It’s insane that a tweet like this gets thousands of likes and retweets when a guy says it, but when women said it a long time ago, it falls on deaf ears

KindredMaximus · 2022-01-05T02:00:44+00:00

And more women are dying during sex than ever before. There is a violence during sex epidemic, which is literally killing women. It is also increasing womens brain damage over time and the risk of early stroke. This is no joke. Now, not only do women need to worry about STDs and pregnancy but brain damage over time, prolapsed anus's, stroke and death. WHY on earth would we want to have sex with a man who consumes porn? 'BuT We KnOw It'S NoT reAl" - they are as easily manipulated as easily as anybody else. Advertisers pay BILLIONS for well places ads because they know they work. Men are not immune to the effects of porn and we (or I should say most young women) are paying a heavy price. And men think WE are a hive mind.

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2022-01-05T05:31:42+00:00

It's because when women say it we are just "insecure", "prudes", "jealous", "controlling" etc etc

PresleyClarten · 2022-01-04T22:54:03+00:00

Make sure to pay attention to the shaping of the anti-porn movement over the next few years, as MGTOWs, red pills, "sigmas," and the like wise up to the all of the cons listed in the meme and decide to reject pornography. Men will ensure that men are credited for the eradication of porn being mainstream and acceptable, ignoring and hushing the literal decades of work women have done to inform people of the dangers of porn.

Also, note the reasons why this male-led movement begins. Note that none of the reasons include the exploitation and trafficking of hundreds of thousands of woman and children, because that part pales in comparison to the fact that their pp can no longer get hard without hardcore, abusive pornography.

I can't take credit for any of these original thoughts as I read them all in an FDS thread from another commenter. I found it to be true and necessary to share.

WestAtmosphere · 2022-01-05T06:48:25+00:00

Men just don't respect us nor think of us as having any good opinion or knowledge on a topic.

But honestly I'm glad if men take over this burden of swaying men that porn is bad. It's too much energy for us to waste on trying to solve this problem, may as well spend our time elsewhere.

PerspicaciousCat · 2022-01-05T00:37:12+00:00

Also this still doesn’t really address how it hurts women. Even the ones like “relationship issues” and “sexualizing everything” are focusing on how that negatively affects the man watching porn, not on how it damages women in myriad ways.

scorchedsouI · 2022-01-05T00:55:49+00:00

It falls on deaf ears because men control the world and men have been our audience in society and the internet.

FDS is a female-only space and rational takes are easily accepted and analyzed without scrotes derailing from the main point and screeching about either imaginary or self-inflicted male issues. Having women as our only audience is the only way to have constructive and meaningful conversations and debate, especially on matters with great conflict of interests between the two sexes, like dating.

Determinedblonde · 2022-01-04T23:21:23+00:00

As long as they’re aware…next step is to deal with it!

the_real_kino · 2022-01-04T22:44:50+00:00

I guess it is in meme format, so it has that going for it, plus people seem to love meme formats that they recognise. But you're right.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-01-05T09:11:07+00:00

but when women said it a long time ago, it falls on deaf ears

because of a culture of mansplaining
because of a falsely perceived "male authority" encouraged by a patriarchal society (just by being male, a person is perceived as having more authority or power)
Women are often assumed to be ignorant and unintelligent, at least compared to men. (Cookman, 2015).
the psychology of mansplaining

melympia · 2022-01-04T23:53:16+00:00

And he can't even spell dopamine correctly, much less stick to either writing each point starting with a capital letter or not. *sigh*

Not to mention that I really don't want to know how the porn receives the male viewer's seed. Eww.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-01-04T23:27:15+00:00

Also Peyronies disease and early male pattern baldness.

InappropriateMommie · 2022-01-05T12:57:45+00:00

What’s so shocking to me is that men can’t grasp this on their own. I mean FUCKING DUH. Duh, Steve, XXX porn theaters used to be for losers in trenchcoats. Who taught you that? Your DAD. The back room of the video store was for perverts who couldn’t get a girl. Your MOM taught you that when you wondered what was in that room.

Now?? You aren’t a gross pervert and loser because it’s on your phone?? Hahah! Just because you don’t have to publicly put yourself to get your fix changes nothing.

throwawayastrogirl · 2022-01-05T09:57:26+00:00

Men will never listen to women and respect them. Remember Nazi Germany? Jewish wives knew shit was about to hit the fan and they were telling their husbands to pack and leave before it's too late. Guess what, dimwits did not listen and we all know what happened. My sister knew the handymen who came over to fix the window weren't real handymen (they were con artists), she knew because she is very perceptive, read their body language, speech cues and all; guess what, the asshole of her partner did not listen to her and now they have broken windows and $200 less. Men don't respect women, never have, never will.

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