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Sabotaging a man's first love and feeling proud about it. And a lot of people support this. Wtf?

r7anubis

October 31, 2022
327 upvotes
/r/MensRights

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Title Sabotaging a man's first love and feeling proud about it. And a lot of people support this. Wtf?
Author

r7anubis

Upvotes 327
Comments 88
Date October 31, 2022 5:36 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/yiir8z/sabotaging_a_mans_first_love_and_feeling_proud/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/sabotaging-a-mans-first-love-and-feeling-proud.1138680
https://theredarchive.com/post/1138680
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What kind of stupid accusation is this?

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Comments

[–]Maxwell1138 196 points197 points198 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is like an FDS love story.

[–]beleidigtewurst 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is like an FDS love story.

From what I've seen in FDS, its "love stories" are imaginary.

[–]One-Low8135 143 points144 points145 points 3 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link

Poor guy... yes, she kind of did him a favor for unmasking the ex before they became something more serious, but living with such a manipulative and cold-hearted woman must feel like living in the upside down.

[–]NotBaron 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I have to kinda disagree. I see that as no favor, and we lack a lot of context here, we can't be sure if the other girl was seduced or "seduced" if you know what I mean.

And how did he found out? To me it sounds like just an elaboration from scratch on this fucking psycho to make it look like she cheated, just to get the man. Maybe something did happen but not under the first love consent. Maybe she was a cheater, but two wrongs don't make a right, unmasking a cheater and plotting to make her cheat are the same leve of fucked up and this man is trapped between a trauma from a cheating and a manipulative bitch

This dude is fucked if he has spent 10 years with this waste of air and excuse of human being, I feel for him

[–]One-Low8135 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Hmmm, interesting point. But why would she confess to it after all these years? I've met a woman capable of lies that big so I wouldn't be surprised

[–]NotBaron 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who knows, I'm sure the dude doesn't know, and if I were him and found this I would ditch out this woman of my life.

I was cheated on, by two different girls, they always portray males as cheaters and bad people and at least in my experience, it is the opposite so I don't doubt this first love interest being unfaithful.

Still, I hate manipulative people, I had my share of unfaithful and gaslighting girls and both suck, she had no right messing with this fella love interest, for god or for bad, if the thing were "I found out she was cheating" that's a different story.

I payed a dude to "seduce" her it's pretty ambiguous, and shouts wacko beyond the charts for me. If this story is not made up, I hope someone out there tracks this woman back and exposes her to this man.

[+]at--at-- -83 points-82 points-81 points 3 years ago* (26 children) | Copy Link

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[–]waxheartzZz 54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

we cheat. This guy has someone throw herself at him while he’s in his sexual prime.

Entrapment. This case is dismissed.

That's how weak men view the world

[+]Financial_Run5674 -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

victim blaming

[–]waxheartzZz 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

you view the man as the victim? Is he not a rational human with his own faculties?

[–]Financial_Run5674 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The OP is about a man being cheated on.

[–]waxheartzZz 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

us weeks of going out of our way to spend energy on a second girl when we cheat. This guy has someone throw herself at him while he’s in his sexual prime.

OIc, I am replying to the comment, which has become a derivative of the OP lol >,<

[–]Financial_Run5674 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

well then that's an issue of men having no power. Women love the power dynamic argument. A no-status man who gets another shot at sex is actually a victim as well, because he's coerced by the fact that he's desperate. its like a reverse situation to harvey weinstein.

Men can't just have sex with anyone they want, like women can. Women may not be able to get a guy to stay with her, and women are causing their own grief by hareming to the 'best' men since now those men dont have to stay with her, but they keep complaining.

But they still have all the power regarding whether sex happens. Since they're free agents and more 'valuable'.

Therefore a man is a victim by power dynamic theory and enticement.

[–]waxheartzZz 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But they still have all the power regarding whether sex happens. Since they're free agents and more 'valuable'.

i would agree to an extent if the world was all physical... but a man can overcome their looks with humor, interests, etc, or just work harder to get ripped etc and do fine with women

[+]at--at-- -22 points-21 points-20 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Right out of the modern woman’s argument playbook:

Shame, insult, guilt, need to be right.

Your comment may be loaded with all 4. Thanks for reinforcing the stereotype.

Just trying to tell you how men ARE. We just ARE. I have never cheated in any relationship I ever had. If some hot woman threw herself at me, I DEFINITELY would have cheated.

[–]waxheartzZz 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

As someone who has many options, I have never cheated. Only weak men with no options cheat.

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You need to do some basic philosophy studying. Why even pretend to be a human if you are an animal who acts on impulse which you would probably agree makes your life worse

[–]Extra-Strike2276 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree with you 100%. It would be rather easy for me to cheat on my wife, but I don't because I can control myself. I was always taught a man is responsible for his choices, so saying that any man would cheat sounds like a childish idealistic of what being a man is like. The guys I've known that cheat without a thought are some of the weakest mentally, and normally suffer a lot due to their actions. They would say men can't control their lust like this "guys" doing, while asking friends in successful relationships how they do it, never seeing they are the problem.

[–]waxheartzZz 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

like this "guys" doing, while asking friends in successful relationships how they do it, never seeing they are the problem.

yup, it's easily overcome with some basic philosophy... understanding hedonic adaptation and seeing it is self evident that purely chasing our short term desires is almost certainly not the life we want, so it would be absurd to pursue this.

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completely agree, it's always the ugliest and/or most beta men that will cheat

[+]at--at-- -12 points-11 points-10 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Wait are you a woman or a feminine man? I can’t tell … you argue like a woman.

[–]waxheartzZz 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Ik you don't meet actual alphas very often, so you are confused by me. it's ok

[–]at--at-- -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Good luck with those masculine women you date.

[–]waxheartzZz 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Damn idk what happened to you but you clearly NEED advice badly if you can overcome your ego to find it

My wife is very petite and feminine she's the best!!

[–]at--at-- 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

More shame from you. Now my ego is so big I won’t find help.

You’re something else, guy. Good luck to you I guess.

[–]LettuceBeGrateful 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If some hot woman threw herself at me, I DEFINITELY would have cheated.

If you're fine with your lack of resolve, nobody here will be able to change that, but don't project that flaw onto the rest of us.

[–]at--at-- -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here come the Caped Crusaders! Lol. Reddit is terrible for men.

[–]fwerd2 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We cheat? Whose we? I don't cheat. Speak for yourself not all of us please.

[–]ajahanonymous 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You've got it backwards, the current wife paid a male classmate to seduce her husbands former gf. The only cheater in the story is the ex-gf.

[–]awhatfor 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, so many downvotes. This sub is either full of women, or emasculated men who think they are above their biology. Hilarious times we live in, truly.

emasculated is not being a monkey? Whats the line? working out is being emasculated? getting education is being emasculated? not commiting fucking rape is being emasculated too?

He is free to cheat, of course, and how/why he does that is a different moral part of the story that doesn't crash with the MR movement, but anyway in this story he was not the cheater. The girl ""tricked"" the gf into cheating ("""tricking""", you know what i mean, xd) and she didn't tell him.

I don't how i would feel about a girl doing that to me, honestly. I don't know how the man sees things too, but she was manipulating and playing with his live. No gonna say it was vicious, but she should tell him.

The guy would probably feel emasculated, knowing that a guy just "stole" her gf for money. But thats the gf problem... She has the main responsability here.

[–]Thick_Experience_203 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ you’re cringe inducing

[–]Temporary_Spend_3111 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you not read the post tho? "She cheated" Not him bruh

[–]Cerberus11x 95 points96 points97 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow what a manipulative person. Really contributing to bad stereotypes there.

[–]_BlueShark87 32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This girl is a manipulative piece of shit. I hope the husband sees this and divorces. He even has proof she’s a psycho.

[–]Wise-Act2650 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most girls are like this

[–]ruifaf 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

this isn't love. change my mind

[–]ACertainUserWith 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's intuition to stick to dominant males and she is an animal for relying on instincts for her actions.

[–]Lord_of_Entropy 48 points49 points50 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Wow. How would the story be viewed if the sexes were reversed?

[–]McFeely_Smackup 42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

it would be unironically called rape

[–]Magical-Hummus 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

People would unironically try to find the identity of the poster.

[–]Fierisss 35 points36 points37 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If the first girl cheated, in a way he got saved from being cheated later in life.

[–]Naru4odo 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly what I was thinking

[–]Naru4odo 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Honestly, if all is took for this girl to cheat was an opportunity, then can you guys really say anything. If she'd stayed faithful that would've been better. Not saying what girl A did was right, but still.

[–]hypotenoos 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How’d he suddenly become 2 years older?

[–]Low_Cranberry_4024 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

probably birthday shenanigans.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cause shes gonna turn 31

[–]mikesteane 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Things that didnt happen #3428

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I mean.. This honestly just sounds like a classic jalousy story where the jalous person achieves succes ngl

[–]Frankx888 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

so villains do win sometimes

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah i guess..

[–]UnfurtletDawn 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Quickly went through the comments. Nearly everyone was saying that's it's manipulative.

[–]anoncitizen4 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well that seems like a great way to start a relationship.

[–]Frankx888 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

🤣🤣🤣 it worked, didn't it

[–]Gjaukulf407 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of people also condemn it, the top comment on the post has 2k more upvotes that the post itself, and that comment criticizes OP. Many people are rightfully calling her manipulative and a creep.

[–]IceCorrect 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So she protected him from a hoe in weird way

[–]KRV_FromRussia 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but it was for self gain. Yes his ex was a cheater, but his current wife is manipulative

[–]Saerain 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kind of person I expect to have a bright future in calling hitmen.

[–]Rolling_Over 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Reading this made me sick to my stomach. I’ve never felt more ashamed to be an emotional man.

[–]Frankx888 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

why, at least she cares about him.

[–]ZulutheZebra 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“I wasn’t going to let him get away though.”

“He came to me for comfort and I was right there waiting.”

O.o

Run.

[–]Enigmapoppa 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Anything goes in love and war

[–]Daman_1985 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Two great examples of people...

The first one it's a very manipulative person and the other one is easily seduced to cheat. I'm very sorry for the husband.

[–]wdean8358 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Uhmmm where exactly do you see the "a lot of people" supporting it? I went through the comments and almost everyone is saying she is "unhinged", "crazy", etc.

[–]saito200 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like a Disney villain

[–]NekoiNemo 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To be fair... You can't "seduce" someone who isn't more than willing to cheat on her partner. Sure, what she did was borderline villain stuff, but what has happened was inevitable anyway, so she merely accelerated the events.

[–]and_another_username 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Send to 4chan so they can track her down and ID her then anonymously send this post to her husband.

[–]KRV_FromRussia 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Does that actually work?

[–]and_another_username 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol. Maybe? I mean yea. If I really actually wanted to do that it absolutely can be done

And the boys over at 4chan could easily handle it

[–]Frankx888 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

how do they do that?

[–]deeronmylawn[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disgusting

[–]sabazurc 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well...still better than women who will take half your shit tbh...that's how low our standards are at this point.

[–]Frankx888 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I mean, she's better than most wives out there

[–]sabazurc 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, like if she's sooo in love with him to go that far, maybe she at least won't take half his shit or cheat...hopefully. And his previous girlfriend was cheater so that was dodged bullet.

[–]Frankx888 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it's a win win 🤣🤣

[–]sharksville 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Congratulations on ruining everyone’s lives.

[–]beleidigtewurst 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't see MR angle to it.

[–]AirSailer -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. Unrelated to MRA.

[–]HeligKo 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Naturally this would have happened sooner or later, but the manipulation means he just went from pot to the plate. He's still getting eaten, it's just not as hot anymore.

[–]Frankx888 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

🤣🤣🤣🤣 perfect analogy

[–]Great-Flan-5896 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Run out of tears yet?

[–]Frankx888 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

??

[–]denvercaniac 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

man, I hope he sees this or she somehow gets doxxed.

[–]Merebankguy -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would take that sub with a grain of salt. Alot of fake posts there.

Like this one

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/yib3dc/my_wifes_surprise_stopped_me_from_committing_the/

[–]Magical-Hummus -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Very true love here.

[–]Neither-Ad-2475 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

User was banned

[–]Sensei145 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is so manipulative and disgusting

[–]Flat-Profession3325 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This the kind of women to appear on the news for murdering her husband and kids.

[–]lightbenderfm 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ohh so sweet. Clearly they are soulmates. /s

[–]TheoD123 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In a way, she got rid of a cheater which is a good thing but with a bad motive which is sabotage

[–]RedToiletPoopPain 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hope she leaves this screenshot lying around for him to find, but he may be better living life oblivious because of the hurt it will cause.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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