needs and desires toward her, then you will quickly be put into a neat little box labeled "friend" and pretty much be stuck there. Flirt. Steer the conversation toward sex. If she laughs, blushes, is receptive then continue. If she freezes you out or gets uncomfortable, pack up a…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 09:57 PM
2

In what way does she "kill your frame"? If it's just a case of her steamrolling you then don't hang out with her. Keep your interactions separate from her and when you're in a group with her just do your own thing.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 09:49 PM
2

As opposed to all the songs sung by popular male singers about how they can't fucking live without their "one and only" woman. Seriously, listen to the male singers on any popular radio channel and try not to throw up in your mouth. If it weren't for these guys' status and money, they would be the most un-sexed guys out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 09:44 PM
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Keep a money belt on you. You can find these in most places that sell luggage or items for travel. Getting pick-pocketed or shaken down is no fun and it can happen, especially in poorer countries or if you find yourself in the wrong neighborhood or partying with shady people.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:01 PM
1

Read this book. You are a classic "Nice Guy" and because of that, you are neither happy, nor respected. Start doing things for YOU.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 08:44 PM
3

If she gets preggers, you had better ask for a paternity test. But before that happens, you need to next her. She's being shady as fuck.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 08:31 PM
2

We don't know if infidelity is even a factor in those divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 08:19 PM
3

You have a backbone. Use it to not bend to pressure others will try to exert on you. You have muscles. Flex them to get what you want. You have priorities, and chauffeuring the ex isn't one of them. Just don't back down and stick to your guns.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 08:23 PM
0

Congrats on not drugging it up anymore. Besides the obvious pitfalls (prison, bad decision making etc.) you choose to not be a slave to your impulses, and that's a huge step. A lot of your old friends are crabs in a bucket - rather than congratulate your success, it's easier for them to pull you down into the bucket, because your success only serves as a contrast to their own weaknesses. You're going to have to change your scene and start over again with new friends. Decide where you want to tak…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 08:19 PM
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I am the funny guy with zero fucks given who keeps things sexual and flirty, and women eat that shit up. My personality is my strongest feature, and I have mastered the art of making women smile, blush or die laughing. If you make her feel awesome, she will associate you with those good feels. I'd hook 'em, reel them in and they always wanted more. As a side benefit, the 'fun guy' isn't a long-term option. He's more like the "it just kind of happened" guy that women can rationalize having sex wi…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 08:10 PM
3

Honestly, it depends on your face, your teeth and your style. Think of actors. Robert De Niro has that smirk. Same with Colin Farrell. James Franco has that full-on cheese grin and so does Tom Cruise. Sylvester Stallone kind of does the half-smile thing. Practice in a mirror and decide which works best for you. Watch stand-up comedy clips on Youtube or go to a comedy club and allow yourself to let loose and laugh. Remember: Girls Just Want To Have Fun isn't just a cheesy 80's song - it's the fem…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 08:02 PM
0

That would mean women would have to be held responsible for their actions, so it would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 07:28 PM
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So women have no agency or ability to control themselves while drunk, and are powerless victims who are acted upon, having things "done to them", rather than participating in the sexual acts willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 07:26 PM
1

Never lead with your wallet. If you're trying to impress a girl, you're doing it ass-backwards. The goal is to look your best, be your best and make them WANT to hang out with you. Simple dates are best - invite them to your place for drinks and a movie and the possibility of hot sex. Maybe go to a bar for some karaoke, drinks etc. with the intention of ending up at your place or her place. Meet them during the day for hiking, coffee or lunch set up an evening date. Keep it simple. If you pull o…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 07:19 PM
1

The hallmark of a manipulator is to try and separate you from outside influences so they can more easily control you. I made this mistake once when a woman gave me an ultimatum and told me to choose between her or my friends. Beta me chose her, and it was an uphill battle for me to enjoy anything that didn't revolve around her. They will guilt, they will throw tantrums, they will threaten to leave and they will cause drama - all in an attempt to lock you down and shut you in. It could just be he…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 07:13 PM
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A.K.A. Captain Save-A-Hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 06:58 PM
2

If this is happening in a professional setting, you need to call them out on it. You have to be careful how you go about it, but here are some phrases you can use: "Are you okay? Because you seem upset." Say this in an overly concerned tone. This will shift the focus onto her and if you show enough 'concern', she will feel self-conscious and stop her bitchy behavior. "I'm sorry. You seem distracted. I can take this up with somebody else if you'd like." Again, this will make her realize she's act…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:33 PM
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Drop it, but don't forget it. Let that book be a symbol - a very expensive lesson that was worth $400 to learn. The next time you feel yourself getting stupid over a girl, remember that book and it will pay for itself many times over. The lessons learned hardest are learned the best.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:14 PM
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Only if she believes his SMV is way lower, which doesn't seem to be the case - otherwise she wouldn't put in the effort. She knows what's up and so she's making herself the most appealing option for him.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:10 PM
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"I want to ask you on a date." Let's analyze that sentence. "I want to" means that while you "want" to ask them, you are not committed to it. Work on your assertiveness. Why would a woman go on a date with somebody who's not confident? A better thing to do is be direct: "Here's my phone. Put your number in." - or - "Give me your phone. Here's my number" - or simply "Give me your number". If you act nonchalant about it, so will they. If you act like you're asking your favorite actor for their aut…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:05 PM
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I somewhat agree. Dread does work though, but it shouldn't be used lightly or over-used for it's own sake. My marriage actually became stronger after I told my wife I was talking to another woman whom I considered leaving her for. That was thermonuclear dread, and it forced her to realize that if she couldn't appreciate me, other women could, and as a result, my marriage has never been better - but it could have gone the other way. A married guy swallowing the pill and improving himself will ins…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/15 05:49 PM
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This is awesome! She's taking your cue and working on herself. She's showing that she is capable of changing for the better and making herself worthy of you. Remember: reward good behavior and punish negative behavior by withdrawing your attention. Compliment her and let her know that you notice her improvements and you approve. Take her out on a date. Way to captain that ship!
/r/askTRP18/04/15 05:36 PM
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Like I said... women aren't sticking to the commitment. Nobody's perfect, and a marriage means putting up with your spouse's bad qualities. Are you saying that men are the only ones with all those bad qualities and that's why +70% of divorces are filed by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 05:28 PM
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It's self-explanatory. It's a way of pumping yourself up, psyching yourself out and redirecting your energy. Let's say you have to go to a company function where there will be food and entertainment, but it's still a company function. You can moan and groan like most people there and count the minutes until it's over. As an outcome independent person, you would decide to have a good time, enjoy the free food and entertainment and get all you can out of the experience. Your friends invite you to …
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:41 AM
2

Owen Wilson? Is that you? You bulk up and fucking own that nose! The women you're with will feel safe knowing they're with a killing machine that's not afraid to take it in the face. Or at least that's the image you can project. Also, a neck tattoo would go nicely with that nose.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 11:07 PM
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Next time, make sure she services you first before you oblige her. She got what she wanted, then bailed on you - you can expect more of this behavior unless you change it.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 10:59 PM
1

You're being pulled into orbit. You're giving her attention on social media and in public, but she's not giving up the goods to you. You're spending without getting any returns on your investment (time, energy, validation).
/r/askTRP16/04/15 10:47 PM
1

She's your coworker. You guys had a good thing going, but she saw you becoming too invested, and she was right. After that, it wasn't "fun and casual" for her, so she downgraded you from a plate to a friend. There is no "recovering" from that tailspin, because it resulted in a crash and the wreckage is strewn all over the damn place. What you need to do is be cordial and polite to her at work, but not indulge her or hang out with her. Be "busy" and find things to do, rather than spending time ta…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 10:12 PM
1

The usual answer is bars / clubs / social events, because that's where women go when they are looking for somebody. But approach everywhere, even if it's just for small talk and idle chat, just to keep your skills sharp. If they are receptive, then escalate and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 09:34 PM
1

Not really. Women can't divorce-rape themselves, so that takes most of the fun out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 11:57 PM
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Why would you ever contact her again? Lose her number, her email address and don't answer her attempts to contact you. Ghost her. If anybody deserves it, it would be a girl that has no problem using that level of manipulation to get her homework done for her.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:55 PM
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It is what you make of it. If you see yourself as an incel with shit DNA, then that's all you'll ever aspire to be, and you'll never see yourself as deserving anything better. You won't set and accomplish goals and you won't get to experience success. The worst part? Nobody cares. The reason nobody cares is because you're a nobody - you said it yourself. But if one were to push himself to be a successful businessman or artist or musician, then yea - people WOULD care, because he would have built…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:51 PM
1

Yup. You get what you pay for. First choice should be a Fleshlight anyway.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 11:47 PM
5

Read This. Then read the rest of the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:34 PM
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Steve Buscemi? Rowan Atkinson (Mr. Bean)? Danny DeVito? Rodney Dangerfield? Sure, these guys are all actors, but they all started somewhere and busted their asses to get where they are, and they have all made it to the upper percentile. What you're forgetting is that looks are only part of what will get you to the top. Personality, success and resources (money, assets etc) are also HUGE drawing factors. If you lack in one area, then excel in the other areas. It's like that old saying: "Grant me …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:32 PM
1

In that case, your purchase will be even more expensive if you have to dish out for a motel room. If the expense isn't an issue, then first pick your girl, then negotiate the location and price. She's providing you the service, so you'll be covering all the expenses - that's how it works.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 11:16 PM
1

Brevity. I'm a long-winded sonofabitch, and even I thought that your post could have been easily quartered. Paragraphs. Shorten that shit down into bite-sized chunks so we don't go cross-eyed. You're infatuated. It's puppy love. She is your ideal, but this is because of Scarcity Mentality - you don't have any better options to compare her to because you don't put yourself out there enough, so the more time you spend around her, the more you build her up in your mind. Knock her off that pedestal.…
/r/askTRP15/04/15 11:10 PM
1

If all you want is a woman to empty your nuts into, then an escort is ideal. You'll get what you pay for, she'll do the job well and you won't have to worry about being distracted by an emotional bond afterward. Do some research and find out where to find escorts in your area - from what I understand, there are forums and websites that rank and review escorts by city, but I wouldn't know where to look for those resources. Use the right tool for the right job. You don't need to be twisted up with…
/r/askTRP15/04/15 11:00 PM
1

This is how nature works: males compete and females select their best available option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 10:19 PM
4

Say Yes To The Dress is actually porn for women. Women want to get married, but men want to stay married. +70% of divorces are filed by the wife, so I'd say that marriage isn't something that men should consider, since their prospective wives aren't sticking to the commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 09:39 PM
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To be fair, he did say "flirting", not "gaming". I'm married and it feels good to flex the flirt muscles now and again, to make sure I've still got it. Does it mean I'm out chasing pussy? No. I actually value my marriage. But it does mean that I'm still a man who likes female attention, so I sure as hell will flirt with a woman who's receptive. I know they see my ring. They still oblige, and it's harmless. They get some male attention and I get to keep my conversational skills sharp.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 09:32 PM
2

It's the built-in dread that "become a better man" entails, because she didn't hear "become a better man for our family", she just heard the first part. Naturally, her hamster will assume that once you become a better man, you'll naturally want a better woman. That's part of the reason for introducing TRP slowly - too much, too soon and it feels to her like you're moving on and leaving her behind. Since we married guys have to approach the RP from a softer angle of attack, it's also a good idea …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 09:27 PM
2

Think of it in terms of what works and what doesn't work. Narcissists get what they want - that shit works. But your question is, does the means justify the ends? Does it pay to be the kind of person that gets what they want, no matter who's toes or backs they have to step on? I will ask you this: what's the alternative? Like it or not, we are still animals in nature, and nature favors the strong. The sick and weak animals of the herd are culled and left for the wolves, while the young are prote…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 08:26 PM
1

Monk mode is basically saying "fuck this shit, I'm going to go and focus on myself instead of chase pussy." It's the equivalent of going to the mountains to meditate, except the trip isn't a literal one, but a mental one. During monk mode, you train your body, you cultivate your social skills and connections and you focus on the things you need to do to better yourself. This is the time to learn new hobbies, skills or improve your job situation. This is the time to push yourself toward being the…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 08:05 PM
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Your response depends on the woman who's asking and what she means to you. If she's a girl you just met, then answer however you want. If it's a LTR or a wife, then you want to be careful with your answer because it could mean extra headaches for you if you answer wrong. "Yea, she's fucking hot - but a good body and face will only get you so far, you know what I mean?" - this answer will have the biggest punch, because women know men have no problem using a woman with a hot face and body, and wh…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 07:57 PM
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"You'll probably end up sore, satisfied and seeking more."
/r/askTRP14/04/15 07:30 PM
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You won't hurt women like that by seeking revenge, because in order to be hurt, they need to be able to accept blame. This probably won't happen, because a woman who could hamster herself into a threesome while in a relationship isn't going to take any responsibility for her actions. It wasn't her fault. You "forced" her into it. She was drunk and you took advantage. It "just happened". These are the textbook answers she will cry to her boyfriend with tears streaming down her puffy cheeks and sn…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:25 PM
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A little late to the party, but here's my explanation: AWALT - All Women Are Like That. Here at TRP we use generalizations, because most of us recognize patterns that we have read about here and also observed in our lives regarding the behavior of women we've known. Does this mean that all women will cheat? No. It means that if you don't understand how to build and maintain her attraction, there's a chance your girl could cheat, and in extreme cases, she most likely will, depending on how unsati…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:47 AM
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This is why TRP advises guys to lift - it's a wonderful stress reliever and it makes you look amazing. If you don't have exercise equipment, then golf. If you can't golf, then get a hobby or take up an activity like fishing that you can do alone to gather your thoughts and decompress. Hang out with guy friends for card night. If you don't have guy friends, go make some. If getting you out of the house and into a relaxing environment makes you less of an asshole while you adjust, then do it. But …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 03:25 PM
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So you'd prefer they not even try? I have made changes to my life for the better - as have most of us. Some stick, some don't - but if you have a bigger overall picture to work toward, you can orient your life and your goals to that end and things will change with effort, consistency and vigilance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 03:21 PM
4

Men get their satisfaction from accomplishing goals. To do this, you must first set a goal, and then strive toward it. It requires work - the harder the work, the more rewarding it feels. If my goal is to adopt different behaviors (be somebody else) and I have to work hard at it to accomplish my goal, then it is absolutely worth it in the end. Your advice is "don't try too hard to be somebody else" - but what if that is my goal? Why do you find the idea of reinventing one's self to be so foreign…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 03:15 PM
0

If you're not willing to put in the work, there will be no rewards. If you're not a fun or pleasant person to be with, nobody will want to be with you. You can't change the system, but you can change the way you operate so the system works for you, instead of against you. They way you're going, you won't find success. And it won't be women's fault, or TRP's fault - it will be your fault.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 02:53 PM
1

Personally, I prefer male friends. I have a few good female friends, but they have to meet the same criteria as my male friends: Does she demand more than she gives? If she asks me to help her move, but is "busy" whenever I need help with something, then no. I will not make myself available to her or form a friendship so I can do things for her all the time. The problem is, a lot of women I know outsource their shit to men and don't give back as much as they take, and so then it becomes a case o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 02:18 PM
1

"Well, Babe, as long as you take care of my needs, I shouldn't need to look elsewhere, right?"
/r/askTRP05/04/15 10:57 PM
1

Leave the door open for her, so to speak, but also be sure to let her know that you'd like to keep her around. But ultimately it's up to her. You're the one with all the value - she's just a nice distraction . Keep that in mind and don't let her shift the power dynamic.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 05:48 PM
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I've always said this about domestic violence. Some men do have hair triggers and are quick to violence, but those are a tiny percentage of men. Most guys can handle some shit before they snap - that's how men are built - we're made to take stress. Behind every domestic violence incident there was a woman who poked, prodded and drove a man to lose his fucking mind and beat the shit out of her. It might have been years of smoldering heat building up or it might have been ten minutes of her beatin…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 05:39 PM
1

The only frame you need to worry about breaking is yours. You misunderstand what "frame" is. Frame is your point of view and your personal outlook on things. Imagine a picture frame. Pick it up and hold it out in front of you. Look through it. You see the world through your "frame". Everybody has their own frame, some are similar to yours and some people see things very differently than you. You want to have others step into your frame, so that they can share your perspective. You can do this di…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 05:24 PM
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If she's getting fucked up in public every weekend then of course she's making bad personal decisions and getting her tuna hole blasted regularly. Wrap it up and don't LTR a party girl - they are impulsive and fickle.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:35 PM
1

Kidz Bop vol. 4 Kidding. Good classic R&B. Maxwell's Urban Hang Suite. A classic album that's sure to put 'em in the mood.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:31 PM
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As I've seen it used on TRP, it means a combination of the following: Self-centered. Women look out for number one. This isn't a bad thing - TRP advises men to prioritize themselves as well, but women go above and beyond by adding in heaps of vanity. This point is best illustrated by the sheer volume of selfies women post on social media. "Look at me! Look at what I'm doing! Aren't I pretty? I'm sad. Somebody say something nice to me!" Entitlement. Women feel they deserve special treatment and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 07:09 AM
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My God. Have some fucking self-respect, man! Read what you wrote. Read it out loud so you can visualize the scope of the colossal pedestal you put this girl on - and you haven't even fucked her. Chances are, you won't fuck her, because that ship has sailed. You had the opportunity but decided to talk to her and engage her intellectual side, not her sexual side, so that door is now closed. The best you can hope for is a oneitis beta orbiter spot, and it sounds like you're docking into position. H…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 06:09 AM
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You're not on her radar. You made yourself available, so she accepted your offer. She didn't want to make her BF jealous over a guy she doesn't know, so she hamstered you out of existence. Avoid her and other girls there. Even the ugly ones will have inflated SMV because the betas there will be starved for female attention. Just do your thing and don't do her any more favors.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 05:42 AM
1

Approach anxiety is an irrational fear that has to be overcome. The fear stems from a fear of rejection and fear of bruising your ego. The only way to get over this is to dive in face-first and take your lumps like a man. Every approach is a victory, because it means you faced down your fear and powered through it. Eventually, you'll see that there's nothing to fear. Being rejected doesn't physically hurt, and the women who reject you aren't shaming you with a bullhorn while the entire room poin…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 05:30 AM
1

Expect the worst, hope for the best and love thyself first. Sometimes you have to cut off a rotten limb to save the body. Do what you have to do.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:59 AM
2

This happens a lot and these types of posts are common on TRP. People who knew "pre-TRP" you are having cognitive dissonance and trouble coming to terms with the changes you're implementing. It's like somebody who's found religion - their old friends remember them drinking, cussing and rawdogging random bar trolls, and the clean-cut person spouting the gospel is nothing like the old them. Expect to lose some of those old friends as you outgrow them. And whatever you do, don't talk about TRP or T…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:41 AM
1

Think with your head, not with your feelings.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:27 AM
2

Keep holding frame. If it were me, I'd tell her when I saw her in person: "I like you. I enjoy our time together. But this is all I'm willing to be - I don't want a relationship right now. If that's a problem for you then I understand and I wish you all the best." You lay it all out in no uncertain terms that gives her no room for negotiation, because it's not a negotiation - you're stating your terms and she can work within the frame you've established or she can spend time with somebody else i…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:22 AM
1

I'm gonna stop you right there. I've lied to get pussy, as have most men. The truth is that women have driven up and inflated the value of pussy to record highs, and they expect the keys to your kingdom in exchange for it. They refuse to acknowledge that it's just a wet, stinky hole for me to put my dick in and that half the people on the planet have one very similar. A woman's power has always been her youth, beauty and sex. A man's power has always been his commitment - whether that commitment…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:01 AM
1

It's Feminism's™ job to focus on men's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 03:45 AM
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"Yea, yea. Just give me my fuckin' pills, eh."
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:42 AM
1

Women like valuable men. Valuable men don't give attention to many girls - only girls who "earn" the attention. If you give too much attention, you have very little value to those girls. Example: You sell fruit. Your red apples cost .50 each. Somebody else starts selling fruit across the street. He gives his apples a fancy name and charges .75 each. He sells more apples than you. Why? Because people think his apples are "special" because they are more expensive. If you care too much, too fast, y…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 03:41 AM
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Very good point. Feminists™ claim that porn objectifies women, increases likelihood of rape, instills violence in boys blah blah blah. But the gist of it all is the usual "Boys are bad. Girls are good" narrative. When women watch porn, they are "empowered to explore their sexuality". When men do it, it's considered creepy. It's all part of the man-shaming that Feminism™ is known for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 03:33 AM
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Because guys are too afraid to tell them they're shitty kissers, out of fear of losing their kissing privileges. Because women won't know what you like unless you show them what you like. Because they don't have to be good kissers. They don't even have to be good at sex, since most guys settle for lackluster duty sex anyway. Only guys who get their tingles up get the extra effort.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 03:25 AM
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You're being downvoted, but it's not your fault. You treated her like a dirty whore and she responded to it, loved it and kept coming back for more. The reason you're being downvoted is because people who haven't accepted TRP still believe that women are "better" than men, so to hear a woman enjoy being a dirty whore makes them uncomfortable, because "girls aren't like that". So they take out that uncomfortableness and turn it into downvotes because you're making them see the ugly truth: women a…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:20 AM
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FEMINIST RAPE CULTURE™ is, unfortunately, becoming a real thing. Feminists™ conceived it and are announcing it's birth by obsessing over rape to the point of fanaticism. They literally built it out of smoke and mirrors, but it's becoming as real as the prisons that hold hundreds of falsely accused men. It's their latest and greatest boogeyman to scare women into taking up their harpy cry and keep men in line while deciding our sexual futures for us. Victim blaming. Yes = Yes. Some dumb cunt atte…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:38 AM
1

If you have two men who are identical in every way, but one is financially ambitious and likes expensive things, while the other is not financially ambitious and spends very conservatively, which do you think a woman will pick? Money isn't everything, but the two things couples fight over the most are sex and money. If you have enough money, the sex will take care of itself.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 02:23 AM
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You're entering Feministland™. You can expect shit like this. The days of epic frat parties full of naked titties and raging keggers are loooong gone. Keep your head in your books and DON'T FUCK ANYBODY FROM YOUR SCHOOL. College used to be something to savor and experience, but for men it's more like a border crossing - just try to get through it without incident and hope you don't fuck up and spend time in a Mexican jail.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 01:50 AM
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You have to commit to your course of action and stick to your guns. Did you broadcast to them that you wanted sex, causing them to call you an "asshole"? Yes. Did you own it and were you unapologetic about it? No. You probably apologized or tried to defend yourself, thus failing the shit test. Women can sense commitment - they've been bred to chase it from birth. If you waver, lack confidence or don't convincingly commit to the aura you're projecting, then her alarms will trigger and the tingles…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 01:42 AM
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Her being a "plate" implies that you're not exclusive with her and it's just casual sex. If you've already had this talk with her and you invite your friend, you're also inviting her to get his number and fuck him, since she's a free agent like you and can do whatever she wants (standard plate rules). If, however, you're misusing "plate" to mean "date", then no. If you plan on being exclusive with her, then make your dates with her exclusive. She might want to make out with you in the theater an…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 01:07 AM
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That's the nice thing about "K". It can be interpreted however her hamster wants to interpret it. It could be interpreted as butthurt. Or it could be interpreted as distracted, dismissive or drunk. She will hamster that one letter every time she thinks of OP.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 12:58 AM
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Adapt and overcome using the best tool for the job. Standard shit-test techniques usually work, but don't reach for a hammer when you can do the job with tweezers. It's like they say in comedy - know your audience. When in doubt, start off easy and apply seriousness until they get the point. If agree and amplify works, then great. But if you need to use dread or go nuclear, do what you have to do, but know the risks.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 12:44 AM
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Anger phase. You're being assaulted by ulterior motives, mind games and other social maneuverings that you weren't aware of before. This is system shock. This shit flew under your radar your whole life, and now you see it everywhere. What you have to do is get to the acceptance phase. You do this by realizing that you're still part of the system whether you like it or not, and you can't fight the system. A fool tries to change the world - a wise man will instead change himself. You now see how p…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:34 AM
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Normally I'd downvote something like this, but this is solid advice in most situations.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:07 AM
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See? This pisses me off. That's what happens when a bunch of fucking Puritans go off and start a country.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 12:04 AM
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It's like my father told me: "Son, if you want to marry a virgin, you'd better pick a 5th grader and keep a close eye on her." He was joking, of course, but he wasn't. Elementary school kids are having blowjob parties nowadays. They're having sex before they know what sex is. It's disgusting and it's fucked up, but it's there. And there's no signs that things will change for the better.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 12:02 AM
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You can run, but you can't hide from Apple™, McDonalds™, The NSA or Western pop culture. The "good old days" are over, so if you want a woman who's not an entitled princess, you need to machete your way through hundreds of miles of jungle and look for some grass huts and hope they don't have wifi.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 11:58 PM
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Your value isn't high enough, so as /u/krustytheclown2 observed, you're being pulled into orbit. She likes using you to get drinks at the club and other dates, but she isn't really attracted to you so she gives just enough hints at sex to keep you interested and hanging around, but at arm's length. If she was really into you, she'd be all over you and would have pulled you into the bathroom stall at the club and sucked your dick. But you don't give her those tingles, so she keeps you around for …
/r/askTRP04/04/15 11:52 PM
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Moving up the hierarchy list with people who have you down near the bottom is an uphill battle, and you will be questioned and dismissed and have to fight for every inch of lost ground. You have to set boundaries and then reinforce and defend them. You have to sidestep, confront or rise above their challenges. A lot of guys that find TRP start to establish dominance and their old friends start seeing them as "assholes". There are frequent posts here about guys losing friends because they find TR…
/r/askTRP04/04/15 11:41 PM
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"I really enjoy our time together - and the sex is great - but this is all I'm going to be for you, so you can take it or leave it." It's best to be up front about it and not string her along. Let her know she's a fun, casual friend that you just happen to fuck and give her the option to walk. That way, if she is trying to lock down a BF and feels strongly about it, then she can put her time and energy into looking for another guy that has the same relationship goals. She may decide to walk - an…
/r/askTRP04/04/15 11:24 PM
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You guys aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend" and she ignored your texts all day long and didn't reply until 1am? Sounds like she was either out with her friends or with a dude. Best advice I can give is to downgrade her to a plate and start removing "perks" of the relationship from the menu. When she says something about you distancing yourself and just wanting to hang out for sex, then you can say something like: "You're really sweet and I like you a lot, but I'd rather just keep things casual an…
/r/askTRP04/04/15 11:04 PM
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Women shit test to see if you're the real deal, and also to try and destabilize you. Think of a child testing boundaries and rebelling against a parent. Guys do it to other guys to establish a hierarchy, whether they consciously realize it or not. Let's imagine you have a group of friends. You joke around with each other and see how close you can come to insulting them, while still keeping it friendly. Then somebody cracks a devastating mom joke and shit gets real - he crossed a line. Shit test …
/r/askTRP04/04/15 10:32 PM
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That's the spirit! But seriously, if you want a hot, submissive American girl with traditional values and a low partner count then you pretty much have to go Utah and hook up with a Mormon. The downside is they are very conservative and don't usually date outside their religion unless the guy agrees to convert. If you're not religious, this may even be in your favor, since you don't give a fuck anyway. There is a very large Mormon population in my state and the women are hot, they take care of t…
/r/askTRP04/04/15 10:17 PM
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Anything that gives men easy access to sexual pleasure is a threat to women, who's hard currency has always been their sexual appeal. Look on TwoX and other fem-centric / relationship subs and there's probably a post about some woman bitching that her husband / BF is looking at porn because she's not fucking him and she "feels hurt" that he would DARE to jerk off to those unrealistically hot women for FREE! Who the fuck does he think he is, bypassing her sex embargo like that?! Once VR porn beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 10:04 PM
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Your assburgers is a hard-wired, built-in IDGAF. It won't do you any favors though, because you can't turn it off if you wanted to. That being said, the fact that you're decent looking and financially successful should make most women ignore the fact that you don't empathize with others. If a relationship is important to you, then get one. If not, then don't. If fat, unemployed beta neckbeards can find a GF, then there's no reason you can't. You just have high standards and that's fine. Just rem…
/r/askTRP04/04/15 09:45 PM
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I second looking into whether or not OP has Ass Burgers (Aspergers) Syndrome. One of the hallmarks is an extremely low bullshit threshold caused by an inability to empathize with others.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 09:07 PM
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It's not just the promiscuity - it's the things that come with the promiscuity that you've already described, such as impulsiveness, past psychological traumas and her crazy sexual preferences. Again, as a plate (fuck buddy) she sounds like an awesome catch. But in a long-term relationship, the things that make her really fun NOW are red flags in the long run. Examples: Her finances are shit. She's bad with money, and if you LTR her, she might seize the opportunity to be bad with your money (or …
/r/askTRP02/04/15 08:10 PM
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Dude. This is exactly the kind of shit women pull. A friend of mine, who had been with his GF for 5 years decided to propose to her. They had been living together for at least three years - having sex on a regular basis and everything. What did that silly chick do? She decided it would be "a good idea" if they didn't have sex for six months until the wedding night. This was his live-in GF whom he had plowed HUNDREDS of times, but she wanted to hamster being "chaste and pure" on her wedding, so s…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 06:03 PM
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She's fun to be with, she's good in bed, so you should continue to date her - for now. Will she make a good, stable partner in the long term? Can you see her kissing your children on the lips with that mouth (assuming you want kids one day)? As /u/that_czech_dude stated, she's a decent plate (fuck buddy), but that is all the commitment you should give her. Even assuming she uses protection, with all the dick that gets thrown her way there's still a chance of her catching something and passing it…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 05:50 PM
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Turn it into something witty with a "recovery phrase" "...but that was before the accident!" "...of course, you could just douse it all with gasoline and light it on fire!" "...Whatever. I'm just trying to ignore my raging boner and deep thirst for alcohol" "...oh nevermind. My mind has been mush ever since the crazy hot monkey sex I had the other night. I might call her for a second date." Or you can dismiss it as no big deal due to something everybody can relate to "...Ah! Don't mind me. I hav…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 05:39 PM
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"Honey! Sweetie Pie! What's WRONG? Why are you upset? she crosses her arms and glares at him "NOTHING!" "Honey! That's just silly! Something's obviously bothering you! Tell me what it is so we can discuss it!" "If you don't know what you did wrong, then I'm not going to tell you! "But Sweety -" she runs into the bedroom crying and slams the door shut, locking it. Does that sound like a rational adult? I've had DOZENS of this exact same conversation with women before discovering TRP and learning …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 01:09 PM
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Consider this a blessing and not a curse. You'll be fine. You have the opportunity to be your own man and do something worthwhile and exciting now. Enjoy that shit. Pack up your bags TODAY and just leave without sticking around to witness the kangaroo court "proceedings". Fuck them. Fuck their college. Fuck their bullshit degree. Fuck their gynocentric policies.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:51 PM
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Slow your response time. Learn to think before you speak. Even in person, people will hover on your words if you take more time to express yourself with care and thought. Your words will have more weight and value.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:47 PM
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This is absolutely correct. Men are the more risk-seeking sex, and that is what has built up civilizations. The courage to try something different, to experiment and push the boundaries of safety and common sense - these are the processes that have led to the advancement of humanity. Men are the bigger risk takers. Men also have more psychopaths and geniuses. More Nobel Prize winners and more serial killers. Our pendulum arc swings wider toward the extremes, where women hover more consistently t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 12:39 PM
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Charity? That hot stripper down at the club that does that thing with her hips?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 12:31 PM
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Uh-oh! You triggered the AutoModerator! Can we get some TRIGGER WARNINGS over here?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 12:05 PM
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THE GOOD NEWS - she is "just" your fiancee and NOT your wife yet. This means that you live together, but you're not legally bound to her and you can still extract your life from hers. You wisely recognized her shitty sex drive as a sign of things to come, and you are absolutely correct. THE BAD NEWS - Leaving her is still going to be messy and traumatic. In fact, most guys choose to stay because of the Sunk Costs Fallacy. Even if you call her on her shitty behavior and she "has a breakthrough" a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 11:57 AM
1

So you DON'T have anything to discuss in regards to why you specifically dislike TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 11:29 AM
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It's not unheard of. Once in a while, a woman will chase a man. She might not be as direct or assertive as a man would, but she will still actively pursue him. Usually, though, women won't pursue. The reason women don't is because they don't have to. They're not stupid - they aren't going to lift one finger more than they have to, because "it's a man's job" to approach. Women get all up in arms and bent out of shape when "traditional gender roles" are mentioned - EXCEPT the ones that happen to b…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 04:05 AM
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PATERNITY TEST, PATERNITY TEST, PATERNITY TEST. Also, you might want a paternity test. That is, if she decides to keep it. In which case, get a fucking paternity test.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 03:50 AM
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She posted her selfie for attention. She can't control what sort of attention she attracts. There's always a chance of having the lowest common denominator being drawn into a situation, and the guy jerking off to her eyes is it. Should he be such an ass? Probably not - but like it or not, he has a right to make an ass out of himself. If you give people rights and freedoms, that should extend to all people, even the ones whom you don't think deserve it. He has a right to be an asshole, and she an…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 05:07 AM
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"Toxic", meaning "I don't agree with this"? That word is so overused: "Toxic Masculinity", "Toxic relationship", "Toxic environment" - if you find something toxic, avoid it. We don't find it to be a toxic environment for us. In fact, for many of us, TRP is a refreshing take on a narrative that society is quick to sweep under the rug, because it doesn't fit their political agenda. It's men doing what benefits them. Apparently, this is taboo in a pro-feminist society. What detractors of TRP avoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 04:46 AM
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Realize that the fear you have is irrational. Getting rejected doesn't "physically" hurt, and the person rejecting you has no "power" over you. The best way to face fear is head on - go out and get rejected again and again and again, and you'll eventually learn that it's not something to fear - it's just a normal part of the process. Do you think that successful men would be successful if they gave up after being rejected? Do you think that guys who are successful with women are successful with …
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:57 AM
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Kegels. The same muscles that control your pee flow also control your ejaculation - it all comes out the urethra (pee hole). When you flex your kegel muscles, you should feel a tightening in the core of your pelvis and in your butthole (prostate) area. By exercising these muscles, you can stop your pee flow (and cum) and resume it at will. There are tons of exercises online that you can look up. I myself have awesome dick control. I can also start and stop my pee flow at will, and that's directl…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:48 AM
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WORDS FOR YOUNG MEN TO LIVE BY - use actions, not words. You had an awesome date, then you ruined it with your mouth. We're men. We don't have the luxury of spilling our guts and feelings - those things lower our value in their eyes. Sure, they say they want to know what you're thinking and feeling - so they can use it against you later and turn your deepest fears and insecurities into a weapon when they're pissed off at you. Women are all about the "feels". You had her feels up during the aweso…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:39 AM
1

Women are ephemeral - they live in the moment. They don't want to "miss anything", so they like to keep their plans loose and open, just in case a bigger, better deal comes up. This is how you know you've properly built attraction and a woman's into you - she'll rearrange her schedule and needs to fit you in.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:32 AM
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If you reciprocate that hatred or act upon it, you're entering their frame. Let it roll off your back like water and don't waste time on them - let them waste their own energy. We've got better things to do than entertain the emotions of people who add zero value to our lives.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:28 AM
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I prefer she covers the lower half of her face with her cape, hisses and claws the air toward me, then hops on her broom, pops the clutch and disappears into the night in a puff of eye of newt smoke. But seriously, the nicest way to be let down is the "I have a boyfriend" line, because she might be lying, or she might not be - but at least she's being nice and letting you down gently instead of being rude, and she can do it in a way that makes her feel OK with it. We know women are all about the…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 12:14 AM
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TRP is about self-improvement and sexual strategy for men. If you can take anything away from this sub, it wouldn't be the same things that us men take away from it. Not only that, but this sub tells guys NOT to preach TRP, because we live in a Feminist™ society that finds our narrative threatening, since male sexual strategy is seen as "predatory" and "misogynistic", so spouting TRP propaganda will be met with skepticism and hostility. A lot of angry guys do come here. A lot of "nice guys" that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 11:45 PM
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Control your fucking self. Alcohol will open you up to a shit ton of trouble if you can't maintain. A few drinks here and there are fine, but getting stupid blind drunk is never worth it. Ever.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:28 PM
1

Yea. But I haven't gotten around to reading it yet.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:21 PM
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"Really? OH THANK GOD! I was thinking the EXACT same thing! Haha! Anyway, I'll catch you later!" And then you stop texting her. Be polite when she's hanging out with your sis, but otherwise make yourself really scarce and be "busy" if she wants to hang out. It will fuck with her head a little bit and make her wonder what about her wasn't "good enough".
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:19 PM
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You fucked up. She's gong to be banging strange cock in your living room at least twice a week. The bathroom will become a stinking cesspit of pads, tampon wrappers and hair clogging the drain and the trash and dishes will be overflowing. Get a lock on the bedroom door - a deadbolt works best. Don't loan your stuff out to her, or she will fucking claim it. Get a mini-fridge to keep in your room and don't loan her any money. Don't let her into your room to "hang out", or she will be there every n…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:00 PM
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Don't try to force the pill down people's throat - it never ends well for you. The guys that get value from this sub found their way here when: They already knew most of this stuff, but didn't have a name for it, or didn't have it all neatly laid out in one convenient place. They are tired, hurt and frustrated from seeing the same patterns play out again and again after having no success dating women. They come here curious and see that we're not the boogeymen that the rest of the internet makes…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:40 PM
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If you build a successful career, you'll be plowing hotties in their 20's when you're in your 30's and 40's.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:26 PM
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By the logic of evolutionary psychology, wouldn't a high-value woman want a male who can commit, someone who will provide for her and her children long-term, not someone who will "next" her once he gets the opportunity? This isn't really an issue. High-value women will only settle for a man of higher value. This is one reason for the shrinking dating pools and consequently, less marriages: women want a man who is of higher status - they don't date down - they prefer to date up. This is a holdove…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 10:22 PM
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Supply and demand. Thirsty men have a demand for the vagina they supply. They control the market, so they can inflate it and know that some guy out there is willing to pay their asking price.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:08 PM
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Why are we attracting like-minded people? Is it because we're all "damaged", as you say? Or are we gathering as a symptom of bigger problems? Hating us won't change the fact that we are all there because we derive some sort of value from the sub, as well as some semblance of community. Since you and others have deemed us "damaged cult members", we have no choice but to seduce your daughters, sisters, mothers and nieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 10:06 PM
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"Listen, I think you're really sweet, but I don't date girls I'm not having sex with."
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:03 PM
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I FULLY ENDORSE THIS. ICELANDIC WOMEN: IF YOU DO NOT FULLY ENDORSE THIS HOLIDAY, YOU ARE FOR THE OBJECTIFICATION OF WOMEN! (unless you're old or have ugly tits)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 08:57 AM
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You know you're sliding into beta-ness when you change your behaviors because of a woman. DON'T let her make you insecure. Keep checking your phone. Tell her who it is - or don't - but don't stop looking at your phone or feel like you need to hide your behavior from her, because that means you're reverting to beta tendencies. Women love to poke, prod, nag and guilt us into changing our behaviors to suit their agendas (a.k.a. shit testing), and whatever respect she has for you as a man is depende…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:13 AM
1

It just so happens that the standard, usual place to meet random women is a bar or club, and places like that happen to serve alcohol. Drinking is great, because it lowers inhibitions - hence the name "liquid courage". It also gives women plausible deniability "I'm not usually like this!" and gives them license to get away with shit (no surprise there). Nobody has to know you're not drinking. Ask the bar tender for a ginger ale or Sprite and keep your non-alcoholic drink in your hand and they'll…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:53 AM
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Are you people reading these things out loud? If you strive for these things in your life and only manage two or three of them, you'd bee in great shape! How are these things NEGATIVE? We are collectively raising a society of whiners and giving gold stars to the kids that eat crayons as well as the kids that actually DO GREAT. What sort of message is that sending our kids? That people will love you anyway even if you put forth zero effort? Of course parents will love their sub-par children, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 12:36 AM
1

When I was younger I time traveled a few times. I would party on Friday and wake up on Monday.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 11:13 PM
2

To expand on this, just bring more to the table than she does (that shouldn't be hard) in your study group. Hell, you could even take charge of the study group and kick ass - depending on your level of ambition.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 10:57 PM
1

The vaginas aren't always "spoiled" - they just smell that way sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 06:59 AM
2

Yup. You work on yourself. Dress nice, Work out, Pursue your favorite hobbies and complete your goals, and when you start getting shit done, women will notice "Wow. He sure looks like he has his shit together!"
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:37 AM
8

All you guys with twitter accounts should start posting pictures of cow udders. Mooo!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:57 AM
4

Women control the flow of sex. They have the vaginas that men want. Their strategy is to maximize their returns with as little expenditure of sex and energy as possible. They control the supply, men create the demand. They are used to having the upper hand - this is where TRP strategy fucks it all up for them - we create value that is independent of them and their vaginas.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:55 AM
20

Correct! This is EXTREMELY exclusionary to the blind! Shitlord sight-privileged bigots!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:51 AM
24

Your triggers are triggering me! Then, all around the world, triggers were triggered, in what was known as "The Great Culling", in which every sensitive, special feminist snowflake and person who identified with a "unique" gender that everybody was afraid to call bullshit on spontaneously mega-triggered, causing their realities to implode. Millions of people ceased to exist, as they quantum triggered in a chain reaction that signaled the return of The Patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:47 AM
37

"Can we not talk? Voices trigger me!" This needs to be mentioned at the next Feminist™ rally.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:08 AM
1

A lot of us guys that come here are married (myself included) and good or bad, we try to make it work in our favor. Swallowing the pill certainly helps us navigate as captains of the ship - and I also agree that marriage is a high-risk proposition with decreasing benefit to men, but it's not the death sentence a lot of guys here make it out to be. Marriage is compromise after compromise. It's a ton of work. You can't just leave when things get hard, and if and when it crashes in flames, you will…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:57 AM
1

Figure out a way to get him here and reading the material. "Wow, I thought these guys were scum when I first saw this sub, but after reading, they REALLY know what they're talking about!" Or however you get him on your side about things.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:45 AM
2

Boy, that would be nice! If people looked out for others and "prevented" their needless suffering, rape, assault, theft etc., then that means that women wouldn't NEED to pay attention to how much they drink, where they walk at night or who's van they get into (not that they do anyway)! It's sad that "personal responsibility" can't even be uttered in a rape thread without somebody crying "victim blaming!" If I walk out of my house and don't close my front door, it's not my fault when I get robbed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 09:27 AM
6

It doesn't matter - that person is dead. All that matters is how the eulogy makes the ones they left behind feel. Talk up the deceases, omit their bad habits and character flaws and make up something about how they taught you X and how you learned the value of Y directly from them while they graced the earth with their presence.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:57 AM
10

Traditional Mexican girls will stand by their man. I know this because I'm Hispanic and our women take care of their men. She sounds like she would make an ideal wife and mother, but she's not the slut in bed that you crave. This is partly your fault for not "training" her to please you, but either way, if you're tired of her and the relationship is stale and you prioritize sex over loyalty, then ditch her and move on. You won't find a unicorn, and she certainly is not one. Have you ever heard t…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 08:26 AM
2

Will it be fun? For sure. Is it the big deal that people make it out to be? It's OK. It's a bigger deal for girls, because it's almost like a mini-wedding - and we all know how much women fucking love their weddings! They get to pick out an expensive dress they'll only wear once (like a wedding), be picked up by a guy in a tux or suit (like a wedding), and will be able to dance all night and show off in front of all their friends (like a wedding). High School is a big deal right now, but only be…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 07:38 AM
5

You have "Scarcity Mentality". This is when a man is so starved for attention, that he jealously latches on to any woman who gives him attention and affection. Just like a dog that's starved for attention, you go to ridiculous lengths to try to keep that attention coming, because you don't feel like you're able to do any better. That, and you don't feel like you deserve better, because your skills are so weak. Well, you're RIGHT! You don't deserve better, and you can't do any better. Not until y…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 07:25 AM
4

ITT: The narrative on men's sexuality depends on the use of HOOKERS. Nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 11:37 PM
2

MEN DON'T PAY PROSTITUTES FOR "SEX" -THEY PAY THEM TO LEAVE WHEN THEY'RE DONE WITH THEM!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 11:34 PM
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As long as men allow women to use sex to control men, they will. Women will only get away with what we let them get away with. If a man displays high value and isn't phased by her withholding sex, that's one less tool she can use to control him. If she thinks he has other options and believes he will drop her if sex becomes a weapon, then she will use other means to appeal to him - like communicating like an adult. Women have always been the gatekeepers of sex, but sex isn't everything, and a hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 11:30 PM
2

I came here to say this. They will break you down, build you up and teach you discipline. You'll also be provided for while you're transformed from your current state into a lean, mean fighting machine. It's also free - they are more than happy to train you. You might like it enough to go career, or at least take advantage of the opportunity to further your education through them.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 11:21 PM
1

Thanks! I'd be stoked if that happened.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:44 PM
5

My main account has been banned from several subs for the same reason - douchenozzles dug through my post history (even in subs where TRP had zero bearing or relevance), and rounded up the lynch mob to downvote me into oblivion - "WE'VE GOT A TERPER! STRING HIM UP!" In fact, that's what my account name means - feminazis were actually stalking me. An alt TRP account will insulate you from the backlash and blind hatred people have for this sub.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:32 PM
4

You have been banned from /r/Pyonyang.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:27 PM
1

I am subscribed to TRP. I am part of the community. I am recognizing males as victims too. By the authority vested in me, by me, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 10:01 PM
1

Use your eyes and ears. How many male rape victims are fought for (because more males are raped in prisons than women in the US). How many domestic abuse programs are there for men, compared to women? Are there abused men's shelters? No. But there are women's shelters everywhere. What percentage of homeless are men, compared to women? Why aren't there more programs? What is the ratio of male to female suicides? Why isn't there something being done about this? Why are there more women than men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 04:06 PM
1

TRP acknowledges men are victims too - feminism™ does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 03:52 PM
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Call me a liar, or call me crazy, but I have seen first-hand how treating women like children fucking works! My mother is very domineering and just all over the place - she can never decide what she wants and she changes her mind like the wind changes direction. By talking in an exaggerated voice, lavishing compliments and using an authoritative tone like a father speaking to a daughter, I have been able to play my mother like a fiddle and get her to go along with whatever I say. This is a woman…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:32 PM
6

you mean the system that worked for hundreds of thousands of years (or four thousand years according to religious fundamentalists LOL)? Feminists like to point out how women were "repressed" and "kept in the kitchen" since the dawn of time. I prefer to think of it as "protected" and "valued as mothers to our children". Historically, there has never been a more powerful, more sacred role than that of "mother". Men didn't exactly have a picnic of things - we did the heavy lifting, the hunting and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 03:18 PM
3

TRP is "amoral". If you want to be a dark triad super-villain of epic proportions, then go for it. As long as you educate yourself and understand and accept the risks involved in a particular course of action, why the fuck not? You're a man. Forge your own path.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:08 PM
1

Play to your strengths and work on your weaknesses - I can dig it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:04 PM
4

There isn't really a "call to promiscuity" here - that's just what a lot of guys want to use TRP to achieve. A lot of guys are confused by that, and feel this is what the sub is about, but it's really about sexual strategy. Whether you use sexual strategy to navigate a female-dominated work environment, game chicks or improve your LTR or marriage is up to you, but at the core is understanding women, what they respond to and how they operate. Again, the knowledge is there, and it's up to us to ta…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:02 PM
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This is a place that speaks truth in a world full of lies. Men come here and are amazed to find a community where their own experiences are echoed and they can't help but be swept up and feel passionate about it. They can get carried away with this new found bastion of knowledge. Hopefully they will calm down as they learn and grow.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:49 PM
3

You have oneitis. Do what you need to do to for the betterment of your situation.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:41 PM
3

There is something here that could benefit any man. Some of it is hard to digest at first, and takes time to internalize - that's what leads to the different phases when swallowing the pill. Eventually, if the pill is swallowed, these truths become evident as men move forward.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:31 PM
2

We're like Israel - surrounded on all sides by enemies that would love to see us implode or be wiped off the map. We need to be vigilant to keep some modicum of quality and keep the trolls out.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:26 PM
3

Right? I wouldn't worry about that, though - there's just too much good shit here. When I first stumbled upon this sub (I was directed here by an angry feminist in a relationship sub), I was floored by all the posts that talked about shit I had seen with my own eyes. It struck a resonating chord in me, and that's just how this place is - the light bulb turns on when men come here.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:03 PM
2

NEVER SHOW MAJOR WEAKNESS IN FRONT OF A WOMAN. Nothing dries up a pussy faster than a man blubbering like a baby. Women say they want a "sensitive man" - when they say this, they are FUCKING LYING. You're job is to be her rock. She doesn't want you flipping your emotional purse over and dumping your problems at her feet - that's her job. You need to be the reef that she can break her emotional waves upon. You need to be the strong one in a relationship. Now that the damage is done, you're in tro…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:38 PM
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I can't even pity women who sequester themselves in these cocoons of artificial reality-suspending feels. They truly live in their own tiny little worlds - the hamster is strong with them. "The Titanic isn't sinking! My side of the boat just rose 200 feet! Ha!"
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:08 PM
1

It's not our place to shame you or try to orient your moral compass to "True North", wherever that may be. You do whatever works for you - just realize the risks of such behavior - namely the jeopardy you're putting into your main relationship. As long as you understand the risks, do what makes you happy.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:02 PM
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Good for you! There are no "unicorns" - only women with their own selfish agendas and priorities. This is why you should never prioritize them, because they aren't prioritizing you. Live for you and allow them to tag along if they behave themselves.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:56 PM
3

She sounds like a particularly difficult case, although most women will do whatever is necessary to protect and uphold their reputations - even to the point of absurdity. A woman's reputation is of the utmost importance. Sometimes they will hamster, lie and skew their world view to paint themselves as saints, even if it means they must then paint others as devils.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:51 PM
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You're right, and that's my point - TRP isn't an "ideology", and it shouldn't be treated as such. After guys "unplug", they need to "reprogram". Critical thinking is frowned upon. Society expects us to be sheep, to follow the masses and not ask questions.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:58 AM
2

The only value promiscuous women have is their promiscuity. That's it. Aside from a casual good time, they have nothing to offer. Women who are exposed to many different cocks are conditioned to seek many different cocks, and so why would you pursue anything meaningful with a woman like that? Sure, plate her. Make her your dirty little fuck bunny and be one of the guys she fucks - just wrap or double wrap it. But the minute you commit to a relationship with her, you're on the losing end of thing…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:46 AM
2

You are the gatekeeper of commitment. If you say "no", there will be no relationship. Don't let her bully, nag, whine or guilt you into changing your position - hold frame and make sure she understands that it's just casual fun and nothing more. You might also want to use your OWN condoms (not ones she supplies), dispose of them properly and use spermicidal lube to make extra sure she doesn't get knocked up. No protection = no fucking. Don't let her assurances of being on birth control dictate y…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:13 AM
5

Are you retarded? That has nothing to do with RP or BP. It's not even a choice sometimes. But the RP thing to do if you HAVE kids is to be responsible and use fatherhood as an opportunity to impart wisdom, support your kids and be a good dad.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:03 AM
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This is scarcity mentality. You're hot for your friends' mom because she's cute, she treats you well, and she shows you some affection. You're like an attention-starved dog, and she's the only one petting you. It isn't because she's "special" or "different", or even particularly "hot" - you just don't have any other options. I guarantee you, once you find a young hottie to suck your dick and lay you like you desperately need, she will quickly lose her appeal, you'll see her for the old lady she …
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:56 AM
2

Just remember that they are the same as ugly women. They bleed, they shit, they have morning breath and self-esteem issues. What used to help me talk to pretty girls when I was your age, (and this is going to sound crazy, but it worked for me. YMMV) was to imagine them on a toilet taking a smelly dump. Or imagine that they have a yeast infection and have a really smelly snatch. It humanizes them and slaps them right off the pedestal and when you can imagine them in embarrassing situations, it ma…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:36 AM
0

Bitches be cray cray.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:05 PM
1

She can keep a better eye on her competition, plus, you won't be able to fuck Ashley with your GF being all buddy-buddy. Your GF is keeping her enemy close to her, and blocking you from her at the same time. Women are master tacticians when it comes to social strategy. They don't do things without a reason.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 09:03 AM
2

The AWESOME thing about 'Plate Spinning' is that women do it just as much as men. Those girls you know who keep a few potential suitors around while she "finds herself" is spinning plates. This isn't exclusive to TRP, or even to males. Women are just as guilty of this as men, except it's not PC to shame women about their sexuality, so you shame men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 08:56 AM
2

Don't do the "long distance" thing. Just wait until you're available for a relationship and save yourself tons of time, money and heartbreak. Be young and single. Enjoy that shit. Do what you want to do, and don't worry about the pussy that you're not getting, because that pussy isn't going to make you the man that you want to be - your experiences and your knowledge will. Don't let a woman define who you are.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:52 AM
0

This right fucking HERE! People are so quick to fall down and cry foul when their delicate sensibilities and world views are challenged. God forbid they actually grow skin thick enough to not let anonymous strangers on the internet ruin their fucking day. Boo hoo. Bunch of bleedy cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 08:42 AM
3

This. It works, and people are PISSED that it works. So let them be pissed while men use TRP and have success with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 08:21 AM
1

I read somewhere there was "fifty shades" of grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 08:20 AM
15

Nice downvotes, and way to illustrate that abuse of men is accepted as being "OK" in society. Only women can suffer "abuse", apparently. Men are not allowed to be victims!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 08:07 AM
0

She's either fucking you, or you're her orbiter.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 08:36 AM
3

Abundance mentality. You're the prize, not them - so fucking act like it! You already went there, and it didn't work out. You got sloppy, you fucked things up and here you are. So now what? If you beg for her back, she's not going to want you - and if, by some chance she does want you back, she'll know she has the upper hand in the relationship, and it will fall to shit anyway. You're done here. You can't un-fuck it. The best thing to do is to move on, have fun and let her see you doing it. Keep…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 08:30 AM
3

Kegels. The same muscles that let you hold back your pee flow are the SAME muscles that can hold back your wad, if you exercise and train them. There are a lot of exercises online that you can find. I myself am able to completely cut off my urine flow at any time, and then release it again - now THAT'S dick control, and it has worked in my favor for years. Practice squeezing and holding those muscles. You'll feel it in your prostate, deep in the core of your pelvis. Squeeze and hold. Squeeze and…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 08:18 AM
1

A "plate" is basically a fuckbuddy that is around for your convenience and nothing more, for whatever reasons you have. If you wanted to upgrade a plate to a GF, you certainly could, and there's nothing wrong with that - it's whatever you want. That being said, if you start doing "couples" things with a plate and start treating a fuckbuddy like a "date", then you blur the line between "casual" and "committed". You want your situation with your plates to be understood, and you certainly don't wan…
/r/askTRP21/03/15 12:05 AM
1

I added in the, "No cheating or divorce" because that is probably the ideal relationship for a women You need to research how often women file divorce compared to men, and then you will see how much women "hate" divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 11:55 PM
1

Nice. Real helpful.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:32 PM
1

Leave. There are other hostels in your city, I assume? Find a more pleasant atmosphere and have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:00 PM
1

Find out what you WANT to do. If money isn't a big deal to you, try working in a trade, like carpentry or mechanics. Don't limit yourself to the box you've put yourself in.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:55 PM
1

Growing a sense of humor is the BEST thing you can do, personality wise, to be successful with women. A sense of humor gives you a few things: It gives you an "out" whenever you cross a line. You can say damn near anything in the name of humor, and if you can attach an "I'm joking!" or a "ha! not really! I'm just playing!" to it, and then make them laugh afterward, all is forgiven and forgotten. "Girls just wanna have fun!" If you present yourself as the most insane, over-the-top Fun Machine the…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:50 PM
2

You did good. Don't argue with women - especially when they're itching for a fight or poking the bear. Women are kung-fu masters of arguing, and when you participate, you're stepping into her dojo. She doesn't need "logic" to kick your ass, and she sure as hell won't fight fair or stick to the rules - it will be below-the-belt hits to your man-peaches and there's no referee to pull her off of you. You can't fight her "feelz" with your "realz" (logic), so side step them, as you did here, or deal …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 10:28 PM
1

Sounds like you're still in the habit of putting women on a pedestal too. Stop it. Pretty girls are people too. They bleed, shit, have morning breath and have just as many flaws and twice the self-esteem issues we do. She didn't have to earn her looks - she was born with them. It has no bearing on her personality, her mental stability or her mental capacity - she could be dumb as a box of rocks, or a total sociopath. If she's cute, and you want to get to know her or fuck her, you talk to her lik…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:04 PM
0

As you ramp up your fitness and more women notice you, she'll feel the dread and start to desire you too - women want men that other women want. Once she sees women flirt with you in public, her sex drive will "magically" appear. You can help this along by being "nice" to women when you go out. You can even be a little bit flirty, and if she calls you on it, say "WHAT? I was just being NICE!" and play it off. Let her see the fun, playful guy that women like to talk to - it will speed things up.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:54 PM
-1

Those are all definitely sketchy rape scenarios, and I would love for somebody to say otherwise. Post the conversation you had with this "redpiller". I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:36 PM
5

Wait a few days, not a few WEEKS. If you text her immediately after the date, and a dozen times a day, every day after that, you will be thrown into her beta orbit or you'll disgust her enough that she'll block you. What you're doing is the complete OPPOSITE - you're showing so little interest by waiting so long, that they move on. You can't do that - women have ZERO problems getting another date, so you have to strike while the iron is still hot, because after a few days, she's already looking …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:33 PM
3

I am a father, and I can only tell you that when you have kids, you will only want the best for them. The problem is that he can see that you don't have the ambition that he did, and therefore you don't look like you will have the same success he did, and that is either a cause of worry for him, or a blow to his ego as a successful man who wants an heir to his empire. Regardless, it sounds like the only way he knows how to try to motivate you is to try to shame you into fighting back and "growin…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:28 PM
1

College is becoming toxic to men. It's becoming an increasingly hostile environment as females are outnumbering males. Feminist Rape Culture™ is reason enough to keep me away from college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:21 PM
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People come here curious, then they stick around and read, and then they become angry. But if they can work through that, then comes understanding and acceptance. Women are different, not bad. I can use my new knowledge to game women, or I can use it to improve myself and get what I want out of relationships and interactions with others. Before a man can build himself up, he must be broken down, and that's how TRP knowledge is - the weight and scope of it crushes a man and when he's laying in pi…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:13 PM
9

This is why you need a separate account for TRP. My main account was banned from several subs for just being associated with TRP. The same thing happened - my voice wasn't going along with the rest of the echo chamber and I was outed when they went through my post history. "We got a Terper! Downvote this misogynistic scum bag!" Was the alarm cry, and so I had to make this account. Because feminazis were stalking me from sub to sub. It's ridiculous - who the fuck does that? It's like our posts ar…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:00 PM
1

I'd rather be happy at a low-paying job than stressed-out at a high paying job. Men don't need much to survive and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 08:22 PM
2

Ditching the people in your life that enable / supply you will be a huge step, as well as NOT going around places where you are likely to score / use drugs and / or alcohol. Change your routine around too - get hobbies or join activities that keep you busy and away from those substances. You need to unplug yourself completely from those people and that scene if you want a chance at recovery - even relocating would help.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:18 AM
3

EXACTLY! Make no apologies for who or what you are, and women will allow you to BE that guy.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:19 AM
1

I agree with this 100%. My main account was harassed and shadow-banned from several subs simply because I posted on TRP subs. People would actually DIG THROUGH my comment history and be like "HEY GUYS! I FOUND A TERPER! DOWNVOTE BRIGADE - ENGAGED!" and poof! I'd be downvoted into oblivion and shadow-banned from that sub. This happened REPEATEDLY, and so I made this account - because feminazis were LITERALLY stalking me. Heed his advice and have an alt account just for TRP subs.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:15 AM
2

If you have a CLEAR career path fixed in your sights that requires college, then sure! Go for it! BUT... if you're just going to college because that's what people are supposed to do after High School, then I would argue that men should take time out after HS and consider a trade or a technical school instead, since the country is flooded with out of work college graduates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 06:09 AM
2

/u/burritohead has it right. Text to set up logistics, then leave it up to her to reply. Don't bother texting her when she's on her trip - she'll be busy, and you'd just be setting yourself up as a beta orbiter, throwing attention at her like a desperate fool. Wait until she gets BACK from her trip, and THEN try setting up a meet.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:49 AM
2

Hell no. Read the article. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 05:43 AM
5

You honestly don't want to know. It will gross you out how much cock the average decent looking chick gets slammed with. It's not useful information, and she's not likely to tell you the truth, because for her to utter the number out loud would be enough to actually invoke and summon a demon from hell right in front of her, which will then need to be exorcised or destroyed. Are you an experienced demon hunter? Do you keep holy oil and incense and know the Latin mass? No? Then be careful. Asking …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:42 AM
-1

Seriously, this is why guys should absolutely NOT go to college. Rape hysteria is rampant on college campuses, and women are being taught to be victims of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 05:16 AM
3

Use cocky / funny approaches - "All I ever end up with are women that just want to use me for my body!" "RIGHT? Being in demand is SO tiring! That's why it's nice to just take it easy sometimes, you know?" "I just use the pretty girls to protect me from the hordes of ugly girls that stalk me"
/r/askTRP20/03/15 04:46 AM
1

Dropping her isn't an option as we both have way too much invested, but commitment seems damn near impossible, and I just want an end to this shit that doesn't involve me having to scrap my work and move on with my life Sounds like a case of "Sunk Cost Fallacy". Give it a read.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 07:57 PM
1

TRP is a place where men can openly compare notes and discuss sexual strategy and self-improvement in an uncensored environment. We recognize that men and women are different, and have different mating strategies.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:08 AM
1

Right? And there would be TWICE the demand for buildings and faculty! It would stimulate the job market!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 06:06 AM
3

Go back to your alpha ways and give her a bit of space - don't go plowing pussy just because you feel you need to - but be busy with friends or activities for a day or two and let her sort out how she feels about what you said. Since you DID say it, you SHOULD own it. Don't make a big deal out of it and neither will she. Show her that you won't get all heavy and serious on her, ruining her tingles and fun in the process.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:02 AM
0

Too bad. Segregated colleges would make things SO much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:56 AM
2

BRAVO! That was very eloquently put, and explains it perfectly. Look no further, folks! THIS is the answer! We're all done here!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:54 AM
7

Segregated colleges should be brought back! There are only a handful of men's colleges left in the US, but there are a few DOZEN women's colleges. Colleges should be segregated, so that women can be safe, and men won't have to deal with women. Everybody wins!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:38 AM
1

I will concede your point - that sometimes you can appeal to their logic - but if she's too hopped up on hormones or too invested in the argument, she might not be swayed so easily. I find it's best to avoid unnecessary arguments completely, when possible.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:25 AM
1

She will test boundaries, push your buttons and try to shit test you whenever she can. Just remember that you're the man, and she will only get away with what you allow her to get away with. You're the prize, not her.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 12:56 AM
0

After hearing how shitty college girls are, and how Feminists are trying to make Rape Culture™ a real thing by bitching about it until it's recognized as real, would you really want to bang college girls? You'd have better luck working on your game outside of the college environment. Go clubbing or partying off campus.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:08 PM
25

A shit test is anything that puts you on the defensive or forces you to react to her. This is her probing for weaknesses in your armor and trying to rattle your frame. Some shit tests can be subtle and wear you down over time, and some can be like a sledge hammer blow to the face. Included in this category are also "fit tests". Shit tests are meant to rattle your frame and test your boundaries, much like an unruly child tests their parents - she's looking for you to be strong, hold frame and put…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 10:54 PM
-6

Touch her. You are entitled to her body. It's your toy for you to play with and enjoy. Assume this right as early as possible, beginning with benign physical contact and quickly escalating. It's her responsibility to protect herself from unwanted physical affection, not yours to guess how much affection she is comfortable with. Her restricting your access is funny, always. Acting butt-hurt about being rejected is tremendously unattractive. (+956 upvotes) EXACTLY! She's capable of drawing the lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 10:33 PM
4

Hamster's gonna hamst, Feminism™ will make victims out of all women and this shit will continue until guys like her boyfriend start to distance themselves from these crazies.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:48 PM
0

Examples? I'd love to see the post that says "GO OUT AND RAPE SOME GIRLS!" But of course there isn't one. And if there was one, the TRP community would be all over their ass for it. What you are referring to is Last Minute Resistance, and advice given to overcome it. This is done very delicately and it is always advised to use caution and common sense when trying to convince a girl who's having second thoughts. Sometimes, a guy just has to respect her wishes and move on - we get it. We know this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 09:30 PM
1

Work within your comfort zone and social boundaries. What might work in Europe or America won't work in other places, either because the culture is so different, or because you will do more harm to yourself than good. If you're living in an Asian country where there are social consequences for spinning plates or running heavy game, then do what you can get away with. If you are living in America or Europe, then you're just making excuses and limiting your potential. Your "traditional" culture is…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:22 PM
0

Rape is whatever women say it is. Rape used to mean forcibly taking sex from somebody with violence or the threat of violence, but nowadays, rape can literally be anything, because Feminism™ has broadened the definition so that more women can feel victimized. Did you cheat on your boyfriend with some guy and you're afraid he'll find out? Just say he raped you! Problem solved, because it wasn't YOUR fault! Did you have sex while drunk? Obviously that was rape, because you couldn't consent! So wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 09:15 PM
4

Solipsism at it's finest! She thinks she can do a better job than every parent ever, and she is hell-bent on making her daughter "perfect". What sort of monster does this? What a colossal control freak she must be, and who's considering the welfare of her daughter? That sort of pressure on that child is going to be IMMENSE! Luckily, her expectations are unrealistic, and AWALT, so her daughter will most likely sneak out of the house at night to be fingerblasted by the neighborhood hoodlum.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:04 PM
1

I felt this in High School - that was the last time I was severely depressed. I was surrounded by female friends. When I found a girl I liked, I tried to be her friend, because I was taught that with women, friendship should come before love. So I got to know them, then when I felt the time was right to ask them out, I got the "but you're such a good friend! I can't!" or "Some day you'll make some girl SOOOOO happy!" or "Let's just be friends!". It was crushing. I was surrounded by girls I wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 08:36 PM
3

Why be with a woman who won't give you sex? Women trivialize sex - men don't. Once women are willing and able to process and recognize that teeny little fact, they could avoid SO much drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 08:20 PM
2

Much like "alpha" and "beta", depression should be seen as a spectrum, rather than a check list - people have those tendencies in varying shades and saturation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 08:14 PM
1

Tom Hanks the quintessential nice guy. He is universally seen and recognized as a good person, therefore, people have nothing bad to say about him. He keeps his reputation clean, he avoids the front page of the tabloids and he doesn't rub people the wrong way like a lot of celebrities tend to do. Throw in the fact that he's not bad looking, has a hugely successful career, and is filthy rich - yea. He's well-liked. Make no mistake, though - he could have made a sharp turn to rated R slasher films…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 08:09 PM
0

It sounds to me like you're caught up in the Feminist Rape Culture™. This is not the world that the rest of us live in. Rape is defined as forcing somebody to have sex against their will. Does that sound enjoyable to you? Because it sure as hell sounds awful to me. We agree that rape is dehumanizing and committed by savages with no self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 07:53 PM
2

Rape is never advocated. It's much easier to drop a girl and move on to the next, rather than commit an act of brutal violence against them and risk incarceration and loss of assets and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 08:44 AM
9

I threw up a little bit. Hopefully some beta throws himself on that grenade so we don't have to hear another song from her.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:36 AM
1

That's how the whole import-service immigrant culture is - she's most likely married, but took a job in the middle east to send home money to her family. It's a hard life, being away from her family, and she needs to fuck somebody, so it might as well be you, right? She knows you won't leave your wife for the maid, so she'll be cool as long as you don't get oneitis for her or knock her up. Go for it. Pound that tuna.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:38 PM
2

You will be undermined by the Head Coach no matter what you do. She'll consider anything you say as "talking down to her because she's a woman". Also, those ungrateful little brats have been taught that it's OK to disrespect the male coaches, so don't expect any help there. It sounds like your options are to quit and coach somewhere where your input is valued, or let the Head Coach call all the shots and go by whatever she says. You won't be able to reason with them, so find another way to get t…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 11:36 PM
1

She's trying to pull you into orbit.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:28 PM
1

She got what she wanted. If she wants more, she'll come to you. If you want more, get more. Just remember that relationships will betafy you if you're not vigilant.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:21 PM
5

Take it out in trade... with his daughter.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:18 PM
6

Without strong shoulders, an infantry marine wouldn't be able to carry +50 pounds of gear and engage in a prolonged firefight where they have to shoot and lob grenades for extended periods. They want the best of the best, not "the best in everything but physical fitness". If you can't pull your weight, you will either get killed, or get your fellow soldiers killed as they try to pick up your slack. Perhaps, as you described, there should be jobs where the bars are lowered - like drone pilots tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 03:37 PM
2

The Red Pill is a place where men can discuss sexual strategy in an unrestricted, unfiltered environment. Living in a pro-feminist society, this is highly controversial, since male strategy is often seen as "predatory" and "misogynistic". The Blue Pill is a sub devoted entirely to mocking and ridiculing TRP. PPD is irrelevant. It exists solely so that TRP members and their detractors (TBP) can argue under the guise of debate. But yea. It is kind of fun, and sometimes there are good points raised…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 03:10 PM
7

We could do with a few billion less people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 03:00 PM
4

Whether or not it was her intention, she rattled you enough that you dropped frame. Hell - your frame SHATTERED. With one statement, you allowed her to get under your skin. She was probably attempting to be edgy or funny, but your visceral reaction to her statement is far from proportionate to the statement itself. Work on thickening your skin and being less vulnerable, because one day you may be forced to deal with a bona-fide manipulative master of Hamster-Fu who will not pull punches and go s…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 09:59 AM
3

If you like her being dominant, have fun with that. But remember to hold frame. By letting her be dominant, you are stepping into her frame and losing yours. Being dominant doesn't mean being a dick - it means that your will is stronger than hers, because you do as you say and you follow through.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 09:54 AM
2

Women have rights, but men have responsibilities. It's up to men to make places "safe" for women. It's up to men to correct their behavior so women are not offended. It's up to men to learn to not beat women, instead of teaching women that it's not okay to antagonize, bully and be physically abusive toward men until they snap. It's up to men to "step up" and be a "real man" when women need something from them, but she's a Strong, Independent Woman™ who does as she pleases. It's up to men to supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 09:44 AM
1

Who's advice SHOULD they follow? They were raised on the usual Feminist™ drivel: "be yourself!", "be respectful!", "put her needs first!" and guess what? It didn't work. Then they discovered TRP and something clicked. All of the dots connected. They found out WHY they were getting dumped and left behind. And the best part? IT WORKS. The sexual strategies discussed in TRP actually work. So, if they found a place where the advice WORKS, where all the other crap they were raised hearing DIDN'T work…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 09:23 AM
2

Just keep some provisions in your overnight bag. When I was single, I had a small bag in my car that contained a change of clothes, deodorant, condoms, spermicidal lube and some extra cash. I was always prepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 09:15 AM
1

There are plenty of extremely nice, polite guys at Magic The Gathering™ tournaments and comic book stores, but they aren't exactly knee-deep in women looking for the most respectful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 09:11 AM
2

I much prefer the Patrice Scale (R.I.P.) of 1 - 30. This is because an "average" woman ends up closer to the top of the scale by default, but in 1-30 scaling, she would be closer to her actual average. It's a superior scale and I have to use it from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 08:59 AM
6

The best way to NOT be in this situation is to take an active approach toward birth control. Get a vasectomy or buy your own condoms or use spermicidal lube, dispose of used condoms and semen appropriately and ask for a DNA test if pregnancy happens. There is always a chance of "Oops! I forgot to take my pill!" and you don't want to be at her mercy when it comes to pregnancy. Take matters into your own hands and keep the choice on your side of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 08:50 AM
1

TRP is like "the locker room" where guys can talk about relationships and women and bounce ideas off each other and compare notes. Not everything posted in TRP is gospel, and not every post is going to carry weight. Some of it is garbage, or comes from an angry place, but that's OK - guys are allowed to vent their frustrations there - it's part of the process of realizing you've been lied to all your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 06:49 AM
1

Women do not usually provide the same level of enjoyment / entertainment as a man's guy friends, unless there is sex involved, and most women instinctively know this. This is why women in relationships often frown upon "guy time" for their SOs - because they KNOW their men would rather enjoy their bros than sit at home, bored with her. Unless, of course, sex is involved. But when that tapers off eventually, that just leaves men LESS incentive to hang out with their women. This is what I've exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 06:46 AM
1

Traditionally, marriage was a binding agreement that people honored. There was a negative stigma for couples who got divorced, and there were no incentives for divorce like there are for today's modern women. Both parties stuck it out and saw their marriage to the end - until death parted them. Now, women just want to GET married, but men still prefer to STAY married - it's just that with a 50/50 success rate and +70% of divorces being filed by wives, men don't really have any incentives to marr…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 06:10 AM
1

First ask yourself what you want out of life. Write it all down. Make a plan. Figure out what it would take for you to get each of those things you want, then list alternate routes to that plan. It sounds like school just isn't your thing. Consider dropping college for a vocational school that teaches you trade skills like carpentry, welding or auto mechanics. Maybe you're geared more towards hands-on learning. There are a lot of options out there if you're willing to think outside the box.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 11:21 PM
3

Who said communication was off the table? Communication works GREAT! But it also has it's limitations. I prefer to demonstrate my intentions through actions, not words. And FYI, women are the undisputed masters of passive-aggressive manipulation, so I don't think we're in any danger of one-upping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 11:15 PM
1

Sounds like a good way to overcome your shyness and strengthen a weakness. But to each their own.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 10:53 PM
3

Babyface? Look at Elvis. There was no more baby-er face than his, and he got more pussy than Tampax.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 10:52 PM
2

When you think about it, BBQs and cocktail parties are kind of a lost art. Back in the 40s and 50s, people would invite their neighbors and coworkers and friends and they'd all sit around and get slushed while playing cards or horseshoes. People looked forward to hosted parties. Our grandparents partied their ASSES off on a regular basis and drank more than we ever will - they just did it in a more subdued, classier way.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 10:50 PM
1

Nope. If you want good results, you have to put in a good effort. You want people to ask "When is FarOrAMess hosting another event? That last party was AWESOME!"
/r/askTRP12/03/15 10:47 PM
2

You might need to take her on a dungeon run to find a +3 Staff of Anal Blasting.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 10:37 PM
4

Wrong. We are each responsible for our OWN happiness. This is where guys fuck up. They assume that they will find happiness in a woman - and that's just plain wrong. You can't make somebody else responsible for your happiness - that's too much responsibility to burden somebody with. Inversely, you can't depend on anther person for your happiness, because you will always be let down. You're assuming that just because I'm getting what I want, that she isn't getting what she wants. That's the beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 10:32 PM
2

If you can't be the "fun" person, then organize events and invite "fun" people. If you live near the woods, have a camp out with a bonfire and a keg. Invite friends who play instruments. Organize a BBQ at a local park. Grab some burgers, dogs and buns and have others bring desserts and side dishes. Bring frisbees, horseshoes and basketball / volleyball / whatever else people can join in on. BBQ at your house. Fire up the grill and have people over for some beers and mixed drinks. Host a game nig…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 10:08 PM
4

"Competition breeds excellence". Have you ever heard that quote? When you're competing with somebody for something, it encourages you try harder. What's wrong with that? You make it sound like Dread Game "forces" women to do things they don't want to do - which is not the case. If she's not happy, she can leave at any time - there's the door. But TRP has revealed that women want the guys that other women want. So if you're getting looks from other women, your woman is more likely to realize she …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 09:57 PM
3

I've never really been into anal - why play in the mud when the playground is next door? Maybe anal is something I'm saving for prison, because it's never been my go-to. I've obliged if that's what a chick wanted, but still prefer pussy. But, I digress. She might just be squarely against anal. Is that something you can live without?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:15 PM
1

Tell her no.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:17 AM
1

Same here. I'm married as well, and feel like I could have used TRP when I was much, much younger. However, I have a wife that will do anything for me and two young boys that I can pass RP knowledge to when they're ready to hear it. We work with what we've got - agonizing over the past is worse than useless.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 01:24 AM
6

I live in a city with a very large Mormon population. You have to give the church 10% of your earnings, or do community service for the church equal to 10% of your earnings (they keep spreadsheets and bill you - you can be kicked out of church for not paying your 10%) You will also have to abstain from alcohol, caffeine, cursing, Rated R movies etc. Mormons push the "wholesome" lifestyle to the extremes, leaving no room for vices. Consequently, most of them are the nicest, most generous people y…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:46 AM
3

First, it pays to be the most sober person in the room. When people start acting stupid or shit starts going down, you can take charge and sort things out. Also, as /u/fnordsnord said, you don't want to be so drunk you can't remember what happened. Being the least drunk person is a responsibility, but it's also a position that can get you respect. This often worked in my favor. I'd have a few drinks, and always have one in my hand, but at the end of the night when the other guys were acting like…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:02 PM
2

You're the boss. Give yourself a schedule to stick to. Don't answer the phones or touch your business on your days off. By not giving yourself a rigid structure, your business is slowly taking over your life. This will eventually burn you out and make your business more of a burden than a blessing. Set your work hours and stick to the schedule. Also, schedule some vacation time for yourself. Do what you have to do to make it work. If you have to hire an intern or friend / relative (they can usua…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 10:45 PM
3

This reminds me of a joke: Q: Why do women fake orgasms? A: WHO CARES?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 09:41 PM
3

What's wrong with getting what you want? TRP being 'amoral' means that the strategies WORK. Whether they are considered 'moral' or not has no bearing on their effectiveness. If it works, why not use it to get what you want? This is no different than a woman crying to get attention, or to make her BF stay home with her instead of playing cards with his friends. It's people using whatever tools they have available to get what they want. But because this is male sexual strategy, it is seen as "wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 06:31 PM
1

Past behavior can be used as a predictor of future behaviors. If you want to stand the best chance of successfully settling down with somebody, you'd better make damn sure they're not a risky investment - because that's what a LTR is - an investment of your time, resources and energy. Do you gamble on the sorority girl who's sexcapades are still talked about in her college, years after she graduated? Do you take a chance on the tatted-up wild woman with a string of shitty, abusive boyfriends? Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 06:23 PM
3

Rephrased for Feminists™: "Womyn, tell us how AWESOME you are and why guys would be SO lucky to have you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 06:11 PM
2

Either people are blaming society for their problems, or they're blaming others. The only thing people don't seem willing to do is work their asses off to get what they want. The victim role is much easier to take. Feminism™ at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 06:02 PM
1

People are getting a little ridiculous identifying themselves nowadays. You can identify as whatever you want, just don't expect me to give two shits about it. Pansexual? Asexual with furry tendencies? Octosexual mutant tentacle fetishist? Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 05:59 PM
2

One. If you've both agreed to be monogamous, then that goes for both men and women. Giving her permission to put her hand in the cookie jar after agreeing upon monogamy might as well be asking her to open up the relationship - she will have tons of sex and you won't. If monogamy was agreed upon, enforce it. If not, make your intentions perfectly clear, make sure she's in agreement and don't give her any wiggle-room to maneuver around it. Two. You're the Captain of the Ship. She needs to feel sec…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:46 PM
3

Take a good look, ladies and gents! This is what was decided for you. Enjoy having the mood strangled to death with every "can I" and "may I" until you're dryer than the Sahara Desert. There will be no more hot, dirty, spontaneous sex where a guy takes you and ravishes you until your feet are behind your head and your toes are curling with anticipation. This is the future of sex, as dictated by our Feminist™ Overladies. You now get to look forward to having men ask you for every. Little. Inch. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 08:26 PM
1

TRP is like a salad bar: there's a lot of information, and there's advice on more than one way to achieve your goals - whether that's to smash tons of random pussy, or have a stable long-term relationship. Do you go to the salad bar and eat EVERYTHING? No. You pick and choose what you want, what's appetizing to you, and what you think will be the best choice for you. TRP is not gospel. Some of it is well though-out observation, some of it is sharing experiences and some of it is guys who are hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 09:19 AM
1

If we can give advice to guys who are struggling where we've struggled, who are asking advice we can help with and who are hurting the way nobody but another man understands, then why NOT help them? They are already on the most hated sub on Reddit, they might as well get the help and the answers they are seeking - provided they are not total ass-hats - and even some of those can be educated and helped to some degree. There are entire generations of men who are hurt, confused and angry because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 08:52 AM
2

You work with what you have and try to make the best of a bad situation. You were created with the spirit to sustain you through hard times, the strength to cut your own path through life and the vision to guide your hand in whatever endeavors you decide to undertake. One door closes, so you KICK another door open. You get your ass up and you get what you want. Decide what you want. Go from there.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:36 AM
2

Enjoy the ride, be the Captain of the Ship, but realize in the back of your mind that things can end at any time, for any reason, and be prepared for that. Be mindful of her past, because it can be used as a predictor of future behaviors. This doesn't mean you can keep a tight leash on her, but that you should be mindful of the little clues that signal her sluttiness seeping back in: She starts hanging out with slutty friends She starts talking about 'Brad from work' She likes partying without y…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:03 PM
1

You've 'hooked up' multiple times, but haven't had sex. NOW, she wants to bring her friend with her to a date? "I was looking forward to getting some 'alone time' with you, so I'm going to have to decline." This lets her know your intentions and gives her zero wiggle room to negotiate. You're telling her "no", and most cute girls aren't used to hearing that from a guy. If she backpedals and agrees to see you alone, tease her a bit and make her work for it. If she says "whatever" and drops it, yo…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 03:51 PM
5

If you're already NOT getting sex from your wife, then you have nothing to lose and EVERYTHING to gain my working on yourself and making YOU the priority. Once she sees you accomplishing goals and realizes that you're fine with or without her sex, she will feel some dread and find a strong need to mark you as hers and take care of her man, knowing that her sex is no longer your priority.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 10:10 AM
14

You want to be half of a "power couple", basically. You want a man who's status is above your own - both in looks and earning power. You want the Prince Charming - well, every OTHER woman wants him too. What sets you apart? What do you have that he WANTS? Why SHOULD he pick you over them? If you aim for the moon, you pass all the great opportunities between the mountains and space. Don't aim so high, or you're going to become disillusioned and depressed. There are TONS of guys out there who woul…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:06 AM
1

YOU'RE responsible for your own happiness in life. You won't find happiness in a job, a woman or a child. You find happiness doing what YOU love, for YOU. Instead of seeing women as 'unfulfilling', use your knowledge and skills to captain the ship toward the sort of relationships YOU want. If your girl's not acting right, stop rewarding shitty behavior and encourage positive behavior. Life is short. Get what YOU want out of it, and find happiness where you can, when you can.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:56 AM
2

If I'm not mistaken - and I have no business offering legal advice, so I most likely AM mistaken... I thought that you could "sell" your house to a relative you trust for cheap. The downside is - obviously - that they will in effect own it, but the upside is that it can't be divided in a divorce. You can't just put it in somebody's name, because the court will want to see the paper trail and transaction. So, if you have a relative whom you trust, who is financially secure and responsible, who yo…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:19 AM
74

Learn about what men are attracted to: Women who are feminine. We don't want a woman who can cuss like a sailor, fart like a water buffalo and drink us under the table. Feminism™ is telling women that men want Strong, Independent Womyn™, and that couldn't be further from the truth. Women who are pleasant. We don't want a strong, "opinionated" woman who likes to argue and have the last word. We don't want the girl that goes from zero to crazy in two seconds. We prefer women who are a pleasure to …
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:06 AM
1

Or you can tell me what you disagree with. Use your words. This wasn't supposed to be a history lesson. You asked why women's lib is blamed for the sad state of marriage. It's because laws were made to insulate women, but they actually disproportionately benefit women in case of divorce, making divorces a very appealing and profitable industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 06:09 AM
1

Marriage used to be a sacred commitment that was not entered into or broken lightly. "Til death do us part" was literally what marriage was. Men worked and women stayed home and took care of the children and the household and found work where they could. This is how things went for centuries. Enter women's lib. More women want to be educated and enter the work force. Good for them! But women face a lot of discrimination and inequality as they leave the relative safety of their domestic lives. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 05:56 AM
1

If you want to get married, you need to understand what men are attracted to (hint: it's not the same thing women are attracted to). Men like women who are feminine. We don't like women who drink and cuss and fart like men. You're sexy when you cook. We like when you wear dresses. Men don't care how much money a woman makes or how educated you are. That has no bearing on whether or not you're going to be a good partner or not. If you put your career above your man, why bother getting married? Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 05:13 AM
1

Sex is literally the ONLY thing a woman has to offer her partner. It's vital to a relationship. I'm married. I love my wife, but compared to my male friends, she's boring as shit. Her hobbies are watching reality TV and playing Facebook on her phone. My male friends, by comparison, are fun to hang out with. We can talk about women, cars, guns, fishing, hunting, video games - they like to DO things. There's no judgement or expectations, and I can let my guard down with them. The interactions I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 04:45 AM
1

This. As long as men put up with it, women won't stop. Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 04:00 AM
1

But it was HER show, and she was HOT back in the day. She was loved by millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:38 AM
1

Women want to get married, but men want to stay married. The overwhelming majority of divorces are filed by wives, and for men, the risks are starting to outweigh the benefits - which is really sad, because most guys just want a life partner to be there at the end of every day. I can't speak for why women ask for divorce so often, but clearly they don't feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:29 AM
3

Realize that any relationship can end at any time, whether or not you're prepared for it. For a woman, no love lasts "forever" except for maybe the love of their children. All other love is situational, temporary and subject to change at any moment.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:18 AM
1

The reality is you DO get both. Women get both. Enjoy your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 02:09 AM
1

Pick ONE. Empowerment or equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 01:46 AM
4

There is no middle ground with feminism. It's either "do what we say and believe as we believe or be a misogynist."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 04:41 PM
3

I believe in female empowerment and equality. Pick one. Do you want empowerment, or equality? If you want empowerment, continue on your way - because you are empowered already. If you want equality, lets strip you of some of your perks and get you set up with a Selective Service card.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 04:32 PM
2

You forgot sex. LOTS of sex. When the sex goes, the relationship starts it's slow decline into ruin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 04:08 PM
1

Why fuck around with a prude? If the other chick is willing to suck your dick, then you should LET HER. Wrap it up, get good grades, go to a trade or vocational school (avoid college) and don't knock any chicks up.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 05:06 PM
1

Most "average" guys can get with an older woman much easier than a younger woman - cougars are a real thing. They are usually financially secure older women (already divorced their beta bux) and are just looking to have some fun until age, gravity and health issues take them out of the game. The average tight, young 20-something might sneer at you and creep shame you, but her mother might offer you a good time. Also, as others have stated: all women aren't created equal - MILFS have good genetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 05:01 PM
1

This. They say to "never lead with your wallet" - translation: "never freely give away / offer services or resources when you get to know a girl". The reason for this is that if you offer to pay for a fancy meal / expensive date / do her homework / move her furniture, then you are setting yourself up as a resource to be mined and exploited in the future. Let her pay for her own food and drink. Take her someplace cheap. Let her know that she can't get more than she gives with you.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:49 PM
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PLEASE don't confuse Feminism™ with gender equality. Feminism™ means favoring and catering to ONE gender in the name of gender equality, to the exclusion and detriment of the OTHER gender. In what ways does Feminism™ benefit anybody who's not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 10:00 PM
2

If you really want to know about TRP, there is the sidebar information to read - not to sound like a broken record - but it's all there to read. If you have specific questions, go to /r/asktrp. Of course, it also helps if you phrase your questions in a respectful manner, be very specific about your question - there's a lot of different subjects covered in TRP. Also, remember that not everybody there holds the same views. A lot of us disagree on certain points, but we acknowledge that there's eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 09:17 AM
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I think what he means - and what I have personally noticed - is that society at large is to blame for coddling women - "women and children first!", "Happy wife, happy life!", "#YesAllWomen", the list goes on. Women aren't used to being directly challenged - sure women may encounter misogyny - about as much as men encounter misandry. Sure women have had a hard run of things - forty years ago - but now there are laws and Human Resources and support systems in place - much more support available fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 09:04 AM
2

But even then I knew I'd find a much better place Either with or without you Translation: if it wasn't you, it would be some other guy I was sponging off of until I got a better branch to swing to.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:33 AM
2

"Sorry. I only do homework for girls I'm fucking."
/r/askTRP18/02/15 07:13 AM
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You control her by controlling yourself. You don't get into a fight with a woman who likes to argue. That's like stepping into the ring with a heavyweight fighter - you're outgunned and you will go down HARD. Mostly, this is because women don't care about logic when their emotions are all ramped up - they don't give a shit - they just want to vent their frustrations, and they are looking to pick a fight. How do you deal with this, then? Simple. Do the following: Decide if the argument is valid. …
/r/askTRP17/02/15 03:05 PM
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This is a huge part of TRP's relevance, and imo, anecdotal shared experiences are more compelling than hard science, simply because most people won't bother to read a peer-reviewed scientific journal - while everybody can relate to similar experiences they share with others. Does that mean there's enough science / sociological studies to back up TRP? Perhaps. But that's not the point. The point is that enough men have noticed the same actions and behaviors from women that when we start comparing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 02:33 PM
2

I'm sarcastic, so if somebody starts poking me in the chest, I'd most likely wink at him, tug on my nipples and say "whoa. You're so forceful! I LIKE IT!" while having a shit-eating IDGAF grin on my face. If that doesn't make him lighten up, then I'd switch to stone-cold and tell him that if he keeps touching me, we're going to end up on the news.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:49 AM
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For many women, men are only ever seen as resources. They make "friends" with guys who have something they want. They either want your time, your help or some other benefit that you provide them, and they will rarely feel the need to reciprocate - it's cool if you help her move furniture, but when you need a favor, "Sorry! I can't. I'm busy :( " This is why you need to ask yourself what YOU'RE gaining from having women as friends. In general, women make boring friends. The only "manly" activitie…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:44 AM
1

I saw THIS article linked a while back, and I'm just glad I'm NOT in college. I agree with /u/oldredder - go off-campus for your physical needs.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 09:13 AM
1

Exactly. And if you blab on yourself, there goes that!
/r/askTRP12/02/15 10:39 PM
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Be outcome independent, but don't "settle" for "let's just be friends". Outcome independence means that you have to approach girls with one thought in your head: "If she says yes, cool. If she says no, that's cool too, because I had the balls to approach, so it's a victory in itself." When she looks at you with concerned smile and offers you the consolation prize of her friendship, you DECLINE. Politely tell her you have enough friends, thank you! Outcome independence means that your mood will n…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:37 PM
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With women, NOTHING is forever and ever, except maybe the love they have for their children. Everything else is ephemeral. It is nice while it lasts, though, and I would personally try to get as much mileage out of being on the pedestal as I possibly could. I would agree that it's a personal preference, though. But generally, men react more favorably to the pedestal - that's why we have generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:28 PM
1

NEVER argue over the phone or through texts. She can wind you up, push your buttons and hang up on you, leaving you to stew over it and bending your frame all to hell in the process. Next time she calls or texts you to pick a fight, you calmly reply: "I will talk about this when I see you." This takes the advantage out of her hands. If she continues to blow up your phone or harass you, you simply turn your phone off and go about your day. You'll deal with her when you see her. When you DO finall…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:25 PM
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That's where sexual strategy comes into play. Understand how women operate - this is done through generalizations and pattern recognition (AWALT). Once you learn how women operate, you can use that to your benefit and skew the odds in your favor - if you're up to the task. If you're NOT up to the task, the next thing is to work on yourself. Once you become a guy women WANT to be with, you can apply the other strategies you learned to pick and choose which women get your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:16 PM
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Shaming, scolding and trying to change women away from being women won't work. Isn't it better to understand them and love them 'as they are'? That's the big takeaway I get from TRP: don't hate women for being women. Learn to understand them, so you can maximize your interactions with them and get the most out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:10 PM
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In a perfect world, sure, your model sounds great - and we'd all like it to be true - but that's simply not the way the world works. Women are attracted to men who they view as better than them - women always date up - not sideways or down. When a man starts pampering her, he's unknowingly lowering his value in her eyes. She starts to think she can do better, and so the pedestal has the opposite effect and repels her because if he's SO into her, that MUST mean she can easily get a BETTER guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:45 PM
1

This is how men act. They 'talk shit' to each other, much like how women 'shit test' guys. If a guy can't handle the shit talk, he's singled out as the 'bitch' of the group. Instead of getting your panties twisted in a knot, learn to laugh at yourself and come up with shit to talk back at them. This is just good old-fashioned ball busting among friends - learn to not be such a serious prick.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 07:41 PM
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When you fuck up in the future, whether it's with a woman, a friend, on your taxes or with some random stranger, you keep that shit to yourself, and when confronted with it you DENY, DENY, DENY! No good comes of telling the truth when you fuck up. The truth will NOT set you free. Telling on yourself to ANYBODY is stupid and does nothing for you except get you in trouble.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 07:37 PM
3

I'm the first to admit I'm already fairly corrupted, but why mess with a good thing? If a girl's into me, I encourage that behavior and exploit it. By "exploit", I mean that I keep her interest flowing so I can ride that wave as long as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:29 PM
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This. When you pedestalize a man, he's on top of the world and will do anything for you - it's the best feeling in the world to have a woman worship you. For a woman, a guy constantly kissing her ass quickly becomes tiresome and boring, and takes all the mystery, thrills and tingles out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 06:32 PM
3

It's all fun and games until you or one of her other cocks puts a baby in her - then you'll be Daddy and paying for a kid that might not be yours for the rest of your life. GET OUT NOW!
/r/askTRP08/02/15 08:45 PM
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I would immediately get dressed, kick her out (if it were my place) and then proceed to the nearest hot spot to hook up with somebody who can finish what I had started.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 08:42 PM
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Of COURSE! Would that stop her from filing a rape charge? Probably not. According to feminists, she can say nothing, and still claim I raped her, because she "wanted to say no", but didn't. The point is, it's rape if she says it's rape. It doesn't matter what the guy says or does. If her friends or the internet or her guilt convince her it's rape, then it is. And nobody can say any different, since nobody can even agree on the definition of rape anymore, and THAT'S the problem. Rape USED to mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 08:19 PM
2

It's also rape if she regrets having sex the next day, or if her boyfriend finds out and her relationship is in jeopardy. It's never the woman's fault. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 07:21 PM
1

It's a two-way street. She can leave him for a more successful or more "exciting" offer, and he can leave her for a younger, hotter woman. Anything can happen, but if you maintain frame, maintain the attraction and maintain your value, then the odds are in YOUR favor, though not a guarantee.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 07:18 PM
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You can definitely have a monogamous relationship, but you have to realize it can end at any time if she gets a better offer, or if you go full-beta and can't maintain attraction with her.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 02:52 AM
2

Since girlies usually like sweeter wines, I would suggest a Riesling - it's a sweet white wine, but not as sweet as a Moscato. I wouldn't spend more than $15 for a bottle. For red, I'd suggest Stella Rosa red. Keep a few of each bottle and maybe some pink Zinfandel to complete the wine rack in case they prefer a more dry wine. Again, you should never pay more than $15 for a bottle of wine and you should err on the side of sweetness, unless wine is a hobby or passion - most people can't tell the …
/r/askTRP07/02/15 10:17 PM
1

TRP is hated because we aren't feminists, we openly compare notes and strategies for dealing with women, and we are a direct threat to every "nice guy" who's out there trying to "just be himself" and is failing miserably with the ladies. We are the ugly elephant in the room nobody wants to talk about. We point out truths that nobody wants to hear.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 09:55 PM
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Of course you want that side of her personality. But what we are talking about is the flip side of that childish personality: the way they prefer emotions over logic, their need to test your boundaries and the way they change their reality to justify their actions.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 10:20 PM
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Text her: "My weekend just opened up! Let me know when you're on your way!" then wait for her to respond. When she does, reply: "Sorry! Wrong person lol!" This demonstrates to your plate that you have plenty of options and that SHE will be the one missing out, not you.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:56 PM
-1

Then let's bring on the Male Fat Acceptance Movement™!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 09:33 PM
2

Ok, let me break it down for those of you who can't abstract think here: If Danny Devito were to go to clubbing on a Saturday night, he would be approached by fans and he'd be the talk of the night. He could approach the hottest chicks there and because of his status, fame and money, his chances of going home with one are pretty much guaranteed. Take away his fame and money, and he'd be beneath their notice (no pun intended), but because of WHO he is and WHAT he has (celebrity status and money),…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 07:19 PM
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I'm simply stating Chris Pine's status and wealth should exclude him from the conversation. We're talking about average, non-celebrity guys that a girl might run into at Starbucks. I guarantee you chubby Chris Pine would have just as hard a time as anybody else talking to a hot chick - but because he's famous and rich, OF COURSE women will swoon over him - love handles or not. Because even DANNY DEVITO can pull a hot chick, based on his money and fame. THAT was the comparison I was making. Sorry…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 06:26 PM
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Celebrities are not a valid comparison. Ever. Women will line up to date and spermjack him based on his paycheck, not his looks. Danny Devito could pull a hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 05:24 PM
1

I agree. We need a follow-up field report!
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:05 AM
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Guys are a sucker for a pretty face. I do agree that pretty girls put an inordinate amount of time into their looks, because their looks are their currency. It's like men putting in extra time at the office. That extra time will hopefully land us recognition that could land us a fat raise, just like her looks could land her a husband to marry her and give her the life she wants. Men want to provide for women. We're biologically and socially wired that way - we WANT to do it - ESPECIALLY if she's…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 12:24 AM
4

TRP puts emphasis on taking care of YOUR needs before everybody else's. To an entitled princess who's used to guys bending over backwards for her, being told "no" is a slap in the face. While she gets turned on by it, white knight betas will come to her rescue and "defend" her from your "douchey" actions! How DARE YOU not put her needs first? HOW DARE you demand terms and get what YOU want? Don't you know that women need to be coddled, spoiled and indulged? Because "THAT'S WHAT REAL MEN DO!" Ess…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 12:16 AM
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I'd thank her for telling me the truth and then tell her that I'm no longer comfortable with their post-fuckbuddy friendship, and ask her if she'd be cool with me being best friends with a girl I used to fuck? She'd then start blubbering that he's a big part of her life that helped her through X, Y and Z blah blah blah. This is when you tell her you "need time to think" about things. Don't give her an ultimatum, and don't make her choose. Just drive her nuts with the dread for a while, until she…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:30 PM
2

The next time a woman brings up lack of women in tech, ask her if she programs her own TV remotes and troubleshoots her own computer problems - or if she asks a MAN to do it for her?
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:05 PM
11

Somebody here - (I can't remember who, so apologies if I'm paraphrasing one of you reading this) - said that women start at the top of the hill and slowly make their way to the bottom, and men stand at the bottom of the mountain and look up, wondering how far up they can climb. This is a perfect analogy, since a woman's relationship value is tied to her femininity, youth and beauty. She quickly peaks and has a relatively short, painful decline toward The Wall. Men, on the other hand, increase th…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:57 PM
1

I can't offer legal advice, since I'm not a lawyer, but If I were him, I'd do the following, just to mess with her and shut her up: I'd tell her that I'm getting a lower-stress, lower-paying job and we're planning on moving in with your relatives, but not before I sign all of my assets over to "a relative" to protect them from her. Therefore, If she wants alimony, she can try, but she'd probably get more money digging for change in her car. Then again, I'm a bit of a dick and I like to fuck with…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:47 PM
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I'm of the opinion that the world is full of beautiful women, so why treat them any differently? These women didn't have to earn their beauty, they were just lucky enough to be born with it. Their looks have no bearing on their personality, their mental capacity or their sanity - and none of those things really matter, because for her, doors will open, and men will line up to take care of all of her wants and needs. She will live a life of privilege that we can't even imagine, and every time we …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:40 PM
-1

You have the knowledge. You have the cheat code. You know what to expect from women, and how to manipulate them if you need to, so go out and GET what you want. If you want a relationship, go have one, but use your knowledge to make it as fulfilling as you can - just don't get complacent. The game is broken because of the cheat code, right? Or is it? YOU are the sole provider of your own happiness, so do what makes you happy, or FIND something to make you happy, and use your knowledge as a means…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 10:11 PM
3

So what does it matter? How does somebody making an unfavorable comparison online harm anyone? What are you afraid of exactly, and why shouldn't they express their opinions on a sub that you only browse to disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 09:52 PM
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No it wouldn't. "Hi, You're cute. You get to sit in the front" Say that loudly in front of all of them, then lean in and whisper "I've had all my shots - don't worry" If you don't make a big deal out of it and have fun / be cocky / amused mastery, then she won't make a big deal out of it and she'll eat it up, because you're singling her out and making her feel special, and the other girls will up their game to compete for your attention. It doesn't matter whether or not they WANT your attention,…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:47 PM
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I LOVE children! I also love women! And do you have a problem with the mentally challenged? Again, this is somebody's opinion - which can be voiced on that sub. Not everything written on the internet should be taken as gospel truth or have value to everybody. I can point at silly posts from any sub - that does not mean they are representative of the sub itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 09:39 PM
3

If it's YOUR car, you can demand the girl of your choice sit up front while you drive, right?
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:38 PM
1

You, too can become a master of dance!
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:35 PM
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Let's assume you're correct. So what if we resent women? If we're not the kind of men women "want" anyway, what's the harm in us congregating on our own little sub? What are you afraid of, exactly? Who are we harming with our opinions? We are entitled to our own opinions, right? And feminism IS a political viewpoint, so people should be able to have different and opposing political views, shouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 09:11 PM
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TRPers don't hate women - they understand that women are humans, and humans are flawed and have their own selfish agendas. Also, humans are still in the animal kingdom, and therefore are subject to animalistic tendencies. TRP shares knowledge, compares notes and is the male equivalent of sexual strategy and "kiss and tell" - that's fine for Cosmopolitan Magazine, but it's abusive, malignant heresy if it's written for men, by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:58 PM
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This is a great read.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 08:19 PM
2

Unfortunately they thought of that already, so "common law" marriages are a thing. Depending where you are, living with a woman for an extended period of time equals marriage. So just live alone and have them visit. Be sure that she takes her clothes, her tampons and her toothbrush with her when she leaves.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 08:03 PM
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She won't know and she won't care. All she knows is that she "feels strongly about it" because her friends told her all about it, and THEY "feel strongly about it", and so she should also. This is how my mother is - I can't tell you how many stupid / dangerous / scientifically unsound diets she's tried based on the fact that her friends / coworkers sold her on them. She simply does not know how critical / objective thinking works and would rather follow than do her own research, consider other o…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:09 PM
1

Orbiting is exactly what being friends with a girl you find sexually attractive is. Why? There are plenty of free agents out there that you don't have to poach some "bro's" chick. What exactly can she add to your life? How can she enrich it and what will she cost you? Is the cost worth the benefit? Always ask yourself that when dealing with people - especially women.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:53 PM
1

"Clingy" is usually a precursor to "controlling" - if you indulge them. Just continue as you are and don't answer her texts when you're busy. When you have a free moment and feel like texting her back, let her know you're VERY busy and don't have time to respond to every text she sends. Let her know your career is your priority and you love her very much, but if she can't accept your busy schedule and be content with it, she may want to consider other options. Supplicating her neediness will onl…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:47 PM
1

Meatloaf - Two out of Three
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 11:45 PM
1

Show him this - No More Mister Nice Guy. It can give him some perspective on his destructive bluepill habits.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 09:46 PM
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Realize that it can end at any time, for any reason and that, like life, your relationships are ephemeral. Enjoy the ride, but don't make her somebody you depend on, whom you can't live without - because you can - and when she's gone, you need to move on regardless.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 09:35 PM
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You lost that round. If you decide to stay there, make backup copies of your work for your own records and to show coworkers to "proof read" BEFORE you turn them in, and if your boss pulls that shit again, call him out on it and show your coworkers so they know what kind of asshole he is. Make his shenanigans public, and he will think twice about fucking you over again.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 07:41 PM
2

Just knowing that you beating up other chumps is wetting panties in the crowd should be enough to keep her around!
/r/askTRP31/01/15 06:14 PM
3

First, NEVER ask about the number, also, never VOLUNTEER your number - you don't want to know and despite her asking, neither does she. All it will do is make you think about all those dicks she tasted when you kiss her, so don't do it! Just enjoy the ride and be aware that her coping mechanism for difficult times might be to sloot it up. Keep an eye out for any red flags and keep her away from slutty friends that may enable her sloot behavior. Realize that your relationship can end in a hail of…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 06:08 PM
2

Women hate ANYTHING that takes your focus off of THEM - whether it's friends, a career, a passion or a hobby - it doesn't matter. Women view those things with contempt. You just have to continue to be a high enough value man that she won't consider leaving you over it.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 06:03 PM
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When you let a woman determine what you do, who you talk to and where you go, you might as well castrate yourself and put your balls in her purse for safekeeping. If you give up on your passions for a woman, you will always resent her for it, and she won't respect you for folding like a lawn chair. She may even give the ultimatum "Cage fighting or ME! Choose!" in which case, the ONLY answer is: "This is who I was before I met you, and this is who I STILL am today. This is also who I'll be tomorr…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 05:24 PM
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Ask a woman what it takes to land a smart, pretty and fun girlfriend and you will invariably get the same answers: "be yourself!" "be nice!" "be respectful!" "be a gentleman!" Well, all of us here have tried those things, and failed miserably. We have been told WRONG. If women like all of those things, why do they all go for the same stupid, musclebound, Porsche-driving jackasses? Because women respond to different stimuli, no matter what they SAY they want or find attractive in a man - the evid…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 07:04 PM
8

Spermicidal lube. Put some in your car's glove box and by your bedside. Squirt that shit in her before sex and put a squirt in your used rubbers after sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 05:39 PM
1

Upvoted for "swamp donkey". This was a shit test. They know full well they were aiming way low. Women's individual opinions of themselves are usually higher than they should be, but as a GROUP, women rip each other apart and penalize each other for everything from lip gloss to their choice of shoes. The group was fucking with you, testing you and seeing what your reaction would be. As /u/RichieFinn stated, you need to let them SEE you interacting with a hot female, so they have some pre-selectio…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 04:29 PM
3

This was exactly their point. Creep shaming rocks us to the core, because we were raised as men who should be "sensitive" to women's needs and "respectful" of them to, to not ever offend them or make them uncomfortable. Bitches who fire off the "c-word" at guys know EXACTLY how hurtful it is to us. They are basically calling us predators and everything else that a man should not be in today's society. There is no analogous reference for women - there is nothing we can call them that is as bad as…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 04:15 PM
1

This video explains EXACTLY what that is, and he refers to that awkward silence as "The Moment of Truth".
/r/askTRP27/01/15 04:01 PM
1

Kino. Being physical. Start with touching her shoulder, then "accidentally" grazing her knee, to resting your hand on her knee, to holding her hand, to squeezing her leg when she says something amusing... keep escalating that shit. Her body language will be very telling. Is she smiling? Are her pupils huge? Does she not pull back when you touch her? If you're standing, she'll be pointing her hips toward you, etc. Good eye contact with a smirk or smile. And don't feel like you have to fill every …
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:57 PM
1

It happened. Once in a while, the universe drops shit into your lap. This was one such time. She had apparently been crushing on me in HS. I was too oblivious to see it, but looking back it makes sense.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:49 PM
5

Right? Nothing kills the mood like some funky on her munky. Even if I had run into this girl much later, after she'd resolved her 'issue', it was such a turn off that I'd decline a second go at it. Edit: A while later, once I learned more about the female body, I figured it was some sort of infection. That, or maybe she never got the memo that tampons were supposed to be REMOVED.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 12:46 AM
19

Eh. Askmen might as well be TwoXhamsters, as far as I'm concerned (I've been banned from both of them).
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 03:05 PM
7

"Nite nite! Keep that butthole tight!"
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:09 AM
3

A woman's value is in her beauty, femininity and her personality. Having hundreds of dicks thrown at her wrecks those things that make her a valuable prospect.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 01:37 AM
2

Time to apply the dread. Stop asking, begging or initiating sex. Don't even mention it. Take sex off the table, and if she - by some miracle - initiates it, you DENY her and tell her you're not in the mood. If you don't have a gym membership, get one. Set time aside for YOU, and don't let her fill that time with babysitting, chores, errands etc. Use that time out of the house. Go to the gym, grab drinks with friends, go jogging - it doesn't matter. Be vague and casual about where you go and what…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:54 PM
45

Of course. Then they'll spend half the marathon taking selfies, "hashtagging" how sporty and fit they are, 'running' the marathon. There will be tons of "you go, girl's" and tons of validation from the beta men commenting how "beautiful" they look in their running shorts.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:26 PM
3

Read this book and it will give you some perspective.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 08:50 AM
8

Feminism™: Focusing on, favoring and catering to women under the guise of "equality for the sexes". Also see "hypocrisy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 11:15 AM
2

She is making the decision FOR YOU to not have sex - this is how little she values your input. I would withdraw completely from her. She doesn't owe you sex, and you don't owe her a relationship.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 08:33 AM
1

Men can't be sluts. Sluts, by definition, are women (or "people" for argument's sake) who have easy, promiscuous sex on a regular basis. For the majority of men, sex is RARELY easy - it involves effort and a low success rate. The few men who CAN have easy sex on a regular basis are so good looking or wealthy that enough women desire them that they wouldn't be labeled as a "slut". Women, on the other hand, just have to say "yes" to a guy and spread their legs to have sex - there's little to no ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 12:29 AM
3

You got used, then you agreed to let her continue using you. Of COURSE you won't get any sex from her. Drop the user.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:40 PM
1

What's the name of his band? I'll check them out. See? You're spreading the word about them! You're a good friend!
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:32 PM
1

That's a large leap. If male infidelity were the reason, wouldn't men leave an unfulfilling marriage? Edit: better yet, why would a man agree to get married in the first place? I think the reason men hate divorce is because divorce FAVORS women. Women are given INCENTIVE to divorce in the form of cash and prizes.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:16 PM
1

The "reasons" for ending a marriage are many and varied on a case-by-case basis.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:03 PM
3

Women want to GET married, but men want to STAY married. Women initiate +70% of divorces - THAT'S why men hate divorce - because there's no guarantee she'll stick around and there's no telling what will make her leave.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:55 PM
5

He's confused because of your actions. You don't "cuddle" with platonic friends - that's not appropriate and it's confusing as fuck. You're basically getting a "boyfriend" without the sex - take a minute and imagine how he must feel about that. He gets to spend time with you, cuddle with you, feel your boobs and tickle fight you, but there's an invisible barrier he knows he can't cross with you. You're selfishly getting everything you want, without giving him what HE WANTS. It's all very one-sid…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:48 PM
8

LTRs are MORE work than gaming some random chick. Your observations are correct - it's a constant battle to remain the rock, keep her interested and build yourself at the same time. Once we get complacent we start to slip. Keep improving.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 04:25 PM
2

She's using sex as a weapon against you. She's withholding sex from you, then SHAMING you when you touch your OWN DICK. If women aren't in control of the sex, they resort to shame. Don't be that guy.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:03 PM
6

If she's attracted to you, it's "sexy". If she's NOT attracted to you, it's "creepy". A lot of those guys who fail are either not displaying enough confidence to hold up their case, they are going about approaching the wrong way or they are hitting up girls who are out of their league and know it. Be confident. Have strong game and don't hesitate, show weakness or half-ass your interactions.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:31 AM
7

Now that you know what men look for in a woman, you can improve yourself to become that woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:57 AM
2

In that case, Godspeed and good luck. See where that rabbit hole takes you.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:27 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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