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Women suffer the most in war, losing fathers, sons, and brothers...

lastfreethinker

February 24, 2022
209 upvotes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
https://www.pravda.com.ua/eng/news/2022/02/24/7325577/
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Title Women suffer the most in war, losing fathers, sons, and brothers...
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lastfreethinker

Upvotes 209
Comments 57
Date February 24, 2022 11:38 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/t0ou8g/women_suffer_the_most_in_war_losing_fathers_sons/
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[–]Kuato2012left-wing male advocate 107 points108 points109 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Put a face to it. This is a Ukrainian man taking his daughter to safety, then leaving her because he can't follow. He may well be seeing her for the last time.

https://v.redd.it/sjvd3uoyasj81

[–]sorebum405 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

This is so sad.Also this might be nitpicking,but I don't like the way the post is titled, because it makes it seem like the father had a choice to stay behind or not,when the reality is that he is being forced to stay behind.The titled should have been "A father who sent his family to a safe zone bid farewell to his little girl as he was forced to stay behind and fight".It should be made clear that men are being forced to stay behind.

[–]lastfreethinkerleft-wing male advocate[S] 48 points49 points50 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That's how they get you, they make it seem like it's a choice when in reality it's not. He's being forced to abandon his family to go fight for other people.

Look at the language that they use for selective service in United States. You sign up when you're 18 and you get all these benefits, when in reality it's you Don't sign up, You get penalized dramatically..

[–]Complete-Temporary-6 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"But the draft won't happen!!!!111!1!"

[–]sorebum405 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep,the cognitive bias that people have to view men as have more agency then they do is how people are able to justify ignoring all the struggles and issues that men deal with.Society shits on men, and then tells them they have privilege and don't face discrimination based on their gender.It's like men are being gaslighted on a societal level.

[–]Redgum1 -20 points-19 points-18 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

This is indescribably sad. Using it to create some sort of illusory conflict between men and women is not good. All of the people in this scene want the same thing which is for Russia to cease their invasion. Just like most things men and women are not a conflicting interest group here and I don't see what trying to frame it in this way will achieve.

[–]Kuato2012left-wing male advocate 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

illusory conflict between men and women

That's not how I'd frame it at all. It's a very real system of oppression that says if you're a male between the ages of 18-60, you must remain behind to fight. Others may flee, and you may not. The conflict isn't between men and women, it's between men and an entire world that treats us like disposable, second-class citizens.

[–]Redgum1 -19 points-18 points-17 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Yep, forced conscription is bad. Would you be happier if no one could flee? It shouldn't be a shock that old Soviet block countries have regressive views on gender norms. Framing this as a battle against women when I'm sure most women leaving their brothers, father's, friends and lovers behind are 100% against forced conscription as well. You're creating this gender conflict in your head and it is useless to achieve any goals which would be good, unless you just want women drafted too (which is worse in case that isn't obvious)

[–]Kuato2012left-wing male advocate 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yep, forced conscription is bad.

Watch the man's face in the video and be this glib about it. smdh

Would you be happier if no one could flee?

Bad take. I would be happier if everyone could flee. But there's the misandry... second-class citizens may not flee the armed conflict to be with their families.

Framing this as a battle against women

Nonono, this isn't a battle against women. It looks like you're either new here or just a drive-by; what you have apparently misunderstood is the frustration some of us have with the douchebag ideologues who believe that "women are the primary victims of war." It's common for misandrists to completely erase male suffering from the equation, because deep down they feel we're a disposable subclass to begin with. Hence OP's bitterly sarcastic title.

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[–]Kuato2012left-wing male advocate[M] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You don't seem to understand what my beliefs even are, let alone how I arrived at them through my history of once being a feminist and participating in those spaces. That didn't stop you from making some pretty big assumptions though.

I've been patient while you've mischaracterized the positions and people you're arguing against, but now you're taking a very condescending attitude while you do it. So this is your warning to conclude your drive-by and move along somewhere else, or be a better participant while you're here, or be banned.

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[–]Kuato2012left-wing male advocate[M] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

shrug

Hopefully someday you'll grow up. Banned.

[–]BannanasAreEvil 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

unless you just want women drafted too (which is worse in case that isn't obvious)

Would it be though? If you could double your forces and increase your chance of winning wouldn't that be the best scenario? I dont like conscription at all but if the reason for it is to bolster the military to protect the country the residents reside in it seems very odd that able body people shouldn't be conscripted based on whats between their legs.

No conscription or a non sexist conscription, anything else not only is sexist but doesn't make much military sense to me. I know the argument can and will be made that if the parents die the children are left without parents. So that begs the question, would men dying in a war and leaving the women behind to raise children actually be the best scenario for those children?

I mean if we go by everything we have been told over the last 20 years, men make more than women, men are safer at night then women, men get raped less than women etc etc. While I'm being facetious the dichotomy of what we are being told and what happens is very stark in war.

[–]SamaelET 50 points51 points52 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Top voted comment in r/worldnewsfor this article is : "I feel so sorry for all the families."

[–]ExMuzzy 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most of the comments are justifying it all. It's sickening.

[–]griii2right-wing guest 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

link? I can't find it.

[–]Icy-Studio-1063 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are disposable. Always have been and always will be.

[–]Ethyrean 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is incredibly depressing. God, I wish people would be willing to give men an ounce of sympathy

[–]Icy-Studio-1063 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are objects, not humans.

[–]lastfreethinkerleft-wing male advocate[S] 72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

I heard it reiterated on the radio again today, women and children suffer disproportionately in war. Men are once again being prevented from leaving with their families or of their own free will.

[–]griii2right-wing guest 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

women and children suffer disproportionately in war

I can't really seem to find this on the internet too much. The articles from search are either old or from a less know media. https://www.google.com/search?q=women+and+children+suffer+disproportionately+in+war

Does anyone have a recent prominent example of this narrative? Ideally from a mainstream media.

[–]LacklustreFriend 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A little bit old but I always love this example for how distilled it is:

“Yemeni women and girls are the ones who are truly paying the price of war,” says Suha Basharen, Gender Specialist with CARE Yemen. “The situation for women is extremely difficult. They are now having to step into roles that are traditionally filled by men, because so many men are now being killed or injured or are forcibly disappeared.”

Source

[–]lastfreethinkerleft-wing male advocate[S] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So the way I heard it on the radio again yesterday which is what set me off. Was a woman called in and had talked about it in the literal story in which relatives got the women and the female children out of Ukraine. She mentioned it and brought it up and no one on the radio show said anything.

As for the rest of the media, I don't engage with it, I've become so jaded and sick and tired of it that I just tune everything out. The only reason I even heard it on the radio was I had completed working at a location turned on my car and the radio was on.

[–]LettuceBeGrateful 62 points63 points64 points 4 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link

There's an upvoted comment in AskFeminists right now that says war is horrible for everyone, but "especially" women and children.

Edit: I didn't want to provide a link, but for posterity, here's the full comment I'm talking about.

War is shit for everyone involved especially kids, women etcetera. Also Putin has ideas about gays and others which don't sound very nice. As for NATO involvement, Ukraine is technically not a part of NATO so there is no legal binding to help them out. It'll be up to the individual members to come together and decide if they want to get into a slugfest with what is essentially a near peer opponent. Things aren't that simple. It's a really bad catch 22. You don't do anything and Russia gets a free reign, you go in and you have to be prepared to accept deaths and losses of your own people at a rate that has not been seen in years. Such figures will be...hard to sell to a population/world that hasn't seen conventional peer warfare in decades.

edit: to the weird "whatabout" crowd popping up in the reply for some reason go someplace else or just touch grass. I made the post right when the invasion was kicking off so I still didn't know about the ukranians forcibly inducting guys. Plus what part of war being shit for "everyone involved" do you not get. OP asked specifically about women so that's what I focused on. Also "etcetera" is a perfectly viable word when a list is way too long to write down.

[–]DekajaSukunda 58 points59 points60 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Men are forbidden to leave their country so they fight an invasion by an army several times their size, women most affected...

But really though, war is hell for everyone some way or another. Ukranian women are surely in no enviable position rn.

[–]LettuceBeGrateful 48 points49 points50 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. I don't envy anyone who has to flee their homes or say goodbye to their family. It's just, it's the typical lack of feminist empathy on display. Women are being shepherded to safety while men are forced to fight and die, and feminists are burning calories specifically to exclude men from their concern.

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[–]DekajaSukunda -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

I'm South American. I dont feel right using this tragedy for hot takes and shit. It doesnt affect me like that. It doesnt sit right with me to be like "why are we paying attention to the women?!?" when they are obviously having a horrible time trying to run away from war.

Worrying about how war affects everyone instead of turning it into a competition sounds like an egalitarian value to me.

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[–]Strikes001 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Except it's women who are claiming

I don't recall women as a whole doing this at all, no. It was just one, born and raised pampered rich white cunt who was buddies with David Duke.

[–]a-man-from-earthleft-wing male advocate[M] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't recall women as a whole doing this at all, no.

Indeed. That would be a ridiculous idea, and frankly it's sexism.

[–]DekajaSukunda 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I dont wanna start a flaming war with feminists on reddit over a literal war that's going on somewhere else.

[–]reverbiscrap 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey, bro, you are chiding people here on egalitarianism.

Try it somewhere else, and see how far you get. At least here, you won't be banned or censured/censored.

This actual war is an example of men being disposable tools once again.

[–]maimasy 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because everyone talks about women running away, yet nobody talks about men forced to stay and die. Don't you think it's a teensy bit stupid?

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[–]a-man-from-earthleft-wing male advocate 54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Believe it or not, this post was reported for "promoting hate"...

Some people really have no shame.

[–]lastfreethinkerleft-wing male advocate[S] 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow

[–]Puzzleheaded-Heat174 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men fight and die in war

Women most effected

Society really doesn't care about men much

[–]peanutbutterjams 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Excuse my ignorance, just wondering about the source. Is this the pravda run by the Communist Party of Russia or the one that is privately owned?

[–]lastfreethinkerleft-wing male advocate[S] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My apologies, I'm not exactly certain which one it is, however, this is the Ukraine address for that particular news agency.

And other articles on that site are not painting the war in a good light, and talking about various things that I think Russia would either want to keep under wraps or just blatantly ignore.

[–]peanutbutterjams 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough. I hadn't recognized the .ua part of the address.

I only asked because I archived the link as a counter-example to "women are the primary victims of war" so I just wanted to be sure of my source.

[–]LolwhatYesme 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Inb4, "yeAh BUt mEn stART tHE WArS"

[–]fndo84 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know the comment above is ironical, but when someone say that seriously, I invite them to analyze history and discover women were as likely to start wars or even more likely than men when they were in positions of power: https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men/

[–]liltotto 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m so sad that no one is talking about this. How backward a world we live in. These men are just as afraid as anyone, they deserve refuge as much as anyone, yet they will be refused it on the basis of their gender. How can anyone not see how disgustingly discriminatory this is? My heart breaks for them. I have a Ukrainian friend and I’m so glad he’s not in Ukraine at the moment.

[–]boundarychimps 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Can't suffer if you're dead.

taps forehead

[–]janearcade 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone gave me this argument regardling sex-selective abortions. That female babies were "fortunate" to be killed, given the life of toil and poverty male babies had to look forward too.

[–]BloomingBrains 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because apparently women can't point and shoot a gun...

I've always wondered what would happen as soon as one country decided to make both men and women fight, wouldn't they have a massive numbers advantage? Especially in a defensive situation like Ukraine where a lot of the fighting is going to be ambush/guerilla tactics against an invading force. I could maybe see the argument that women can't serve because they don't have the physical strength for carrying heavy packs for long marches, etc. But none of that matters in urban warfare, really.

The elephant in the room that no one seems to want to admit is that the real reason women aren't expected to fight is because we think of them as higher than men.

[–]singfordollars 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Woman lurker here. Also a historian. Last time I checked everyone loses in war...but especially men.

[–]griii2right-wing guest 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

Let me start by saying that "Women suffer the most in war" is a total bullshit and brainwashing.

That being said, the number of women serving in Ukraine armed forces is much higher than I would expect, some 15%.

There are 109 women who serve as platoon commanders in Ukraine's armed forces with 900 women officers in command positions with 13,000 women fulfilling the role of combatants.
[source]

I don't know how many of the 255,000 soldiers on active duty are in combatant roles, but some 40% of the women in active duty are in combatant roles. (Then there is the 900,000 reservists (ration of women unknown) and the general mobilisation of men.)

I would say that in today's society this is a huge progress - a change like this won't happen overnight.

Glory to Ukraine, glory to the men and women who defend their country from the aggressor.

[–]ExcellentTraffic123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I didn't expect to see this kind of war happen in my lifetime.

It's terrible what is happening to these people, but regardless of how the Ukrainians conduct the defense of their country, the men and women who have reported for duty to fight the Russian invaders never chose to be invaded.

During WW2, Sir Winston Churchill of Great Britain (flawed man as he was) would tour his country and visit the people who suffered under the German bombings and cried tears of pain with them in public. He said that if Adolf Hitler were to be captured alive by his forces, he would have him publicly executed by electrocution for the death and misery he caused.

Similarly, as horrible as it is that men are being drafted into this excrement-show by no choice of their own while the Russians reportedly willfully target civilians, Vladmir Putin needs to be called to account and have his actions similarly reviled by history.

[–]genkernels 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I didn't expect to see this kind of war happen in my lifetime.

Born yesterday? It isn't like there hasn't been one-sided invasions in Yemen, Armenia, Iraq, Lybia, Gaza, etc. And that's not including less clear ones that involve less air power like Turkey-Kurdistan which has over 5k dead, Syria, Mali, central Africa, etc.

Unless by "this kind of war" you mean a war that the US doesn't like.

[–]ExcellentTraffic123 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

https://np.reddit.com/r/ukraine/comments/t2g6y8/am_i_alone_in_feeling_that_this_war_is_different/

[–]genkernels 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well it certainly is a televised war, but I thought we kinda had that with Iraq and Gaza. Nonetheless it is certainly more so for this one.

[–]a-man-from-earthleft-wing male advocate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There's a lot more social media, and it's in Europe.

[–]ARX7 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The special forces giving the weapons training also seemd very happy to have everyone take part

[–]Skeleton_Warrior 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate this whole "women most affected" rhetoric that's always spouted off. What's going on in the Ukraine is absolutely horrible to everyone it's affecting; men, women, children and animals. All are equally affected terribly by this. It's shameful and disgraceful for anyone to exploit it and try to make it out that one group is affected more than others. Even many women likely find the "whole most affected" thing annoying and insulting, especially those with sons and such.

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