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shittyfuckdick/r/seduction18/06/22 11:13 AM
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shittyfuckdick/r/seduction21/01/22 05:18 AM
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shittyfuckdick/r/seduction10/03/22 03:43 AM
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I agree. Just be prepared for another rejection was my point
/r/seduction20/01/25 09:17 PM
56

You can try this as long as your skin is thick enough to handle another rejection.
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:58 PM
10

NEXT
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:57 PM
240

Then you’re no better than the girls fishing for free drinks.
/r/seduction28/09/24 08:30 PM
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Lead what they just want drinks? What the comments suggesting is that if you don’t do it they’re either gonna “forget” they asked or expose themselves by asking for a drink again. Either way you come out the winner cause you got to chat up some cuties at the bar.
/r/seduction28/09/24 08:29 PM
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This is just not true. I worked at a fortune 400 while working full time at another job. Money was amazing
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 03:33 PM
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This is just not true. I worked at a fortune 400 while working full time at another job. Money was amazing
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 02:46 PM
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This is just not true. I worked at a fortune 400 while working full time at another job. Money was amazing
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 02:46 PM
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Same here
/r/TheRedPill09/03/24 06:55 AM
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I wasn’t implying you don’t have your shit together. When it comes to making money it’s about putting in the effort.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/23 11:34 PM
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I make 250k at 27. Apply yourself
/r/TheRedPill02/04/23 07:16 PM
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lol I have all those except maybe fashion. Still a miserable piece of shit
/r/TheRedPill02/04/23 07:15 PM
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I’ve went to meetups and hit on girls. Here’s my advice, don’t do anything ballsy at the actual event. Make friends and go out witrh them elsewhere and do shit like that. The meetups are for meeting people, don’t reveal your full hand there.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 01:36 AM
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Yea cause getting big is very easy and happens quickly It will help though. It’s just not gonna happen overnight.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 01:35 AM
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I asked the same question att 25. Truth is a lot of did waster our best years. Only thing you can do is try and make the best of it b
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 09:45 PM
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Yea same with most paid courses on the internet
/r/TheRedPill08/12/22 03:49 AM
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Fuck off zuckerberg. Nobody needs this shit
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:23 PM
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You’re digging up old comments of mine cause I seemed to have offended you elsewhere. Get a life
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:37 PM
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Loser
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:34 PM
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Oh thank god I thought I was fucking up when doing this. I never say that shot to girls unless I’m fucking them. It’s mostly cause I can’t help it though and am horny at the time I just say what’s on my mind
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 06:42 PM
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What is there to disagree with? He’s selling a program that has nothing to do with TRP. I don’t understand how you can disagree it’s just a fact
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 02:51 PM
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How the fuck am I promoting it. Seriously what is going with this comment section I’m being fucking attacked for no reason
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 03:48 AM
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I’m not saying his info is valuable. I’m just saying he’s not selling content you get for free from the sidebar. I don’t see why I’m getting downvoted for stating a fact
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 12:02 AM
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I’m not disagreeing. I’m just saying he’s not selling sidebar content.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 04:00 PM
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to be fair his course teaches you how to make money, which really isn't the focus of the sidebar. Edit: i think i need to clarify what I meant. Tate's course claims to teach you how to make money. I didn't say it worked or wasn't a scam. I was simply saying that the course has nothing to do with the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:42 PM
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Yea but he is really fucking funny and entertaining
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:59 PM
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Ugh so true. But heartbreak leads to good character development. My last breakup improved me all for the better. Nothings forever. Enjoy it while it lasts
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:37 PM
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So just updating since you have the top comment. Last night I took her out to a nice dinner. We came back to mine after and later that night she mentioned something about us being sexually exclusive, which I told her I was open to. So all in all im really happy. Didn't expect her to bring it up so soon.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:58 PM
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Wow i literally did all this last night before I even read this comment. And guess what, last night she asked if we could be exclusive. So what do you know it worked
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:58 PM
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I mean that’s basically my question. Wasn’t sure if it’s too soon. Also cause I’ve read you’re supposed to let her ask so I don’t come off too clingy/needy. So yea idk how to answer that question which is why I posted this.
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:21 PM
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Yea we’ve had sex multiple times and she slept over once. Can’t keep our hands off each other
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:12 PM
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Very unhelpful. We all got to learn somehow
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:10 PM
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You know man, I had the same mindset. I improved myself and got into shape and also make over 6 figures. Then I’m like “where’s my pussy I deserve pussy”. It just doesn’t work that way. You need to put yourself out there and get the ball rolling. You’re not gonna get girl instantly messaging you just cause you improved. How could they when they don’t even know you exist. Congrats on the weight loss. But obviously you still have a lot more work to do.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:01 PM
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Oof. With that attitude you’re right. Like I said there’s plenty you can do. I’m not gonna list everything her cause it’s been said a million times. Put in the work and you will get results. Or sit around and cry about how ugly you are
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:46 PM
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Depends how long. I’ve actually had his happen a couple times now. I invite them back to mine but they don’t put out. But then a day or two later they do. I think they just do that to seem less like slut or cause they see you more as a boyfriend. If it’s some they hold over your head for weeks look elsewhere
/r/newTRP15/08/22 04:37 PM
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She’s on vacation. She has so much else on her mind other than some dude she just started seeing who’s 1000s of miles away. Don’t put her on a pedestal and take your mind elsewhere. Reply if and when you feel like it. Don’t seem needy
/r/newTRP15/08/22 04:35 PM
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Not sure what you mean by that. If you think you’re unattractive plenty of things you can do to boost your appearance. If you’re attractive, you just need to start talking to girls. You’ll build the skills over time.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:29 PM
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This. Also be attractive. Then the shit you say matters a whole lot less
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:22 PM
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Good bro. Just remember the days you do something when you don’t feel like it are more important than on the days that you do. That’s how you end up sticking with good habits.
/r/newTRP11/08/22 09:24 PM
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Gonna be honest, what you’re feeling is a spike of dopamine. You’re doing something new and different and it feels good. This is great! But this feeling comes and goes. The important part is that you keep pushing even when that feeling isn’t here. That’s the difference between being motivated and being disciplined. So I’m happy and proud that you feel good and are doing the right things. Just know that you can’t always rely just on feeling good, and you need to stay the course no matter what. Th…
/r/newTRP11/08/22 04:31 PM
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A lot of the girls I met recently on hinge are on paths to be doctors, lawyers, scientists, etc. Maybe it’s just my age/location but I would try that app. The girls tend to be more mature overall.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:44 PM
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I kind of did this. Like first time i was pretty much fingering her but she was super tensed up and not really moving. So I just kind of looked her in the eyes and asked if everything was ok. She was like yea i dont want to go any further but you can keep doing that cause it feels good. But then I backed off for a bit. but throughout the night we made out a lot and i felt her up (just like grabbing her ass and stuff). I figured if she wanted to go further she would've leaned into a little more t…
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:12 PM
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What sort of problem solving could I have done rather than just asking her?
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:56 PM
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So true. She showed maturity in a bunch of ways and I found it really attractive.
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:02 PM
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Sorry, how am I impatient? I am totally fine with waiting for sex. I had a great time with her regardless. She even said she appreciated me not trying to jump her bones and asking if she was comfortable. But, I really like this girl and wanted to make sure her turning down sex wasn't gonna put me in the friendzone. Everything else that happened seemed to indicate she liked me though.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:58 PM
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It’s very true in my experience. All my dates with Asian girls have been slam dunks.
/r/newTRP05/08/22 06:13 PM
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Well I certainly colonized her
/r/newTRP05/08/22 05:44 PM
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I remember I let my first gf go carve pumpkins with another dude. I wound up getting suspicious and snooped through her phone to find she was fucking a totally different dude. Women doing shit one on one with another guy is a huge red flag.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 12:35 AM
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This guy fucks. Love the handholding tip And I always try to do 2 places.
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:09 PM
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At this point I think dating is easier. At least I have an app to setup dates. Organically meeting people is so fucking hard.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:01 PM
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No it was legit better. The girl was even giving me compliments and telling me she was having a good time. There was way more flirting. Usually my dates are just boring conversations then I get ghosted after.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:39 PM
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Just started actually. I’m hoping it will fix something But my mental problems stem from not having any friends or girls.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:33 PM
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It’s hell man. I hate myself
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:29 PM
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No I’m 27
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:33 PM
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I’m 27. Making friends is damn near impossible.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:01 PM
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Lol this happened to me. I brought the girl home but I couldn’t get hard. I think it was also nerves
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:01 PM
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chit chatting with strangers isnt gonna cure my lonliness.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:09 PM
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meditation, therapy, journaling, lifting. im tired of doing everything im supposed to do and not getting any results.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:07 PM
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im guy number 1 now. it doesnt help with girls, at all.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:07 PM
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Lmao thanks I’m cured
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:32 PM
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I’ve been on self improvement for 2 years. Still a loser, just have a little more muscle.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:28 PM
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I would gladly become an alcoholic if it helped me get girls.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:27 PM
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Lol I feel like people who say this have never been in the shoes of people with these problems.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:19 PM
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Probably being social helped. But that is not a normal option for me. Alcohol however is always there.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:09 PM
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Sorry to hear that man. Loneliness is horrible. I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:04 PM
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For sure. But Ive doing self improvement for a year and nothing has really improved. I just want my hard work to pay off and if drinking a the solution so be it.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:03 PM
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I’m so unsuccessful with girls I don’t really mind. Being lonely and sober is so much worse than being an addict and getting girls.
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:28 PM
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Unfortunately I have no friends or social circle so that’s not a normal option
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:27 PM
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Yea my concern as well. I also don’t really like drinking to begin with.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:58 PM
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Take a couple shots before
/r/seduction02/07/22 03:42 PM
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Also this was a sex worker. I’ve gotten happy ending massages before and I bust really quick. These women are professionals and extremely good at getting you off. It’s their job.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:15 PM
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You’re young, go another round. But it’s all a mental thing. The nerves are gonna make you cum quick. I had a girl the other night I couldn’t get hard for and I wound up cumming before I could even get it in her. Shit happens man we’ve all been there.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:52 PM
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Probably you style and or personality. Maybe go for a more mature look. Decent beard and conservative clothing. Try to look more masculine than modern.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:32 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with that. But I also think it’s important to be comfortable being alone. You never know when life’s just gonna shit on you and you have no one. That’s when you need to be okay with having no one else.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:21 PM
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Idk I think it’s mostly my game that makes my dates go badly. I have a pretty decent time getting dates off of apps, but they fall flat when we go out There’s been times where my looks carried me, but for the most part I think the lack of my game is what turns the girls off. However if I was like super model tier pretty boy I’m sure it wouldn’t matter.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:19 PM
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Tell me your secrets please
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:03 AM
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More curios where guys I their 30s are meeting 20 something girls. Seems like apps would be a no go since you’ll get filtered out.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:01 AM
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Lmao dude I’m 27 and have a 6 figure salary. I’m not gonna go off to war for a few years just so I can get better at dates.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:24 PM
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No dude what. We’re on the seduction subreddit obviously I’m trying to meet women and get laid. Doesn’t make them objects. And idk man I’m putting myself out there and try ing my best.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:17 PM
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That’s horrible advice
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:44 AM
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Yea but I’m not trying to be her clown or learn stand up just to get laid
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:00 AM
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Lmao Ty Ty
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:31 PM
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Yea but these aren’t approaches. These are girls that looked at my pictures and agreed to meet me for a date. Doesn’t that mean on some level they’re attracted to me? And I’m fine with casual sex or a relationship. But ultimately I’m looking for dates that lead to something, anything at this point.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:02 PM
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I meet all of them off hinge So why is this happening? And why one day will I magically start slaying? It seems like a waste of time and money to keep doing these dates if nothing will come of it
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:17 PM
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It’s good advice, but how? Like how do I be more bold and myself?
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:50 PM
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Then I would run the fuck away from where you live
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:40 PM
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Because rape is wrong. That’s what we as a society agreed on and why we laws around it. Further getting false rape accusations especially for men is fairly common and a real concern, which is why I am so concerned with some as simple as cuddling with an intoxicated girl. I don’t see why I have to keep explicitly saying “rape is wrong” when clearly that’s the default here. I can both not want to be accused of rape while also believing rape is wrong. Both can be true, I don’t see why I have to exp…
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:01 PM
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Bro you’re the only person in this entire thread with this opinion. Your fixated on one thing I said and not taking the entire story into context. I even made and edit just cause of you clarifying what I meant by “cuddles = sex” and other people were able to understand what I meant. Jesus bro people like you are the reason men have to be extra careful in these situations.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:12 PM
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Appreciate you going to bat for me don’t waste your time with this bozo. He so fixated on one thing I said and won’t even read my follow up edit clarifying it. Your 100% in my assumptions I want all parties to be consensual
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:06 PM
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idk. i think any sort touch in a non consensual way can get you in trouble. at least that was my concern last night.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:33 PM
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Holy fuck bro. Then just report me to the FBI. There’s just not reasoning with you.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:18 PM
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Yea that would’ve been best case scenario. But I was worried even cuddling could’ve gotten me in trouble.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:16 PM
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No but I do want to have CONSENSUAL sex with her
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:14 PM
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Totally. But how does that change anything?
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:54 PM
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You put it perfectly and that is exactly my line of reasoning. But don’t even bother arguing with this fool. He just wants to make me out to be the bad guy.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:49 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:48 PM
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I would’ve been totally fine just going over to cuddle at 2 am. But even that seemed risky at the time.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:45 PM
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I think your brain damaged dude. Read my edits in the OP if you’re still this confused. I can only explain myself so many times. And in the end, I didn’t fucking go at all cause worried that just cuddling her wasn’t consensual even though she verbally consented to it. Oh man they should really lock me up and throw away the key huh. Fucking moron
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:25 PM
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This is a great rule of thumb
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:08 PM
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Holy crap, I’m not trying to manipulate anyone. I would’ve been totally ok just going over to cuddle her all night. My fear was that she would’ve even considered that assault or rape cause of her state.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:03 PM
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I was worried about being her accusing of me sexual assault regardless of whatever we did in her bed due to her state. I’m totally ok with just cuddling a chick all night and not having sex
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:01 PM
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First of all preface saying that No means No. I would never force myself on a person if they told me no. That being said you really think if I went there that we would just cuddle? Which also for the record I’m totally not opposed to. But I would also say there were decent odds sex would’ve been initiated if I went especially due to her state. She was inviting a stranger over to come lay with her in bed I mean come on it’s not like I’m just pulling the idea out of my ass.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:57 PM
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I’m no lawyer but I don’t think that’s how it works. And even then the courts usually side with women.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:29 PM
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In her words “very drunk”. But I never actually met up with so idk
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:28 PM
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No it’s not which is why I didn’t go. But I’ve also never dealt with an issue like this and wanted to know where to draw the line and if this was the right call.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:27 PM
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In perfect word she would. But I have a feeling she’ll feel embarrassed about the whole thing and ghost me. Just no winning in this situation
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:18 PM
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It was the US. Was curious about the written consent part
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:15 PM
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This is more what I was concerned about sadly
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:12 PM
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The date we initially setup? Or you mean I should’ve went for it last night?
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:44 AM
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Why would you ask me to elaborate further and then just give me a one word response. Not helpful
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:26 AM
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What part? Did I fuck up a chance to intimate with a hot girl or do the right thing.
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:18 AM
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I don’t think was a vibe test though. I think it was a girl who was insecure about her first date so invited her friends. And then chose not to tell me cause she was embarrassed and figured I’d just ride it out.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:30 PM
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Trash how. A lot of these girls seemed to have their shit together it’s just me who has no game.
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:16 PM
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No obviously I didn’t think that. I meant at all that night
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:17 AM
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I see your point, but your example is not very good. A guy coming up and hitting on her is not in her control. And how I handle that definitely matters. Now if she decides to ask the guy to join us thats more like the situation i was in. I also feel like walking away is fine in that scenario, or ride it out and try to make friends with the dude or tell your date youd prefer to have some privacy. But the thing is this girl did this shit pre planned.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:17 PM
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“Oh she was just a girl who was scared of being taken advantage of by a big scary man. Obviously she didn’t tell you cause that would give away battle plans. You should’ve bought them all drinks to make them feel better”. Idk my friend irl thinks I’m in the wrong for abruptly leaving. I trust the opinions of this sub cause y’all give good dating advice for men.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:27 PM
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Wow both those women suck dude. Sorry that happened and don’t let people use you like the second girl did. Also sounds like there’s a whole other story with the abusive ex thing.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:24 PM
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Understandable but I did say in another comment there was basically no good way out of it so I may as well just say what I want to and leave. It sucks I embarrassed her in front of her friends, but at the same time she wanted to make her date public to them. The whole situation could’ve been avoided if she just told me in the first place. Also I originally said it was weird when I first sat down just as a way to break the tension of how uncomfortable the whole situation was and they thought it w…
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:20 PM
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Yup first date. And her girlfriends put way more effort into talking to me and getting to know me.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:09 PM
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I wanted to post there but I can’t help but I feel I will be called the asshole cause MEN BAD WOMEN GOOD
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:08 PM
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For real like they didn’t even tell you beforehand? What did you do? How did it go?
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:21 PM
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That’s so different though. Like she told you ahead of time you were goin to a party. It’s shitty she invited you and met another guy, but it’s such a different social dynamic from mine. At least you still had a party.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:18 PM
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Yup first date. I even picked the time and place which I think is more weird she coordinated with her friends witrhout even telling me.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:16 PM
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Why? I’ve got more dates cause of Hinge this year than I have my entire my life. Without it I wouldn’t get any.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:25 PM
1

Lying about what? Did what intentionally?
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:09 PM
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Yea I have a hard enough time dating and it’s hard for me to make friends. I absolutely expect to never see any of them again. I new as soon as I did that it’s burning a bridge.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:36 PM
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I did. Picked the place and time. I even changed days cause I had something come up. She still coordinated with her friends without telling me once.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:34 PM
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It’s definitely too much trouble and work for me. I’m actually very new to dating and for the most part my dates have been going very badly. As soon as I entered that social dynamic I knew I couldn’t pull it off and I didn’t want to, so I left. And she said she brought friends cause she uncomfortable going to a new place alone meeting someone she never met. Like fine, but at least tell me that. Idk I feel bad cause i humiliated her in front of all her friends, but like if you’re gonna make your …
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:32 PM
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How would it have ended with us fucking? She was with all her friends and the one even drove her there. Like she’s not gonna sleep with some rando in front of her friends and coworkers. And like I met her on hinge to setup the venue and everything. At no point did she mention there would be anyone else.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:22 PM
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Yea I thought about maybe just asking her to grab a table alone. But honestly it was just such an uncomfortable vibe I wanted to leave. Like it was me having a date while her besties judge me.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:30 AM
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I didn't talk to her at all. I mostly just talked to her on cute friend. She even said in the text after saying i didn't say anything to her.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:40 AM
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For real I’m like there’s no good way out of this so I’m just gonna be rude. I feel kinda bad but I think it’s shitty that she didn’t at least give me a heads up
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:56 AM
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LMAO
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:11 AM
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Yea an even by results I just mean I can get dates now. They usually don’t lead to seconds but it’s a start.
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:08 PM
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Bro you need to shoot even lower. Chicks can always do better. If you’re a 5 shoot for a 4 or a 3. At best you’ll pull another 5 My results improved significantly when I just lowered my standards. I’m not always attracted to the girl but at least I’m not lonely anymore.
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:57 PM
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So true. Having my sexual and emotional needs met by an average looking broad is so much easier. It gives me freedom to focus on other parts of life. But in the long run I’d like an upgrade for sure.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/22 05:21 PM
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Yea I have that now with the girl I’ve been seeing. Just lower your standards, like a lot. This girl gives me a lot of attention. She’s not hideous but my roommate was vocal that he thinks I could do better. But hey the sex is great and she cooks me dinner.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/22 03:38 PM
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You’re not wrong but taking all those rejections starts to get to me. I’m taking a break after the last one. I got called a “nice guy” and said she didn’t think it would work. I think my times better spent on other areas of my life like getting jacked and making money. Datings just not really in the cards for me but if something comes along then that’s great.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/22 02:50 PM
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OP I have the same issue. I get a decent amount of first dates but they don’t seem to go anywhere. There was one girl though who I continued to see. She told me that I was incredibly boring on our first date. So much that she texting her friends about it while I was in the bathroom and even made an excuse to leave early. When I asked her why she continued to see me she said it’s cause I’m good looking and over time she found out I wasn’t all that boring. So maybe thats some insight that can help…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/22 01:23 PM
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I’m also a gymcel. On paper I got it all right. Good lifts. 6 figure + income. On general just have my shit together. But I have no friends and get no pussy Compared to my roommate who barely works, doesn’t lift, plays video games 8 hours a day. Yet he has hundreds of friends and girls throw themselves at him. I think gymcel is an accurate term for us. We turned to the gym to cope with being a loser, only to find the gym wasn’t the solution.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 11:03 PM
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I recently just experienced this by getting into skin care. Bought a bunch of products that didn’t work for me, and now I’m a broken out really bad. I wasted a bunch of money and my skin looks fucking terrible. But you know what? I learned what didn’t work for me. I know what to avoid and the consequences of using certain products. Long term I will know what’s best for me and have beautiful skin.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/22 05:15 PM
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Why not have both? Good job, good health, and also have a lot of casual sex? Also don’t agree that a lot of sex happens on relationships. Casual hookups happen pretty frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:30 AM
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You’re better off focusing on other areas in life and trying to improve. And bang hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:41 AM
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They are absolutely not dating the bottom 20% of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:41 AM
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Bro being a 5 is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:39 AM
3

brilliant
/r/newTRP28/03/22 07:14 PM
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It must have been while i was in the bathroom cause i dont remember her even being on her phone other than to show me pictures or something.
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:53 AM
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Yea idk why everyone shitting on her. Tbf though she wasn’t trying to give me advice, she just really likes roasting but it goes both ways. I mean the girl cooks me dinner every week how much of a bitch can she be?
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:25 PM
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I guess i can see that. Ive been seeing her for a few weeks now and i didn't really take much offense when she said. I found it more helpful than anything cause it gave some insight as to why my dates aren't going very well.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:28 PM
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I’m confused why you guys keep saying she’s a bitch. Why is it a bitchy if I didn’t make a good first impression with her and she let me know?
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:41 PM
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I dont really see it as being rude. More like just honest of her first impression of me.
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:48 PM
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What?
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:22 PM
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I mean its really not for a lack of trying. I’m doing my best to put myself out there it’s just been a struggle. I’ve been forcing myself to go on dates just to get the experience. I really want friends and to do social stuff but I just don’t get interests from anyone. Seriously I’m doing work and trying it’s not like I’m just sitting on my ass crying about it. I want to improve.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:19 PM
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Yea I see what you mean. I have a good job as a software engineer, but I feels it’s boring to talk about. I do work for a non profit that helps people so I usually try and mention that. But yea I like tech, guitar, movies, chess, and weightlifting.
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:55 PM
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Most of them can though. But the risk of HIV, HPV, and pregnancy mean you should still use protection
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 01:18 PM
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Thanks I'll check it out. Heard of them but never looked at their programs. I like NSuns though. Didn't plan to run it long term but I've seen some pretty good gains from it. I was just using it short term during my bulk and then was gonna switch to something like 531 but ill keep my options open.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/22 02:21 AM
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Its not really 531. You do 9 sets on your T1 lifts, and 8 sets your T2, and then I sprinkle in a bunch of accessory work. Takes me upwards of 2 hours to do. Whats wrong with 531 though? People still rave about it and it looks good. What modern programs are you referring to?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/22 03:31 PM
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I’m currently running NSuns which is a crazy amount of volume. I’d probably switch to another routine if I did BJJ. But yea I’m sure tons of people do it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/22 02:17 PM
1

That seems to be unpopular here
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:47 PM
1

What if I want her to be my gf?
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:17 PM
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No I think its a great idea. BJJ is something I want to do but it’s pricey near me and interferes with my lifting. I think massages and things of that nature could also be helpful. I used to go to PT and loved getting massages. Also I think a dog could be a good solution.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 03:53 AM
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Beautifully said brother
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:47 AM
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feminized mental health Bro it’s just mental health. Not everything is some feminist conspiracy. It’s fine for a dude to want to be touched and held. Try going without for a while and you’ll see the effects.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 10:16 PM
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I don’t buy this. Touch starvation is a real thing. I grind it out in weight room everyday but sometimes I just want to be held.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 09:37 PM
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It’s well said but wtf is my outlet supposed to be for just being held, feeling loved and just getting some affection? It seems like there’s no other place than with a woman who just genuinely likes you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 05:55 PM
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Yes and they don’t care Us having more of a challenge makes their dating scene so much easier since they have a lot of quality men competing for them.
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:18 PM
1

Maybe it will maybe it won’t. But give yourself the best chances by being proactive about it.
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:53 AM
1

Dude literally last week I was crying because I didn’t have these problems. Sometimes life is just weird.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:37 AM
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I like this. Thanks
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:11 AM
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This is only the 3rd time hanging out. We haven’t talked about being exclusive or anything.
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:09 PM
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It was unreal. She cums so easily so that gave me a lot confidence. Plus the shit she says is hot.
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:15 PM
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Yea personally I don’t really mind if it’s just a kink thing. I think the girl watches a lot of porn so she’s probably being influenced by whatever weird shit she watches.
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:01 PM
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I don’t think she’s a crazy liberal. From what I can tell she plays a lot of video games and is very online. I straight up asked her if she watched a lot of porn cause of the shit she says in bed and she said yea. So it might be just be some kink shit. As for the lying yea it’s weird. I never asked she just brings it up. After we banged she was like idk if you could tell but I haven’t had sex in a long time.
/r/newTRP20/02/22 06:59 PM
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Why? OP didn’t say the guy wasn’t doing well cause he’s a software engineer. We make fucking bank, and we can work remotely so we have more free time work on passions/hobbies. Also if you work a well known tech company that gives you some clout.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:48 PM
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Thinking back to my first LTR I thought this wasn’t true cause she was always sympathetic and supportive of my issues. But now that I really think about it I realized I never once actually opened up about it. She just pieced together how fucked up my family is by experiencing it. I think if I actually opened up and talked about it would be a different story.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/22 06:12 PM
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Trust no one
/r/newTRP11/02/22 02:12 PM
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It’s good advice but like I said I fucking hate myself. I couldn’t even pretend I’m someone I admire. But I do keep journal already for things I’m grateful for.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:58 PM
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Yea it makes sense. I fucking hate myself. I’m a total fucking loser. I’ve tried so hard to change but I still have no friends and girls don’t want to fuck me. I don’t hate the advice I just don’t what else to do.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:27 PM
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Not really. I don’t know how and asking a question like that would probably kill my chances cause I’d come off as a creep. If I can I’ll try and initiate kino by grabbing their hands or something.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:06 PM
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I don’t really think I was coming off as too pushy. I’m not sure what i could have said besides that kiss would make her think that. Personally I think she was just looking for an excuse cause she wasn’t interested, but we’re out for like 3 hours and she told me to hit her up again so idk. I had another date where the opposite happened. I had a drink with the girl and asked if she wanted to head to another bar. She said she was gonna leave and that she’s not looking for anything serious, but the…
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:15 PM
1

What does this mean?
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:41 PM
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Go ahead
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:34 PM
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Okay my last date we went to a bar. We had our drink and talked for a while. Conversation was going well and decided to go to another bar. We walked for a bit and talked some more. At the next the convo flowed a bit better and some joking around. We had a couple drinks and left. I tried to kiss her but she gave me a luke warm kiss on the lips. We called our Ubers and she said to let me know if I was busy this weekend. When I followed up the next day she said sorry she’s not looking just for hook…
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:34 PM
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That’s what I’m trying to figure out. They all seemed to make various excuses when I asked them out again. I’m not sure if it’s my looks, personality, or both.
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:13 PM
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Same. Literally did exactly what OP did and still can’t get laid. At least I found out I love lifting.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:20 PM
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So she actually texted me today saying that she thinks we’re looking for different things. She said she’s not looking for hookups. Idk if she genuinely thought that’s what I was going for, or if she was just using that as an excuse cause she wasn’t interested. Anyway I told her I wasn’t looking just for a hookup and if she changes her mind to let me know.
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:41 AM
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Yea it’s just she mentioned she had work in the morning and wasn’t trying to get crazy. That just made me assume sex was off the table for the night.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:32 PM
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Thanks. For the next date should I just invite to mine or something for a movie?
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:18 PM
2

Careful though cause it’s a slippery slope. I used to wallow in it and eats you alive. I agree it can be helpful when you need it though
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:00 PM
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Well you’re already putting yourself out there so keep it up. Baby steps. Maybe just chat with the the bartender and some other dudes or something. Work your way up. I was in a similar places. One night I got lucky and a pretty girl sat next to me and started talking to me. That snowballed and I’ve started getting some consistent dates.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:09 PM
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So I hit her up again and she hit me with she doesn’t think a casual thing would work and that she doesn’t want to pursue anything right now. So I guess she was letting me down easy last night.
/r/seduction22/01/22 10:51 PM
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Like just straight up ask if she wants to come over?
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:18 PM
1

Dude are you me? Same situation I was in relationship for 7 years and trying to learn everything in my late 20s. Oh well we’ll figure it out.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:52 PM
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This. And/or start lifting some heavy weights. You’ll feel and look confident.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:19 PM
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Thanks. I think I’ll text her today saying “I had a nice time last night. I know you’re not looking for anything serious, but are down to hang again sometime soon?” Does that sound alright? Figured it leaves it kinda open ended for a date or hook up.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:14 PM
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What exactly does this mean?
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:50 AM
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I see I see. Makes sense
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:17 AM
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Oh well in this case I was probably more attracted to her than most girls. She was pretty, smart, shy and conservative, not a party girl. The vibe was just off.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:56 AM
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She said she has really bad anxiety. So I don’t think it’s just me.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:41 AM
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Yea thank you. The only sign of interest was her saying I was attractive. Her words said one thing but her body language said another.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:31 AM
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I have no idea what this means
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:30 AM
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I tried to kiss as we were leaving. So out in front of the bar.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:18 AM
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Yea honestly it just didn’t seem like that at the time. I just said thanks and that we should grab another drink by mine some time. I’m just take it as a a learning experience I guess
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:56 AM
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I think its more just inexperience. If I thought she wanted to hook up i would've just invited her back to mine. But anyway to turn it around? Should I text her?
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:09 AM
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Oh come on bro, stop with that. I’ve been using apps on and off for like a year and this is the first date I ever got. Be good looking and have good pictures. No ones fault but our own.
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:37 PM
1

What are you talking about? Why can’t you use it?
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:27 PM
1

I did. See my update
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:29 PM
1

Idk when she was saying I’m bad influence she kept doing it while laughing and in this jokey tone. You know how when someone jokingly says “omg stop” but wants you to keep going? It was like that kind of a thing. Plus she kept telling me how she always is late for work and they don’t care.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:26 PM
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Thanks I guess, but just wanted feedback for what I did and didn’t do right.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:23 PM
1

texted her “fun night. Let’s do it again soon”. She texted back “It was fun 😁”
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:17 PM
1

I just texted her “fun night. Let’s do it again soon”. She texted back “It was fun 😁”
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:44 PM
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They are not. This the first time I’ve ever met someone from the apps.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:43 PM
1

Like kiss at the bar? It feels weird trying that. Especially cause if she rejects it I have to continue with the date.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:40 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:16 AM
2

Should I text her tonight like she said, or wait a bit?
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:25 AM
7

Thank god someone else agrees lifting is a valid hobby. I know a TRP essential, but I’ve become obsessed with it since starting. Plus if you find the right gym it can be it’s own little community.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 02:39 PM
1

Yea I was gonna hit them up a couple hours before the date to make sure they’re still on.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:45 PM
2

That’s exactly what I did. Now I have 3 dates
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:19 PM
1

This happened to me on NYE. I sat at the bar near the entrance. After a while a pretty girls sat next to me and started chatting with me. But she was a waiting for a friend and I think she was just bored and wanted to chat with a cute guy while she waited. I did get her number though.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:53 PM
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Isn't it still bulking season?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:52 PM
3

Bro please start approaching and slaying. Cause if you can’t make it I sure as hell can’t either
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:09 PM
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Anecdotal but my buddy is 5’6”. His gf is absolutely beautiful and has an amazing personality. His secret is he’s fucking jacked.
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:30 PM
1

I wish I had someone to give me actual feedback and show me what I’m doing wrong. I wish there was like red pill school or something.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 10:10 PM
1

Again doing that everyday is very unrealistic. I still see your point though
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 03:53 PM
1

I make over 6 figures and lift 5 days a week. I face constant rejection with women so I stopped trying a while ago.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 03:51 PM
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I’ve only done a handful and they’ve went horribly. Mostly just ignored. But you give good advice. Approaching 5 women a day seems very unrealistic though. I don’t want to be known as some creepy guy in my neighborhood who approaches all the girls.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 04:40 AM
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Girls don’t want to fuck with me man. I already tried that shit. I’m like a 6 best even though I’m a solid year into lifting and trying to improve my appearance. It’s sort of hopeless. I live in a big city too.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 12:40 AM
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I don’t think it’s what anyone wants. It’s just the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 10:28 PM
2

Not at all. The job markets fucking great. I got 5 offers this year all which paid more. Meanwhile I can’t even get a fucking date
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 09:49 PM
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I’ve been single for a year and fucking hate it. All the swiping, trying to talk to girls. I have gotten laid once, and it felt like pure luck. I miss being in a relationship. It’s just so much easier. Dating is way to fucking hard.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 04:26 PM
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I spent over a year of studying TRP and trying to become the best version of myself. I’m still a fucking loser. But now I’m a loser who can lift heavy weights and makes over 6 figures. What’s the fucking point anymore?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/21 05:56 PM
1

Yes. The way I got around it was actively engaging my chest by pushing it out. Once I started using this cue and developing a mind muscle connection, it took the weight off my shoulders (literally) and started blowing up my chest. Now I’m only at 210 myself but I wouldn’t have gotten there if it weren’t for that cue.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 08:08 PM
1

Minox baby!
/r/seduction09/12/21 04:34 PM
1

Grow a beard
/r/seduction09/12/21 01:05 PM
2

Who else is there blame? It’s no one else’s fault
/r/TheRedPill05/12/21 12:31 PM
2

Now that’s good advice. You’re absolutely right. But I have just as much trouble making guy friends as I do with women. Edit: of fuck. It’s you dude. What’s up
/r/TheRedPill05/12/21 12:07 AM
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This is such bull. The people who say this type of stuff obviously have never been in these types of situations. Like I said I’ve done everything else right. I’ve achieved a lot of the things I wanted to achieve in life and am quite successful. Right now I’m not happy cause I’m lonely and don’t receive any affection. That IS the reason for my unhappiness.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 11:52 PM
1

Tried game. Just come off as a creep and get shut down.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 05:43 PM
1

I honestly don’t know. All I know is put in the work. Make 6 figures, can squat and deadlift 2x my bw, in general have good hygiene and take care of myself. I think the genetics and my height (5’9”) play a factor.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 04:08 PM
1

It is absolutely not voluntary. I do everything right and I’m still an incel
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 03:07 PM
1

5’9”, started at 160 lbs. I cut to 140 and now I’m back at 160 again. Probs somewhere between 15-20% bf. I have another Reddit account where I post pics but don’t want it linked to this one. I tried all clubs and martial arts and stuff man. Like I said, most men just aren’t gonna make it. Genetics fucked my body composition and crippling social anxiety makes it really hard to put myself out there.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 12:09 AM
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My lifts have gone up significantly since I started, but you wouldn’t even be able to tell I lifted just by looking at me. Yea I have a job but it’s mostly remote. I have no friends or anything that gets me out of the house other than going to the gym and daily walks. It’s not that I’m waiting to approach, it’s that I absolutely have no life or reason to go out.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 09:15 PM
4

Yea but I just don’t want to be alone. Having a girl in my bed once in while would help.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 06:30 PM
4

Reading, lifting, meditating, making money. A year of lifting is definitely not enough time to build a good body. I don’t approach cause I have no life
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 06:24 PM
1

I’m a lonely dude. I come here to vent my problems and look for advice.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 03:31 PM
6

Yes! You worded it perfectly. Not my fault but my responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 03:09 PM
1

MMA interests me but my main focus right now is powerlifting. I might try volunteering or something though
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 02:14 PM
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Probably cause I don’t meet women. I have no friends and I’m lonely as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 01:17 PM
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Believe me bro, im getting shit done every day. I'm not even the same guy i was a year ago. But its just hard to keep going when you don't get any sort of validation.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 02:09 AM
8

Chess, Guitar, Coding, Lifting (if that counts)
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 12:26 AM
10

Yes my Reddit profile I shitpost on is very representative of my OLD profile
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 11:35 PM
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This post is basically saying it's your fault you're not in the 20% of guys who get all the pussy. And while I agree with that, the truth is its a small percent and not everyone's gonna make it. I've been grinding my ass of for a year now trying to become the alpha TRP tries to teach me to be, but Im still not even close to being in that 20%. I do everything right but its still not enough in the eyes of most women. Is it my fault? Yea kinda. Is it fair? Fuck no dude.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 11:18 PM
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I do all those things you listed and im 26. Can deadlift and squat 2x my body weight. Make over 6 figures. In general have my shit together. But still get barely any matches on Tinder. I think Tinder is useless unless you're 10/10 gigachad.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 11:11 PM
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I’ve only had sex with 3 women total. One was an LTR had sex with hundreds of times. Another was a ONS. And the last was a hooker. Even though I technically had a lot of sex, the lack of variety makes me feel pretty fucking inadequate.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 04:14 PM
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A year ago my gpu died in my gaymer pc. Ended up being great cause I didn’t replace it since the gpu market is fucked. Instead I just focused on lifting, reading, meditating, chess, guitar, and a bunch of other shit I said I never had time for. I still like to play games every once in a while, especially with friends. But seeing modern gaymers just play on their PCs for hours everyday makes me sad.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 12:56 PM
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Nah I mean I’m looking for something else because I’m unsuccessful with women. I put in a solid year of self improvement but still chronically single and alone. I don’t want to focus on women right now cause it just makes me depressed cause of how unsuccessful I am. That’s why I just want some mission to become obsessed with.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:37 AM
3

Definitely need this, but don’t know where to start
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 11:53 PM
21

But how do you find your own goals/expectations/mission/etc? Everyday I’m just in my routine. Lifting, working, meditating, reading, eating right. Thats all great but I’m horribly depressed and bored. In my free time I just find myself watching tv or something. I want more out of life but idk what. I know it’s a personal thing and something I need to figure out but idk how.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 02:26 PM
1

I think the author just dropped a new book as well
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 12:20 PM
3

Yes and I deeply regret it. I’ve never been more lonely in my entire life.
/r/seduction24/11/21 09:11 PM
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Easily the best book I ever read
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 02:11 PM
5

My man. Curious what’s your passive income?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 02:02 AM
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Honest question Why would you quit a 6 figure job with nothing else lined up and not guaranteed to get another? Seems like a pretty risky and impulsive move.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 12:30 AM
1

What sort of a coach should I be looking for? Powerlifting, bodybuilding, etc.?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 02:27 PM
0

My shit is very much together. Especially for my age
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 02:26 PM
2

well it's certainly not helping
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 12:50 AM
1

Trainer is a good idea. There’s this barbell training place near me but I think it’s mostly powerlifting not body building. My test levels are pretty high so I don’t think I can legally get TRT.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 10:42 PM
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>Can you cite poems when in a fitting situation? You lost me. But there's no women in my life to talk to. It's work, gym, sleep. If have no outlets for meeting anyone.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 09:26 PM
1

I can squat and deadlift twice my weight and make 6 figures. How much more self improvement bullshit does it take to actually get a gf?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 09:15 PM
1

I post pics of my body on another Reddit account. I’ve been lifting for a year and my numbers are good, but my genes are trash. I don’t look like I lift at all and no abs. I’m a little fluffy cause I’m trying to bulk. Diet and everything is in check. Feedback was that I have below average genes for building muscle. I’m 5’9” and 160lbs. So my height is fucked. I don’t go out cause I have no friends but I go for daily walks, sometimes to a park. I live in a large city as well. I’ve tried OLD multi…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 09:13 PM
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I do all this and still don’t get pussy. It feels hopeless
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 05:18 PM
9

I always thought NNN was more about getting people who don’t do NoFap to try it for a month. Also I’m still confused by TRPs stance on NoFap. Some say to do it. Some say to just not watch porn. Some say it doesn’t make any difference. I tried it and it just makes me really horny and depressed. But I also try watching porn and I quickly start doing it too much. I found my happy medium was just a couple times a week.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 06:23 PM
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Based
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:07 PM
1

Which part is a larp? Also I did an LTR without ever plating.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 07:55 PM
1

Again could just be my face. But from my experience all the guys taller than me get pussy and the ones my height or shorter don’t.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/21 04:54 AM
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I agree with the height thing. I’ve been lifting everyday making good gains and make over 6 figures. I still can’t seem to get a girl and I can only assume at this point that it’s due to my height or face. I’m also 5’9” which is the minimum you recommend. I think this number is actually at least 6 foot.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 06:07 PM
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I don’t really get what you’re saying. What’s wrong with that advice? How do you know these other people aren’t doing it themselves. I got to the gym 6x a week and I recommend going. Doesn’t have to be 6x a week either just any sort of good gym schedule.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 03:26 PM
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How old is too old for dating apps?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 03:49 PM
1

Yea i just have nowhere to meet any women. Also tried dating apps and had no luck there.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 11:08 PM
1

I’ve been “red pill rage” for the better part of a year. My rage isn’t at women though, it’s at me for being a failure. I broke up with my ex over a year ago. I found TRP and took action immediately. I’ve been lifting everyday since and I’m making bank and taking care of myself. I’m “successful” in my life but I still have not had any success with women. It makes me depressed and angry but I try to channel that energy back into the grind. It does get to me though.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 10:34 PM
1

That girls considered average? Fuck I would think she's way out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:59 PM
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Some days it really gets to me. I’ll lie around and cry and think about how no one gives a shit about me and I feel like my house of cards is crashing down. Other days I get that same feeling, but instead it fuels my motivation to work harder. Idk I probably need therapy or something. But that cold hard truth is important, just depends how you use that energy.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 05:59 PM
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I think the mental part is the big take away. Some people don’t have the discipline to take a break. Once they fall off the horse they can’t get back on. I hurt my back a while back and couldn’t lift for a couple weeks. Mentally it destroyed me. I was stuck laying around feeling like shit. But I got back soon as I could and it really doesn’t affect progress in the long run. The takeaway is don’t let the time off destroy all your progress. Know it’s temporary and get back soon as you can.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 11:29 PM
1

Wtf. I’ve been lifting for a year and have nowhere near that amount of muscle. I also wasn’t obese when I started.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 12:13 PM
1

I buy iso 100, which is good shit. But honestly I think 4 scoops is a waster of money. I make sure to get at least 30g of protein in all my meals. I just throw a scoop in with my oatmeal and but the rest of my meals are either eggs or lean meat.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 04:32 PM
1

4 scoops of protein a day? Good god i'd be shitting myself.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 03:13 PM
2

Tried it. Lost a good amount of fat with very little muscle gain. I recommend to just bulk and cut, in that order
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 10:13 PM
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I was skinny fat (maybe 17% bf) when I started and I cut first. I really wouldn’t recommend it. I got really lean but barely built any muscle. Now I’m bulking and gaining muscle, but I just gained all the fat back. I would’ve rather just bulk right off that bat and lost all the fat after. It really depends on your physique though.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 09:21 PM
2

TRP comes in by teaching you what women actually consider attractive. Further, it teaches you not to put women on a pedestal and become the best version of yourself. Honestly they give you a lot of life changing info.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:48 PM
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I always interpreted it as you just play the hand your dealt. You can have success no matter what race, height, genes, etc. Yea there’s always gonna be someone who hit the genetic lottery, but you can’t compare yourself to those people. If you’re jacked, make money, and have status, won’t there always be some pussy for you?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 04:49 PM
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I’ve noticed the Tyrone thing too which I always thought was weird. TRP always taught me that race and all that doesn’t really matter. I mean at the end of the day it’s stereotyping though. Doesn’t bother me that much but still we’re on Reddit which will quickly ban that shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 03:02 PM
1

Yup literally this. Did this for a year and now T levels are almost 800 ng/dL
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 06:20 PM
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Last month I tweaked my back and couldn’t lift for a few weeks. I totally understand when you say it fucks up your mental health You need to recover. I was an idiot and tried lifting anyway and it just made my recovery time longer. You need to let your body heal so you can come back stronger. Also bro it’s just your fucking collarbone. Easiest bone to break in your body. Unless you need surgery to get it fixed you’ll be back soon enough. Lastly don’t just lie around in bed depressed either. Go f…
/r/newTRP03/08/21 05:06 PM
1

If 95% test positive with 5% false positives… Then you have a 90% chance to have the disease, or am I fucking retarded?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 12:17 AM
2

You know I thought thought I might be low T cause ive been depressed and having a hard time building muscle. Just got my results and it almost 800 ng/dL. I'm upwards of the natural limit of testosterone and still exhibit most of these beta traits.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 09:17 PM
1

I’m 26 but plan to get tested
/r/TheRedPill26/07/21 07:59 AM
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Reads like 4chan green text. Spot on social commentary though.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 09:45 PM
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I’d add Kim Wexler from Better Call Saul to that list. One of my favorite female characters in any fiction show. Shows an actual strong independent woman without the feminist shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 05:46 PM
6

How do you have success on dating apps with a dad bod? I’m guessing you have a decent face/good pics? Either way 3 dates in a week is solid man. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 04:35 PM
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I was doing the Reddit PPL routine. I started by cutting and lost a lot of fat and then began bulking a few months ago. Got at least 1 gram protein per body weight. Ate clean too. Lifts went up by a lot. I hurt my back a couple weeks ago though so I’ve been out of the gym.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 08:44 PM
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And what would a good body building routine look like?
/r/askTRP14/07/21 03:31 PM
4

Saying “some emojis” is generous. It really distracts from your post.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 12:31 PM
1

I definitely look different. But barely compared to the amount of work I put in.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 12:17 PM
4

I’m gonna use this opportunity to vent cause I’m one of these guys. I spent the last year trying to get in shape and improving my style and I still look like shit. I look bad in every picture I take. OLD has completely destroyed my ego. I have no friends to go out with and meet people. At this point I have no idea what to do. A lot of people say just go out and chat up girls but this doesn’t seem realistic at all. It seems completely unnatural and creepy. I’m gonna keep improving cause I enjoy i…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 04:18 PM
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Man this hits home. Spent a whole year grinding and feel like I’ve accomplished nothing. I’m stronger, look better, have hobbies, but I’m more depressed than I’ve ever been. And that’s cause I expected to make friends and get pussy from all this.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 01:42 PM
1

Good advice. I guess it’s kinda like cold showers. At first it was really hard to do. But now I can just go in without thinking about it and immediately let my body relax with tensing up too hard.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/21 06:20 PM
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There’s something in the sidebar (forget if it’s TRP or asktrp) about getting over a breakup. Start there. Then go to my profile and sort by top submissions and you’ll find one about my break up. Overall though it’s just something you have to get through. If this just happened give yourself time to hurt. Then start lifting if you’re not already. You’ll be okay it just takes time.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 02:31 PM
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On the flip side, how do I not get jealous of other peoples success? I have friends that are like you OP, and when they tell me about their amazing weekends I get jealous. I’ve noticed this recently and instead of acting jealous I try and appreciate what they’re saying like “that sounds fun” or “hey man good job”. But yea in they end I’m still jealous cause they get to live the life I want.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 01:39 PM
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This subs quarantined but still functional. asktrp is locked so new posts aren’t being made. The good news is there’s a plethora of amazing information out there, all for free. Since you’re new just make sure you read the sidebar and use the search function on asktrp for any questions. Welcome brother and enjoy your path of self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 01:19 PM
0

You’re right man. It’s just hard
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 09:55 PM
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Really don’t have any outlet for this. I don’t have any friends or people to go out with. And like I said my ego is way too fragile to just approach women on the street. If I had friends to go to bars with and shit it’d be different.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 07:04 PM
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Yea this is me all the way. Found TRP and have been improving but have not approached any women. The only time I got laid since finding TRP the woman did 90% of the work. Before that I was in an LTR who also approached me and took the lead. My ego is way too fucking fragile to approach and handle any rejection. I’m the type of guy who will do it once, get rejected, and be like yea fuck that never doing it again. In this case I’m my own worst enemy.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 05:15 PM
1

Holy shit is this sub back open?
/r/askTRP24/06/21 12:16 PM
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I feel bad for anyone just finding TRP. AskTRP has come in clutch so many times for me when I was just learning. It helped get me through my breakup and some other hard times. TRP on its own is great but gaining insight on specific situations really helps. Hopefully these other platforms or new one will spawn and take off. We need to be decentralized so if you cut off the head of the hydra, 10 more pop up.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 05:14 PM
1

This is kinda how I feel. I literally just bought a RuneScape membership and I played for hours. Afterwards I just felt like shit. It’s like just clicked a screen for hours and accomplished nothing in my life. It’s kinda like jerking off. Fun while you’re doing it but afterwards you just feel like shit.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:57 PM
10

Double the head double the bread
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:12 AM
1

LSD made me incredibly depressed after. It made me realize how fucking hopeless I am and no matter how hard I try I’m all alone. Was fun as fuck when I was tripping though. But the days that came after fucking destroyed me.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:27 PM
1

Not really the same genre, but another metal/rap combo is DVSR and Hacktivist.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:03 PM
1

do this thing, it’s the only thing you need oh you already do that thing, well actually you need to do this Nice goalpost moving
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:26 PM
1

Yea im a fucking loser. got it thanks
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:42 PM
1

> I’d feel disgusted with myself if I were you No shit. thats why im here
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:19 PM
1

I feel like there’s a big difference between a virtual stranger putting you down, and publicly humiliating yourself.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:24 PM
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Thanks man, great stuff here. I meditate for 20 minutes everyday, and I enjoy it. I meant not practicing stoicism enough since I’m letting my emotions control me. As for playing out the rest of the season, it’s a good idea but I think I burned that bridge. There’s already a replacement in the works and I don’t think I can handle the humiliation on doubling back on my decision.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:22 PM
2

Program Chess Mediate Guitar Powerlifting/bodybuilding Nutrition
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:50 PM
1

I wrote code and play guitar
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:49 PM
1

It’s cause I have a great work life balance. It leaves with a lot of extra time on my hands. Honestly doing more is a possibility, but I feel like it could lead to burning out.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:21 AM
1

So you don’t have a job? If I already have a job that pays well doing side hustles is gonna have diminishing returns. Like why do all that work for just a little more money when I already have a career I should be focusing on? So I’m not really understanding your point and you’re not explaining yourself, just being vague.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:20 AM
1

I already work, gym, guitar, chess, read, meditate, and cook everyday.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:25 AM
2

Yes! I wfh and honestly barely have work to do some days. So I have so much extra time on my hands.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:02 AM
2

Yea this is kinda where I’m at, but I still feel guilty for some reason doing it. And yea bro trust me I have excellent taste in movies and shows.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:52 AM
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Bro wtf are you doing to make money? I already have a job that pays well, and the last thing I want to do at the end of the day is work more
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:50 AM
1

Story? Also I wouldn’t use this as an excuse to play video games
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:37 AM
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What do you mean by results? Pulling Women? I’m 8 months in and only fucked one girl so far. Physically I look way better than I did 8 months ago though. Stronger, healthier, better groomed, and have a better mindset most the time.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:26 PM
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If you’re going by TRP theory, women will branch swing to the best option. So be the best option.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:21 PM
1

Personally, I’ve been addicted. I’ve gone everyday for 8 months. Haven’t had any days where I’m like fuck it I don’t want to go. It’s my absolute favorite part of the day. But I’ve been like that in the past. The key is just consistency. Tell yourself this is non negotiable. It’s like brushing you’re teeth or taking shower. It’s part of my routine and it has to be done. Learn to love it. Record your progress so you prove to yourself that it’s worth it. Now to stop overthinking and just go.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:52 PM
1

Np man the most important thing right now is that you make a habit of just going. Don’t let overthink shit and get overwhelmed. Just keep going you’ll learn shit along the way.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:14 PM
1

I like him for little tips and tricks, but honestly her over complicates the fuck out of some things. Has a wealth of knowledge though. Jeremy Ethier does a way better job laying things out, and cites research papers.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:11 PM
1

Bro I never had anyone show me anything. Watch videos, read how the form should be. Also don’t be afraid to record yourself or ask one of the bigger guys for a form check. You got this bro don’t worry
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:52 PM
1

I have no personal experience with this, but I recently found out there’s a bunch of powerlifting gyms near me that will coach you and design a routine for you. These aren’t CrossFit gyms, they’re legit powerlifting gyms that will teach you the basic lifts. It’s a bit pricey but you’ll just do it in the short term. Honestly if I had to do it over I would go this route.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:02 PM
1

I fucking love this routine. Been doing it for 8 months now.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:00 PM
2

You sound kinda obnoxious. I’d find what you said annoying too. Humor should be more natural not “LOL i said something random”. Your first line with older chick is fun banter. Your second with the robbing the bank thing sounds unprompted and annoying.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:45 PM
2

You recognize you need to change. You have a plan on how you’re gonna do it (it’s a good plan btw). Now just GO FUCKING DO IT. Not sure if lifting was part of your getting in shape plan, but you need to be lifting. Stop worrying about your past self and just thinking about your future and take action. Start it now. Also if the virgin thing is really eating away at you, go get a hooker dude. Find a massage parlor that does full service. Quick, easy, done. You’re no longer a virgin and you can mov…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:26 PM
4

“If that’s what you’re into”
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:21 PM
1

How do you mean? The one thing I’ve been lack is any sort of socialization. I have literally one friend and really don’t get out much other than for walks and gym. I have no friend groups or people to hang with on weekends.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:32 PM
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I work, gym 6 days a week, read, meditate, stretch, play guitar, cook , etc. But I still find myself with way too much time and I usually just watch tv or something.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:01 PM
3

18-25: in a LTR About to be 26 and had a ONS and fucked a hooker. So 3 women total if you count the hooker. I’m still learning.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:31 PM
1

As someone who spent the first half of their 20s in a LTR, thank you. This gives me hope
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:28 PM
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When you say very little entertainment, how little are you talking? What do you do instead?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:52 PM
2

Check out the basic bastard wardrobe on r malefashionadvice
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:21 PM
1

Yea the socializing part is for sure the limiting factor. Lifts and money a pretty good. I just have nowhere to start with socializing. I’m basically at 0.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:08 PM
1

Hey man I can do this. I weigh 150lbs and can deadlift 300+. I wouldn’t say im incel, but incredibly depressed and lonely. I only have a handful of lays. Definitely believe in lifting as it’s fucking fantastic, but just wanted to say it’s not a cure all or a measure for success.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 02:38 PM
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I’m sure you do. You’re depressed and asking how to increase your test. You want to be more manly. You’re telling me you want all that just for the sake of vanity?
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:46 AM
1

Yea I’ve heard that since I got my CS degree 5 years ago. Guess what, it’s still very much in demand, but yes competitive for new grads. I’ve gotten 2 offers within the past month. The markets booming right now. Don’t listen to whiny kids on the cscareer subreddit.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:40 AM
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Don’t worry about coding, that’s girly imo and too nerdy Yea why pick a skill that’s very in demand, pays insanely well, and you know pioneers the world we live in. That’s girly shit.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:48 PM
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Bro don’t leave your social circle. I’m currently in a similar situation as you and the isolation is soul fucking crushing. Seriously dude spend time with others and have friends. Please don’t be like me. I don’t wish this shit on anyone.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:45 PM
3

RP aware maybe, but odds are if you live in the hood something went wrong on your self improvement path.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:36 PM
0

Friends?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:03 PM
2

If on Android use new pipe. If on iPhone use Musi.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:08 PM
5

Cumtown
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:07 PM
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if you have to eat shit best not chew Where the hell do you guys find these phrases? This ones solid.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:23 PM
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Yea I like a Jeremy ethier too. Gonna stick with Reddit one for now since it has more of an emphasis on powerlifting, but then probably switch to something else once my numbers are good.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:00 PM
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Yep life is shit. Going through the same thing. Been grinding for 8 months. Career is good, lifts are good, taking care of myself, etc. But im totally alone. Lost all my friends and LTR. So basically the harsh reality is keep grinding, or give up.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:50 PM
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Nah my gyms a small powerlifting/bodybuilding kinda gym. No classes. I make small talk cause I’m sort of a regular. But yea my social skills are shit but will work on it. Been looking out for some yoga classes or something though.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:15 AM
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Bro 8 months out from my breakup. No friends, no girls, nothing. I look better, my lifts are better, but that’s it. Glad you had success but not everyone is so lucky. I like the not drinking tip though, since I don’t really like alcohol anyway.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:04 AM
1

Get big and strong and look good naked
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:38 PM
1

If I could get girls I’d probably be addicted to them too
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:03 PM
1

Sure pal. Shoot me a message
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:04 PM
1

I was at a bar late one night and said “I took a karate class once, let me walk you back to my place”. And it worked.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:59 PM
1

This is so good. It opens so many doors and gets rid of the small talk/interview types questions. Is there anywhere to read up on more conversation tips like this?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:55 PM
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some people are trash and should be treated as so This is good advice, but outside the workplace. Don’t treat people like trash at your job even if they’re an asshole. Just avoid them. You don’t want to lose your job over some dickhead.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:53 PM
1

I’m following the PPL from Reddit fitness sub, so it’s not like I just threw a bunch of random shit together. Yea dude you’re right. Fuck it I like it and it’s not taking away from other priorities.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:15 PM
1

I do a heavy compound movement in the beginning of my workout, then the rest is all accessory shit. So like leg day would be squats, then the rest is shit like legs press, leg curl, calf raise, Romanian deadlifts, etc. Not gonna lie sometimes I fuck around between sets. If I really was in a rush I could probs be out in an hour.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:13 PM
1

I do though. I eat healthy and I go for long walks everyday. I also stretch and meditate. Once I more satisfied with my physique I’ll probably cut down to a 4 day split or something.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:15 PM
1

Thanks brother. Looks like my city has one
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:56 PM
1

How did you meet guys like that?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:40 PM
0

I meditate and read. I have a great career that’s on track for getting even better and will make very good money. The only thing is I’m incredibly alone. Literally one friend and no social life.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:25 PM
1

The only thing I’m lacking in is my social life. I have absolutely no social life so I guess the gym is a way I deal with that
/r/askTRP07/06/21 08:01 AM
2

Yea not in my city. Martial arts gyms run anywhere from $150-$200 a month and they usually want you to sign a contract.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:56 AM
1

I’m about to be 26
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:37 AM
1

I want to do a martial art but it’s fucking expensive and I would have to cut back on lifting.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:12 AM
2

I got nothing else going on in my shitty life. The gym gives me purpose.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:15 AM
3

Improving in everything but social game. That parts been absolutely destroying me mentally
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:13 AM
1

The routines actually a bit of powerlifting and hypertrophy. But yea I can recover just fine. What’s mild chronic fatigue?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:33 AM
15

I went through a bad breakup and have been incredibly lonely since. I feel like the gym is my outlet from getting away from that.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:07 AM
2

What do you mean by balance? Tbh I don’t have much else in my life. Just the gym. I use it as escape from the loneliness.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:46 AM
1

Man I was/am this guy. I’m Jewish and was born very poor. Once I actually grew up and got money I still never broke out of the being very frugal mindset. Not saying that’s the cause for this dude, but I’ve been the “Jew” plenty of times and get called out for it. Something I’m working on.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:56 AM
2

Weight fluctuates. You weighing yourself the same time everyday? Mornings best before you eat and after you shit.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:21 PM
2

Hey man that looks good. I’m still a noob at 5’9” and 150lbs, but if I was in your shoes I’d probably keep bulking to 170 or if I couldn’t stand looking at myself anymore.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:29 PM
1

I have family that calls me this behind my back. It’s because they think I’m boring (cause I am)
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:22 PM
1

I think you’re lost breh
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:19 PM
1

Like others have said get a second opinion. Also maybe look into resistance band training. It’s a lot easier on the joints you can a lot of resistance from some. Look up James Grage on YouTube to get some ideas.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:41 PM
1

I’m not a doctor but it doesn’t sound like something you should just leave untreated. I’m sure there’s procedures that correct your issue. But hey man it’s your balls on the line.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:30 PM
7

Dude go see a fucking doctor and sort that shit out. Your balls aren’t supposed to just fucking disappear. Seriously go get that sorted now.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:20 PM
2

This is unreal. Have you never been to a doctor? How the hell could this have never come up before and why have you never even thought to ask? I know you’re only 17, but I’m genuinely baffled by this.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:17 PM
3

How do you not know why you only have one testicle?
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:48 PM
19

It ended because she was pressing me to get married. And a bunch of other blue pilled shit. Led to a lot of back and forth. And she was pretty, just sort homely. I had friends tell me she was hot when she actually put the effort in. And sex I blame myself for. After finding TRP I found out it’s up to us to dominate and make it good for them, which in return makes it good for us. Instead I expected more from her which really just lead to a dead bedroom. Plus I jerked off way too much back then.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:59 PM
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Yea I did this for 7 years when I was BP’d. She was probably a 5 or 6 by most guys standards, but I was attracted to her. She treated me like a king. I was the only guy she fucked and she literally just took care of me and bent over backwards for me. Honestly, it was amazing and I miss that life. The sex wasn’t that good though.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:37 PM
2

That’s an amazing quote. Saving it
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:34 PM
2

I take vitamin d and a multivitamin. What does vitamin b complex do?
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:08 PM
1

What? I don’t understand the question
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:06 PM
2

I’ve pretty much followed the same advice you preach, and can confirm it works, at least to some extent. Got more muscle, got a fuck boy haircut, grew a beard, and dressed better. The way people treat you is night and day.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:36 AM
7

Man I see you copy and paste this shit all the time, but it’s solid advice. Basically TRP but TLDR format.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:45 PM
3

I’m totally new to this and don’t have many lays, but take my story from a few weeks ago: Went to a bar with my buddy and a bunch of his friends. This fat girl in the group tells all the girls I’m really cute (buddy told me this). All the sudden one of the girls from that group comes over and starts chatting with me all night and I eventually brought her back and fucked her. So my take away, be attractive and put yourself in social situations. If that fat girl didn’t put me on a pedestal I proba…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:36 PM
1

Believe me, I know. But Im about to be 26. my outlets for meeting people are slim to none, especially with COVID. If you don't have an active social circle by my age you're basically fucked.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:37 PM
3

This. Most are naturally redpilled.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:21 PM
2

That subs a full on pity party. It’s really sad man.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:55 PM
1

Since this is your first job, take the one that will net you the most experience. The one that will make your resume look better. And don’t try to climb the ladder at either. Your gonna be hoping to a better job in a year or two. So take the one that gives you best experience today. I’ve personally always worked for small companies. Is usually way more relaxed but they can pigeon hole you in terms of experience
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:47 PM
2

You’re absolutely right. It’s just hard starting from zero.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:58 AM
6

I’ve been going 8 months full on applying redpill to my life. Lifting, reading, meditating, studying, eating well, etc. etc. 8 months of doing all this shit everyday no excuses. I have gotten laid once (twice if you count a hooker) since then. I’m incredibly lonely and have no friends or anything. Honestly it’s tough, really tough. All this hard work and zero validation. But what else am I gonna do? Sit around jerk off and play video games? The self improving gives me purpose, so basically just …
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:47 AM
3

After 7 years of a quality relationship, within a week she signed a new lease and moved out and haven’t heard from her since. No big fight, not toxic shit, nothing. Can only assume there was another guy or something. But cause of that I found TRP and became a better person.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:11 PM
1

What does you routine look like?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:06 PM
2

Can someone explain to me what the difference is between powerlifting and bodybuilding. For example I do a PPL that focuses on the main compound lifts plus accessory stuff. Is that powerlifting or bodybuilding?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:52 PM
1

What’s a good bodybuilding routine?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:51 PM
1

Yea it’s in Part 3, Principle 3: “If you are wrong, admit it quickly and empathetically.”
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:16 PM
3

There’s a chapter on this in How to Win Friends and influence people. Just admit your mistakes when you are wrong. Don’t over apologize just say sorry I was wrong. And if they rub it in maintain frame.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:38 PM
1

My brother has an overweight fiancé that he lets fuck other people. You can’t help people unless they actually want to be helped.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:20 PM
1

It mean touch retards penis’s
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:15 PM
14

Dude, wtf are you talking about? This is all in your ahead. If anything people are more likely to enjoy being around you cause you look good and take care of yourself. You’re not some neck beard with bad hygiene. This is good dude and it helps your career assuming you socialize with your coworkers. Also that law of power is talking about never outshine your master skill wise. Yea okay maybe you look better than your tech lead. But are you a better programmer than him? That’s when you don’t outsh…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:08 PM
1

Sort of. I specialize in data, so I’m a Data Engineer
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:27 PM
5

Software Engineering
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:03 PM
1

I work for a non profit. But any government job will most likely similar in terms of stress, plus way better job security. I almost took a job that paid a little, but right now I prioritize my work life balance so I can work on other things.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:20 PM
2

This is brilliant
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:40 PM
1

I make 90k a year and do maybe at most 10 hours of work a week. Not a lot of SE jobs are like this though. Some are much higher stress.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:01 PM
1

High CoL is becoming a non issue since COVID. A lot of jobs went remote so you live wherever the fuck you want while still making bank.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:59 PM
3

I remember hearing a quote that went like “A religion is just a cult without its leader”. So if anything TRP might be more like a religion.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 10:21 PM
15

I think I need a break from this place
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 10:19 PM
14

In the US we say: “it’s only gay if the balls touch”
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:28 PM
1

Instead of taking a week off completely, maybe give resistance bands a try. They’re pretty cheap and you can get some that 100s of lbs of resistance. Also they’re much easier on your joints.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:05 PM
3

True but for me I have no friends or social circle. The only thing I have control over is my looks. So I lift hard and heavy, groom myself and dress nice. Some people are blessed with being more social and attracting girls that way.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:44 AM
3

Dude you can get closure like that other guy is suggesting if you really want. But bro you're fucking 16. You're gonna have so many opportunities to make new friends and be invited to all sorts of shit. And the best part is you found TRP at such a young age. Swallow it and follow your path of self improvement. This shits not gonna even matter in a year from now if you just stay the course. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:52 PM
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Hey man I’m 25 and that still happens to me. Worse part is I know why. The dude stopped inviting me cause I make him look bad. Mostly cause I’m quiet and don’t know how to socialize. So why would he keep inviting some loser to parties?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:41 PM
1

Same here bro. Just roll with it. I get a skin fade now and honestly it’s less noticeable cause my greys are on the side of my head. Either way it’s not a bad look. Don’t fucking dye it either just own it.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:29 PM
3

Work remotely. I do this now and I’m free to get up and stretch, go for walks, lay down for a bit, etc. A lot of people here are say don’t work an office job, but honestly I feel like most office jobs are gonna net you way more money than some blue collar job. So find remote jobs. They’re becoming way more popular since COVID.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:27 PM
1

Can you still get big with all that cardio though? I imagine you can but the amount of food you’d have to eat is crazy.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:00 PM
1

Go to the fitness sub Reddit and look at routines in their sidebar. Actually, just read their entire sidebar. For the record, I do the PPL they recommend. It’s great, but each session takes me ~1.5 hours to complete. If you tried to cram that all into a day you’d be in the gym for 4.5 hours, not to mention the toll that would take on your body due to the excess volume.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:31 PM
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Yea, with a crazy amount of fucking volume. There’s a reason why it’s a 6 day split, not one day. Honestly dude you’re way overthinking this. What makes you want to do a PPL? Why are you trying to cram at all into one day? Again find how much time you can commit to the gym a week and find an appropriate workout.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:04 AM
1

Bro stop trying to mold the program into something it’s not. Figure out how many days a week you can go to the gym and find a routine accordingly.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:52 PM
2

Cumtown
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:40 PM
1

Why not both? Do heavy compounds and then a bunch of accessory work for a pump.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:41 PM
-1

Move somewhere else
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:48 AM
7

Fuck really. A girl asked me once if she can’t get on top instead and I was just sure cause I like being ridden anyway.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 07:59 PM
1

Same here brother. I miss having that person to cuddle up with and talk too. All you can do is focus on yourself and keep improving. Those thoughts can’t haunt us forever right? I honestly don’t know but i imagine the void will fill with new memories and experiences. Soon those thoughts will be ancient history and our present selves will outshine them.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:57 PM
2

Dude I was literally going ham to a fucking AC/DC cover band the other day just cause I haven’t been to a show in over a year.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:36 PM
5

Look up Jeremy Ethier on YouTube. He made a video about this recently and even came up with formula to find what weight you can expect to see abs.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:43 PM
3

Bro have you actually written any code? There’s like a billion courses online so find one and try it to see if you like it. Okay, so now if you know that’s the career you want, you options. The safest but longest will be to go to college and get a degree in CS. A short but riskier route is to find a coding boot camp. I’ve heard good and bad thing but apparently some people have success with them. But it’s a great career that will net you a lot of money. Just make sure it’s something you want to …
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:40 PM
2

Ty ty
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:49 PM
3

Check out ERRA too
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:44 PM
4

Bro I love djent so thank you
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:34 PM
3

Meshuggah periphery Erra Bolt thrower Amon amarth Secret band Car bomb Gojira the ocean This list endless. They need to fucking start doing shows again I need my outlet for going fucking wild.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:59 PM
8

One time a girl with huge fake tits walked up me and said “Why the long face”. I just said “I’m sad” and she went aww and hugged me with her giant tits.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:54 PM
0

This. There’s so many petty comments in this thread about “well women will do you the same to you”. Fuck that this is about not owing anyone anything. If you want to respond go ahead, but don’t do it just cause you feel like you have to. That’s the conditioning you need to break.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:45 PM
1

And here I am thinking you were just fucking with me
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:21 PM
1

Sucks. Think I was grasping at straws with the giving multiple times thing
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:34 PM
1

Actually it’s been over a week. She left without leaving her number or anything.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:18 PM
1

Yea that’s what I’m trying to do. Gauge my performance
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:33 PM
1

What? I honestly can’t tell if this is a joke
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:33 PM
1

Look James Grage and buy some resistance bands. You’re welcome
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:41 PM
1

Coffee. For real though if you’re studying and you feel like you’re not retaining anything, stop and go do something else for a bit. Like walk or meditate or cook or something. Then come back to it.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:40 PM
1

You need to love your routine. You’re not gonna stick with it unless you do. Put on some fucking good music while you study. Find a new a playlist to lift some heavy ass weight too. Listen to a new podcast. Switch it up dude. You’ll get what you need to do done while spicing it up a little.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:37 PM
12

You should go to college ASAP, unless you actually can’t afford it and need to take out a bunch of loans or something. The sooner you get a degree the bette r
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:53 AM
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This is a solid thread. Personally I just wish found TRP in my early 20s and practices the basics: Lift Eat clean Read Meditate Practice Stoicism Find a hobby Socialize Look good
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:54 PM
1

I personally don’t like 3 day splits. Find another gym, workout at home, or do a 3 day split.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:50 AM
5

Conversely when I broke my nofap streak I got laid the same night after a 6 month dry spell. I think the universe is just random.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:48 AM
1

That’s pretty fair
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:51 PM
4

The fact this sub and TRP are flagged for hate is absolutely insane. They’ve given me so much life changing information. I’m just glad it’s all still accessible.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:02 PM
1

5’9”. Why?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:01 PM
1

Any links?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:43 PM
3

Yea remote work giving me extra time for workouts is amazing. Im in the gym ~1.5 hours every day. Im thinking of picking up a martial art as well so I can meet people and learn how to fight. Give me a sense of some community or something.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:30 PM
2

CMV or SMV?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:00 PM
7

Thanks brother. I've been working hard on myself for 6+ months now. Im following a PPL and keeping track of my lifts. My diet is also on point. Career wise im doing pretty good. I actually just received a good offer that I think Im gonna take, and Ill be making 6 figures and getting good experience. Unfortunately, I will be working remotely cause of COVID.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:59 PM
1

This is basically what I have too
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:52 PM
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Medium skin fade Edit: why am I being downvoted?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:47 AM
1

Right on dude. Gonna give it a try since I’ve been want to do MMA/BJJ
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 11:48 PM
1

Are you doing both everyday? I’ve grinding away in the gym 6 days a week. I’d imagine I’d have to cut back a little plus eat a shit ton to keep up with both.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 11:18 PM
0

For those doing Combat Sports, are you also lifting? The two seem to conflict with one another and lifting is one the basics of TRP. So how are you balancing the two?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 10:21 PM
2

Bro thank god you’re doing better. What a miserable situation. Congrats on improving.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:01 PM
3

How is it easier. I’m about to be 26 in a couple months. I wasted my 20s in an LTR and left with nothing when she left. I’ve swallowed the pill and my life has been improving, but I’m still lonely as fuck and don’t have any outlets to meet women. So, what are you doing?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:55 PM
11

Holy fuck so true
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:38 PM
1

Do you play chess? you can do tactics (basically short chess puzzles) to improve your game.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:27 PM
3

This. It’s a meditation technique. Really focus on the areas you feel tensed up in your body. You’ll feel it even stronger but it will go away faster. Also, start meditating
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:16 AM
1

Another RPiller recommended me the waking up app. Been using everyday for 6 months. It’s really great.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:14 AM
8

Yea dude we fucked last night
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:59 PM
2

Ah fuck I just did this too. Had no condoms and was in a 6 month dry spell. She said she was on the pill so I just said fuck it. Will not be doing that ever again.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:46 PM
1

Not familiar with that but I personally follow the PPL from the fitness sub. Has all the main lifts plus a shit ton of accessory work. And yea I really think it’s preference but you can post your body on here or one of the other subs to get some opinions. Everyone said I should bulk but I cut instead. It’s whatever you think you will look better doing in the short term.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:35 PM
3

Hey man I was/am skinny fat. It’s was really bad a few months ago but leaned down a shit ton and have more muscle now. The key is pick a strategy and STICK WITH IT. Just lift heavy and hard and focus on either losing weight or gaining weight. Whichever you think will make you more happy in the short term. In my case I couldn’t stand the extra fat so I focused on slowly losing weight first. Now I’m focused on building muscle.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:22 PM
18

How did you start this? Dating apps hurt my ego bad and I need another outlet to meet women.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:17 PM
1

That makes sense. I’m actually going a trip next week and she’ll be there. I guess I’ll find out if she wants more.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:46 PM
1

What?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:20 PM
1

Made me smile. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:04 AM
2

I definitely went through the grief. It was fucking brutal dude I was weeping like a bitch. But yea the self improvement stuff really helped me get through it. It gave me a purpose instead of just laying around feeling sorry for myself (which I still do from time to time, I’m only human).
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:58 AM
2

Thanks bro sorry you had to experience this too. I’m still going through my transformation but both mentally and physically I’m such a different person. I just haven’t grown socially and cause of that in super lonely. And the lack of women really hurts my ego. But I’m hoping to push through and find people. I’ve come to terms about not finding another LTR to replace her, sort of. At this point I would feel lucky just to have another LTR.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:48 AM
3

LOL. ty ty
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:18 PM
1

Yea I regret not asking before she left.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:19 PM
1

Yea I kind of figured this. But to be fair I didn’t ask for hers either.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:41 AM
3

Oof I hope that’s not the case.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:31 PM
3

Seems reasonable. My only concern was why she left so abruptly. But yea solid chance I’ll see her again in the future so I’ll just let things play out naturally.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:15 PM
9

Hey man just wanted to follow up since you have to the top comment. This is gonna come off as braggy but I actually got laid for the first time last night since my ex. I’m telling this cause it made me realize the perspective on this situation. How earlier yesterday I was in a dark spot thinking I’m never gonna make it or move past my ex, to later banging a girl way hotter than my ex. Don’t know if that’s the universe at work or what. Anyway thank you for your words.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:08 PM
3

NGL I jack it to her nudes from time to time. Doesn’t help
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:15 PM
3

You can read the old thread. Came down to marriage and full commitment to her which I wasn’t ready for.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 10:57 PM
6

Yes I read NMMNG. What you said about covert contracts makes sense. But then what am I working towards? Like I get TRP answer is yourself, you’re doing this to become the best version of yourself. But that best version includes (in my mind) is having a social circle and getting pussy or a nice LTR. Do I just hope that stuff comes with time and in the meantime embrace the loneliness? And thanks for the tip about meetup. I tried in the past and it was mostly empty but there seems to be some stuff …
/r/askTRP07/05/21 10:21 PM
1

Ask if she can fit in a normal size row boat
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:19 PM
1

Aren’t those two hard to balance? Could I do martial arts if I’m already lifting 6 days a week?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:13 PM
2

I just finished 48 laws and half way through how to win friends. They’re complimentary books IMO. To me How to win friends is about how to make people like you. It’s basically your social face. 48 laws is more internal and about how to plot and scheme for your benefit.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:13 PM
1

Any recs? Thinking of getting wayfarers, but they’re so expensive.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:39 PM
2

Basic Bastard thread on r malefashionadvice. It’s been a game changer for me.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:26 PM
1

It makes me feel good. It’s literally the highlight of my day. Especially if I had bullshit day at work or something. Fucking pop in some headphones and listen to a playlist while lifting some heavy ass weight. My problems just melt away.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:14 PM
3

So true. When I first met my ex she like Disney movies and gay hipster music. By the end she was going to metal concerts with me and watching fucked up horror movies. They’re like chameleons.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:08 PM
9

Np man. Also bro you DONT want to end your life. Like you said you’re young. You have so much more to experience and it’s gonna be amazing as long you keep putting in the effort. Are you lifting? Have hobbies? Career? school? You need to do shit to fill up your days and keep improving.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:27 PM
42

OP I’m kind of in the same place. My LTR left me. My family is turning against me. Friends are shitting on me or straight up using me. Coworkers despise me. It’s a huge wake up call. I realized all I have is myself. So I take care of me and been investing myself. I kind of like me now and I just want to keep improving. If someone in my life is constantly trying to put me down, fuck them. I don’t need them. Even if they’re family. Take care of yourself OP. You’re the only constant in your life an…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:44 PM
2

I’ve always done long commutes. Once COVID hit I started working from home and realized how much of my life I got back. I will never do another long commute. You lose way too much time and if there’s traffic it adds way too much much unnecessary stress. That being said, if this job is a gateway to get you better jobs, or you’ll just be doing the commute short term, then it’s worth it but only in the short term. But I would avoid long commutes at all costs for the quality of life you get back. I’…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:31 PM
1

I run that PPL now and love it. It’s basically a 5x5 routine but spread out over the week with a shit ton more accessory work. I ran 5x5 before and found it so boring. I like being the gym everyday training. But I’ve only been lifting for 6 months so don’t just listen to me. Also note you won’t be in the gym for 3 hours on that routine. When I started my sessions were like 45 minutes. Now they can be upwards of 90 minutes since I lift more weight.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:05 PM
1

Curious, do you even use deodorant?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:02 PM
2

My favorite. It’s a show about a man who is truly free and does whatever the fuck he wants.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:59 PM
1

Do you mind PMing me the exact sub? Most I found are dead.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:53 PM
1

When I do this I can only find forums from like 2013. Are these even still a thing?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:33 PM
2

Being more productive. Now I only smoke weed on weekends if I have no other plans. I’ll get high and play video games for hours, but only if I got all my other shit done for the day.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:08 PM
-1

Calm down ok?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:47 PM
0

Agreed. Like I said it was when I was blue pilled and wasn’t my only reasoning. But yea beta to buy something you don’t really want on the off chance of getting some poon.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:01 PM
1

Fair. That also may have been the case
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:21 PM
2

I dated a girl like that for 7 years. She made a great companion in my life. I think part of the reason is she was average maybe above average looking. So in my mind I always thought I could do better and she knew it. Also had excellent parent and grew up in a stable home. She treated me like a king so we ended up dating for such a long time. Eventually she figured out my ruse though. She realized I was totally dependent on her and really she had all the power in the relationship. So she left.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:11 PM
1

What was your journey like to the “other side”? Did it take a long time?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:03 PM
1

The problem is the looking part. I’ve been out of college for a few years and just feel like I have nowhere to make new friends.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:02 PM
1

Honestly, I had already learned from the past not to even bring up who I voted for, cause it lead to me being screamed at by a family member. Since then I always avoided politics in conversation. But I didn’t realize this vaccine shit was a political issue, at least it wasn’t when I said I wasn’t getting it. Now it’s turned into if you’re not getting the vax you’re an alt right nazi. Like dude no COVID just isn’t a threat to me (statistically) and I’d rather wait for more research about the vax …
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:55 PM
1

I don’t want to be a test subject for an experimental vaccine. Once it’s FDA approved I’ll get it.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:52 AM
1

It’s really just the one, which is I didn’t want to get vaccinated right away. I wish I never said it cause since then every family has felt the need to come and say something to me.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 10:23 PM
1

Fuck thank you for reminding me. I just finished that book. Seriously one of the best reads.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 10:18 PM
1

Work, lift, read, play chess, go for walks, cook. Also watch a good amount of tv.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:56 PM
1

Are you referring to the issue with my family? That has to do with getting the vaccine, nothing with TRP.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:34 PM
1

I absolutely did not.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 04:14 PM
2

I’m reading that one now, it’s one of my favorites. I read it years ago but I need to reinforce what they teach in that book.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:18 PM
3

Yea I feel like I’m at the point where I just need to start over. Only problem is I don’t know where to meet new people. This COVID bullshit really has made me isolated.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:00 PM
4

Yea I'm not spewing redpill shit everywhere though. Im genuinely learning how to talk to people and have fun.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:42 PM
1

Yea it’s sucks. First friend I made in years and he does that
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:10 PM
1

What’s tfl?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:17 PM
3

I did. Did you not read my post
/r/askTRP25/04/21 05:58 AM
17

I think more than anything he just wanted more views on his tiktok
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:53 AM
1

Not really mobility but I do the perfect posture routine by Jeremy Ethier.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:13 PM
1

PM'd you
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:04 AM
2

That’s a great idea. Only I can’t find any at the moment. It seems like COVID wiped out the local clubs, and it in a city too. Btw I’m down to play. Would love to learn from an experienced player.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:11 AM
2

Only 1200 ELO. Haven’t been playing as much lately
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:43 PM
5

TBF, it’s more about confirming if you have it.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:11 PM
3

I was thinking of doing this and also buying a green screen. That way I can basically do whatever in my own home.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:56 PM
2

You really hit the nail on the head. It’s so blatant and insane sounding that you just get labeled as a conspiracy theorist for pointing it out. Edit: I should’ve finished reading. You lost me at letting hitler come to power and take over again. The rest is spot on
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:41 PM
1

I don’t know. That wasn’t my point. It’s just that you’re wrong about how this vaccine works.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:57 PM
3

The vaccines are mRNA. It’s not like normal vaccines that have a dormant virus in them.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 03:12 PM
3

Totally agree. In fact, it’s made me dust off my resume and portfolio so I can start looking for something better. Also makes me want to work for myself so I don’t have to deal with shit like that. I only took the job cause they were willing to give someone like me with very little experience a chance.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:48 PM
1

I’ve been cutting for a few months now. I’m very new to this so take my words with caution. I was already skinny fat and started cutting at a very slight deficit. I’ve lost somewhere between 10-15 pounds over the past few months. I look pretty lean now without looking too much like skeleton. So I think the key is to do a very slight deficit and don’t go crazy. If you do it right, you might even gain muscle while cutting.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:23 PM
1

The biggest is reason is my job forced my hand on a controversial opinion. It’s genuinely something I could lose my job over since I’m an at will employee.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:20 PM
3

Yup I had the virgin unicorn highschool gf... and she cheated on me
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:11 AM
2

Why those diets? Also should add meditation and stoicism
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:05 PM
2

Such great advice. I wish I read this book sooner.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:29 PM
2

Growing up poor forced me to frugal all throughout life. When I eventually got a good job and had a healthy amount of savings in my bank, it took me a while to snap out of that frugal lifestyle. Now I spend extra to buy good clothes, good quality food, nice furniture and electronics etc. it makes a world of difference but getting out of that habit was tough.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 01:36 PM
1

Why bodyweightfitness?
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:10 PM
1

You’re doing better than me man. I haven’t so much as touched another girl since we broke up. Just keep going brother you sound like you’re doing well just keep improving
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:16 PM
1

I’d throw all your expectations out the window. Broke up with my ex 6 months ago. Haven’t so much as had a date since then. Pretty much just given up on dating and just focus on myself. But that’s just me.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:03 PM
1

Morning: Stretch, Meditate, Log on for work, Make Breakfast, Drink Coffee and read some Stoicism/TRP Noon: Work, Lunch, Go for a walk, Side projects, chess, fuck around and watch YouTube Evening: Make dinner, Lift, protein shake while watching tv, stretch, read, bed
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:24 AM
3

He means don’t overthink shit. Just get it done. You’ll make time if it means something to you.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:20 AM
1

Sounds like you’re greening out. I used to smoke a ton of weed in highschool and I developed severe anxiety. I made a lot of friends but to excess weed smoking fucked me up good. I quit for years and got my shit together. I started again recently though. Just on weekend when I play video games. I consider it me time. Occasionally if I get a panic attack I’ll just sit and meditate until it passes. It’s great in moderation but you need to stop if it’s too much.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:14 AM
12

My buddy does this and I seriously don’t understand it. He’a skinny fat. Bad hygiene. No job. Just plays video games. Sleeps all day. Eats bad food. Yet he still gets girls and has tons of friends. I can only assume it’s cause he’s tall and has a good personality.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:08 AM
1

I read The Daily Stoic while drinking my coffee each morning.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:33 PM
6

Great advice. Just want to add to the beard thing, my beard looks like shit around that length. I really had to be patient and let it grow to see results. I’m like a couple months in now and my beard has never looked better. Just wanted to put that out there in case anyone else has this issue.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:34 PM
2

I have to admit, if you’re only reason was cause you were scared of divorce rape stories, that’s kinda dumb. But my reason was equally dumb so I can’t judge. My guess is there was probably something else holding you up. But that doesn’t matter anymore. If it happened then it was meant to happen (another red piller told me this).
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:20 PM
3

Not really dude. You need to change your perspective. Sounds like you had a good run with your ex, but only saying that cause you dated for so long. Eventually she made you choose, marriage or to end things. You made that choice. You might regret it now, but part of you knew at that moment that’s not what you wanted. There was something holding you back you would’ve went “fuck yes let’s get married”. You made the choice, and she made hers. Just make the most of it and don’t live in the past.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:11 PM
3

Sure I do. But what do we say around here “she’s not yours and it’s only your turn”. I’d rather it happen now then having to start over again when I’m in my 30s and married.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:03 PM
2

Yep. Someone else’s problem now
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:55 PM
1

Well, in my case she had a cousin around the same age and also dated a guy for the same length as us. Once they got engaged, she got the idea that we should too.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:48 PM
4

Meditation is exactly what I needed as well to get out of that funk. It’s seriously one of best tools in life. Highly recommend.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:48 PM
2

No success by actively recovering. I dated my first gf since highschool for 7 years. She was unicorn virgin who cooked and cleaned and treated me like a king. I took it all for granted and dragged my feet when the idea of marriage came around. Needless to say she left me real quick after a lot of back and forth. I regret it, a lot. But I learned so much and TRP gave me the guide to becoming a better person. I look and feel better and my friends and family have even been telling me this. I’ve alw…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:43 PM
3

I made the same mistake. Happy to hear you bounced back though. I’m still working on that myself.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:39 PM
6

Same, but not by choice. My ex left me and I just strike out with every woman. Now I just focus 100% on me.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:44 PM
2

Chill dude I’m about to OD on red pills
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:21 PM
1

Isn’t the director David Lynch? Not sure if Red Pilled or not, but the man has a very unique style that is open to interpretation most the time. So you can read it however you want. Edit: I have no fucking clue why I thought this was a David Lynch movie.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:15 PM
4

This. It’s like junk food. Don’t keep it in your house and you won’t eat it. My gaming PC broke and I just never fixed it, so I now I don’t play games.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:45 PM
1

Gay ass bot
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:55 PM
1

Yea just one friend that knows I’m trying to improve my life meet girls. He invites me anywhere he gets invited to.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:33 PM
2

Fuck I love that fact.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:29 PM
1

Not sure if this is a joke or not but usually bring alcohol and occasionally weed. I don’t really do drugs.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:48 PM
1

Judgement for sure. I feel like people can sense the loser on me. I just want to be liked and make friends. Not sure what outcome attachment is.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:47 PM
1

Oldboy Shows how to make the most out of monk mode and come out a badass.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 02:58 PM
1

I want to enjoy them. It’s the only place for me to meet other people and especially women. But every time I just feel like I’m blowing it.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:21 PM
2

Can confirm this makes me feel like I’m doing better.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:07 AM
1

No. Just want to know how badly I fucked up.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:46 AM
1

Will it take me long to get back to my previous weight?
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:26 AM
6

Damn I never even stopped and thought about the amount of life changing information TRP has given me, for absolutely fucking FREE.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:45 PM
3

What’s the relationship between acne and gut health?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:41 PM
15

Had a similar experience. Only my coworker told me long before my break up and didn’t check it out til after. Thank god I did.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:17 PM
6

Man this is some fucking mental gymnastics. You like what you like. If you have some problem with what you like, do something about it.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:34 PM
16

This right here. I can’t believe so many people think the government actually gives a shit about their health and rushing out to get this experimental vaccine.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:03 PM
1

What do you mean? I dated my unicorn between 18-25. I’m lucky it happened young but still.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:39 PM
1

25
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:17 PM
5

Well I meant people that are not us. But sucks man I feel for you. My inexperience cost me something special. But oh well if it happened then it was meant to happen. I’ve become a better person since.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:01 PM
1

You know, the author didn’t go that deep into it. He said something a long the lines of hurt the provoked without becoming upset. I read this along the lines of someone saying “you’re a pussy I’m gonna fuck you up”. A response might be “good luck” or something. But not entirely sure.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:47 PM
1

I just read the chapter on this is 48 Laws of Power. Getting angry during confrontation just makes you look weak. Either provoke them to make them more angry while you remain calm, or just ignore.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:33 PM
3

Almost same thing with me. Don’t fuck up something special.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:29 PM
25

I can relate to this so much. The mirror really brings up my ego. And then the pictures take that away.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:24 PM
1

When I had gf in college I would just text my roommate in advance asking if I can have the room. He was understanding and would leave once we got there.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:00 PM
8

This. It’s literally just math. Have the willpower to stay in a defector and it’s guaranteed you lose weight.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:33 PM
1

I’ve never used them, but there was an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where he uses condoms that make you last longer. Just make sure you don’t wear them inside out.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 02:58 PM
11

Saving this
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:08 PM
1

Wow what an in depth response. I’ve been lifting consistently for almost 6 months now. I go 6x a week and diet is on point. I figured I’d dial back a couple days lifting and add in a martial art. I’ve tried this with Muay Thai, and wound up gassed, but I also didn’t cut back on lifting.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 08:53 PM
1

I’m thinking of lifting 4 days a week and doing a martial 2-3x a week. Do you think that’s a manageable combo? My goals are more to get jacked and know how to fight/meet people.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 01:20 PM
1

I used to keep a cycle under my desk while I play RuneScape. Now I just go for long walks.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 04:02 AM
2

I’m a dude and those give me boners. No homo...
/r/askTRP13/03/21 04:44 PM
2

I smoke week and play video games on weekends. But I don’t let it dominate my weekends.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 04:40 PM
9

This makes sense. I recently started jerking off and watching porn again and feel great. I imagine after a while though I will start feeling like shit again. I guess the key is to balance it.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:01 PM
0

I certainly am not spouting political stuff left and right. There’s been a few moments where I open up to family members about my politics, but that’s it. When I’m truly dealing with a confrontation from them, I try and either ignore or tell them I don’t want to talk politics. If they’re getting super heated, I’ll sometimes say “We don’t have to agree, but Ill still love you”. Thank you though, your post is insightful.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:57 PM
0

I study stoicism. I was open to your feedback to self reflect, but your not really explaining how or why I’m an asshole.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:06 PM
1

What did I say that made me come off as an asshole?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:57 PM
1

Oof my ex did this right before leaving me. We dated for years and both agreed tattoos were ugly and weren’t getting any. Out of nowhere she decides to get a tattoo with her cousin. Few months later she left me. Could be coincidence, but I don’t think so.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:37 PM
17

Shut up you fat bastard
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:47 PM
2

Cumtown
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:47 AM
2

Hey brother same here. I boot up my computer and then stretch and mediate. Then make breakfast and have coffee. Then shower and groom myself. Then I actually will get started on any work I need to do if I even have any. Then more coffee. Then maybe more work. Then lunch and go for a walk. Then more work, or maybe work on a side project or something. Use it your advantage man. Use your extra time to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:42 AM
6

Hinge requires 6 pics though...
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:50 PM
1

Yep. At least I have TRP this time and am actually lifting weights. Boy I was I had TRP back then. I would’ve slayed.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:42 PM
5

Oldboy Fight Club Bone Tomahawk Idk why those are the first 3 that popped in my head. There’s tons dude tell me what you like and I can give you recs.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:08 PM
0

I was the fat weird kid in highschool. One day I had enough of my disgusting body and long hair. I started doing p90x everyday watching my calories. I was shedding weight. I would literally picture girls I wanted to fuck in my head and push harder during workouts. When I finally lost most the fat, the way people treated me was night and day. Girls in my school would literally just approach me. I even had on girl just come cuddle up to me while watching a movie in class. Finally I wound up in a L…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:04 PM
1

Man this resonates with me so much. I was similar to OP. Once she left I realized I have is myself, so I need to make the most of it. Thanks dude this comment is golden.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:59 AM
7

Why do you hate legs? I hated legs when I started cause I was bad it. But I kept doing it and I got better. Now I can comfortably squat 200 lbs (I’m still a noob) with good form. I also bought a nice pair of squat shoes which make it more comfortable and motivate me to squat. So I now look forward to leg days.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:59 AM
15

I thought we were going with the dick thing. It’s more masculine anyway.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:16 PM
1

I think my point still stands. They were banging each other on top of the other things you said.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 02:54 AM
23

God i needed to hear this. I felt like shit cause I would watch Netflix at the end of the day cause I’m too burnt out to do anything productive. I also play video games for a few hours on weekends cause I don’t have much else to do with everything shut down. I agree I think it’s okay as long you’re not wasting your day and getting shit done.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 06:49 PM
2

Can you expand on this? How do you generate love and warmth?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 04:23 AM
2

Dated a girl for 7 years. Started in highschool and lost our v cards together. It was a magical relationship until the light switch went off 6 months ago. Haven’t heard from her since but luckily found TRP and took up my path to self improvement.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:13 AM
1

Nofap legit made my voice deeper.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:07 AM
-1

Is this legit advice? Do cigars actually make you’re voice deeper?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:07 AM
5

Legitimately try nofap. I definitely felt more masculine after a week.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:03 AM
4

This is such a load of bullshit. I lift 6 days a week and don’t have abundance mentality. Just picking up a barbell everyday isn’t gonna make women flock to you.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:17 PM
2

Either way it’s one them to take precautions. You can still get and transmit the virus if you get vaccinated. It’s just a bad argument. Obviously if you with elders or people at risk than you are also responsible for their health. But if you’re a young healthy person living on your own, I really don’t think you need the vaccine.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:15 PM
7

Then they’re the ones who should take precautions. No reason we all need to be in quarantine
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:35 PM
10

I wouldn’t, unless COVID is an actual threat to your health. If you’re young healthy guy you’re probably not at risk. The vaccine should be going to the people who actually need it anyway. I’d wait to see the long term affects and see if COVID is even still a thing in a year or two. But I’m not a fucking doctor and probably no one else here is either.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:04 PM
3

Anything specifically you recommend? I was looking at habitat for humanity
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:10 PM
7

I’m currently a Software Engineer who works completely remote. How can I get experience like this? Part-time job on weekends? Volunteering?
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:52 PM
1

I did some soul searching over the weekend and decided my goal right now is really just to get jacked. As much as I’d like to do a martial art, I think it’s detrimental to that goal. I might change my mind on this though. As a side note I almost got robbed the other night walking home alone in a shady part of town. I realized BJJ wouldn’t really help in this situation other than a last resort of being attacked.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:42 PM
22

Damn it’s rare seeing admins being cool
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:02 PM
1

So true. That’s why I just want to get away from him. Also maybe this is beta but I just try and avoid any uncomfortable convos with him. He’s got anger problems and can’t take any sort of criticism. He’s a fucking skeleton too so there’s really no need to be scared but I just don’t feel like dealing with it.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:24 PM
1

Yea I used to lift in the morning and Muay Thai in the evenings. Or I can cut back on lifting and do one on the off days.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:28 AM
1

Cobra Kai is dope. Doesn’t IRL karate suck though?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:43 AM
1

I guess you just can’t have it all. I was thinking of switching to a 4 day split and doing some martial art 2x a week to make things easier. I’ve been super conflicted on this though cause I still want to get big.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:04 AM
0

Are you trying to tell us something?
/r/askTRP25/02/21 04:29 PM
2

How do you only have 2 pics on hinge? I thought it requires 6?
/r/askTRP25/02/21 03:03 PM
3

It’s called martial arts
/r/askTRP25/02/21 02:55 PM
1

These words weren’t even meant for me but they still resonate. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:42 AM
2

Yup 1000%. Only help and friend people who are the same value or more than you.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:51 AM
1

Have you heard of rat/mouse utopia? Basically they did an experiment with rats and found all the alphas got the bitches while the uncles huddled together and had a ex with each other. They weren’t born gay just a product of there environment. The weirdest part is his parents are amazing. Really nice people and even had me for thanksgiving. I have no idea where it went wrong. Anyway I’m past the point of helping him. I’ve been nothing but nice to him (covert contracts) and he’s been ungrateful an…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:49 AM
8

Bro I offered for him to start coming to the gym with me and shit like that. Like I said he’s a lost cause. There’s no changing someone who doesn’t want to change. I’m still new to the TRP myself so I shouldn’t really take anyone under my wing anyway.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:50 PM
0

Can you explain this? What is frame in this context? How does it help me?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:28 PM
6

Why wouldn’t I put my roommates name on the lease? Your dad sounds like an asshole.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:18 PM
2

Yea Im just cordial and ignore him most the time. He’s always home so I have to be around him. I’m not gonna bully him cause then I’m the bad guy. He can’t afford an apartment on his own he would have to move back with his parents. I though about just creating another scenario where crosses the line like when he sexual harassed my buddy, that way I just have an excuse to get rid of him.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:14 PM
1

For real I learned this in highschool. Went from the fat kid to incredibly skinny and suddenly every girl wanted to talk to me. Didn’t even have any muscle.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:19 PM
2

I thought maybe until I installed Tinder. Now I feel incredibly ugly.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:19 PM
2

Man this is such good advice. Add some flair to what you’re doing so you actually enjoy it. For example, blast some fucking music while you’re doing monotonous. It gets you in the zone and puts you in a better mood.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:12 PM
2

What the hell is a men’s group? Sounds interesting
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:10 PM
1

To be fair, I did feel the benefits while doing it. But balancing that with constantly being horny is tough.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:29 PM
3

Question, how do you balance Muay Thai and your workouts? I found it too much lift and do Muay Thai but I really want to learn how to fight again.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:15 AM
2

But then it just goes back to normal right?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:40 PM
1

Yea I already do that stuff plus cold showers
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:03 PM
1

Ah that is good advice. I was mostly just doing it for the testosterone benefits, if they exist. Do you notice the same effects by just blowing your load every few days without porn?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:47 PM
1

No sir
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:19 PM
2

I make like 90k but I don’t work at a FAANG company. That’s end goal though.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 08:56 PM
1

No no no I feel great so I want to keep going. But I might just feel great cause of placebo. There’s no real evidence (that I know of) for higher T from nofap but it’s possible.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:07 PM
1

Is there any scientific studies that actually prove that though? Like I know the one that spikes after 7 days, but then it just goes back to normal. So it’s increasing, but just for the short term.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:55 PM
1

What are you coding? I have trouble finding passion projects to code.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:43 PM
1

Yea I’m lifting. Probably placebo, but I feel higher energy, deeper voice, more confidence, etc. But I’m also incredibly horny and just want to bust. Also doing cold showers which are great.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:28 PM
2

As someone who’s almost a week into nofap, why do you say this? If I’m not social at all, what benefits am I gonna see from not jerking off? Asking cause I really just want to bust tbh.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:59 PM
8

Im in the same boat and it’s been really rough. Really recently though I started project that I’ve been into. I just blast music and code away. It helps take my mind off things. Hope shit gets better for us brother. I need more people in my life too.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:20 PM
2

Bro thank you. Gonna look into it.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:45 PM
1

I just want to get tested first. I don’t have a primary care doc and it’s like impossible to find one right now.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:42 PM
1

Where do you go? I tried to go to an urgent care but they told me I need a prescription from a doctor
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:29 PM
1

I’ve just avoided conflict at almost all cost. I have another boss who’s male and I just deal with him. However, recently my whole office was able to get the vaccine. For personal reasons, I didn’t want it and just never signed up. Feminist bitch boss couldn’t accept this and has been emailing me multiple times a week to get it. Gonna start applying again cause I think this one will do me in.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:09 PM
0

This. My direct boss and CEO are both women. I’d highly advice against it.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:45 PM
4

Welp, guess I gotta give up weed now.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:06 PM
2

Does that interaction increase estrogen or something? I’ve been binge smoking weed on weekends cause im bored but if it does something like that I’m done.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 03:06 PM
1

Just go to the subreddit and sort by top.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:37 PM
1

There’s a red pill book subreddit that has a huge collection. Personally chomping my way through that.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 01:26 AM
1

I would say since you’re young and female, you have way more options outside of online dating. You should try to just find something naturally and turn to online dating if it doesn’t.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 05:55 PM
2

Thanks brother. Gives me hope
/r/askTRP12/02/21 02:39 PM
2

Where you at 33 and how long til you got results? Asking cause I’m 25 and just found TRP a few months ago after a breakup.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:01 PM
2

Been doing his posture routine. Not bad.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 10:27 PM
1

You watch priests molest young boys?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:44 PM
3

I think it depends on your field, but I don’t believe in growing within a company. Most states in the US are considered at will, so companies can just fire you any fucking reason what so ever. So I play by the same rules. Rather than trying to grow, I just take my experience and look for job that’s even better. Every time I’ve done this I land a better role and get a nice pay bump. Fuck being loyal. They can use you, so you use them.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:34 PM
2

Right. I’ve seen a lot of the fitness YouTubers advocating “body recomps” rather than traditional bulk and cut cycles. Basically just a slight deficit and high amount of protein. I figured I’d give it a try since I didn’t want to bulk and gain even more body fat.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:56 PM
2

I was in a BP relationship for 7 years and she broke my heart. I’ve used the other relationship advice subreddits in the past but they suck and decided to post here instead. I knew Reddit hated so I figured there’s probably some good shit here. Low and behold I got amazing advice and have been for a few months now.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:41 PM
11

As a bonus, your body produces more testosterone at lower body fat levels. I think around 8-12%. I’m currently skinny fat and decided to cut first for that reason
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:03 PM
1

Would you like to be my therapist?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:27 PM
1

I’ve been able to recover fine doing a PPL routine. I’m working hard on building my physique so I’d rather not cut lifting. Motorcycle does sound dope.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:53 PM
1

Going to look into the classes idea. I really don’t want to cut lifting cause I’m trying really hard to improve my physique. Plus I love it.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:53 PM
1

Why to the first 2?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:24 PM
1

My weights fine, but my body fat is high. I go for long walks a few times a week as well.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:55 PM
1

Would love to but how?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:54 PM
33

But that ass
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:05 PM
0

Banter
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:05 PM
1

I’m 25
/r/askTRP31/01/21 06:59 PM
6

The guy who raped and murdered people?
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:51 AM
1

I really don’t understand what you guys mean by purpose. Like it’s some blanket statement you keep throwing around. Help people how? What’s your purpose?
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:50 AM
1

No I loved Muay Thai. I just didn’t want to give up lifting. I’ll look into other sports since they’ll probably be less intensive.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:46 AM
1

Fuck now I feel lost. How do I answer these questions? I don’t remember any of this in the sidebar. Everything was basically lift, read, take care of yourself etc. how do I find a purpose?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:34 PM
2

I mentioned in another comment I struggled lifting and doing martial arts at the same time. The other things you listed are solid though and I’ll look around.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:09 PM
1

How do I get shredded if I’m not lifting?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:54 PM
1

Substitute as in drop lifting entirely? It’s more than few bruises man it’s just not tangible to do both. Like serious injuries and upkeep.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:39 PM
1

I sort of due this, but can definitely improve. I'm a coder by trade and have a couple open source projects I'm proud of. I'm pretty sure it's from lack of socialization though.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 07:26 PM
3

It's been about 5 months for me as well. Luckily I immediately found TRP after the breakup and have nonstop been trying to improve myself since. I wish I got more results, but I know just sitting around doing nothing is only gonna make things worse.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 07:24 PM
0

You play on PC? I should probably get my graphics card fixed. I’ll join your clan brother
/r/askTRP30/01/21 07:01 PM
2

I’m the most responsible person I know. I had a cat when I lived with my ex and I loved that thing. Bitch fucking took it though and I miss having a companion like that. Might pull the trigger on this dog.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:46 PM
1

Holy fuck it’s really funny you mentioned warframe. I gave up gaming but I recently had the itch to play warframe. My gaming pc is broke though and it kind of sucks on the switch.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:30 PM
14

Bro I match with bottom barrel bitches. Conversations might lead to a number or something, but usually ends there. It fucked my ego pretty bad so I’m staying away for a while.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:55 PM
1

Yea gonna need you to explain that one.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:43 PM
1

I’ve been looking but haven’t seen anything like that. Only thing I saw was pickle ball which was mostly seniors.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:41 PM
2

I was in a relationship for 7 years. After she left is when the loneliness started eating me up.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:40 PM
3

I really want to join a fight club but it’s really hard to balance with lifting. I tried Muay Thai and found I had to eat a ton a to keep up and would up shoulder impingement after a month.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:24 PM
3

Where do I look for this?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:10 PM
10

Dating apps are a wash for me. I barely get matches. I need to improve my looks first and hire a photographer.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:03 PM
1

Isn’t CrossFit bad? I’m trying to get shredded so I’m not sure if it will fit my goals.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:50 PM
12

I’m not. Besides going to the gym and going for walks I’m not really doing anything the get out there and meet people. At the same time, there’s not a whole lot of opportunities for me to meet people.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:49 PM
2

Yea I want to be interesting and respected. I want to be social and be around people that like being around me. Thanks man. It’s been a grind.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:29 PM
9

I do want some validation. I work hard and have little to show. I want money so I can financially independent and have things I need/want. I want a good career so I can enjoy working hard while earning a good paycheck.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:28 PM
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You’re not the first person to recommend I get a dog. I really do need more relationships in my life but have been struggling to meet people.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:26 PM
1

I do not but I would love to. I tried Muay Thai for a bit but found it too hard to balance with my lifting. But man the high it gives you is incredible plus I got to be around other people.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:25 PM
9

To be a better version of myself. I want to be jacked and make good money/have a good career. I want to be a badass people look up to.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:10 PM
3

I do like my career, but not my job. Been actively building working on some projects and I’m gonna start applying in a few months. I do think I need another hobby but I’ve been enjoying chess a lot.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:08 PM
2

I’ve tried making friends at the gym but it’s weird. I’ll usually ask the bigger guys to check my form or just say some other nonesense to get a convo going, but it doesn’t hold.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:56 PM
3

I have. Excellent book and I should probably reread cause it’s been some time.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:40 PM
2

How exactly do you go about making friends at the gym? I usually go in the morning when no one is there, so there’s an obvious one. But how do you actually get talking to people who are focused on their workouts?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:26 PM
1

Is that really a bad thing though?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:22 PM
1

Yea id find that a little sus too. In hindsight my ex actually used to drive pretty far to some yoga class. I think it was the only one near by but maybe she was being dicked down. Curious what others will say.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 02:56 AM
1

Is she going with a friend or something? Going that far doesn’t make sense.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 02:53 AM
3

That is a long ass drive for a fitness class
/r/askTRP22/01/21 02:42 AM
1

Bro that sounds sick. My company also uses open source software for both budgetary and privacy reasons. Our work machine are all windows though and they really limit what I can install. VSCode is approved by default since it’s Microsoft.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:09 PM
2

Oh yea can code collect a shit ton of telemetry. There’s a project called vscodium that removes a lot of it. I mostly use it for work so I don’t really care, and most my projects are on GitHub anyway which they also own.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 09:06 PM
1

Bro, have you actually tried it?
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:16 PM
1

Yea I also use Azure so there’s a some good integration. Also most the plugins are great. I should at the very least use the Vim plugin.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:15 PM
1

I’m similar to OP and my answers are yes and no. I feel like another woman would take shit off my mind I have nowhere to meet any.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:39 PM
5

Man I should take the time to learn Vim. I’ve been spoiled with VS Code
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:50 PM
1

Yea my throw away Reddit name speaks volumes about me
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 07:49 PM
1

Why don’t you just keep handing out personal info to monopoly tech companies like candy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 05:07 PM
0

Starting Strength sucks. Too little volume and too much focus on lower body.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:22 AM
3

I’m in the exact same boat. Ex left and now I feel like I have nothing.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:19 PM
1

Learn by doing
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:34 PM
5

Metal at the gym Instrumental when working
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:20 PM
1

This. It’s the best way to learn. Don’t watch video tutorials cause they are mostly bullshit and you’re not gonna learn. If you’re totally new, skin the docs of whatever language you’re using and then just make something, anything. Seriously so mane people just watch videos and don’t learn.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:33 PM
1

7 years was our breaking point
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:57 PM
1

I do have a regular job, a pretty good one at that. The people there are a little older and I don’t really click with them (it’s a non profit so a lot SJW). Also, I’ve been remote for like 9 months now so I don’t see anyone in person. One of my goals right now is to study and improve my resume so I can find something even better. A good tech company with a younger crowd
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:33 PM
3

nothing I can do about it. Wrong. Do exactly what I said in my top post. Develop a threat level and use privacy oriented software and services.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 07:57 PM
1

Okay 6 days a week. You got me
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:27 PM
1

I lift everyday. But yea you’re right I don’t like conflict. I take everything too seriously and don’t stand up for myself.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:17 PM
1

Curious did you stop fapping or just porn?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:51 PM
2

I know. I have no friends or social circle. I hit the gym everyday which is the only thing keeping me going. The friends I do have are shitty and don’t respect me. Idk how to get out of this situation
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:25 PM
3

How long did this take? I was in the same situation except we dated for 7 years. During that time I lost most my friends and now I’m left alone. I’ve been lifting and reading and working on projects I just still feels empty and lonely.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:02 PM
2

Honest question, how do I do that? While I don’t think it’s all my self esteem, it is part of the issue.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:30 AM
1

Lmao besides the confidence I’m literally all those things.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:20 AM
2

Honestly I want to, but I don’t have any other friends and don’t know where to meet new people.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 11:42 PM
1

I remember when my ex was sad I used to just start tickeling her or play wrestle. Turned her mood around so fucking fast.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:43 PM
1

Not sure. Really HIV is my biggest fear, so I should probably get tested.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:36 PM
15

No they’re doing it to put me down. They’re both jobless losers where I have a career and make money. The ones an incel and has a temper problem. He can’t take any sort of joke at his expense but constantly throws shit at me.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:35 PM
1

I need to ask, but I had sex with a massage parlor girl a few months ago. I wore a condom and used lube. I haven’t experienced any symptoms, but should I get tested to just be sure?
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:32 PM
24

Oh man I like this. I can’t really pull of the angry thing I think this will work well in my situation.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:51 PM
5

I do. It’s the highlight of my day
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:11 PM
36

Yea it’s hard to tell sometimes. Sometimes it’s fun banter. In a group setting sometimes they come back harder and try and put me down, I guess to look better.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:31 PM
10

I’ve read NMMNG. I still don’t know how to deal with people like that. And I have no other friends, plus I live with them.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:02 PM
4

Dude do it. When I was your age I literally had a girl in my bed who said I want you to pin me down right now. My response was “haha good one” I still cringe about it. Don’t be like me.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:38 PM
7

I don’t think that’s a real thing you need to worry about
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 12:31 PM
14

50 years ago we didn’t even think the tech we have now would ever exist. Most of this happens behind closed curtains, so people aren’t fighting for their freedoms that they don’t know are being stripped away.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 09:15 PM
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I’m scared of global mass surveillance. I’m scared of a social credit system that’s going to hold me or my children accountable for things I anonymously said on the internet 10 or 15 years ago. I’m scared of machine learning algorithms that are building more and more info about me and able to perfectly curate my needs and wants and track everything I do. I’m scared of the government spying on the American people without their consent. I’m scared of the internet being entirely stripped of free sp…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 08:36 PM
5

There’s no way that’s gonna happen anytime soon. People value convenience and brand names. They don’t care about privacy. And sadly, there’s no money in decentralized platforms. Most of the time when one of those projects gets big the dev winds up paying a ton of money out of pocket to keep up the infrastructure. Or they can’t scale. Either way they wind up shutting down. There’s a few successful non profits, such Signal and Mozilla who can keep a privacy product a float while being totally free…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 07:23 PM
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Yup. And between storing your IP address and browser fingerprinting, they’re pretty much gonna know exactly who you are even if you didn’t include any personal info. People are so asleep on this issue and just don’t care.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 06:30 PM
1

The group everyone they disagree with under one label.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 05:53 PM
115

While I don’t agree with most of this, one thing is certain. TRP is not safe on Reddit and should probably move to a more decentralized and privacy friendly platform. Digital privacy is totally fucked has just been getting worse since 9/11. Big Tech platforms are openly censoring people and pushing political agendas harder and harder. Be safe and practice healthy internet hygiene. Don’t use your real name with anything you don’t want getting back to you. Use free and open source software/platfor…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 04:01 PM
3

At the gym I listen to metal. Djent, Death Metal, Prog Metal, anything heavy. At work, I only listen to instrumental. Math rock, lofi stuff, more metal
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:43 AM
1

DMV?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:54 PM
2

CS
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:19 PM
4

Won't this only work if the girl is walking toward you?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 09:14 PM
1

No problem brother. I'm also pivoting towards that idea since I already know a lot of backend shit. Also machine learning is huge. Not sure if you have any experience there, but you could build a side hustle around that. Feel free to PM me to talk shop. It's good to know another data guy in TRP world.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:57 PM
3

Yep, im one of the 95% of the social retards.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:32 PM
1

Data's hot right now, which I'm sure you know. But I think it would be hard to build a side business around that. It's mostly for bigger corporations and ad companies. But I could be wrong. Do you watch TechLead? I just got back into him recently and he seems like a pretty redpilled youtuber. He made a video a few months that might interest you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOb0ThditOo
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:06 PM
2

Fire away. Although, I consider the data scientists experts with anything data. I’m really just a software engineer who specializes in data.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:21 PM
3

I’m a data engineer lol
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:01 PM
21

Man the lightswitch effect was an eye opener to me. My ex of 7 years pulled this, and I left me in so much pain. The fact someone could love you and then just act like you don’t exist so quickly was crazy to me. Then I read about it on TRP and realized how spot on it was to my situation.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:53 PM
1

How often are lifting/fighting?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:49 PM
4

I want the same thing, but I don’t want my face associated with TRP. I’d be fired from my job (I work with a lot of SJWs) immediately if anyone ever saw me. There’s some site where you can have people rate your photos, but the name is slipping my mind.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:38 AM
1

Yea thanks. I’m thinking next time he says it, I’m gonna tell him to stop being disrespectful.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:36 PM
2

How much lifting do you do? Could I box a few times week and lift 6 times a week. I tried with Muay Thai but it was tough. I’m more interested in boxing.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:27 AM
1

Haha sad part he’s my oldest friend and I live with him. We mostly get along, but in group setting he might start picking at my beta parts.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:26 AM
1

I found it way too taxing. I lifted 6 days a weeks and did Muay Thai twice a week.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:51 AM
2

I’m in the same boat. I’m always the butt end of the joke or verbal punching bag. Recently my one friend keeps calling me “idiot” on a daily basis. I just ignore it but it doesn’t work. Probably I’m better off making new friends.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:49 AM
1

Lmao the first ones a good idea, the others in nowhere near aesthetic enough to do.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:49 PM
1

Nah gonna wait for the weather to get nicer and get some candid outdoor pics around the city.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:04 PM
1

I’m not gonna get into the science mumbo jumbo here’s 5 different push-ups you can do Wow what a great scientific workout routine
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 05:00 PM
2

This is a great idea. I need some professional headshots anyway as I’m gonna start applying for a new job soon, so it would make sense to get two birds stoned at once. Also thanks for the art student tip. I’ll have to look around.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:08 PM
2

Man I wish I had you as a friend. I went through a horrible breakup and no one gives a fuck. Honestly just take him out and encourage self improvement. I wouldn’t specifically talk about TRP.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:06 PM
1

I like the idea of doing martial arts as a social activity, but I found it really hard to balance with my gym time. I had eat a ton to keep up and I was always sore.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 02:55 PM
6

shoplifted whey Why is this so specific?
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:42 AM
1

I’ve had this experience. Stayed with my highschool girlfriend for 7 years. First love and things were great, for the most part. There’s nothing really special about it other than you’re getting someone who hasn’t really done anything with anyone else (unless she was the highschool slut). But that’s it. One of the big reasons we broke up is cause of exactly what you said. She wanted to get married but I just felt too young an inexperienced. I didn’t want to only be with one woman my whole life. …
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:39 PM
4

Is she talking to them behind your back? Is she going out or on dates with them? Because that’s emotional cheating.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:35 PM
1

It is
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:30 PM
6

This is bull. I had the highschool girl and we dated for 7 years. I could’ve just married her but didn’t. In fact, this is what exposed to me to the red pill. Yea maybe she didn’t go through “modern dating”, but she certainly picks up those traits else where (podcasts, tv shows, YouTube, friends, etc). I know firsthand cause I lived with her and would listen to what she watching. Yea it’s nice to have a girl who hasn’t been plowed by a bunch of other dudes, but that’s all your really getting out…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:27 PM
5

Like I said I’m trying to do it all right. Everyday I lift, stretch, meditate, read, play chess. Also just started studying again to try advance my career even further. I have up video games entirely a few months ago and started only doing good habits. Honestly though, and it’s hard to say without sounding like an angry incel, but it all feels for nothing. Like a month ago I was at a party and I was still just an awkward guy who can’t talk to anyone.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:15 AM
4

You should unsubscribe from r dickhead
/r/askTRP01/01/21 03:13 AM
4

Ha funny you should say that. I have a good career, but that’s really it. Recently I even had family members tell me I don’t have any emotions and that I’m basic. I’ve tried reaching out to some highschool friends, but nothing really came of it. I need to start new somehow.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:58 AM
45

This is weird
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:55 PM
2

This. Companies fuck employees over all the time. Who care you don’t owe them anything.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:40 PM
104

Man it’s hitting me hard. My ex left me and it made me realize I really have no one else. No friends, no girls, no family that really cares. I’m almost entirely in isolation and I can’t even go out and join a club or hobby or something where I can socialize cause everything’s locked down. My mental health is deteriorating despite doing everything else right. Shit sucks.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:19 PM
1

I honestly didn’t know and it’s been years since I used skyn. Honestly if they protect against hiv and other std then hands down they are the best. I had an std scare a while back and read non latex condoms don’t protect against hiv, so I assumed skyn didn’t protect against it.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:12 PM
1

Why 3mm? I heard 4 was the sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 11:10 PM
0

I thought only latex condoms did, but I could be wrong
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:10 PM
2

I have mine at 4mm now, but it’s still incredibly patchy around the cheeks after about 3 weeks. Should I give it more time or just go back to clean shave?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 07:33 PM
0

Doesn’t SKYN not protect against HIV?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:44 PM
2

Fix your formatting brother
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:24 AM
1

I did. But when I say leave them behind, I don’t mean abandon them, at least I didn’t. I still call my dad every week just to talk. I still visit him once in a while. He’s still my family and I love him. He was a shit sad but he wasn’t abusive or hateful or anything. I just gave up trying to help him. The least I can do is be a good son. So my advice is just be a good brother and that’s all you can really do.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:14 PM
1

Yea and unfortunately it goes the same for family. My dad also doesn’t work and just drink and does drugs. I’ve tried so many times over the years to talk to him, yell at him, make him feel bad, offer help, but it didn’t work. It’s a waste of time. Jordan Peterson even said something along the lines of you can’t help people who don’t want your help, and sometimes that means you have to leave family behind.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:40 PM
2

Follow up question, why do I have trouble making eye contact with betas more than alphas or girls? Something about talking to betas makes me uncomfortable and not want to look them in the eyes when speaking.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:52 AM
1

My roommates kinda similar. Sleeps til the sun goes down and plays video games until the sun comes back up. No job, no skills, nothing. Whenever I try and casually suggest something he makes up a bunch of excuses or gets angry. You can’t help people who don’t want help.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:50 AM
1

Don’t have an answer but I was in a similar situation except with a cat. Had that for 4 years with her and loved it. Now she left and I let her keep it since she pretty much took care of it. She also promised she’d send me pics and we could setup visits so I can see her again. It’s been 4 months and I haven’t spoken to her since she left. It sucks but her and my cat are basically just dead to me. Time to get a dog or something.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:57 AM
10

I hope you got tested
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:18 AM
1

Do you have a PPL you recommend? I’ve been doing the one from the fitness sub
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 03:14 AM
3

I already cut porn. I just want to nut
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:50 PM
2

I’m still a gym noob but I’ve tried and failed a bunch of programs over the years. The strength programs like SS and SL are so fucking boring. You only go to the gym 3x a week and most your time will just be waiting between sets. I found the PPL to be the best balance but honestly I’m sick of squats and deadlifts. Bro splits are pretty fun too but I never found one I really liked and stuck with.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 09:46 PM
1

Ah okay. I guess I’ve always just done mine with a slight bend. Heard that helps with impingement issues. Crazy that that difference between a push a pull exercise is just a slight bend in the hips.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:58 PM
2

I think I’m gonna try this routine. Have you made good progress with it? Also what’s the difference between a “bent over lateral” and a “lateral raise”?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:18 PM
3

I did band training too during lockdown. It really helped the mind muscle connection and helped me with certain lifts in the gym. I now know how to properly target my back and chest. James Grage has a great amount of resources for resistance band training. That said, I don’t think they can completely replace weight training but damn you can get pretty close.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:16 PM
1

Do you have a routine you recommend?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:46 AM
2

Watch some good shows and movies that engage you. Something with good character development and a good plot.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:06 AM
1

Then you need to mess with some formulas. On your main sheet you’ll have the names and scores, then for example you’ll sum the scores, and do a lookup to your category sheet to see where they fit. Honestly excel is pretty valuable to know so this is worth figuring out.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:22 AM
2

Python is one of the most versatile languages. I’d recommend it for anyone cause you can automate so many different tasks with it. It can also do a lot of what R can do via Pandas. I personally wouldn’t bother with R as it’s old and on its way out.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:14 AM
1

Dude, have you never touched a spread sheet in your life? Open up excel and make some columns (name, romance category, attractiveness, personality, etc). Seriously brother this a dumb question.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:12 AM
2

Not the advice you’re looking for, but make you get some vitamin D man. You don’t want to be low on the D and get COVID. Those people get the worse symptoms. Get some D ASAP.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:38 AM
1

Probs
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:23 PM
-2

This is such bullshit. My career is solid and I still don’t get pussy.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:02 PM
2

That’s the beauty of open source. Nobody and everybody owns it. Get shutdown? Well thousands of other people have copies. As far as funding, yea most the popular options are cucked.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 06:01 PM
2

My thoughts too. Theres a lot web crawling you’d need to do. And since you wouldn’t want to do that every time you search an image, you’d have to cache the data somewhere. Given that’s there’s so much fucking porn out there, you’ll be spending a lot just to store the data. Totally doable though.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 12:43 PM
2

Man this would be a cool project for me. Sounds like you would need some money for the resources though. Maybe we should setup up a patreon for something like this.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 12:36 PM
2

Good. More for us
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:33 AM
2

Thanks. I’ve getting ~140-160 grams everyday. I’ll check out that PPL too
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:01 PM
1

Any thoughts on body recomp instead of bulk cut cycle? Also what PPL are you following?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 07:47 PM
2

What’s wrong with telling them your relative died? What am I missing here? Unless you’re genuinely not upset or just don’t feel like talking about it.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:27 PM
1

How do you learn to fight and get jacked? They seem to contradict each other.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:27 PM
1

Huh?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:01 AM
1

Then why bother? I mean I match with uglies on Tinder but I’ll only message them if they’re fuckable. But the fuckable ones never lead anywhere.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:30 PM
1

Oh you’re right. I read the stop attending to the apartment part as that’s what I should be doing. At least I think I know what you’re saying.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:28 PM
0

Commenting cause I’m in the same boat, only much more recently. I can’t even pull any new girls. Honestly it’s eating me up bad.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:23 PM
2

Thanks brother I haven’t skipped a day since finding TRP.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:36 PM
1

I’m not cooking for them. I guess I should’ve more clear I just meant I’m the only one the house who cooks meanwhile they just eat junk food and leave dishes in the sink. I just clean common areas and take out trash. If they leave a bunch of trash or shit out I’ll put it away.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:36 PM
1

I’m by no means good at this, but have you ever watched Curb your Enthusiasm? Larry David is my idol when it comes to banter.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:43 PM
2

Yea I grew up in squalor, family was incredibly messy and just let dogs piss and shit everywhere. Ever since I moved in I made it goal to keep my living space spotless and not live like that. So in a way I do it for me.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:34 PM
1

Thanks brother. I think I’m over the hump, but I still get made about it from time to time. What do sort of activities do you recommend?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:33 PM
3

Thanks this seems like the most genuine advice yet. I think I am missing something I truly enjoy. I worked hard to cut out video games, so I’m not sure it make sense for me to go back yet. I also lift almost everyday. I think I just need something else to occupy my mind.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:14 PM
1

I don’t really see why this is a good thing though. How will living in a dirty apartment help me?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:02 PM
1

That makes sense. How can I be more carefree and still improve myself? Do I just stop taking care of the apartment?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:43 PM
12

Not really. My gf left me a couple months ago. I really feel like I have nothing else to live for and staying my room all day just makes me want to kill myself. I’d rather risk getting sick to get out of the house and lift then lay in bed and waste away. Also I take vitamin d and some other immune boosting stuff, and I’m young and in good health, not around elderly people, etc.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:13 PM
6

Fuck that’s a great idea. Any suggestions?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:33 AM
15

My city just did this too. At first I was devastated since I’m still new to the TRP and had been lifting for a couple months consistently. I started using resistance bands instead but being trapped in my room was destroying my brain. So I started searching for a gym nearby that was still open. Eventually I found one that’s a reasonable commute. They gym doesn’t require masks and are even staying open during lockdown, basically giving a finger to our government. Not saying you’ll find the same, b…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:31 AM
1

Sorry, I meant anywhere past 3mm. Just watched those videos though and it looks like mascara can help? Anyway I’ll give it another shot. Do you line up with a regular razor or the electric trimmer?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:08 PM
1

Once I get close to 3mm, that’s when it starts to look bad. It gets really patchy. Should I just keep shaving clean?
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:40 PM
1

How short for stubble? I tried to do this last month but I just wind up looking homeless. The hair comes in too patchy.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 02:07 PM
3

A lot of goth chicks get them. I love goth girls
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:18 PM
1

Another option is resistance bands. Look up James Grage. He’s a body builder that only uses bands.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:55 PM
2

I recommend lichess. Completely free and open source.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:13 AM
1

Hell yes brother. Glad there’s other red pilled metal heads out there. Between the buried and me is probably my all time favorite band. I’ve seen them at least 5 times. Listen to a lot of prog but been super into djent lately. Please if you have any, send me some learning material.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:29 PM
1

Dude I love vitalism and periphery. Been listening to a lot of tesseract lately too. Is it hard to learn djent music? How can I learn with almost 0 knowledge? Also there’s a cheap 7 string on amazon right for only $200 I’m thinking of getting.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:11 PM
1

What kind of music do you play? I’ve never really played but am considering getting a 7 string to learn some metal.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:35 PM
3

I’ve been playing a lot of chess online.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:28 PM
1

I’m in a similar situation. Still have up and down days. You’ll hurt for a while but just keep doing stuff to improve. I’m still Learning to love myself and be a better person. I was too attached before.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:39 PM
2

I just went back after two weeks after my gyms closed. My temp gyms has plates in KG instead of LB. so I accidentally deadlifted way more than usual after two weeks of not going at all. You’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:34 PM
2

Someone here recommended Waking Up to me and it’s great.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:44 AM
1

Listen to Cumtown. I found my sense of humor has been developing from that podcast.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:12 PM
2

Need to remember this one
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:09 PM
3

Why quit caffeine? I’ve already done the other stuff you said, but I don’t understand the caffeine part.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:07 PM
1

I’m also looking for this and no luck yet.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:36 PM
0

Unfortunately this is me, and I’m pretty much retarded when it comes to my job.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:34 PM
1

Do a PPL. Gives you plenty of time to recover and has you in the gym almost everyday.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:29 PM
1

Nah I’m still skinny fat and awkward with girls. But I’m working on that.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:45 AM
1

How do you match your wardrobe with gray hairs?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:57 PM
1

That’s what I was thinking. Nobody has said it looks bad, just get comments on it.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:28 PM
1

How often can I lift while doing boxing?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:32 AM
1

Why is it shit?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:25 PM
2

Listen to this man. Learn by doing. It’s the best way to gain experience in coding.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:09 PM
1

Another programmer here. Find a project you’re interested in and just start. That will be the best experience you can get. Watching videos and doing tutorials don’t do much, at least for me. The best way to learn is by doing. What language are you learning? I’m a python dev by trade so let me know if you need any pointers.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:08 PM
2

What? I also do this but really only happens when I’m nervous.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:01 PM
2

I am. I’m using resistance bands and some body weight stuff. Got some gear and learned from last lockdown. Still the gym is miles better.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:57 AM
1

Good advice. Reading day bang now. Both my gyms are closed though
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:50 AM
1

Yea I’m failing bad at that. I don’t know any women and I get no matches on dating apps.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:00 AM
2

Sorry to hear that bro. I hope one day we both find that someone again.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:16 AM
1

Thank you I’ll check that out.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:14 PM
1

Thanks this is good advice. I’m a programmer by trade but I’ve also been playing some chess in my free time. I’ll spend more time playing chess.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:37 PM
1

I’m confused by the not fighting thing. If I just think about it, I wouldn’t even get out of bed. I would just lie around depressed. Fighting it is what gets me up in the morning and moving.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:02 PM
1

Holy shit. Not what I wanted to hear. Have you been with a lot of women since? The relationships just aren’t as good?
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:01 PM
2

Yes this almost exactly my situation. She was the only girl I’ve been with and it kind of just felt like settling. We were just super comfortable with each other. Deep down I knew I wanted to do better which is why things ended. Nice to know there’s someone else out there like me. Hit me up if you need to talk.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:57 PM
1

I just eat “a lot”. Then again I’m not in the best shape.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:08 PM
2

But what is there right now? Everything’s in lockdown.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:05 PM
1

I would if I could.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:48 PM
1

I was actually thinking of buying a 7 string. I never really played before I wanted to learn how to play metal riffs. Also been playing chess.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:44 PM
4

Yea I was doing all that. Cut all contact and memories. Lifting 6 days a week and doing Muay Thai. Now that they locked down again I just have nothing to do and more free time. Also I suck with women in general. I have no social circle. I tried all the dating apps and get almost no matches. I’m either very ugly or my photos suck. Really the lockdowns got me fucked in the head. Just want to get back to my routine.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 05:56 PM
2

Semen retention? And yea never married and no kids. Are you saying that’s good or bad?
/r/askTRP29/11/20 05:43 PM
6

“Dude just hop on a plane and go somewhere far away for weeks on end just so you lift heavy objects, completely ignoring your job and other responsibilities. Oh thats not reasonable for you? Then fuck off blue pilled beta.” Yea great advice thank you. Edit: I just skimmed your post about breaking up with your country. Yea you make good points and these COVID restrictions are complete bullshit. But still your advice here is wildly impractical.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:08 AM
2

Well the status quo is being enforced. By law I can’t go to the gym. Hoping on a plane and going somewhere else isn’t really a realistic option for most people.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 11:10 PM
2

What about my question is blue pilled?
/r/askTRP28/11/20 10:44 PM
1

I’ve gotten handjobs a few times but the last time I went I paid for handjob and the girl just put on a condom and we fucked.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:25 AM
2

Also love these but too scared to go back cause of STD’s
/r/askTRP27/11/20 12:35 AM
2

What the fuck the solicitor gets charged? I’ve been a few times and didn’t know that. Figured the parlor would go down for it.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 12:34 AM
1

I would love to have someone like that I my life. In fact a few people on Reddit already reached out to me and helped me immensely. I took all their advice and applied it. Still would love to meet someone like that in real life.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/20 01:59 PM
1

How the fuck do you find a mentor?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/20 01:48 PM
1

Fuck
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:59 PM
1

No starting with godot. I like open source.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:59 PM
1

Ha. No I want fast pace shit with a some metal riffs playing.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:06 PM
1

The idea would be to monetize them or at very least add them to my portfolio.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:41 PM
1

Is it that I’m overthinking this?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:08 AM
1

No problem brother. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:55 PM
3

I was in a pretty similar situation. Dated for 7 years and didn’t want to start a family or get married cause I’m only 25. She was really loving and caring but was able to fucking drop me like a hat. Shit hurts. But I found this sub and started improving myself. I still have up and down days. I still miss her, although I’m learning to take care of myself and not depend on anyone. Shit will be okay dude. Take of yourself and keep improving. Be the best person you can and be who you want to be. It…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:52 AM
1

You pulled that stat out of your ass
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:01 PM
3

Don’t have an answer but I’m also coping. I had her for 7 years. She treated me like a king and always told me how much she loved me. She genuinely did everything for me. She walked out a few months ago. Didn’t realize how much I depended on her. The upside is it forced me to do things for me. I’m working out everyday and my diet is on point. Taught me to cook and take care of myself. I’m much less complacent now.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 11:33 AM
1

Make friends by having friends. Gee great advice.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:08 AM
1

Can you expand on that? How can I show and give value to others?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:37 AM
1

Know nothing about cars. Also Muay Thai not popular? There’s a shit ton of gyms for them around me and not much else.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:57 AM
1

Yea I really like Muay Thai but it’s hard to balance the gym with. Sort of taking a toll on my body. Gun range ain’t a bad idea. Should get one anyway.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:14 AM
2

This seems like weird and impractical advice
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:54 AM
1

Fuck I just turned down a DnD group. I figured the social aspect was good, but I’ve been cutting out video games and shit. Just figured DnD would lower my SMV.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:52 AM
1

I’d be wary of the actual routine. The products itself looks solid though. I made my own out of a steel pipe.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:35 AM
2

But some resistance bands, the loop kind. Look up James Grage. He’s a body builder that only uses bands. If you have some cash, look up the X3 bar. The routine seems kinda like crap, but it lets you do barbell lifts with resistance bands. Goes up to 300lbs.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 12:05 AM
3

I’m pretty autistic when it comes to meeting new people. I give off a weird vibe and am bad at conversations. I feel like people sense this, realize I’m social poison and move on. It’s really hard for me to make friends. Also I can’t even pull fat chicks on tinder. I can get maybe a number at best and then it’s over from there.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:45 AM
4

Easier said than done. Thanks I’ll check it out.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:35 PM
2

I think it’s too soon for me to do that. I have been trying to casually talk with strangers. Honestly I’ve just been trying to up my SMV and not really worrying too much about women.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:53 PM
2

Any suggestions? I’m a programmer by trade, but I think doing more of that in my free time might burn me out. I have the opportunity to make a video game in my free time, but I’ve made the point of cutting out video games in my life. Not sure if it counts if I’m making on instead of playing them.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:45 PM
0

What’s that?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:28 PM
2

I’m slowly getting out of my approaching people to talk phase, but what the fuck do I talk about? I want to be able to talk to people about meaningless shit but I never have anything to say.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 11:55 PM
1

Yep. Get up every morning and go to the gym. Then I do Muay Thai in the evenings a couple times a week.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:51 PM
1

I’ve been eating a lot and getting a good amount of protein. I get mixed advice on whether to gain or lose weight, so I mostly just focus on getting a lot of protein. But my question was about doing MMA or not with my lifting.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:51 PM
1

Why will it make me smaller? Don’t I just need to eat more?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:47 PM
1

I would love to switch to boxing, but there’s not a gym near me.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:51 PM
1

Times not the issue
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:44 PM
1

That’s a good point.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:39 AM
1

Muay Thai is basically HIIT though
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:28 AM
1

Glad to hear. Any trouble balancing the two? Are you competing? Also what’s your ppl look like?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:26 AM
1

What’s wrong with Muay Thai?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:25 AM
1

I guess both? Muscle with low body fat.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:36 AM
1

That routines not gonna get you shredded though. Too little volume
/r/askTRP01/11/20 06:07 PM
1

No one posting here has an SMV close to Brad Pitt.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/20 04:31 PM
1

How so? I just hit this age and I feel lost.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/20 04:30 PM
1

Thanks for this. I’m 25 and feel old. I spent my “prime years” being in a LTR. Now I’m single at 25 and feel like I’m hopeless. That all the years I could’ve been out meeting girls are gone. I have no hobbies, no friends, pretty much nothing but my health and career. Luckily cause of COVID I’m basically forced into monk mode and actively trying to improve myself. Hopefully my late 20’s and 30’s are better.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/20 04:28 PM
1

How you balance that with lifting?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:17 PM
1

Link to routine?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:53 PM
1

I literally never see the big dudes lifting heavy.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 03:34 PM
1

What would the split be? Have any routines you recommend?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:26 PM
1

If all you’re doing is heavy compounds and a 5x5 program, you will just end up stronger. You’re not even really hitting your arms so you’re not gonna look as good as if you were on a hypertrophy oriented routine.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:47 PM
1

I don’t really understand what you’re saying. Progressive overload is just consistently increasing resistance over time. You can achieve this on any program. Was your point just that you can achieve this with any program? Either way I think volume and time under tension are key for hypertrophy.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:38 PM
1

You’re right, fun is subjective. That being said I find barbell lifts very taxing and require a lot of rest between sets. They also don’t hit the biceps very hard, and I have a lot more fun doing shit like curls and using machine and slowing down my rep speed.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:14 PM
1

Thanks. Does that book contain a program or something? Can I get a quick run down before I consider reading it?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:12 PM
1

Yea I just started Muay Thai and it’s kicking my ass. I suck at most sports but maybe I’ll consider switching.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:56 PM
1

Glad to hear. How did you balance it with lifting?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:43 PM
1

I have a job dude, a good one. Everyone’s much older than me and not really cool. Also you know, everyone’s working from home.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:43 PM
1

Can’t attest to how well it works since I just started. Also kinda hard to balance with my lifting schedule. But seems like a pretty alpha hobby.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:43 AM
2

Yep. I was in a LTR of 7 years and lost contact of almost all my friends. Now that things are over I moved in with a couple friends I still have to try and go out and do shit. Instead they just go out and do shit without me. So now I’m left trying to figure shit out. Joined an MMA group hoping to make friends.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:19 AM
4

I’m in the same boat. Curious to see the responses. None of the redpill shit I’ve read tells you how to make friends or build a social circle.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:06 AM
1

What lifting routine/diet do you recommend? I’m currently skinny fat and experimenting with lighting and photography. My photos can come out okay with right angles and lighting, but I need to build a better body.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 01:03 PM
2

Thanks brother. I took that to heart when I was going through some shit. I’m on a better path now and taking all the steps for self improvement.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:39 PM
3

Hey man I just lost a 7 year relationship with my high school sweetheart. I’m dying inside. Do you have any advice for me? Shit really sucks.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:50 PM
0

So what if I just did AB work while cutting? I’m also lifting 5x a week but I don’t think that’s gonna help the muffin top.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 03:27 PM
0

That doesn’t really make sense. So your body will keep body fat to counter balance lack of muscle? Is there any evidence to support that?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 02:25 PM
14

What about skinny fat. I only weigh 160 lbs but have a huge tire around my stomach. It’s been a bitch to get rid of.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 03:08 AM
1

Why are you being such a dick about it? We had a damn good 7 year relationship and this was the first real bump we hit. Yea I didn’t feel I was ready for marriage. It’s a big commitment for someone my age. Rather than talking about this or trying to work through it, she left me. In fact completely ignored me. Now you’re saying I’m doomed and will be divorced raped? Like wtf man.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:31 AM
1

Eh it’s not glamorous but it’s something I fell into. I love Linux and python though. Figured I’d try and specialize to make more money and advance my career but obviously it’s not working that great.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:31 AM
1

Same here. Data engineer
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:08 AM
1

Fuck it took me 25 just to get 90k a year. Congrats dude. Whats your career?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 02:28 AM
3

Hey man I'm in a similar boat. I just got out of a 7 year LTR. I've only been with her and now im directionless.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 12:59 PM
1

Won’t argue which is better. That being said bands can definitely build muscle. Check out James Grage. Once gyms stop requiring masks I’ll go back.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 04:42 PM
1

Thanks that gives me hope
/r/askTRP16/09/20 03:08 PM
1

Thanks I’m really not trolling. I thought 25 was for a guy to start sleeping around.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 03:07 PM
2

Yea I think I’m just scared cause I was so dependent on her. I remember thinking for years eventually I’ll break up with her but never had a way out. I’m just worried cause I’m 25 and feel old. I feel like I lost all the good years and I’ll have trouble meeting someone else.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:22 PM
0

I don’t have any other women in my life which sucks.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:14 PM
0

A partner. And I do want to get married and have kids but I just wasn’t sure at the time.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:12 PM
1

No I cancelled
/r/askTRP16/09/20 10:05 AM
1

I know it really feels like I fucked this one. I already cancelled dinner. I still have the cat though which she needs to pick up.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 10:05 AM
8

I lift with resistance bands only cause the gyms very recently opened back up. I have no other women in my life. I guess I should start reading.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 10:04 AM
57

Just got out of a 7 year LTR and this is spot on
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:16 AM
3

I already workout everyday. I use resistance bands to avoid the gyms though. Still gives a decent workout. Even rigged up my own barbell to attach bands to.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:49 AM
22

So I cancelled the plans. I still have the cat though which she is keeping. So I’ll have to figure that out next.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:56 PM
5

I’m trying. Tinders a wash and I only get matched with dogs. There is a rub and tug close by so maybe I’ll go there.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:39 PM
-2

I’m confused. Is 25 considered young around here?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:03 PM
-2

What am I missing?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:48 PM
-3

Thanks dude this seems like good advice. She did already say maybe down the road. But it’s nothing I’ll think about too much or dwell on. I’ll simply just leave that door open.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:51 PM
1

Yea I know that’s just why I feel like shit about everything
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:39 PM
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I’m 25, so not that young.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:34 PM
-1

Yea I like this. I don’t want to be a dick cause she’s genuinely a good person and I spent a lot of my life with here. Definitely don’t want to burn bridges just cause. I’ll talk if that’s what she wants but then I’m moving on.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:34 PM
8

I don’t think I new what I wanted to be honest. I do want to sleep with other women since she was my first.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:29 PM
2

Cause she was my first and I guess I was always embarrassed that I haven’t been with more women. Idk man I’m dumb.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:28 PM
0

Not an option. I rent and it’s one of those rfid locks.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:27 PM
23

Thanks man. I've just always been with her so I think I'm just scared to be alone. Unfortunately she still has a key to my place (she's paid up for the month on she's on the lease), and she said she would just pop in whenever. I'll do my best to keep a distance and be cordial. She also fucked up the wall in the apartment and wants to fix it as well, but I guess I can tell her I'll just do it or something.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:05 PM
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