And here I was thinking honesty was the crux of healthy relationships! I thought men who cared about body counts should be avoided, now feminists have to lie to secure their commitment? They just can't grasp personal responsibility.....

_Duriel_1000_ · 2023-01-02T22:40:59+00:00

we should collectively lie about body count.

Ma'am you all have been lying about your body count since virgin mary. Only suckers believe your body count.

ScottdaDM · 2023-01-02T21:32:31+00:00

If she is lying about body count, it is because she has something to lie about. If even she is ashamed of it, you know it's bad.

At that point, i would just walk away. Mid conversation mid meal, whatever. I would just exit with my dignity and sanity. Not what I would be looking for. Oh well.

C834 · 2023-01-02T23:37:11+00:00

women with a sexually degenerate past are known to only care about sex and you could get in trouble with her past partners as well as her only seeing you as just another sexual partner and nothing else more meaningful.

xynthor · 2023-01-03T00:14:02+00:00

Again, they do not even realize how much easier the whole vetting process becomes with this shit

LowlyLizzieBCG · 2023-01-02T21:41:34+00:00

Lmao no you ruin everyone’s future with your entitled dirty cunt.

Extra-Strike2276 · 2023-01-02T21:28:51+00:00

It's because they are realizing that lying is the only way, since trying to convince everyone it doesn't matter isn't working. I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't have the same values as I have. That's not just body counts or whatever, it's everything. Someone that's had 50 jobs in the last few years is not someone I'd count on to do a job for me, why should a relationship be any different.

PUMA-420 · 2023-01-03T03:15:52+00:00

Their bodycount is private, but seems like their body isn't.

Masked_Rebel · 2023-01-03T02:48:03+00:00

Body count always matters. I will die on this hill.

SuperSupremeKai · 2023-01-03T04:01:07+00:00

Okay, we should also answer "How much do you make?" with the total amount of all currencies currently in circulation.

Or "How tall are you?" with "One inch."

ManzBearzPigzIzRealz · 2023-01-03T01:41:50+00:00

It’s weird to me that some people don’t think past behavior is indicative of future behavior.

denisc9918 · 2023-01-03T02:37:57+00:00

You should ask her body count.

You get to see what she looks like/body language etc when she lies.
If she almost immediately says 2, you can decide if 6ish at her age is ok or not.
If she gets upset etc then it's obvious she knows it's too high and you can decide to play only or leave.

Saelaird · 2023-01-02T22:58:49+00:00

Haha. No.

aBlackKing · 2023-01-03T01:23:59+00:00

Results tells us all we need to know about body count. Heck, there was a study that proved that higher body counts led to unhappy marriages aside from being more likely to cheat. I think it’s funny they try to gas light us out of something we know innately is wrong.

Also if she’s going to lie, what does that tell us about the future we can expect?

MustardWendigo · 2023-01-03T03:34:25+00:00

Ironically I've never asked a girl her body count. But lots of women have asked mine. And assumed lol.

If I got a "8 billion" with the obvious snarky tone I'd just leave the date immediately. That's some petty immaturity and a severe lack of big brain understanding that I'm just not interested in daddying for her.

If a girl (I use girl deliberately, cause a woman won't be like this) doesn't understand the issues inherent in dating people with huge body counts, regardless of gender... She's just not very bright when it comes to how the world and people work and I'm not saying that from an "I'm smarter than you" vibe. It's coming entirely from a "You ran on ice and expected what to happen?" vibe.

P.S. to whatever shrill, incredibly clueless feminists who will begin shrieking about how men pat each other on the back for having huge body counts? That doesn't happen. It's as likely to happen as it is for you and your girlfriends to sit around talking about your favorite probiotic yogurt and how it keeps you regularly.

Dudes who brag about it are universally seen as shitheads by everyone else except sad psychopaths.

Dudes who congratulate each other probably also live in the same adult living dorm and swap date rape tips and tricks so aren't even accepted by other men. Like pedophiles in jail. We know there's a few of them. And we know they're fucking scum. But women keep fucking and reproducing with them for some reason.

A_British_Villain · 2023-01-03T01:33:54+00:00

Girls routinely divide by three, and round down.

So 15 is 45 in reality, plus some stuff she doesn't count because she was drink or it was fun with another girl or just a hando.

ramao__ · 2023-01-03T03:29:14+00:00

Any sane man would just walk away after an answer like that. As for the insane... they better brace themselves for what life is about to throw at them.

crippledhermit · 2023-01-03T02:35:46+00:00

Coming from the gender who frequently turns up their nose at male virgins? Come on.

iostream64 · 2023-01-03T15:15:31+00:00

Didn't MRA/mgtow predict this? When the generation of women who participated in hookup culture hit "the wall" and desire commitment and won't get it because they fuck up their ability to pair bond/have STDs/kids and no one they're attracted to wants them, they'll attempt to push culture to shame men into not caring about body counts or try to redefine masculinity to not care about body counts.

Even so, this is a red flag to not even bother with / dump any woman who says this. It's an admission of guilt to either being a raging radfem or having a high body count.

Hookup culture has fucked over young men and older women.

rickmackdaddy · 2023-01-03T03:24:19+00:00

We should also disable odometers on cars.

KillaFish · 2023-01-03T06:01:06+00:00

Lol ok, thanks for the red flag. Clearly anyone who says that has too high of a body count.

Not for me. Women with high body count don’t have enough standards or self respect, lack impulse control and have emotional issues, in my experience. Usually sleeping with tons of people is their way of trying to cope with their mental problems and feel valued. Which ironically causes them more problems and leads them to sleep with guys who only want pump and dump one night stands.

RandomHumanQuesting · 2023-01-03T05:42:23+00:00

Show me the whore fax

West-Sharp · 2023-01-03T12:25:21+00:00

"...treat each other well and as equals."

Lying to someone is not treating someone as an equal, nor is it treating someone well.

Big_Chocolate_420 · 2023-01-03T08:56:57+00:00

I will always ask for the body count and her number of past relationships and why they ended.

I see how many people have sullied her temple (body) and if she sees it as one or as garbage collector
I see how much she cares for long relationships and if she is willing to work through hard times
few and long relationships say something about her family values (that's why I also ask about her parents and siblings)

...

Fearless-Ratio947 · 2023-01-03T09:49:03+00:00

If you don't have to be ashamed about it, why lie about it?

NicodemusV · 2023-01-03T10:18:15+00:00

No need to lie about your body count unless you’re ashamed of it.

maxime7567 · 2023-01-03T08:42:16+00:00

Very well. Let them. My answer is simple. Ok bye slut. I don't date lying bitches

lonewolf86254 · 2023-01-03T09:05:10+00:00

Tell a man he needs to get in shape and make some more money and generally everyone will agree. Why is this man now expected to entertain a woman who exercised poor discipline and bad judgment? Sleeping around is not a flex and if body count doesn’t matter why lie ? just look for a partner who doesn’t care about it.

Big_Chocolate_420 · 2023-01-03T09:06:37+00:00

me: 8 billion?

her: yes

me: and this is your last word to it?

her: yes

me: sry we have to end this here. you are constantly jumping from one bed to the next, also you slept with several dictators and with children. Also you must have slept with my parents. Altogether you must be a really disgusting person. Goodbye

liga__privada · 2023-01-03T14:21:14+00:00

They literally want to be able to smash at will, but expect traditional virgin Christian men. It’s comical

Former_Ocelot5593 · 2023-01-03T12:20:56+00:00

Nah. Body count is private? Just say you for the streets. If it's SO private wtf is your partnership, there shouldn't be secrets and should be trust.

letsagobaebe · 2023-01-03T01:14:36+00:00

The women in those comments say that they stop talking to a guy who asks about body counts. Seems like both sides are in agreement

I don't know why it matters in the first place though lol

PapaDragon_6 · 2023-01-03T03:03:32+00:00

men are lion we care about fertile belly , we are farmer we care about fertile land. every man should have 5 to 8 children whether with one or many female

Former_Ocelot5593 · 2023-01-03T07:28:44+00:00

The point is they shouldn't care about the answer

Brilliant_Writer_136 · 2023-01-02T23:46:03+00:00

Like my old man used to say, "It doesn't hurt if a woman knows a thing or two"

onlyidiotsgoonreddit · 2023-01-03T00:10:46+00:00

I acknowledge there are different views on this subject. I don't blame anyone who feels differently than I do about this. Standards are a personal choice for everyone. Others are entitled to their own. I think compatible morals are a standard most people want to stick to and both people will be happier if guys stick to that one. Guys in particular, should probably compromise a little more on looks, and a little less on compatible morals, if they want to be happy. But everyone chooses for themselves.

And also, in case needs to be said, people can repent and seek forgiveness, and improve themselves, after they make mistakes. It would not be accurate to say that promiscuity makes no difference. But grace can find us all.

Brilliant_Writer_136 · 2023-01-02T23:50:21+00:00

In a relationship (Where both are responsible for their own finances), Body count hardly matters. So what if she cheats, you can always keep moving forward. A woman cheating on you doesn't really harm you unless you guys have a kid or are married or you are financially responsible for her.

In these circumstances, values and compatibility matters way more than "Past"

Alixnnnn · 2023-01-03T15:44:21+00:00

I'm just asking this as a genuine question, do body counts still matter as a man? Because I'm trying to figure out if you guys see this as a moral thing or just something to hate women for?

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-01-02T23:06:14+00:00

I mean, unless there's something going on medically, does it really matter? Things happen in life to some people, and I'll agree, i don't personally like the "hoe phase" stuff, but at the end of the day, it doesn't change the person in front of you.

solar-garlic1776 · 2023-01-03T19:57:24+00:00

It's been said before, but, body count only matters if a guy takes you seriously. Meaning he can see you as a potential long term or wife. The only exception to this are the betas.

So when you lie, and we know you are always lying, you won't be taken seriously and moved to fwb category.

Ladies keep lying and remain single

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