Do you think high n count women shouldn't be shamed and looked down on by men, and if so, why?

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-11-02T17:38:21+00:00

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NarniaFox · 2021-11-02T17:03:14+00:00

You either shame casual for everyone or for no one, otherwise you're a hypocrite. For now it seems we accepted the idea that sex isn't dirty/immoral/shameful, so there's no much reason for shaming people for it.

It's okay to have preferences though, but you can have them without shaming or looking down at people. I've never had casual and I know that it isn't for me, but I'm neutral towards people who do engage into it. I'm glad for the ones who genuinely enjoy it.

Mimoxs · 2021-11-02T17:11:37+00:00

"should people who aren't doing anything wrong be treated as if they are?"

xQueen-Bx · 2021-11-02T17:22:39+00:00

very good way for me to filter out men who arent my type, cheaper than getting a lot more tattoos

-Giga- · 2021-11-02T17:14:13+00:00

Shamed for what? Why isn't refusing to date that person enough? Is the prospect of attacking women for yet another thing too irresistible to them?

I'm not seeing the logic of a godless people who don't even practice what they preach or reward chastity in any way judging anyone.

Men have now normalized things like porn, making it ubiquitous and an inescapable aspect of dealing with them. They monetarily reward a certain element, they made pressuring women for sex early a cultural norm yet they want to "shame" people for living the culture they created freely? Lol hypocrites have no teeth. This is probably why you're seeing more and more people not give af

jingks_ · 2021-11-02T17:05:07+00:00

If you’re uncomfortable with my n count, you’re welcome to not sleep with me. I promise it won’t make a lick of difference to me.

Ruben_the_Fish · 2021-11-02T16:54:18+00:00

So a 30 year old woman who has 10 ex boyfriends and wants to try dating again should be shunned by "society" and never given a chance. Got it.

octobertwins · 2021-11-02T17:17:58+00:00

Do you guys always discuss prior partners? (not very familiar with this sub).

I never do. And I don't want to know your history.

We are here now. Let's just enjoy our time together.

qclady · 2021-11-02T17:29:17+00:00

If you are suggesting a wide spread men’s movement for shaming women who’ve had more partners than what ever number you feel is acceptable, good luck with that.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2021-11-02T17:29:19+00:00

What's it your business what they do in bed?

A woman's worth is not measure by what's between on her legs.

You're allowed to have preference and not date her. Being an Asshole is just being an Asshole

CheeseMonger96 · 2021-11-02T17:35:51+00:00

No, next question.

ashpr0ulx · 2021-11-02T16:59:30+00:00

i think you can look at someone’s attitude towards sex and intimacy and say “that’s not for me” without looking down on them or shaming them.

over348 · 2021-11-02T17:19:27+00:00

Does it really matter? People get slammed for playing dungeons and dragons. People got shamed from watching anime a few years back. People got shamed going to parties. Somebodys gonna shame you for something why care?

januaryphilosopher · 2021-11-02T17:25:53+00:00

I don't think that we should shame or look down on anyone for the number of (consensual) sexual partners they have had. It's their choice to make and the only people they can harm with it are themselves. With that being said, that doesn't mean that you need to see someone with a certain body count as desirable in order to do that.

houstongradengineer · 2021-11-02T17:30:29+00:00

All people are inherently equal and deserve a basic level of what I'll call "respect." It's like you don't look down on the janitor or the person who practices a different religion than you. Sometimes you just treat people like people. So no, you can't shame and look down on people with high N count any more than you can look down on any other human. You should respect all people to a level of basic decency. We don't hang rapists and serial killers anymore. Understand that this word "respect" used in this context doesn't mean you have to support people in what they do or follow their leadership/example.

Does that mean you have to marry just any old high N woman who repulses you, live with her, and share a life with her? Share your money and your body? No, don't do that- y'all are probably incompatible if you even slightly care about that high N count. But do you have a license to sleep with several these women for fun casually, aka possibly spread disease and create multiple children to be caught between incompatible environments? I mean, those things are legal, but you're still a destructive dickhead and I'm not going to let you forget it.

SaBahRub · 2021-11-02T17:38:16+00:00

Because it’s hypocritical

Orange_Paisley · 2021-11-02T17:39:46+00:00

If you have a high N count, you shouldn’t be shaming anyone else with a high N count. I can see being a virgin or low N count and wanting someone with similar experience so you can learn together. I can’t see bashing someone for their N count when yours is similar or higher, or even if you aspire to similar or higher.

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snowcakey · 2021-11-02T17:18:29+00:00

idk about the word “shaming” but i am all for letting women know they don’t need to buy into the libfem bs that engaging in hook up culture is “empowering”.

i’m all for women having honest open discussions with each other about hook up culture, not men screeching about n count while also crying about how women’s standards are too high.

Title	Do you think high n count women shouldn't be shamed and looked down on by men, and if so, why?
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Date	November 2, 2021 4:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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