to all the men spending Christmas solo this year speak up! and merry Christmas 🎄⛄🎁 to you all

notsureoftheanswer · 2022-12-25T21:42:51+00:00

Merry Christmas.

To be honest, I would rather be alone than forced to go to the in-laws and spend all day around people that didn't like me. 💯

1Cobbler · 2022-12-25T23:11:08+00:00

I've found playing videogames with the bros online is WAY better than pretending to like the mother-in-law.

GloomyPomegranate818 · 2022-12-25T20:51:06+00:00

Not doing well, but hanging in there.

jasoncb123 · 2022-12-25T22:05:50+00:00

Just treating it like any other day. I had my kids yesterday. Slept In today today with the dog. Watching football

david10277 · 2022-12-26T00:12:31+00:00

Peace and freedom are better than conflict and toxicity.

Loneliness is not the same as being alone. Your kids, family ,friends still love you..reach out to them, keep good postive company

As for her fuck that lying, selfish parasite with a vagina You will be better without her in the end .

FreeMic408 · 2022-12-26T00:10:34+00:00

My stbx shit talked all of the gifts me and my family got my daughter we started playing the new Pokémon and then she yells saying my daughter needs to read books and practice the piano so we stopped playing i turned on Mathilda the movie being released today and my daughter waiting for it. Then talked shit about the movie we were about halfway in then demands my daughter turn it off and that they need to go to church and here I am alone on Christmas Day it sucks and hurts I miss my daughter and wanted her to have a fun day. To all the struggling dads I feel your pain. My stbx hates to see me and my daughter have a good relationship so every time she’s pissed at me shell take my daughter away for days sometimes weeks. 😢 and my daughter gets threatened with being in trouble during that period if she acknowledges me in the house until her mom gives the ok. I’m miserable I love my little girl so much she gets yelled at for all the things I get her or science crafts we make or projects and her mom tells her there trash. FUCK 🥹

Small_Quarter_3673 · 2022-12-25T23:02:51+00:00

Just another day fellas

rhett342 · 2022-12-26T01:04:03+00:00

I miss my stbx and younger son so much it hurts. I hate this more than most days that I hate.

flowingwisdom13 · 2022-12-25T22:50:53+00:00

Merry Christmas mate!

Mooseknuckled · 2022-12-25T23:29:30+00:00

Merry Christmas 🎄 spent yesterday with my daughter and went fishing today! Sucks to be alone but we will survive!

FunkyTownMascot · 2022-12-26T00:06:08+00:00

I've had multiple texts and phone calls today. But, no leech in my bed.

joemoorcarz · 2022-12-25T20:14:27+00:00

Thank you and merty Christmas to you too.

SinoKast · 2022-12-25T20:47:44+00:00

Thanks! You as well.

Bulldawg45_USMC8541 · 2022-12-25T22:02:33+00:00

Merry Christmas to you too. I got in a fight and was called and accused of multiple and damming things for having my daughter FaceTime with my girlfriend after they opened her gifts as a first meeting to say thank you and to meet her for the first time. Was then kicked out. Horrible end to the morning. Her new boyfriend was there too. And last night for my annual reading of The Night Before Christmas.

Thankfully 😅 I have an amazing woman to visit later and enjoy the New Mexico Posole I made with pinto beans and rice.

za_eagle · 2022-12-26T07:18:43+00:00

I spend the day alone, not lonely.

Its summer here where I live, so it was a scorcher (34 Celsius) of a day. Spend the day swimming, listening to music, having a couple of cocktails, wine and shooters. Spoke to the kids a bunch of times during the day.

They're with her, her new FWB and her family. I was invited, but decided to not put myself in a situation where I will have no peace and my day will be spoiled by her or her family. Kids miss me a lot, but I have them from today to mid Jan.

Today we will have our own Christmas celebrations, their gifts are under the tree, steaks and ribs are on the menu today.

Stay strong gents, you will get through this. Reach out if you need a chat.

AudreyTooTwo · 2022-12-26T14:04:06+00:00

Booze and hookers, like every Christmas.

net___runner · 2022-12-25T21:19:28+00:00

Merty Christmas!

Ever-learning271 · 2022-12-26T03:11:08+00:00

Merry Christmas fellow survivors of a crushed heart…we will prevail! Life continues and happiness, joy & an abundance of health and new trim will be ours👍 My first Christmas ever without my (12 yr old) son but I did spend Christmas Eve with him…hanging in there solo as I hope you all are…..it’s not easy, I know, but we have to be strong for our kids… If you don’t have children, do your best to focus on you and your health…Self-care is a must! A new year is coming, our lives aren’t recognizable but we WILL find who we want to become and focus on that…we are warriors! Survivors! No retreat, no surrender! Good Luck into the new and happy healing ❤️‍🩹

Theedon · 2022-12-26T05:20:49+00:00

3 football games and 2 naps. It's almost over.

avacadoclits · 2022-12-26T09:33:57+00:00

Worked out, went shooting, and then went to work.

MarsupialFit4385 · 2022-12-26T13:44:14+00:00

Have a girlfriend now, but between divorce last year and empty nest syndrome, I have some rough moments.

truth1984 · 2022-12-26T19:20:46+00:00

being alone on Christmas is way better than dealing with an unloving wife and in laws.

Title	to all the men spending Christmas solo this year speak up! and merry Christmas 🎄⛄🎁 to you all
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Upvotes	54
Comments	38
Date	December 25, 2022 6:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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