Who's getting more success and who you'd prefer:

Eastern-Will77 · 2023-07-04T13:56:42+00:00

The PC answers will obviously be A. Reality shows us that most would prefer B though. Take dating apps for example, an ugly guy who has everything perfect won't get any matches no matter what. A good looking guy will still get matches even if they look like a bum somewhat. People are just ashamed to admit this in here.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-04T10:58:06+00:00

Genetically gifted every time. Genetically gifted + messy = attainable hot.

Windmill_flowers · 2023-07-04T18:23:39+00:00

B. I think lots of guys have this fantasy of finding this diamond in the rough living in the middle of nowhere who hasn't been exposed to social media and doesn't know how attractive she is.

https://images.app.goo.gl/d6jFfhDbKyVXEaSr5

BioNipple · 2023-07-04T23:25:54+00:00

I don't discriminate genetically but is she's just fat for no reason then b

AlastorSitri · 2023-07-05T17:29:48+00:00

My favorite relationship was with a mid girl with the personality and fashion sense of an opossum. Plus fat men/women can pass as attractive if they lose weight, hot men/women do not remain attractive if they get fat.

If I had to choose between the 2 options, probably A

stats135 · 2023-07-04T16:21:20+00:00

B.

As a man, I don't even see anything listed as negative. "Sloppy clothes" is just a different fashion. "Slim and not muscular" is the ideal body I want from a woman. A genetically gifted woman SHOULD let her natural beauty shine without bothering with presentation.

It all sounds too vague so I'll just paint a real life scenario. Ever wake up next to an attractive woman? She's in her worn out but easy to sleep in comfy clothes. She still has her bedhead. She's still drowsy and shuffling around for coffee. That's the woman I want to drag back into bed, my bed specifically. Now eventually she's gets ready, and does her makeup and nails. She looks great to show off, to take out and show OTHER people, but I get no benefit.

ratboi34 · 2023-07-04T10:37:37+00:00

I would prefer the naturally attractive woman. The other one might actually pull more guys tho, since her presentation might indicate being dtf and make it seem like she is actively advertising herself.

DoinIt989 · 2023-07-04T14:44:48+00:00

B. They can only go up

That__EST · 2023-07-04T12:27:10+00:00

B A everytime. I am attracted to people who put effort into themselves.

I remember awhile back reading something about how some normie met Oprah and how Oprah was so "down to earth" because she allegedly met with them without being fixed up and without make up. And I thought to myself that for me, being fixed up and wearing make up has more to do with respecting other people and wanting to be presentable for them than for me. To me that little anecdote comes across more as "lol I'm Oprah, IDGAF what you think about me so you'll get whatever scraps I give you."

A "genetically attractive" person who puts no effort into their looks just comes across like an entitled jerk to me.

Wattehfok · 2023-07-04T12:02:29+00:00

A. Every time.

Have you seen what chicks can do with makeup? Plenty of horse-faced women getting absolutely fawned over out there.

Ditto chubby-faced, weak chinned dudes on Anavar who know how to dress well and get their hair right.

But the naturally pretty/handsome person wearing sweats and not giving a fuck about their diet? Nah.

Vronicasawyerredsded · 2023-07-04T13:32:48+00:00

Probably, A.

Some of the most successful people I’ve known are often super generic and average BUT 1. Show up on time, most often early 2. Look professional and clean 3. Ready to work when they do 4. Willing to take a risky 5. Willing to do the work or invest the time nobody else wants to do 6. Are patient and good with how they save, spend, and invest with their money.

So, knowing that, I suspect persons A. option are likely similar and have similar values.

Persons B., those that just win the birth/life/circumstance lottery and have whatever they have just because they are born, complain and think shit is unfair when they have to break a sweat and actually DO something to actively participate in life/relationships/work. They either end up treading water their whole lives, or sink, OR learn to eventually be an A. because age and life is cruel and no one leaves this mortal realm unscathed and untested.

WingclippedBirdman · 2023-07-04T13:42:41+00:00

B as soon as he/she starts to shower and brush hair.

Secure1Ad1991 · 2023-07-04T14:22:05+00:00

Genetically gifted (good face) + messy face is very hot for most women. Instant panty wetter.

RRBeachFG2 · 2023-07-04T14:24:31+00:00

The ugly/mid girl cant compete if they have the same personality, her life will be one of pump and dumps and cats.

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Tricky_Relief_7152 · 2023-07-04T11:17:04+00:00

I prefer the one that gives a shit, because that indicates self respect.

Lenovo_Driver · 2023-07-04T11:24:00+00:00

Couple things..

It really doesn’t matter if you go to the gym but have a mid body so that shouldn’t be counted as a plus for A.

You also didn’t mentioned the smell of either. B would be the winner but if you were to reveal something like showers 2/3 times a week then it becomes a whole other convo

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-07-04T12:48:39+00:00

I will go for A, because fuck genetics.

2023-07-04T13:10:48+00:00

This is a terrible question there’s way too much variation left up to imagination. Like how sloppy we talking? How mid? If the gifted person dresses like a hobo obviously it’s not gonna work

KayRay1994 · 2023-07-04T13:48:01+00:00

A - they look like they can take care of themselves and that they have their shit together… B straight up sounds like a generically gifted bum

Murphysmongoose · 2023-07-04T15:15:44+00:00

Depends on the attitude of the women, which is more successful... But most men like the, "girl next door/comfy girl" look. So she has a default advantage.

If chick A has really good girl game, is assertive, and friendly forward with dudes, she can punch up pretty well. She should take her shot.

toasterchild · 2023-07-04T15:43:10+00:00

It totally depends on what sort of circles they run in or aspire to. If they primarily hang out with superficial people then A will be the winner. If they tend to like more laid back sorts they will do way better with B.

EladioV · 2023-07-04T18:14:33+00:00

Both are equally confident, outgoing, have same personalities

We (men) don't care about how confident or outgoing women are...

So this scenario is wrong from the beginning.

NAGASHWASWEAK · 2023-07-04T20:50:51+00:00

B. a scrawny chad with unkempt hair and sloppy clothes will have more succes than a ugly short man every single time of the day. no matter how many people will try to gaslight on this sub, looks are the most important thing when it comes to success in dating

harmonica2 · 2023-07-05T14:08:14+00:00

Title	Who's getting more success and who you'd prefer:
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Date	July 4, 2023 10:25 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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