My partner and I have been together for 8 years, married two. I just found out last week that she has been in a separate serious relationship with someone else.

I came across hundreds of pictures they have taken over the years. Some on international trips that I unknowingly financed.

I was deeply hurt because from the photos it appeared that they were happier together.

For the last three years her camera roll has more photos of him than me. For 1 photo of me there is probably 9 of his including sex tapes.

I am devastated as I did everything I could for her. I planned my life around her. Now two weeks after I found out we just submitted paper work for dissolution of marriage.

I am in so much pain as I love and still love this person. I know there is no pathway forward for us. She didn’t even care to show me that the side relationship was a mistake.

It was so clear that I was the inconvenience. I feel like my world has ended and I can’t stop crying. Everyone in my life thought we had a perfect relationship.

I cannot see a path forward for myself. My confidence level is crushed and I cannot stop from replaying all the hundreds of lies I was told during marriage.

I am so sad.