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Discriminationthelotusknyte/r/MensRights10/08/14 09:35 PM
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Red Pill Theorythelotusknyte/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:48 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:25 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP25/03/15 06:38 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP13/08/14 02:44 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/RedPillParenting17/09/14 09:58 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 06:35 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP28/12/14 05:52 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:54 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:41 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:17 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 08:01 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 09:21 PM
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Generalthelotusknyte/r/MensRights04/06/15 02:25 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP26/07/15 07:48 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP31/12/14 04:31 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP13/06/14 07:13 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP23/05/15 06:13 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 06:25 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP25/10/14 03:50 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/RedPillParenting30/11/14 06:28 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP30/11/14 06:18 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 08:00 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP02/12/14 05:44 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:48 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP28/12/14 05:15 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP10/12/14 07:04 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP09/09/14 10:43 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:16 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:20 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP13/09/14 01:28 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 02:41 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP14/08/14 06:00 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:08 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 05:41 AM
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Basic Questionthelotusknyte/r/askMRP24/10/15 10:52 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:20 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP25/03/15 10:54 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:34 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:58 AM
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Blogs/Videothelotusknyte/r/MensRights23/09/14 05:18 AM
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Red Pill Examplethelotusknyte/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:26 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP24/10/15 10:42 PM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP22/11/15 12:49 AM
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thelotusknyte/r/askTRP17/07/14 04:43 AM
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Blue Pill Examplethelotusknyte/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:09 AM
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Blue Pill Examplethelotusknyte/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:03 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

What she's looking for is not unreasonable. But the perspective that she's coming from is telling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 10:51 AM
8

I'm just not comfortable having sex so soon without a commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 02:55 AM
1

Valious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 06:09 PM
1

Nothing serious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 06:48 AM
1

Probably
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 05:57 AM
6

I love that phrase. Unreal if real. A variation on big if true?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 05:54 AM
1

It's hard to believe it's real
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 05:49 AM
1

Haha ok then!
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 11:23 PM
1

Only as a nanny?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 11:22 PM
1

Ah, this is in Russia.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 05:21 PM
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Can someone provide a reputable source to this story?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/21 04:28 PM
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Exactly
/r/PussyPass20/03/21 08:39 PM
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I think this is fucked up. Yes, this is portraying the all-too-common scenario of a parent "kidnapping" their own child because of custody issues etc. But I'm having a hard time articulating why I don't like this... Someone finish my sentence please...
/r/PussyPass20/03/21 05:02 PM
2

Literally who gives a fuck
/r/PussyPass16/03/21 04:32 PM
1

Youngsters huh
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:12 PM
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Because as a general rule, it can't. It's possible to do, but A) why and B) saying it's possible sets bad expectations and sets the vast majority of men up for failure.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 06:56 AM
1

This is a very helpful comment. I read it Boone times. Thank you for taking the time to write it. I always think of a political option, but others always say the guy has moves to make when the stuff happens. I'll spruce up my resume.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:05 PM
1

Yeah but how do I say "why are you X every time we talk"?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:52 AM
1

It's closed minded. But when it's used as a method of manipulating others?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:13 AM
1

So I wanted to call him out on it. But I am struggling to remember what the actual term is for what he does. When he basically is telling somebody if you don't think the same way as I do then you're clearly stupid. Is it gaslighting? Or what?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:41 AM
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I think that I'm not easily replaceable for a few reasons: My retiring boss tells me that I have more leverage than I think because my department is the only one keeping the small business going as far as getting new business, coming through on special requests and exceeding expectations. The kind of work I do, and the people who work for me do, is highly specialized. We recently went through the process of attempting to hire a "senior" position to assist the team, and literally no one had exper…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:30 AM
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As usual they are all hating on the dude when the chick was the cheater.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/20 03:16 PM
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Y no sound
/r/PussyPassDenied27/10/20 02:07 AM
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Figures
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/20 09:22 PM
2

Why was your mom refused service at the grocery store?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/20 02:49 PM
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I mean, not really denied, more like "nuh uh, no u"
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/20 11:50 PM
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I'd be interested in reading the study if you know where it is.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/07/20 06:22 PM
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Oh shit
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/20 03:43 PM
2

What happened?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/20 02:47 PM
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It's money we paid in taxes anyway.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/20 05:32 AM
2

Lol k
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/20 02:13 AM
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You used Texas country bumpkins whose success is attributable to their parents as an example of why she's right. Your example is so contrived and specific that it loses almost all relevance to the topic.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/20 01:47 AM
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This is the biggest load of bullshit.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/20 01:01 AM
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That part's obvious bad.
/r/PussyPass18/11/19 11:02 PM
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You know what? If she was hot, then I'd be fine with letting her get me off.
/r/PussyPass18/11/19 04:57 PM
2

Not on Omegle.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:54 AM
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/r/whooosh
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/19 04:30 PM
1

Fuck her.
/r/PussyPass31/10/19 05:11 AM
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Yeah and the gender studies person is going to cause problems at work.
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 12:33 PM
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Lemme see those pics
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/19 04:32 PM
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What did she try to hide it or something?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/19 01:15 AM
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Oh shit
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/19 05:05 AM
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Fuck this bitch.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/19 08:57 PM
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I can't even imagine. That is the shittiest saddest thing I've heard in a long time. Your loss must be unbearable.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/19 08:57 PM
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A black white knite.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/19 04:29 AM
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Eh, he logged onto his mommy's account.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/19 01:14 PM
1

Oops
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/19 01:22 AM
3

Is she autistic?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/18 11:20 PM
1

Yabbit what did she do?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/18 03:12 PM
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Yep
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/18 10:59 PM
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This has been said before and it's nothing revolutionary, but if I was 14 and had been able to have sex with i would have been happy and considered myself lucky.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/18 10:59 PM
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Lawl
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/18 05:38 AM
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I love how they all just move away from her.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/18 07:33 AM
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Why do you even give a fuck?
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 09:56 PM
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Your archive link points to this thread instead of the archive.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 10:09 AM
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You're wrong. Me and a buddy were messing around with these in highschool to see who could handle it longest. My buddy won by a landslide but had a really really bad burn for weeks.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/18 09:25 PM
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Is Bill Gates a Chad with a brain?
/r/MGTOW26/01/18 02:17 PM
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I know haha
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/18 01:45 AM
2

Mmmm Jodi Arias.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/18 05:07 AM
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Whatever you do don't go in /r/asianredpill. It literally is horrible.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 04:50 AM
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Well, then you're not that badly off. Just follow normal text-game with her - as in using texting to meet up.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 05:57 PM
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Did you make any tentative plans last time you saw her?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:55 AM
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You might have missed your chance with her tbh. But you did good in the beginning overcoming her I have a boyfriend shit test. You gotta either go back to her place or have her come to yours. If you're talking about sex stuff and doing kino while studying, just have her come study at your house.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:12 AM
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If you get worried about false accusations just turn the audio recorder on on your phone. Then you can do what you gotta do.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:57 AM
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Holy shit
/r/MGTOW03/01/18 01:39 AM
7

Read the fucking sidebar Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 08:06 PM
1

Second one is satire.
/r/MGTOW14/11/17 02:35 AM
2

The content in this video is such bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:14 AM
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Lol. This is some bullshit.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/17 05:11 AM
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They're the real victims.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/17 05:53 AM
1

What sub?
/r/MGTOW03/10/17 02:23 PM
1

The Surrendered Wife
/r/askMRP30/09/17 04:26 PM
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20 years is too good. I can't understand how they could do something like this. I feel like throwing up.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/17 04:06 AM
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Sexual assault?
/r/MGTOW02/04/17 08:25 PM
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Yeah I know. I was just being cynical lol.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:57 AM
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Thanks
/r/RedPillBooks21/12/16 06:23 AM
1

No because they'll figure out a way to make it so the patriarchy is crushing them with debt and that it's racist and sexist to make them pay it.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:10 AM
1

Roger.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 01:19 PM
1

So how do you tell when it is and when it's not?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 01:14 PM
1

It's like negotiating for sex. Actually it's the same thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 03:52 AM
1

Ok but how do you respond?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 03:49 AM
1

This sounds good. But isn't that sort of like retreating?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 03:47 AM
-4

Ew 17? That's above my limit.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 07:51 AM
-22

She's hot.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 05:13 AM
0

Perhaps you're right. The Fourth is strong with you.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/16 07:32 PM
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Why do I love seeing this so much?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/16 05:55 PM
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Huh. Maybe that's only a rule at Paris Island because at San Diego they would let you go for a while to see if the other person rallied. Maybe they have a different rule cuz of the females.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/16 10:43 PM
-18

They aren't what?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/16 07:15 PM
-20

Lol at all the white knights.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/16 05:54 PM
3

Lack of disrespect....sooooo, respect? Edit: and also I wouldn't put it passed a crazy feminist to do this, but this probably almost certainly didn't happen.
/r/PussyPass07/04/16 01:33 PM
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Huh. Guess I haven't been paying as much attention as I thought. I've been subscribed for a long time and haven't noticed.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 03:57 PM
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Lol ok
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 09:23 PM
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Wasn't an ego speech. I misread what he wrote, see /r/bluepillprofessor's comment. I don't know how to take my foot out of my mouth now.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 09:11 PM
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Hey man I completely misread what you wrote. My bad. /r/bluepillprofessor pointed out that that you weren't saying to not ever get in a relationship, but rather figure out how you got in THAT relationship and not get in that kind of relationship again. I read wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 09:09 PM
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Well fuck I totally misread what he wrote. My bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 09:06 PM
1

K
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:52 PM
1

Good articles. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:48 PM
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There's a difference. I occasionally ask questions here, and comment if I think it might be helpful; but what I don't do is act like an asshole unnecessarily and comment in a way that's completely against the point of the sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:47 PM
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Well he didn't really. It just seemed to me that hi post wasn't constructive to the OP's question, and wasn't germain to the sub, which is about people IN RELATIONSHIPS trying to implement the red pill. Saying you shouldn't have been in a relationship anyway sounds like the rantings of a, as /u/[deleted] says on this very thread: "single, young virginal angry 21 year old. Blind leading the blind."
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:46 PM
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Its purpose is to provide resources, guidance and support for people trying to live a red pill life on "hard mode", like in a ltr or marriage. /u/whinemoreplease was criticizing the OP for being in a relationship in the first place, which is sort of completely not the point of this sub. Edit: A word. Edit: Maybe it's more or less than what I've described, but clearly criticizing being in a relationship in the first place isn't constructive criticism on this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:42 PM
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That doesn't even make sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:37 PM
0

I think you don't understand the purpose of this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 05:55 PM
0

This is good info.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 05:21 PM
1

This.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 05:20 PM
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What relationship are you taking about? We're on r/mrp right now check your attitude ass hole. Edit: I misread. My bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 05:19 PM
1

Uncontrollably? Really?
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:33 AM
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Don't confuse me with facts.
/r/MensRights25/03/16 03:19 PM
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This is a common idea on here. There is room for the red pill in marriage, but there doesn't seem to be any room for marriage in ASKTRP.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:09 AM
2

Therapy is useless. Even if it were supposedly for her, it would turn around to being about you. And even if it doesn't, it still won't help. You sound like a Nice Guy. Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy. You need to develop outcome independence and learn to maintain frame. It sounds like she's not that fun to be around anyway. So who gives a fuck. You do you. Find some hobbies. This is one of the most overlooked things for men in marriages because all our time is sucked up by work and kids and wife. …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 04:31 PM
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Lol now it's all good. We're on the same page. But it was a very difficult adjustment for her at first, and I faced rebellion.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 03:11 AM
2

True. I'm married and she's not a unicorn but she tries, so I hope there's not a next time.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 02:12 AM
2

I love this one! You can't really start over on that one unfortunately. But excellent point.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:18 AM
1

I have 48 laws but I haven't read it yet. I'll take your recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 04:49 AM
1

True. It was hard for me too. Can you think of any other examples from the book?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:32 AM
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Cool, I'll see what I can find. I haven't encountered any of his other works. /u/Squeezymypenisy mentioned Discourses which I'll check out.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:37 AM
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Ok asshole. The flair was Red Pill Theory. No shit that cutting back is going to be considered miserly. That wasn't the epiphany. It was the myriad connections the Prince has to Red Pill philosophy. The post was to motivate a discussion of other Red Pill principles that can be found in The Prince. Read my post again, particularly the last sentence. Your comment was not constructive nor helpful to the conversation at all.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:36 AM
1

Interesting. I'll check it out, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:31 AM
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Mercenaries are women in this case? Good point, the previous chapter talked about how if the Prince relies on mercenaries he will inevitably fail.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:24 PM
2

I forgot what we were talking about and the comment above me is deleted.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 09:28 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 08:57 PM
1

It's a pussy cat.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/16 04:48 PM
1

Lol yeah
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 11:24 PM
2

And not just because of their body type? Or as a result of their body type?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 10:44 PM
5

What do you mean by natural body type? Do you think those ladies weren't unhealthily over weight?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 09:43 PM
0

What's your point though?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 09:42 PM
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Where's the guy who does "a wild drawing appears" or whatever it is? I wanna see a feminist warpig.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 09:37 PM
1

Lol I love this
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 10:52 AM
3

This is great.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 09:30 PM
1

Yup
/r/MGTOW27/02/16 10:12 PM
2

I think you need to read it again.
/r/MGTOW27/02/16 10:12 PM
1

Got it. I was trying to understand where all the venom was coming from. Thanks.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 07:47 AM
1

Have you interacted with this guy before?
/r/askMRP24/01/16 07:39 AM
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Just goes to show that it's actually I'm her nature to crave male attention.
/r/MGTOW17/01/16 06:45 PM
2

True. But it's her whorish way she haggled.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/15 03:48 PM
1

You're dumb.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/15 03:47 PM
1

The only person who said anything about Facebook or anything outside of Reddit is you that I recall.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 06:02 PM
1

Whether it is pointless or not has nothing to do with whether it qualifies as doxxing or not.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 04:03 AM
1

You're right. I'm just saying that you said it would lead to that idea, but we're pretty much already there.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 05:08 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 02:45 PM
1

But in actual fact aren't hot people generally above the law to a certain point in practice already?
/r/MensRights22/12/15 02:44 PM
2

Since when is posting someone's Reddit username on Reddit doxxing?
/r/MensRights22/12/15 02:42 PM
1

Thanks. This was on my front page.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 05:53 PM
1

Can someone link me to this story?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 05:32 PM
1

One unit of accurate data compiled by men please.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 08:40 AM
1

Lol thanks.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/15 03:52 AM
1

Meh, not worth it. I'm happy with my under informed opinion, ha.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 06:26 PM
1

I'd try to play it off but I don't have the energy. You caught me typing on mobile ha.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 05:48 PM
1

I just discovered the sub least night lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 05:39 PM
1

Glad I'm not the only one.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 05:27 PM
1

Ok. I see your point about the black pass. And I agree with you about the hypocrisy.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 05:26 PM
1

If a guy sexually harassed a girl like yay would anyone say she was out of line?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 08:25 AM
2

I can't stop watching this.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 08:25 AM
2

He's quoting another video.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 08:24 AM
1

Uhhh.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 08:07 AM
2

I'm keeping this for future use.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 08:02 AM
1

Are you an idiot or are you joking?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 08:01 AM
1

Omg the white knights just came out of the wood work! That was chilling. I wonder if that would have been the reaction before British culture came there?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 08:00 AM
1

No dude you're missing the point. It's not about whether the black guy was right for beating the shit out of her. It's about if she were a guy there's no way "he" food reasonably expect to not get his ass beat with that kind of behavior, but she asked that side she was a girl she wouldn't have the same consequence a man word, hence having a pussy pass. Since that didn't work out for her, PPD.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:54 AM
1

Cuz they are. And cuz female comedians talk about nasty stuff all the time. Even in the clip where the moderately hot chick was trying to be funny she wasn't really. Edit: a word
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:49 AM
2

What was the original statement?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:37 AM
7

Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:28 AM
6

Lol. Nice. She probably agonized between that and toothache.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:23 AM
2

What did he say? Something like, I didn't say I wouldn't punch you back?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:22 AM
7

Lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:19 AM
22

If I remembered the username I wouldn't have asked. I had the suspicion because of your whiney ass white knight tone though.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:14 AM
1

What? How is this PPD?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:10 AM
16

Are you the same guy who was arguing about this in that thread?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:09 AM
-1

Too bad it was soooooo long. I wanted to know what happened.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:08 AM
1

This is a lie, but it's beautiful. In V for Vendetta they talk about using lies to tell the truth. That's what you did, ha. Too bad SJWs do it too and get away with ruining people's lives instead of just doing it for fun on the webs.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 07:06 AM
19

Cough, white knight, cough.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 06:54 AM
4

This is great, but am I the only one that's bothered by the fact that she's getting in trouble because she wasted the government's time and cost it lots of money instead of the fact that she could have permanently destroyed that man's life? It's like it's being treated as if the victim is tye justice system instead of the guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/15 06:51 AM
1

Got it, ha.
/r/PussyPass11/11/15 04:01 PM
0

Thanks!
/r/PussyPass11/11/15 03:59 PM
3

Thanks for the support!
/r/PussyPass11/11/15 08:38 AM
1

What's actually happening here?
/r/PussyPass11/11/15 08:32 AM
7

I'm gonna get shit on for asking this, what is ratchet? Trashy?
/r/PussyPass11/11/15 08:32 AM
1

Good plan
/r/askMRP02/11/15 04:21 PM
1

Ok. I'll take that. What are you doing about spending so much time together then?
/r/askMRP02/11/15 03:50 PM
1

Your idea sounds logical too.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 03:49 PM
-1

She is probably cheating or thinking of cheating. No sex + always tired + suggesting you getting side action means to me that she is cheating or has cheated and if you do that her hamster will feel better.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 09:02 AM
2

Yup
/r/askMRP26/10/15 02:56 PM
1

I can imagine. When my sister in law noticed (she was over) she was like "ooooohhhhh the silent treatment!" like I was in trouble. I was just like, "so?" and laughed. She tried telling me "happy wife happy life" last night and I was like "no, that's emotional terrorism". Edit: a word
/r/askMRP26/10/15 02:48 PM
1

Lol, excellent point. I want really bothered by it. It was more like, huh, this is new.
/r/askMRP26/10/15 02:24 PM
1

Yeah good point.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 08:10 AM
1

So I get what you're saying, but what if she really did need it?
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:14 AM
1

Well do.
/r/askMRP25/10/15 03:06 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP25/10/15 03:06 PM
2

Good to know. When I got home I just was my normal self like everything was right in the world. I saw a moment's hesitation from her like "wait a minute I was mad" before she just gave in and went with it.
/r/askMRP25/10/15 11:10 AM
1

Have you noticed that someone went through with downvotes?
/r/askTRP25/10/15 03:26 AM
0

Yeah, it's a good strategy. I should start being more purposeful about it.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 02:17 AM
2

Tell me about it.
/r/askMRP25/10/15 01:54 AM
0

Will do, thanks.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 01:53 AM
0

Not at all. I've done that multiple times where I didn't feel like going out but told her to go ahead.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 01:47 AM
-1

Good words of wisdom. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 11:39 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 11:25 PM
-1

So do you think I shoulda responded to the one text I did?
/r/askTRP24/10/15 11:21 PM
6

Thanks for all your help.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 10:53 PM
3

You're lucky. No kids? Just leave.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 05:50 AM
1

Robert Redford in Out of Africa.
/r/askMRP04/10/15 05:00 PM
2

Finally no pussy pass!
/r/MensRights29/09/15 04:58 AM
2

Yeah
/r/MGTOW26/08/15 05:13 AM
0

40? Ew.
/r/MGTOW25/08/15 08:26 PM
1

This seems to be the recurring thing that I need to internalize.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 02:34 PM
2

Are these actual quotations? That seems pathetic and unworthy of Red Pillers. What do you attribute this to?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 05:29 AM
1

That's pretty much where I am right now. Uh, excuse me my wife is literally calling me to the bedroom right now. How ironic.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 04:08 AM
1

Got it
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 04:06 AM
1

I'll have to review the steps!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 10:33 PM
1

Injecting dread is actually proactively mentioning something?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 10:20 PM
1

I get that. But she's so far removed from where I work atm that I am at a loss on how to show that other than tell her what happened.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 09:41 PM
2

You may be right. She's still sorta stuck in the "if he's gonna then I'm gonna and it's his fault, let's see how he likes it phase". The thing that makes me think maybe not is the curiosity about the girl and the fact that she brings her up later, while I never bring the supposed hit who his on her up ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 09:34 PM
1

Great ideas. I'll check out the resources you provided when I get home, and followup with any other questions. Thanks for the effort you put into this comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 09:32 PM
1

She usually laughs at first. Then later she asks me about her, calmly, what she look like, do I work with her etc. Then usually the next day she tells me that a guy hit on her at work lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 09:02 PM
1

I plan on it, but I'm new at the firm and there haven't been any events yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 08:28 PM
1

Ok cool. Just be like "oh and then me and so and so and Carly went to lunch" etc?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 08:27 PM
1

Good idea. I work over an hour away so it's not likely. So far my impression is that it doesn't make me look bad because she asks what the girl looks like, asks about her again later etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 08:24 PM
2

Ended up telling him he was shitty in more words, paying him 25 bucks for the one thing he figured out that I couldn't and sent him away.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:43 AM
1

Also can confirm. Shit sucks.
/r/becomeaman26/07/15 02:52 AM
2

Got it
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:22 AM
4

That's hilarious. That's how my barber does my hair, ha. Didn't know that's what it was called. She just said, here's how your hair needs to be.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:22 AM
2

What's undercut?
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:00 AM
1

She should know her boyfriend though.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/15 07:13 PM
1

That's the way I look at it. However, my sister-in-law's boyfriend is such a little bitch (I mean that in the nicest way possible) that he would probably react differently. Also, if I trusted her to handle it and she screwed it up I wouldn't be happy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/15 06:51 PM
3

I tend to agree.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 08:40 PM
2

Me too. If you figure this out let me know.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 07:55 PM
3

Good job.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 07:53 PM
1

Thanks!!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 07:25 PM
1

Gotcha
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:21 PM
1

Cool, I downloaded it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:59 PM
1

I'll work on keeping logic to myself then!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 06:33 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 06:20 AM
2

Also MRP has the thing where you can't see votes right away.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 06:18 AM
1

I wanna know the answer too.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 06:12 AM
1

Not giving a shit is hard for me, but I know I need to do it. I just have to overcome my desire to respond argumentatively to the things she says, I feel like I need to "address" them, but I have a habit of thinking about it first so when we talk about it I'm prepared.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 06:11 AM
1

Good point. I hate the cringe though.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:50 AM
3

This is helpful, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:37 AM
1

True.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:36 AM
1

No, I've given up. She's so irregular that it's very difficult. One month it could be ten days, another month it could be 27 days. This month she's on day 35. That combined with nausea and headaches and etc made us think she was pregnant. However, piss test says no. She got blood drawn to make sure. Point being, it probably was the stress of not knowing if she was pregnant or not, more than anything, that fed into it this time.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:16 AM
2

Went to the gym this afternoon, pretty much for that exact purpose. So basically if I screw up and miss the chance to deal with a shit test in the moment, I just have to give that one up as lost, but learn from it so I don't miss the opportunity next time? There's no coming back from it later? Just clarifying. I really do need to start looking at the patters. Whenever this kind of behavior crops up, it's so unexpected that I'm almost always shocked by it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:12 AM
1

I can see the value of this approach if that's what was happening. The fact is though that she was getting ready to cook. I could just see the timing of things that it wouldn't work out and cause her to stress. But. I like your example ha.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:09 AM
2

It wasn't so much wanting to do something about it after the fact as want to know how to act. Act like nothing happened? Freeze her out? Just be normal? Keep hassling her about it? Obviously I missed the opportunity to react properly at the time, but someone can pass a shit test and then screw up the rest of the day, so someone can probably fail a shit test and then catch up throughout the day. As far as what the Captain of the ship would do, if we all were really always doing what the Captain o…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:08 AM
2

Ok. So we're in r/rmarriedredpill. Is it not RP to look at my wife, realized she stressed out and decide to offer her a break? I rocked the boat by offering it, not saying anything, letting her cook or making something for myself would have been not rocking the boat. However, I do see wisdom in your assessment as to how it came across to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:03 AM
1

You're probably right.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:02 AM
1

Probably
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:02 AM
1

So I should be grateful ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 12:03 AM
1

That was my assumption as well. Usually her reactions aren't so ferocious and I can pull a "don't talk to me like that" or agree and amplify or amused mastery etc. But I was so shocked that I missed my window and I'm trying to figure out how to come back. Edit: btw I like how you clarified it. Fine I'll have cereal doesn't mean I hate you bitch. Ha.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 10:27 PM
1

Yeah, that's my normal response for when she gets inappropriate, but her reaction was so furious that I was shocked and didn't say anything. Perhaps I wasn't clear in my OP, I wasn't asking how to handle it next time, but rather how to try to recuperate from the fact that I missed my chance to say that in the first place. I know this is not for help to pass every shit test. I handle probably 85% of them on my own. This sub IS for the times that people don't know what to do. I don't understand wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 10:24 PM
3

K thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 10:12 PM
3

That's what I ended up doing when she brought it back up. I didn't want to be the one to bring it up and be in a weak position.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 10:09 PM
1

Ok thanks!
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:17 PM
1

Nice
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:16 PM
1

That's awesome.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 02:45 PM
1

I will!
/r/askTRP08/07/15 02:38 PM
1

Well let me give you a real world example. Say I am being nice and switching a load of laundry because it needs to be done. Turns out one piece of clothing should not have gone in the laundry and gets ruined. Her response..."u/thelotusknyte, why would you do that?"
/r/askTRP08/07/15 02:37 PM
0

Lol I love those jokes. Why did the woman cross the road? Who the he'll cares, what is she doing outta the kitchen? In seriousness, I don't have the specific issue of the dishwasher, but I'm curious as to a good RP way of dealing with that.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 02:32 PM
2

Ok I'll try it. Thanks! Any thoughts on the dishwasher scenario?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:49 AM
3

A negotiation as in I'm still trying to excuse myself or get away from her wrath or whatever?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:43 AM
1

Are those examples of sarcasm or amused mastery? I'm not being snarky, I'm having a hard time distinguishing.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:35 AM
5

Total joke, ha. Had me going too at first.
/r/MGTOW28/06/15 08:43 AM
12

He's joking.
/r/MGTOW28/06/15 08:42 AM
2

At first I was like wtf os wrong with you, then I saw what you did there.
/r/MGTOW28/06/15 08:42 AM
2

I love how all of a sudden what she did doesn't even matter to her any more, and it was just "when were you going to tell me?" If I were him I'd break up with him.
/r/MGTOW07/06/15 03:03 PM
1

Got it. Thanks for explaining.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:57 PM
1

Perhaps outside of academia, but if you want to get tenure forget about it without the PhD. And as an example in the private sector, Google is hiring quantitative analysts only with Phds.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 06:55 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. Econ because I love economics, they have a good job market in academia, public and private sector, and have one of the highest lifetime incomes. Mostly though, because I really like economics.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 02:23 PM
1

Nice gig!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 05:26 PM
1

It is a hard choice! Thanks for your input and advice. Edit: how the heck did you work full time?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 08:03 PM
1

I think it is, in this field anyway. What you're describing sounds like science or engineering PhDs, which is a bit different. It's anecdotal, but check this: http://noahpinionblog.blogspot.com/2013/05/if-you-get-phd-get-economics-phd.html?m=1 I don't think I said I'd be paying for it. The program I'll be in will likely waive tuition and giving me a stipend.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 04:20 PM
1

Good idea!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 01:53 PM
1

See, the get what you're saying if we're only talking from a financial perspective, but there are more factors to it, aren't there?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 01:37 PM
0

I agree that debt is bad. I'm a little worried that she wouldn't be able to refrain from lording it over me, however it may in this case be unfounded. Our religion and culture is pretty much the same thing and there's a big tendency for wives to "put" their husbands through advanced degrees. I think you're right, though, cut expenses, sell a car, walk/bike to work. My mom is coming to town in a few weeks, and while we've looked at our budget over and over, hopefully a fresh set of eyes will help…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 01:36 PM
2

Hey man thanks for this advice I appreciate it. The university I live next to now is ranked in the fifties, yet the PHDs in Economics, which I plan to get, are still getting high paying jobs in the private and public sectors and in academia. Perhaps Econ is an especially good field to get a PHD in. It is from all my research anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 01:29 PM
1

I consider the things she does for me to be a full-time job, or close to it. Between taking care of kids, cleaning the house, doing my laundry, taking out my dry cleaning, doing errands, groceries, cooking, bills, taxes, paperwork etc, she gets about as much free time during the day at home as I do at work sometimes, which is as it should be, though perhaps she could improve her efficiency. However, it was just a typo for me to say to get "another" job. I meant get "a" job. Not because she's not…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 06:53 AM
3

I consider the things she does for me to be a full-time job, or close to it. Between taking care of kids, cleaning the house, doing my laundry, taking out my dry cleaning, doing errands, groceries, cooking, bills, taxes, paperwork etc, she gets about as much free time during the day at home as I do at work sometimes, which is as it should be, though perhaps she could improve her efficiency. However, it was just a typo for me to say to get "another" job. I meant get "a" job. Not because she's not…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 06:53 AM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP28/05/15 05:48 AM
1

It's daunting.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 05:48 AM
1

Good questions. But my firm has production requirements that I couldn't meet by working less.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 05:46 AM
1

Hey man, thanks for the warning and encouragement. This was a bigger post than I normally get responses to, so I lost track of some of these.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 05:45 AM
1

Sorry I missed this. Thanks for the pointer!
/r/askTRP28/05/15 05:43 AM
1

Sorry it took me a while to respond. Thanks for your feedback, these are the kinds of things I need to consider.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:13 PM
1

Everyone in TRP should know that TRP is what constitutes a healthy relationship, not sitting down and explaining feeling rejected, why are you even bringing that up? I'm asking, as I've said, in the very few times where she's just not interested in having sex, which is like two percent of the time or maybe less, how do I respond to not lose frame? I'm not asking for ideas on how to push past the resistance or anything like that, I don't need it. It clearly isn't healthy or RP to do what you desc…
/r/askTRP26/05/15 06:35 AM
1

I don't think so and I don't think you really read anything I wrote. I get sex about 98% of the time that I want it. Why would I basically force myself on her the other two percent of the time? That's not Red Pill and it's not a healthy relationship.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 02:12 PM
2

Yeah.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 02:10 PM
1

And, if she ever gets pissed at you you can basically guarantee yourself you're gonna get accused of sexual harassment.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 07:35 AM
1

Lol ok good idea.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 09:20 PM
1

Agreed. I'm asking more of how to respond in the right way the doesn't lessen me, not how to get her to have sex the last 2% of the time.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 07:40 PM
1

I had to read it a few times, but I got through it.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 06:55 PM
1

Ok gotcha.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 06:54 PM
1

Good points. Thanks!
/r/askTRP23/05/15 03:04 PM
1

Ok thanks.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 03:03 PM
1

Ok thanks!
/r/askTRP23/05/15 03:03 PM
2

Ok thanks for weighing in.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 03:01 PM
2

Well, the thing is I don't ASK to have sex and i never said I did, so I'm confused by your response. Edit: and again, for every 100 times that I initiate, she maybe turns me down twice. I'm not so much asking how to get her to give it up the last two times, sometimes it's just not gonna happen. I'm asking how do I behave when she DOES turn me down so I don't inadvertently weaken my position in general?
/r/askTRP23/05/15 06:45 AM
1

That's a good point. Kickstarter.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 06:37 AM
1

I'm curious about what you really mean about that. Are you saying that that should be my mentality in general? Or that I should literally force her to have sex with me?
/r/askTRP23/05/15 06:36 AM
1

What's OI?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 06:10 AM
1

Question: how do you just "start" funding her? My wife takes a minute or two just to get to the point that I can get in, and if I just started going to town it would hurt both of us.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 06:07 AM
1

Sounds smart.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 04:44 AM
3

Yeah. It is a little scary. I already have published small things and have shown my work to over 100 people. So I know I can write. I have the ability to go back to work if it doesn't work out though. My main concern is the change in dynamic with my wife. However, I see some upsides. I'll have more time to spend at the gym. I'll be the one doing the grocery shopping, so she'll stop sabotaging me by buying shit. I'll be doing what I'm interested in instead of what I just do to make money. I'll ha…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 12:08 AM
1

Fat is trim. However I like writing better than my business idea, which is why I'm not sacrificing by taking two jobs to get the money going. Anyone who will invest with you or loan money or whatever wants to see that you have skin in the game, and I haven't been able to save up non-retirement money for it yet.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 12:04 AM
1

I have what I think is a really great business idea, but don't have money to get it started.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:41 PM
1

In other words, keep track of my time efficiency's sake and to make sure I get shit done.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:40 PM
1

Again. Excellent point. I think that will be helpful to her.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:40 PM
1

Thanks for the encouragement. Milestones are an excellent idea!
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:39 PM
1

Sounds like good points. I get that too, because sometimes I think that's all she does now lol.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:38 PM
1

I'm willing. However my firm has performance requirements and there's no way they'd let me cut back without just firing me.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:18 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:13 PM
1

See, that seems to almost make the goal of staying home to write impossible, doesn't it?
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:12 PM
2

Lol. Day trading is an option. Good point. I'm interested in crypto currencies too. Edit: typo
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:07 PM
1

Like keep track of my time?
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:06 PM
1

I guess I'm at a loss as to how to do that.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:01 PM
1

So roll play it for me if you would. Her: how can you tell me I'm spending too much money on such and such a thing, I'm the only one working? Me: K. I'll just go back to work and you can stay home, because this is not working.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:56 PM
1

Mmmm. Probably not my old job, but I'm marketable, so I could go to another firm or even another field.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:52 PM
1

So what's the flashlight? And she's down with it. I brought it up as a potential option and she's been advocating it ever since. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:47 PM
2

I currently work for Edward Jones, which is notorious for keeping clients when advisors leave, so I'd have to go it alone, which I don't even know how to do. I could figure it out though, but I'd basically have to tell myself I'm starting from scratch, because I can't guarantee that the majority of my clients will come. Edit: but good point about the our money. I'm concerned that will change. I feel like men have the ability to be magnanimous more than women.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:43 PM
8

You're not supposed to directly link to Buzzfeed. Even though this article topic was okay, we don't want to help Buzzfeed, whose usual fare is feminist drivel and other trash and click bait.
/r/MGTOW21/05/15 07:12 PM
2

If the guys say you're too tall, that's the same as the fat chocks on Craigslist saying they only want a tall guy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:03 PM
1

Gotcha. Well keep throwing. I'm good at being introspective when nothing is up, but jit when things are heated.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 09:48 PM
1

I'm not saying I don't want your advice though!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 09:19 PM
1

I'm gonna work on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 05:17 PM
1

That sounds like a good idea. Up til now I've always realized halfway into the discussion.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 05:02 PM
2

I think you've got it wrong. All I'm saying is it's not as simple as reminding myself of something, since it's pretty much a kneejerk reaction, and I don't remember til five minutes in.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 03:59 PM
1

Good points. My issue too is remembering more than anything, you know?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 03:55 PM
2

Strange. Perhaps it used to be there. Anyway, there is a lot of anti-marriage sentiment on /r/theredpill, so perhaps it's not welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 08:15 AM
1

Must be hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 08:10 AM
1

Huh. I thought it was.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 07:21 AM
1

It does. Though for me it's not that I need to be convinced it's not worth. It's more, I grew up with all women in my house and not a damn one listening to me unless I got crazy. It's an almost thirty year old habit I'm trying to break.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 07:06 AM
1

How do you do it? My tendency is to go from 0 to about 45 for inconsequential things almost right away. Not screaming, bemit raising my voice right away for everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:55 AM
1

Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 06:31 PM
1

You could be right.
/r/PussyPass01/04/15 11:53 PM
0

Perhaps, but I'm just saying there still is possibly relevance since her reaction shows that she's used to getting a pussy pass.
/r/PussyPass01/04/15 11:41 PM
1

She probably got mad cuz she's used to getting a pussy pass.
/r/PussyPass01/04/15 07:58 PM
1

There's no obligation. It's a matter of what your goals are. If you want to pursue them an he doesn't, then what do you do?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 02:11 AM
1

Well thanks.
/r/RedPillParenting31/03/15 01:22 AM
-2

Barely relevant: http://youtu.be/_-gHVGOoE48
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:27 PM
2

That was my inclination as well. But I like to not always take my initial thought for granted, so thanks for weighing in.
/r/RedPillParenting30/03/15 12:51 AM
3

Damn if I knew what you're learning now when I was in high school my life would have been so different.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 07:01 AM
0

I totally down voted and prepared to launch into a tirade til I saw /u/drunknewb's comment about almost down voting til he saw the /s and then I looked and I saw the /s too and I up voted.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 07:00 AM
8

Dude, man up. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. If you don't read it then it just shows you're not even willing to try. Right now though, gotta be honest, you just sound pathetic and no wonder she's shitting on you.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:29 AM
5

Fifthly, read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:28 AM
5

Dude they're just sabotaging you with their words. What you should hear when they say that is that they don't like hard work and they're feeling guilty or shitty about themselves because you're working hard. Those are stupid girls. More importantly, who cares? Stop looking for validation from females.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:07 AM
8

I think you're harping on her poor word choice instead what she's trying to say. Would you find it hard to believe that more than one, or even many feminists treated her that way? I've come across feminists who are how she's describing in my every day life without looking for them. I've only met a few who are like Big Red, but I'm not surprised at all at her experience. Many feminists that I know (I live in Boulder, so I know a lot of them) would consider her a traitor. The kinds of threats she …
/r/MensRights26/03/15 04:56 PM
1

That's really cool. I thought it was a PUA tactic too because of the 15 rules. Thanks for giving me a new perspective.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 01:05 AM
3

Book of Pook always struck me as a book about getting laid. Am I wrong?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:25 AM
1

Good to know.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:46 PM
1

OK cool thanks.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:26 PM
1

Sounds like a good read. Perhaps I'll get it once I've gone through what I already have. Any suggestions from what I've listed?
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:20 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP25/03/15 07:59 PM
1

Does he ask your advice? If so tell him what you think without using the word "redpill". If he doesn't, then mind your own damn business.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:31 AM
1

Think about the girls you know who have horses. They're batshit crazy.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:25 AM
2

This is good advice.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:23 AM
2

Going forward, an easy way to not get into this situation or cause her to feel like she's been led on is to confine texting to setting stuff up and not having conversations.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 06:16 AM
1

At home.
/r/RedPillParenting23/03/15 03:07 PM
5

Yep.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:54 AM
1

I only wish I remember to do that when the time comes.
/r/MGTOW21/03/15 05:46 PM
3

She'll try. My wife thinks feminism is a joke, and having prepares her by pointing out the things her friend says and does has gotten her to the point that she can't take anything she says seriously.
/r/MGTOW21/03/15 04:29 PM
2

I'll start with my wife's best friend, ha.
/r/MGTOW21/03/15 04:24 PM
2

I love reprogramming humans.
/r/MGTOW21/03/15 03:35 PM
2

That's the tricky part. They seem to excel at doing that.
/r/MGTOW21/03/15 03:09 PM
1

Good call.
/r/MGTOW21/03/15 03:08 PM
3

Came hoping for real help.
/r/MGTOW21/03/15 07:06 AM
1

To and fro
/r/askTRP21/03/15 05:57 AM
1

You said it better than me.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 01:37 PM
5

Control the things you can control. Attitude/behavior can go a long way in how attractive a girl is. So keep up being feminine! The things you describe are all good things. Skin and teeth decent: play up what you have. Maybe invest in good girl products for skin. If your teeth are only DECENT then get invisalign and whitening treatments. You want to remove any negative that you can control. The things that you can't control will matter less.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 05:51 AM
1

There's a good convo on this over at /r/mensrights too
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:10 AM
2

True words.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 04:27 AM
2

Excellent points.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 10:20 PM
2

How was lunch?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 09:54 PM
2

That's what I thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 07:48 PM
2

Lol yup.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:20 PM
2

True.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:17 PM
3

Thanks for this example. I had forgotten about DEER. I'm going to try to implement that more.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:14 PM
2

That's cool. I've started doing the same on some things. She often comes back later and has done her own 180.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:07 PM
2

Thanks for this perspective. I agree. My mom has constantly tried to drill in a sense of respect for women because they're something special. It always rankled. I'm not against respect for women because they're HUMAN BEINGS, but that means they get treated like everyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:05 PM
2

That's like the one book on the reading list I didn't buy. I'll pick it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:02 PM
2

Thanks for this great response. I'll check out the reading material you suggest.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 02:42 PM
1

You might not be checking this any more, but out of curiosity, what part of this was immoral in your mind? This is not a loaded question to imply that it was or was not moral, I just want to know what was going on in your head.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 07:02 AM
2

Interesting. It won't make her think you just have problems?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:46 AM
1

That's an interesting concept and I would have no complaints about that at all. I'm LDS, though, and I know that Mormons generally, revere the State almost as much as God (not consciously, but it's their culture), and probably wouldn't be able to conceive of such a thing without suspicion.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 12:35 AM
1

I often tell myself that if I had discovered TRP before I got married I probably never would have. What about though, for people who are religious and believe in their religion? Setting aside the discussion as to whether they're being duped or not, do you think of a solution for people who don't have sex before marriage etc?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 05:25 AM
2

Here we go.
/r/MGTOW12/03/15 05:17 AM
1

Thanks for this. I've saved it to read it again later.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 03:55 PM
1

Great post. Wish I could show this to my wife. Guess I'll just have to implement it with.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:28 PM
1

That's what I was thinking. Where did you get your number though?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:27 PM
1

Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:26 PM
1

Do you know of a resource that shows averages by age?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:26 PM
1

What to do?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:10 AM
3

28, 5'8", and fluctuate between 185 and 195.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:09 AM
1

Does cholesterol increase testosterone or something?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:49 AM
1

Oh. Probably two eggs a day or less.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:18 AM
1

I'm 28. I feel like I'm too young to have this issue.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:17 AM
1

What's your rationale that it looks alright? I'm concerned that it's so close to the lower range.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 11:15 PM
1

Free testosterone reference range is 9-30 ng/dl, and I'm at 12 ng/dl. The total testosterone reference range is 240-950 ng/dl and I'm at 303 ng/dl. That seems low to me. And it seems to be a wide range. Maybe it's not unhealthy, but it certainly seems to me to be significant.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 11:14 PM
1

Very healthy. All whole foods, no added sugars, no processed food. Similar to paleo or primal. Vegetables, meat, fruit, some dairy, spices.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 10:56 PM
1

Dunno. I notice my free testosterone is near the very low end of the "acceptable" range. Doc was unconcerned, I was though. As far as my next step, I a m playing that by ear as I wait to see what the people who encouraged me to post these results say. Edit: spelling
/r/askTRP25/02/15 10:01 PM
1

True, but it seems like that might be an option in OP's case.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:28 PM
1

Well shit. My bad, this whole time I thought you were OP for some reason. Edit: but philosophically I don't think my idea is as dead end as you say. Plan ahead, open an offshore account in Chile or something, start selling things in general, THEN leave.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:34 AM
1

Jesus dude. I was going to suggest you just leave the country and was going to recommend a country based upon what your answer is. I'm a financial advisor and help a lot of my clients invest in companies in different countries depending on the industry etc. I know you're in a tough spot with what you're going throuvh, but am I right you came on here to get advice? If you left the country then it would be difficult if not impossible for a judge to force any kind of wage garnishment. Edit: and wha…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:13 AM
1

OK I see that, what's your profession/skill? Edit: cuz I got an idea
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:45 AM
1

What would happen if you just didn't pay? Would you go to jail?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:34 AM
1

What's a praetorian pass?
/r/PussyPass09/02/15 01:22 AM
2

I'd like to know exactly how this went down. Has anyone seen it posted?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 06:23 PM
1

I say just let it go. She cheats on him with you, she cheats on you with the next guy. She is not LTR material in the RP sense of the word. Spin that plate though if you want.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 07:03 PM
2

I'm glad I laughed when I read this. It's new to me. I shoulda known better though since I saw it on FB.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:21 AM
0

Amazing.
/r/MensRights08/01/15 09:00 PM
1

Cool thanks. Am getting book now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 05:06 AM
1

Which book? Just finished MMSLP and started NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 05:06 AM
1

Keep us posted throughout the day out of curiosity.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 04:12 PM
1

Well sounds like you're in good hands.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:51 PM
1

Usually the head is what's important for HIV, but there are other things. Anyway, that'll teach you to have drunk sex with Thai whores haha. When are you gonna see the HIV specialist?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:39 PM
1

PEP probably has higher risks than risks of HIV than oral. I'd get off that. What do I know though?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:31 PM
2

Well just chalk it up to a lesson learned. What lessons do you think you've learned?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:26 PM
1

I mean he's already invested a lot for no reward yet.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:25 PM
1

What's fogging and broken record? Ninja: and thanks for the info!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 03:24 PM
1

Very helpful, thank you.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:23 PM
1

Because my cousin ready for more already, and I don't know what to give him.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:22 PM
1

Question for /u/UEMcGill. Can you point me to more info on DEER, and what to do instead of DEER?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 09:07 AM
1

This this this. However, you really need to start working on yourself dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 09:06 AM
1

Good job. Shouldn't have called her back though.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 08:51 AM
1

You did most things wrong, but somehow you ended up with what looks like an OK result this time based on how you reported it. If you really don't want the obligation of calling her first thing in the morning, fine. Just make sure you weren't choosing to take a stand on this just for no real reason. Your approach needs work. If you don't want to call her first thing in the morning, just tell her that you prefer to get your day started first and you'll call her later if you need to talk to her or …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 08:48 AM
1

If you want to keep the relationship just move back in, don't ask. Keep your frame and just keep doing your thing. When she forces discussion, just say "you're either all in or all out, which one is it?" Have divorce papers in hand. If she says all out, or if she leaves the house with her belongings (not if she just storms out with nothing), hand her the paperwork. What's your hangup on kissing anyway? It's a hassle. Just ignore the kissing. Women and boys want kissing, men want sex. Don't make …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 08:36 AM
1

Did you come up with this? Or is there some RP parenting blog or book that describes this process?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 08:26 AM
1

Dread would have been the correct response here. Oh, you WANT me to cheat? I'll get working on your replacement right away. Walk out of the room.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 08:23 AM
1

You've already been friend zoned. Move on. Don't waste time on her of any sort. If she hears about your changes later and wants to hook up, maybe.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:16 AM
3

If she says she doesn't want to hook up, it means she's thinking about hooking up with you. Seal the deal if that's what you want. Seems to be too much work for a girl you've never even slept with though.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:14 AM
4

You need to get on here and edit your post. Everyone thinks you used a used condom. And why, WHY did you pay a hooked just to go down on her? She's telling her friends now that a guy just gave her money so that SHE could get head...
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:12 AM
3

I hope he means that he thinks he used a condom because he found a used one in the trash, but he was so messed up he can't remember for sure. I hope he DOESN'T mean he used a used condom. To answer your question, there's no way of telling. Just go to the doctor.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:09 AM
1

Are you talking about my original question for my cousin who is open minded? Or about my secondary question for my brother-in-law who is married to my sister?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 05:41 AM
1

Are you talking about my original question for my cousin who is open minded? Or about my secondary question for my brother-in-law who is married to my sister?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 05:41 AM
1

I'm not so much talking about making introductions and being well-behaved for that 30-second period, but sitting through a one-hour church service.
/r/RedPillParenting31/12/14 12:03 AM
1

That's what I'm working on.
/r/RedPillParenting31/12/14 12:03 AM
1

Ok thanks!
/r/askTRP30/12/14 04:13 AM
1

4chan.org/fit Ah ok ha.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:06 PM
1

Good points. Who knows when the IUD is coming out though.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:00 PM
1

Ok, but do I bring it up again or wait for her to?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 04:59 PM
1

Got it.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 04:59 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. I'll try to apply it.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 04:58 PM
1

Well I guess it's ok then that she backed out of compromise, now I have a chance to redeem myself when it gets brought back up again. What do I do when she DOES bring it up again? When I was in my early 20s I played video games out of control. I already reigned myself in and play only a few hours a week and have been since before we were married.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 06:00 AM
2

You're right, I shouldn't give in. And I see now that I shouldn't have even compromised. However, saying video games is for children is mostly baseless I think. There are many that are clearly made for adults, and it's about having fun, not about being productive. There are plenty of adult-only activities (drinking?) that are for fun and rarely about being productive, but I wager that most here would say to just not let it become a problem.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:58 AM
1

Well, I see your point. But isn't that me just consoling myself with some new logic to make myself feel better that I can't have more kids now because my wife is withholding that?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:57 AM
1

Can you explain?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:56 AM
1

Ok. I see that you're right. I also see that I should probably not bring it up myself again. Is my only hope just to wait til SHE says something and then react the way you say?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:56 AM
1

Ok. I get that it's a nope. But I'm failing to see how I can accomplish what I want otherwise. It SEEMS like I want more kids more than her, so it gives her the upper hand, unless there's some RP voodoo I'm not thinking about...
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:55 AM
1

Perhaps I was exaggerating. I just mean I didn't have that in my arsenal.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:53 AM
1

I agree. Are you saying that I shouldn't have offered a compromise at all in this situation (only playing on weekends)? How should I apply what you've said to THIS situation?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:48 AM
1

I'm not sure either. I think she thinks that it causes me to not be as productive or something. It also bothers her if I'm doing it but she can't do things she likes to do to relax (because she's decided she wants to go to school RIGHT NOW, so she has homework that she has to do at night, and gets annoyed when I'm relaxing and she can't). She has mentioned a couple times in the same paragraph about video game playing and worrying that she wouldn't have enough help from me if we had another baby,…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:46 AM
1

I wish I got a prize.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:44 AM
1

She does have similar issues if I sit down and watch television for an hour, unless she's doing it too. But if she's not, by choice or because she has to do something, then she doesn't like it. And when I game, I game at night after my son is asleep. Just because that's my go-to stress reliever, doesn't mean I think it should be his, ha.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:44 AM
1

Well I was reading Red Pill for Boys to get ideas on how to talk to my teenage brother and my young son when he grows up. It mentions that women respond to different displays of value differently when they're ovulating vs menstruating, so I was wondering about applying that.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 09:14 PM
5

Right
/r/askTRP28/12/14 07:33 PM
1

Agreed, it hurts my head too. It strikes me as withholding something important just to get your way on something petty.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 07:12 PM
0

Lol good point!
/r/askTRP28/12/14 07:05 PM
1

Oh I get that. And if I were to come to a conclusion that I didn't want to play video games any more for those reasons, and I was doing it willingly that's great, because I'd be more productive. However, I'd always have the leeway to make exceptions for myself when I wanted, you know? I wouldn't be beholden to someone saying "you said!".
/r/askTRP28/12/14 07:05 PM
1

Thanks for your response. The hurry: I WANT to have another kid. I started thinking more about this because his cousin who is close in age is here and they've been keeping each other occupied and having tons of fun together for the past few days, I think my son would enjoy having another sibling sooner rather than later. GTA: I should have mentioned that she's on an IUD, and she said she'd take it out next month on the aforementioned condition. So it certainly doesn't stop me from having sex, I …
/r/askTRP28/12/14 06:30 PM
0

It's already a problem for her lol. The thing is, we have sex whenever I want, but I should have mentioned that she's on an IUD, and she said she'd take it out next month on the aforementioned condition. So I can't just assume another kid will come, you know?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 06:24 PM
1

Great.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:14 PM
1

Do you happen to know the name of the study?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:34 PM
0

What are you talking about?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:34 PM
0

So I'm screwed? I just don't know if the emotional aspect of the cycle still happens even if the actual bleeding doesn't.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:26 PM
1

Cool. Any specific article recommendations?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 05:53 AM
1

I know, it seems like common sense to me too. Mentioned the CONCEPT to a female family member, without talking about TRP obviously, and she poo poohed the idea. I was hoping to find something for her to read outside of the Manosphere so I didn't have to reveal TRP.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 05:52 AM
1

Persians are white. They have Aryan blood and are considered white.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:37 PM
1

This was excellent. You answered the question I was asking, thank you. Followup question. I read a lot on here, but I've apparently missed or forgotten k-selection and r-selection. Could you clarify or point me to something to read?
/r/askTRP20/12/14 01:10 AM
1

I apologize for my late response. I've been on mobile all day and I felt like your comment deserved more than what I was willing to type on my phone. First of all, fuck you. I've been following the red pill for over a year. Not obviously as much as many, but I'm committed and convinced. I was looking for an explanation to something that has always caused a sort of cognitive dissonance in my mind. I have no more buillshit than you most likely and I am a man and I believe in the community. Second …
/r/askTRP20/12/14 01:06 AM
1

Ok thanks for the explanation.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 03:01 PM
1

Understood
/r/askTRP19/12/14 03:00 PM
2

Got it, thanks! It's always been hard for me to maintain a cognitive dissonance about that and now I don't have to!
/r/askTRP19/12/14 03:00 PM
1

Not necessarily overt disrespect, I just am skeptical about committing to something that I don't know what it is. Obviously many women disrespect on purpose, but others do unconsciously because of their social conditioning or whatever.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 04:59 PM
1

Lol. Early phase.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 04:57 PM
1

Gotcha.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 04:53 PM
2

They might be in some phase of being MGTOWs.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 07:08 AM
1

I don't care about legally binding, I care about my integrity. If I say I won't tell, then I'll have a moral conundrum if I find out afterward that I SHOULD tell. To avoid the moral conundrum, I don't commit to not telling. I know now that I should have flipped it back on her like what /u/fnordsnord said.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:25 PM
1

Out of 10 I assume? Thanks for the feedback. Good flip!
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:24 PM
1

Ok. So you think it was ok that I wouldn't commit to keeping to myself til I heard it. What about my presentation?
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:24 PM
0

My qualm with that is that she's unwilling to abide by my judgement to determine if it's something I'll keep to myself or not. She may have a perfectly good reason for it not wanting to be told, and maybe it's normal for her to want to talk about it. But I think it's disrespectful not to trust my judgement on it.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 09:22 PM
8

Or download the Stronglifts app.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:11 AM
0

I'm asking what OTHER PEOPLE THINK about the movie in a Red Pill context. There's no rule that says I have to write an essay about it first. If people haven't seen the movie then it's obviously not a post for them, is it?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 09:09 PM
1

Good points. Thanks! Sometimes it's easier to listen to Reddit than family, ha.
/r/RedPillParenting05/12/14 03:04 PM
0

Why do you say not worth talking about? The movie itself wasn't the greatest, but it's got some good examples of the different players of the game.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:17 PM
0

What content do you expect, it's a movie!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:16 PM
1

Good point.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 07:34 AM
23

She both is and isn't proficient in home economics?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:32 AM
2

Excellent perspective; thanks.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 06:23 AM
1

This was helpful, thanks.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 06:22 AM
2

Thanks, metal health is very important to me.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 01:37 AM
1

28
/r/askTRP30/11/14 06:08 PM
3

Interesting. I believe it. I use it sporadically for back pain. Maybe I should do it regularly. Why kind of yoga?
/r/askTRP30/11/14 07:30 AM
2

I see the progress as far as becoming aware of it. But it's been maybe 2 months that I've been aware of it, and maybe only 2% of the time am I aware of it in time. And about my mom. You're right. It's particularly insidious because she doesn't know that's what she's doing. She just thinks that's normal behavior and that there's nothing wrong, you know? But while I'm glad to be able to point to a "well that's why I act that way"reason that's legitimate, it still doesn't excuse me now that I'm awa…
/r/askTRP30/11/14 06:55 AM
17

Separate Amazon account, deliver to your office.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/14 03:44 PM
1

Interesting. I'll check it out, thanks!
/r/RedPillParenting21/11/14 09:28 PM
4

No it's fine. Open it. It's up our ally, but a bit off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 06:07 AM
1

Interesting, thanks.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 09:40 PM
1

That kind of girl?
/r/askTRP18/11/14 08:35 PM
1

Don't answer.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 08:23 PM
1

I say there's nothing wrong with it. Check /r/marriedredpill since it's for LTRs and I think there's one called /r/redpillparenting as well.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 07:19 AM
0

You're not answering my question. Why is that? And the links completely relevant, they refer to the fact that the prefrontal cortex is not mature until mid-twenties. My point was that the person's argument that a person can't have sex at 15 (which I THINK we both agree is ridiculous) "Because when we're 15, we're unable to make fully educated decisions due to being immature. What if he got her pregnant? Or caught a disease?" are not good arguments for the following reasons: If the argument that …
/r/MensRights10/11/14 01:37 AM
1

What do you actually think my opinion is? Because your reaction seems to be too strong.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 12:34 AM
0

You clearly didn't read what I was saying very well. I'm not arguing for that. I'm saying based upon the arguments of the person I was replying to, the logical conclusion would be people who were under 26 couldn't have sex, which is fairly ridiculous. And as far as good decisions being.good societal, not completely. See below. http://hrweb.mit.edu/worklife/youngadult/brain.html http://science.howstuffworks.com/life/inside-the-mind/human-brain/teenage-brain1.htm http://m.bbc.com/news/magazine-241…
/r/MensRights09/11/14 10:46 PM
1

I'm not arguing for that. I'm saying based upon the arguments of the person I was replying to, the logical conclusion would be people who were under 26 couldn't have sex, which is fairly ridiculous.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 09:32 PM
-4

Anyone under the age of 26 probably has an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex, which means they're all unable to make good decisions. And the risks of pregnancy or disease exist at any age, being 15 has no inherent increased likelihood of pregnancy or disease. So, should no one be able to have sex til age 26?
/r/MensRights09/11/14 04:59 PM
2

How do you pass that shut test?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/14 06:10 AM
4

First rule of The Red Pill is, you never talk about The Red Pill (to women). Soooooo, not saying that you screwed yourself as far are fulfilling your oneitis dreams, but not a good idea in general. You can't turn a ho into a housewife.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 01:47 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 02:59 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 05:03 AM
8

I really like your interpretation best. However I think probably your RP filter understood it in a better, but unintended way. This is usually used to convey the meaning of yeah let him be head of the family, but he's useless without woman who is what controls the direction and focus of the man/head.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 11:54 PM
1

It's the truth that boys are better than girls?
/r/askTRP26/10/14 05:11 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP26/10/14 01:49 AM
2

No. I've seen it mentioned multiple times the past couple weeks, but in my perception I never saw it discussed before that.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:39 PM
1

Ha.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:38 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:37 PM
1

Well when you put it that way.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:34 PM
1

This was helpful, thank you.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:33 PM
2

True. Wrong choice of words again.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:04 PM
1

Ok. I'm less concerned about her being upset with me in general and more concerned about her being upset for the wrong reason. Is there a way I can clarify for accuracy's sake without being beta? If she's still pissed after then f her, but I want to be accurate.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:04 PM
1

I don't assume fault for having an opinion. If you read my OP you would see that I'm not concerned about the message I wanted to get across, I'm concerned about my inaccuracy.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:01 PM
1

Ok then. On a side note is there no place in TRP for admitting fault or anything like that?
/r/askTRP25/10/14 05:14 PM
1

Got it.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 05:13 PM
1

I meant does it change how I should handle it. I may have not intended to say something that wasn't true, but what I said wasn't actually what I wanted to say.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 04:31 PM
2

Ok I get that. But this is a person that I'm going to have to see frequently, work with at church, etc. Does that change anything?
/r/askTRP25/10/14 04:03 PM
1

I still don't have a perfect answer unfortunately.
/r/RedPillParenting24/10/14 06:07 AM
1

Oh so you've swallowed the blue pill. Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 09:27 PM
1

I think you're probably an idiot. Clearly if nothing like this had ever happened before he would have handled it with more largesse. But it was more of a problem behavior, and there's no way it's appropriate for a MIL of a grown ass man to tell him to make a bed, especially when his wife is there. Makes no sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 09:26 PM
4

Til I read the second half I was ready to totally blast what you were saying. Good point, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 09:12 PM
2

I'm not an alpha master yet, but from what I've seen, you're reaction when she wanted you to get the box was ok "I'm not done yet". However when she got up, obviously she doesn't trust you to do it at the right time. While that in and of itself is insignificant, you were upset because of the implications, I get that. However, once she's up you have to switch modes. Instead of trying to stop her, just laugh. Or tease her otw out, anything but getting upset, and anything but getting it yourself at…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 06:49 PM
1

Wots FOGGING, precious? gollum, gollum
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 06:37 PM
2

Probably. If we're going for alpha ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 02:29 PM
1

I would say that you are right to resent the ultimatum, but that you handled it wrong. Instead, when she gives you the ultimatum, don't respond directly to it by saying not to give you ultimatums. You are asserting yourself it's true, but it almost invariably comes across as weak and even if it doesn't, you're letting yourself get drawn in. And for SURE don't beta out and start talking about how she's disrespecting you. Instead, agree and amplify, or use humor or one of the other tactics, help m…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 05:53 AM
1

How do you implement this when you've already been sucked into deals of who does what in the house?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 05:47 AM
2

Is a gorilla tactic something a gorilla does to get bananas or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 05:41 AM
2

I'd say that if this only happened because she's drunk then the easy solution is to avoid getting drunk with her. The nature of alcohol is that it lowers inhibitions, so this is obviously not something she would do if she were thinking straight. I suggest you not take it so hard this time. However, not having her get drunk is hard if you still wanna get drunk. Not fair. So you'd have to stop too. If you think about it, I don't think that there are any alpha qualities that are exemplified by gett…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 05:28 AM
3

This has been si many people on here, we know what you're going through, so if the responses seem brutal, it's only in the hopes of getting through to you. I see how you came to the "no computer for her either" conclusion, because if she acts like a child, treat her like a child. However in this case I don't think it applies, it just makes you childish too. I think, if you're sure she's not cheating, that her computer control is just that, about control. Buy yourself a computer, make it way bett…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 05:19 AM
1

This is true.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 04:51 AM
1

I was gonna write something similar but I'll just second this since I'm on my phone.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 04:34 AM
2

Good point about the adds.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 11:20 PM
3

I guess the problem is that while happy wife happy life is true, you just can't trust them to know what makes them happy.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 11:19 PM
1

Even better if that's true. They claim they don't give traffic to the site though. http://www.donotlink.com/dnl/faq
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 02:18 PM
6

This is disgusting. Next time use http://www.donotlink.com
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 06:10 AM
1

Don't be passive aggressive. But if you really don't think that what you did was wrong in the grand scheme of things, you should at least see of you can feel honest about addressing the professionalism, or lack thereof. I'm not going to write it for you, but if you talk about how you understand that when you're on a team like this that there's a certain level of professionalism that is expected and that you recognize that you did not meet that standard when you did xyz, and that for that you're …
/r/askTRP07/10/14 03:05 PM
1

This. I was gonna say to screw the email, but this is better, make it about being professional, not about authority.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 04:55 AM
1

You nexted her, right? You say you're desperate to figure out why she had sex with someone who was a bigger beta than you. I think you're concerned about the wrong issue. But to answer it, either he a actually wasn't more beta than you, or he just SEEMED less beta at the time to her. Doesn't matter though. Let's just say he WAS a bigger beta, her rationale as to why she'd have sex with a BIGGER beta doesn't matter because it won't be a rational decision. I suggest you just focus on developing yo…
/r/askTRP28/09/14 09:49 PM
3

Well /u/aphoc, personally I think you're wasting your time. I doubt that you'll have enough quality time with him to make a difference. However, I can see why you'd want to help him after what you went through. If it were me, I'd focus less about teaching him "official" Redpill doctrine, so to speak, and more about showing him an example of how a self-actualized redpill man behaves. He'll start to look up to you because you stand up to women in a stoic Redpill way and he'll see they don't have c…
/r/askTRP27/09/14 07:24 PM
3

If you're worried about being able to find more plates, then don't do the three some with one and two, one or both WILL get jealous. Bring in a Tinder girl. Edit: formatting
/r/askTRP27/09/14 07:03 AM
1

She may not even have a boyfriend. Consider that; this could just be an attempt to get you to "get serious", and it's not working because after you more than ever. But even if she does have a boyfriend whether she says they've had sex or not doesn't matter. You will never know the truth, so that doesn't matter. As far as whether you should keep spinning her, that depends on your personal code. It's one thing to seduce a married person and perhaps ruin both of their lives, but she's practically t…
/r/askTRP27/09/14 06:59 AM
1

You're absolutely right. Some day if you get into an rp LTR, then there may be a time that your shortcomings are overlooked even though she knows about them because your other displays of value are high.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:50 PM
1

Just say no.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:45 PM
1

Not enough info, but you have nothing to lose, so who cares? Just do it.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:43 PM
2

You came to the right place, but there are multiple things that you did that contributed to what just happened. You can't have closw female friends. They make bad friends because they invariably start wanting the attention a boyfriend gives to a girlfriend, but they won't reciprocate. Almost invariably, they end up being a sucks of you time and energy and sanity. Confessions - none of her business. It is a low display of value, gives her reasons to hamster later, and she can throw it in your fac…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:41 PM
4

You actually did fine imo. You were clear about your expectations, there can be no excuses later if she gets upset that you won't get married.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:08 PM
1

Sounds like you're on the right track. In the beginning for me I only ever recognized the shit tests after the fact. Now I'm starting to recognize them as they happen!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/14 03:05 PM
1

Lol
/r/RedPillParenting19/09/14 06:56 PM
2

She backs me up on discipline things luckily
/r/RedPillParenting19/09/14 06:26 PM
2

Ok I'll try that. I used to, but as soon as he understood the concept of options it became convenient at first, but now he's not listening as much.
/r/RedPillParenting19/09/14 03:05 PM
3

Worthless. The talk does nothing. Usually she comes out on top, and even if she doesn't and she promises to change things because of how it makes you feel, she doesn't follow through and you won with blue-pill techniques which aren't long-term. Just let your actions show her what's up.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/14 07:50 PM
3

This is excellent. Keep posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/14 06:41 AM
1

Good idea.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 05:46 PM
1

Ok thanks.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:28 AM
2

Ok. Well would you mind giving me the reader's digest version of why Georgia is so wonderful for divorce?
/r/askTRP13/09/14 02:55 AM
1

I don't see how I can not tolerate it without seeming like I have something to hide.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 02:24 AM
2

Unfortunately for me, your advice to everyone else I could never have done in the first place for moral and religious reasons, though I understand the sentiment.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 02:24 AM
2

No. She gets 200 a month to spend on what she wants. I don't question it. But when she spends more than that, without consulting me, that's where I take exception.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:14 AM
1

True.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 07:58 PM
2

If you read it and still are of that opinion then it seems to me like you're just having a hard time with the core concept. Why do you even subscribe here?
/r/askTRP10/09/14 07:57 PM
2

You obviously didn't really read my last response to you.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 03:44 PM
1

Lol ok
/r/askTRP10/09/14 03:43 PM
2

I spend TONS of money on here where we talk about it beforehand. Easily 20 times the money I spend on myself. That's not putting it in perspective, that's a straw man designed to take away the focus on the fact that she's disregarding the fact that I make all the money, I am more than fair in the fact that I have chosen to have a Captain/Co-Captain relationship on money matters, yet, she sometimes flouts that and disrespects me and makes those kinds of purchases. As I said, it's not about the do…
/r/askTRP10/09/14 05:05 AM
2

Not like I really know what I'm talking about yet.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:49 AM
3

Meh. You basically described the definition of the tip of the iceberg because there's a lot more going on underneath, ha. I'm not too concerned yet, however, it just seems like typical female behavior before they've learned that they can be happier, more self-actualized and have healthier relationships in a redpillmarriage. She just has to learn it.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:44 AM
1

Why do you think that?
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:10 AM
1

What did the person say? It's deleted now.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:10 AM
1

She says that she won't. I know it's this sub's tendency to mistrust things women say, but in the past almost 4 years she hasn't really given me any reason to suspect that she doesn't tell the truth. But I see your point; I'm debating.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:09 AM
2

I tend to agree. It seems to me that restricting access to finances would be going nuclear before I have an Iron Dome set up and I'd probably just be screwing the marriage. It's hard to have the same callousness about things when you're trying to make the marriage work, you know? We are going through a transition. You know, it's interesting, I worked for a short time with older teenage boys with autism, and we practiced a treatment called Behavior Modification (real generic name) which basically…
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:09 AM
1

I'm loath to switch because it ruins the context that people who've been helping me on here have about things that have happened in the past. I don't know how to explain my confidence that she won't keep reading what I type on here. She doesn't have an account, she said she wouldn't do it (I know I know, but she doesn't lie to me that I've been able to find out about anyway). If you really think it's worth creating a new profile (and this will be my fifth one, they're ridiculous to keep track of…
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:05 AM
1

I'll try it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/14 02:03 PM
1

True that. And she knows that she has to ask. That was a lesson she learned in year one. At first she was like "if you love me then you'll know what I need" BS. Now she knows to ask. The thing that's pissing me off right now is that she's saying it doesn't count as helping if she has to ask haha. I'm torn between agreeing and amplifying, or doing the amused whatever it's called. Or just saying, oh, if it doesn't count, then why am I doing extra work for nothing? and sitting back down.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/14 04:05 AM
1

So what I've started doing if she asks me for help with him and it's legitimate, I just say something like "wow, this sure doesn't feel like doing 0% of the work" in a joking way. She's said things like "ha ha" or "very funny" in a light tone. But She's also said things like "it doesn't count if I have to ask". To which I just say, "of course it does" and keep doing what I'm doing. I'm tempted to say "oh, if it doesn't I'll just sit back down then".
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/14 07:50 PM
1

Lol good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/14 03:42 AM
1

Turned out that it was either Dread, or she was just over it. Because she was nice and sweet and acted like she wanted everything to be ok. Since she didn't bring up any problems or talk any shit, I let things be ok for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 10:56 PM
1

So you know, that's what I thought too. But it doesn't FEEL like she has very much of the hispanice culture. All of the men in her family are betas. Her uncles, her dad, her grandfather, they all do house chores, cook, clean the kitchen etc, so that was a big surprise when she wasn't looking, at least culturally, for the masculine, confident leader, but more like a housekeeper, haha. However, I DO THINK that while culturally she's not looking for it, sexually (as in gender) I think she is. I've …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 06:10 PM
1

Good idea, thanks for the encouragement. I've posted a couple edit updates on my OP, I would value your input when you get time.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 02:35 PM
1

The Philippines. I think that probably explains a lot, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 02:34 PM
1

See that's the hard part, maintaining frame. I'm good at it at first, because I'm thinking about shit tests and maintaining frame all the time. However, only for the first round of the match. Then she shuts herself up in the bedroom, leaves our kid out with me, and just sits in there either doing homework, going on instagram, looking at her phone, sleeping, pretending to sleep, looking at different degree programs (she's changed maybe 10 ten times in the past four years, luckily it hasn't delaye…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 02:21 PM
1

Important Edit: I left early for work this morning after saying goodbye to my son, nothing to my wife, though she watched me as I left. While I'm driving she just texted me this: "Just because I'm parenting our child 100% doesn't necessarily mean you can come and go as you please without telling me. If you want that to change just say so." English is her second language so don't read too much into the "come and go as you please", she is just saying that she doesn't want me to leave the house wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 01:33 PM
1

It's morning and we haven't said anything to each other yet. I just walked into the family room and she gave me a questioning look, but I just ignored her. I'm trying to show her that her behavior is *not ok, but I'm worry it's coming across as pouting or doing some kind of immature silent treatment. How am I supposed to act after something like that? (Also posted as an edit.)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 12:55 PM
1

I'll read those and get get back to you. And maybe they are fitness tests. And about attraction, here's the confusing thing. She has sec whenever I want, and even initiates if we're having it often (frequency is on me, and it goes up and down depending on my energy level, I probably need a testosterone test), but she never witholds sex, and even offered to have sex whenever I need to instead of fapping since I'm on no fap. She's just witholding children.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 12:50 PM
2

I get what you're saying, and I probably didn't give enough info (I wrote too much as it is). She DOES tell me when. However like I said in another comment, I spend lots of time with him, and play with him when I can, but her complaint is my resistance to taking over as mommy when I get home.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 12:45 PM
2

Oh she tells me when. However it's usually unnecessary and she does it whenever I've finished my work for the day because she sees I'm suddenly not busy. I spend lots and lots of time with him though, so her complaints are baseless in my opinion. Edit: And yes, she's looking for drama. It's what she does because it's how she's been conditioned to act to get what she wants and to get attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 12:43 PM
2

He's got nothing. He's pathetic and trying to sound hard.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:25 AM
1

Sounds to me he saying you don't need to work out is either a conscious or unconscious reaction to knowing that means he'll have to start working out too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 04:35 AM
3

Why not just make a new budget, open two new accounts, have X small percent go into one for your wife's spending money and the other into yours. Just do it and when she complains just say she spends too much money and until she can act right that's how it's going to be. What's the worst that could happen?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/14 05:19 AM
1

Dails, I don't know how my phone even came up with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 04:15 PM
1

Dails, I don't know how my phone even came up with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 04:15 PM
1

What would you attribute your success to?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 04:01 PM
1

And she got all "wanna go to the movies?" blah blah. He didn't handle that we'll cuz he didn't own it, but still.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:27 PM
0

Yeah well she failed miserably if that's the case because as I mentioned she walked back in 5-10 minutes later lol. Edit: phrasing
/r/askTRP19/08/14 02:50 PM
2

I think just your awareness will help. Another that helps me is to post interactions I had with my wife on here when I'm not sure I handled it right to see what the veterans say. Always analyze how it went after, identify areas of opportunity and then ask us for better ways to handle it next time.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 05:21 AM
1

I was raised by my mom. Always was reprimanded when I acted red pill.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 05:15 AM
1

Both and either one.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 04:21 AM
1

I'm laughing right now.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:16 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:19 PM
0

Well, David was young and not really a full man yet, but I get your point. It all just seems borderline gay.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 04:27 PM
1

That scares the bejeezus outta me.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:50 PM
1

Good point.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:32 PM
1

You're right. They're an anomaly.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:32 PM
1

Right, but I still think it's different. When we lift, that's really just bringing out our true potential as men. That's not really what we're doing when we shave anything, but rather it's suppressing something that's intrinsically manly. For example most western cultures find hairy women to be unattractive, and women who look not hairy or who are naturally not hairy are attractive. So in western society no hair is feminine. It's a female grooming practice, just like painting nails is a female g…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:31 PM
1

Huh. But see? It was a PLATE that caused it.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:24 PM
1

Do you literally shave them with a razor?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:23 PM
1

I see your point about making the dong look bigger, but unless that's a personal self image thing, and not a thing for the ladies, it still kinda bothers me, not that it's your problem ha. I feel like game is more about your presence. If you are alpha and in shape, then guys with all sizes of dong can be successful, right?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:23 PM
1

I subscribed to rational male today, thanks for the recommendation!
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:06 AM
3

I hate to just sort of echo /u/ bluepillprofessor here, but my two cents is that we can't tell you what to do. Once you are able to say something like: I don't ever want to get married, then I'm sure you'll be able to find people here who can help you finesse that and keep her going. Or, if you know that you do want to get married, but aren't sure if you want to marry HER, then I bet there are people on here who can help with that. Or, finally, if you don't know if you want to get married or not…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 04:01 AM
1

So what happened? She said she wasn't down to share.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:51 AM
1

Good point.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:30 PM
1

Good point.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:30 PM
1

She's hot for it.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:30 PM
1

Interssting. I'll check that.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 04:51 PM
1

I agree with not doing it when they're having a fit. However I felt between a rock and a hard place because it was my son and I didn't want him to be the pressure point of conflict between us, you know? That's my reasoning, I'm not saying that was necessarily what I should do, it was just the best thing I could think of at the time. About the window. It wasn't actually the window, it was the curtains. She was right about that, if we leave the curtains open he wakes up like at four in the morning…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 03:25 PM
1

Cool.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 02:05 PM
1

Yeah me too. I didn't think of it til after, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 02:05 PM
1

I don't know when to keep my mouth shut yet.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 02:04 PM
1

Darn
/r/askTRP13/08/14 02:03 PM
1

I agree. Thanks for the perspective.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 02:03 PM
7

I think because a wife gets pissy one night isn't grounds for nexting... so I that a joke?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 05:07 AM
2

I've dug out of curiosity. It really is Instagram and Youtube, her phone battery usage is pretty much those two things, the screen and system files. She's just being childish, she's not cheating.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 04:47 AM
1

Ok. In my mind I was like, how can I show this means nothing to me? But I felt I was grasping at straws you know?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 04:08 AM
2

Thanks for your feedback.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 03:27 AM
1

I'm mostly curious as to your analysis on how I reacted to her saying she was going out. Should I have stayed silent? Was I just right to let it go when she came back?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 03:19 AM
6

Just break up with her now. You said she can't run away to him, so she's getting her alpha from him on the phone and the beta from you, why give that her? Just break uo, focus on you, get a job, find another girl.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:42 PM
2

Yeah, compliment is better.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:28 PM
2

Had a girlfriend who stopped me from making her have an orgasm. Was the weirdest thing. I never figured it out, but she was molested as a child so that's the old standby. One night, for better or for worse I just kept going and she came and she never stopped me again and got way more into it. It is hit or miss on if that will do more harm than good. Looking back, I'd say it was pretty risky.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:24 PM
2

For number two I was typing on my phone. I was trying to say to not tell HIM to stay away from HER. But I guess both understandings are valid. I feel like if you need to tell a guy to stay away from your girl, it shows you're scared and any guy worth his salt will realize it's time to go in for the kill. However if he really has no game, then I think probably if you just keep doin what you're doing you'll be fine. And I know what you mean, because I never cared if the girl was single or not eith…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 12:25 AM
2

I'm not an RP expert, but here's my take. No particular order. Stop hanging out with that guy. If she's not a plate, then he's trying to hang out with another guy's girlfriend. I don't criticize him for that, because all's fair blah blah blah. But what it means could be he really is beta and has deceived himself into the common belief that if betas can give her enough attention blah blah and be there when your relationship ends "he'll be there for her" or his perception of your alpha qualities i…
/r/askTRP10/08/14 10:21 PM
4

He's still a pushover though.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:46 AM
1

Excellent point.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 06:27 AM
0

Be careful, feminists might coopt you and say if you believe in equality between the semester that "by definition" you're a feminist. Maybe say you believe in equality for EVERYONE, take gender out of it so they can't trap you.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 06:26 AM
2

Def not LTR material, you probably realize that. I see no reason to not let her come over for quickies IF you can stay alpha and send her home when you're done. If you can't do that then get rid of her. Edit: reread your post. I don't know what I was thinking. Get rid of her.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:47 AM
2

Got it. Thanks, I'll try that.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:36 PM
2

Got it.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:31 PM
1

Nice. Didn't know about it.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:01 PM
1

I'll check them. Thanks.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:54 PM
2

I get what you're saying. But what's in it for me doesn't really sound like how you treat someone in a marriage, is it?
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:53 PM
1

I have a hard time with these without them sounding hollow. Sounds like I need practice. It was so easy to do this to girls, even her, before I was married because I just didn't care, you know?
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:18 PM
1

Got it.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:16 PM
1

Ok. No DEER.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:14 PM
1

Thanks. So when I cut it short, HOW do I do that. Because it seems petty to just silent treat her, and I think that's more of a beta thing anyway.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:56 AM
2

I've been catching up on the side bar as I can. I've read married man sex life and am 3/4 the way through the second book.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:55 AM
0

She totally sounded jealous. She probably saw some guy she wanted to be with with some asian girl, and explained it away by coming up with this ridiculous theory. However, I had yellow fever, married a filipina girl. My son is the best thing that ever happened to me, but if it weren't for him I would say it's probably 60% disaster, 15% amazing and 25% neutral, which isn't a really good score imo. She's DEFINITELY not submissive, and I've seen other white guys with filipina wives/girlfriends and …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 04:42 AM
1

Thanks for the encouragement. Yeah, I could feel my logical arguments falling on evermore deaf ears the more I spoke. I just don't know how to express myself in ways that aren't logical lol. I know I engaged when I shouldn't have, but I need help from anyone helping me figure out at which point I should have checked out of the conversation, and how I should have done it etc.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:39 AM
5

I just wish that I could figure out how to do this for when my kids get older: "My father cannot be manipulated, and I can only remember one time in my entire life when I saw him angry and heard him yell. It was terrifying. He never had to raise his voice to let people know he was displeased or disappointed. To this day, the thought of letting him down is one of my greatest fears. I want him to be proud of me.
/r/RedPillParenting31/07/14 04:19 AM
1

Huh. Way to use context clues!
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 02:38 PM
2

Archwinger, as in a cross of Archer and Jeff Winger? That's like the best combo ever!
/r/askTRP30/07/14 05:13 AM
2

What is "N"?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 04:59 AM
1

Her: what do you do? Me: I figure out how to teleport shit
/r/askTRP24/07/14 06:54 AM
0

Thanks for the post. What kinds of "well if I tell her that she'll be mad or leave" things are you talking about in specific?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:02 AM
-2

Hi thanks for taking the time to respond. Reasonable: I can understand someone wanting to be able to land on his/her feet if the worst should happen (worst being in this case, divorce). However, is it not also understandable that I wouldn't want to help her with her "golden parachute"? What kind of tool would that make me? If it really were just about loving learning and all that stuff it would be easier to get behind. But it's clear from things she's said in the past that that's not all it is. …
/r/askTRP20/07/14 05:38 AM
-6

Sorry I missed this. Ok. But if keeping your options open in a marriage is Ok then I should be working on other girls, right? No, so she doesn't get to keep her options open like that either. It's not just time management issues I think, at least after talking with everyone here about it. She chooses not to do things during the day, then at night she feels overwhelmed with everything and asks me to do what she shoulda done all day. The fact that it takes me an hour to do that stuff doesn't bothe…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 01:39 AM
-2

Yeah but she's 22 now. I'm not mad that she's not getting the house work done. I'm bothered by the fact that I know she COULD get it done, chooses not to, and then leaves it to me.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 01:35 AM
-3

No, I'm resisting her requests for help because she doesn't do laundry all day and then asks me to do it at night when I get home. I don't understand why you can't see that. And I don't know why you put "responsibilities" in quotations. I don't ask her to help me find clients for my business or do paperwork for me....
/r/askTRP18/07/14 07:22 PM
-3

I believe in education and if she wants a degree then I say get it. But not when it comes in the way of other responsibilities. Helping her organize etc is hard because it seems like no matter how I approach her, she feels criticized and it escalates quickly.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 06:40 PM
-5

It's simple. I didn't say there wasn't a lot if it, but it's simple. I know it takes organization, and time and effort. But the things in and of themselves are simple. Usually. And you're obviously focusing on the wrong point. The point is we have one child and she can't get that stuff done in almost twelve hours. Barring exceptions and disasters etc, that's unacceptable.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 04:15 PM
1

Never knew it was the same thing.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 04:13 PM
-5

You're pretty much wrong. If she can't get simple house work done in almost 12 hours, then it's not about me stepping up, it's about figuring out what the problem is.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 02:21 PM
1

Huh.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 02:19 PM
0

Exactly.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 02:18 PM
1

I'm decent at time management. I get my stuff done on time. I'm hesitant to confront her on it because I don't feel like I have ammunition to overcome things like "you don't know what it's like with our son always needing attention" or whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 06:17 AM
-2

See to me this just sounds like she hasn't learned to get her shit in order.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 05:58 AM
0

We're not paying for the degree and she's shown no interest in citizenship and I'm not about to pay for it anyway.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 05:57 AM
1

Obviously he has the right to choose. But I can't help thinking that he wouldn't tell you now if he didn't really want to be stopped. You stopped him last time, he knows how you work. Telling you means he wants you to stop him. Not that he necessarily KNOWS he wants you to stop him, but it is a cry for help imo.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 05:31 AM
-1

Her mom is super crazy. I can't even describe how crazy she is. Her house isn't the best kept, but not a mess. I'm missing your point about the economy.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 05:02 AM
-3

I didn't say I wanted to ignore that, did I? And she's talking about Filipina girls back in Phil who get married to whoever, not just white people. However, I do think she's upset that she's not running the show lol.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 01:03 AM
-7

She has had a 4.0 her whole life. And I didn't ask for advice about homeschooling. There are plenty of ways to socialize kids other than making them sit in a classroom all day.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 01:01 AM
-1

She had been in the states for two years before I knew her. We met at an electronics store.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 12:59 AM
-16

I don't. I'm saying that she has time for it, which would indicate that she's got time for other more pressing things like homework, too.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 07:15 PM
1

Huh. Looks like it was deleted.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 06:46 PM
1

What are you referring to exactly?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 05:54 PM
-7

Ok!
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:53 PM
-7

That's kind of what I was thinking. I haven't even finished The Mindful Attraction Plan, much less run the map on her, so there's that.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 04:13 PM
-3

Or Mindful Attraction Plan, written by the guy who came up with the red pill...
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:56 PM
-4

Yes. I figured that the way to do that would just to refuse in the right way when she asked me. Wrong?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:55 PM
-3

Is it that severe?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:54 PM
-3

You know what? At this point it's not so much the fact that certain things are deal breakers, I'm content for now to let her get things done on her own time. What IS a problem is NOT doing it during the day and then asking me to do it so that she can work on homework at night.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:31 PM
-5

Not if I can figure out a way to keep him...
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:31 PM
1

I agree. But she doesn't think the degree will get her a job. She thinks that she'll just go get a graduate degree later, and that one will be relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:10 PM
-5

How do you mean?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:08 PM
-2

We're not like that. They're gonna be in sports clubs etc.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:08 PM
-2

What about my kid though?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:08 PM
-6

I know she'll think or pretend to think that I'm being insensitive and not a good helper. Men from the Philippines, from what I've seen, are culturally beta, so her whole perspective is skewed.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:07 PM
-4

By running the MAP you mean?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:05 PM
-5

That is in the back of my head.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:02 PM
-9

I like the idea. And that kind of arrangement is what I tend to think myself. It will spark an argument though. What do I say?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:01 PM
-3

No kidding. I don't want him to be a goober.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:19 AM
-5

That's the tricky part, because we're going to home school til at LEAST highschool, if not til college.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 04:52 AM
1

Your impression is pretty good. Though there's also more to it than that. I just posted over on asktrp if you care to take a look. http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2axer5/wife_wants_a_degree_i_think_its_a_problem_right/
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:45 AM
2

I tend to agree. However, what about the issue of the fact that she wants to have a degree before our kids are old enough to start home schooling?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:25 AM
1

Good point.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:23 AM
1

It's a useful degree if you get a masters after. And she's scaling up, not down haha.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:14 AM
1

That's an excellent point. But I know she'll just say what /u/maybelle11 mentioned which is that if nothing else it's so she'll feel like she's accomplished something in life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:14 AM
1

I value education in and of itself. However feeling "accomplished" feels like a stupid reason to me. That being said, we're not paying for it because we have sufficient grants. The deal was no new debt for school. I agree, and this is what I've said various times, to the tune of "if you don't feel like you can get everything you need to get done in a day, then you need to stop school". She throws it back on me that I'm not being supportive of her goals. Which is what it seems like.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:08 AM
1

Our kid is 2.5 so she thinks she'll be done with school by the time the serious homeschooling starts. About cutting off the money, I wonder about that. How is it right? Aren't we a partnership? It feels controlling. I have the book. Already read the Primer twice, I'm about a quarter into the book. Thanks for the support. I know that typically when asking for advice on how to deal with things that it belongs in TRP, I only came here because I was specifically looking for mommy blogs and you know …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:06 AM
2

Well, she's actually only taking one at the moment, it's 5 credits. The only thing I can assume is that since it's statistics, and she doesn't like math, that therein lies the problem. She's working toward a degree in Integrative Physiology. It is useful because it's a broadspectrum life sciences degree, which will be helpful for teaching our kids, and it's also pre-med for various disciplines. She plans on not pursuing a career right away until the kids are in high school or out of the house (i…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:04 AM
1

I didn't post to ask for advice on fixing issues. All I asked for were mommy blogs. You read my other comments here, but those were in response to what other redditors on here asked/said, that wasn't what I was asking for. She didn't ask me for mommy blogs. She DID ask me how she could get all this stuff done. And I did send the links to her, six hours ago: Imgur I just asked her just now, she looked at them. I don't know if she spend a lot of time on them because I don't know how she spends her…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:00 AM
0

I find it to be high value work. I just think she needs help figuring out how to get it done. I'm not home all day, and I have confident that it's not new ground that's being dug, the logical conclusion is to recur to a source that I figure would have it figured out, instead of trying to figure it all out on our own. Not being competent enough to do what the work is and not having creative ideas on how to tackle it are the same thing if she's not getting it done. It really sounds like you just w…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:39 AM
1

I'm actually kind of awestruck that's the conclusion you came to. After giving my background information, you apparently missed the crux of the post. I'll repeat it here for your benefit: I DO know she's overwhelmed. Do you ladies know of any good mommy blogs where she can get ideas and inspiration without being subverted by feminazis? TLDR: What's a red pill approved mommy blog?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:48 AM
0

Well that's another thing. She thinks she won't work til the kids are in high school. She says she just wants a degree so that she can feel accomplished. I wonder why she doesn't feel accomplished as a mom and a wife, but she doesn't see it. Some women don't I guess. So she won't work and home school at the same time though.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:26 PM
2

Perhaps you're right. However her argument for that is that she needs me to help her with this stuff so she can do her homework at night. But what that means to me is that ALL DAY she wasn't able to get the housework done with the kid. I realize that some days are better than others. But it's not every day. She doesn't even work on homework til I'm home and our kid is in bed. So she's really only dealing with two things at a time, kids, and house work. It's just boggling my mind that it takes fr…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:23 PM
-1

If you're on here you're probably not a feminazi. I don't really feel like it's my role to do housework, in general. I get that there are times that there are exceptions. I feel though that since I'm out working from probably 8-6 that when I get home, I should be off duty. I like your idea on playing with my kid while she does that stuff, though I feel pretty sure she'll take that as me trying to get out of doing that stuff. In a way she's right. I recognize things take longer with kids. To me t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:20 PM
1

I agree. However we're homeschooling til AT LEAST high school if not longer, and I think she's afraid it'll never happen.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:16 PM
2

Thanks for the pointers! I'll send real simple and flylady to her. Thanks again! And also, I get what you're saying about going to school full time. And if that had been part of the plan in the first place, I would get it. I can't help but feeling that since this isn't what we talked about before we got married that if she wants to do it now, instead of later which was HER idea by the way, that she just needs to figure out how to do it. Perhaps that's incensitive and I'm wrong, and I'm open to a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:11 PM
1

I don't think it necessarily will. However, a conversation last night is what prompted this. I think it may HELP.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:10 PM
11

Wait, it's a man writing this? It just got more pathetic. And wth is cisgender women?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:19 PM
1

Magician, Warrior, Lover, King
/r/askTRP16/07/14 04:03 PM
1

She's a plate.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 04:43 AM
1

This is good.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 04:39 AM
5

Just don't say anything. When she inevitably calls you later tonight and she asks you what you're up to, just say super nonchalantly "oh nothing, out with Jenni, you remember Jenni right? Anyway, we're about to do shots, I'll see you when I get home!" lol Edit: Schpelling
/r/askTRP11/07/14 04:31 AM
17

This.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 06:22 PM
3

This.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 03:10 PM
1

Missed that. Thanks. And thanks to whoever down voted me. I always go in here hoping that will happen.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 06:02 AM
-3

What's SMV?
/r/askTRP06/07/14 05:05 AM
6

Just pretend to get mad and say: "why the hell would you ask me such a thing?"
/r/askTRP05/07/14 12:59 AM
1

It doesn't affect everyone equally though. What you're saying implies that the sanctity of life is less important than the emotions of others.
/r/MensRights02/07/14 05:37 AM
1

Lol. And that argument would imply that feelings are more important than the sanctity of human life.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 04:46 AM
5

It's not a dick measuring contest. She's implying that the women have it worse off than the people putting their lives on the line. It's BS.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 08:10 PM
1

There is that. I don't know if I could live with that though. Maybe he's more alpha than anyone ha.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 08:09 PM
12

You're right, what was I thinking. Obviously it's worse for the people who go on living.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 04:08 PM
-9

It can't be sloppy diction you're right. Bill must be pretty beta to be married to a feminist man-hater.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 03:55 PM
663

I think the primary victims are the people who die. Edit: My very first gold. Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/06/14 06:49 AM
1

No. Neither men nor women should be required.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 06:42 AM
3

Thanks for clarifying that.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:08 AM
6

It's a subconscious reaction, not an analytical one I think.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 05:01 AM
2

What is IOIS and kino please?
/r/askTRP29/06/14 04:57 AM
5

I keep seeing plates mentioned here. I get what they are, but I don't understand the word usage of "plate". Can someone explain?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:30 AM
1

You say handle it like any other fit test. What way would that be?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:39 AM
1

k
/r/askTRP25/06/14 09:41 PM
3

I say you're fine. You're married so there's no moral issue. If you're interested in saving the marriage I think this can only help. I say go back again when you can get it up next time you're horny and really give it to her. Worse case she says no means no and things stay as they are right?
/r/askTRP25/06/14 07:08 AM
6

You're an idiot.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 07:06 AM
1

Thanks! Will do.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:47 PM
1

Perhaps, the problem is I thought I WAS aware of it, and just losing. Don't give me too much credit. This morning my wife said: "I'm not putting that watermelon away", which she got out for both of us. And I let it slide. I start doing this thing in my head where I say "ok, I'm going to be mature about this". But I wonder if that's just my hamster making excuses for me taking the shit tests and failing.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 05:37 AM
-1

http://youtu.be/wDoIM1dRzGo
/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:59 AM
1

Again, I wasn't saying his results were good or bad inherently, just that it was said that it wasn't a good way to game a chick, but if all is being talked about is gaming a girl, then he's got a good thing going, in the context of what it is. It's not the best thing to aspire to, and to recognize your teenager reference, I personally stopped that stuff when I was a teenager. BUT, in the context of gaming a girl, which is what was said, he's doin alright.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 09:35 PM
1

Oops, ma bad. Didn't even know. Should I delete and repost or just remember for next time?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 09:32 PM
1

If that's all it was, I'd agree. I do make her feel safe, but along with that think about a rebellious teenager whose upset with her dad because he won't but her X thing or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:49 PM
2

It's funny that you say that. Sometimes I feel like we have a daddy-daughter relationship.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:20 PM
1

I wasn't commenting on it being a good thing or not. But u/fluviant said it wasn't how to game a chick, I.was just expressing my incredulity because of the results the OP is getting. Which, as far as they go, seem a pretty good way to game a chick, if that's what you're looking for. Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:03 PM
2

Hmmm. Well that's disappointing a bit. However I don't feel like like I "enforce" my will on her. It feels like to me she never listens to me etc, so it was surprising to me that she felt like I put her in her place. When I asked her what she meant she said that I don't let her get away with being unreasonable or illogical, for whatever that's worth.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:00 PM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:56 PM
1

How do you mean? She said the last part with a smile on her face.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:31 AM
-1

That was only part of the conversation. It was sort of a meta convo of about our relationship....anyway, it seems like you're not really responding to my post.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:30 AM
1

Can you talk about the wife being emotionally needy enough thing so he talked to other women?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:28 AM
3

I don't think you got it. He has sex with her whenever she's in the country. Without having to be her boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:16 AM
1

Who made that argument?
/r/MensRights21/06/14 06:50 AM
0

The boy looks just like me, so I doubt DNA test is necessary, but it can't hurt. I didn't buy the purse. So I won that. But I got sucked into an argument about divorce, so I lost that. And no to getting a job and paying for it herself. I don't say I earned this so I have exclusive say on how it's spent, so neither would she. If she got a job (which I don't want for various reasons) that money would go towards the family like everything else.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 08:13 AM
0

It almost feels like a temper tantrum.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 08:10 AM
0

Perhaps. But I've found them to be especially materialistic. Perhaps SWABTO.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 08:09 AM
0

I'll do it next time then.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 08:04 AM
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I get that. But as I mentioned to someone else here, I can't pay someone to take care of him all day. I feel confident I could win him in court, but once I have him on my own I'd be in trouble.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 07:52 PM
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I know. Income isn't such that I could pay someone to take care of him all day however.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 07:51 PM
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No worries! At least I saved my nuts from bein busted.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 03:41 PM
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Well, she is filipino.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 03:40 PM
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Actually bear. Google it. Edit: here's a link: http://public.wsu.edu/~brians/errors/bare.html
/r/askTRP13/06/14 07:25 AM
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I get that it's most likely a shit test. But I don't want to risk it. It's my kid that I'm risking. It's not about manning up, if he weren't in the picture I'd do it. The thing is she's sometimes stupidly stubborn and if I called her bluff she might just carry it out in order to not "lose", and then I'm losing, not because I'd be losing her (which still would suck), but because I'd be losing him. Edit: spelling
/r/askTRP13/06/14 07:24 AM
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I had a hard time staying calm when I read this.
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