The Red Pill blindly pushes to always spin plates, have one night stands, fwb, etc. That is right for some people, but wrong for many (and from what Ive read recently, I would say the majority) of guys on here. There are benefits to having a girlfriend.

Benefits:

  1. If youre a virgin or inexperienced with sex, you will in most cases have more sex in a relationship than you would in a one night stand (or series of them).
  2. You have a social narrative that is easy to articulate in many important social settings.
  3. You can focus/spend time on other activities (Work, business, lifting etc) and not have 30 percent of your brain focused on finding the next lay
  4. For myself personally, Im generally happier when Im in a good relationship over being single. I believe many guys would also feel the same

Where men go wrong with relationships

  1. Their lives revolve around the girlfriend
  2. They cohabit way too early
  3. They have no other options (This is the biggest problem I see)
  4. They become lazy/fat/lack energy in life (The opposite should be happening)

This is a short post, but all in all, many men on here would benefit from having a girlfriend. Just always make sure that youre capable of obtaining another one if things go south. Spinning plates is not for everyone, even if youre red pilled