Why RP men say that teen love is important, but at the same time, only want virgins?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-05T23:36:16+00:00

I think the emphasis on teen love is mostly from the blackpill. I rarely hear it from redpillers. It's for involuntary celibates with FOMO.

Essentially though, men are supposed to fuck a ton of women from an early age apparently. They aren't held to the same standards as women are, so they are hoping to pick up a virgin girl later in life, say when they are 24 and she is 18 or something like that. (Later in life compared to high school). But really most promiscuous men aren't really that obsessed with virgins at least that I know of. Most guys who want virgins are virgins themselves. A guy who seeks out a virgin while being promiscuous is an outlier.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-07-06T05:05:31+00:00

You can have teen live without sex. I had that but it ended up being absolutely terrible and ruined my self esteem for decades.

So I’d advise against it.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-07-05T23:53:54+00:00

That's not a red pill talking point, that's straight black pill. Black pillers want to relive their teen years and lack of experience by marrying virgins. The red pill states that marriage is a bad idea in general and that promiscuous women are the worst candidates for marriage.

Proudvow · 2023-07-06T02:27:54+00:00

If you're dating as a teen that's when you're the most likely to run into a virgin. Then you can potentially just marry them, avoiding any future promiscuity.

Anyway the teen/young adult love hype is largely because it's the only period in life where you're not expected to have a job, and thus it's the only time you get the validation of being desired without money being any type of factor.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-06T00:07:22+00:00

Teen dating is new and exciting and it’s good practice for your future adult relationships, but mostly it just distracts you from school and having a social life, makes you the target of unwanted gossip and speculation, and usually ends upon high school graduation, if it makes it that far.

himbobaggins69 · 2023-07-05T23:48:31+00:00

Everyone I know who had teen relationship (under 18) was messed up badly by it

MyLastBestChance · 2023-07-05T23:39:53+00:00

Teen love doesn’t have to include sex and often doesn’t 🤷‍♀️.

I think these guys fail to understand that teen love is completely different than an actual adult relationship. It has teen drama sure, and can be artificially intense but it’s really not relevant to the skills one needs to navigate anything related to adult dating and relationships.

TelevisionGloomy5458 · 2023-07-06T00:10:39+00:00

I think people should wait. You can’t regret the sex you don’t have

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-07-06T00:28:15+00:00

Because is essential in the formation of your mental health as I imagine that having society throw it in your face something you don't have and will never experience to be unpleasant.

Also being the first experience of a women make sure you're remembered no matter what on top of statically increase your chances of a stable marriage and relationship.

"IMO, you can't have "teen love" without creating women with future baggage. What is the right thing to believe on?" How you can't LMAO, 1 relationship don't create baggage.

WingclippedBirdman · 2023-07-06T07:31:36+00:00

Its more of a blackpill thing because they think not having a gf as a teen is a major reason for their lack of success today. They dont get that teen love is really just infatuation backed up by sex (if you get that far) and hormones. Its a normal part of growing up but its really not that significant. The "relationship" i had when i was 15 is a joke compared to the relationship I had at 20.

Teen love is fine but sex should be off the table for them. Go on dates, make out a bit, but leave it at that and save the real thing for a real relationship.

turbokek13 · 2023-07-06T07:14:11+00:00

I have idea that most of RP is based on regrets about that one girl from school that guy didn't dare to ask out. With a lot of "school romance" media on top.

Safinated · 2023-07-06T01:18:52+00:00

It’s important for them. Who cares about other people ? Red pill only cares about red pillers

flakybottom · 2023-07-06T05:06:26+00:00

The baggage comes from having a high n-count, not just from losing your virginity early. As long as you don't have a full blown hoe phase its fine.

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Date	July 5, 2023 11:25 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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