I noticed women only talk when they have something of substance to say or they're passionate about. Then they stop and walk away. When they have nothing else to say, they stop. A good example is the lady at my brothers bus stop. Before covid I used to see her everyday. She'll start up a little chit chat, and then when she had nothing else to say she'd just stare at the cars waiting for the bus lol. Meanwhile when her husband came instead of her he would talk NON STOP until the bus cameeee. I so badly wanted to tell him to stfu. I came there to get my little brother, not hear his life story that I never asked for.

For some reason most guys I know monologue really bad it's very annoying. Old dudes are notorious for this one, they always hit you with the "back in my day" monologue. Guys always feel the need to explain shit to you, even if you already understand the topic at hand. I'll be watch a movie and say my brother or dad takes it upon themselves to start explaining what's on screen. Like bro, I'm watching it 💀.

Or when you explain something to them and then they turn around and tell it back to you as if they're teaching you 🤦🏾‍♀️. My dad used to do this a lot. Actually pretty recently I was teaching him about medicinal herbs. Later one when I had an issue he started telling me about herbs I told him about first as if I didn't know about it .

They say women are emotional and need to talk everything out but guys do too. I see how men emotionally unload on my mom all. the. time. My oldest brother does this the most and is hands down the most needy out of all my siblings despite being the oldest, my dad always calls my mom when he needs to vent or he calls me, and even the guys my mom have dated would emotionally unload on her.

I just hate how every bad trait guys have get projected on to women. Guys talk so much sometimes I just think to myself "can he just buy himself journal to write all his feelings in and leave me alone?". Which this is what causes me to get accused being stuck up. I don't fit the stereotype of the talkative woman so I get accused of having an attitude when really I'm just in my head all day